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    MARRIAGE

    COMPATIBILITY

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    IN EDENWHEN GOD CREATED THE

    FIRST COUPLE, HE ENSURED

    THEIR COMPATIBILITY

    GENESIS 2:18, NIV

    It is not good for man to be

    alone. I willmake a helpersuitable for

    him.

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    KEY NO. 1

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    KEY NO. 2

    EDUCATION1. Different levels of education

    can cause a couple to do fewer

    things together.2. Separate activities can

    create different circles offriends, drawing couples apart.

    3. Instead of drawing closer,couples draw further apart.

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    KEY NO 3HEALTH

    3 John 2

    Beloved, I wish above all things that

    thou mayest prosper and be inhealth, even as thy soul prospereth.

    With the prevalence oftransmittable diseases, health

    status is crucial. Health habits arealso vital because our habits todaydetermine our status tomorrow.

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    CULTUREANSWER TRUE OR FALSE

    1. Some cultural differences aresimple and can be resolved

    easily.

    2. Others are complex andshould be addressed to ensure

    success.

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    FAMILY VALUESEzekiel 16:44,45

    The adulterous daughter

    Adopted the value system of her

    Mother.2 Timothy 1:5

    The godly youth adopted the

    Values of his grandmother and

    Mother.

    IT IS IN THE HOME THAT CHILDREN

    SEE MODELS AND ASSIMILATE

    STANDARDS OF BEHAVIOUR.

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    KEY NO. 6

    TEMPERAMENTSTHERE ARE FOUR BASIC

    TEMPERAMENTS1. The Sanguine, like Peter, is

    out going, talkative, andcharismatic.

    2. The Choleric, like Paul, ishard-working, practical anddecisive.

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    3. The Phlegmatic, like

    Abraham, is easy going,

    supportive, and peaceful.

    4. The Melancholy, like Moses,

    is analytical, emotional, and

    creative..

    I THINK THAT I AM ....., AND MY

    SPOUSE IS .....

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    NOT MARRIED YET?

    Weigh the differences carefully.

    MARRIED ALREADY?

    Accept and respect my spouses

    Differences.

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    KEY NO. 7

    SPIRITUAL

    UNITYDeuteronomy 7:1-4Gods fearing Israelites were

    not to marry idolatrousCanaanites.

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    2 Corinthians 6:14

    Be ye not unequally yoked

    together with unbelievers;

    for what fellowship hath

    righteousness with

    unrighteousness? And what

    communion hath light with

    darkness?

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    WHEN ONE PARTNER SERVESSATAN, AND THE OTHER

    SERVES GOD THERE IS

    TROUBLE.WHEN BOTH SERVE SATAN,

    THERE IS BIGGER TROUBLE.

    BUT WHEN BOTH ARE

    SINCERELY SERVING GOD,

    THEY HOLD THE MASTER KEY

    TO MARRITAL COMPATIBILITY.

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    THREE BIG

    QUESTIONS(1) Am I a part of the family ofGod?

    (2) Is my partner a part of the

    family of God?

    (3) How can we become part of

    the family of God?

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    HOW TO ANSWER

    QUESTION NO. 3

    THE EXPERIENCE OF

    JACOBGENESIS CHAPTERS 27-32

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    1. Jacob lied and deceived2. Running away from home, he

    was lonely, miserable, anddiscouraged

    3. That night God visited himwith the dream of a ladderand a message of his love

    4. Arriving at Haran, Jacob spent20 years raising a family andbecoming wealthy.

    5. But deep down inside he stillwas not right with God.

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    BAD NEWSESAU WAS ADVANCING WITH

    400 SOLDIERS

    1. He must make a decision

    2. Esau was to catch up withhim the following day

    3. He must get right with God

    without delayTHATS THE KIND OF DECISION

    YOU AND I SHOULD MAKE NOW

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    LEAVING

    FAMILY ANDFLOCKS

    Jacob went out into the desertTo make things right with God

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    THE TOUCHSUDDENLY, somebody touched

    him, and the fight of his life

    Began.

    The being is called man and is

    Called God. This God man was

    JESUS

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    THE MIRACLEThen Jacob experienced a

    Miracle!

    Genesis 32:27,28

    Thy name shall be called no

    more Jacob, but Israel: for as

    a prince hast thou power with

    God and with men, and hast

    prevailed.

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    IT CAN BE

    DONE FORYOU

    Just as Jesus did a miracle forJacob that night, He is ready to

    do a miracle for you and me

    tonight.

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    MY PRAYERMY PRAYER: Create in me a

    Clean heart, O God, and renew a

    Steadfast spirit within me.

    Psalm 51:10

    GODS ANSWER: I will give you

    A new heart and put a new

    Spirit within you. Ezekiel 36:26

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    MIRACLE FOR ME

    GOD WILL DO A MIRACLEFOR ME

    1.The drunkard becomes sober!

    2.The drug user becomes drugfree!

    3.The smoker becomes

    abstainer!4.The abuser becomes care-

    giver!

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    ITS A RADICALCHANGE

    ANSWER TRUE ORFALSE

    1. Adultery gives way to purity!

    2. Revelry is turned to sobriety!

    3. Gambler becomes money saver!4. Hurter is changed into healer!

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    NEW CREATURE2 Corinthians 5:17

    Therefore if any man be in

    Christ, he is a new creature:

    old things are passed away;

    behold, all things are become

    new.

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    HOW QUICKLY?HOW QUICKLY IS JESUS READY

    TO PERFORM THIS MIRACLE

    IN MY LIFE?

    2 Corinthians 6:2

    ... Now is the accepted time;

    behold, now is the day of

    salvation.

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    THE MASTER KEY

    THE SAME JESUS WHO CHANGEDJACOBS LIFE IN A MOMENT STANDS

    READY TO CHANGE YOUR LIFE THIS

    VERY MOMENT! THIS IS THE MOMENT

    FOR GODS MIRACLE! THEN YOU

    HOLD THE MASTER KEY TO MARITAL

    COMPATIBILITY!

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    END OF LESSON