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Keep our HAYA level high

HOW

The Prophet (pbuh) said: “Haya and Imaan are two companions that go together. If one of them is lifted, the other is also lifted” (Haakim)

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Haya

Eemaan

Haya & Eeman are Directly Proportional

To increase our Eeman

We MUST hang on tight to the “Rope of Allah”

Haya with

ALLAH

The Prophet (PBUH) said

Do Haya with Allah, like it is His right. Protect your thoughts and protect your stomachs (do not have haram) and remember what will happen after you die. Whoever does all this, has fulfilled Allah’s right of Haya.(Tirmidhi)

We should feel ashamed to have Allah see us doing - or hear us saying - something that displeases Him

especially when we are alone

See no evilHear no evil Speak no evil

… surely Allah is Ever an All-Watcher over you.(Surah An-Nisa, Ayat 1)

Can we keep Allah Out?

Allah

It is all “Allah’s Land”

Western University, Canada

Allah jokes areNOT FUNNY

Haya with Allah Following His commandments

Taking His commandments seriously

Not making jokes about: Allah His Prophets His commandments

HAYA with Parents

And your Rabb has decreed that you worship none but Him. And that you be dutiful to your parents. If one of them or both of them attain old age in your life, say not to them “ Uff ” nor shout at them but address them in terms of honour.(Surah Bani Israel 17: Verse 23)

Bart Cannot be our role model in how to

behave with our parents

Learn From…

• The Prophet (PBUH)

• Our Elders

Haya with parentsSimilar to Haya with Allah

• Do not talk back to them • Do not crib about them to your friends• Listen to them • Do not be disrespectful in any way• Do not be smarty pants with them• Do not be dishonest with them

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HAYA with Teachers

Haya with Teachers• Obey them• Respect them

No chewing gum in classNo keeping feet up on the desk

• Not call them by rude nicknames

• Not talk behind their backs

• No cheating• No texting in class

If Eemaan is distorted, HAYA is also distorted

Like a distorted image if the mirror is

CRaZY

Distorted HayaUsing excuse of “Haya” for NOT

fulfilling Allah’s commandments seeking knowledge asking for help doing a good deed stopping wrong doing

Shy to Pray – Prayer Shy!

• Can’t Pray in school/college

• At a friend’s house

• At a party

• On vacation

McGill University, Canada

Hijab Shy• Can’t wear a scarf

• Cannot be seen in an abaya/coat

Shy of seeking knowledge

You see, but you do not observe.

Physical CleanlinessPhysical Cleanliness

Personal HygienePersonal Hygiene

Conditions making Conditions making Ghusl Ghusl compulsorycompulsory

Conditions that Conditions that nullify ablutionnullify ablution (wudhu)(wudhu)

Shy of asking for help

Two م’ s can never learn: مستحیون (those who are shy) & رونّب (those who are proud) متک

Good deed Shy

Shy of stopping from wrong