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Love Systems InsiderDate: November 2008

Inexpensive Dates - Have Fun without Breaking the Bank

So, the world economy is pretty shaky. You dont want to spend that much money on dates, butstill want to have lots of fun and meet beautiful women.

Fortunately, Love Systems is not built on the idea of spending money to attract women. Youactually REDUCE your chances with most women if they think youre trying to impress them byspending money.

Here are four quick rules for having successful dates even if you have to cut back on spending:

Rule 1: Skip Dinner.

y Dinner is a cliched date. Shes been on hundreds of dinner dates. Right away you areconveying that you are safe, conventional, and just another guy. It wont kill you,but it definitely doesnt help you.

y A dinner date suggests that she should be thinking of you as a potential boyfriend (asopposed to some of the more exciting dates I list below). Women dont tend to sleepwith potential boyfriends until they are sure, so you will be dating-and-waiting forlonger than you need to be.

y The nicer the dinner, the LONGER you will probably have to wait. She knows you wantto sleep with her. If youve proven that youre willing to take her to nice dinners whileyou wait for her, shell make you wait even longer, and get more nice dinners. Whywouldnt she?

(What if you WANT to be her boyfriend? Doesnt matter. Make the relationship sexual as soonas possible. Its much easier to build boyfriend-level comfort when you have a sexual

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relationship than it is to build boyfriend-level physical chemistry when youre just another guytaking her to dinner.)

Even tactically, dinners are bad:

y Youll likely be sitting across from each other, making normal touching difficult.Remember: You cant talk a woman into bed.

y Dinner puts a lot of pressure on your conversation skills, since there is no major externalsource of entertainment. YOU are the entertainment. Thats fine, but why make it moredifficult for yourself?

y Depending on the kind of restaurant and what she orders - after a big dinner, peopleusually feel sluggish or bloated, not energetic and sexy.

Rule 2: Do things that are always inexpensive, instead of doing something expensive on

the cheap.

Dont pull out a 2-for-1 coupon, order tap water at a bar, or be a bad tipper. Women notice thesethings. Try dates that are inherently inexpensive...

y Museums, aquariums, zoos, galleriesy Local live music or theatrey Comedy clubsy Hiking or outdoors stuffy Hanging out at the beachy Window shoppingy The beachy The track (I love taking daytime weekend dates to watch the horse races minimum bet

is usually $2 and its lots of fun)y Dessert far more sensual and romantic than dinnery Etc. think of your own!

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Some of these arent full dates by themselves, but as experienced guys know (or anyone who hasread Chapter 17 on dates in Magic Bullets), stacking some shorter dates together is better thanone long date anyway.

Rule 3: Dont try to split the bill or go Dutch.

If she insists on paying for part of the date, let her. Make sure that shes really insisting though,and not just being polite by offering to pay.

Quick Quiz: Is it fair that men traditionally have to pay for dates?

Blunt Answer: Who cares?

In order words, a Love Systems expert accepts the world as it is and uses this knowledge to leada happy life, full of beautiful women. Wishing the world were different wont make it different.You can either make a big deal out of the fact that men are generally expected to pay for dates,

or you can have beautiful women in your life. Your choice.

Be Don Juan, not Don Quixote.

Rule 4: The Golden Rule of Money and Love Systems.

Love Systems isnt about spending money to get the girl, and its not about getting the girl whilespending as little as possible. Its about getting the girl in the quickest most effective way,without rejection.

So, when you are ever confused about who pays or what should be paid for, remember this:

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Dont let who pays? questions cause social awkwardness. Spending money (as opposed tohaving money) will generally not help you, but spending too much or too little can hurt you. Its

a problem to be avoided, not an attraction tool.

Final Thought:

Over time, good skills mean you shouldnt have to spend money to attract beautiful women. Ifyoure spending more money on women and dating than you want, maybe its time to invest nowand get the problem solved once and for all.

An elite Love Systems bootcamp - a weekend training course with the best pick up artists in theworld is $2,997. Thats not cheap, but Love Systems is by far the best in the world and LoveSystems instructors have to go through several months of training and testing. Since mostbootcamps sell out, prices will be going up, not down, in 2010.

Still, many former students have commented that over the long run, the experience has more thanpaid off for them. After spending money on dates, bottle service, trips, and clothes withoutgetting the results they want, a one-time investment of $2,997 to just get the problem solved can

actually more than pay off in the long run.

Check out our schedule here.

Email us to discuss your situation and find out whether a Love Systems bootcamp is right foryou.

Take care,

Savoy

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