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Issue 24complimentary

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Coming togetherThe Rio Grande Cancer Foundation unites with community

collaborators to provide help to cancer patients and organizations

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Those submitting manuscripts, photographs, artwork, or other materials to In the Know for consideration should not send originals unless specifically requested to do so by In the Know in writing. Unsolicited manuscripts,photographs, and other submitted materials must be accompanied by a self-addressed overnight delivery return envelope, postage pre-paid. However, In the Know is not responsible for unsolicited submissions.©2012 Rio Grande Cancer Foundation. All rights reserved. No part of any article or photograph contained in this magazine may be reproduced in any way without the written consent of In the Know.In the Know assumes no responsibility whatsoever for errors, including without limitation, typographical errors or omissions in In the Know. Editorial or advertising content in In the Know does not necessarily reflect theopinions of the publishers. In the Know assumes no responsibility for the products or services advertised in this magazine. Publisher reserves the right to edit any material or refuse any advertising submitted.

inthis issue:Sometimes when I have

occasion to address a group,especially one of youngpeople, I will ask them if theyconsider themselves to be‘philanthropists’. Most of thetime my query is met withconfused silence, the audienceconsidering themselves wayout of league with Bill andMelinda Gates.

More often than not, the audience is pleased tolearn that their contribution of $15 to participate in awalk or bowl-a-thon, or their purchase of Girl Scoutcookies, or the weekly tithe to their church collectionbasket allots them the prestigious title of‘philanthropist’.

Philanthropy has strong roots in America. Thehardships of early settlers to North American, wheregovernment was weak and distant forced people tojoin together to govern themselves, to help each otherand to undertake community activities, such asbuilding schools and churches and fighting fires. Outof these experiences grew a tradition of citizeninitiatives and individual efforts to promote the publicwelfare. Religious leaders encouraged their membersto give to the poor and to the charitable works of theirchurches. Giving to needy people in theircommunities, to the poor in other lands, to the victimsof natural disasters and to their churches was astrongly felt obligation for many people.

This 24th issue of In the Know: Understanding the

Cancer Experience is dedicated to those people andorganizations whose efforts on the behalf of reducingthe burden of cancer in our community have beendirected through the Rio Grande Cancer Foundation.Through the creative fundraising efforts andcollaborations of our partners, we are able to provideservices and resources to hundreds of our fellowneighbors.

Often, there is a sense of uselessness whensomeone in our circle has a cancer diagnosis. We feelat a loss for offering anything other thanencouragement or prayers (which are incrediblyvaluable), and uncertain about how to be of help. Inaddition to sharing with you some of the imaginativestories about our fundraising partners, we haveincluded a tutorial on how to host your own cancerfundraiser.

Hope comes in unexpected ways and places. Weare very grateful for all the friends, our board ofdirectors and supporters who have helped us in 2012.Through their efforts, the Rio Grande CancerFoundation will provide in excess of $665,000 ingrants, services and programs here locally in El Pasothis year. We are proud to be the community’sresource for knowledge about living with and thrivingbeyond a cancer diagnosis and we are honored tohave so many strong relationships which help makethat possible. Thank you!

Sincerely,Patty Tiscareño

D E P A R T M E N T S

F E A T U R E S

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No man is an island and noorganization operates in a vacuum.Here we celebrate the terrificcontributions our collaborators havemade in helping enrich the lives ofpeople with cancer.

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Community organizations andconcerned individuals have createdsome amazing events, celebrationsand musical performances to helpraise funds and spirits. Here we givethem a standing ovation!

Collaboration It takes a village

12Start planning your year by resolvingto attend or help one of the manycancer benefit events in our city.

Save the dates!

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BOARD OF DIRECTORSGordon L. Black, M.D.,

Honorary

Michele Aboud

Robert Ash

Patricia Carter, RN

Ted Edmunds

Sam Faraone

Jeanne Foskett

Monica Gomez

Dan Olivas

Irene Pistella

Shelly Ruddock

Ruben Schaeffer

Ken Slavin

Polly Vaughn

Patti Wetzel, M.D.

Steve Yellen

EXECUTIVE DIRECTORPatricia Tiscareño

PROGRAM OFFICERJutta Ramirez

DIRECTOR OF MARKETINGAND COMMUNICATION

Izzy Mora

OFFICE MANAGER

Cindi Martinez

ADMINISTRATIVE ASSISTANT

Maggie Rodriguez

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(915) 562-7660fax (915) 562-7841

www.rgcf.org

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As you already know and have experienced for

yourself, our magazine, “In The Know:

Understanding the Cancer Experience” is a real

treasure of insight and inspiration. One of our

biggest charges here at the Rio Grande Cancer

Foundation is to be FISCALLY prudent so we

can continue granting dollars to not-for-profits and

to sustain our own programs. Another is to be

SOCIALLY responsible to our community and

resources. To that end we are now offering two

ways for our readers to get In The Know and stay

in the know. We will offer a digital version of our

magazine to be a little more earth friendly and to

cut down on printing costs!

So for those of you who are computer savvy, you

will now be able to receive your copy of “In The

Know: Understanding the Cancer Experience” at

your desktop, smart phone or tablet. We DO

realize that there are still those readers that like to

hunker down in the tub or outside under a tree

reading our informative and enlightening articles

so for you, we will continue to deliver a paper

version of our magazine to your door.

All you have to do is to pick how you want

to….GET IN THE KNOW!

Get ‘In The Know’ delivered to yourin-box instead of your mailbox

Help RGCF save valuable time and resources

To receive your free online subscription of ‘In the Know’ and help the

Rio Grande Cancer Foundation simply submit your e-mail address

to: [email protected]

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As you already know and have experienced for

yourself, our magazine, “In The Know:

Understanding the Cancer Experience” is a real

treasure of insight and inspiration. One of our

biggest charges here at the Rio Grande Cancer

Foundation is to be FISCALLY prudent so we

can continue granting dollars to not-for-profits and

to sustain our own programs. Another is to be

SOCIALLY responsible to our community and

resources. To that end we are now offering two

ways for our readers to get In The Know and stay

in the know. We will offer a digital version of our

magazine to be a little more earth friendly and to

cut down on printing costs!

So for those of you who are computer savvy, you

will now be able to receive your copy of “In The

Know: Understanding the Cancer Experience” at

your desktop, smart phone or tablet. We DO

realize that there are still those readers that like to

hunker down in the tub or outside under a tree

reading our informative and enlightening articles

so for you, we will continue to deliver a paper

version of our magazine to your door.

All you have to do is to pick how you want

to….GET IN THE KNOW!

Get ‘In The Know’ delivered to yourin-box instead of your mailbox

Help RGCF save valuable time and resources

To receive your free online subscription of ‘In the Know’ and help the

Rio Grande Cancer Foundation simply submit your e-mail address

to: [email protected]

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CollaboratorsCelebrating

our

Myong’s Wigs and Beauty

Supplies

Patti Myong has been a dear

friend, partner, and supporter of

the Foundation for six years. As

a local business owner, Patti

knows firsthand the importance

of creating conditions in which a

local organization can work

together to realize

their collective

missions.

Through

her

extensive

wig

inventory,

Patti

provides

discounted

product to the

Rio Grande Cancer Foundation

so women undergoing hair loss

during cancer treatment can

access a free wig at any Green

House location.Myong’s Beauty Supplies 1360 Lee Trevino, #105, El Paso, TX

79936, 591-5336

Suk’s Beauty Supplies Suk and Richard Roy have one

of two stores on El Paso’s

eastside and are always

available and willing to donate

discontinued product to the Rio

Grande Cancer Foundation. The

couple has a deep love of our

community and a deep

understanding of women’s hair

needs during chemotherapy. We

are grateful for their partnership.Suk’s Beauty Supplies1840 Lee Trevino, #104, El Paso, TX

79936, 599-0089

Tri State Cosmetology

Institute,El Paso Regency

Beauty School, and Milan

Beauty Institute

As students strive for success in

attending beautician classes,

one exciting aspect is being able

to practice, practice and

practice. For us it becomes a

win-win situation when we can

take our donated wigs to the

beauty schools and have

cosmetology students wash and

style wigs for wear again. We

are able to strengthen their skills

and serve as a springboard for

students to acquire a deeper

understanding of one of the side

effects of cancer. Milan Institute of Cosmetology1580 George Dieter Dr., Ste. 207, 857-

4444, www.MilanInstitute.edu

Regency Beauty Institute1120 McRae Blvd., Bldg. D.,

El Paso, TX 79925, 595-5955,

www.regencybeauty.com

Tri-State Cosmetology6800 Gateway East, Bldg. 4,

El Paso, TX 79915, 778-1741,

www.tristatecosemetology.com

Montwood Church of Christ,

Warm Babies Sewing &

Knitting Group These very active sewing and

knitting groups divide their

energy by sewing knit caps and

scarves for our Four Seasons

Beauty Program. They are

continually striving to meet the

needs of women receiving

cancer treatment and are

devoted to bringing color,

comfort and warmth through

their sewing projects.

El Paso Independent & Ysleta

Independent School DistrictThe Fine Arts Creates Cancer

Enlightenment (FACCES), is a

program whereby Fine Arts

students in area high school

design and paint Styrofoam wig

heads for use in our Four

Seasons programs at Del Sol

Regional Oncology Center, El

Paso Treatment Center West

and East. Through this project,

students from differing

backgrounds and varying

experiences are better able to

relate to the cancer experience

and understand the role art

plays in healing our cancer

community.

Beauty Salons – Jacqui’s,

BarragansOur salon partners serve as

drop off centers for accepting

donated wig products and

stylists offer free ‘buzz’ cuts or

wig styling for Four Seasons

patrons.

Jacqueline Cordova and Locks

of LoveThe Rio Grande Cancer

Foundation works closely with

the Florida based non-profit,

Locks of Love as the

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intermediary between long-

haired El Pasoans and their

tresses. Locks of Love is a

public non-profit organization

that provides hairpieces to

financially disadvantaged

children in the United States

and Canada under age 21

suffering from long-term

medical hair loss from any

diagnosis. Recently,

Jacqueline Cordova, an

RGCF volunteer and

advocate, put together a

program to recruit hair

donations during the month

ofOctober.

United Cab Company of

Houston, TexasThrough a partnership with

The Rio Grande Cancer

Foundation’s PATS (Patient

Air Transport Service)

program, the United Cab of

Houston, TX has been

providing discounted cab

vouchers to the foundation

for patient use for over 10

years. “United Cab provides

reliable service to patients

who must travel to

Houston for evaluation,

treatment, surgical procedure

or diagnostic study at one of

the many medical facilities;

most notably the University of

Texas MD Anderson Cancer

Center,” says Jutta Ramirez,

RGCF Program Officer.

“Certainly, this small courtesy

during a distressing situation

is enormously appreciated by

our patients, says Mrs.

Ramirez. “We value our

partnership with United Cab”,

she adds.

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g

s

Riverside High School Cosmetology Class

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how everyday people can

band together and do

extraordinary things for our

community

by patty tiscareño

it takes a villageWe have all heard the phrase “There are two

kinds of people in the world..” One could insert

almost any answer to complete their own version

of this notion. For example, there are people who

watch things happen and people who make things

happen. There are people who observe and

people who participate. There are those who are

immovable and those who move. We are proud of

the doers and movers featured on the following

page whose actions on behalf of the Rio Grande

Cancer Foundation speak louder than words.

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it takes a visionWomen’s Council of Realtors and

Bras for the Cause

What happens

when you pair a

group of fast-

paced, connected,

tireless realtors

with a need to

expand services

to women in

chemotherapy?

You get twenty

decorated

brassieres, toned

and buffed fire

fighters and a fun-filled evening. On October

19, 2012, over 250 people turned out at the

Union Depot for a themed live bra auction, a

silent auction and fashion show. The bras

were paraded down the fashion runway on the

bodies of the men and women of the El Paso

Fire Department and local models. Proceeds

from the event generated funds to benefit the

Foundation’s Four Seasons Beauty Program at

the Rio Grande Cancer Foundation. The

Women’s Council of Realtors truly embodies

the mantra of the Four Seasons Beauty

Program in supporting the concept that

“Seasons may change, but Beauty Remains”.

The Schaeffer Family and

Coney Island

Ruben and Rita

Schaeffer

instilled in their

daughter, Rachel

the proud

tradition of

giving back to

the community

and when, at the

young age of 20,

ovarian cancer

struck her

personally, they

put that belief into practice. Now in its

second year, Rachel and her husband, Andy

Barraza, sponsor a Hot Dog Eating Contest at

the family’s iconic El Paso eatery, Coney

Island Hot Dog. Proceeds from the event

benefit the TEAL Fund for Hope: an Ovarian

Cancer Awareness fund at the Rio Grande

Cancer Foundation. The acronym T.E.A.L.

stands for Timeyl; Education; Awareness; and

Love with the intent to focus on TIMELY

detection of ovarian cancer which is critical in

helping women survive this very silent form

of cancer.

The event took place on Sunday September

30, 2012 in a family friendly, fun-filled

afternoon featuring timed hot dog eating

competition with men's and women's tracks, a

silent auction, door prizes, entertainment, the

TEAL Fund for Hope store and the super

delicious Coney Island Dogs. This year, the

event grossed $10,000 in proceeds for the Rio

Grande Cancer Foundation.

Kitchen Project

In 2009, Patty Tiscareño, the Rio Grande

Cancer Foundation’s Executive Director and

talented vocalist, took to the studio along with

the fine musicians from her group “PT & the

Cruisers” to produce The Kitchen Project.

The 13-song compilation was a fundraiser for

the Rio Grande Cancer Foundation in which

each song was sold in tribute to an individual

who has been through a cancer experience. In

the three years since its’ release ‘The Kitchen

Project’ has returned 100% of the proceeds –

about $43,000 - to the Rio Grande Cancer

Foundation to benefit programs and patients

in our local community.

While copies of the CD are still available for

purchase*, it is rumored that Patty and the

Cruisers are considering a second effort. We

want your feedback about which songs you

would like to hear on the next project. Email

us at [email protected] with your thoughts and

comments.

*log on to www.rgcf.org and link to the

Kitchen Project to order your copy.

Gilbert Gonzalez and the Sgt. Pepper

Wondrous Wigorium Concert

Like many retired people, Gilbert Gonzalez

works harder now than when he was fully

employed. When he stopped working at his

paying job, he began volunteering at the

Green House. With his soothing demeanor

and soft spoken voice, he was an instant hit

with the patients in treatment as a sounding

board for their needs. He became aware of

the increasing need for wigs, scarves,

mastectomy garments and head coverings,

especially during the holidays when cancer

can be an added interruption to an already

busy time of year. An accomplished

musician, Gilbert donned his alter ego ‘Sgt.

Pepper’, gathered a group of equally talented

musicians and put together the ‘Sgt. Pepper’s

Wondrous Wigorium’ spectacular concert

celebrating the music of the Beatles. The

$8,000 in proceeds from the concert held at El

Paso’s Chamizal National Memorial Park

supplemented the Four Season Beauty

Program at the Rio Grande Cancer

Foundation. The concert was such a success

that the organizers are talking about an annual

event! “This concert was not only a great joy

but it brought real relief to women struggling

with hair loss”, said Cindi Martinez,

coordinator for the Four Seasons Beauty

Program.

Luis Loya

The Green House utilizes the help of college

and university students in our Green House

locations in fulfillment of community

outreach core requirements. Many of the

students serve their time at various locations

and then include service to the Rio Grande

Cancer Foundation on their resumes. Some

of them, however, keep coming back. One

such volunteer, Luis Loya, in pursuing his

Bachelor’s in Communications degree at New

Mexico State University, made The Green

House the beneficiary of his efforts. Along

with Nathan Duran and Andrew McDonald,

the trio approached local businesses such as

The Double Eagle, Style America and Allen

Theatres for donations of goods and services

which they then turned into a raffle. The

group marketed and sold $200.00 worth of

tickets and donated the funds to The Green

House Cancer Resource Centers.

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The Dummie’sguide for hosting

a CancerFundraiser

Adapted from

eHow.com

Cancer touches the lives of so many and

sometimes it is difficult to know how to

help the person or people battling the

disease. With some hard work, a

committed group of people and some

creative ideas, you can organize a

successful and meaningful event.

As with anything successful, plan, plan,

plan. And plan well in advance for the best

results.

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What you’ll need:

• A small committee

• An event budget

• Brochures, flyers and posters

• Put together a committee of

hardworking, dedicated individuals

who want to help and know of

others who may want to attend.

Start with family, friends and

acquaintances you know who may

have a personal interest in helping to

organize a fundraiser to support

cancer patients. Involve people who

know others willing to support the

event by helping, attending or making

a donation. Manage your committee

effectively; meet regularly and make

sure committee members are

completing necessary tasks they

agreed to.

• Decide on an event that has been

successful for others. Avoid

"reinventing the wheel." Organize an

event that has been successful for

nonprofits and other groups that plan

fundraisers. Dinner dances, wine

tastings, bike rides, walks, motorcycle

rides and murder mystery events are

very popular fundraising events with

proven success. If you are unsure

where to begin, seek advice from a

familiar nonprofit and ask questions

about organizing a fundraiser it has

had success with in the past.

• Begin planning as far in advance

as possible, preferably months

before the event. Set a budget for

expenses, such as a deposit for a

venue, supplies and marketing costs.

Have a realistic goal in mind for

possible revenue. Determine in

advance if you will donate the money

to a cancer organization, a hospital or

to an individual or family affected by

the disease.

• Seek out sponsorships, raffle

prizes and/or auction items.

Business and individual sponsors will

contribute toward expenses and help

increase revenue. Raffle prizes and

auction items will encourage attendees

to spend more money at the event.

Promote your sponsors to increase

their exposure, which is one of the

reasons they have agreed to sponsor

your event in the first place. Seek

support from local restaurants, retail

shops, manufacturing companies, hair

salons, grocery stores and other

businesses.

• Market the event creatively four

to six weeks in advance. Utilize

flyers, brochures and posters to

advertise your fundraiser. Other cost-

effective marketing techniques include

email blasts (ask people to forward to

others who may be interested in

attending or sponsoring) and press

releases. Ask your local daily

newspaper or weekly publication to

consider writing a story on your event.

Tips and Warnings

• Be gracious and appreciative to

your committee members, sponsors

and raffle prize contributors. Send

Thank You letters when the event is

complete. Obtain necessary licenses

with your town or city to host a

fundraiser, including a temporary

liquor license if needed.

• If you have never organized a

fundraiser before, keep it simple the

first time around. Avoid an event such

as a golf tournament, which involves

more overhead costs and can be more

difficult to plan. Don’t create a lot of

work for the organization or person

you are donating the money to; if you

agree to plan the event, then you are

responsible for the execution and the

outcome. Don’t underestimated

expenses. Don’t promise more than

you can realistically deliver.

Read more: How to Organize a Fundraiser

for Cancer Patients | eHow.com

http://www.ehow.com/how_5033472_orga

nize-fundraiser-cancer-

patients.html#ixzz29ZoSYQCH

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FEBRUARY

Organization:

Susan G. Komen for the Cure

Event: 21st Annual Race for the Cure

Date: February 17th

Location: TBD

APRIL

Organization:

Rio Grande Cancer Foundation

Event: 2nd Annual Sgt. Pepper’s Wondrous Wigorium

Concert

Date: April 27,2013

Location: TBD

MAY

Organization:

Candlelighters of the El Paso Area

Event: 8th Annual Tee Off with Candlelighters

Date: May 17, 2013

Location: Underwood Golf Complex

JUNE

Organization:

JLV Memorial Fund

Event: 5K Walk/Run for Men’s

Health/Prostate Cancer

Date: Saturday, June 1st

Location: TBD

Organization:

JLV Memorial Fund

Event: 2nd Annual Symposium for Men’s

Health/Prostate Cancer

Date: Saturday, June 29th

Location: TBD

AUGUST

Organization:

Rio Grande Cancer Foundation

Event: 5th Annual Keep On Dancing

Cancer Survivor Conference

Date: Saturday, August 24th

Location: Wyndham Hotel Airport

Organization:

Power of Pink

Event: 8th Annual Breast Cancer Survivor

Make-over Day

Date: August 24, 2013

Location: El Paso Community College

School of Cosmetology

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Now is the time to resolve to be more involved in

2013. We have compiled a list of community

events that could use your help in some form.

Please either contact the organization or the Rio

Grande Cancer Foundation for more information.

Hope to see you there!

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SEPTEMBER

Organization:

Rio Grande Cancer Foundation

TEAL Fund For HOPE

Event: 3rd Annual Coney Island Hot Dog Eating

Contest

Date: Month of September

Location: Coney Island of El Paso

Organization:

Candlelighter of the El Paso Area

Event: 4th Annual Guns N Hoses Baseball Tournament

featuring law enforcement and emergency service

providers

Date: September 7th

Location: Cohen Stadium

Organization:

Power of Pink

Event: Breast Cancer Awareness Month Kick-off and

Press Party

Date: Month of September

Where: TBD

OCTOBER

Organization:

Candlelighters of the El Paso Area

Event: 2nd Annual Polo for Courage Match

Date: October 5th

Location Santa Maria Polo Club

Organization:

Rio Grande Cancer Foundation/Women’s Council of

Realtors

Event: 4th Annual Bras for the Cause

Date: Month of October

Location: TBD

Organization:

University Breast Care Center

Event: Celebrate Life Fashion Show

Date: Month of October 2013

Location: TBD

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Keep on Dancing 2012The 4th annual Keep on Dancing Cancer Survivor Conference was held August 27, 2012, at the Wyndham Airport

Hotel. The 200 participants in attendance enjoyed a day of education and inspiration about living fully with and

beyond a cancer diagnosis. 

For more photos from the event, log onto www.rgcf.org

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Mother’s Gifts – by Jana Mullins

Excerpt from Open Hands: Lessons

on Giving and Receiving

October 17, 1999. My forty-fifth

birthday. This day marked not only my

birth, but also my five-year

anniversary as a single mother a title I

hadn’t asked for, but one I was slowly

growing accustomed to.

It was only five years before that I

had gone through a life-changing

divorce, bringing to a startling halt my

twenty-year marriage and irrevocably

changing my life and the lives of my

three children. Suddenly, I was no

longer the supportive wife, but instead

a forty year-old college student raising

young children, starting a career and

building a new life. I could not help

but reflect on all the days I had felt so

overwhelmed. At times, those five

years seemed like an eternity.

However, through the prayers, love

and support of my family and friends,

my little family of four not only

survived, we began to thrive. I

realized that in the midst of life’s

mending, my own life had gently and

remarkably changed.

At work that morning, I found myself

thinking about other single mothers,

particularly those who might have little

support or encouragement. Knowing

how hard it is to be a single mom, I

picked up the phone and called

Memorial Hermann Hospital, a

Houston hospital that serves the

uninsured. I asked for Labor and

Delivery. Sandra, a kind, soft-spoken

woman answered the phone and I

inquired if there had been a baby born

that day. I explained that today was

my birthday and I wanted to give a gift

to a single mom, in particular one who

might not have support around her.

She said she would check and get

back with me.

A few hours later I received a call, “I

have a young single mother who has

just had a baby boy. She is here

alone.” I told her I would be over that

afternoon.

I was filled with a strange

excitement and anticipation as I

headed to the local grocery store. I

eagerly purchased flowers, an iconic

“It’s a Boy” balloon that I felt this new

mother MUST have, a little stuffed

teddy bear, a baby book and a card.

In the card I placed a small monetary

gift and explained that this gift was not

for her newborn son, but something

special just for her. In the note I

congratulated her on becoming the

wonderful mother I knew she would

be. I then brought my gift to the

hospital and left it there to be

delivered anonymously.

As I stepped outside those hospital

doors that afternoon, my eyes filled

with tears and my heart felt complete.

I stopped and offered a small prayer

to God. I prayed this beautiful young

family would forever feel God’s love

and support, and know that they were

not alone in this world.

I haven’t skipped a birthday at the

hospital since.

This has become the highlight of my

birthday and I cannot possibly imagine

spending the day any other way.

Over the years, I have received

pictures of the moms and their babies.

I have also received beautiful notes.

What they might not know, however,

is that their notes and expressions of

gratitude have always come to me,

like small hugs, at moments when I

needed them. In giving to other single

mothers, my life has been enriched

and I, over and over again abundantly

received.

Mother’s Gifts

mind, body, & soul

How one single mother found theinspiration to celebrate her birthday by

giving to others

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“You give but little when yougive of your possessions. It iswhen you give of yourself thatyou truly give.” – Kahlil Gibran, The Prophet

“If my hands are fully occupiedin holding onto something, I canneither give nor receive.- Dorothee Solle

“Do your little bit of good whereyou are; it’s those little bits ofgood put together thatoverwhelm the world.”

– Archbishop Desmond Tutu

“There never was a person whodid anything worth doing, whodid not receive more than hegave.”– Henry Ward Beecher

“Giving connects two people,the giver and the receiver, andthis connection gives birth to anew sense of belonging.”

– Deepak Chopra

“In helping others, we shall helpourselves, for whatever good wegive out completes the circle andcomes back to us.”– Flora Edwards

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foundationat the

For over 15 years the Rio

Grande Cancer Foundation has

offered programs and services

that are focused on caring for

and connecting El Paso's cancer

community.

Here, we outline some of the

ways we touch the lives of

cancer patients and their

families.

We are a homegrown El Paso

organization. Established in 1996 from the

proceeds of the El Paso Cancer Treatment

Center sale, the Rio Grande Cancer

Foundation exists exclusively to serve the

needs of our local cancer community.

The majority of the Foundation's

distributions support qualified, local non-

profits whose mission is related to cancer.

Look over the wide-ranging list of grantees

(facing page). We are proud to fund projects

which provide for quality of life, education,

support services and cancer prevention.

We are governed by a board of directors; a

stellar group of individuals who give freely of

their time and talent. Please see page 3 for a

complete list of our directors.

Our Mission

Since 1996 the Rio Grande Cancer

Foundation has been dedicated to reducing

the human and economic effects of cancer on

the citizens of El Paso County through the

financial support and development of

effective programs for advocacy, education,

early detection, and other services to cancer

patients and their families.

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Our PhilosophyThe Rio Grande Cancer Foundation affirms:• All area residents are entitled to accurate and accessible information about ways to reduce

their risks of developing and dying from cancer.• All area residents are entitled to cancer prevention, screening, diagnosis, treatment,

rehabilitation, hospice and support services.• The human and financial impact of cancer on the people of the region can be reduced by

establishing strong, collaborative partnerships at state and local levels.• Cooperation among public, private, and volunteer agencies and individuals increases the

potential for limited resources to serve more people and minimize duplication of effort.

Creative Kids, Inc. Project Aim – Arts in Motion $ 10,000Be the Match Foundation Marrow Donor Program $ 10,000Cancer and Chronic Disease Consortium Care for Cancer Wellness Program $ 25,000Candlelighters of El Paso Helping Hands Program $ 30,000Children’s Grief Center of El Paso Grief Support for Children $ 5,000Hospice El Paso Unfunded Oncology Care $ 10,000University Medical Center Foundation Sobreviviendo El Cáncer/ $ 15,000

Surviving CancerVisiting Nurse Association Comprehensive Cancer Care $ 15,000El Paso Baptist Clinic Cancer Screenings for Women/ $ 30,000

Salary Support for Associate DirectorUniversity Breast Care Center / TTUHSC General Support $ 25,000Total Grants for 2012 $175,000

George H. Ball Child CareThe George Ball Childcare programprovides short-term child care for patients ortheir caregivers during follow-upappointments and/or treatment.

The program is:• Available to anyone undergoing active

treatment.• Intended to be used for six weeks or less,

not to replace regular childcare.• Open to children 3 months through 12

years of age.

• Drop-in daycare at any of 19 day carefacilities from 7 a.m. to 6 p.m. and afterschool until 6 p.m.

• This service is free to eligible participantsthrough the generosity of the YWCA of ElPaso.

• To sign up, please visit rgcf.org or contactJutta Ramirez 915-562-7660, for referralto the program. Then contact the YWCAchild care location of your choice to enroll

your child(ren)

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Our Programs

2012 Grants Funded by RGCF

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The Patient Assistance

Transportation Service (PATS)*

PATS provides airline transportation to

patients who are referred outside the El Paso

area for evaluation, treatment, surgery or or

diagnostic studies unavailable in El Paso.

• PATS is available to patients whose

treatment is unavailable locally and who

have a genuine financial need.

• Patients may apply for assistance once a

referral to another treatment facility within

the state of Texas has occurred.

• Upon receipt of written documentation

from the referring El Paso physician, the

program coordinator will ensure that a

round trip airline ticket has been purchased

for the patient only.

• Contact Jutta Ramirez or call

915-562-7660.

• Additional air and ground transportation

assistance for those receiving treatment in

Houston, Texas may be accessed through

the Houston Ground Angels. Follow this

link to apply for tranportation:

http://www.houstongroundangels.org/missi

ons/mission_requestm.asp

The Alliance

• The mission of the Alliance is to enhance

the lives of cancer patients by connecting

newly diagnosed with seasoned survivors

toward emotional and practical support.

Get Matched!

• You can make a difference

• Join our vision to bring one-on-one support

to people undergoing treatment for cancer.

As a survivor yourself, you will make a

positive difference in the lives of those

newly diagnosed or in active treatment.

• After a short training process, we will

match you with patients and you can

determine how often you would like to be

matched based upon your life situation and

commitments.

• Because the volunteer work is done

primarily over the telephone, you can give

support and make a difference from the

comfort of your own home. Our staff is

always available to answer questions to

provide guidance.

The Four Seasons Beauty Program

The program provides practical assistance

for women experiencing hair loss due to

chemotherapy.

• Post mastectomy garments, and free wigs,

hats, and scarves are available.

• Wigs are available for selection at The

Green House, 10460 Vista del Sol, Suite

101 and in limited supplies at our five

satellite locations.

• You can donate wigs for refurbishing. The

Foundation partners with area salons which

clean and style donated wigs, shave

patron's heads, and hold donated wigs for

pickup by The Green House staff.

• Susan G. Komen for the Cure - El Paso

Affiliate is a partner and helps fund the

Four Seasons Beauty Program.

http://www.komenelpaso.org/

Keep on Dancing Conference

It is such incredible news to hear that there

are now more than 13.7 million cancer

survivors in the United States and that

number is expected to grow to nearly 18

million by 2022.

• Many survivors live with cancer as a

chronic disease requiring periodic

treatments, while others may go into long-

term remission leading normal lives with

few side effects. As many survivors have

learned, however, recovery is not always

the end of the cancer experience. Even

several years after successful treatment,

cancer recurrence is always a possibility.

• There are still so many gaps and

unanswered questions about returning to a

healthy, active life after cancer, and we

hope this conference will supply you with

some of the best information to help you

make better informed decisions and reduce

your risk of secondary tumors and

recurrence.

As the name suggests, the KOD empowers

survivors, patients and their network with

tools of support for today and tomorrow.

Participants gain ideas to help raise

awareness of the unique issues exclusive to

cancer patients and to network with other

people who have been on similar journeys.

• This year’s program included sessions

designed to help patients fully live and love

life beyond cancer. We hope you will join

us next year and keep fighting, keep

positive and KEEP ON DANCING!

Our Programs (Continued From Previous Page)

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The Green HouseThe J. Leighton Green, Jr. Cancer

Resource Center is affectionately named

for the El Paso attorney whose battle with

Acute Myeloid Leukemia (AML) ended in

1998. While the name of the library "The

Green House" was intended in tribute to

Leighton Green, Jr. the name itself evokes

light, hope, help and healing.

The Green House provides cancer, health

and wellness information for patients,

caregivers and medical professionals in

various mediums – books, pamphlets,

audio and video offerings as well as a

stand-alone, bilingual touch screen

computer (Cancer HelpNet™) dedicated

exclusively to cancer related topics.

The Rio Grande Cancer Foundation is

pleased to offer this vital service – the only

dedicated health library in the region that is

free of charge and is located in five

satellite libraries within local treatment

centers.

In The

Know Magazine

In The Know Magazine, Understanding the

Cancer Experience is a free quarterly

magazine featuring stories about people in

our community and their experiences with

cancer as patients, friends, family members

or caregivers.

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These book selectionsare available at The Green HouseResource Library

MAIN BRANCH

Del Sol Regional Oncology

Center

10460 Vista Del Sol, Suite 101

El Paso, Texas 79925

562-7660

WEST CENTRAL:

Las Palmas Medical Center

1801 N. Oregon

El Paso, Texas 79901

EAST:

Texas Oncology

El Paso Cancer Treatment

Center

7848 Gateway East

El Paso, Texas 79915

CENTRAL:

Texas Oncology

El Paso Cancer Treatment

Center

1901 Grandview

El Paso, Texas 79902

NORTHEAST:

William Beaumont Army Medical

Center

5005 N. Piedras St.

El Paso, Texas 79905

visit www.rgcf.org

in the greenhouse

Outlive Your Life: You Were Made to Make A

Difference By Max Lucado

May I share a story that is very dear to my heart?

It's a story of hillbillies and simple folk, net casters and tax

collectors. A story of a movement that exploded like a just-

opened fire hydrant out of Jerusalem and spilled into the

ends of the earth: into the streets of Paris, the districts of

Rome, and the ports of Athens, Istanbul, Shanghai, and

Buenos Aires. A story so mighty, controversial, head

spinning, and life changing that two millennia later we

wonder: Might it happen again?

Heaven knows we hope so. These are devastating times: 1.75 billions people are

desperately poor; one billion are hungry. Lonely hearts indwell our neighborhoods and

attend our schools. In the midst of it all, here we stand: you, me, and our one-of-a-

kind lives. We are given a choice ... an opportunity to make a big difference during a

difficult time. What if we did? What if we rocked the world with hope?

Worth a try, don't you think?

Living the Significant Life: 12 Principles for Making a

Difference By Peter L. Hirsch, Robert Shemin

Learn the secrets and steps to living a more meaningful life

Success is what happens to you; significance is what happens

through you. Do busy schedules at home and at work sometimes

leave you feeling overwhelmed and uninspired? Maybe you feel

stuck in a rut, going through a treadmill of the same routines or

bored at a job you don't love. If you want to get more out of life,

this book will show you how. The authors' approach has been

used successfully by many thousands of people—now you can

put it to work for yourself. You'll learn to focus on your passions, set and achieve

goals, and harness your full potential in order to live a life filled with meaning—your

best life

• Shows you how to nurture your passions, re-energize your life, and achieve your full

potential

• Includes dramatic stories of people who have discovered how to live a more

meaningful life

A Life That Matters: Five Steps to Making a Difference

By P. K. Hallinan

There comes a time in every person's life when they wonder: does

anything I do really matter? In this inspiring book,

bestselling author P.K. Hallinan shows readers how to answer that

question with a resounding yes! With encouraging stories from his

life and others, Hallinan lays out five immensely practical steps

readers can follow to achieve a more meaningful life: Work hard.

Go in the strength you have. Finish what you start. Be patient.

Help other people along the way.

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what I know now

Patty TiscareñoAn Interview with Patty Tiscareño, Executive Director, Rio Grande Cancer

Foundation

Patty Tiscareño has served at the helm of the Rio Grande Cancer Foundation for

sixteen years, having seen the foundation grow into the leading community service

organization that it is today. Here are some of her reflections about where the

Foundation has come from and where it is headed in the future.

ITK: Talk a little about the early days of

RGCF

PT: The Foundation came into being on April

1, 1996 when the El Paso Cancer Treatment

Center sold to a for-profit entity. At the time,

I was the Director of Development for

EPCTC and the existing board appointed me

Director of the new foundation. For the first

two years of our existence, I was the sole

employee until 1998 when our staff grew by

100% with the addition of Jutta Ramirez. We

were housed at 4707 Montana on the second

floor of the RMPersonnel building during

that time and that was the first location of The

Green House.

ITK: How was the direction of the

Foundation decided?

PT: We have always been blessed with a

remarkable group of individuals who serve

on the board of directors and one of the first

agenda items was a focus study about

Foundation direction. The results of the

effort pointed us to the need for a central

source of cancer information, the need for

transportation, and more public awareness

about prevention and early detection. As a

result, we began work on many of the

programs we have in place today. PATS and

The Green House, among them. Setting up a

library required the addition of Izzy Mora as

our library coordinator in 2000. Presently,

our board is in the process of re-defining our

strategies for the next decade as the need for

cancer services morphs into survivorship and

life after cancer.

ITK: Some people might suggest the work

at the foundation is depressing. Describe a

typical week in the office of the Rio

Grande Cancer Foundation.

PT: In our present location at 10460 Vista del

Sol, we have 4.5 employees whose

responsibilities run the gamut of clerical and

accounting duties, library and Four Season

patron attention, arranging transportation for

travelers, maintaining the litany of

pamphlets, brochures, books, etc., in the

library, marketing and promoting our services

and spending time with cancer patients and

their families. Most of my duties are

relegated to board development and

maintenance, financial oversight of our

investment portfolio, budget oversight and

special projects.

Is the work depressing? Never. On the

contrary, it is often more uplifting than

anything else. Every individual with whom

we interact is supported, encouraged, and a

little less burdened in a difficult time because

of the Rio Grande Cancer Foundation. How

cool is that? And while there is sadness when

we learn about our friends or colleagues with

a cancer diagnosis, we get to spend quality

time and energy with people at a vital time in

their lives. That in itself is very rewarding.

ITK: Given that your daily activities are

consumed with ‘cancer’, what do you do to

reenergize?

PT: I find great solace in puttering around the

house. I love cooking for my family,

especially my two grandchildren who suffer

from bottomless pit syndrome, and pot

gardening around the yard. I am also really

lucky to work with my longtime friends “the

Cruisers – Andre, Doug, Buddy and Gary”

who add music and spice to my life.

ITK: In what direction do you see the Rio

Grande Cancer Foundation moving in the

years ahead?

PT: It is no secret that it is my goal that all

cancer patients in our El Paso community

have access to a one-stop location where they

can avail themselves of the ancillary and

support services they need to thrive beyond

their cancer diagnosis. More people are

living with rather than dying from cancer and

the needs of the survivors are specific, real

and necessary.

ITK: What lessons have you learned

during your time at the Rio Grande

Cancer Foundation?

PT: I have learned the importance of

organization and multi-tasking; you must

have these skills when you work in the non-

profit arena. We wear many, many hats. I’ve

learned that most people are talented and

passionate and giving and we should always

take advantage of their gifts. I’ve learned that

small can be effective and that indeed the

work of a small team can have a major

impact. I’ve learned humility and empathy

from the people whose lives have been

impacted but not destroyed by cancer. I’ve

learned that human beings are much stronger

than we think and that we should try to apply

that strength in everything we do. Most

importantly, I’ve learned that time passes

much too quickly, so I should make every

moment count!

“Each day offers us the gift of being a special

occasion if we can simply learn that as well

as giving, it is blessed to receive with grace

and a grateful heart”. – Sarah Breathwach

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