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How to Keep Breathing During an IEP Meeting
Pennsylvania’s Education for All Coalition
Breathing1. to take air, oxygen, etc., into the lungs
and expel it; inhale and exhale 2. to control the outgoing breath in
producing voice and speech sounds3. to pause, as for breath; take rest 4. to move gently or blow lightly, as air 5. to be exposed to air after being
uncorked, in order to develop flavor and bouquet
breathing. (n.d.). Dictionary.com Unabridged (v 1.1). Retrieved April 07, 2008, from
Dictionary.com website: http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/breathing
Four Key Challenges
Goals
Budgeting Time
Managing Conflict
Promoting Mutual Respect/ Creating Safe Space
Adapted from Martin (2005) A Guide to Collaboration for IEP Teams
“We couldn’t agree on anything.”
“There’s never enough time.”
“I feel so uncomfortable at these
meetings.”
“I’m not sure where we are going with the
IEP.”
“It lasted 2 hours and we didn’t even decide on
anything!”
“No one was saying what needed to be said.”
Some Team ConflictSome Team Conflict is to be is to be
Expected…Expected…
*Alternatives are not considered carefully.
*Minority opinions are silenced.
*Disagreements among members or controversy is suppressed.
• Disagreement about child needs, goals and problem identification
• Coordination problems
• Implementation and evaluation problems
• Communication problems
• Lack of familiarity and trust
• Lack of knowledge/skills in problem solving and collaborative team processes
• We stop inhaling and exhaling
Well managed team conflict can... *Stimulate team interest. *Allow for new ideas. *Lead to creative problem solving. *Improve decision making. *Build stronger team bonds. *Create ownership and commitment for decisions.
Safeguarding the Collaborative Process: What YOU Can Do
Tip #1: Promote a Shared Vision
Positive Student ProfilePositive Student Profile
•Asking is Affirming
• Move from My to Ours
Safeguarding the Collaborative Process: What YOU Can Do
Tip #2: Understand the Other
•Listen Actively
•Ask Effective Questions
WHAT WE OFTEN DO with KIDSWHAT WE OFTEN DO with KIDSWHAT WE SOMETIMES DO WHAT WE SOMETIMES DO
with ADULTSwith ADULTS
Wait until we have their attention Ask when we’re ready
Ask open-ended questions Ask close ended questions
Ask questions with the intent of gaining new information
Ask questions to be polite
Find several ways to ask the same question
Use limited variations of questioning
Welcome most of their questionsMake more statements than ask questions
Ask a lot of questionsBecome defensive in response to some of their questions
Ask varying levels of questionsAsk questions mostly at the knowledge level
Join them in asking questions Ask questions at them
Ask questions that prompt reflective thinking
Ask questions that require little reflection
(Lee, 1999, p. 47)
Safeguarding the Collaborative Process: What YOU Can Do
Tip #3: Communicate to Support Feelings
• Well-Meant to Well-Said
• Use Non-Judgmental Language
10 Tips for DrawingOut the Best in People
1. Ask others for ideas and opinions2. Listen well enough to ask related questions
about the topic3. Request their help when brainstorming about
a current issue4. Encourage others to expand or elaborate on
topics they initiate5. Check in to see that you are understanding
where they are “coming from”6. Share common interests7. When you have questions or need to discuss
an issue, ask when is the best time to meet.8. Compliment others in authentic and specific
ways.9. Observe what times of day are best for
individual interactions10.TELL US ONE MORE! (Petryal Publications, 1999)
10 Tips for Using Non-Judgmental
Language1. Avoid using words like always and never.2. Use “yes and” rather than “yes but.”3. Ask people to tell you more – elaborate.4. Put as much energy into listening as you do
speaking.5. Expect and welcome different points of
view.6. Ask “how” and not “why.”7. Give the ideas some “think time.”8. Explain differences rather than compare.9. Recognize your own “need to be right.”10.Remember “right” is relative .
(Petryal Publications, 1999)
Safeguarding the Collaborative Process: What YOU Can Do
Tip #4: Be Assertive not Aggressive
• Know how to say “No”
1.Provide an explanation
2.Offer an alternative
3.Show support for the other
person’s position
4. Invite the other person’s
response
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• Use an “I” message instead of a “you” message.
• State behavior objectively.
• Name your own feelings and acknowledge those of others.
• Say what you want to happen.
• Use assertive body language.(Kampwirth, 1999, p. 92-93)
Which aspects of the student’s education was the service supposed to effect?
• Access to, and participation in school?• Access to extra-curricular activities?• Access to the general education curriculum?• Progress toward IEP goals or objectives?• Progress toward general education learning
outcomes?• Provision of general supports or
accommodations?• Enhancement of valued life outcomes?
Safeguarding the Collaborative Process: What YOU Can Do
Tip #5: Manage Conflict
•Promote processes to resolve
disagreements
•Creative Problem Solving
•Make agreements
•Understand WHY to get to HOW
Solution CircleSolution Circle