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MARRIAGE
COMPATIBILITY
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IN EDENWHEN GOD CREATED THE
FIRST COUPLE, HE ENSURED
THEIR COMPATIBILITY
GENESIS 2:18, NIV
It is not good for man to be
alone. I willmake a helpersuitable for
him.
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KEY NO. 1
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KEY NO. 2
EDUCATION1. Different levels of education
can cause a couple to do fewer
things together.2. Separate activities can
create different circles offriends, drawing couples apart.
3. Instead of drawing closer,couples draw further apart.
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KEY NO 3HEALTH
3 John 2
Beloved, I wish above all things that
thou mayest prosper and be inhealth, even as thy soul prospereth.
With the prevalence oftransmittable diseases, health
status is crucial. Health habits arealso vital because our habits todaydetermine our status tomorrow.
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CULTUREANSWER TRUE OR FALSE
1. Some cultural differences aresimple and can be resolved
easily.
2. Others are complex andshould be addressed to ensure
success.
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FAMILY VALUESEzekiel 16:44,45
The adulterous daughter
Adopted the value system of her
Mother.2 Timothy 1:5
The godly youth adopted the
Values of his grandmother and
Mother.
IT IS IN THE HOME THAT CHILDREN
SEE MODELS AND ASSIMILATE
STANDARDS OF BEHAVIOUR.
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KEY NO. 6
TEMPERAMENTSTHERE ARE FOUR BASIC
TEMPERAMENTS1. The Sanguine, like Peter, is
out going, talkative, andcharismatic.
2. The Choleric, like Paul, ishard-working, practical anddecisive.
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3. The Phlegmatic, like
Abraham, is easy going,
supportive, and peaceful.
4. The Melancholy, like Moses,
is analytical, emotional, and
creative..
I THINK THAT I AM ....., AND MY
SPOUSE IS .....
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NOT MARRIED YET?
Weigh the differences carefully.
MARRIED ALREADY?
Accept and respect my spouses
Differences.
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KEY NO. 7
SPIRITUAL
UNITYDeuteronomy 7:1-4Gods fearing Israelites were
not to marry idolatrousCanaanites.
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2 Corinthians 6:14
Be ye not unequally yoked
together with unbelievers;
for what fellowship hath
righteousness with
unrighteousness? And what
communion hath light with
darkness?
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WHEN ONE PARTNER SERVESSATAN, AND THE OTHER
SERVES GOD THERE IS
TROUBLE.WHEN BOTH SERVE SATAN,
THERE IS BIGGER TROUBLE.
BUT WHEN BOTH ARE
SINCERELY SERVING GOD,
THEY HOLD THE MASTER KEY
TO MARRITAL COMPATIBILITY.
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THREE BIG
QUESTIONS(1) Am I a part of the family ofGod?
(2) Is my partner a part of the
family of God?
(3) How can we become part of
the family of God?
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HOW TO ANSWER
QUESTION NO. 3
THE EXPERIENCE OF
JACOBGENESIS CHAPTERS 27-32
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1. Jacob lied and deceived2. Running away from home, he
was lonely, miserable, anddiscouraged
3. That night God visited himwith the dream of a ladderand a message of his love
4. Arriving at Haran, Jacob spent20 years raising a family andbecoming wealthy.
5. But deep down inside he stillwas not right with God.
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BAD NEWSESAU WAS ADVANCING WITH
400 SOLDIERS
1. He must make a decision
2. Esau was to catch up withhim the following day
3. He must get right with God
without delayTHATS THE KIND OF DECISION
YOU AND I SHOULD MAKE NOW
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LEAVING
FAMILY ANDFLOCKS
Jacob went out into the desertTo make things right with God
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THE TOUCHSUDDENLY, somebody touched
him, and the fight of his life
Began.
The being is called man and is
Called God. This God man was
JESUS
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THE MIRACLEThen Jacob experienced a
Miracle!
Genesis 32:27,28
Thy name shall be called no
more Jacob, but Israel: for as
a prince hast thou power with
God and with men, and hast
prevailed.
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IT CAN BE
DONE FORYOU
Just as Jesus did a miracle forJacob that night, He is ready to
do a miracle for you and me
tonight.
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MY PRAYERMY PRAYER: Create in me a
Clean heart, O God, and renew a
Steadfast spirit within me.
Psalm 51:10
GODS ANSWER: I will give you
A new heart and put a new
Spirit within you. Ezekiel 36:26
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MIRACLE FOR ME
GOD WILL DO A MIRACLEFOR ME
1.The drunkard becomes sober!
2.The drug user becomes drugfree!
3.The smoker becomes
abstainer!4.The abuser becomes care-
giver!
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ITS A RADICALCHANGE
ANSWER TRUE ORFALSE
1. Adultery gives way to purity!
2. Revelry is turned to sobriety!
3. Gambler becomes money saver!4. Hurter is changed into healer!
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NEW CREATURE2 Corinthians 5:17
Therefore if any man be in
Christ, he is a new creature:
old things are passed away;
behold, all things are become
new.
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HOW QUICKLY?HOW QUICKLY IS JESUS READY
TO PERFORM THIS MIRACLE
IN MY LIFE?
2 Corinthians 6:2
... Now is the accepted time;
behold, now is the day of
salvation.
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THE MASTER KEY
THE SAME JESUS WHO CHANGEDJACOBS LIFE IN A MOMENT STANDS
READY TO CHANGE YOUR LIFE THIS
VERY MOMENT! THIS IS THE MOMENT
FOR GODS MIRACLE! THEN YOU
HOLD THE MASTER KEY TO MARITAL
COMPATIBILITY!
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END OF LESSON