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year ago my life was shattered. I was exhausted. My dad

had died out of a sudden and my relationships were

chaotic. I didnt suspect then that out of the darkest

sadness was about to appear the most precious gift. I could

see a big Secret. I followed it throughout history. The secret had been

buried. The secret had been wanted. The secret had been forbidden.

I couldnt believe who were those who knew it. They were the greatest

men in history. All I wanted was to share it with the others. I started

looking for contemporary people who knew it. One by one theystarted to appear. This secret gives you all that you want: happiness,

health and riches. You can have, do and be whatever you desire.

We can really have all that we want. It doesnt matter how big. What

would you like the house you live in to be like? Would you like to be

a millionaire? What kind of business do you want? Do you want

more success? What is it that you really desire?

I witnessed miracles happening in peoples lives. Financial miracles,physical or mental recovery, relationships recovery. All these

happened thanks to the Secret knowing and applying it.

The secret is the answer to everything that has been, everything there

is, and to everything there will be.- R. W. Emerson

You are probably wondering: what is this secret? I will tell you how I

got to understand it. We all function based on the same infinite

energy. We are all guided by the same laws. The natural laws of theuniverse are so exact that we never meet any difficulty when we

build spaceships. We can send people to the moon and we can

calculate the landing time by seconds. It does not matter if you are


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in India, in Australia or in New Zeeland, Stockholm or London,

Toronto, Montreal or New York. We are all guided by the same power.

Of the same law. It is all about attraction. The secret is the Law of

Attraction. Everything that happens in your life happens because it

is attracted by you. All comes to you because of the images in yourmind. It is about what you think. The processes in your mind attract

what happens to you.

Wise men knew this forever. You can track history back to

Babylonians. They knew this too. Not all of them, only the chosen

ones.

Why do you think 1% of the worlds population earns 96% of what

can be earned? Do you believe it is an accident? It is not. It is theway things happen. They understand something. The Secret. Now

you are about to enter the mysteries of the Secret. The simplest way

of understanding the Law of Attraction is to consider myself a

magnet. I know a magnet is something that attracts things. In

essence, the Law of Attraction says the similar attracts the similar.

But now we are talking about the process of thinking. Our job as

people is to keep in mind what we want to do, to clarify our

purposes. Starting from here, we begin to evoke one of the greatest

laws of the universe, the Law of Attraction.

You become what you think of most of the time but you also attract

the things you think of more often. If you understand this, you

understand everything. The principle can be resumed in three simple

words: thoughts become things. What most people do not

understand is that every thought has a frequency. They can be

measured. If you think of something over and over again, if you keep

in your head that you have that brand-new car, that you have the

money that you need, that you build that company, that you canfind your soul-mate, then you constantly send that frequency forth.

Thoughts send forth that electromagnetical signal which turns to

you everything that resembles them. Picture yourself living in

abundance and you will attract abundance. This works every time,


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no matter who you are. The problem is that most people think of

what they do not want and wonder why this comes into their lives

over and over again. The Law of Attraction does not take into

account that what you think is good or bad or that you like it or not.

The think responds to your thoughts. If you always think about thedebts you have, this is the signal you send to the universe. "Oh, I feel

terrible because of my debts you keep telling this to yourself and

feel it with all your being. Then this is what you will get. So, when

you focus on the thing you desire and open yourself to it, you

activate a thought, and the Law of Attraction responds to that

thought by bringing to you the things you want. But when you focus

on what you do not want and say no, you actually turn it away. On

the contrary, you activate the very thought of what you do not want

and the Law of Attraction brings it to you.

We live in a universe based on attraction, everything is about

attraction. The Law of Attraction functions all the time, no matter if

you believe in it or no, if you understand it or no. If you think of the

past, present or future, if you remember, observe or imagine, you

give birth to a thought and thus you activate the Law of Attraction,

which is the most powerful law of the universe and which responds

to your thought.

All the time something is being created. Every time a person thinks

of something or insists on a thought something is created. A thing

will appear out of those thoughts. The Law of Attraction says that

you will be given that thing you focus on. If you complain that what

is given to you is negative, you will create something even worse.

I had a student named Robert who was homosexual and we kept in

touch within an e-mail course. He told me about the sorrows in his

life. At work everybody was against him and he was stressed aboutthe way he was treated. When he was on the street he was accosted

by homophobes, who offended him. He wanted to become a

comedian, but when he was give a part, the public laughed at him

because he was homosexual. His entire life was misery and pain and


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all revolved around the thought that he was treated that way

because he was homosexual. I started to show him that all came

from the fact that he focused on what he did not want. I showed him

an e-mail he had sent to me and I told him: read it again. Revise all

the things you do not desire and you write about. You write aboutthem extremely passionately. When you focus very much on one

thing you cause that thing to happen very fast." Then he began the

following exercise: to focus on what he really desired. He started to

go on that path. What happened within the next 6-8- weeks was a

real miracle. He told me that all the people at work who laughed

about him had either been transferred to other departments or left

the company, and some of them simply let him be. He started to love

his work. He then noticed that when he was on the street, nobody

bothered him. Those people werent there anymore. Playing hiscomedy role, he started to be applauded, nobody insulted him

anymore. His entire life changed because he had changed his way of

thinking from what he did not want, what caused him fear, to what

de really wanted.

If we have positive thinking and have positive orientation, we attract

the right people, the right events and situations. If we are negatively

oriented or angry, we attract mean, angry people and negative

situations. Thus we come to attract what resembles our permanentthoughts, no matter if these thoughts are conscious or not. This is

the Secret.

If you pay attention to the secret, to the power of our minds, and to

the power of our intentions in everyday life, you will realize that the

Secret is present everywhere. All you have to do is open your eyes

and watch carefully. You have the proof of the Law of Attraction in

society when you see that the one who has the disease talks about it

most of the time. When you see that the one who talks more aboutprosperity has it. The Law of Attraction is obvious everywhere

around you, if you understand what it is about.


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You are a magnet that attracts people, thoughts, occurrences and

ways of life. Indeed, all that you bring into your life happens because

of the Law of Attraction. Im not talking about simple illusions or

mad fantasies. Im talking about a deeper understanding, a

fundamental understanding.

Quantum physics starts to talk about this discovery. It says that you

cannot have a universe without mentally entering it. That it is the

mind that moulds the perceived thing. Even if you do not understand

it, it does not mean that you have to reject it. You do not fully

understand electricity. Even if you do not understand it, it does not

mean that you do not enjoy its advantages. Do you know how it

works? Because I dont. but I know one thing: that you can cook

dinner with its help and that you can even fry someone with it.

When people begin to understand the big Secret, they start to be

terrified by all the negative thoughts they have. They have to be

aware of two things that it has been scientifically proven that a

positive thought is a thousand times more powerful than a negative

one, and thus things are clear from the beginning.

You live in a reality in which time manifests itself through a buffer.

This is in your advantage. I dont believe you would like to live in anenvironment where your thoughts have an immediate effect. The

proof they manifest comes only after a while and this is good. Thus

you have the opportunity to become aware of your thoughts. Since

you have the time to carefully choose your thoughts, enjoy this

activity, because you are the masterpiece of your own life. You are

the Michelangelo of your own existence, and the David you are

sculpting is you.

The leaders from the past who knew this Secret wanted to keeppower to themselves, not to share it. So they kept people ignorant

about it. People went to work, did their jobs and came back home.

They worked mechanically and had no power, because the secret

was kept in dark by several people.


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We live in a universe governed by laws. There is a gravity law

according to which, if you fall off a building, no matter what kind of

person you are, good or bad, youll hit the ground. Everything that

you have in your life now, including the things you complain about,are the things you have attracted. I know from the very beginning

that you will not like what Im about to tell you. You cannot agree

that you attracted a car accident. That you attracted that specific car

accident. That you attract all the things you complain about. But I

will be honest with you and I will tell you that YES, you did that.

This is one of the things that you find hard to digest, but once youve

accepted it, your life will change. This is part of the big Secret.

Most of us attract by their own way of being. We are convinced thatwe cannot control this. Our thoughts are on automatic pilot, our

feelings too and thus everything comes to us without letting us

know. If you hear this for the first time you probably wonder if you

have to monitor your own thoughts. Because it means a lot of effort.

It does, at the beginning. But the great part comes now. It is not

advisable for you to monitor your thoughts this would drive you

mad. There are so many thoughts that come to you from so many

directions and about a lot of subjects. Here comes the role of your

emotional guiding system. Your emotions your emotional system are the ones which help you understand your thoughts.

Your thoughts determine your feelings. Emotions are a gift we have

and they show us what we attract. There are, from our perspective,

only two kinds of emotions. Positive and negative. You can call them

what you want; but in essence, all negative emotions guilt, anger,

frustration produce the same state of being. They make you feel

bad. All these emotions are in fact a guidance system which tells you

that what you are thinking now does not correspond to what youreally want. At another level we can talk about a negative frequency,

or negative vibrations or whatever you want to call them. Emotions

which make you feel good hope, happiness, love positive emotions


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constitute also a guidance system which tells you that what you are

thinking now is what you desire.

It is very simple. The answer is here. What is it that I attract right

now? Well, how do you feel? I feel well. Very well, go on. Our feelingsare feed-back a mechanism which tells us if we are on the way we

should be. The better you feel, the better you are positioned

according to what you want. The worst you feel, the worst you are

positioned.

When you experience daily events you do nothing else but produce

thoughts which mould your future experience. You can tell, by the

way you feel, if you are going to like the things you are heading

towards when you get there. What you feel is the perfect mirror ofyour development. You are heading towards you feel, and not so

much towards what you believe. If you hurt your leg in the morning

when you get out of bed, you tend to do the same all day long. You

do not even realize that a mere change of your emotional state can

change your entire day and your entire life. If you start your day

feeling good, as long as you will not let anything to influence your

feelings, you will continue to attract, according to the Law of

Attraction, occurances and people that sustain this feeling of

wellness.

No matter if days are better or worse, the rich will be richer and the

poor, poorer. Everything is connected to what these people feel all

the time. You can begin right now to feel healthy. You can begin to

feel wealthy. You can begin to feel the love around you, even if it is

not there. What is going to happen is that the universe will respond

to the nature of the song inside you. The universe will correspond to

the nature of your inner feeling and will be manifested consequently,

because this is who you feel. Thus, the thing you focus on, mentallyand emotionally, is the thing you attract in your life, no matter if it is

what you want or not.


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There is always a connection between what you feel and think and

what happens to you. Always. Without exception. This is not easy to

accept. But when you begin to open your heart to this type of

understanding, the consequences are huge. It means that everything

your thoughts did in your life can be undone by a mere change ofconscious perception.

You create your own universe throughout your life. W. Churchill

It is really important to feel well because this state will give a signal

into the universe and will begin to attract towards you what is

similar to it. Thus, the better you feel, the more you attract things

which make you feel even better. Do you know that when you feel

down, you can change this in a minute? Play some nice music. Startsinging. This will change your emotional state. Or think of something

nice. Think of a child. Maybe of the one you love. Now insist upon

this image. Keep it into your mind, blocking anything else. I

guarantee that you will begin to feel better. The same can be applied

to pets, which are wonderful because they create a good feeling. The

love for your pet is a great gift.

When you start playing this game, when you start guiding your

thoughts according to the way they make you feel and you begin tofeel the relation between what you feel and think and what comes to

you, you will realize that without knowing it you are the creator of

your own reality. Those who watch these things from afar will be

amazed at the perfection of the life you will lead.

Ever since I learned the Secret and I started to apply it in my life, my

existence became magical. I think the way of life everybody dreams of

and I live it every day. I live in a 4.5 millions house. I have a wife you

could die for. I go on holiday in the most fabulous places in theworld, I have climbed mountains, explored the world, went on a

safari. All these happened and continue to happen because I can

apply the Secret. Life can be fantastic the way it is supposed to be

and it will be that way the moment you apply the Secret.


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A lot of people ask me what their role in creating the Universe is and

what the role of the Universe is. Let us examine a little bit this

subject. Let us take the metaphor of Aladdin and the magic Lamp.

You have probably heard the story. Aladdin lifts the lamp and cleansit and from the lamp there appears a gin. The gin always says the

following words: Your desire is command for me. Everybody knows

one can ask for only three things, but if you think better, there is no

limit concerning the number of desires. Think about it. Now let us

take the metaphor and apply it to your life. Imagine Aladdin is the

one who always asks for what he wants. Then we take the universe,

which is the great gin and which the well-known traditions have

named in different ways. We can give it any name, so choose the

name you want. All traditions tell us there is something above us.The gin says only one thing, Your desire is command for me.

The creative process is a three-step process.

The first step is to ask for what you want. You dont necessarily have

to use words in order to ask. In fact, the Universe doesnt hear

words. It answers your thoughts. What do you really want? Sit down

and write what you want on a piece of paper. Use the present tense.

You can begin by writing: I am so happy and pleased that now

and then explain how you want your life to be like. In every of itsaspects. It is as if you have the Universe as a catalogue and you look

through it saying Id like to experience this and have this, and Id

like to have such a partner. By so doing you only impose your own

order in the universe. It is easy.

The second step is the answer. Answer your demands. It is not about

giving physical shape to your demands. The Universe will do it for

you. All universal forces will answer the thoughts you have put in

motion. The gin: Your desire is command for me. The universe will

begin to rearrange in order to respond to your wishes. Most of ushavent allowed ourselves to wish for what we really want, because

we could not see how this could happen to us. If you search a little,

you will see that everyone has once accomplished something he did

not know how to carry on in the beginning. He only knew that he


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was going to do that thing. You do not need to know how that thing

is going to happen. You do not need to know how the universe is

going to rearrange. You do not know how, this will be shown to you.

You will only attract the way it is going to happen. Someone might

say, "There must be something that does not work, because I ask forit but it does not appear. indeed, you ask for it. But this is only the

first step. The Universe answers every time, without exception.

There is one more step you need to understand which means

accepting what you ask for. In order to get what you want you need

to be on the same wave length with what you ask for. And in this

case you feel great. This is the enthusiasm, the happiness, this is the

gratitude. When you feel despair, fear, anger, these feelings indicate

the fact that you are not on the same wave length with what you ask

for. When you begin to understand that what you feel is everything,you start redirecting your thoughts according to the feelings they

cause. You slowly find their place and become one with them and

they will manifest in your existence. When you start to transpose

fantasies into facts you will be able to build more daring fantasies.

This is, my friend, the creative process.

The Law of Attraction, its study and practice, means nothing more

than understanding the way you could generate the feeling of having

what you desire that very moment. Go and test the car you like, goand find out how you could buy the house you would like to live in,

enter that house. Do everything you need to do to generate the

feeling that you have that thing, and then remember that feeling.

Everything you do for this will help you attract that thing. When you

wake up that thing may already be there. An idea about how you

could act may come to you. But do not dare to think I could do that

like this, but I wouldnt like it. In this case you are on the wrong

way. Action is good in certain cases, but it is on the same wave

length with what the Universe is trying to give you, you will feel joy,you will feel alive. Time will stop; you could do this the whole day.

Universe likes speed, so do not be late, do not think twice, do not

doubt. When opportunity comes along, when the impulse is there,


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when intuition says yes, act upon it. This is your job. This is what

you need to do. You will attract everything you ask for.

If you need money, you will attract it, if you need people, you will

attract them. If you need a certain book, you will attract it. You needto pay attention to what attracts you, because when you

permanently have in mind what you desire, you will be attracted to

those things and they will be attracted to you. Thoughts get material

consistence with and through you. This is certain. You may start

from zero. Starting from zero and from impossibility, a possibility will

be born. Think about it.

If you go by car during the night, the headlights spread light only

100 meters ahead. However, you can go from California to New Yorkby driving at night because all you need to see is the hundred meters

ahead of you. This is how our life goes on too. If we trust the next

hundred meters, there will be the next hundred, and yet another

one. Our life will go on and will take us to the destination or

wherever we want to go because we really want it.

Make the first step trustfully. You do not need to see the entire flight of

stairs. Just step on. - M.L. King

Another question people ask is: How long will it be before I have

what I desire? How long will it be before I have the car I want, before

the relationship becomes solid, before the money comes and so on.

Well, there is no set of rules to tell the process will last 30 minutes, 3

days or 30 days. This depends on your relationship with the

universe; dimension means nothing to the Universe. It is not more

difficult to attract something huge than to attract something tiny.

The universe does everything and with no effort. The grass is not

trying to grow, it does this effortlessly. It is all about how things areorganized. Everything revolves around how things happen up here. It

is about what we feel when we say This is important, it will take me

some time or This is nothing, Ill solve it in half an hour. There are

rules we make ourselves. There are no rules as far as the Universe is


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concerned. Have the feeling that you own what you need right now.

The Universe will answer to you. Some people manage better with

small things, so we sometimes say to start with something small,

such as a cup of coffee. Focus on attracting a cup of coffee today.

Focuses on your own image by talking to a friend you havent seen ina long time. One way or another, someone will tell you about that

person or that person will start writing to you.

People are amazed at how fast I can find a parking space. Ive been

doing this since I first understood the Secret. I visualize a parking

space exactly where I want it to be ands in 95% of the cases the spot

awaits for me and all I need to do is stop the car right there. In 5% of

the cases I only have to wait a minute or two and someone leaves the

parking lot and I have my spot. So I do it all the time.

Most people are blocked, or constraint or limited by the

circumstances of their lives. What I want to show to you now is that,

no matter the circumstances in your life, they only represent reality,

ant it begins to change as soon as you start seeing this film and start

using the Secret. Sometimes you feel blocked, because you

continually think about the same things. So you come to the same

result all over again. The reason is that most people think as

reaction to what they can see. When you concentrate only on whatthere is, you can only think what there is the Law of Attraction does

nothing else but giving you more of that thing. When you only

observe what there is, you only think of what there is and the Law of

Attraction only gives you what there is. You must find a way of

approaching what there is from another point of view. Most people

see the circumstances of their present lives and say this is me. But

this is not what you are, this is what you were.

If you watch the present situation, lets say, for example you have nomoney, or you dont have the relationship you want, or your health is

not perfect. All these are not what you are, but the result of your

past actions and thoughts. So we live in fact in this residual state of

the thoughts and actions we accomplished in the past. When you


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consider only your present life circumstances and define yourself

through them, you sentence yourself not to have a future.

All that we are is the result of what we have thought. - Buddha

Well, what can be done to change your present life? I will tell you two

or three things. Start by writing down a list with the things that

bring contentment to your life. Start with this because in this way

your energy will be redirected. As a consequence, your thoughts will

be redirected. While before this exercise, youve focused on what you

do not have, on what brought discontentment to you, on your

problems, starting this exercise you go on a different path. You begin

to be grateful for what pleases you. Gratitude is the way to bring

more into your life. Every man knows that when his wife appreciateshim for what he does, he wants to do more in that direction. It is

always about appreciation. It attracts things to you, attracts support.

Ive been saying for some years now that everything we think and

everything we are pleased of attracts things of the same nature. This

is the feeling you must have. For me it is very energizing to wake up

every morning and say thank you. Every morning I get out of bed, I

say thank you. Then I think of the things I am grateful for while I

brush my teeth and do all the other things people do in the morning.

But this is not a routine since thoughts are always more and moreand make me feel grateful. Because as soon as you start having

different feelings towards what you already have, you will start

attracting more and more good things which make you feel grateful.

On the contrary, you could look around and say Well, I have a car I

dont want, I dont have the house I desire, I dont have my health, I

dont have the wife I need. Stop! All these are, in fact, things you do

not want. Focus on what you already have and for which you feel

grateful. Accustom your eyes to see this. It may be the very clothes

you wear. Maybe you prefer something else and you could get thatsomething soon if you start being grateful for what you have.

I think everyone passes difficult moments when they say, Things

dont go well or go badly and there are again problems in my family.


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I have found a rock but I dont simply keep it in my hand. I put it

into my pocket and I said to myself, Every time I touch this rock, I

think of something I am grateful for. So, every morning when I wake

up, I take the rock off my nightstand and I think of all the things I

am grateful for. What do I do during the night? I take the rock out ofmy pocket and here it is again. I have had some great experiences

with it.

I knew someone in South Africa who saw my rock and asked What

is it? I told him, and he started to call it The Gratitude Rock. Two

weeks later I got an e-amyl from him which wrote My son is dying

because of a rare disease. Can you send me the Gratitude Rock? it

was an ordinary rock, found on the street, so I told him Of course.

But I had to make sure the rock was special so I went to a river bankand I watched the rock carefully, I took the right one and I sent it to

him. Four or five months later I got an answer from him: My son is

better, but I have to tell you something: I have sold over a thousand

gratitude rocks, and I raised money for charity. Thanks a lot. It is

very important to have a grateful attitude.

Another thing I suggest you to do is change your life right now. This

change is so big; I dont have enough words to tell you how powerful

it would be for you.

I took some sequences from the Apollo mission and I introduced

them into the Olympic training program of the 80s and 90s. The

procedure is called repetition by visualization. When you visualize,

you materialize. What is interesting about our mind is that when I

applied the procedure on Olympic athletes by connecting them to

sophisticated monitorising equipment and simulated the exercises

only in their imagination, their muscles reacted as if they were really

running. How ban this be? The reason is that the mind does notdistinguish between the activity itself and its simulation. If things

are going on in the mind, they will go on outside it too. When you

visualize something focus only on the final result. For example watch

your hands. You can see the color of the skin, the blood vessels, and


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the rings on your fingers, the nails. Fix these images into your mind

and then close your eyes and visualize you fingers holding your

brand-new car wheel. You will have such a feeling that you will no

longer want to have the car because you feel you already have it. The

feeling creates the attraction, and not the photo or the thought. Onthe other hand there are a lot of people who say If I have positive

thoughts and if I picture myself having what I want, this will be

enough. But if you do this and do not feel fulfilled, if you do not feel

love and joy, it means your mind does not produce the attraction.

This is the moment the Secret comes onto stage. You have to really

feel you are in that car, and not to tell yourself I would like to be in

that car. Or Someday I will have that car., because you have to

associate the feeling with the image. If you keep this feeling, you will

always situate in the future. Feel the joy despite the contrastbetween the feeling and your silent, dark room. And you will cry out:

Eureka! Do it!

Many people will say: Do I really need to do this? How much do you

want to change your life? The feeling and the inner visualization will

become the gate through which the power of the Universe will

manifest itself.

I cannot say what this power is. I only know it exists. - A. G. Bell

Our job is not to conceive the ways to get something. They how will

come along with the inner dedication and the faith. The ways to get

what we want are what the Universe needs to take care of. It always

knows the shortest, fastest and most harmonious path between you

and your dream. If you leave it to the Universe, you will be surprised

how much it will give you. What I want to say is that this attitude

must be adopted daily, but it must not become a burden. What is

really important about the secret is the feeling of wellness. The goalof this process is to lift your spirits. Be happy, in harmony with the

world. The only difference between the people who live this way and

those who do not experience the magic of life is that the latter have

turned this into a habit. They have turned this process into a daily


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activity, and the magic follows them around, because they always

keep it in mind and practice it all the time. Some people set off on

this road and do very well, and say you know, Im excited, I have

taken up this program and it will change my life. And still, the

results do not come immediately, even if they are ready to show. The,the person may say this does not work. And what does the universe

say? Your desire is my law. And stops what was about to come.

Knowing the Law of Attraction, I wanted to test it, in order to see

what happens. In 1995 I created a vision board to help me attract

what I wanted, such as a car or a house, or a watch, or the soul-

mate in my dreams. I put there a picture of what I wanted, I sat in

my office and watched it trying to visualize what I desired until I

came to the feeling I would have had if I had had the real object.

At a certain moment I moved out and I put the furniture and the

boxes to keep. I moved out three times in five years and finally I went

to California and I bought this house. I renovated it for a year and

then I brought all the things from the house I had lived in five years

ago.

One morning, at about half past seven, my son entered the office and

saw one of the boxes which had been sealed for five years. Then hesat near it and started kicking it. I told him Sweetheart, please stop,

I am busy. What is in the box, daddy? There is my vision board. It

is something I put my dreams on. Of course that my son, five years

old, did not understand. So I opened the box and I took it out. On it

there was the picture of the house I had dreamed of five years before

and I was amazed to see that it looked exactly like the house we were

living in. I had bought the house of my dreams without realizing it. I

started crying. Why are you crying? he asked. I have finally have

found out how the Law of Attraction functions, I answered. I finallyunderstood the power of visualization. I understood everything I had

read, everything I had done. The way I had built companies. The

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Imagination is everything. It is the power to foresee what comes next

in life. Einstein

Decide on what you want, believe you can get it, believe you deserve

it and believe all these are possible. Then close your eyes, and forsome minutes visualize the thing you desire feeling as if you already

have it. Then get rid of this state and focus on the things you already

have and for which you are grateful. Enjoy everything and trust the

Universe with your desire and trust the Universe will find a way to

manifest it.

The secret really changed me, because I grew up in a family where

the father was very negative and believed rich people got there by

stepping on others necks. He believed they had made their moneyout of connery. So I grew up with the prejudice that money makes

you evil, that only evil people have money and that money is

something very difficult to get. Do you think Im a kind of

Rockefeller? was one of my dads favorite sayings. I grew up

thinking life is difficult, hard, that it is an exhausting fight. Only

when I came to know Clement Stone my life began to change.

Any thing that can e conceived by the mind can be accomplished. C.

Stone

When I started to work with Stone, he told me I want you to set a

goal which is so great, that if accomplish it you are astonished. Then

you will realize that it is only thanks to what I have thought you

became fulfilled. At that time I was making 8000 dollars a year and

I dont know why I said I want to make 100 thousand dollars a

year". I had no idea how this could happen. I could see no strategy,

no possibility, so I said, I will support this, believe in it, I will act as

if it were true, and I will trust my desire to the Universe. And so Idid. One of the things I have learned from him was to close my eyes

and visualize the goals as if they were already accomplished. So I

stuck a hundred dollar bill on the ceiling so that it was the first thing

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closed my eyes and I pictured myself living as if I had 100 thousand

dollars. During the first 30 days nothing happened. I had no idea,

nobody gave me more money. Suddenly, while I was in the shower,

about a month later, I had an idea worth one hundred thousand

dollars. I had written a book and I thought that if I had sold fourhundred thousand copies a quarter of a dollar/piece this would

have meant one hundred thousand dollars. The book had been there

for a long time, but no such idea had ever occurred to me. When you

feel inspired you must be trustworthy and act consequently. I didnt

know how to do sell four hundred copies; I had never tried to do this.

Then I found in a supermarket The National Inquirer. I had seen it a

thousand times, but I had never read it. And I thought "If the readers

knew about my book, there would be for sure four hundred

thousand of them to buy it. Six weeks later I had a conference atHunter College in New York, in front of six hundred teachers. At the

end, a woman told me Great conference, Id like an interview with

you. Here is my card. So I asked her who she was writing for. "Im

on my own, but I sometimes work with National Inquirer". While

listening to her I was thinking of the soundtrack in Twilight Zone.

This really works. So the article came out and my books began

selling. But what I wanted to tell you is that I attracted in my life all

these, including that person. In short, I didnt make one hundred

thousand dollars that year. I made 92,327 dollars. Do you think thatI was depressed and said to myself "This is not working"? No, I said

"it is extraordinary!" then, my wife told me "If it worked for one

hundred thousand dollars, do you think it would work for a million?

"I dont know, I think it would. Lets try". My editor wrote me a

cheque. It was a cheque for authors rights. He even drew a smiling

figure near the signature, because it was the first million dollars

cheque he had ever written. Now I know the Secret works.

Guaranteed.

I imagine many people watching this movie and thinking how they

can attract more people into their lives. How can I get more

prosperity? How can I, who love my job, get rid of the debts I have

and break the wall between me and that money? Maybe the wall is


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exactly like the job. How can I have more? Dare! Lets go back to one

of the things we have talking about. Your job is just to declare what

you want from the catalogue of the Universe. If money is the thing,

declare how much you would like. Id like to have 25,000 dollars in

the next 30 days or any other time limit. But you have to believewhat you ask for. Many people have as a purpose to get rid of debts.

Such an attitude will run you into debt forever. You attract all the

things you think of. You will say that you think how to get rid of

debts. But if you think of debt, you will attract it. It does not matter

if you think of running into or out of debt, but if you think about it,

you will attract it. Draw out a payment program and then think of

prosperity.

People often tell me, "Id like to double my income next year". Butwhen you analyze their actions, they do nothing of what could take

them to their purpose. Then they say, "There is no purpose in going

on like this ". and the Universe answers, "Your desire is my

command". When you worry you do not have enough money, when

you complain about it, when you feel unhappy about it, you activate

inside you a thought which is exactly the opposite of the desire you

have expressed. In short, you cannot have more money if you keep

focusing on "I dont have enough."

When I first understood the Secret, I was full of debt; I was daily

receiving payment announcements. How could I change this? The

Law of Attraction says that you get the things you think of. So I took

a bank form, I erased the amount written there and I wrote a new

number. I wrote exactly the sum I wanted to have in my account.

What if I tried visualizing the cheques I want to receive? So I

visualized a pile of cheques I wanted to get by mail. In only a month,

things started changing. It is amazing. Today I get by mail only

cheques. I get some bills, too, but the cheques are more.

I grew up with the saying "you have to work hard for money". Now I

replaced it with another one "money can be earned easily and fast".

At the beginning, everything seems to be a big scheme, of course.


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There is a part of your brain which says "liar, it is difficult". You need

to get used with this tennis match which will last for some time.

When it is about certain richness, you must know that welfare is a

state of mind. Everything comes down to the way you think. 80% of

what I teach people refers to their psychology, the way they think.Some of those who listen to me say "you can do this, I cannot.

Anyone has the ability to change the way they think of money.

I have known a lot of people who made a lot of money, but their

relationships were awful. It is just a technical term. This is not

welfare, it really is not. You can be rich, but this does not guarantee

welfare. I do not mean that money is not part of the welfare, but it is

just a side of it. On the other hand, I meet witty people who are ill

and poor all the time. This is not welfare, either. Life meansabundance. In everything.

Many people in Occident look for success, want their own house, and

want a prosperous business. But what I have discovered is that

having these things does not represent a guarantee of what they

really desire, happiness that is. It does not come when you have

accomplished everything you want. It is exactly the opposite. First

you need to have a good state of mind, to be at peace with yourself,

and then everything else will come.

The Secret meant to me that we are the creators of our Universe. And

that every desire of a thing brings that thing into our lives. This is

why it is very important to be careful about what you want, think

and feel because all these will come to life.

Once I entered the house of a famous movie director and producer.

In every corner of his house there was the image of a beautiful naked

woman, covered with a veil, who seemed to be saying "Im not lookingat you, I cant see you ", and I said, "It seems you have love

problems "Are you a visionary?" "No, but you have the same woman

in seven corners of your house ".But I like women. I have painted

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creativity here". He was very handsome, surrounded by actresses all

the time, because this was his job, but he did not have love. I asked

him what he wanted.

"I want to meet three women a week". "Then paint yourself

surrounded by three women and place this image in every corner ofthe house". Six months later I met him in Europe and I asked him

"how is your love life?" "Great, those women have just called me, they

want to meet me." "Because this was your desire". "Now I have three

dates a week. Women fight for me.. Good for you". "But I want to

settle down. I want to get married, I want a romantic story. Paint

it. So he painted himself having a romantic story and a year later he

got married and now he is very happy. Everything because he

expressed his desire. It was inside of him for many years, but it

hadnt come true because there was something inside telling him itcouldnt be.

Now that youve found out these things, start playing with them.

Inside a relationship it is more important first to understand who

can get involved into that relationship. Im not talking about your

partner, but about you. How do you thing someone could feel

comfortable with you if you dont feel comfortable with yourself?

Again, the Law of Attraction or the Secret is to bring a state of

wellness into your life and this needs to be extremely clear to you.Think about it: do you treat yourself the same youd like the others

to treat you? You have to become your own solution. You cannot say

"You owe me and you have to give more." Instead, give yourself more

to you. Make time for it; fill yourself until you sense you are full of

yourself.

I have had many relationships and expected my partners find me

beautiful. I needed him to tell me I was beautiful because I didnt feel

beautiful. Because when I was young, my idols were Charlies angelsor the Wonder Woman. Though these were beautiful women, none of

them resembled me. Only the moment I stopped and fell in love with

Lisa who had thick lips, big hips and dark skin did the rest of the

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Im so great! Ive studying myself for 44 years, I could kiss myself!

This is because you come to love yourself. Im not talking about self

deception. I speak about self respect. When you love yourself, youll

love the others, too.

Sometimes people say, "The people I work with are so negative", or

"The man I live with is so angry" or "Children bring only trouble". We

answer them that they need to focus on the good side in people

around you. Have an agenda where to write down all the qualities of

the people around you. You may have had some problems with some

of them, terrible fights, but when your mind, with some effort,

recognizes the things you like about them, they will become positive

for you. If you cannot influence the world they live in, if they have anattitude which is not the best, you will not meet again. The Law of

Attraction will not put you in the same area again.

If you knew your potential of feeling well, you wouldnt ask anyone to

change so that you could feel well. You would get rid of that crashing

need to control the world, to control your partner, to control your

child. You are the only one who can create your own reality. Because

nobody can think for you. Only you can. Every little bit of you.

It is important to realize that your body is the product of your

thoughts. We are beginning to understand, in medicine, the degree

to which thoughts and emotions determine the physical substance,

the structure and the functions of our body. We know that there is in

the curing art, the placebo effect. This is something that has no

effect on the body, similar to the sugar pill. You tell the patient that

it has healing effects. What really happens is that this pill has the

same healing effect, if not greater, as the proper medicine produced

with that particular purpose. Thus it was discovered that the humanmind is the most important fact in the healing art. Even more

important than medicine. If someone is ill and there is a choice

between discovering what in his mind creates the illness and the

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lead to death, the medicine is indicated but at the same time

exploring the mental cause of the disease. Medicine must not be

denied. Each way of healing has its own part.

Everywhere there is a wellness wave. It is pure positive energy. TheUniverse, as far as we know, is full of this kind of energy. We live in a

world based on welfare and it abounds. When you allow such a wave

flow through you, you feel well. When you chase it away, you feel

less well. There is only one wave of positive energy which you allow

or not to go through you. Your emotions tell you the state you

experience. If you let this connection manifest or if you resist it.

Think of the people who are in a terminal illness phase. Thing of the

word un-healthy. Decompose it. It is a body which is not healthy.There are a thousand diagnoses and a thousand diseases. They are

only the weak link. All are the consequence of only one thing: stress.

If you cause a strong chain undergo a powerful stress, one of its

links will give in. our physiology creates diseases to assure feed-

back, to let us know we are not balanced, that we do not love, that

we are not grateful. The signs and the symptoms of our body are not

terrible themselves.

A frequent question refers to disease. If a person gets ill and feelssick, can the power of positive thinking change this? The answer is

certainly yes.

On the 23 November I was diagnosed with breast cancer. I thought

then, with all my power, that I was cured. All day long I was saying

"Thank you for healing." And I kept going like this. In my heart I

believed I was healed. I thought as if cancer was not inside me. One

of the things I did to get better was watch funny movies. So all I did

was laugh all day long. I couldnt afford any stress in my life since I

knew stress was one of the worst things when you try to get better.Since the moment I got my diagnose, 23 November, until I cured

there were 3 months. Without radiations and chemotherapy. It is

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If you hurt yourself, the skin grows back. If you get infected, the

imunity system cures the bacteria. The imunity system is made to

cure. Disease cannot last in a body which is emotionally healthy.

Our body gets rid of a million cells a second and in the same second

creates new cells. In fact, entire parts of the body are replaced everyday. Others are replaced in years and others in months. But within

years we have a brand-new body. If you have a disease and focus on

it, talk about it, you will create more ill cells.

Picture yourself as living in a perfectly healthy body. Let the doctor

take care of the disease. Do you realize the difference between having

arthritis and being afraid of it? And between having it and trusting

you will be OK? The difference between fear and hope is the

difference between health and disease. Happy thoughts lead to a

healthy body. Negative thoughts, stress degrades your body and youbrain because our emotions reconstruct, reorganize, and recreate

our body all the time. Get rid of the physical stress and the body will

perform the functions it has been designed for. It will cure itself.

I have seen regenerated kidneys, I have seen cancer go away, and I

have seen sight coming back. I have always said that incurable

means curable from inside. You can change your life and you can

cure yourself.

My story begins in March, 10 1981. This day changed my entire life.I will never forget it. I had a plane crash. I got to the hospital

completely paralyzed. My spine backbone was damaged, my first and

second vertebras were broken, the swallowing reflex had gone, I

could neither eat nor drink, I couldnt breathe, and all I could do was

blink. The doctors said that I will be a vegetable all my life. All I was

going to be able to do was blink. This is what they thought of me.

But their opinion does not matter. What mattered was my opinion. I

imagined myself a normal person, who gets out of the hospital on his

own two feet. The only thing on which I could work was my mind.Once you have a mind you can put things into their place. I was

connected to a breathing apparatus and the doctors said I could not

breathe again. But I could hear inside me a voice saying: Breath

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anymore. The doctors had no explanation. I couldnt afford anything

that could distract me from my purpose and my vision enter my

mind. I had as a goal getting out of hospital before Christmas. Eight

months later I got out on my own two feet. The doctors were amazed.

I will never forget that day. For those who follow me now and suffer,if I were to resume my life and give them a piece of advice, I would

say Man becomes what he thinks.

There are so many people who live their lives conditioned by what is

outside. They look around, see wonderful things, and say we want

more of these things; we agree to them, we are ready to support their

production. But then they look at the things they dont want.

Terrible things, they dont want to experience. We need to do

something to get rid of these. But they dont realize that by fightingagainst something they dont want, they add energy to those things.

There is a whole war in the world against poverty, cancer,

adolescence pregnancy, terrorism, violence, terrorism. Did I say war

against terrorism? All these efforts only make you add energy to

those bad things, because you cannot say No and thus make the

thing go away. The Law of Attraction acts here too.

Resisting something makes it persist. - C. Jung

What you dont like persists because of your resistance, the fact that

you say I dont like this; it makes me feel the way I feel now. So

what you do is give life to this emotion, "Wow, I hate this," and it is

there, comes to you. Anti-warrior movements create more wars. Anti-

drug movements create even more drugs. Because we focus on what

we dont like. Why not focus on this? people say. This is true.

This is as if you said that if someone paid something he didnt want

enough attention so that thing becomes real, this is what I should

also do. But we dont really follow this reasoning. Mother Theresawas great, she used to say: Never will I join anti-war movements,

invite me only if there are peace movements. She knew. She

understood the secret. Just look at what she produced in the world.

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for those people who have much food. If you are against a politician,

become his pro-opponent. Many times elections are won by the

person people rejected because that person draws the attention.

You need to focus on what you want, not on what you dont want. Itis better to be aware of what you dont want, because this is the

contrast element for what you really want. But the truth is that the

more you speak about what you dont want, or speak about how

nasty it is, or inform about it all the time, and then comment how

terrible it is, the more you cause that thing to grow bigger.

People keep telling me "Well, James, I need to be informed." Maybe

you need this too. But you dont need to be flooded. Learn to be calm

and not to pay attention to what you dont want, and to the emotionsthe thing you dont want bring and focus your attention on what you

desire. I have always said that when the voice and the vision inside

you become more profound, clearer and purer than the outside

opinions, you have become the master of your own life. You are not

here to make the world become what you want it to be. You are here

to create around you the world you desire while you allow the others

to have the world they desire.

One of the questions I am asked all the time and which probably isin your minds is the following: If all the people use the secret, and if

all the people use the universe as if it were a catalogue, wont it all

come to the point when things finish? What is great about the secret

is that there a lot of these things for everybody. The contrary is a lie

which acts as a virus upon human mind. The lie is that good things

are not enough for everybody.

There are flaws, there is limitation this lie makes people live in fear,

greed, poverty, and the thoughts connected to fear, poverty and flawsbecome their own experience. So people live a nightmare.

The truth is that good things are more than enough. There are a lot

of creative ideas; there is energy, love, joy. All these come from

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Each great teacher who ever lived on this planet said that life is

made to be abundant. The very moment we feel the resources get

less, we find new resources to reach our goals. So when we say we

live in poverty it is because we do not open the eyes of our mind to

see what is around us.If everybody lived their lives to the full and went towards what they

want, they wouldnt fight for the same things. This is the beauty.

Not all of us want BMWs. Not all of us want the same person. Not all

of us need the same experiences. Not all of us need the same clothes.

Not all of us want to be. And here you may continue yourself.

There is enough for everyone.If you can believe in this idea, if you

can see it, if you can act on it. It will show to you. This is the truth.

So let the diversity of the reality make you shiver, while you choosethe things you want out of it.

When you want something, think about it. Find in yourself the place

of the feeling corresponding to that something. Look at things from

the inside. Speak and write about it. Turn it into your own reality,

and become its echo.

When you come across things you dont want dont talk about them.

Dont write about them. Do not adhere to groups that fight against

them. Dont fight them. Withdraw your attention from the things youdont desire, while you dedicate your undivided attention to the

things you desire.

Most of the past leaders failed to understand a great part of the

Secret which refers to sharing the secret with the others. We live

the most wonderful period in history. It is for the first time we have

knowledge in our hands. When we look around us, even at our body,

what we see is only the top of the iceberg. Look at your own hand. It

looks solid but in fact it is not. If you look at it through amicroscope, you can see an energy mass that vibrates. Everything is

made the same way, if it is about your hand, ocean or stars.

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Then, there are the individuals, and inside the bodies there are the

organs, then the cells, molecules, atoms and energy.

There are many levels to analyze. Everything in the universe is

energy. It does not matter what city you live in, what really mattersis that you have in your own body enough power to illuminate the

city for a week. Most people define themselves starting from this

body, but you are not a finite body. You are in fact an energy field.

What you know about energy is the following: go to a quantum

physics specialist and ask him: "What is it that creates the world?

And he will say, "Energy." Lets describe energy. First of all it cannot

be created or destroyed. It has existed forever, everything there is

keeps being, it takes a shape, keeps it for a while and then gives it

up. Go to a theologian and ask him "Who created the universe? hewill answer God. God has existed forever, cannot be created or

destroyed. He is everything there is and will be, takes a shape, keeps

it for a while and then gives it up. As you can see it is the same

thing, expressed differently. If you think you are only a package of

walking meat, think again. You are a spiritual being an energetic

field acting in a larger energetic field. We are all connected to each

other. We only dont realize it. There is no inside or outside. The

whole universe is interconnected; everything is a huge energetic field.

We are all extensions of the energy Source. You exist in this

wonderful body, but it has distracted your attention from what you

really are. You are the energy Source. You are an Eternal being, you

are Gods power. You are what you call God. According to the

Scripture, you are alike Him. We can say we are a way the Universe

becomes aware of itself. We can say we are an infinite body of

possibilities. All this is true. It means you have the Gods power and

potential to create your own world.

Maybe you have come to this wonderful moment or maybe not. The

problem is as it follows: is what you have accomplished in life what

you really want, good for you? If it is not, when will you change this?

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All the power comes from inside and this is why we can control it. - R.

Collies

Many people feel victims all their lives and point to past events, to anabusive father or a dysfunctional family. I could add that most

psychologists believe that 85% of the families are dysfunctional, so

you are not an isolated case.

My parents were alcoholics.

My father used to beat me up, and my mother left him when I was 6.

Between 13 and 18 I was part of neighborhood gangs.

I had a terrible motorcycle accident.

At one point of my life I was a tramp I in Dallas.

I was poor for 15 years in Houston.I had problems at school as a child and I was considered retarded. I

was told I could not read, write or communicate ever in my life, that I

would never become something.

This is, more or less, everybodys story. So what? The real WHAT is

what you are going to do now. What do you choose now? Because

you can very well focus on negative things, or focus on what you

want.

When people start focusing on what they want, what they dont want

goes away. While they gain field on one side, the other side goesaway.

We want you to come to the point where to open your mind, guide

your thoughts to a goal, and be the creator of your own experience.

Because you are the manager of your own thoughts.

The good side of the Law of Attraction is that you can start applying

it anytime. You can start thinking for real and you can generate

inside of you a feeling of harmony and happiness. The Law of

Attraction will answer you. So you will begin having other beliefs the belief that the Universe means abundance. Or the belief that

everything is going on well. Or the belief that you are not growing

old, but young. You can do all these things by using the Law of

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customs, social convictions and prove to yourself, once for all, that

the power inside you is greater than the one outside you.

Some of you probably think that all these are wonderful but I

cannot put them into practice or she will never let me do this or

he will never let me do this or I dont have the money to do this orIm not strong enough to do this or Im not rich enough to do this

or Im not, Im not, Im not! Every Im not is a creation.

If either you think you can, or thing that you cannot, you are right. -

H. Ford

Is there a limit? No! We are unlimited creatures. There are no

barriers for us. The potential, the talent, the gifts and the power

within every individual on this planet are unlimited. There is no bookin the sky where God wrote what is destined to you. If you think that

what you need to do to understand you role on this planet is find

this book and read what God has planned for you, well, you need to

know there is no such book. So your only purpose is the one you

establish and your only mission is the one you choose.

Your life will be what you will make of it. Nobody will judge it. Never.

I needed many years to understand it, because I have grown up with

the idea that I was born to do something and if I dont do it, God willnot be pleased with me. Now, when I understand that my role is

finding and live the joy, I have begun to do only the things that bring

me joy.

There is a saying "If you dont enjoy what you are doing, dont do it.

Joy, love, freedom, happiness, laughter. This is it. If you feel joy after

an hour of meditation, then meditate. If you feel joy while eating a

salami sandwich, then eat it. When I take care of my cat I enjoy it,

when I walk in nature, I enjoy it. So I desire to keep this state. Inorder to do this I only need to outline the idea of what I want and it

will come to life. The recipe for success is inner happiness. Anything

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Now watch this movie. You are the one who brought it to life and you

are the one who decides to use it or not. If it makes you feel better,

leave it alone. Find something to make you feel better, to be in

harmony with your heart.

Follow your happiness and the universe will open doors where there

were only walls.- J. Campbell

Joseph Campbell used to say "follow your happiness." These are the

most sensible words a man has ever uttered. If you follow your

happiness you follow the way to abundance and wealth in all areas.

Enjoy life because life is great. It is a great trip. Otherwise you will

live a different reality, a different life. People will start watching you

and will wonder what is different about you. The fact that you applythe Secret. You will have things the others thought impossible to

have. You will really enter a new era. The final frontier is not space,

but the human mind.

I can see the future of an everlasting potential. Unlimited

possibilities. Remember that we only use at the most 5% of the

human mind potential. In order to rich the 100% we need to become

educated. Imagine a world where people would use their entire

mental and emotional potential. We could get anywhere. We could do

anything. Build anything.Picture yourself together with what you want. All religious books tell

us this. All great philosophy books tell us this. All great leaders.

Study the wise. Many of them were presented to you in this movie.

They understood the secret. Now you understand it too. The more

you use it, the better you will understand it.

Maybe you have the feeling it would have been easier for you if you

had heard it on your first day on earth. We would have told you then

Welcome on Earth. There is nothing here you cannot do or youcannot have. You are a great creator and you are here thanks to your

string will to be here. Follow your path, thinking of what you want,

attracting experiences to make up your mind about what you want.

And when you have decided, thing about this only.


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You will spend most of the time gathering data to help you decide

what you really want. But your real job is to decide what you want

and then focus on that thing. Because of this concentration you will

attract what you desire. This is the creation process.

I believe you are magnificent. That there is something magnificent

inside of you. It does not matter what happened into your life. It does

not matter how old or young you think you are. The moment you

start thinking the right way, the power inside you will prove to be

greater than the world. It will start to manifest itself. It will lead your

life. It will feed you, guide you, and protect you. It will direct you. It

will support your existence, if you will allow it. Im sure of it. ENJOY

LIFE. Receive these things open-heartedly. You dont need to do

anything. Do only what you want to do.

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