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THE REGULAR THE GOOD STUFF
10 small talk papa san
12 play dates select happenings
14 product reviews Marshmallow shooters, cats on the iPhone, get your Freak out, and more
18 health matters how to enjoy and prepare for a a safe summer for your children
26young stars Parenthood’s Tyree Brown
28green living grow your own candy
40food sizzling summer recipes
50diary of a suburban queen The never-ending birthday month
you’ve got to cool it nowsweet fashion treats for haute summer days 30
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10small talk
EDITOR’S LETTER
papa san
YOU’RE A WINNERLast issue we ran a
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“The most important thing a father can do for his children is to love their mother.” — Rev. Theodore Hesburgh
Childrenarefun.Havingchildrenisfun.Raisingthem–atthecoreoftheexercise–issupposedtobefun.Beingafathertomytwochildrenhasbeenthemostfun,most
exhilaratingrideIcouldhaveeverimagined.Here’sthesecretofbeingafather:havingkidsletsusactlikekidsagain…withnorepercussions.
BeingDadgivesmetheexcusetojumpoutfrombehindthecurtains,pastastraineronmyhead,drinkingstrawinhand,usingmyworstJohnnyDeppimitationandrecreatingscenesfromPirates of the Carribean;orputthewoodensaladbowlovermyheadanddomybest(ahem)JackBlack/Kung Fu Pandarecreations.ItallowsmetosendthetworunningandscreamingbecausetheTickleMonsterhasdecidedtomakeanunexpectedappearance,andtofrustratemydaughterbecauseIgetmyDisneyprincessesmixedup:“Cinderella…she’stheonethatswimsunderwaterwithPeterPan,right?”Tosing(?)inharmonywithmysonasheyellsoutthewords(asheinterpretsthem)to“HakunaMatata”whilewe’reinthecartogether.(Hmmm…forsomereasonmanyofthesemomentsseemtorevolvearoundshowtunesandmoviesoundtracks.)
There’salsothepeacefuljoyofjustsitting,fortwentyminutes,withmysonaswewatchaprayingmanthisslowlymakehis(orher,notsurehowyoutellthedifference)wayacrossourbackyardfence;oftakingmydaughteroutonaclearnightandshowingherthepinpointsofstars,andhowtoconnectthemtocreateherownconstellations.Evenwhenthere’snothinggoingon,whenwe’rejustsittingonahammockrockinggentlytoanafternoonbreeze,andtheysitonmylapstaringintotheirownlittleworlds,there’sfuninthatmoment.It’sthosemoments—inbetweenthepersuadingandthearguingandthegentlenudginganddisciplineandhairtugging(myown,nottheirs)—thatdefinemyfatherhoodexperience,andit’sthosemomentsthatIhopetheyrememberwhenlookingbackattheirchildhood.Nowifyou’llexcuseme,thelittleonesarecomingbackfromschoolsoonandIneedtogomakeafortoutofthecouchcushionsbeforetheygethere.
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Mission Impossible Starting with this issue I am going to try and do the impossible: get back in shape while working a more-than-full time job, spend quality time with my children, be a useful husband, and somehow find time to sleep as well. Follow along online and in our next issue, and wish me luck, I’m going to need it. (Thank you to Concord’s UFC gym for setting me up).
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Small Print2010 Big E Productions (DBA Bay Area Kids magazine). No part of this publication may be reproduced without written permission from the publisher. Big E Productions assumes no liability or responsibility for any claims made by advertisers in the magazine.
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Chomp 2! Return of the Carnivorous Plants through Oct 31, San Francisco’s Conservatory of Flowers, 100 John F. Kennedy Dr. (Golden Gate Park), San Francisco. Hours: Tues-Sun, 10:00 a.m. – 4:30 p.m. Admission: $7.00/adults; $5:00 youths, seniors and college students; $2.00 chil-dren 5-11; free for children 4 and under. Visitors can feast their eyes on hundreds of multi-colored, meat-eating plants arranged in swampy, living bogs that showcase species both by their trapping strategies and by their native regions and coun-tries, including California’s own sinuously curved cobra plant (Darlingtonia californica). Other new additions include the Dionaea B-52, the world¹s largest Venus flytrap, and the aptly named (if you were a bug, that is) Abandoned Hope, a pitcher plant hybrid that can grow up to two feet tall.
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Chocolate and Chalk Art Festival Sat June
5, sidewalks along North Shattuck, Berkeley.
Hours: Tues-Sun, 10:00 a.m. – 5:00 p.m. Free
admission, tickets needed for chocolate sam-
pling. Celebrating 14 years of celebration, areas
of North Shattuck’s sidewalk will be assigned
to participants to create their own fanciful chalk
drawings. A contest for the best drawing will be
judged after 4 p.m. Chocolate lovers can nibble
and sip on organic café mocha, chocolate mo-
chi ice cream, chocolate truffles, savory choco-
late mole, spicy chocolate tandori chicken, or
the weirder chocolate foot massage! Live mu-
sic, clowns, and activities for the children.
What the World Needs Now Gala Opening
Night Fundraiser Sat June 5, 5:00 – 10:00
p.m., Museum of Children’s Art (MOCHA). 538
Ninth St., Ste 210, Oakland, (510) 465-8770,
www.mocha.org. Be a part of this special
event that will celebrate young artists in their
What the World Needs Now . . . juried exhibit
of children’s art. Guests will be treated to deli-
cious hors d’oeurves, wine tastings, an artists’
marketplace and entertainment by youth per-
formance troupes. The exhibit features artwork
by Bay Area children in grades K–12 on the
themes of social justice, community aware-
ness and world peace.
Ace Dance Academy presents Outdoor
Adventure Sat June 12, 1:00 & 6:00 p.m.
Dougherty Valley Performing Arts Center, 10550
Albion Rd, San Ramon, (925) 973-ARTS. www.
acedanceacademy.com. Tickets $15. Students
of Ace Dance Academy perform dance pieces
highlighting their skills in ballet, jazz, tap, con-
temporary, and hip hop. From “Rainbow Con-
nection” to “This Land is Your Land,” Outdoor
Adventure is a dance event you and your family
will not want to miss.
Sticky Fingers-Clay Creations II Tues, June
15, 11:00 a.m., Lindsay Wildlife Museum, 1931
First Ave., Walnut Creek, (925) 935-1978, www.
wildlife-museum.org. $15 admission. Mold and
form with gooey clay to create animal-inspired
sculptures using live animals as models.
Bronkar’s Circus of Sound Sat June 19.
Two performances: 12:00 p.m., Hayward Main
Library, 835 C St., Hayward, (510) 881-794;
3:00 p.m., Hayward Library-Weekes Branch,
27300 Patrick Ave., Hayward, (510) 293-5366.
Body percussion, juggling, and beat boxing
combined in one spectacular show. To find out
more about Bronkar and his amazing talents,
go to http://bronkarlee.com.
Model Train Show Fri June 25, 8:00 – 10:00
p.m., Walnut Creek Model Railroad Society,
2751 Buena Vista Ave., Walnut Creek, (925)
937-1888, www.wcmrs.org. Admission: $3.00/
adults, $2.00 for children 6-12 and seniors, chil-
dren under 6 are free. For model railroad enthu-
siasts, the WCMRS’ H.O. scale layout is one of
the largest in the United States. Guests can see
“Tommy,” “Hogwart’s Express,” and “Jelly Belly,”
trains. Visit the towns of Port Allen, with its busy
seaport and naval ships, and Olympia, and view
operations of the overhead wire trolley system.
Father’s Day Brunch and Solar Car Chal-
lenge Sun, June 20, Chabot Space and Sci-
ence Center, 10000 Skyline Blvd., Oakland,
(510) 336-7300, www.chabotspace.org. Ad-
mission: $15/general admission; $13/dads and
members; $10 plus general admission/kids.
Buffet hours: 11:00 a.m. – 3:00 p.m. Solar Car
Challenge hours: 1:00 and 3:00 p.m. Celebrate
Papa with a special Father’s Day Brunch at the
Starlite Bistro in Chabot. After, help Dad design
and create a “green” hot rod that you can de-
sign and race with him!
Father’s Day at the Zoo Sun, June 20, Oak-
land Zoo, 9777 Golf Links Rd., Oakland, (510)
632-9525, www.oaklandzoo.org. Regular ad-
mission prices. To celebrate Father’s Day, Dads
get to ride the train for free at the Oakland Zoo.
Bring dear old Dad to the Zoo for a fun day
filled with animal exploration.
Wild Australia Exhibit Grand Opening Sat,
July 3, 10:00 a.m. – 4:00 p.m., Oakland Zoo,
9777 Golf Links Rd., Oakland, (510) 632-9525,
www.oaklandzoo.org. Help celebrate this new
addition to the Oakland Zoo, and welcome the
new residents from Down Under in style. There
will be live entertainment featuring didgeridoo
music. Board the Outback Express Adventure
train in the Rides Area and sit back and relax
while watching emus and wallaroos graze on
the hillside.
Fourth of July at the Marina Sun July 4,
Berkeley Marina, noon – 10:00 p.m., (510)
981-6740, http://www.ci.berkeley.ca.us/marina.
Free admission. Alcohol-free event. Live enter-
tainment, arts & crafts, food, and fun kid stuff.
Fireworks at 9:30 p.m.
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Marshmallow MForcer (Marshmallow Fun Company) A manually pumped repeat pistol that shoots mini marshmallows twenty to twenty-five feet. Whoa. We see several scenarios where this could be useful. Scenario one: on a hot summer day, siblings are going at each other non-stop. Solution: give each one a loaded pistol and send them outside to duel it out. Scenario two: office wars. Scenario three: rainy day at the ranch? Give everyone their own MForcer. Stand around the living room table loading the ammo (you have to load by hand). Then, everybody gets five minutes to hide. Let the hunt begin. Holding fifteen marshmallows, the MForcer can serve as an effective weapon of family peace. $39.95. Available online at www.marshmallowville.com, Toys R Us, and other retail stores.
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Freak-O-Bag (Kamibashi, www.kamibashi.com) Imagine a product that kids love, has a utilitarian value, and makes the world a better place in the process. Freak-O-Bags begin life as cute dolls with oversized heads, perfect for little hands as they sit in the back seat on the way to the store. Once inside, moms can unfurl a rather hefty (and attention getting) shopping bag from the doll’s head, saving plastic and paper bags at check out time. As for making the world a better place? Each bag is made by the Koonin family in Thailand through a fair trade program. Available in several styles. $14.45-$19.95. Available at Treehouse Green Gifts, Berkeley, (510) 204-9292 or online at www.kamibashi.com
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Alphabetica: Odes to the Alphabet (Diana Spieker and Krista Skehan, 2010 Personify Press, San Francisco). Created by Menlo Park moms Spieker and Skehan (who founded Personify Press in order to publish the book), Alphabetica offers a unique, while still kid-friendly take on the ABCs. Each page has a main theme that revolves around a certain letter, with a poem accentuating that theme. The wording is hip and modern, introducing “big words” without overcrowding or over intellectualizing. Each letter receives its own illustrations and font treatment, so every turn of the page turns up something new, adding to the discovery and engagement elements. For example, the page for the letter “I” has a fun ode to ice cream (“sweet cream vanilla bean chocolate in a frosty shake, any Sundae you can make brain freeze, yes please”) and in the illustration you can find ivy, ink, an Indian, Idaho, Iowa, igloos, Italy, an inch, insects, an ironing board, and even the infinity sign. A charming learning experience for adults and children. $19.95, available at all Pottery Barn Kids and online at www.personifypress.us.
Cat Chorus I-Phone App (My Musical Cats) This app and a sister title, Cat Opera, were submitted to us by a couple of local Art Institute students, and our kids have loved playing with them since. Featuring thirteen kitties, you can swipe or tap individual ones to create your own music, or listen along to several pre-recorded tracks. You can also tap along to various songs as well. Very entertaining, with fun illustrations and an easy interface – in other words, perfect for little children on those long road trips. $0.99 from iTunes and www.mymusicalcats.com.
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matters
About the Author: Board Certified Pe-
diatrician Arnold Blustein, M.D., has been in practice for
more than 30 years. He is on the staff at
Eden Medical Center in Castro Valley.
The‘lazydaysofsummer’quiteoftenfindchil-dren in a variety of summer camps, summerschooland/orspendingdayswithanewgroup
offriends.With the startofcampsandsummerschools,chil-
drencanbeexposed tomanydifferentgermsand in-creased opportunities for injury. It’s not unusual foremergencydepartmentstoseemorechildrensufferingfrombrandnewinjuries…justlikeatthebeginningofaschoolyear.
There are a few things to rememberwith your child’senvironment:Preventing InfectionsThebestwaytopreventinfectionisfrequenthandwash-ing. Pediatricians encourage all of our patients andtheirparentstoformgoodhandwashinghabitsfromthestart.Childrenshouldbecoachedtowashtheirhandsbeforeeating,afterusingthebathroomandafterplay-ingoutside.
Immunizations are another important means ofpreventinginfection.Vaccineshavesavedcountlesslivesoverthelastseveraldecades,andgroupsliketheAmer-ican Academy of Pediatrics encourage everyone to befullyimmunized.Boostervaccines,whichrenewimmu-nizationsthatmayhavelosttheireffectiveness,arealsoimportant.Itwillbeimportanttothinkoftheseasyouapproachthenewschoolyearaswell.
More than bacteria and virusesIn addition to infections, just like during the schoolyear,thereisahigheroccurrenceofheadlice.Licearetiny(2–4mm);layeggscalled‘nits’thatsticktightlytothehairshaft;andsometimescausealotofitching.
Headlicecanbetreatedusinganover-the-countershampoosuchasNixorRid.Parentswhopreferadrug-freeapproachcantrysuffocatingthelicebycoveringthechild’sentirescalpwithmayonnaiseatnightandthenrinsingitoffinthemorning.Washingclothesandbed-dingcanalsohelppreventrecurrences.
Themostimportantpartoftreatment,though,istopainstakinglycombthehairwithafine-toothedcomb,lookingforanycrittersornits.Myownrecommenda-tionwhenanitisseenistocutoutthehairshaft.
Topreventinfestationsfromoccurringtobeginwith,childrenshouldbetaughtnottosharecaps,combsorhairbrusheswithothers.
Avoiding injuriesKidscanalsohaveahighriskof injury–especially ifthey are participating in sports. And, by remainingphysicallyactiveoverthesummer,theywillbeinbetterphysicalconditionandlesslikelytohurtthemselvesinsports.Mostpediatriciansrecommendchildrenget25–30minutesofvigorousplayeveryday.
Addingwalkingorbikingwhileonvacationortoasummer activity can also increase a child’s risk of ac-cident or injury. Wear brightly colored clothing and,forbikers,alwayswearahelmet.Thiscanhelpavoidaninjury. Whether they are walking or riding, childrenshouldalwaysbetaughttoobservetrafficruleslikeus-ingacrosswalkandstoppingatintersections.
Staying healthyThemost important tips for ahealthy life are the sim-plest:Getplentyofsleepandeatanourishingdiet–eveninthesummertime!
Youngchildrenneed9–10hoursofsleepandteen-agersneed8–9.Ahealthydietminimizessalt,sugar,andanimalfatintakeandemphasizesfruits,vegetablesandwholegrains.
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HavingaSafeSummer by Arnold Blustein, MD
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Let the Children Come to MeFor ten years, Elaine Taylor has been running a very special camp deep in the woods of Livermore. We need her to run it for at least ten more years. by Everard G. Strong
IfyouarenotfamiliarwithCampArroyoorTheTaylorFamilyFoundation(TTFF)thatrunsthesummer-longcampsdeepinthehillsofLivermore,
it’shardtonotsuckinyourbreathandholdinatearasthefullexpanseofwhatisoffered—andtowhom—becomesevident.EachsummerTTFFcommandeersCampArroyo,astate-of-the-artrecreationalfacilityjointlydevelopedandoperatedbytheEBPRDandTTFF,andhostsweek-longcampsthatcatertogroupsofchildrenwhoaredealingwithlifethreateningorchronicillnessordevelopmentaldisabilities.Foroneweek,kidscometoCampArroyotobekidsandenjoy(asmuchaspossible)alifeawayfromtheirlives.Foroneweekchildrenaretreatedtothebestfood,activities,sleepingquarters,andattentiontheycouldwant.Allofitisfree—nocamperortheirfamiliespayapennyforwhathasoftenbeenalife-changingexperience.
BehindCampArroyoandTTFFsitsElaineTaylor,thoughitisraretoactuallyfindhersittingdown.Withanarmyofvolunteersandasmallbutdedicatedstaff,Elainescheduleseachcampandappropriatemedicalneeds,keepsintouchwithfamilies,coordinatesdailylife,entertainsthetroops,andactsasMommywhenneeded.Andthenthere’stheplanningfortheirbigannualfund-raisingevent,ADayinthePark(theyskippedtheeventin2009becauseoftheeconomyandtoalsofocusonthisyear’sanniversary).
2010marksadoubleanniversaryforElaine:TheTaylorFamilyFoundationcelebratestwentyyears,andCampArroyoisseeingitstenthseason.Tomarkthisoccasion,wedecidedtosit(thoughnotreally…seeabove)withElaineandgetabetterglimpseofthewomanbehindthesmilesweseeonsomanycampers’faces.
Why did you found the Taylor Family Foundation? Was there a catharsis, a “vision” where you decided this is what you wanted to do?
Therewasnopersonalissue.Barry(Taylor,herhusband)andIwerelivingaprettyblessedlifeandwebothfeltthatifyouareabletogiveback,thenyou
should.AllIreallywantedtodoisgodowntothelocalhospitalandrockbabieswithAIDS,butIalsorealizedthatsuchactionswouldn’tchangemanylivesormakearealdifferenceinhowtheneedsofthesechildrenwerebeingaddressed.BarryandIcofoundedTTFFtohelpchildrenlocallywhowereinneedofresourcesthattheycouldnotget,tokeepthemoneyhereintheBayAreaandmakesurewemonitoredeverydime,sothatnofundswouldgotowaste...wewantedtopoureverycentintothekidsandtheirneeds.
Was there anything in your background that had led you to this path, given you the tools needed to set up and direct the Foundation (and Camp Arroyo)?
Myfolksweregivers,theyhelpedanyonewhoneededit.Theyweretrulyauthenticwhenitcametocaringandgiving,andtheytaughtmeandencouragedmetotreatpeoplehowyouwanttobetreated:ifyoucanhelpthenyoumusthelp.ThenImetBarry—probablythekindestmostgivingmanontheplanet—andhegavemethefreedomtojourneydownthispathwithoutanyrestraints.Hejoinedmeonthispathandwebelievedinwhatweweredoingwithourheartsandourminds.Andnowitstwentyyearslaterandwestillbelievethatwecanmakeadifference,andI’dliketothinkthatwewalkthetalk.But,andletmebeveryclearonthispoint:wedidnotdothisalone,withoutourfamily,friends,community,andcampersnoneofthiswouldhavehappened.
How did Camp Arroyo come from this initial vision and Foundation?
InitiallywewerejustfundingmedicalprogramsforchildrenwithHIV/Aids.Webecameveryawareofhowthekids’andfamilies’socialneedswerebeingputonthebackburner.Campisaverycriticalpartofshar-ingcommunity.Theideaofacamppeakedourinter-estandwethought,hecklet’sjustbuildacampandletthemcomeandbekids.Wesuredidn’trealizewhatwasinvolved,andwecountourluckycharmsthattheEast
The title of this article was taken from
Matthew 19:14 (NIV) “Let the little children
come to me, and do not hinder them,
for the kingdom of heaven belongs to
such as these.”
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BayRegionalParkspartneredwithussothatwecansharethisamazingspacewiththem(thelandownerofCampArroyoistheEBRPD.ItwasfundedoriginallybyTTFF,EBRPDandtheStateofCalifornia.Itisop-eratedandfacilitatedbytheYMCAoftheEastBay.)
Give us a peek at your first days in the FoundationItwasscary.Iwassoinsecureaboutpeoplewanting
tosupportthemission,thattheywouldwanttohelpHIV/Aidskids,thattheywouldlookatTTFFlikeweweretoosmall.Thosefirstmonths,thephonewasnotringing.Iwascallingpeople,butnobodywascallingback.Itrulybelievedthatifpeoplereallyknewwhatweweredoing,realizedhowmanychildreninourbackyardshadnoresources,theywouldpositivelyrespondandtheydid.Ifyoujustkeeptellingyourstoryenoughtimes,peoplewillstarttohearyou...theystartingseeingthingsthattheyhadnevernoticedbefore.MymentorsandinspirationinthebeginningwereElizabethGlaser(ElizabethGlaserPediatricAIDSFoundation)andMarloThomas(St.JudeChildren’sResearchHospital),womenwhoreallybelievedinwhattheyweredoing.Todayit’swomenlikeAngieCoffee(localbusinessleader),GigiMcMillan(WeCan,PediatricBrainTumorNetwork),Dr.AnnPetru(Children’sHospitalOakland),andDr.DianeWara(UCSFChildren’sHospital),allwomenwhoreallyputitoutthereanddon’ttakenoforananswer.
You see children at their happiest, and you’ve seen what disease and suffering can do to a child. Do you believe in God (or a God)?
Ibelievethereissomethingoutthereawholelotbiggerthanme,andthatthisspirithassetdestiniesforallofus.SomedaysIamveryspiritualanddoalotofprayingtotheheavens.SomedaysIamfrustratedbywhattheheavenshavedishedout.
You are celebrating twenty years with TTFF and ten years with Camp Arroyo. What are some of the most difficult obstacles you’ve faced with both? Keepingthingsstableintoday’sworldhasbeenthehardest.Wantingtokeepourprogramsintacthasdemandedthatwedothesameworkwithsmallerbudgets,whichhasledTTFFtoreducesomeofourworkforce.Thisdecisionthenmeansthatourdedicatedemployeesnowtakeonevenmoreofaworkload.Thoughworkinginanon-profit,one’smentalityof“workload”isdifferent.Onehastobuyintothemissionofthenon-profittoworkforthem,becausetheworkloadisheavyandyoujusthavetoloveittoappreciatewhyyouaredoingit.It’simportantformeandmyteamtogouptocampandmixwiththegroupsandseethechildrengettingtobejustkids.Seeingandexperiencingthatmakesyoucomebackdownandconfirmswhyyouaredoingit,whyyouareworkingsohard.
Where there days where you just wanted to crawl into a ball and wish it all away?
Duringthedaysofconstruction,Ijustcouldnotwrapmyheadaroundwhythingstooksolong.SoIstarteddoubting,askingmyselfwhatwasIthinking?Whydidwethinkwecouldevendothis?
What brought you back down and kept you going?
Iamabigbelieverinwhateverhappenswasandisameanttobe.So,whileIcanmakealltheplansIwant,theexpression“IfyouwanttomakeGodlaughmakeplans”isalwaysrattlingaroundinmybrain.
What difficult obstacles do you face today?Oneofthebiggestisnotturningkidsandfamilies
away.Almosteverygroupisfullandhasawaitinglist.Thereisnowayforustoexpand,sowegetcreative:havemoreweekendcampgroups,makeallcampsadayshorter,allowingustosqueezeinyetanothernewcampwiththosefewextradays.WorkingwiththeYMCAoftheEastBay,ourexcellentfacilitator,touseanysparedayswhenpossible.
Have you thought of expanding or splitting the Camp to include another location, maybe in the South Bay or San Joaquin county?
No,No,andNo.Weareatinynon-profitwithfourtotalemployees,weareatcapacityforwhatwecando,Iwouldnotwanttodiluteourprogramsbytryingtoexpand.WhatIwouldreallylovetohavehappenisfora37-yearoldwomanwithanamazingamountofenergytocometomeandaskmehowshecandoherownversionofwhatwedo.Iwouldlovetogiveherthecookiecutterversion.LordknowstherearesomanymorechildrenjustintheEastBaywhoneedtohavetheCampArroyoexperience,therearejustnotenoughcamperspacesheretoaccommodatethem.
How do you balance the good with the bad that comes with the nature of these camps?
Therearejustsomanystoriesthathaveleftsuchamarkonme.Wehavehadthesaddestofcircumstanceswhereachildwillhangontolifejusttoattendcampandthenpassawayadayordayslater.Campmeantthatmuchtothem,eventhoughtheywerenotanactiveparticipant…theywerethere,seatedintheircommunity,filledwithloveandcomfort,knowingalltoowellthatthiswouldbetheirlasttimewiththisgroupwhodoesnotjudgeandonlygiveslove.Thosemomentsripmyheartoutofmychest.TheyarethemomentsthatmakemegratefulthatIgettobeatinypieceofthiscommunity.
ThentherearethemomentswhenIstopinatlunchtotheExceptionalNeedsNetworkgroup.ThisgroupcoverstheentireAutisticSpectrumandchildrenwithDevelopmentalDisabilities.Someofthesechildrenareseverelyimpairedandothersarenot.Someofthesechildrenaresooutgoingandgregariousand
What does a twenty dollar
donation do for the Taylor Family
Foundation or Camp Arroyo?
Twenty dollars allows for a great
day of meals, another life jacket to be purchased,
a great evening of smores at the
campfire, and support for our field
trips. (For further validation, their
990’s are online).
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When was the first Day in the Park held? How has it grown since then? Our first event was held in 1990. It was a little event in our front yard to help children with HIV/Aids get some very important funding for the clinical and social programs. It has since grown to help children with brain tumors, childhood cancer, heart disease, skin disease, diabetes, autism and developmental disabilities, hemophilia, sickle cell, asthma, HIV/Aids, Chrons, colitis and irritable bowel, celiac disease, preschool burn survivors, bi-polar disorder, bereavement issues, congenital hand and limb issues, and epilepsy. From a small and humble beginning we have grown to a large and humble network for such a broad base of children right here in our community. It’s because of Day in the Park that we have been able to do this, because our community is beyond generous at this event.
How long does your team prep for the Day in the Park? The day DITP is over is the day we start in for the next one. A whole year’s worth of very talented volunteers come in and put labels on 4,000 mailers, uncork 500 bottles of wine and champagne, assemble 3,000 goodies bags, run over 1,000 feet of hoses and electrical cords, wash over 10,000 dishes and wine glasses, fold over 4,100 T-shirts and the list goes on…. With out these volunteers, we could not do or be who we are!
What’s the minimum operating budget needed to operate a full schedule of camps for one year? Approximately one million dollars.
This year’s Day in the Park takes place on August 29 from 11:30 AM to 5:30 PM. Tickets and more information available online at www.ttff.org.
Elements of this interview were cut due to
space limitations. Subscribers to Bay Area
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othersaresopainfullyinhibited.Yetwhenthemusiccomesonafterlunch,anditis“YMCA”bytheVillagePeople(andit’salways“YMCA”),mostofthesechildren—throughtheencouragementoftheiramazingcounselors—willgetuponstageandsinganddancewithjoy.Hereatcamptheyarefreetobewhoandwhattheyare:childrenfilledwithexcitement,spirit,joy,laughter,andasenseofpride.Itisatcampthatthefeelingofbelongingtrulyexists,fromthecounselorstotheirpeerstothestaff,everyoneisuponstagedancingandlaughingand,cornyasitmaysound,theyarespreadingthelove.
AsIlookbackonthesetenyearsofcampandtwentyyearsasafoundation,Iwouldthankthesunandthemoonand
starsforthegiftofbeingabletospendalmostathirdofmylifeinthepresenceofthesegloriouschildren.
What’s your definition of childhood?Lifewithoutworry,freeofillness,total
acceptance,andabundantjoyandlove.BAK
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RISING STAR
Parenthood’sTyreeBrown by Elyssa Lee
Do you know of a young friend or family
member making a name for themselves
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After wanting to be an actor all his life, 6-year-old
Tyree Brown has finally gotten his first big break,
starring as Jabbar Trussell in the increasingly
popular new NBC drama, Parenthood, set in
Berkeley. We sat down with the Sacramento
native to talk about his busy life now that he’s a
star, having fun with his “pretend” parents on the
set, and how he’s a changed man now that he’s
turned the big 0-6.
So, Parenthood. How did it come about?IdidanauditioninSanFranciscoandthenthat’showIgot
inParenthood.Mymommyanddaddyjumpedupanddown.ButIstartedactingwhenIwas3.
You did? How did you get started in acting?MysisterMackenziewasbiggerthanme—she’s10andI’m6—
andshewasanactor.Shedoesmodeling,too.AndwhenIwatchedherdohermodeling,itlookedreallyfun.SomymomtookpicturesofmeandsentthemtoJE[Model,aSanFranciscoagency],andtheylikedme.I’vedonetheBarn[PotteryBarnKids].IdidaStateFaircommercial—meandmysister.Wehadapretendgrandpaandgrandma.Wegottogoonrides.
And now you’re going to be on TV. That’s really cool.Yeah.IlikeParenthood.Ilikemypretenddadandmom[played
byDaxShepardandJoyBryant].IlikehuggingDax.[Basedonthehit’80smovieofthesamename,theshowchroniclestheimperfectlifeoftheBravermanfamily.TyreeplaysJabbar,thesonofcommitmentphobeCrosbyBraverman(Shepard).]
Are they like your real mom and dad or different?They’redifferent.DaxiswhiteandJoyisbrown.[Tyree’smom,
Renee,iswhiteandhisfather,MacArthur,isblack.]
What do you like about being on set at Parenthood?Thedonuts.Iliketheglazedones.Andlicorice.Ilikedone
scenebecauseIgottoplayCandyLand.DoyouhaveCandyLand?It’smyfirst[favoritegame]—Ilikebeingaperson.
You’re in kindergarten. How do you memorize your lines?
[MymomandI]workonthelinesathome.Idohomeschooling.Ilikehomeschool.Ilikemymomteachingmeandmydadteachingme.IlikecallingmymomMs.Reneeand[wearing]myjammies.
What’s the hardest word you’ve had to memorize so far?
“Intolerant.”Itmeansthatyou’resick.Itwasforacarscene—I’minthescenewithmydadandI’mintoleranttosomething[lactose].
That is a big word. But you’re a big boy now—you just turned 6. What’s going to be different about being 6 versus 5?
I’mgoingtostopwhining.SometimesI’mcrazy—Igethyper.AndIdon’t[liketo]eatvegetables,butI’mgoingtoeatvegetables.AndnowIdon’tneedacarseat.
Speaking of car seat, do you drive or fly when you have to go down to L.A. to shoot Parenthood?
Drive.ButIlikeflying.IlikegoingonanairplanebecauseIamreallyhighupandIcanlookoutthewindowandsay,“Whoa,lookatthat!”
Do you like L.A.?Yeah,cuzofAustin[hiscousin,who
livesthere].He’sababy.Hejustturned3.Sohe’sababy,buthecangopeebyhimself.
You visit L.A. but you live in the Sacramento area. Where?
InElkGrove.Inabighouse—wehaveanupstairsandadownstairs.MyfirstbestfriendEvanlivesnextdoor.He’sreallycool.IlikehisWiigames.
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What else do you like to do for fun?IliketogotoToys‘R’Us.Idosoccer.
AndIlikeboxing.I[also]liketackling.I’magoodtackler.SoIwanttoplayfootball.IwanttolearnfootballwhenI’m21.Ilikeswimmingtoo.WhenIwas3,IlearnedhowtoridemybikeandIlearnedhowtoswim—withoutthefloaties.WhenIwas5,therewasagirlthatwas6andIbeatherinswimming.
Wow. Back to acting, you’re on a TV show. Do you want to be in a movie?
Yeah,IwanttobeinanIronManmovie.Hecanshoot[repulsorrays]andhecanfly.ButIhavetobe16becausehelooksveryold.
Do you think you’ll want to act when you grow up or do something else?
Iwanttodosomethingelse.
What do you want to do?BeIronMan!Ihavethecostume.OrI
wanttobeadoctor.Iwanttogotothehos-pitalandhelppeople.
That’s great. And finally, now that you’re a big Hollywood star, I have to ask: Do you have a girlfriend?
Yes.Frompreschool.HernameisBrayden.She’sinfirstgradenow.Herhairiscurly.It’slikemymommy’shair—blonde—butcurly.Welikeplayingwithblocks.
This interview originally appeared in Sactown Magazine (www.sactownmag.com). Reprinted by permission of the author and publisher.
“IlikedonescenebecauseIgottoplayCandyLand.DoyouhaveCandyLand?It’smyfavoritegame—Ilikebeingaperson.”
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28greenliving
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Sugar CaneKidsintheCaribbeanroutinelysnapoffapieceofsugarcane,peelofftheouterhusk,andgnawonthestalkforajuicy,sweettreat.Youcanmakeyourbackyardthego-todes-tinationfortheneighborhood’schildrenbyheadingtoanethnicproducemarketandpurchasingacanetopropagateyourownstand.Cutthestalkintopieces,butnotatthejoints.Thejointsarewheretherootssprout;lookforthetell-talecircles.
Burythesectionsafewinchesdeepinrich,moistsoil.Withinacoupleofweeks,rootswillappear.Anewstalkwon’tbefarbehind.Plantscaneitherbestartedinpotsindoorsor,ifit’satleast60Fatnight,di-rectlyoutside.
Sugarcanesharesmanycharacteristicswithbamboo.Astandofthesweetstuffcandoubleasanaturalprivacyscreen,duetoitsup-to-12feetinheightandplantdensi-ty.Plantsintherightconditionsgrowfast,andself-propagaterapidly.Afirstharvestcanbereadyinayeartoeighteenmonths.
Toeat,carefullysliceabout1/8thinchintoasectionofstalk,downitslength.Pullawaytheoutersurfacetochewonthefi-bersbeneath.Stalkscanalsobeslicedintoskewersforasweetsurpriseshishkebab.Toextractthesugar,crushthefiberstoextractthejuice,coverinwaterandboil.Extractthepulp,andboildownthejuiceuntilitcrystallizesintobrownsugar.
Thereareacoupleofnoteworthycau-tionstogrowingsugarcane.Thisplantdoesbestintropicalandsubtropicalzones,soplacethemsomewhereoutofthewind,infullsun,wheretheywillenjoyasmuchwarmthaspossible.Also,warnthekidsthattheleavesaresharpandcancutun-protectedskin.
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Sugar BeetsDon’tjudgeabeetbyitscover.Sugarbeetslooklikebland,off-whiteparsnips,butlooksaredeceiving.Onaverage,asinglebeetcontainsthreeteaspoonsofpuresugar.Thekidswon’thaveanytroubleeatingtheirveg-giesiftheseareonthemenu!
Inthespring,direct-seedsugarbeetsinloosesoil.Thinseedlingstothreeinchesapartwhenplantsareafewincheshigh.Enjoythegreensinsaladsduringthesummermonths.Theseareverynutritious,thoughnotverysweet.Allowtheweathertogetchillybeforehar-vestinginthefall,ifpossible,asthatwillbestdevelopthesugarsintheroots.
Washthebeetswell;soilaccumulatesineverycrev-ice.Sugarbeetsarebestenjoyedtossedinoliveoilandroasteduntilsoft.Cookingbringsouttheflavor;therootdoesn’ttasteverygoodraw.
It’seasiertoextractsugarfrombeetsthanfromcane.Cuttherootsintosmallpieces,coverwithwaterandboiluntilsoft.Reservethejuicesolutionandboilitdowntoathirdofitsoriginalvolume.Scrapecrystalsoutofthecooledliquid.Boilagain,untiltheliquidisgone,torecoverthelastcrystals.Thesugarwillnotbeperfectlypure,butitwillbesweet!
GingerAdmittedly,freshgingerisn’tsweetinandofitself,butcandiedinsugaritmakesadelightfulhomegrowncon-fection.It’salsoabeautiful,aromaticplant,withspear-tipshapedleavesandcane-likestalks,fromwhichdeli-cate,colorfulflowersemerge.Brushpastthisplantandbreatheinthespice.
Growinggingerstartswithafreshrhizome,commonlycalledthe“root,“availableinsupermarkets.Selectplump,moist,thin-skinnedpieces.Soakthemovernightbeforeplanting.Gingerlikeswarmtemperaturesandmoist,warmsoiloutofdirectsunlight.Buryrhizomesinandinchortwoofsoil.Sproutingoccursfromprotrusionscalledgrowthbuds.
Harvestrhizomesforthekitchenonceayear,andreplant.GingercangrowoutsideintheBayArea.Pottedplantsalsothriveinsunnywindowsills,sogardenersincoolerclimescanenjoythem,too.
Tocandyginger,selectathick,plump,freshrhizome.Peelandcutintorazor-thinslices.Putaboutacupofthesliceswithtwocupsofsugarandatablespoonofwaterintoaskillet.Simmergentlyforaboutanhour,stirringoccasionallytoseparatepiecesandkeepthemfromburning.Lettheslicescrystallize,butremovethemfromheatbeforetheycarmellize.
Usethecandiedgingerincakes,asagarnish,ascandybyitselfordippedinchocolateforextradecadence.
Vegetablegardeningisallaboutgrowingfoodsyourfamilywillactuallyenjoy,andinstillingthisgreenhealthyhabitinthenextgeneration.Cultivatingalittlefunalongsidethesuperiornutritionoffresh,organicproducewillcertainlyencouragelittlehandstogetdirty!
Elise Cooke is the author of the award-winning TheGroceryGar-den, HowBusyPeopleCanGrowCheapFood. Visit her website at SimpletonSolutions.com.
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SIZZLING SUMMER RECIPES
SensationalSliders
Dishes with smaller serving sizes are currently the rage atoutdoorbarbeques,andofferguestsmoretastestochoosefrom.Giveguestspetiteportionsofclassicbarbequefavor-
iteslikesliders,minichickensandwiches,orhotdogbites.Hereisadeliciousrecipethatwillbesuretokeepyourfriends
andfamilytalkingaboutyoursummerbarbequeallyearlong.
Blue Cheese Sliders Makes:6servings 1lb groundbeef Steakseasoning(2-ouncecontainer) 4oz ouncesbluecheese 12 dinnerrolls1Tbs vegetableoil2Tbs oliveoil
Hand press ground beef on a cutting board until flattened toapproximately2inches.Usinga2-inchroundcookiecutter,cut-outthesliderpattiesandlightlyseasoneach.Setaside.
Heatbarbequetomediumheatandcoatthegrillrackwithvegetableoil.Brownthepattiesbycookingfor4-5minutes,allowingeachsideto cook for about twominutes.When thepatties are almostdone,topeachwithbluecheese.Removethepattiesfromthegrilloncethecheeseismelted.Splitrollsandlightlybrushtheinsideswitholiveoilbefore toastingonthegrill surface(brushed-sidedown).Placepattiesinthetoastedrollsandserve.
Here are a few ideas to help you throw a sensational summer soiree.
Guard Your Guests: Shield your guests from the summer heat by setting up a large umbrella over the patio table, place chairs under trees for shade or have an outdoor fan running. When the sun sets, make sure the party is well lit by hanging festive lanterns and deter pesky insects with citronella candles. Keep Cool Knowing You’re Prepared: To fully enjoy the day, plan in advance as much as possible. Be sure to stock up on supplies like plates, napkins, utensils and ice. Get charcoal or refill the propane tank beforehand, and clean and season the grill rack the morning of your barbeque.
Create Hot Spots: Make different areas of interest around your yard to prevent everyone from congregating in one place. Put your bar opposite of where you’re serving the food. Set up games for both children and adults to encourage movement around the party and interaction with each other.
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SIZZLING SUMMER RECIPES
TropicalFruitPizzaMakes12servingsone18oz rollrefrigeratedready-to-slicesugarcookiedough 1/3C sugar one8oz packagefat-freecreamcheese 1tsp coconutextract 1-1/2tsp gratedorangerind 1C fat-freefrozenwhippedtopping,thawedone26oz jarmangoslices,drained,or2freshmangoes,sliced 16oz pineappleslices,drained,or1freshpineapple,sliced 11oz mandarinorangesegments,drained 1/2C apricotpreserves 2Tbs orangeliqueurororangejuice 2Tbs coconut,toasted,optional
Preheatoven3500F.Presscookiedoughintoa12to14-inchpizzapancoatedwithnonstickcookingspray.Bake12minutes,coolcompletely.Inmediummixingbowl,blendtogethersugar,creamcheese,coconutextractuntilwellmixed.Stirinorangerindandwhippedtop-ping,mixinguntilsmooth.Spreadcreamcheesemixtureontopofcooledcrust.
Arrangemangoslicesaroundedgeoficedpizza.Then,arrangepineappleslicesaroundedge.Next,arrangemandarinorangeslicesinanotherringtofillcenterofpizza.
Insmallsaucepanorinmicrowave,heatapricotpreservesandorangeliqueurjustun-tilmelted.Spoonglazeoverfruit.Sprinklewithtoastedcoconut,ifdesired.Refrigerateuntilserving.
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WatermelonandTomatoSaladMakes10(1/2-cup)servings 4C scoopedoutwatermelonballsorchunks 1/2C choppedredonion 1pt cherrytomatoes,halved 2Tbs freshchoppedbasil 1Tbs oliveoil 2Tbs balsamicvinegar Salttotaste 1/3C crumbledreducedfatfetacheese,optionalInbowl,combinewatermelon,onion,tomatoesandbasil.Whiskto-getheroilandvinegarandtosswithsalad.Seasontotaste.Refriger-ateuntilserving.
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Sundaes101
Whena trip to the icecreamparlor isn’t in thecards,bring the icecreamparlorhomewithDIYsundaes!Makingtheperfectsundaemightlooklikeaheftytask,yetwithalittlecreativitythisall-Americandessertisoneoftheeasiesttomake.By
offeringanassortmentoficecreamflavorsandtoppings,everyoneinthefamilycanconcocttheirownpersonalizedcombinations.
Thereisnowrongwaytocraftthisicecreamdessert,butreadonfortipsthatwillhelpyourecreatetheicecreamparlorinyourkitchen.
Dishes.Glassbowlsaretraditionalfavorites,butbeimaginativeandrummagethroughyourforgottendishestofindsomethingspecial.Chillthedishesfor30minutesinthefreez-ertokeeptheicecreamfrommeltingwhilecreatingyoursundae.
Icecream.Pickicecreamflavorsthatgowelltogetherorusevanilla,whichtastesgreatwitheverything.Scooptheicecreamwithaslightlywarmedmetalscooptomakeiteasier.
Mix-ins.Fromcrushedcookiestogummybears,thereisnolimittowhatcangoinasun-dae.Fruitandchocolatechipsarepopular toppingsand toastednutsprovidea crunchiertexture.Createamix-inbuffetbyplacingallthegoodiesonthekitchencounterwithabowlandaspoonforeach.
Toppings.Oncedishesarefilledwithicecreamandmix-ins,drizzlesyrupovertop.Car-amel,chocolate,strawberry,peppermintandEnglishtoffeearepopularchoices.Don’tforgetthewhippedcreamandcherry,ifdesired.Sprinkles,maltpowderandmintleavesmakegoodfinishingtouchesaswell.
Digin!Long-handledspoonsaregreat—theyareidealforscoopingouteverything,rightdowntothebottom.Andrememberkidslovecolorfulspoonswithfunnycharactersormo-tifsonthem.
Trythesesundaerecipesforcreativecombinations
TurtleSundaeMakes4servings 4 31/2-inchwafflebowls 5C turtlesundaeicecream 16 chocolateTurtlecandies assortedcandy,forfacialfeaturesone1.50z packagechocolatecoveredcrispwaferstickcandy, (suchasPepperidgeFarmPirouettes)
Formfourscoopsoficecreamandsetaside.Filleachwafflebowlwithremainingicecream.Placeeachwafflebowlicecreamsidedownonanindividualdessertplate.Placeeachofthefouricecreamscoopsthatweresetasideagainsteachwafflebowlfortheturtles’heads.Arrangefourturtlecandypiecespartiallyunderthebottomofeachwafflebowltoformtheturtles’legs.Pressassortedcandypiecesintoicecreamscoopsforeyesandmouth.Placeonechocolatewaferstickpartiallyunderwafflebowlfortail.Serveimmediately.
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CaribbeanSundaeMakes4servings 1/2C cupcannedcrushedpineappleinjuice,drained 1/2C cupchoppedmango,thawediffrozen 2C cupsvanillaicecream 8tsp teaspoonsunsweetenedshreddedcoconut,toasted 1tsp teaspoongratedlimepeel 4 freshlimeslices
Placeonetablespooncrushedpineappleandonetablespoonchoppedmangointoeachoffoursmallparfaitglasses.Topwithquartercupicecream.Sprinklewithoneteaspoonoftoastedcoconut.Repeatlayering.Topeachparfaitwithone-fourthteaspoongratedlimepeel.Garnishrimofeachparfaitglasswithasliceoflime.Serveimmediately.
CinnamonBunHotAppleSundaeMakes8servings 1 4-inchfrostedcinnamonroll 31/2C cupsvanillaicecream,softened 1/2C cupglazedwalnuts 21oz applepiefilling 1/2C cupbutterscotch-carameltopping glazedwalnuts,optional
Cutcinnamonrollintohalf-inchpieces;setasidequartercupfortopping.Combinethreecupsoficecream,cinnamonrollpieces(notreservedamount)andhalfcupglazedwalnutsinlargebowl;gentlymixtocombine.Freezeatleasttwohours.Warmapplepiefillinginmicrowave-safecontainerorinsmallsaucepanovermedium-lowheat.Spoonaboutone-thirdcupapplepiefillingintoeightservingbowls.Topeachbowlwithonescoop(scanthalfcup)oftheicecream.Drizzleeachwithonetablespoonbutterscotch-carameltopping,severalpiecesofreservedcinnamonrollandglazedwalnuts,ifdesired.Serveimmediately.
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Flag Festivities CupcakesMakes24cupcakes
1 package(18.25oz)cakemix Egg,oilandwatertopreparemix1/2 cupred,whiteandbluenonpareils,sprinklemixes,or jimmies,divided 3 cupsready-to-usewhitedecorator icingorbuttercreamicing 24 four-inchlollipopsticks 24 PatrioticFlagsicingdecorations
Preheatovento350degrees.Placebakingcupsinstandardmuffinpan.
Inlargebowl,preparecakemixfollowingpackageinstructions.Stirinuptoquartercupsprinkles;spoonintobakingcups.Bake18-20minutesoruntiltoothpickinsertedintocenterorcupcakecomesoutclean.Coolcompletely.
Smoothicingovercupcakes;addremainingsprinkles.Insertlollipopsticksintocupcakes;attachicingdecorationswithstifficing.
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SIZZLING SUMMER RECIPES
July4Cupcakes
These all-American cupcakes are festively adorned in red,white,andblue fromtop tobottom,beginningwith star-studdedOldGlorybakingcups all thewayup to thewav-
ingflag.Theypromisetobepatrioticallypleasingforall—kidsandadultsalike.
Thecupcakescanbeanyflavor,madefromamixorfromscratch.Icewithwhitebuttercreamtocreateacanvasforstar-spangleddeco-rating fun.For a surprise in everybite, fold red,white, andbluenonpareils,sprinklemixesor jimmiesintothecupcakebatterjustbeforefillingthebakingcups.Useuptoone-fourthcupforatwo-layercakemix.Nowthey’repatrioticinsideandout.
Tomakeaflagpoleforthecandyflagtopper,simplyinsertalol-lipopstickintothecupcakeandattachtheflagicingdecorationwithstiffbuttercream.Orusestarsandstripespartypicksorpatrioticfoilpixtotopthecupcakeinsteadofthecandyflag.Eitherway,theywillbeaperfecttributetotheoccasion.
Cupcakescanbebaked,sprinkledandiceduptoonedayinad-vance;storecoveredatroomtemperature.Topwiththeflagjustbe-foreserving.To order star-spangled decorations, or for additional holiday, special occasion and everyday celebration ideas, visit www.wilton.com.
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Great things come in clusters, or so they say.Take birthdays. They’re supposed to be acauseforcelebration,whetherit’syourchild’s
or your own.Who doesn’t appreciate a spread of cakeandicecreamaccompaniedbypilesofbrightlywrappedpresents?Yet,everyfamilyIknowhasacertainmonthin their arsenal plastered with birthday obligations.Mineisnoexception.
We have a concentrated two week period aroundthe beginning ofMay that boasts seven birthdays andcapsoffwithMother’sDay.Don’tgetmewrong,I lovebirthdays.ThisiswhenIcelebratemyfirstson’sbirth—the anniversary of my stumble intomotherhood; thisis when I celebrate my birthday, My mom’s birthday,severalnieces’,andabrother-in-law’s.Andthenthere’sMother’sDay...butseriously,whohasthestaminaforthat after twoweeksofmarathoncakebaking,presentsearching,andpartyplanning?
Thisyear,asIattempttoeveryyear,Ivowedtomakethingssimpler.
ForBobby’sseventhbirthday,Ibackedawayfrommyfamily-only party policy and allowed him to have thebuddybirthday.Istucktomygunsaboutnotmakingitoneofthosechaoticbashesinvitinghisentireclassroomand dropping amortgage payment on bounce houses,cateredfoods,andoverpricedpresents.Unfortunately,Ididn’t realize that justbecausewe threwhimapartyto share with friends, I couldn’t cancel the ensuingcelebrationswithvariousfamilymembers.
Our birthday journey started one Friday eveningwith tenofhisbuddiesat the localbowlingalley.Onething I got right: the choiceof venue. Itwas relativelycheapcomparedtothetemptingkiddiegymsandvideoarcades, and it ensured I wouldn’t have ten wild firstgradersscramblingaroundmyhouse.
Inlessthantwohours,thekidstossedmulticoloredbowlingballs,attemptedtosurfdownthe laneswhentheythoughtweweren’twatching,giggledovercheesepizzaandlemonade,andOohedandAhhhedoverthedalmatiandogcake thatI laboredoverallafternoon.Round one of birthday week madness had been arousingsuccess.
Sincewedidn’tinvitefamilymembers,wehitapizzaparlorafewnightslatertohookupwiththein-laws.Thenextmorning, forBobby’s “real”birthday, Iwokeupat the crackofdawn to spell outhisname inpancakebatter,andfryupeggsandsausage,onlytohavehimand
hislittlebrotherlicksyrupofftheirplatesanddeclareittooearlyforabigbreakfast.
Let’snot forget the lastminute trip to the grocerystore for cupcakes to bring to his classroom.Oh, andtheballoons;whatisabirthdaywithoutballoons?Thenwe opened presents after school with justMom, Dad,andBrother,alongwithatriptoMcDonald’sfordinner.
Two days later, we set out on yet another Bobby-themed celebration to Chevy’s with another set ofgrandparents.
Sundayprovedtobeamuch-neededdayofrestforthesewearyparents.Right.Thinkagain.
Another celebration seemed like a fabulous idea, afamilyBBQforBobbyandhistwocousinswhofallintoourbirthdaycluster.
The day called for another baking binge withrainbow sprinkle cupcakes and brownies. The cakebatterwasstartingtogivemehallucinations.
It was at this party that my siblings asked what,pray tell,did Iwant todo formyupcomingbirthday?I mumbled about just wanting some quiet time andhavingnoresponsibilityforplanninganotherbirthdaycelebration.
Thenwereturnedhometounwindafter thechaos…onlytohaveBobbydelveintohisnewestpresentfromus: a drum set.Themarathon cake bakingmust haverattledmylogicalthinkingabilities.Somuchforpeace.Andquiet.
Meanwhile,littlebrotherShanedrankinthenearlytwoweekbirthdaycelebrationdedicated tohisbrotherandisnowsilentlyplottingastrategyforhisNovemberbirthday.Withanyluck,he’llfigureouthowtodrawhisbirthdaypartyingoutuntilChristmas.
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TheNever-EndingBirthdayMonth
Kelly Pollard is
a TriValley writer and
mother of two boys,
ages five and four.
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