Involved Fathering and Involved Fathering and Men’s Experiences of Faith Men’s Experiences of Faith

Rob Palkovitz

University of Delaware

Newark, Delaware, USA

Differences Fathers Experience Differences Fathers Experience

Rituals related to the birth: Circumcision, baptism, dedication

Decisions regarding early training in matters of faith: church attendance, Sunday school

Questions from children regarding God, faith, behavior of self & others

These each lead to values clarification regarding issues of faith

Common Change Patterns in Common Change Patterns in Fathers’ FaithFathers’ Faith

No change– Religion always central– Negative experience made disinterested– Other life experiences (alcohol, etc.)

Changes– Fathering initiated: brings to forefront– Enhancements: provided boost needed– Seekers: now see importance of exploration

Typologies of Fathering in Faith: Typologies of Fathering in Faith: A ContinuumA ContinuumDiscouragingDisinterestedProviderDisciple Maker (Generative)

Common Challenges for Common Challenges for Fathering in FaithFathering in Faith

Consistent life style (avoiding hypocrisy)

Vitality of own faithBiblical or doctrinal knowledgeFaith as a gendered venture

Father/Church FrictionsFather/Church Frictions

CriticismsComfort levels

Supporting Fathers in FaithSupporting Fathers in Faith

Hebrews 10:24 And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds.

Transition times important- especially transitions WITHIN fathering and transitions WITHIN faith

Finding teachable moments Building on strengths Need for effective men’s ministries Mentorship and friendship, not criticism

Questions & Comments?Questions & Comments?