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Our Lady of Good Counsel ~ Pompton Plains, New Jersey
Masses of the Week
SATURDAY, June 15th 8:00AM Maura & Peter Barrett †
5:00PM People of the Parish†
SUNDAY, June 16th - Trinity Sunday 8:00AM Maura & Peter Barrett † William Shadwell † Jozef & Julia Kirsch †
10:00AM Jim Wein † Baptist Rigamonti †` Thomas Maier †
12:00PM Dianne Vigorito † Michael Quaratino † Arthur DeNero † John Brady † - 4 yr. Anniversary Joseph Torok †
MONDAY, June 17th 8:00AM Jay Spanarelli - Special Intention
TUESDAY, June 18th 8:00AM Thomas Husvar †
WEDNESDAY, June 19th 8:00AM John Brady † - 4th Anniversary Marisabel Gumucid † - 5th Anniversary
THURSDAY, June 20th 8:00AM Conrad Spring - Special Intention
FRIDAY, June 21st - Mem. St. Aloysius Gonzaga 8:00AM Josephina & Giovanni Rovetto †
SATURDAY, June 22nd 8:00AM Trace Bulger - Special Intention
5:00PM Michael Brothers †
SUNDAY, June 23rd - Corpus Christi 8:00AM Lt. Michael McGreevy †
10:00AM Sally Pontecorvo † Carmela Pagliarulo †
12:00PM George L. Clark † Daniel O’Byrne †
TRINITY SUNDAY JUNE 16TH, 2019
Happy Father’s Day! Fr. Babu Thelappilly
A young boy had just got his driving permit. He said to his father: “Dad could we discuss the use of your car?” His father said to him: “Sure, I’ll make a deal with you. You bring your grades up, read the Bible every day and get your hair cut; then I will talk about it.”
A month later the boy came back and again asked his father if he could use the car. His father said, “Son, I am really proud of you. You brought your grades up. You’re really faithful to your Bible reading. But son, you didn’t get your hair cut!”
The young man waited a moment and then said to his father: “You know Dad, I’ve been thinking about that. In reading the Bible I noticed that Samson had long hair, Moses had long hair, Noah had long hair, and even Jesus had long hair.” His father tapped him on the shoulder and said, “Yes son, and did you notice that they walked everywhere they went?”
Jesus says, “If anyone wishes to come after me, he must deny him-self and take up his cross daily and follow me.” (Luke 9: 23). When a father sets boundaries for his children he is saying to them: “if you are going to be a follower of Jesus you have to be able to accept disap-pointments and reverses in your life every day.” That’s what “take up your cross daily and follow me” really means.
Today is ‘Father’s Day’. One little boy, when asked to explain about Father’s Day, said, “It’s just like Mother’s Day, only you don’t spend as much on the present.” Five weeks ago, we observed Mother’s Day and offered Mass for our moms. Today, on this Father’s Day, we are doing the same – offering our dads, living or dead, on the altar of God during the Holy Mass and invoking our Heavenly Father’s bless-ings on them. And my prayer for them is: God our Father, you govern and protect your people and shepherd them with a father’s love. You place a father in a family as a sign of your enduring love and con-stant protection. May fathers everywhere be faithful to the example shown in the Scriptures: steadfast in love, forgiving and sustaining forces in their families by caring for those in need. Grant wisdom to fathers so that they may encourage and guide their children. Guide every father with the Spirit of your love that they may increase in holiness and draw their family ever closer to you. Amen.
Our Father’s Day observance was similar to the ancient Roman Parentalia, an annual family reunion to remember and commemorate departed parents and kinsmen. In 1924, President Calvin Coolidge made the first Presidential proclamation in support of Father’s Day, and in 1972, President Richard Nixon declared the third Sunday in June a ‘National Day of Observance’ in honor of fathers. And I wish ‘Happy Father’s Day’ to all who are fathers or grandfathers or stepfa-thers or foster fathers or spiritual fathers!
A good father is a hero greater than a politician, general, all-pro athlete or corporate executive officer. Father’s day could fairly be called ‘hero’s day’. A man is a hero when he does his duty, gives him-self to others and remains exceptional. The future of our Church and society depends on fathers being spiritual leaders. I believe that what we become depends on what our fathers teach us at odd moments; when they aren’t trying to teach us, we are formed by little scraps of wisdom.”
Fathers need to be spiritual leaders in their homes to guard their homes against those who would invade them and harm their wives and children. It’s not easy to save your soul in this present environment. The role of a father as a spiritual leader is a 100 times more difficult today than it was when my father was trying to father me. Sometimes fathers worry that they will not be good fathers. Jesus tells them ‘do not be afraid’. If you really want to be a good father - if you really want to image God to your child, God will give you the grace that you need. He does not put you at the head of that family and then abandon you. You can count on His help.
General Douglas Mac Arthur, a great American and leader of the Armed Forces, had this to say about fatherhood: “By profession I am a soldier and I take pride in that fact - but I am prouder – infinitely prouder to be a father… It is my hope, that my son, when I am gone will remember me not from battles fought, but in the home repeating with him our simple daily prayer: ‘Our Father who art in heaven, hol-lowed be Thy name …..”
Fathers, memories are all your children will have after you are gone. How do you want your children to remember you? …. that you love them; that you were a man of faith; that you taught them their prayers; that you led them to the confessional to build their character; that you packed the family in the car on Sunday and took them to Mass because you believe that every man should worship God; that you were gener-ous and forgiving; that they were proud of their father because he was an honorable man?
Memories are so important. David Mitchell in a book titled ‘The Bone Clocks’, said: “When a parent dies, a filing cabinet full of all the fascinating stuff also ceases to exist. I never imagined how hungry I’d be one day to look inside it. I would love to know how Dad saw me when I was six. I’d love to know a hundred things.”
Traditional marriage is the only institution that brings together a man and a woman for life. A faithful father and mother alone can pro-vide a secure foundation to any child who comes from their union. Whenever you see a man of faith, courage and integrity; whenever you see a young man who has a sense of responsibility – whenever you see a young man who is not stuck in permanent adolescence, and has a good attitude toward work – you know that a manly father was present in his life.
Someone said of his father: “He did not tell me how to live; he lived, let me watch him do it.” Whenever you see a young man kneel down to pray – Whenever you see a young man who has a mature respect for religion – Whenever you see a young man who is comfortable with his family and knows how to treat his mother, you know that a strong father was indeed the spiritual leader of that home.
Continued, see “Father’s Day”
SSave the Date
June 22/23 - Annual Corpus Christi Food Drive.
June 18th - Parish Council Application deadline. If you are interested in being considered for the council please complete an application and mail or drop it off to the parish office attn.: Carla.
July 4th - Independence Day, the par ish office will be closed.
We Are A Parish Family
CALLED TO SERVE
SHARE YOUR TIME & TALENT!
Joining a ministry is a great way to more fully participate in the life of the parish and to grow in your faith!
At OLGC we have over 40 active ministries, new members are always welcome! Here are just a few to consider:
Counters Volunteers in this ministry meet weekly to sort and count the offerings received at Mass. No specific experience is needed, we will train you! A background check is required. For more information please contact the parish office.
New Ministry Forming OLGC is looking to start a First Steps ministry, creating booties for the babies baptized here. If you are able to sew, knit or crochet then we need you! Additional details will be provided as the team is created.
Interested or have questions? Please contact Carla at 973-839-2447 or e-mail [email protected]
Visit our website www.goodcounsel.org
The Parish Council Needs YOU!
We are looking for at least 6 new members to serve on our parish council. Nominees should be registered parishioners (for
at least one year), have completed the Sacraments of Initiation (Baptism, Eucharist & Confirmation) and be interested in the future of our parish! Applications with additional details are available in the gathering area. Interested parties should return completed applications to the parish office by June 18th. If you have questions, please contact Carla at [email protected] or call 973-839-2447.
The Protection of Children and Young People
“If any person may have been abused by any priest, they should immediately contact their local County Prosecutor’s Office and the Diocese’s Victims Assistance Coordinator: Dr. Kenneth McNiel at 973-879-1489. You may also be in touch with either of the Diocesan Response Officers: Rev. Msgr. James T. Mahoney, Vicar General and Moderator of the Curia, 973-777-8818 Ext. 205 or Sister Joan Daniel Healy, S.C.C., Chancellor/Delegate for Religious, 973-777-8818 Ext. 248.
The entire text of the Policy of the Diocese of Paterson in Response to Complaints of Sexual Abuse is available on the diocesan Web site: www.patersondiocese.org.”
WE SHARE OUR TIME, TALENT & TREASURE!
STEWARDSHIP—A WAY OF LIFE
Second Collection: This weekend (6/16): Seminarian Education
Next Weekend (6/23): There is only one collection
Thank you for your generosity!
Diocesan Assessment Diocesan Assessment: $85,113.00 Needed monthly: $ 8,511.30 Collection (6/9): $ 1,788.00 Collected to date: $20,340.00
Weekly Collection:
Collected (6/9): $10,117.00
Pennies for the Poor (6/9): $110.00
GIFT Class Registration Due Registration and tuition for Fall Religious Education classes is now past due. Please include copies of Sacraments received at a church other than OLGC plus your tuition check including a $50 late fee after June 16th.
Are You Called to be a Catechist? A few teachers are needed for Religious Education this fall. Classes in grades K-8 meet twice a month, and Confirmation classes meet monthly. Training is provided and lesson plans will be available for every class. Our youth need adults in their lives who are willing to share our Catholic faith with them!
Got Service? All students in the Confirmation program need to complete 20 service hours by the end of their second year. Volunteers are needed for OLGC’s Vacation Bible School beginning Monday, August 12th. Contact Laura Shamber for information about the above items:
Quo Vadis Days of Discernment
This retreat for young men ages 15 to 25 will be held Wed.-Fri., June 26th-28th at St. Mary’s Abbey Retreat Center, Morristown. Quo Vadis Days is a time of recreation, fellowship, prayer and discussion to help you explore our Lord's call in your life. The program is free. For more information email Laura Shamber at [email protected].
Vacation Bible School
Our theme for this year is “Roar” a wonderful experience where kids connect with Jesus through games, crafts, activities and music! Join us August 12th-16th, 9am-12pm for an interactive adventure with a Catholic focus. Registration forms are in the gathering area of the church and on our website - www.goodcounsel.org
Congratulations!
Last Sunday, OLGC celebrated its Graduates Mass, recognizing our High School Seniors. Pictured above are the 4 recipients of this year’s Youth Scholarship with Fr. Darwin. From left, Kaitlyn P., Courtney B., Fr. Darwin, Leah B. and Tom C. Our best wishes to them and to all the graduates on their future endeavors!
Help Beautify Our Church We are in the process of purchasing a set of beautiful plant stands for our Altar to match the existing furniture. The stands will cost a total of $1,400. If you would like to make a donation to assist in covering the cost, contact Donna at [email protected] or 839-2447. If you would like to cover the cost of one stand ($700) a plaque will be provided to remember your family’s gift for years to come! Fr. Darwin appreciates your generosity!
Please Pray FFor Those Serving Our Country
PFC Christian Baxter Major Daniel J. Ciccarelli SPC Andrew V. Tucker
Pvt. Brandon Janz
If you have a loved one currently deployed please contact the parish office so we may include them in our prayers!
Carol Asimou Lori Beck Sandra Bellomo Donald Berard Anastasia Borovskis Gavin Brady Ann Brothers Trace Bulger Evelina Capelli Mary Coppa Joan Cronin Adelaide Elliott Donna Finnegin Jean Gormley Patricia Grant Dominick J. Gurrieri Jerry Hallisey James Horvath Ted Jachera Andre Jacobsen Maureen Karsen Eileen Kapotes Fr. Dan Kelly Therese Knight Jennifer Kraft Bob LoFaro
Rose LoFaro Marc Lymych Jim Mackin, Jr. Patricia McClain Thomas Joseph McCloughy Deanna Melone Helen Mier Maryann Miksits Jesse Morella Beth Newman Margaret Mary Ochner Fred Paliani Cynthia Parr Fr. John Pierce, OFM Constance Quarantino Gary Ragusa Chris Raiser Diane Scinto Kara Skafalstad Brian Spring Conrad Spring Kerri Squires John Stanton Vinko Stipanov JoAnn Suckiel Charlotte Tomaszewski
The residents of Mountainview Gardens at Cedar Crest
Please call the office at 973-839-2447 to let us know when someone should be added to or removed from the prayers for the sick.
Support Youth Ministry
Tip: Look for our “I Visit Jesus” display coming soon! Where will you encounter Jesus this summer?
THIS WEEK AT OLGC:
Monday, June 17, 2019 08:00 AM Mass Church
Holy Hour begins immediately after the Mass. 02:30 PM AA Mtg. Holy Family Room
Tuesday, June 18, 2019 08:00 AM Mass Chapel
Holy Hour begins immediately after the Mass. 07:00 PM Scripture Study Holy Family Room
Wednesday, June 19, 2019 08:00 AM Mass Chapel
Holy Hour begins immediately after the Mass.
Thursday, June 20, 2019 08:00 AM Mass Church
Holy Hour begins immediately after the Mass. 02:30 PM AA Mtg. Holy Family Room
Friday, June 21, 2019 08:00 AM Mass Church
Holy Hour begins immediately after the Mass. 07:00 PM Rosary Chapel 07:30 PM Servants of Holy Cross Chapel
Saturday, June 22, 2019 08:00 AM Mass Chapel 01:00 PM Memorial Mass Church 03:45 PM Confession Reconciliation Rm. 05:00 PM Mass Church
Sunday, June 23, 2019 - Feast of Corpus Christi 08:00 AM Mass Church 10:00 AM Mass Church 12:00 PM Mass Church
Corpus Christi Food Drive
OLGC will again participate in the Diocesan Food Drive on the Feast of Corpus Christ, June 22nd & 23rd.
OLGC parishioners have been asked to donate canned meals (Chef Boyardee, beef stew, chili, etc.) and/or juice.
Please bring your donations to the church by Sunday, June 23rd. Thank you for your generosity!
Moving the Tabernacle OLGC’s original Tabernacle, from when the church was in the school building, has been beautifully restored and refinished. Fr. Darwin plans to move the Tabernacle to the Altar in the Church. The Tabernacle currently in the Church will be moved to enhance the Chapel. We hope you will love the new look!
“Father’s Day” Continued The greatest gift that a father can give to his children is to let
them know that he loves their mother. I know a man who took his children aside and said to them in a no-nonsense voice: “I want you to know that she is not just your mother. She is my wife. And I don’t allow anyone to treat my wife with disrespect... Just be nice to her.”
Some years ago a fifteen year old girl wrote this in a letter to the columnist Ann Landers: “A great man died today. He wasn’t a world leader or a famous doctor or a war hero or a sports figure. He was no business tycoon, and you would never see his name in the financial pages. But he was one of the greatest men who ever lived. He was my father. That wonderful man died with a smile on his face and fulfillment in his heart. He knew that he was a great success as a husband, a father, a son, a brother and a friend. I won-der how many millionaires can say that.” (The letter is signed – His daughter.)
In the gospel Jesus asks His disciples the question “Who Am I?” (Matt. 16:15). Fathers need to ask themselves that question: Who am I as a father of this household? What do I believe? Am I a spir-itual leader in my home? Am I guarding my home against those who would invade it and harm my wife and my children spiritually?
We thank our fathers today, both living and dead. We thank them for giving us life and for being men of faith. We forgive them their imperfections and weaknesses. They made mistakes, but we trust that they did their best. Sometimes our best is not good enough. We make allowances. We forgive them. We pray for them. God knows it is not easy to be a father.
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