Angel Tree in Narthex –

Nov. 25See back page for more information.

Advent PAUSE – Dec. 2-8

Details on page 5.

Breakfast with Angels – Dec. 8See page 10 for details.

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December 2012volume XXXIV, issue XIII

www.trinitylc.org

Trinity Lutheran Church115 N. Fourth Street, Box 339

Stillwater, MN 55082 651-439-7400

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Sat. & Sun., Dec. 1 & 2 “Opening Doors” Capital Appeal update

following worship services

Sat., Dec. 8, 5 p.m.“Blue Christmas” Worship

Sat. & Sun., Dec. 22 & 23Lessons & Carols – all services

Mark your December calendar

Christmas Eve Worship at 2, 3, 4, 5, 7:30 & 9 p.m.

Families are encouraged to worship together. Nursery not available Christmas Eve.

Christmas Day Worship

10 a.m.

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PASTOR DANP O F F E n B E r G E r

Halloween, Saints, lutefisk, elections & loveI am writing this article on October 31, deadlines being what they are for production, printing and assembly (thanks to the faithful group that comes together every month to assemble the Trinity Today by hand – the prettiest and spunkiest group at Trinity). Yes, that makes today Halloween. Tomorrow, November 1 is the Lutefisk & Meatball Dinner, Sunday is All Saints’ Day and next week is election day. Usually, I try to contribute something to the newsletter that will be happening just as the newsletter arrives, but today, I am focused on these four major events that are in the near future.

Halloween activity is happening as I write. Living in our small neighborhood, with the youngest neighborhood “child” being in college, and our “boys” in their 20s, it is a quiet night. But today, in our offices, there was a parade of children from Lake Area Discovery Center (LADC) that came by in their costumes – princesses, firefighters, puppies, dragons, superheroes (male and female); they were all there and all smiles. LADC is a wonderful partner with Trinity, as together we offer preschool for almost 100 children and their families. It fills this building with happiness (mostly) every Monday through Friday, and is a wonderful faith-based experience with highly-qualified instructors and a great group of parents. I am so proud that we partner with LADC; they are a wonderful, hard-working, faithful

team. We are blessed in every way by their partnership.

All Saints’ Day is celebrated this Sunday. Carol Carver, Phil Kadidlo, the Worship Planning team, and the Fine Arts team do a wonderful job every year of providing us with a holy and special day to remember and give thanks for the saints that have filled our lives. This year will feature a time of candle-lighting and personal reflection that I am looking forward to. Sometimes my life moves too fast, and there is not enough time to center myself to reflect on all of the wonderful people who have inspired me, modeled faith for me and loved me really well. There is so much in life to be grateful for, but most of the significant blessings in my life have come in flesh and blood. You and I now stand in the line of saints, and it is our turn to be saints for those we touch every day. What a privilege that is; what an opportunity to live into. Join me in prayer that you and I might place ourselves in service to those God has given us as family, friend and neighbor.

Lutefisk happens tomorrow. All week, there has been a gathering storm of baking, meatball rolling, coleslaw making, lefse frying, table-setting and lutefisk cooking. Legions of guests come to buy tickets, volunteers bring their creations and donate their time, muscle and good humor to the effort. To be honest, it totally blows me away. What a wonderful

heritage we celebrate! But the best part is to watch all of the generations of Trinity coming together to serve side-by-side. The food may be great, but the community that is cooked up at Lutefisk is the best! Thanks to all who make it happen!

The election will be over (I hope) when you read this. Whoever wins and loses, it is a wonderful country we live in. Freedom to express oneself, freedom to demonstrate, to vote and to worship freely is a treasure. From time to time, excessive partisanship is distressing, and we need to remember we are all in this together. It is important to remember to think well of those we disagree with, and to realize that it is, finally, only politics. No one said it would be easy. After the lawn signs go down, let’s all get together over the backyard fence and work on being the best neighbors we can be, and let our faith talk through our actions. No matter our party, or our votes, we are followers of Jesus; let our unity shine through, and the Spirit move us all to a great witness of love as we “love our neighbors as ourselves.”

I hope this all reads well in hindsight – have a great Thanksgiving!

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MISSIONM i n i S t r i E S

Tom ThietsDirector of Missions

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Over the years I have been asked a lot of questions about Trinity’s mission efforts both locally and globally. Along with the questions about the number of homes built, meals served, or how many school backpacks filled, the question that comes up most often is “How many people have participated in Trinity mission projects over the years?”

My honest answer is “I really don’t know.”

I explain that it’s not a numbers thing here at Trinity. It’s about serving others while living out our faith. Since all are welcome, we have members and non-members that have participated.

I can estimate a rough number of roofs completed in Mexico, or take a stab at the number of folks that have been fed a good meal here in Stillwater or St. Paul, but with the variety of ministries happening here over the years I really don’t have exact totals. That seems to satisfy most of the questions except the one about how many people have participated.

I, too, would like to know who has been involved, not for the number, but for the stories about how each person’s experience affected their faith. The stories of reconnecting to the emotions of the experiences, to the teams and to the community where they served are amazing.

Six months ago a small group of people approached me with a desire to help connect past mission team members. Along with their desire, they brought the energy and commitment to develop a method to reconnect across the decades and a new group was formed: the Trinity Mission Alumni Association (TMAA).

The TMAA was formed to gather mission participants from all Trinity mission ministries, both domestic and global, to celebrate and share the joy of their service. While the when, where, and how we served may vary, the common thread of serving Christ bonds us together.

The TMAA desires to give voice to the multitude of faith-filled stories shaped over several decades of service. Your stories, wisdom and enthusiasm are vital to encouraging and empowering future generations to live out their faith in Jesus Christ through a lifestyle of service.

At worship services on Sunday,

November 18 we are inviting everyone who has participated in a Trinity missions experience to apply and join the Trinity Mission Alumni Association, so we can connect and share your mission story.

TMAA members will be on-hand after the service (wearing their new TMAA blue polo shirts) to answer questions.

You can also apply online at www.trinitylc.org. Scroll to the bottom of the page and click on “Missions Alumni Association” on the left, listed under “Missions & Service.”

Please consider joining the association and helping us reconnect with your team members whether they live near or far around the world.

Blessings,

Tom Thiets

MissionRepresent, serve, and inspire current and future alumni in support of Trinity Missions to Love, Transform, and Serve.

VisionCreating a future where alumni celebrate and actively pass along their personal gratitude, Trinity’s rich mission heritage, and their enthusiasm, to the next generation.

Rich Melheim of Faith InkubatorsTue., Dec. 11, 9 a.m. - Garden RoomRev. Rich Melheim, former pastor at Trinity, is the founder & chief creative officer of Faith Inkubators, a Stillwater-based Christian education systems design think tank and resource provider. In addition to being an entrepreneur, Rich is an author, speaker, playwright, songwriter, and much more. He is a regular speaker and teacher at business, education, church, and family conferences and seminars. His speaking style will make you laugh, cry, and think. As always, coffee and “half donuts” will be available. Contact Jack Nyenhuis at 651-303-7225 or via email at jcnyenhuis@gmail.com with questions.

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Christmas Tour of the Governor’s MansionTue., Dec. 4, 9:15 a.m.Meet in Commons to carpool Free tour at approximately 11a.m. Lunch on your own at WA FrostHave you always wanted to see the inside of the Governor’s Mansion? A Christmas Tour will be extra special this year as we celebrate the 100th anniversary of the mansion. Register online at www.trinitylc.org. Please let us know if you are willing to provide car pooling by calling Julie Jolivette at 439-7400, ext. 108 or via email at jjolivette@trinitylc.org. Contact Kay Sanders at 439-2082 with questions.

active women events

It’s a Wonderful Life, the musicalSun., Dec. 16, 3 p.m.; Tickets: $15North Heights Church Roseville, MNTo sign up and pay for your ticket, please contact Jody Thone at ext. 119 or Julie Jolivette at ext. 108. We will coordinate rides for this event as needed.

MVP: Celebrating SportsmenTue., Nov. 27, 6-8 p.m. Garden RoomEvent price: $25Keynote Speakers: Randy Breuer: Avid pheasant hunter, former NBA star (11 years), Minnesota Gopher legend at 7’3” and Mr. Basketball in Minnesota!Dennis Anderson: Trinity member and Outdoors Columnist for the Minneapolis StarTribuneMenu: Alligator stew made by Chef Lynn Most, fish & game, tator tots, cole slaw, Joseph’s fruit pies, soda

Register online at www.trinitylc.org.Visit us on Facebook at www.facebook.com/mvp.trinitylc.

Contact Todd Fultz at 612-325-5500 (prefers text messages) or via email at toddfultz@me.com with questions.

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You are invited to PAUSE the week of Dec. 2-8Women of all ages: Gather for a time to pause and reflect as the season of Advent begins. Find a date, time or location that fits your schedule and share the everyday moments of the season. This is a wonderful opportunity to meet new women or gather with those you already know. Give yourself a gift of time to pause. The Advent PAUSE ministry happens the week of December 2-8. Sign-up Sundays, Nov. 18, 25 & Dec. 2, or in the Church Office during the week; you can also sign up online at www.trinitylc.org. Scroll to the bottom of the home page and click on “Advent Pause” under “Groups & Teams.” For more information or questions, contact Karen Gieseke at kgieseke@live.com or 492-6610.

Bridge for TrinitySecond Monday of month, 8:45-11:30 a.m., $5 donationBegins December 10Bridge-playing women of all levels are invited to play bridge for fun and to raise money for Trinity. It will be simple and welcoming to all. We will meet the second Mon-day of every month, in the Garden Room, from 8:45-11:30 a.m. Bring a deck of cards; coffee provided. No advance notice required. Contact Jan Pritchard at 439-9008 or email at bridgefortrinity@gmail.com with questions.

Wed., Dec. 5, 11 a.m. Worship Center, Garden Room

Worship together as all are welcome to receive communion. After worship enjoy a wonderful meal complete with cranberry shortcake and caramel sauce. Phil Kadidlo and Pastor Candee will provide entertainment on their accordions.

THANKS &G r A t i t U D E

A Lutefisk thank youA big thank you to everyone who baked pies, cooked, served, set-up, cleaned up or planned this year’s Lutefisk & Meatball Dinner. Your generosity will help Trinity’s Hunger Ministries feed many in the coming year!

Thank you for the loveWe would like to express our deep appreciation to Pastor Candee and Pastor Dan for being with us during Chuck’s final days. The spiritual support from Pastor Candee prior to and during the service meant so much to our family. We also appreciate the many cards, memorials and loving concern shown by Trinity members.

Carol Mereness and family

Sunshine Ministry thank youThank you, thank you to all who embroidered all year so that we had 27 beautiful sets of dish towels to sell at the Lutefisk & Meatball Dinner. Thank you to those who purchased these towels as well. The proceeds from these sales support the Trinity Sunshine Ministry which celebrates the birthdays of our members 75 years and older throughout the year.

Sincerely, Norma Swanson

Celebrating Seniors WORSHIP

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The Characteristics of Vibrant Stewards, on the opposite page, illustrate that life with God includes healthy stewardship of all God has given. This month as we each prepare our individual 2013 Giving Plan, we delve into our sixth characteristic:

Vibrant Stewards embrace financial health as an expression of faith. We allow money to flow to and through our lives in ways that nourish us and our world. We recognize our capacity to give is defined by our heart, not our pocketbook.

Personal finances can be a touchy subject, and I feel it’s important to say upfront that there is no judgment intended in this article. We are each in different places financially for different reasons. Many among us are struggling financially, and the causes may be the result of our own decisions or due to a misfortune over which we had no control. Others among us have more than sufficient financial resources and greater than that, wealth.

Money, and even wealth, is not in itself bad, no more than food is bad. The biblical prophets rail against the rich, not specifically because they are rich, but because they are rich and oblivious. The rich man in Jesus’ parable in Luke 16: 19-31 is doomed to eternal torment because he was luxuriously rich and completely oblivious to the destitute Lazarus lying just outside. One wonders how things would have turned out if just one of those at the rich man’s feast had called his attention to the poor man at the gate.

Over the past several years, I have been fortunate to work in a community foundation. Through extensive study of foundations (private, community and corporate) I have come to understand and appreciate the great things that have been and are being accomplished when people use their wealth for the good

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of all. I have seen countless real-life examples of “allow(ing) money to flow to and through our lives in ways that nourish us and our world.” The challenge for us, as imperfect humans, is to maintain a balanced relationship with money wherever we are on the spectrum.

God calls us to be disciples as whole people, all the time, engaged in all aspects of life on earth. And in this day and age, life on earth involves money. Our personal financial health is an important dimension of our overall “faith-health.” To put our finances in order, we have to order our life and priorities as well. “As I look into financial issues, the more I realize it is about more than math. In fact, I’ve been surprised how often the emotional and spiritual components of a financial decision outweigh the mathematical.” (A quote from Craig Ford, a former missionary who shares thoughts on debt-free living, frugality, generous giving and simple living.)

Personal financial health is best achieved in the same way as personal physical health: develop good daily habits and have an annual check-up. Good habits

include basics like preparing a budget so we live within our means; that we save, give, and pay debts on time, and continue to learn about financial issues.

Our annual financial check-up includes making a personal balance sheet. Record all the details of personal assets: bank accounts, investments, retirement accounts, real estate, cars and furnishings. Record all the details of personal liabilities: credit card debt, mortgage, student loan debt. Does the ratio of debt-to-assets indicate that we are living within our means? Review property and life insurance coverage to ensure that it is accurate and adequate. Have we developed the discipline of saving for emergencies as well as saving for retirement? At any stage in our life, we should have a will and/or estate plan that provides for any dependents and distributes our assets in a positive manner.

What if our financial health isn’t good? Fortunately, there are many resources to help us get on track:

FamilyMeans in Stillwater provides confidential tools and education so families can regain financial stability and reduce unmanageable debt through

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C h a r aC t e r i s t i C s o f V i b r a n t s t e wa r D s1. Trust God’s abundancea. We embody an attitude of

gratitude and generosity.b. We believe we are called and freed

to be caretakers of all that we are and have.

2. Ground ourselves in biblical and theological principles

a. We believe in God as creator, and Jesus as role model and redeemer.

b. We listen to and interpret all of scripture with an ear for stewardship themes.

3. Hold a holistic perspectivea. We steward our whole lives

including our time, energy, wisdom, bodies, money and other resources.

b. We integrate our faith into our whole lives.

4. Accept interdependencea. We ground ourselves in God’s

presence.b. We nurture an attitude of loving

kindness toward all of God’s creation.

5. Promote justicea. We seek to understand the impact

of social systems and structures.b. We align our decisions and actions

to work toward universal peace and justice.

6. Embrace financial health as an expression of faith

a. We allow money to flow to and through our lives in ways that nourish us and our world.

b. We recognize our capacity to give is defined by our heart, not our pocketbook.

its Consumer Credit Counseling Service. See the “Financial Solutions” tab on their website at www.familymeans.org or contact FamilyMeans confidentially at 651-789-4014.

We have heard positive testimonials from people who have participated in a nine-week Financial Peace University program. There is a listing of local classes as well as other resources on the website at www.daveramsey.com

There are many good resources on the Share Save Spend website at www.sharesavespend.com

Our personal financial health matters. Being financially healthy frees us to live a productive and joyful life in service to God. We are stewards, on behalf of God, of all that we have and all that we are. Stewardship is not a program – it is a way of life!

September and October financial reportsThe September 2012 financial results are posted on the Trinity website and the October financials will follow soon. Our $86,000 increase in operating deficit (through October), as compared to October 2011, is attributable to four primary factors. First, we are $20,000 behind last year in income. About half of this is from ministry program fees and payments and half from facility rental. Our contributions are about flat compared to last year through October. We were running behind, but we had an increase in giving this summer and early fall. Second, our personnel expenses are higher due to filling the pastoral care position that was vacant the first half of 2011. Third, our finance, facilities and operations expenses are higher because of some leftover expenses from the old post office that were not anticipated in our budget. Last, certain Children, Youth and Family expenses are higher due to timing issues and increased participation.

Contribution income is the only way we have to overcome these deficits since most of our expenses are committed earlier in the year. We need a strong finish to 2012 as we did in 2011. Please do your best to meet or exceed your pledge amounts. Your Giving Plan is very important to us to predict income and plan accurately for our 2013 budget. We would be grateful to receive your 2013 Giving Plan the weekend of November 17 & 18.

If you have not already done so, please complete and mail or bring your 2013 Giving Plan to Trinity. Giving Plans and automated giving can be completed online at www.trinitylc.org as well.

Thank you for your generosity and for helping Trinity plan for ministry in 2013.

TREASURER’sC O r n E r

Croix CenterAnother way Trinity can improve its financial performance would be to lease out the vacant Croix Center space. We have had a few “lookers” but no “takers.” If you know of a retailer or other business looking for some great space, please contact Bob Eiselt at beiselt@trinitylc.org or ext. 142. Details are available at www.trinitylc.org also.

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Creative Practices: Connecting to God through Creative Expression

Remember, there are many ways of connecting to God…

When multiple friends and family members received ugly and scary diagnoses, Sybil MacBeth found herself exhausted by the words of her prayers and stymied by a lack of focus. One summer day, she retreated to her back porch for a session of mindless doodling with a basket of her favorite colored markers. She drew a shape, put the name of a friend inside, and added lines and color. She drew another shape with another name and added detail and color. When the page was covered with designs and names, Sybil realized she had prayed. The action of drawing was a wordless offering of friends and family into the care of God. The page of drawings became a visual reminder to pray. This was the beginning of Praying in Color.

Praying in Color = prayer + d o o d l i n g

Here’s what you need to get started:1. Paper2. Pen3. Colored markers or colored pencils

or colored gel pens4. A table or clipboard or book for

your paper.

On the left is an example of an Advent Calendar by Connie Denninger

Here’s how to get started:1. Write your name for God on a

piece of paper. Draw a shape around it or just start to doodle. The drawing becomes a prayer space, a small prayer closet.

2. Add marks and shapes. Focus on the name you chose. Ask God to be part of your

prayer time with or without words. If words come, pray them; if not, enjoy the silence.

Here are some reasons to Pray in Color:1. You want to pray but words escape you. 2. Sitting still and staying focused in prayer are a challenge. 3. Your body wants to be part of your prayer. 4. You want to just hang out with God but don’t know how. 5. Listening to God feels like an

impossible task . 6. Your mind wanders and your body complains.

7. You want a visual, concrete way to

pray. 8. You need a new way to pray.

Trinity’s Christmas Garden & Local Benevolences Gift Opportunities

Form and payment must be turned in by Sun., Dec. 16, 2012In the spirit of honoring/memorializing loved ones this Christmas, we welcome donations toward a Christmas Garden. However, we would love to have the majority of the memorials/honors directed toward Local Benevolences such as the St. Croix Chaplaincy, Valley Outreach/Food Shelf, etc. Donor names will be printed in the Christmas Eve and Christmas Day bulletins. Please fill out the form below and either bring it to the Church Office, mail it, or place it in the offering plate.

r Local Benevolences (St. Croix Chaplaincy, Valley Outreach/Food Shelf, etc.) $ ___________________

r Christmas Garden (suggested donation $15) $ ________________

In memory of __________________________________ In honor of __________________________________

Given by _________________________________________________________________________

Phone # (_______)_____________________________ Total amount enclosed $ ____________

4. Add other people to your drawing. Think of each stroke of your pen as a prayer for them. Take a breath or say “Amen” between each person.

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A Blue Christmas worship serviceSat., Dec. 8, 5 p.m. Worship CenterFor many, the holidays signify a time of joy, celebration and warm family gatherings. For others, especially those who may be grieving significant losses in their lives due to a death in the family, disease, divorce or some other challenge, the holidays can be an added source of stress and sadness. The church recognizes this, and in doing so, invites you to a special Blue Christmas service on Sat., Dec. 8 at 5 p.m. in the Worship Center.

Contact Pastor Candee at ext. 107 or cmoser@trinitylc.org with questions.

“Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened,

and I will give you rest.” –Matthew 11:28

3. To pray for a person, write their name on the page. Draw around it. Add color, if you want. Keep drawing as you release the person into God’s care.

CHILDREN’sM i n i S t r i E S

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November NEWSNovember brings a time of thanks for children and adults alike. Many children may not realize all the gifts they receive daily. Use the season of autumn to bring to light the many ways to be thankful and show gratitude for everyday things. Here are a few favorite ideas you can do with your child this month or anytime:

• Sendathankyoupostcard.Whatagreatwaytopracticewriting,workonyouraddresses and think about someone your child is grateful for.

• Pointoutthingstobethankfulforeveryday–ahometolivein,foodtoeat,abed to sleep in, etc.

• Takeyourchildrenwithyoutovisitthesick.• Doafamilyministryproject–rakeaneighbor’syard,helpatahomelessshelter,

provide toys for children in need, etc.

LADC is thankful and grateful to be a part of such a wonderful partnership. Thank you, Trinity family, for your continued support.

Learning Update

NEW THIS YEAR:Two seating options

allow your family to see the program and do a family craft

before or after breakfast.

Arrive 8:30 a.m. Crafts & Family Photo Breakfast Program in Worship Center

Arrive 9:30 a.m. Program in Worship Center Breakfast Crafts & Family Photo

Option 1:

Option 2:Register by: Mon., Nov. 26

online at www.trinitylc.org

Volunteers are needed Fri., Dec. 7 to help decorate and make strata for this special event. Small groups of all ages are welcome to serve together as angels.

Contact Jody Nyenhuis at jnyenhuis@trinitylc.org or ext. 138 to help.

Students in Sunday and Wednesday Learning spent the month of October learning about the beautiful creation God gave us. We heard the creation story from the book of Genesis and learned how our story connects with God’s story through Bible games, science, video and workshops. November learning feature lessons on Psalm 23, with the focus on gratitude to God for providing everything we need. A special challenge to students will be to commit this powerful Psalm to memory.

Hearts of the Home child care helpers wantedIf you love kids, we need you! We are seeking child care helpers from 9:15-11:15 a.m. on the first, third and fifth Wednesday of each month, September through May, during Hearts of the Home Moms. This is a paid position. Please contact Ruthie Milker at ruthiemilker@comcast.net or 612-251-1238 if you are interested.

Childcare job opportunityWe are seeking a Nursery Coordinator for the Trinity Nursery. This is a part-time paid position. Please contact Jody Nyenhuis at ext. 138 or jnyenhuis@trinitylc.org for more information.

No Children’s Learning: Wed., Nov. 21 & Sun., Nov. 25

BreakfastwithAngels

2012Saturday, December 8

This special event is designed for multi-generational families with children age 3 through Grade 6.

$7/person or $20/family maximum

YOUTHM i n i S t r i E S

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MISSION Mexico Mission 2013The mission experience of a lifetime is here once again! We are going “ALL IN” for Mexico Mission 2013! Student & adult applications are available in the Youth Center, Church Office and online at www.trinitylc.org. A $200 deposit, along with your application, should be submitted to Cory Jones ASAP. Names of student and adult missionaries chosen for the trip will be posted on the Youth Center door on Tue., Nov. 20.

First all missionary meeting Sun., Dec. 2, noon-1:30 p.m. Students will meet their adult small group leader as well as the rest of their small group members. We will be going over all important paper work and trip guidelines/expectations. Missionaries will also be turning in commitment money at this meeting. Please don’t miss this meeting! For more information contact Cory Jones at ext. 144 or cljones@trinitylc.org.

7:30-9 p.m.Garden Room

Come and experience Jesus

through awesome music,

genuine friendship and by

exploring relevant issues

of life and faith.

Look for The River on Facebook

and Twitter @TheRiverTLC

Hey sr. high students, if you would like to be a part of a small group that you can journey together through life and faith, contact Cory Jones @ ext. 144 or cljones@trinitylc.org. Each J-Group will have a fun and caring adult leader that will walk alongside you on your journey. Your J-Group can meet whenever and wherever you decide! Bible studies and other faith guides will be provided for meaningful faith discussions.

Fun and caring adults: If you would like to be a J-Group leader, please contact Cory at cljones@trinitylc.org or ext. 144. Senior High Ministry is always looking for adults (21+) to be a part of students lives!

CONFIRMATION

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The new format of this year’s confirmation experience offers junior high students unique and fresh ways to grow in faith and understand our Christian identity. One of the most exciting additions to the experience is a monthly worship service for all students in grades 7-9. This month’s worship theme centered on stewardship. Students were encouraged to consider how their gifts and strengths might be used in response to a need they see in our community. As an expression of offering, our young adults brought perishable food items to be donated to local food shelves.

Jr. High Christmas Party Sat., Dec. 8, 11:30 a.m.-2:30 p.m. (following Breakfast with Angels)

Cost: Free! (If you serve at Breakfast with Angels) $5 if you just want to come for the party

Where: Youth Center

Activities: Pizza served until noon. Then you can decorate Christmas cookies,watch a holiday movie, enjoy open gym, play Catch Phrase, win the ugly sweater contest (prizes given out!), sing Christmas carols and more!

Contact Sarah Bane at ext. 137 or sbane@trinitylc.org with questions.

Publication Number: USPS 509-650Published once per month by Trinity Lutheran Church, 115 N. 4th St., Box 339, Stillwater, MN 55082Editor: Mary Steffl Design & Layout: Amy ShallesArticles for the next Trinity Today (January issue) are due Monday, December 3 to begin arriving in mailboxes Thu., December 13. Office: 651-439-7400; Fax: 651-430-2935 E-mail: trinitytoday@trinitylc.org Trinity Today is also available in full-color at Trinity’s web site at www.trinitylc.org Postmaster: Send address changes to Trinity Lutheran Church, PO Box 339, Stillwater, MN 55082. © Copyright 2012 Trinity Lutheran Church, Stillwater, MN

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Oct. 20 & 215 p.m. ............ 82 9 a.m. .......... 21110:30 a.m. ... 235

Oct. 13 & 145 p.m. ............ 72 9 a.m. .......... 27810:30 a.m. ... 288

Oct. 27 & 285 p.m. ............ 87 9 a.m. .......... 29310:30 a.m. ... 235

•Wednesdays, 7:30 p.m. The River Youth Worship (Gr. 9-12)

• Saturdays, 5 p.m. Evening Worship, Communion

• Sundays, 9 a.m. Traditional Worship, Nursery

•Sundays, 10:30 a.m. The WALK Contemporary worship, Nursery

FLOWERSNovember 17 & 18 - Flowers given

in loving memory of my husband Wayne Smith by Carol Smith and daughter, Karen Gieseke.

• Thefamilyandfriendsof Charles Mereness, whose funeral was held at Trinity on Oct. 23.

SYMPATHY

Large print bulletins available at all servicesIf you prefer a large print bulletin, please ask an usher as you enter the Worship Center. We hope these help make your worship experience more engaging and enjoyable.

Help us keep our records up-to-dateIf you change your email, address or phone number, please contact the Church Office at 651-439-7400 and let us know. We want to make sure you get all the information you need to enjoy all Trinity has to offer.

Nov. 3 & 45 p.m. .......... 118 9 a.m. .......... 35710:30 a.m. ... 306

Nov. 10 & 115 p.m. ............ 67 9 a.m. .......... 39010:30 a.m. ... 382

Our apologiesThe name of Harold Segelstrom was mistakenly omitted from the All Saints’ list read in worship on November 4. We sincerely apologize to his family and friends for this error.

Worship services broadcast on Valley Access Channel:

Trinity worship services are broadcast at the following times:

Sun. – 11 a.m.; Wed; – 1 & 7 p.m.Thu. – 1 & 7 a.m.; Fri. – 4 & 10 p.m.

Sat. – 4 & 9 a.m.

November 11Veterans’ Service2 p.m. .......... 147

Fri., November 16 7 a.m. AA meeting: Library 10 a.m. Al-Anon meeting: Room 108B 10:30 a.m. Boutwells Sr. Communion 1:15 p.m. Rivertown Commons Sr. CommunionSat., November 17 8 a.m. AA meeting: Library 8 a.m. Al-Anon meetin: Luther Hall 5 p.m. WORSHIP, COMMUNIONSun., November 18 9 a.m. WORSHIP, COMMUNION, NURSERY 9 a.m. Couples Group: Rm 108B 9 a.m. Sunday Learning (3 yrs-Gr6): Lower Lvl 10:30 a.m. WORSHIP, COMMUNION, NURSERY 10:30 a.m. Enneagram Toolkit Series: Living Rm 10:30 a.m. Couples Group: Rm 108B 10:30 a.m. Old Testament Course: Garden RmMon., November 19 7:30 a.m. AA meeting: Library 6 p.m. Jubilate (Adult) Bells: Heritage Chapel 6:30 p.m. Tai Chi: Gym 6:30 p.m. Al-Anon meeting: Library Tue., November 20 7:30 a.m. AA meeting: Library No Women’s Bible study 9 a.m. Women’s Book Group: The Bikery 1 p.m. Prayer Group: Narthex 6 p.m. AA meeting: Library 7 p.m. WALK Rehearsal: Worship Ctr Wed., November 21 – No Children’s Choirs/Confirm. 7 a.m. AA meeting: Library 9:15 a.m Hearts of the Home Moms 10:15 a.m. Linden Sr. Communion No River WorshipThu., November 22 – Happy Thanksgiving 7 a.m. AA meeting: Library Noon Thanksgiving Dinner: Garden RmFri., November 23 – Building/Office Closed 7 a.m. AA meeting: Library 10 a.m. Al-Anon meeting: Room 108B Sat., November 24 8 a.m. AA meeting: Library 8 a.m. Al-Anon meeting: Luther Hall 5 p.m. WORSHIP, COMMUNIONSun., November 25 – No Sunday Learning 9 a.m. WORSHIP, COMMUNION, NURSERY 10:30 a.m. WORSHIP, COMMUNION, NURSERY Mon., November 26 7:30 a.m. AA meeting: Library 4 p.m. Cong. Council Mtg: Office Conf. Rm 6 p.m. Jubilate (Adult) Bells: Heritage Chapel 6:30 p.m. Tai Chi: Gym 6:30 p.m. Al-Anon meeting: Library 7 p.m. GLOW Bible Study: Off-site

Tue., November 27 7:30 a.m. AA meeting: Library 8:30 a.m. Women’s Bible Study: Rm 108B 9 a.m. Women’s Book Group: The Bikery 1 p.m. Prayer Group: Narthex 6 p.m. MVP-Sportsmen: Garden Rm 6 p.m. AA meeting: Library 7 p.m. WALK Rehearsal: Worship CtrWed., November 28 6:30 a.m. Men’s Bible Study: Rm 108B 7 a.m. AA meeting: Library 5 p.m. Children’s Choirs 5:30 p.m. Family Pizza Hour: Garden Rm 6:15 p.m. Confirmation (Gr7-9): Upper Lvl 6:15 p.m. Wed. Learning (3yrs-Gr6): Lower Lvl 7:30 p.m. Trinity Choir Rehearsal 7:30 p.m. The River Worship: Garden Room

Thu., November 29 7 a.m. AA meeting: Library 7:30 a.m. Spirtual Practice: Narthex 10 a.m. Knitting Ministry: Living Room Fri., November 30 7 a.m. AA meeting: Library 10:30 a.m. Al-Anon meeting: Room 108BSat., December 1 8 a.m. AA meeting: Library 8 a.m. Al-Anon meeting: Luther Hall 2 p.m. Croix Chordsmen/Sweet Adelines Concert 5 p.m. WORSHIP, COMMUNIONSun., December 2 – Advent 1 – Advent PAUSE week 9 a.m. WORSHIP, COMMUNION, NURSERY 9 a.m. Couples Group: Rm 108B 9 a.m. Sunday Learning (3 yrs-Gr6): Lower Lvl 10:30 a.m. WORSHIP, COMMUNION, NURSERY 10:30 a.m. Couples Group: Rm 108B 10:30 a.m. Old Testament Course: Garden Rm Noon Missionary/Adult Ldr Mtg: Garden RmMon., December 3 – Advent PAUSE week 7:30 a.m. AA meeting: Library 1:30 p.m. Commodity Distribution: 4th St. Entr. 6 p.m. Jubilate (Adult) Bells: Heritage Chapel 6:30 p.m. Tai Chi: Gym 6:30 p.m. Al-Anon meeting: LibraryTue., December 4 – Advent PAUSE week 7:30 a.m. AA meeting: Library 8:30 a.m. Women’s Bible Study: Rm 108B 9 a.m. Women’s Book Group: The Bikery 9:15 a.m. AWE-Christmas Tour: Commons 1 p.m. Prayer Group: Narthex 1 p.m. Martha Circle Mtg: Living Rm 6 p.m. AA meeting: Library 7 p.m. WALK Rehearsal: Worship Ctr Wed., December 5 – Advent PAUSE week 7 a.m. AA meeting: Library 9:15 a.m. Hearts of the Home Moms 11 a.m. Christmas Sr. Communion/Lunch 5 p.m. Children’s Choirs 5:30 p.m. Family Pizza Hour: Garden Rm 6 p.m. Jubilate (Adult) Bells: Heritage Chapel 6:15 p.m. Confirmation (Gr7-9): Upper Lvl 6:15 p.m. Wed. Learning (3yrs-Gr6): Lower Lvl 6:15 p.m. Your Place in God’s Story: Garden Rm 7:30 p.m. Trinity Choir Rehearsal 7:30 p.m. The River Worship: Garden Room

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Thu., December 6 – Advent PAUSE week 7 a.m. AA meeting: Library 7:30 a.m. Spirtual Practice: Narthex 2 p.m. Healing Touch Group: NarthexFri., December 7 – Advent PAUSE week 7 a.m. AA meeting: Library 10 a.m. Al-Anon meeting: Room 108B 1 p.m. BeFriender Mtg: Room 108ASat., December 8 – Advent PAUSE week 8 a.m. AA meeting: Library 8 a.m. Al-Anon meeting: Luther Hall 8:30 a.m. Breakfast with Angels (Option 1): Gym, Worship Ctr 9 a.m. Anna Circle Mtg: Off-site 9:30 a.m. Breakfast with Angels (Option 2) Gym, Worship Ctr 5 p.m. BLUE CHRISTMAS, COMMUNION 7:30 p.m. VocalEssence Concert: Worship CtrSun., December 9 – Advent 2 9 a.m. WORSHIP, COMMUNION, NURSERY 9 a.m. Sunday Learning (3 yrs-Gr6): Lower Lvl 10:30 a.m. WORSHIP, COMMUNION, NURSERY 10:30 a.m. Old Testament Course: Garden Rm Mon., December 10 7:30 a.m. AA meeting: Library 8:45 a.m. Women’s Bridge for Trinity: Garden Rm 1 p.m. Rebekah Circle Mtg: Library 6 p.m. Jubilate (Adult) Bells: Heritage Chapel 6:30 p.m. Tai Chi: Gym 6:30 p.m. Al-Anon Mtg: Library Tue., December 11 7:30 a.m. AA meeting: Library 8:30 a.m. Women’s Bible Study: Rm 108B 9 a.m. Women’s Book Group: The Bikery 9 a.m. Retired Men: Rich Melheim: Garden Rm 9 a.m. Croixdale Sr. Communion 9:15 a.m. Leah Circle Mtg: Narthex 9:45 a.m. Good Sam. Sr. Communion 10:15 a.m. Greeley Sr. Communion 1 p.m. Prayer Group: Narthex 6 p.m. AA meeting: Library 7 p.m. WALK Rehearsal: Worship Ctr Wed., December 12 6:30 a.m. Men’s Bible Study: Room 108B 7 a.m. AA meeting: Library 5 p.m. Children’s Choirs 5:30 p.m. Pizza Hour: Garden Rm 6:15 p.m. Wed. Learning (3yrs-Gr6): Lower Lvl 6:15 p.m. Confirmation (Gr7-9): Worship Ctr 7 p.m. Trinity Choir Rehearsal: Worship Ctr 7:15 p.m. The River Worship: Garden RoomThu., December 13 7 a.m. AA meeting: Library 7:30 a.m. Spirtual Practice: Off-siteFri., December 14 7 a.m. AA meeting: Library 10 a.m. Al-Anon meeting: Room 108B

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Trinity’s Council and Design Team

will give updates on:

• Designrevisions

• Cost

• “OpeningDoors”Appealprogress

• Calendarofnextsteps

Angel Tree 2012in Narthex Sun., nov. 25

Angel Tree connects parents in prison with their children through Christmas gifts provided by the Trinity community, and given in the parent’s name. Trinity receives information on 45 children and the team then contacts the children’s caregivers for gift requests.

This year Trinity is partnering with Bethlehem Lutheran in St. Paul where gifts will be distributed to families at a party at the church a week before Christmas. Each child receives two gifts, clothing and a toy, each valued at about $20. You are invited to take a tag, purchase a gift for the child on the tag and bring the gifts to Trinity by Sun., Dec. 9. Donations may also be made toward $20 gift cards for the caregivers and party expenses.

Watch for the Angel tags on the tree Nov. 25!

Capital Appeal UpdateDec. 1 & 2 following all services

TO GOD – THE COMMUNITY – THE WORLD

TO GOD – THE COMMUNITY – THE WORLD