Healing Beyond Borders Annual Conference October 7, 2016

Colorado Springs, CO

! 1. Organization = people who come together for a mutually agreed upon goal.

! 2. Community = people who come together for the purpose of relationship with a common intention.

! 3. Communitas = sacred community. People interacting through Core Star connection.

! Healing – bringing into harmony and balance.

! Healing Community – a group with the common intention of facilitating harmony, balance, wholeness and the highest good for all members.

! Seeing the divine essence in each other and practicing unconditional love and cooperation.

! Living from the space of the heart center, using unconditional love, compassion, harmony and healing presence.

! Seeing connection and oneness rather than separation.

! Ego specialized in divisiveness, separation. ! Ego agendas are based on fear. ! Ego needs to be better than others. ! Ego intensifies friction and disharmony. ! Ego thrives on woundedness and grievances

- the “Blame Game” destroys community.

! Passive-aggressive assassination ! An act of cowardice – a “back-biter” ! A person not empowered in their truth ! Gossip is the principle way that

organizations are fragmented! ! We can avoid entering into the triangle of

this assassination.

! Do not participate! ! Avoid an unholy alliance of support! ! When hearing complaints about another,

encourage empowering that person to talk to the other for a healing solution.

! We can break the spell of this downward spiral in an organization with the intention of seeing things differently.

! We see our reality through the individual lens of our personal beliefs and experiences.

! Perceptions of the same story can be different depending on our individual filters.

! Whatever we believe about ourselves determines our experience of truth.

! As long as our beliefs don’t change, we play the same game over and over again in different scenarios.

! Fear is a more comfortable worldview as the majority of people carry fear.

! Fear is only a choice – ACIM ! Love is always present and waiting as we

play the game. ! Choosing love will begin to erase fear.

! Comes from a grief that refuses to be transformed.

! Persons who are addicted to their complaints – High Conflict Personalities.

! People who refuse to forgive. ! If we hold on to a grievance it will back up

and poison that person or organization.

! Einstein: “No problem is ever solved at the level that it was created.”

! Forgiveness never happens at the same level of consciousness in which the wound was created.

! “We need to outgrow ourselves to move to a higher level of consciousness to forgive.”

Evan Hodkins

! Darkness cannot dispel darkness – only Light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate, only love can do that. Martin Luther King

! “Nothing ever goes away until it has taught us what we need to know.” Pema chodron

! Accepting the gift within the wound. ! “The wound is the place the Light comes

in.” Rumi ! Becoming empowered by rising above the

consciousness of the woundedness and speaking the truth.

! I must outgrow my wound/grievance in order to forgive – let go of the past!

! Conflict in community is an opportunity for growth – a call to see things differently.

! Holding Grievances drains our energy to the past.

! We need all of our energy circuits in the present to heal any major illness. Forgiveness is the most powerful thing we can do for our healing process.

Carolyn Myss

! Forgiveness begins when the desire to be happy is greater than the need to be right.

! When we enter into a healing relationship we let go of judgments and expectations and go to the heart space of unconditional love.

! “When we change the way we look at things, the things we look at change.” Wayne Dyer

!  Letting go of our “story” then takes us to a

new level of seeing things. We outgrow our story, our grievance, and can open to healing and reconnection.

! If we don’t do this we become bitter or stuck with our pain. If we do, we grow in wisdom.

! Each time we forgive, it dilates our hearts so that they progressively get more expanded.

! We finally come to embody the Spirit of Forgiveness and live it daily.

! We then are constantly outgrowing ourselves as we use forgiveness as a spiritual practice.

! Our authenticity is a radiance that influences others around us.

! Beginning to awaken heart energy ! Learning to access the heart to expand our

perceptions and guidance ! Practicing the shift from head to heart to

restore energy balance ! Living and healing from the heart space –

spiritual empowerment.

! Awareness of the ego’s desire to use criticism to create separation.

! There are more ways to speak lovingly than to judge.

! Judgment energetically creates separation. Unsolicited advise is received as judgment.

! Make the radical shift back to the heart!

! When we connect to our heart intelligence we connect to a higher source of wisdom and knowing – our Higher Self.

! Allows us to perceive differently – seeing with Sacred Eyes.

! Gives us access to expanded creative intelligence.

! Facilitates our evolution of consciousness. ! Is activated by conscious intention and daily

heart centering.

! Instead of reacting to problems, we can respond with conscious choice.

! We are more resilient with life changes, dancing with the flow.

! We are aware of more possibilities from an expanded perception.

! We live more in the present - life feels less stressful.

! Shift to the heat and breathe into it.

! Activate feelings of love and appreciation.

! Radiate these feelings to self and others.

! Listen to each other with compassion. ! Let go of past judgments. ! Ask why with heartfulness. ! Speak with kindness and love. ! Take things less seriously! Humor helps!

! In order for the body to heal, it has to reorganize itself at a higher level.

! Healing Touch helps reorganize in attunement with a higher vibration.

! Healing of organizations is like healing the body – reorganizing at a higher level of functioning.

! Crisis within an organization is an evolutionary driver.

! Crisis = Danger + Opportunity ! Crisis is a wake-up call to go to a new level

of problem solving. ! Crisis is the “dark angel” of evolution.

! Organizations are always trying to rebirth themselves to stay relevant.

! Every person in organizations needs to be willing to outgrow themselves.

! We can be mid-wives to assist rebirthing! ! Communication needs to include

communion along with sharing views.

! Through shared suffering, community is alchemized to communitas.

! We become united in compassion. ! Spirit becomes the healer. ! The Circle of Radiance allows for the

deep heart of true fellowship. ! The language of the heart creates joy.

! Our intentions can create transformations! ! Healing Touch is the response of love,

teaching ourselves and others to live from the heart and claiming the power of love.

! Remembering the intention for the highest good – even those we disagree with.

! Walk your talk as a healer – live from the heart.