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    Gheorghe Cornel ARDELEAN

    MEDITATIONSVOL. 15

    NARCOSIA Publishing -2008

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    Gheorghe Cornel ARDELEAN

    MEDITATIONSVOL. 15

    NARCOSIA Publishing

    ARAD COUNTY, MACEA

    2008

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    CIP description of the Romanian National

    Library

    Gheorghe Cornel Ardelean

    ISBN 978-973-88998-0-3

    ISBN 978-973-88999-4-0

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    Urge to read, analyze and apply

    these meditations

    By reading and analyzing the

    meditations of AGC, by applying one

    or more thoughts we will find solutions

    that will help us:

    I. Discover:

    1. qualities;

    2. defects;

    3. capabilities;

    4. skills;5. some opportunities

    to succeed in life;

    6. finding a partner for life;

    7. keeping our marriage;8. discovering our feelings;

    9. discovering our

    mistakes;

    10. etc..

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    II. To prevent some:

    1. mistakes;2. accidents;

    3. divorces;

    4. trouble;

    5. bankruptcies;

    6. failures;

    7. conflicts;

    8. etc..

    III. Become:1. more efficient;

    2. happier;

    3. more loved;

    4. more honorable;5. appreciated;

    6. more respected;

    7. more loved;

    8. more organized;

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    9. more optimistic;

    10. more plan;

    11. most active;12. best;

    13. fairer;

    14. more humane;

    15. more unselfish;

    16. popular;

    17. more famous;

    18. etc..

    IV. Come out of:1. the state of lost hope;

    2. the state of pessimism;

    3. the state of despair;

    4. the state of passivity;5. the state of inactivity

    6. etc..

    V. Participate at:

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    1. social life;

    2. political life;

    3. the activity of non-profit organization

    4. etc..

    VI. Find more

    opportunities to meet

    favorable or more

    favorable conditions.

    VII. To let us change ourlives more in better, to

    make it more beautiful.

    VIII. To expand ourchances to find the right

    partner for life.

    IX. To let us realize and to

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    maintain a happy marriage.

    X. To let us raise andeducate our children better,

    to take more care of them.

    I am writing these meditations

    and adding these books, other

    publications and on the Internet, etc..

    because we need them every day and it

    is necessary to apply them so that we

    each achieve what we want: a more beautiful life, a more prosperous and

    happy one. These meditations reflect a

    tiny part of reality, of what would be

    good to be present in real life and inhuman relations.

    I expect good news from you,

    good deeds that you have done

    influenced by the fact that you have

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    read and applied one or more ideas to

    make your life more beautiful, more

    prosperous, more happy and to be positive lively models for others.

    Each of us can become a positive

    new model for those around us thus

    participating in the creation of a better

    human society, of a more prosperous

    one, and a happier one.

    I would be very happy and

    excited if one or more ideas that you

    have read, help you in one way oranother or make you happier, more

    prosperous, etc..

    I wish you all health, happiness

    and the achieving of all things that youwant.

    I expect your news, ideas,

    opinions, troubles and joys, etc..

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    Sincerely, love and with much joy,

    I invite you to visit my site

    www.ardeleancornel.eu and to write tome at: [email protected]

    Ardelean Gheorghe Cornel

    (AGC)

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    VOLUME 15

    1) Cheerfulness gives us power.2) We can make our life more

    beautiful if we plan our action very well.

    3) We can make our life morebeautiful if we are always careful.4) We can make our life more

    beautiful if we are disciplined.

    5) We can make our life beautiful ifwe are fair.6) We can make our life beautiful ifwe are enthusiastic.

    7) Failures must never immobilize us.8) If you are disorderly you will havemany failures.9) If we are distracted we will havemany failures in life.

    10) If we are undisciplined we will havemany failures in life.

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    11) If we are unfair we will have manyfailures in life.

    12)

    Some people call crazy all thosewho have ideas that they do not accept.

    13) It is normal if you do not understandthe actions of a man, not to call him crazy,

    but to refrain.

    14) The more easily we can producemore useful ideas, the more quickly we

    can achieve our personal goals.

    15) The more we expand the capacity to produce more useful ideas, the better

    chances we have to meet favorable

    occasions.

    16) Sociable individuals have muchgreater opportunities to achieve lasting co

    operations.17) Those who are alone can get rid ofloneliness by applying the principle of

    cooperation.

    18) Buoyancy helps in maintaining a

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    mature love.

    19) Our confidence in our forces makesus be enthusiastic in implementing whatwe proposed.

    20) Constructive ideas can help usachieve success.

    21) Those who are documented havemuch greater opportunities to have moresuccesses.

    22) In all that we do we need to bedocumented the best we can to prevent

    accidents.

    23) Experience helps us become moreproductive.

    24) Experience helps us more easilyachieve our personal goals.

    25) Luxury leads very often toincontinence.26) Luxury ruined many empires.27) Many in pursuit of riches aredestroying true love.

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    28) Illegal actions lead us to prison.Warning. You can easily go to prison.

    Read the Criminal Code.29) Negative actions always harm usand others more or less.

    30) Life is too beautiful to spend part ofits freedom in prison to satisfy the desire

    of luxury.31) If we are well documented we can

    prevent many possible unpleasant

    surprises.

    32) Thinking long term helps andcontributes greatly to achieve our goals.

    33) Young people are eager for actionbecause they are very optimistic.

    34) Patience with oneself helps usachieve true friendships.35) Patience with the other helps andcontributes greatly to maintaining a

    friendship true.

    36) Patience with the other helps and

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    contributes greatly to achieving many

    successes.

    37)

    Principles help us achieve moresuccess.

    38) Positive principles help us andcontribute greatly to maintaining an

    effective cooperation.

    39) Positive principles help us andcontribute greatly to being liked.

    40) Superstitions sometimes hinder ourachievement of personal goals.

    41) Sometimes some superstitions aretaken from other people without any

    judgment.

    42) The foolish man is extremelydangerous.

    43) The evil man through his meannessalso harms himself a lot.44) Artfulness is a very dangerous flaw.45) In any case we need to have the

    personal goal of preventing any flaw.

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    46) Family violence harms the veryhappy marriage.

    47)

    Arguments contribute more to thecomplication of matters rather than

    solving them.

    48) Quarrels between friends harm truefriendship very much.

    49) The harmony between spouses isgood for the children.

    50) The harmony between familymembers makes life more beautiful.

    51) The consumption of alcohol overthe normal limit in all individuals is

    harmful in one way or another.

    52) The excessive consumption ofalcohol can be prevented by most people.

    53) The support of a family member, byother members of his family, in order toprevent any act of aggression on the other

    family members is required to become a

    personal goal continuously, day by day,

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    for as long as we live.

    54) Any act of aggression of onemember by another family member isinadmissible and can not be justified.

    55) How we love differs from person toperson.

    56) A more realistic and more intimateself- knowledge helps and contributesgreatly to the maintenance of mature love.

    57) A more realistic and more intimateself- knowledge helps and contributes

    greatly to maintaining a happy marriage.

    58) Mature love creates certaininterdependencies between the two lovers

    but also gives them a lot of independence

    in many situations.

    59) Increasing the ability to focusattention helps us and contributes toachieving independence.

    60) Each of us needs to discover all hisqualities and to grow as much as possible

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    in order to increase our chances of

    achieving more and greater successes.

    61)

    Managing more effectively ourtime, continuously, day by day, for as long

    as we live needs to be a personal goal.

    62) Those who are superficial in whatthey do will be the first on the list of

    dismissals.63) Individual qualities help andcontribute greatly to achieving successes.

    64) Without dedication we can notachieve great successes.

    65) The actions of prevention helpprevent many arguments.

    66) Without dedication we can notachieve more effective actions.

    67) Self- control helps us achieve ahappy marriage.68) Positive ideas help us achieve

    personal goals.

    69) Pride must not be found among

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    friends.

    70) In any action we act, we expand oureffectiveness if we have effective cooperations.

    71) Each of us needs to pay theattention and time needed to develop

    preventive thinking.

    72) Each parent needs and must formand develop in his children, since they are

    small, positive thinking.

    73) Humanist thinking contributesgreatly to the humanization of society.

    74) Determination is a quality that helpsus and contributes greatly to achieving a

    happy marriage.

    75) Sincerity is a quality thatcontributes greatly to maintaining maturelove.

    76) Sincerity contributes greatly toachieving true friendships.

    77) It is permanently a necessary that

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    we have only positive effective actions.

    Warning. Good luck.

    78)

    Success is obtained only withpositive effective actions.

    79) Positive effective actions are thosethat carry out personal objectives.

    80) Positive effective actions maintain ahappy marriage.81) It is necessary for children to learncontinuously, day by day, only positive

    effective actions.

    82) There are still too many parentswho do not give the attention and time

    needed to educate and raise their children.

    83) Each of the parents should be positive and effective models for their

    children.84) Effective co operations anddevelopments are due to very positive

    effective actions.

    85) We can achieve a happy life only

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    through positive effective actions.

    86) Only effective positive actionsshould be promoted.87) Superficiality in action prevents usto achieve positive effective actions.

    88) Bad faith breaks many truefriendships.

    89) Bad faith leads to the ending ofmany effective co operations.

    90) Bad faith makes those who giveevidence of bad faith be rejected by

    others.

    91) Bad faith between spousesultimately leads to divorce.

    92) Bad faith is not appreciated byanyone.

    93) Laziness of one of the spouses islikely to lead to divorce.94) Laziness has never led to anything.95) Laziness makes people who are lazy

    be put on the lists of dismissals.

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    96) Laziness has never led to theachievement of any success.

    97)

    In reality there are many moreincredible facts than people think can

    happen.

    98) People want be respected but inmany behaviors, unfortunately, they are

    thick-skinned.99) Senselessness is a muchunappreciated behavior.

    100) Each of us must reject rudebehaviors.

    101) Illiterate people as well as literateones sometimes have behaviors that lack

    common sense.

    102) Lack of common sense is anunacceptable defect of any man.103) Lack of good sense is also veryharmful to those who have it.

    104) Many of us reject those who do nothave the good sense to make us friends.

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    105) Those who are thick-skinned oftenhave no shame for their lack of common

    sense.106) They have shame only thosepersons who have common sense.

    107) Shame is a reaction that shows thata man has good sense.

    108) He who has no shame has nocommon sense.

    109) Senselessness in the relationship between spouses, if repeated, often leads

    to the destruction of the happy marriage.

    110) Mature love gives us additionalpowers.

    111) Effective positive actions contributegreatly to a happy marriage.

    112) We sympathize those who havepositive effective actions.113) It is an absurdity. Those who aremore thick-skinned ask and pretend to be

    respected unconditionally.

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    114) It is an absurdity. Those who areunfair towards others ask others to be fair

    with them.115) Lack of common sense revoltsmany people.

    116) Common sense is a fundamentalquality which is necessary and required

    for each of us to have in any situation.117) Some who believe they are cool andwho demand unconditional respect do not

    have at least common some sense in many

    situations.

    118) There still are, unfortunately, in theXXI st century dignitaries in many

    countries which do not have any common

    sense, having the boldness to hold their

    position that they can not cope with.119) Those who have common sensesucceed to master it when people who

    have no common sense have behaviors

    that lack common sense.

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    120) There still are, unfortunately, in2007, so many people without common

    sense.121) He who is bold has no commonsense.

    122) He who is cunning has commonsense to succeed in his cunningness.

    123) Sometimes life offers us incrediblesituations. Some employees are very

    hardworking, they risk their health and

    even their life at work for a business to be

    effective and to succeed and all these

    employees sometimes steal from the

    company where they work, harming

    themselves a lot.

    124) Unfortunately in 2007 still in manycountries the abnormal takes the place ofthe normal and many people do not do

    anything to turn around the reality so that

    the normal takes the place of

    abnormalities more and more.

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    125) Although abnormalities enormouslyharm many people, there are still people in

    many countries who are very passive,inactive to replace the abnormalities with

    normality.

    126) Abnormalities in our society greatlyhinder our chances of achieving personal

    goals.127) We feel true happiness when wehave a happy marriage.

    128) A happy marriage is a shield againstlifes troubles.

    129) A happy marriage helps us to moreeffectively develop a harmonious

    personality.

    130) In a happy marriage as opposed toin an unhappy marriage it is much morelikely to raise and educate children better

    and more efficiently.

    131) Insults can not be found in humanrelations.

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    132) Repeated insults between friendsare likely to destroy the real friendship.

    133)

    Repeated insults between spouseshave very high chances to destroy a happy

    marriage.

    134) Insulting is a primitive behavior.135) Insulting does not create anything

    positive.136) Insulting gives evidence of lack ofcommon sense.

    137) Insulting is making a big mistake.138) Insulting harms the one who does sosometimes very badly.

    139) Cunningness of two friends destroystheir friendship.

    140) In addition to being a bastard a bastard man hasnt at least any commonsense many times.

    141) Unscrupulousness removes theothers from the unscrupulous one.

    142) Unscrupulousness is very

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    repugnant.

    143) Fear to act in a certain field iscreated sometimes by having noexperience in that field.

    144) Those who have achieved a happymarriage are necessary to have as a

    personal objective the protection of the

    happy marriage every day.145) Life sometimes seems very simple,sometimes very complicated.

    146) A balanced life helps us very muchto keep our marriage happy.

    147) A balanced life helps us get a lotmore success.

    148) Hopes make our life more beautiful.149) Hopes create our happiness150) Hopes contribute to a situationwhere we feel good.151) Hopes are creators of optimism.152) Hopes contribute to creatingenthusiasm.

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    153) Those who have the same hopes areunited by those hopes.

    154)

    Activism is the creator of success.155) Activism maintains our health.156) Activism makes our life more

    beautiful.

    157) Activism helps us and contributesvery much to have more opportunities tomeet more favorable circumstances.

    158) Activism helps us very much, andincreases our chances of achieving

    personal goals.

    159) Moral qualities help us keep ourhappy marriage.

    160) The hopes of both spousescontribute greatly to maintaining a happy

    marriage.161) Hopes create our personal goals.162) Hopes make us form our long-termthinking.

    163) Hopes make us be more dynamic.

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    164) Hopes help us and make us not giveup.

    165)

    Hopes maintain us consistentlyoptimistic.

    166) Hopes are very constructive.167) Hopes create our energy.168) Hopes are the creators of happiness.169) One hope can be a creator ofanother hope or of other hopes.

    170) Life without hope is a life left tochance.

    171) Those who are arrogant are rejectedmany times in many actions by those who

    are not arrogant.

    172) Arrogance is a brake, is an obstacleto achieving many friendships.

    173) Brutality removes us from others.174) Brutality is a primitive behavior.175) Brutality is an inefficiency ofeducation.

    176) Aberrations reduce the credibility of

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    the one who tells aberrations.

    177) Aberrations disqualify the one whotells aberrations.178) Aberrations unfortunatelysometimes cause so much harm.

    179) Unfortunately, sometimes someaberrations are not considered aberrations

    although they are aberrations.180) Sometimes we can destroy ourcredibility only by a single negative deed.

    181) Credibility is also created bypositive facts.

    182) Credibility is very importantalthough many people do not take it as a

    great value.

    183) It is very hard to build credibility,but you can lose it very easily.184) Very often it is better not to giveour opinion than to talk only for the sake

    of talking.

    185) Promptness is a very effective

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    behavior.

    186) Promptness made people rich.187)

    Promptness is an essential humanbusiness quality.

    188) Promptness in relations with othersshows that we respect that person.

    189) Promptness helps us and contributesgreatly to the achievement of our personalgoals.

    190) Promptness is also a quality of anefficient man.

    191) Promptness is appreciated by all ofus.

    192) Promptness helps and contributes toincreasing our credibility.

    193) Sometimes prejudices harm thosewho have them a lot.194) It is required to discover all

    prejudices and no longer use them.

    195) Prejudices are often the causes ofmany failures.

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    196) A balanced life helps us keep ourspiritual equilibrium.

    197)

    Hopes slow our aging.198) Hopes help us contribute to havingmore opportunities to meet more favorable

    circumstances.

    199) Immorality makes the immoral onesbe rejected by others.200) Immorality undermines the veryimmoral one.

    201) Immorality is a factor of manyfailures.

    202) Immorality is a question of manymisfortunes.

    203) He who is immoral is not credible inmany situations.

    204) Sometimes hopes are verminous.205) Our future is very much influencedby our hopes.

    206) The quality of our objectivesdetermines the quality of our future.

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    207) The Internet can help us enormouslyto achieve a happier future.

    208)

    The moral beauty of a womancomplements her natural beauty and

    makes her more attractive.

    209) There are men who appreciate morethe moral beauty than the physical beauty

    of a woman.210) The actions of our past help us verymuch to expand the effectiveness of our

    present and future.

    211) Very unfortunately many peopletalk for the sake of talking, or for other

    reasons and do not think about what they

    are saying.

    212) Those who speak without thinkingwhat they are talking harm themselves.213) Our time is too valuable to lose itwith small things.

    214) The more able we are to use ourtime more effectively the more quickly we

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    are able to achieve our objectives.

    215) The work of journalists is particularly important for society and people, only when you contribute

    positively to the good of society.

    216) Every journalist has a greatresponsibility towards himself, towards

    others, towards society because of the possible impact of what he does, which

    may be a positive or negative case.

    217) Unfortunately there are still journalists in the world who have

    forgotten the great responsibility they have

    because of the work they do.

    218) The work of journalists is veryrisky, which shows that those journalists

    demonstrate concrete, practicalresponsibility.

    219) The work of correct journalists mustbe supported by all of us, appreciated and

    rewarded at its just value, according to the

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    case.

    220) The work of journalists is moreimportant than it is supported by the state.221) The work of journalists should bemore supported by the society, the state

    and the people, because of its special

    importance to the good of the people.

    222) States must provide journalists withmore protection than before to threats and

    risks of their activities, some of which are

    very big.

    223) It is necessary and required to assistthe work of journalists with everything

    that is necessary.

    224) Trade unions should have only aconstructive role in everything they do.

    225) Trade unions must participateconstructively, work with the managementto streamline employment, to solve

    problems for working people and

    companies in order to prevent bankruptcy,

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    unemployment.

    226) Trade unions should be moreconcerned about finding jobs for thosewho have reduced employment for

    objective reasons.

    227) People who have hopes always haveemployment.

    228) Inner beauty can compensate forphysical beauty.

    229) Natural beauty is worth much lesswithout inner beauty.

    230) If the environment is not positive itshould not influence us.

    231) Each of us must work to be better,not expect to be better.

    232) We will certainly be better if we acteffectively to be better in addition to otherfactors that make us better.

    233) People should know that by theiractions for a better society each can

    contribute more or less to a better world.

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    234) The participation of each man in theworld through positive, concrete and

    effective actions for the implementation ofa better world creates a huge force that

    will have enormously incredible positive

    effects.

    235) The states institutions need tomanage the public money more carefully,more efficiently, more responsibility

    because now this leaves much to be

    desired.

    236) The states need and must build asufficient number of kindergartens to

    ensure children's harmonious growth and

    education corresponding to their

    personality.

    237) There are many situations in whichwomen have greater efficiency than men.238) Sometimes there are certainsituations in which women do what men

    can do.

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    239) Men need to respect women fortheir outstanding positive facts.

    240)

    Women should not feel that men arecomplexing them.

    241) The respect of the family can beachieved through respect for the other.

    242) It is unbelievable, but it is a reality.Some want to be respected but they do notrespect the others.

    243) Respect requires respect.244) He who has no common sense hasno respect for others.

    245) States have as a main objective, inaddition to others, to ensure a quality of

    life appropriate for people.

    246) States unfortunately do too little toensure a proper quality of human life.247) States are not sufficiently concernedwith the creation of work places.

    248) States are not sufficientlyconcerned, in a necessary and effective

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    way, with the prevention of the lack of

    compliance with the laws.

    249)

    Self-knowledge helps us form thequalities that we do not have but that we

    need.

    250) A more profound self- knowledgeincreases more and more our chances to

    come across more favorablecircumstances.

    251) Some journalists risk their work,freedom, health, life for us to offer society

    and people as much as they can but we do

    not unfortunately know and do not

    appreciate them, reward them enough for

    what they do for us.

    252) The work of journalists is veryrisky, full of many risks and in many casesthey are persecuted or beaten unjustly and

    they do not have ensured, unfortunately, a

    necessary and legal protection.

    253) They deserve to be appreciated,

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    honored, respected and rewarded, all those

    journalists who do not act by order to

    unjustly hit some people, or groups ofpeople.

    254) A journalist who knowingly, forsome reward, misinforms private citizens

    has no moral right to be a journalist, but

    also because legally his facts are crimes.255) Pettiness is a very big flaw thatharms greatly also the petty one.

    256) Children are suffering very highmental trauma when parents divorce. Dear

    parents, if you have children, before the

    divorce, look to find solutions to prevent

    the divorce and to achieve a happy

    marriage for both you and your children.

    To be sure you have the qualities requiredand can perform a real, happy marriage, if

    both of you cooperate sincerely, if you are

    both more tolerant with each other, if you

    make all the compromises necessary, if

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    you do not worry about all kinds of

    complexes, if you want to understand the

    other, if you lose pride to nonsense, if youdo what is necessary for both spouses and

    children to be happy and there is no need

    to do something the other does not desire,

    but what the situation requires to have a

    happy marriage. Trust in yourselves, youdo not play with your marriage, your

    children, with your happiness because you

    have the qualities necessary to have a

    happy marriage and happy children and to

    surpass all the difficulties that appear.

    257) The qualities of the wife make thehusband happy.

    258) The qualities of parents makechildren happy.259) Men without women can not befully happy again.

    260) Women ensure true maritalhappiness.

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    261) What parents can provide childrennobody can give them, never. Warning.

    So, do not get a divorce.262) Parental love and warmth can not begiven to children by anyone. Warning. Do

    not get a divorce.

    263) The joys that are given to childrenby their mother are unique and nobody canreplace them. So, do not get a divorce.

    264) The joys that are also given tochildren by their father are unique and

    nobody can replace them. So, do not get a

    divorce.

    265) Moral values help us a lot tomaintain a happy marriage.

    266) Constructive thinking makes usbelievable.267) The desire to succeed in life must beappreciated.

    268) Positive actions must be rewarded.269) The strong desire to succeed in life

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    increases our chances to do so.

    270) The desire to succeed in life helpsus a lot to achieve more successes.271) The desire to succeed in life must besupported.

    272) Happy long-lasting marriages havemany positive effects.

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    About the author and his ideas

    Hmm ... I do not know where to begin. It is difficult to really know

    someone. Often, the person on whom

    you stopped is difficult to decipher.

    That is not the case of Gheorghe

    Cornel Ardelean. From the first

    moment I knew and he got my

    attention.

    I recognized him immediately

    from the descriptions made by hiscolleagues: "One small, with white

    haired man with many books and

    newspapers in his hand, they said. My

    curiosity pushed me to address him,cheerful, open; he began to talk to me

    as if we knew each other for years. A

    person opened both to dialogue as well

    as current jokes. I got to know him

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    even better when we met at Club

    Central. A nice company as long as

    you succeed not to be attracted in that part of the discussion where his future

    plans are. Plans that are repeated

    endlessly become a burden for the

    people around him. Not because it

    would be something wrong in what he

    says but through their very

    repeatability.

    On several occasions I have read

    some of his meditations, others have been published in the magazine

    "Freedom in Thought".

    By their simplicity and the fact

    that they expresses absolute truths, forthose who do not take seriously the

    writings of Cornel Gheorghe Ardelean

    they may seem indeed to read seriously

    what to write, I bet they will find

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    among the apparently simple lines, a

    message equal to a person who has

    suffered enormously because ofhuman and system injustices.

    The cry of a man eager for more,

    eager for simplicity, for the truth and

    for a Utopia, wishful of a perfect

    world.

    If even 10% of what he writes

    would be put into practice by us, then

    certainly we would set ourselves and

    with others at the same time.Surprisingly, nobody sees that Cornel

    Gheorghe Ardelean even puts into

    practice what he writes, which means

    that he really believes it.With an analytical style

    impossible to confuse, Mr. Cornel

    Gheorghe Ardelean is successful in a

    few lines and penetrates into the

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    essence of truth. By this thinking, he is

    venturing into an area still unexplored

    in specialized literature.Specialized topics are part of the

    absolute truths that each of us have

    deep within our being, so

    acknowledged, so obvious, so natural

    that no one has ventured to put them

    on paper.

    But surely there will be many

    who, after reading and rereading these

    absolute truths will solve many of the problems of their existence. The

    novelty that makes Cornel Gheorghe

    Ardelean stand out besides putting on

    paper a well-known truth, is that it alsoleads to problem solving. It is a

    promising start in an area of astute

    competition and often an unscrupulous

    one.

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    I wish you success Mr. Ardelean

    and may these meditations help as

    many people as possible. Do not giveup, continue on the path that you have

    chosen and maybe in the nearer or

    further future the world will be at least

    5% as you want it to be.

    Do not give up ... We ... only a

    few, I must admit, we are beside you.

    SIMION SEBASTIAN EDUARD

    Graduate of the Academy of Theater

    and Film

    Former journalist of the national

    newspapers and Romania Libera,Evenimentul Zilei, was Her Majesty's

    Paul of Romanias adviser

    a businessman resident in Italy

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    Gheorghe Cornel

    Ardelean Writer (66

    books written in English,

    66 in Romanian,7 edited)born 03rd.11.1954, in

    Macea, Arad County,

    Email:

    [email protected]

    www.ardeleancornel.euI have known the economist Cornel Ardelean

    for dozens of years, as a guy that outraged the

    thought of some who did not believe in his ideas,

    innovative, simply put but with a long and efficient

    duration. After the Revolution he proved that he is

    indeed a good economist by founding the first smallenterprise of Arad County, in the year 1990 of the

    post-communist age.

    I have always been by Cornel Ardeleans

    side, never ceasing to believe that the man can rise

    above his time if he wishes to and if he has the

    potential to do it.

    SABIN BODEA

    President of the Writers League of Romania

    Arad Branch

    ISBN 978-973-88998-0-3

    ISBN 978 973 88999 4 0