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Agenda

What "nice girls" are and what it is that they just don't get

Why even extremely successful women can be caught in "nice girls" traps

Seven essential strategies to living the life you want

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What’s A “Nice Girl”?

Messages Nice Girls Got

Smile Don't be pushy Don't be loud Be a lady Only speak when you're spoken to Your job is to help/take care of others Etc.

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What Is It That Nice Girls Don’t Get?

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Do You Mean I Shouldn't Be Nice?

Are All Women Nice Girls?

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If I Am A Nice Girl, What Can I Do?

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Tape Over The Old Messages

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Create Boundaries, Manage Expectations

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Strive For Excellence Not Perfectionism

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Send Guilt On A Trip

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Prepare For Pushback

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Walk Away When It's Time

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It's Up To You!

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