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    s...mist ohebjbns ehttnr...pijb`y ehttnrs...`jhrboybcf wmht wn hrn kib

    wmnc...furbcf iut wmi kins wmht...sthybcf shon hck wnjj bc tmn ohe

    ursnenct...ckbcf tmn rbfmt ohebjy...mist ohebjy rn`rubtbcf strhtnfy...mi

    thtbic...trhbcnn irbncthtbic...cit h pnron`t eht`m... `ujturhj tbps...`riss

    knrhtbics...fnttbcf ti gciw yiu...miw kbk bt fi...jhcfuhfn oh`tirs...ck

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    Harbkfnk Knwny Kn`behj @jhssb`htbic (KK@) Cueanr< 040.;=

    Pmhrn yiur nxpnrbnc`n!

    Hkk yiur nxpnrbnc`n ti tmn B@N Qnsiur`n @nctnr. Pnck yiur ehtnrbhjs ti us si wn `hc smhrn

    tmne wbtm itmnr knvnjipenct wirgnrs. Riur tn`mcb`hj bcsbfmts snrvn hs tmn ahsbs oir tmn fncnrh-

    tbic io B@N ehtnrbhjs, rnprbcts, hck trhbcbcf ehtnrbhjs. [mny hjsi ncsurn tmht B@N bs privbkbcf

    tmn eist up-ti-khtn bccivhtbvn priajne-sijvbcf tn`mcbquns hck bcoirehtbic hvhbjhajn ti yiu

    hck yiur onjjiw knvnjipenct wirgnrs.

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    Mist Ohebjbns

    Ehttnr@ Vmht [i Ki Vmnc< H Qnhjbstb` [benjbcn ................................. ?K Obfurbcf Iut Vmi Kins Vmht

    B_ Bt s Hjj Bc [mn Ohebjy ...................................................................... 8=H Obckbcf [mn Qbfmt Ohebjy .......................................................... 8=A Mist Ohebjy Qn`rubtbcf Ptrhtnfy .............................................. 11@ Mist Ohebjy Irbncthtbic ............................................................ 16

    _ [rhbcbcf Bssuns ...................................................................................... 00H [rhbcnn Irbnctht bic ..................................................................... 00A @riss @ujturhj @icsbknrhtbics ................................................. 0?

    8 Fnttbcf [i Gciw Riu< [mn Bctriku`tiry Nvnct 0=1 Miw Kbk t Fi< Miensthy Knarbnobcf ...................................... ;8

    @ Jhcfuhfn Oh`tirs ........................................................................ ;>_B. Tuttbcf Bt Hjj Bc Vrbtbcf< iensthy Trifrhe Fubknjbcns ..... ;2

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    MIP[ OHEBJBNP EH[[NQ< [MN MIENP[HREHC^HJ

    _BB Eht`mbcf [rhbcnns hck Mist Ohebjbns ................................. >8H Obckbcf [mn Obt ............................................................................ >8A Cit H Tnron`t Eht`m ................................................................... >>

    _BBB Miw Hrn Vn Kibcf ....................................................................... >6H [rhbcnn Hssnssenct .................................................................... >6A Qnvbnw [i Beprivn< Trifrhe Nvhjuhtbic ............................... ?8

    B] @ic`jusbic ................................................................................... 61] Hppnckb`ns ........................................................................................ 6>

    H H`ricyes hck Haarnvbhtbics ................................................... 66A [bebcf hck Kurhtbic io

    [rhbcnns Miensthy ay iuctry ............................................... 6=@ Phonty hck Tijb`y @icsbknrhtbics ............................................. =8K Qnspicsbabjbtbns io tmn

    Miensthy @iirkbchtir hck Jbhbsic ........................................ =>N @ujturhj [bps haiut Henrb`hcs ................................................. =6O [rhbcnn Miensthy Nxpn`thtbics ............................................... 24F Miensthy Ohebjy Irbnchtbic oir [rhbcnns ............................ 840M. Ohebjbns hck [rhbcnns Libct Pnssbics ...................................... 8428 Phepjn Miensthy Aiigjnt oir Mist Ohebjbns ....................... 881U. Jbvbcf wbtm h Gncyhc Ohebjy

    ]B Qnonrnc`ns ....................................................................................... 81>Ehcuhjs hck Tuajb`htbics .............................................................. 81>Pnssbic Knsbfc [btjns ...................................................................... 81>

    ]BB Bcknx .............................................................................................. 816

    _B TNH@N @IQTP

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    @GCIVJNKFENC[P

    [mn Tnh`n @irps h`gciwjnkfns tmn spn`bhj `ictrbautbics io tmn oijjiwbcfpnipjn wmi `ictrbautnk ncmhc`nk hck rnvbnwnk tmn wirgaiig< ThujhAbjbcsgy Uuknn Ajime Arnckh Aiwehc [mirc Arucs Hcbth OrbnkehcJbsh Oryn Kiuf Fbjziw Pmhrb Miwn cc Uirlirbhc Kuhcn Ghrjnc hckEnf Ehjicn7 Hccn Jhtbenr oir nkbtir bhj hssbsthc`n7 Tht Ahrtjntt oir knsbfchck jhyiut7 Ghtmjnnc Ehr`ivn oir rnsnh`m hck wrbtbcf bc `ijjhairhtbicwbtm Jhurnttn Anccmijk-Phehhc @riss-@ujturhj Ppn`bhjbst.[mn Tnh`n @irps wbsmns ti tmhcg tmn oijjiwbcf `iuctrbns orie wmb`mehtnrbhjs wnrn suaebttnk< Aijbvbh Aujfhrbh Ntmbipbh Gncyh GyrfysthcJnsitmi Ehjb Eijkivh Cnw Fubcnh Thcheh Thrhfuhy tmn PjivhgQnpuajb` Prb Jhcgh [hczhcbh [mhbjhck [ifi [urgencbsthc ^grhbcn^zangbsthc hck \heabh.

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    MIP[ OHEBJBNP EH[[NQ< [MN MIENP[HRE C^ J

    't's hc nssnctbh' phrr iotrhbcbcf ey mist oheb yobjjnk h hp 'n ay eyanbcf hwhy rie eyoheb y ah`g mien iu`hc snn miw ti bctnrh`thck ehgn h stricf`iccn`tbic wb tm tmne.

    _BBB TN @N @IQTP

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    BC[QIK^@[BIC

    BBC[QIK^ [BIC

    .. 8 onjt tm t tmn mienst y `iepicnct io m rn-Pnrvb`n [rhbcbcf (TP[) whs tmn eist shtbsoybcf ckancnob`bhj p rt io tmn trhbcbcf pri`nss.

    - H Tnh`n @irps [rhbcnn T@[) bc Prb Jhcgh[mbs snctbenct sues up tmn onnjbcfs io ehcy [rhbcnns ht tmn nck ioTP[ hck prieitns tmn citbic tmht jbvbcf wbtm h mist ohebjy bs icn iotmn anst whys ti prnphrn [rhbcnns ti jbvn hck wirg bc tmn mist `iuctryhs Tnh`n @irps _ijuctnnrs (T@_). Pbc`n twi io tmn tmrnn fihjs io tmnTnh`n @irps (T@) hrn haiut `riss-`ujturhj ucknrsthckbcf, rnqubrbcf[rhbcnns ti jbvn wbtm h mist ohebjy kurbcf tmnbr TP[ ioonrs [rhbcnns hvhjuhajn ippirtucbty ti ennt tmisn fihjs ay jnhrcbcf haiut tmn mist`iuctry, hck smhrbcf Henrb`hc `ujturn wbtm tmnbr mist ohebjy.Hs sthtnk bc Prb Jhcgh s Miensthy Ehcuhj, TP[, haivn hjj tmn itmnrtrhbcbcf nvncts, mhs tmn frnhtnst ippirtucbty ti privbkn _ijuctnnrswbtm tmn hppriprbhtn sgbjjs, gciwjnkfn, hck httbtukns ti jbvn hck wirgnoon`tbvnjy bc tmn `iuctry tmny snrvn. Icn ehlir hspn`t io prn-snrvb`n`riss-`ujturhj trhbcbcf bs tmn mist ohebjy jbvbcf iepicnct. Jbvbcf wbtmh mist ohebjy privbkns tmn _ijuctnnr wbtm hc hutmnctb` sbtuhtbic tinxpnrbnc`n, iasnrvn, hck jnhrc khy-ti-khy jbvbcf hspn`ts io tmn mist`iuctry `ujturn. jtmiufm jbvbcf wbtm h mist ohebjy privbkns tmn

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    MIP[ OHEBJBNP EH[[NQ [MN MIENP[HR E C^ J

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    fbvns yiu mnippirtucbjy 84 obckcnw whys io `ipbcf.

    _ijuctnnr wbtm tmn cn`nsshry nxpisurn ti tmn `ujturn. tmn habjbty tifncnrhtn enhcbcfouj jnhrcbcf iut io tmht nxpnrbnc`n rnsts ehbcjy ictmn trhbcbcf sthoo. [mnrnoirn. privbk bcf h priku`t bvn mist ohebjy jbvbcfnxpnrbnc`n ti prieitn sgbjjs. `ics`biuscnss. hck hwhrncnss io tmn[rhbcnn smiujk an tmn gny tmnen io tmn miensthy `iepicnct.Jbvbcf wbtm h mist ohebjy frnhtjy beph`ts tmn [rhbcnns ucknrsthckbcfio tmn `ujturn hck jhcfuhfn. t ioonrs tmn [rhbcnns hc ippirtucbty tiiasnrvn hck an phrt io ohebjy jbon. hc nxpnrbnc`n tmny ehy cit an fbvncbo bt bs cit irfhcbznk oir tmne kurbcf TP[. [mriufm tmbs nxpnrbnc`n.[rhbcnns hc jnhrc fncknr rijns. ohebjy vhjuns. trhkbtbics. hppriprbhtnanmhvbir. pjus eu`m eirn. [mn ancnobts io pjh`bcf [rhbcnns wbtm mistohebjbns hrn bccuenrhajn hck ehy bcojunc`n tmn _ijuctnnrs nxpnrbnc`ntmriufmiut tmnbr snrvb n.Tnh`n @irps miensthy prifrhes thgn h vhrbnty io oires tmriufmiuttmn wirjk. [mn eist `ieeic oire bs [rhbcnns jbvbcf wbtm mist ohebjbnsoir tmn kurhtbic io TP[. Rnt. tmnrn hrn pists wmnrn [rhbcnns spnck icjyicn wnng kurbcf TP[ wbtm h mist ohebjy. itmnrs wmnrn _ijuctnnrs`ictbcun ti jbvnwbtm mist ohebjbns oir tmnbr obrst tmrnn eictms io snrvb`n.hck pists wmnrn _ijuctnnrs spnck tmnbr nctbrn snrvb`n jbvbcf wbtm h

    mist ohebjy (Oir spn`bob` `iuctry knthbjs snn Hppnckbx H . [i ehgntmn wrbtbcf hck rnhkbcf iotmbs ehcuhj nhsbnr. tmn prifrhe bc wmb`m[rhbcnns jbvn wbtm mist ohebjbns oir tmn kurhtbic io TP[ whs usnk hs heiknj. t bs mipnk. miwnvnr. tmht sthoo rnspicsbajn oir tmn hjj typns iomiensthy prifrhes wbjj fjnhc vhjuhajn bcoirehtbic haiut tmn`mhjjncfbcf thsg io pjhccbcf. irfhcbzbcf. hck ehchfbcf h miensthyprifrhe.

    TN @N @IQTP

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    [mbs ehcuhj whs knvnjipnk usbcf bcoirehtbic orie hriuck tmn T@wirjk. Xuithtbics tmriufmiut tmn ehcuhj hrn thgnc orie T@ [rhbcnnshck _ijuctnnrs. Hkkbtbichjjy, bcoirehtbic whs usnk orie itmnrbctnrchtbichj irfhcbzhtbics wbtm nxpnrtbsn bc pjh`bcf Henrb`hcs wbtmmist ohebjbns. H mist ohebjy ehcuhj knvnjipnk ay T@ Prb Jhcgh whsusnk hs h `hthjyst oir tmn irfhcbzhtbic io tmn tipb`s. Oir tmbs rnhsic,ehcy nxhepjns hrn orie Prb Jhcgh, aut hc nooirt mhs annc ehkn tibc`jukn shepjns io trhbcbcf knsbfcs hck miensthy ki`uencts oriehjj T@ rnfbics. Hotnr tmn @ic`jusbic snn ppnckbx H oir H`ricyeshck Haarnvbhtbics. Qnonrnc`ns Ehcuhjs, Tuajb`ht bics hck PnssbicKnsbfc [btjns) hrn jbstnk bc sn`tbic ]BPbc`n Tnh`n @irps wirgs bc si ehcy kboonrnct ujturns, bt bs bepissbajnti ioonr spn`bob` eiknjs tmht wbjj wirg ht nh`m pist. [mnrnoirn, tmbsehcuhj ioonrs hc iutjbcn io wmht tmn `iepicncts io h su``nssoujmiensthy prifrhe `iujk ncthbj ahsnk ic tmn nxpnrbnc`ns io sthoo bctmn obnjk. t ehy an vbnwnk hs h wirgaiig wmb`m hjjiws nh`m pist tiusn tmn eiknjs ioonrnk ti knvnjip tmnbr iwc spn`bob pijb`bns, trh bcbcfknsbfcs, hck ki`uencthtbic.

    BC[QIK^ [BIC

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    MIP[ OHEBJBNP EH[[NQ< [MN MIENP[HR E C^ J

    BB[MN ABFFNQ TB@[^QN

    H TIJB@R E [[NQP[mn T@ Mnhkquhrtnrs _ijuctnnr Phonty @iuc`bj knvnjipnk h AnstTrh`tb`ns ehcuhj bc Civneanr 822? tmht ehkn tmn oijjiwbcfsthtnenct haiut miensthys^.s.@ >>1hHkkbtbichjjy, tmn miensthy nxpnrbnc`n privbkns [rhbcnns hcippirtucbty ti jnhrc wmht bs rnqubrnk ti ehbcthbc tmnbr mnhjtm bctmn mist `iuctry, hck ti iasnrvn tmn mnhjtm `ickbtbics io tmnbrmiensthy `ieeucbty. [mn enkb`hj hck trhbcbcf sthoo hc jiig httmn miensthy hs hc nxpnrbnctbhj pmhsn io enkb`hj, shonty, hcksn`urbty trhbcbcf h pnron`t ippirtucbty ti nku`htn [rhbcnns icT@ enkb`hj pijb`y hs tmny rnjhtn ti ieeic mist iuctry prh`tb`ns.Vbtm tmbs bc ebck, aitm [rhbcnns hck mist ohebjbns smiujk an fbvnc`jnhr fubknjbcns ic T@ enkb`hj, shonty, hck sn`urbty pijb`bns-phrtb`ujhrjy, wmht ti ki bc `hsn io hc nenrfnc`y. Kurbcf mnhjtmhck shonty trhbcbcf, tmn T@EI ehy ehgn mbs/mnr prnsncthtbicseirn bctnrh`tbvn ay hsgbcf tmn [rhbcnns ti rnojn`t upic nxpnrbnc`nstmny mhvn mhk ht tmnbr miensthy.

    TN @N @IQTP

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    A OHBQ QNBEA^QPNENC[[mn hppriprbhtn rnbeaursnenct oir tmn mist ohebjbns bs hc bssuntmht nh`m pist eust kntnrebcn oir tmnesnjvns. [mn qunstbics ti`icsbknr hrn< s rnbeaursnenct ujturhjjy hppriprbhtn9 Bo si, wmhtheiuct bs ohbr9 Hck, wmht bs tmn anst why, fbvnc tmn `ujturn hckjifbstb`s, ti fnt tmn rnbeaursnenct ti tmn mist ohebjy9Mistbcf h [rhbcnn smiujk cnvnr an h why oir ohebjbns ti ehgneicny. Qnbeaursnenct smiujk an jbebtnk ti privbkbcf tmn mistohebjy wbtm tmn enhcs ti onnk tmn [rhbcnn, hck, bc sien `hsns, tiphy oir itmnr cn`nsshry nxpncsns tmn mist ohebjy wbjj bc`ur aymistbcf h [rhbcnn. Eist pists rnbeaursn mist ohebjbns oir [rhbcnn soiik, hck ehcy pists fbvn tmn eicny kbrn`tjy ti tmn [rhbcnns tifbvn ti tmn mist ohebjy. Pien pists wbrn eicny kbrn`tjy bcti ahcgh``iucts hs bc Chebabh. Bc Piutm Horb`h ohebjbns rn`nbvn oiikph`ghfns bcstnhk io eicnthry rnbeaursnenct. [mnrn hrn, miwnvnr,itmnr vhrbhtbics ic miw ti ki bt. [mn icjy hasijutn bs tmh t nvnryicnbcvijvnk eust gciw tmn hrrhcfnencts oir rnbeaursnenct. Bc itmnrwirks, tmn mist ohebjbns, tmn [rhbcnns, hck tmn T@ sthoo cnnk tigciw miw eu`m tmn ohebjbns wbjj an rn`nbvn, wmnc, hck miw.^cknr ci `br`uesthc`ns smiujk tmn rnbeaursnenct io ohebjbns jnhkti tmn [rhbcnns ir tmn ohebjbns ehgbcf h priobt. Bo ohebjbns hrn citrn`nbvbcf tmnbr eicny, ir bo [rhbcnns onnj tmny hrn cit fnttbcf tmnoiik tmht tmny cnnk, tmn miensthy `iirkbchtir cnnks ti bctnrvncnhck rn`tboy tmn sbtuhtbic.

    Hjtmiufm bt ehy cit an ujturhjjy hppriprbhtn bc hjj iuctrbns, sienpists mhvn su``nssoujjy usnk h ictrh`t, sbfcnk ay tmn mist ohebjbns,knthbjbcf T@ s nxpn`thtbics io tmne hck tmn heiuct iornbeaursnenct. Anjiw bs h shepjn io h mist ohebjy `ictrh`t usnkbc ^zangbsthc.

    ENKB@HJ HCK OBC C@B J BPP^NP

    BB's h vnry noon tbvntr csbtbic oir tmnbr jbonbc tmn vbjjhfn.

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    MIP[ OHEBJBNP EH[[NQ [MN MIENP[HR E C^ J

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    Hfnc`y< Tnh`n @irps, ^zangbsthchkkrnss

    Mist Ohebjy ht ?

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    MIP[ OHEBJBNP EH[[NQ [MN MIENP[HR E C^ J

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    Jbvbcf wbtm h mist ohebjybs c nxpnrbnctbhj snjo-hwhrncnss pri`nss.

    ebfmt pissbajy an h fiik siur`n oir ohebjy rnonrnc`ns. Bc Ehjb,vbjjhfns tmht mist [rhbcnns hrn rithtnk nvnry TP[ tmus cit aubjkbcfh knpncknc`y ic h `nrthbc vbjjhfn. Nh`m pist smiujk knvnjip btsiwc `ujturhjjy hppriprbhtn mist ohebjy rn`rubtbcf strhtnfy wnjj bchkvhc`n io tmn TP[ sbc`n bts bepjnenctht bic mhs h frnht noon`t ictmn tben bcn hck ehy rnqubrn mbrbcf hkkbtbichj sthoo ti anfbc wirgtwi ir tmrnn eictms prbir ti tmn TP[.Bc fncnrhj, wirk io eiutm bs tmn anst oire io mist ohebjyrn`rubtenct. Mist ohebjbns tmht mhvn mhk h pisbtbvn nxpnrbnc`n wbtmh [rhbcnn ehy an hsgnk ti smhrn tmnbr nxpnrbnc`n wbtm itmnrs hckti mnjp bknctboy hppriprbhtn ohebjbns. Hkvnrtbsbcf tmriufm tmn usnio pistnrs, rhkbi, cnwsphpnr, hck si ic bs iotnc h phrt io h su``nssoujmist ohebjy rn`rubtbcf strhtnfy. Cntwirgbcf tmriufm tmn T@ sthoo,`urrnct _ijuctnnrs, mist `iuctry `iuctnrphrts, s`miijs, rnjbfbiusirfhcbzhtbics, `bvb` irfhcbzhtbics, hck ji`hj fivnrcencts bs iotncnoon`tbvn.Mist ohebjy rn`rubtenct smiujk anfbc ht jnhst tmrnn eictms prbirti tmn TP[ hck mhvn hknquhtn sthoo rnsiur`ns knvitnk ti bt bc tmnanfbccbcf ti ncsurn nciufm mist ohebjbns wmnc tmn [rhbcnns hrrbvnbc iuctry. Pnhr`mbcf oir mist ohebjbns tmn wnng prbir ti tmn hrrbvhjio tmn [rhbcnns smiujk an hvibknk, bo ht hjj pissbajn.Qn`rubtbcf hck snjn`tbcf ohebjbns smiujk cnvnr an ahsnk icpnrsichj fhbc. Bt bs bepirthct ti mhvn ehcy sthoo bcvijvnk bcsnjn`tbcf ohebjbns.

    Phepjns io rn`rubtbcf pistnrs hck rhkbi hcciuc`nenct s`rbpts hrnkboob`ujt ti smhrn hs tmny hrn hjj wrbttnc bc tmn ji`hj jhcfuhfn.Miwnvnr, tmn jnttnr ic phfn 10 wrbttnc ay h _ijuctnnr, kneic-strhtns tmn tnres usnk ti rn`rubt mist ohebjbns bc Gyrfysthc.

    Bc tmn Pjivhg Qnpuajb` tmrnn eictms anoirn tmn [rhbcnns hrrbvn,pistnrs hcciuc`bcf tmn snhr`m oir mist ohebjbns hrn put up bcfri`nry stirns, pist ioob`ns, s`miijs, hck hcy itmnr pjh`n tmht wbjjh``npt tmne. [mn pistnrs hrn wrbttnc bc Pjivhg7 nxpjhbc haiut tmnTnh`n @irps, kns`rban _ijuctnnrs, jbst tmn hppjb`htbic knhkjbcn, sthtnrnqubrnencts tmht cnnk ti an ent ay mist ohebjbns, hck bc`jukn tmnpmicn cueanr wmnrn eirn bcoirehtbic `hc an iathbcnk.Bc Eijkivh, prispn`tbvn mist ohebjbns hrn bcvbtnk ti h prnsncthtbicti h`quhbct tmne wbtm tmn purpisn io tmn T@ miensthy prifrhe.[mbs typn io ipnc miusn hpprih`m ti rn`rubtenct bs usnk bc ehcy`iuctrbns. Oijjiwbcf bs h shepjn iutjbcn io tmn prnsncthtbic bcEijkivh.

    TN @N @IQTP

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    B[ P HJJ BC [MN OHEBJR

    PHETJN PNPPBIC TJHC EIJKI_H

    MIP[ OHEBJRAQBNOBCF

    Anoirn anfbccbcf tmn pri`nss io bckbvbkuhjjy bctnrvbnwbcf hcksnjn`tbcf Eijkivhc ohebjbns ti mist [rhbcnns oir > wnngsprispn`tbvn mist ohebjbns cnnk hc bctriku`tbic ti tmn purpisn iotmn miensthy ti tmn cnnks hck nxpn`thtbics io tmn Tnh`n @irpswmht tmn Tnh`n @irps wbjj privbkn tmn ohebjbns hck ti mhvn hcippirtucbty ti hsg qunstbics si tmny ehy kntnrebcn wmntmnr tmnywbsm ti phrtb`bphtn.

    FIHJP ebc Kbstrbautn mist ohebjy fubknjbcns hck fncnrhj

    bcoirehtbic ic tmn Tnh`n irps hck bts wirg bcEijkivh ti nh`m ohebjy.

    8 ebc Bctriku`n tmn T@ iuctry Kbrn`tir, wmi wbjj spnhghaiut tmn Tnh`n @irps hck Tnh`n @irps bc Eijkivh,hck nxpjhbc tmn Tnh`n @irps miensthy pijb`y.

    > ebc Bctriku`n ohebjbns ti tmn purpisn io tmn miensthynxpnrbnc`n bc`jukbcf sien mbstiry io bts usn bc prnvbiusTnh`n @irps trhbcbcfs bc itmnr `iuctrbns. Bknctboy khtnsio tmn miensthy.

    84ebc Bctriku`n tmn TP[ priln`t kbrn`tir. Ppnhg haiut wirgio Tnh`n @irps hriuck tmn wirjk hck tmn bepirthc`nhck vhjun io miensthys.

    84ebc Bctriku`n icn io tmn mist eitmnrs orie tmn jhst friup.Ppnhg haiut tmn nxpnrbnc`n io mistbcf hc Henrb`hcTnh`n @irps [rhbcnn.

    ; ebc Fi tmriufm tmn miensthy fubknjbcns wbtm ohebjbns.Hjjiw oir qunstbics hotnr nh`m sn`tbic.

    8> ebc Hsg ohebjbns ti rhbsn hcy qunstbics ir `ic`nrcs tmnyehy mhvn hck hcswnr tmne.

    > ebc @jisn snssbic ay rnqunstbcf ohebjbns bctnrnstnk bc anbcfvbsbtnk, bctnrvbnwnk, hck `icsbknrnk oir snjn`tbic ti sbfcup ic icn io tmn vbsbt s`mnkujns. Nxpjhbc tmny wbjj tmncan vbsbtnk ht tmht tben ic tmht khy.

    1? TNH@N@IQTP

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    ` MIP[ O EBJR IQBNC[ [BICIc`n tmn ohebjbns mhvn annc snjn`tnk bt bs bepirthct ti arbcf tmnehjj tifntmnr oir h oirehj irbncthtbic ti T@ TP[ hck tmn miensthyprifrhe [mbs bs hc ippirtucbty oir tmne ti fhbc spn`bob`bcoirehtbic ennt tmn T@ sthoo fnt ti gciw itmnr mist ohebjbnshck mhvn hc ippirtuc bty ti hsg qunstbics. t hjsi fbvns T@ h `mhc`nti hsg hkkbtbichj qunstbics hck iasnrvn tmn ohebjbns hfhbc ti anttnreht`mns tmne wbtm tmn [rhbcnns. [mn irbncthtbic smiujk bc`juknhjj ohebjbns snjn`tnk hck ehy bc`jukn hs ehcy ohebjy eneanrs hsbs `ujturhjjy hppriprbhtn hck jifbstb`hjjy pissbajn.Mistbcf icn irbncthtbic ht tmn trhbcbcf nctnr bs tmn eist noob`bnctaut oir sien pists bt bs bepissbajn ir beprh`tb`hj oir tmn miensthy`iirkbchtir ti fnt hjj tmn mist ohebjbns tifntmnr ir ti `ivnr hjj tmnehtnrbhj bc icn snssbic. Ht pists wmnrn hc nctbrn vbjjhfn bs rn`rubtnkti mist h friup io [rhbcnns tmn trhbcbcf sthoo iotnc bc`jukbcf sien_ijuctnnrs ehy `icku`t tmn mist ohebjy irbncthtbic bc tmn vbjjhfnhs wnjj. Bc [ifi oir nxhepjn _ijuctnnrs mnjp rn`rubt mist ohebjbnshck tmnc hssbst bc prnphrbcf tmne ti rn`nbvn [rhbcnns. Pien pistsbc`jukn kneicstrhtbics ic aibjbcf whtnr usbcf h jhtrbcn hck siic. Miwnvnr bc tmbs ehcuhj. tmn mist ohebjy irbncthtbic bs icnsnssbic.

    Nxpnrbnc`nk miensthy `iirkbchtirs rn`ieenck tmhthpprixbehtnjy 84 pnr`nct eirn ohebjbns tmhc hrn h`tuhjjy cnnknkan rn`rubtnk hck bcvbtnk ti tmn irbncthtbic. [mbs prn`hutbic bs bc`hsn sien ohebjbns kn`bkn cit ti mist h [rhbcnn ir h [rhbcnn cnnksti an eivnk kurbcf TP[. Oir nxhepjn bo ;4 [rhbcnns cnnk h mientmnc hpprixbehtnjy ;; ohebjbns smiujk an rn`rubtnk hck bcvbtnk tihttnck tmn mist ohebjy irbncthtbic. Ic`n eht`mbcf io tmn mistohebjbns mhs annc `iepjntnk tmn miensthy `iirkbchtir smiujk`icth`t tmn nxtrh mist ohebjbns hck nxpjhbc ti tmne bc h `ujturhjjysncsbtbvn ehccnr tmht tmny hrn cnnknk hs hjtnrchtn mist ohebjbnssmiujk h [rhbcnn cnnk ti an eivnk.

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    Miensjhy7s h why 8knvnjip icn s B88BBB snjo-hwhrncnss.

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    Miensthy privbknstmn 'trhbcbcf jhairhtiry'ir sgbjj aubjkbcf hckhppjb`htbic.

    Bc eist `iuctrbns httnckbcf tmn mist ohebjy irbncthtbic bs hrnqub rnenct oir an`iebcf h mist ohebjy. Bo h mist ohebjy bs uchajnti httnck tmn mist ohebjy irbncthtbic ir kins cit smiw up tmnctmht ohebjy smiujk cit an eht`mnk wbtm h [rhbcnn. @br`uesthc`nsehy cn`nssbthtn miwnvnr privbkbcf h mist ohebjy wbtm hcbckbvbkuhj irbncthtbic snssbic. Bo ehcy ohebjbns `hccit httnck irbo tmnrn hrn h jhrfn cueanr io ohebjbns tmn trhbcbcf sthoo ehy ioonrtwi mist ohebjy irbncthtbic snssbics hck hjjiw tmn snjn`tnk mistohebjbns ti miisn wmb`m tmny wbjj httnck. [mn bknhj tben ti icku`ttmn mist ohebjy irbncthtbic bs kurbcf tmn wnng anoirn tmn [rhbcnnshrn s`mnkujnk ti anfbc jbvbcf wbtm tmn mist ohebjbns.

    Bc gnnpbcf wbtm T@ trhbcbcf pmbjisipmy tmn irbncthtbic snssbicoir ohebjbns cnnks ti an hs bctnrh`tbvn hs pissbajn. Iotnc `urrnct_ijuctnnrs hrn bcvbtnk ti pnroire sgbts haiut `ieeic hckprnkb`thajn bssuns tmht hrbsn kurbcf tmn miensthy. [mn sgbts mhvnannc rn`nbvnk wbtm frnht nctmusbhse hck fncnrhtn eu`m kbs`ussbicbc sien `iuctrbns. Bo pissbajn prnsnct h sgbt wbtm h `ieeicpriajne arnhg tmn mist ohebjbns bcti sehjj friups ti kbs`uss wmhttmny wiujk ki bc tmht sbtuhtbic hck tmnc arbcf tmne ah`g tikbs`uss bt. Mhvbcf oirenr mist ohebjy eneanrs phrtb`bphtn bc hphcnj kbs`ussbic bs hcitmnr usnouj trhbcbcf entmik oir tmn mistohebjy irbncthtbic. [miufm ehcy whys nxbst ti ehgn tmn snssbicbctnrh`tbvn hck ncliyhajn oir tmn mist ohebjbns tmn oh`bjbthtir eustan sncsbtbvn ti ujturhj cires oir tmn irbncthtbic hck oir hcy itmnrtrhbcbcf snssbics.Pien spn`bob` `ictnct cnnks ti an `ivnrnk kurbcf tmn mis t ohebjyirbncthtbic snssbic. [mn T@EI smiujk httnck hs ehcy tipb`s knhjwbtm tmn mnhjtm hck shonty io tmn [rhbcnns. t wiujk an bknhj bo tmn@K hck tmn HI `iujk hjsi httnck. Hjj TP[ sthoo wmi bctnrh`t wbtmtmn mist ohebjbns cnnk ti mhvn h rijn kurbcf tmn irbncthtbic si tmhttmn ohebjbns mhvn hc ippirtucbty ti fnt ti gciw wmi tmny hrn ti

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    `icth`t bc `hsn tmny cnnk hssbsthc`n. [mn oijjiwbcf hrn tmrnns`nchrbis orie tmn Horb`h Qnfbic miensthy ehcuhj usnk oir mistohebjy irbncthtbic. [mnsn s`nchrbis ehy an h`tnk iut hck usnk titrbffnr kbs`ussbic heicf tmn mist ohebjbns.P@NCHQBI

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    hjsi hjjnvbhtns'n on j io fibcf ti

    tj nbj hssbfcenct sbtns.

    [mn Tnh`n @irps tnh`mns tmn vnrch`ujhr. [mn fihj bs ti mnjp [rhbcnnsspnhg tmn jhcfuhfn hs siic hs pissbajn, cit cn`nsshrbjy ti wrbtnhck rnhk tmn jhcfuhfn. Iotnc [rhbcnns obck tmht tmn kboonrnc`nantwnnc oirehj jhcfuhfn hck `icvnrshtbichj jhcfuhfn an`iensh `mhjjncfn wbtm tmnbr mist ohebjy. Pien mist ohebjbns ehy thgntmnbr rijn bc tmn [rhbcnns' jhcfuhfn h`qubsbtbic vnry snrbiusjy, hckehy an kbstrnssnk tmht tmny hrn cit jnhrcbcf nku`htnk jhcfuhfnphttnrcs. [mbs ehy jnhk tmn mist ohebjy ti tnh`m tmn [rhbcnn tmnoirehj jhcfuhfn (ir pnrmhps h kbhjn`t), fbvbcf tmn [rhbcnn krbjjs,hck `icsthct `irrn`tbics. [mbs ehy ehgn tmn [rhbcnn onnjuc`ieoirthajn hck hcxbius haiut prh`tb`bcf tmn jhcfuhfn. t bsbepirthc t ti nxpjhbc bc tmn mist ohebjy irbncthtbic tmht tmn Tnh`n@irps wiujk jbgn tmn mist ohebjbns ti mnjp tmn [rhbcnns prh`tb`n`ieeucb`htbcf hs tmny hrn anbcf thufmt bc trhbcbcf hck cit ti onnjrnspicsbabjbty oir tnh`mbcf tmn [rhbcnn eirn ir kboonrnct oires iotmn jhcfuhfn.Bt bs ieeic oir [rhbcnns ti an`ien tmn Ncfjbsm tnh`mnrs oir tmnmist ohebjbns. [mbs `hc an priajnehtb`-nspn`bhjjy bo `mbjkrnc hrnbc tmn mien. [rhbcnns hc mnjp ohebjy eneanrs wbtm tmnbr Ncfjbsm,bt bs hotnr hjj h `ujturhj nx`mhcfn. [mn ohebjbns cnnk ti an `jnhr,miwnvnr, tmht tmn ehbc fihj io tmn miensthy prifrhe bs oir[rhbcnns ti jnhrc haiut tmn ji`hj ujturn hck tmn thrfnt jhcfuhfn tian su``nssouj kurbcf tmnbr twi ynhrs io snrvb n bc tmn mist `iuctry.H fncnrhj rujn bs tmht tmn usn io Ncfjbsm smiujk an jbebtnk, ucjnssbt bs uchvibkhajn ir nssnctbhj oir tmn [rhbcnn's wnjj-anbcf.[mn miensthy ioonrs tmn jhcfuhfn bcstru`tirs h fiik ippirtucbtyti bctnfrhtn jhssriie jnhrcbcf wbtm [rhbcnns' rnhj jbon nxpnrbnc`ns.[mn Miensthy Jhcfuhfn H`tbvbtbns @mhrt anjiw bs orie tmnJhcfuhfn @iirkbchtir's Qnsiur`n Gbt. [mn `mhrt, knvnjipnk ayJ@s ht Hsbh-Th`bob` pists, kns`rbans tmn noon`tbvncnss io snvnrhjvbjjhfn-ahsnk ir miensthy-ahsnk h`tbvbtbns. Eist io tmn h`tbvbtbnshrn icsbknrnk noon`tbvn, miwnvnr, sien ehy an eirn noon`tbvn oir`nrthbc typns io jnhrcnrs ir hfn friups.

    TNH@N @IQTP

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    Httnck rnjbfbius snrvb`n. Noon`tbvn Jnhrcs `ujturn, `nrthbc anmhvbir phttnrcs, jnhrcseirn jhcfuhfn hck aubjks jbstncbcf sgbjjs.

    Qnhk hssbfcencts fbvnc ti Bcnoon`tbvn Kins cit aubjk jhcfuhfn sgbjjs ir `riss-`ujturhj[rhbcnns bc Ncfjbsm (n.f. mnhjtm sgbjjs hck snphrhtns tmn [rhbcnn orie misttnxtaiig) ohebjy bctnrh`tbics.[rhbcnn rnhk sbepjn wrbttnc Noon`tbvn ^sns jhcfuhfn bc rbsg-ornn sbtuhtbic.ehtnrbhjs ti eneanrs io tmnmist ohebjy.Ptiry tnjjbcf. Noon`tbvn Hajn ti prh`tb`n jhcfuhfn hck usn cnw

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    hck nxprnssbics.G- gbcsmbp Noon`tbvn aut Fbvns h rnhsic ti thjg ti pnipjn. Mnjps tmneN nku`htbic cnnks `hrnouj ucknrsthck tmn `ieeucbty bc wmb`m tmny mhvnN n`icieb`s suppirt hck tmnbr miensthy.T pijbtb`s stru`turn siQ rnjbfbics tmht pnipjn bcH- hssi bhtbics tmn `ieeucbtyM- mnhjtm, muehc, mbstiry hrn prnphrnk4 knvnjipenct hck vhjunk.

    Pien tipb`s[rhbcnns hssbfcnk tmn thsg ti obck ehy an pnrsichj,iut bcoirehtbic ic icn io tmnsn ir sncsbtbvn,tipb`s kurbcf vbjjhfn sthy. ir tii `iepjnxJnhrc icn sbepjn sicf ir khc`n Noon`tbvn oir Jnhrcs cnw vi`haujhry, `ujturn.

    yiucfnr [rhbcnns[nh`m ohebjy fhens/stirbns, Noon`tbvn Ehgns jnhrcbcf ouc.n.f., Pirry, Fi Obsm, nt`.

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    Eirn knthbjs ic tmnsn h`tbvbtbns ehy an oiuck bc tmn Jhcfuhfn@iirkbchtirs Qnsiur`n Gbt, TH@H Ehcuhj, hck tmn Fncknr hckKnvnjipenct [rhbcbcf Aiigjnts.

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    [QHBCNNP PN@^QB[R([hgnc orie @ujturhj Nx`mhcfn Trifrhe wbtm \heabhc Ohebjbns ebcutnsThst nxpnrbnc`n jbvbcf bc h `ujturhjjy kboonrnct ncvbricenctnbtmnr bc tmn ^cbtnk Pthtns ir harihk. (Vmht oijjiws bs hcnxhepjn io miw tmbs ebfmt an kicn.)Citn ti [rhbcnrs Bo tmnrn hrn nciufm pnipjn bc tmn friupwmi mhvn nxpnrbnc`nk tmn haivn sthtnenct, sehjj friup wirgwbjj an pissbajn. Bo cit, usn jhrfn friup smhrbcf.Pehjj Friup Virg 8> ebcutnsKbvbkn tmn friup bcti sehjj friups io = 84 (bo friup bs jhrfnnciufm), ir sehjjnr friups io 0 > (bo tmn friup bs ucknr 84pnipjn). Friup kbvbsbic `hc oijjiw (oir nxhepjn) h `ictbcnctkbvbsbic< hjj phrtb`bphcts wmi jbvnk bc Nuripn wbjj an tifntmnrhck si ic. Hsg nh`m friup ti bknctboy sienicn wmi wbjj rn`irk(ic h ojbp `mhrt) hck prnsnct tmn obckbcfs ti nctbrn friup. [mn`ieencts smiujk rnvnhj ehlir obckbcfs-phrtb`ujhrjy tmn`ictrhst kbencsbic `mhrh`tnrbstb`s anjiw. Oir bcsthc`n, bosienicn shys< [misn pnipjn wnrn thsg-irbnctnk, h ictnxtuhjnxhepjn smiujk an fbvnc ti mbfmjbfmt tmn iasnrvhtbic.Pehjj Friup Trnsncthtbic hck Tri`nssbcfHjjiw nh`m friup > ebcutns ti prnsnct tmnbr obckbcfs. Hotnrtmn prnsncthtbics thgn sien hkkbtbichj `ieencts orie tmnjhrfn friup.

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    Trn-Pnrvb n [rhbcbcf Vnj`ien Aiig 822=, H MiensthyFubkn< Jbvbcf wbtm h [hczhcbhc Ohebjy, pp. 1>-16.Kneicstrhtbics

    P[NT >< Kbs`ussbic< Jifbstb`s io tmn Miensthy > ebcutns)- Qnpirt ic Mist Ohebjy Virgsmip- [rhcspirthtbic antwnnc tmn Miensthys hck

    [rhbcbcf Pbtn- Vmht ti thgn wbtm yiu/ wmht Tnh`n @irps

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    @irps nku`htbic [rhbcnn Orhcg mhs ficn ioo wbtmeneanrs io mbs mist ohebjy. Ci siicnr kins mn rnh`mmbs cnw mien tmhc mn bs ioonrnk tnh, snrvnk wbtm ebjghck sufhr. Hck tmnc h sn`ick `up. Mbs mist aritmnr bscb`n nciufm ti thgn mbs ahf ti mbs riie. Mbs mist sbstnrsmiws mbe tmn Ncfjbsm aiig smn bs usbcf bc sn`ickhrys`miij. Mbs cnxt twi miurs hrn spnct kns`rbabcf mbsohebjy ah`g mien, trybcf ti nxpjhbc wmnrn Piutm@hrijbch bs, jnhrcbcf nvnryicn's chens, hck usbcf tmnPwhmbjb mn mhk jnhrcnk nhrjbnr bc tmn khy, nspn`bhjjyhshctn.Ay kbccnr tben, tmn [rhbcnn bs nxmhustnk, hck bs fjhk tinht. [mn ohebjy anfbcs tmn enhj wbtm h prhynr, bc wmb`mmn bs bcvbtnk ti phrtb`bphtn. Mbs rnjbfbic an`iens h tipb`

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    io kbccnr `icvnrshtbic. Mn bs fjhk ti oi`us ic oiik, hckmn nhts nctmusbhstb`hjjy, hjtmiufm mn bs hwhrn nciufmio mbs surriuckbcfs ti citb`n tmht mbs mist sbstnr snnesti spnck eirn tben bc tmn gbt`mnc tmhc ht tmn thajn. Pmnbs kbrn`tnk ti put eirn oiik ic mbs pjhtn< eirn enht,eirn ahchchs, eirn mbps, nvnc tmiufm mn mhs cit nhtnchjj tmisn snrvnk ti mbe nhrjbnr-hck tmnc h sn`ick aittjnio @ign bs ipncnk oir mbe. Vbtm hjj nyns ic mbe, mnpritnsts tmht mn mhs nhtnc hck krucg nciufm, tmht mn soujj, tmht mn whsc t hs mucfry hs mn tmiufmt, tmht whtnrwiujk mhvn annc suoob`bnct ht kbccnr. [mny ioonr mbewhtnr. Ehyan tmn tnh objjnk en up nhrjbnr. t whs vnryswnnt. Ehy B mnjp `jnhr tmn thajn9 Mn `ictbcuns ti antmn `nctnr io httnctbic hotnr kbccnr, hs mbs mist sbstnrwirgs bc tmn gbt`mnc. Anoirn mn gciws bt, mn bs anbcfioonrnk mit whtnr oir h spjhsm ahtm. Ciicn njsn snnesti an fnttbcf rnhky ti ahtmn. Bt bs 2 i'`ji`g. Bs bt pijbtn,mn wicknrs, ti fi ioo ti mbs riie9 [k jbgn ti fi ti ankciw, mn shys.Ic`n bc mbs riie, mn tmbcgs haiut miw mn `hc nxpjhbctmn sbtuhtbic ti mbs jhcfuhfn hck `riss ujturhj trhbcnric Eickhy, wbtmiut siuckbcf ucfrhtnouj. [mn mistohebjy mipns tmny hrn ioo ti h fiik sthrt.

    H`t [wi Kbnt hck CutrbtbicOrhcg mhs annc wbtm mbs mist ohebjy ciw oir h wnng,aut mhs annc ebssbcf snvnrhj nvncbcf enhjs wbtm mbsohebjy. Mn usuhjjy `iens mien bc tben oir kbccnr, autiotnc shys tmht mn mhs hjrnhky nhtnc wbtm orbncks ir tmhth tnh`mnr ht tmn s`miij mhk hsgnk mbe oir kbccnr. Mnkins cit snne tmht bctnrnstnk bc tmn arnhgohsts tmht hrnprnphrnk oir mbe nbtmnr, wmntmnr tmny hrn jnotivnrs orietmn cbfmt anoirn ir nffs tmht mhvn annc prnphrnknspn`bhjjy oir mbe. Icn khy, wmnc mbs mist eitmnr bs`jnhcbcf mbs riie, smn citb`ns tmht mn mhs qubtn h abfsuppjy io oiik bc mbs `jisnt. Iavbiusjy, mn mhs anncnhtbcf bc mbs riie. [mn mist phrncts tmbcg tmny mhkanttnr thjg wbtm tmnbr [rhbcnn.Vmht cnnks ti an shbk9

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    MIP[ OHEBJBNP EH[[NQ< [MN MIENP[HR E C^ J

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    PHETJN HOQB@H

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    KHBJR P@MNK^JN ENHJP HCK VH[NQ[mn [rhbcnns wbjj mhvn snssbics ht tmn trhbcbcf `nctnr (P`miij Ci.88 Eickhy ti Orbkhy orie 4=44 ti 8?04 hck Phturkhy orie 4=44ti 8144. [rhbcnns wbjj nht arnhgohst hck kbccnr wbtm tmnbr ohebjbnsnvnry khy, hs wnjj hs juc`m ic Phturkhy hck Puckhy. Eickhytmriufm Orbkhy tmny wbjj nht juc`m ht tmn trhbcbcf nctnr. Bo h [rhbcnnbs fibcf ti an hasnct oir hcy enhj tmny wiujk cirehjjy mhvn wbtmtmnbr mist ohebjy, tmny smiujk jnt tmnbr ohebjy gciw bc hkvhc`n.Pbc`n icn io tmn ialn`tbvns io tmn miensthy nxpnrbnc`n bs ti mhvn[rhbcnns nxpnrbnc`n Eijkivhc `ujturn, eist io tmn oiik snrvnksmiujk an typb`hj khbjy kbsmns. Pien _ijuctnnrs ehy hjsi jbgn timnjp wbtm tmn iigbcf. Ppn`bhj oiik icsbknrhtbics hc an wirgnkiut h``irkbcf ti bckbvbkuhj jbgns hck kbsjbgns. [rhbcnns hck mistohebjbns smiujk kbs`uss tmbs bc hkvhc`n.

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    J ^CKQRMist ohebjbns hrn nxpn`tnk ti suppjy ank jbcnc hck tiwnjs oir tmnbr[rhbcnns. [mn `ist oir [rhbcnns pnrsichj jhuckry cnnks hrn cit`ivnrnk ay tmn Tnh`n @irps. Pien [rhbcnns ehy wbsm ti whsm tmnbriwc `jitmns, wmbjn itmnrs ehy wbsm ti ehgn hrrhcfnencts oir btti an kicn. [mn [rhbcnn wbjj phy oir hcy pnrsichj jhuckry snrvb`ns.

    THRENC[Mist ohebjbns wbjj rn`nbvn Jnb 81 nh`m khy tmn [rhbcnns hrn jbvbcfwbtm tmne. [mbs heiuct `ivnrs tmn enhjs hck jikfbcf tmn ohebjbnshrn privbkbcf. [mbs eicny wbjj an phbk bc tmrnn bcsthjjenctskbrn`tjy ti tmn mist ohebjy. [mn obrst wnng s phyenct wbjj an ehknic Lucn 1> anoirn tmn [rhbcnns anfbc jbvbcf wbtm tmnbr mist ohebjy.[mn sn`ick phyenct wbjj an ehkn ic Lujy 86 hck tmn obchj phyenctwbjj an ehkn ht tmn `jisn io tmn miensthy nxpnrbnc`n.

    TQIAJNEP @IC@NQCP X^NP[BICPPi tmny hc wirg tmbcfs iut tifntmnr, mist ohebjbns smiujk an ipncwbtm tmnbr [rhbcnns haiut hcy priajnes ir `ic`nrcs. Bo miwnvnr, hmist ohebjy mhs h spn`bob` `ic`nrc ir priajne, tmny smiujk `icth`ttmn trhbcbcf `iirkbchtir ht ;;-01-6=, ht P`miij Ci. 88.

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    PHETJN GNCRH

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    [mn sehjjnst ucbt tmht rnprnsncts h Chtbic bs tmn ohebjy.Pi`bijifbsts shy tmn ohebjy ehgns up tmn `ieeucbty hck tmn`ieeucbty ehgns up tmn Chtbic. [mn ohebjy (ohtmnr, eitmnr, hck`mbjkrnc) rnprnsncts si`bnthj rijns tmht nh`m bckbvbkuhj pjhys, tmnrnjhtbicsmbp, tmn nxtnct hck tmn jbebthtbics heicf tmn rijns. [mnrijns hssbfc hutmirbty, jnhknrsmbp anmhvbirs, ehccnrs7 hck, bc obchjhchjysbs, fubkn hck kntnrebcn tmn si`bhj, `ujturhj, pijbtb`hj hckn`icieb` stru`turn hck kbrn`tbic io h Chtbic.[mn haivn tmiufmt mhs fubknk Tnh`n @irps bc pjhccbcf hckbepjnenctbcf TP[ bc snvnrhj `iuctrbns. Bc Gncyh, arbno ohebjy jbvnbcs ir miensthys (usuhjjy 1 0 khys) mhvn annc bc ipnrhtbic sbc`n8262. Pbc`n I`tianr, oujj-tben miensthys mhvn annc bc`irpirhtnkbcti tmn TP[.

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  • 8/13/2019 Peace Corps Host Families Matter: The Homestay Manual 2010 | ICE T0106 pp.138

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