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    RelationalSources

    andPillars

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    The Three

    Relational Sources Marriage

    Judaism

    Re-evaluation Co-counseling

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    Four Relational Pillars: The Philosophy of Martin Buber

    Imago Relationship Theory and

    Therapy Appreciative Inquiry

    Relational Neurobiology

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    My Relational

    Sources

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    The Seasons of a

    Marriage

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    A Spring Season Couple

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    An Autumn Season Couple

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    The Principles of

    Judaism

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    MIKDASH MEAT :A Family is a

    small sanctuary

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    KEDUSHAT HAMAKOM :

    The Sanctification of Space

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    KEDUSHAT HAZMAN :

    The Sanctification of Time

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    Re-evaluationCo-Counseling

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    The distinctionbetween the

    Essence of theperson

    and the Survival

    Pattern

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    MyRelational Pillars

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    The Philosophy of

    Martin Buber

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    Our relationships live in the

    space-in-between which is sacred.The meaning is to be found neither

    in one of the two partners,

    nor in both together

    but only in the between

    which they live together.

    Martin Buber

    The Knowledge of Man

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    Through the Thou

    a person becomes I

    Martin Buber

    I and Thou

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    When I meet Thou

    we are in eternal time

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    Imago RelationshipTheory and Therapy

    with a User-friendly toolkit ofDialogical Processes

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    We unconsciously find the mostincompatible person,

    who is most capable of giving us

    the worst relational nightmare

    and yet at the same time

    we hire that person because they can

    become our best ally for healing and growth.

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    You love her so much that your medial

    insula could just burst.

    Whenever you catch a glimpse of her

    you get that swelling sensation inyour anterior cingulate.

    Even seeing her photo gives you a

    twinge in the old basal ganglia.

    The Biology of Romantic Love

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    Appreciative Inquiry

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    An Organizational Development Method

    which bases itself on the utilization of theappreciative eye.

    It focuses on what is abundant, inspiring,

    life-giving and life-affirming,rather than on the problematic and the

    deficit.

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    The distinction betweenthe Language of Deficit

    and

    the Language of Abundance.

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    The real voyage of

    discovery consists not in

    seeking new landscapes,

    but in having new eyesMarcel Proust

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    Relational Neurobiology

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    We are the sculptors of each

    others relational brain.

    In connection,

    we co-create new neural

    pathways for the integration of

    the whole brain

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    Our Brain is Wired for

    Limbic Relationality

    Limbic Resonance

    Limbic Regulation

    Limbic Revision

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    Mirror neurons are part of ourneural network:

    They create a brain-to-brain

    bridge that melds our moodsand emotions, and wire us for

    compassion & empathy.

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    The Low Road

    Quick and Dirty

    The High Road

    Slow and Beautiful

    Frontal

    LobesFrontal

    Lobes

    Old

    Brain

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    Relational Intelligence

    and

    Relational Maturity