263

Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

  • Upload
    others

  • View
    12

  • Download
    2

Embed Size (px)

Citation preview

Page 1: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation
Page 2: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation
Page 3: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation
Page 4: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation
Page 5: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Copyright©2017byDianeEngelhardt.Allrightsreserved.ExceptaspermittedundertheUnitedStatesCopyrightActof1976,nopartofthispublicationmaybereproducedordistributedinanyformorbyanymeans,orstoredinadatabaseorretrievalsystem,withoutthepriorwrittenpermissionofthepublisher.

ISBN:978-1-26-001071-8MHID:1-26-001071-6.

ThematerialinthiseBookalsoappearsintheprintversionofthistitle:ISBN:978-1-26-001070-1,MHID:1-26-001070-8.

eBookconversionbycodeMantraVersion1.0

Alltrademarksaretrademarksoftheirrespectiveowners.Ratherthanputatrademarksymbolaftereveryoccurrenceofatrademarkedname,weusenamesinaneditorialfashiononly,andtothebenefitofthetrademarkowner,withnointentionofinfringementofthetrademark.Wheresuchdesignationsappearinthisbook,theyhavebeenprintedwithinitialcaps.

McGraw-HillEducationeBooksareavailableatspecialquantitydiscountstouseaspremiumsandsalespromotionsorforuseincorporatetrainingprograms.Tocontactarepresentative,pleasevisittheContactUspageatwww.mhprofessional.com.

McGraw-HillEducation,theMcGraw-HillEducationlogo,PerfectPhrases,andrelatedtradedressaretrademarksorregisteredtrademarksofMcGraw-HillEducationand/oritsaffiliatesintheUnitedStatesandothercountriesandmaynotbeusedwithoutwrittenpermission.Allothertrademarksarethepropertyoftheirrespectiveowners.McGraw-HillEducationisnotassociatedwithanyproductorvendormentionedinthisbook.

TERMSOFUSE

ThisisacopyrightedworkandMcGraw-HillEducationanditslicensorsreserveallrightsinandtothework.Useofthisworkissubjecttotheseterms.ExceptaspermittedundertheCopyrightActof1976andtherighttostoreand

Page 6: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

retrieveonecopyofthework,youmaynotdecompile,disassemble,reverseengineer,reproduce,modify,createderivativeworksbasedupon,transmit,distribute,disseminate,sell,publishorsublicensetheworkoranypartofitwithoutMcGraw-HillEducation’spriorconsent.Youmayusetheworkforyourownnoncommercialandpersonaluse;anyotheruseoftheworkisstrictlyprohibited.Yourrighttousetheworkmaybeterminatedifyoufailtocomplywiththeseterms.

THEWORKISPROVIDED“ASIS.”McGRAW-HILLEDUCATIONANDITSLICENSORSMAKENOGUARANTEESORWARRANTIESASTOTHEACCURACY,ADEQUACYORCOMPLETENESSOFORRESULTSTOBEOBTAINEDFROMUSINGTHEWORK,INCLUDINGANYINFORMATIONTHATCANBEACCESSEDTHROUGHTHEWORKVIAHYPERLINKOROTHERWISE,ANDEXPRESSLYDISCLAIMANYWARRANTY,EXPRESSORIMPLIED,INCLUDINGBUTNOTLIMITEDTOIMPLIEDWARRANTIESOFMERCHANTABILITYORFITNESSFORAPARTICULARPURPOSE.McGraw-HillEducationanditslicensorsdonotwarrantorguaranteethatthefunctionscontainedintheworkwillmeetyourrequirementsorthatitsoperationwillbeuninterruptedorerrorfree.NeitherMcGraw-HillEducationnoritslicensorsshallbeliabletoyouoranyoneelseforanyinaccuracy,errororomission,regardlessofcause,intheworkorforanydamagesresultingtherefrom.McGraw-HillEducationhasnoresponsibilityforthecontentofanyinformationaccessedthroughthework.UndernocircumstancesshallMcGraw-HillEducationand/oritslicensorsbeliableforanyindirect,incidental,special,punitive,consequentialorsimilardamagesthatresultfromtheuseoforinabilitytousethework,evenifanyofthemhasbeenadvisedofthepossibilityofsuchdamages.Thislimitationofliabilityshallapplytoanyclaimorcausewhatsoeverwhethersuchclaimorcausearisesincontract,tortorotherwise.

Page 7: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Contents

AcknowledgmentsIntroduction:WhoCanBenefitfromUsingThisBook?

Part1PhrasesforConversation

Chapter1SmallTalk

Openers:ExcuseMe…

TalkingAboutYourself

ShowingInterest

IntroducingYourself

BreakingtheIce

StayinginTouch

SayingGood-Bye

Dialogue:SmallWorld

TopicsforPractice

Chapter2PastExperiences

Openers:Greetings

MakingIntroductions

CatchingUp

PastExperiences

TransitionsandConnectors

Page 8: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

DiscourseMarkers

EnjoymentandPleasure

ExpressingEmotions

EndingtheConversation

TimeExpressions

Dialogue:LongTimeNoSee

TopicsforPractice

Chapter3Likes,Dislikes,andInterests

Openers:FeelingThingsOut

Likes

Dislikes

Preferences

Interests

DesiresandDependency

Indifference

MakingOffers

DatesandInvitations

ExpressingEmotions

Compliments

Dialogue:What’sforDinner?

TopicsforPractice

Chapter4ObjectsandProcesses

Openers:TakeaLook!

DescribingObjects

PropertiesandFeatures

CostandEstimates

Page 9: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

UseandAvailability

MakingComparisons

MakingContrasts

EvaluationsandJudgments

GivingInstructions

ExpressingEmotions

Dialogue:TheNewSmartphone

TopicsforPractice

Chapter5ProblemsandAdvice

Openers:What’sWrong?

StatingaProblem

AskingforHelporAdvice

IdentifyingtheCauseofaProblem

SympathyandUnderstanding

AdviceandAssistance

AppreciationandGratitude

MakingSomeoneAwareofaProblem

Complaints

Reassurances

ReluctanceandAvoidance

ExpressingEmotions

Dialogue:What’stheMatter?

TopicsforPractice

Chapter6DecisionsandGoals

Openers:WhatAreWeGoingtoDo?

OptionsandAlternatives

Page 10: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

ReasonsandPurpose

AdvantagesandDisadvantages

MakingaDecision

IndecisionandHesitation

SettingSchedulesandDeadlines

GoalsandPlans

Encouragement,Recognition,andCongratulations

ExpressingEmotions

Dialogue:AToughDecision

TopicsforPractice

Part2PhrasesforDiscussions

Chapter7Opinions

Openers:AskingforanOpinion

StatinganOpinion

ValueJudgments

Generalizations

AgreeingandDisagreeing

SupportinganOpinion

FiguresandStatistics

MakinganArgument

SolutionsandRecommendations

ExpressingEmotions

Dialogue:TheBestIdeaI’veHeardSoFar

TopicsforPractice

Chapter8GroupDiscussions

Page 11: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Openers:OpeningtheFloor

LeadingaDiscussion

ParticipatinginaGroupDiscussion

Interruptions

ClarificationandExplanations

Misunderstandings

ManagingtheDiscussion

InConclusion

Dialogue:TheHolidayParty

TopicsforPractice

Chapter9SeriousSubjects

Openers:CommonConcerns

OfferingSolutionstoGeneralProblems

LevelsofLanguage

Directvs.IndirectLanguage

Irony,Sarcasm,andEuphemism

ComplaintsandDemands

RulesandConditions

BadNewsandGoodNews

CausesandConsequences

CertaintyandPossibility

ApologiesandAgreements

Dialogue:AHardBargain

TopicsforPractice

Part3PhrasesforSpecialOccasions

Page 12: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Chapter10SpecialOccasions

Openers:WordsofWelcome

HonorsandAwards

SpecialOccasions

Vacations,Holidays,andTrips

Dining

PersonalNotes

Dialogue:HappyBirthday!

Part4PhrasesforTelephoneConversations

Chapter11TelephoneBasics

MakingaCall

ReceivingaCall

CheckingDetails

ConnectingaCall

InformationandServices

TelephoneEtiquette

EndingaCall

MakingSmallTalk

Dialogue:TouchingBase

Practice

Chapter12TelephoneMessages

GivingDetailsoverthePhone

LeavingaMessage

TakingaMessage

EnsuringCommunication

Page 13: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

ReturningaCall

AnsweringMachines,VoiceMail,andTextMessages

Dialogue:AMessage

Practice

Chapter13TelephoneBusiness

MakingAppointments

MakingBookingsandReservations

ChangesandCancellations

OrdersandServices

DiscussingaProblem

InConclusion

Dialogue

TopicsforPractice

Page 14: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

I

Acknowledgments

wouldfirstliketoexpressmygratitudetoMcGraw-HillProfessionalfortheopportunitytopublishthisbookandtomyeditor,HollyMcGuire,forchoosingmeforthisparticularproject.Iwouldalsoliketoacknowledgethevaluableinsightsmycolleagueand

friend,BarbDonaldson,hasprovidedalongtheway.Mythanksgooutaswelltomystudents:Yuko,Joo-Weoun,Hye-Sin,Chae-

Rin,Mayumi,andSatokofortheirperceptivefeedback.Lastbutnotleast,myappreciationtomyhusband,Erich,forhissupportand

encouragement.

Page 15: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

P

Introduction

WhoCanBenefitfromUsingThisBook?

erfectPhrasesforESL:ConversationSkillswaswrittenforESLstudentsandlearnerswhowanttoimprovetheirconversationskillsinsideand

outsideoftheclassroom.ThecontentwasselectedtofamiliarizeyouwiththekindoflanguagenativeEnglishspeakersuseregularlyineverydayconversationsanddiscussionsathome,school,andwork.Althoughitwaswrittenwithintermediate-levelspeakersinmind,thereissomethingforeverymotivatedlearnerwhoaimstodevelophisorherabilitytoparticipateinconversationsanddiscussionsonabroadvarietyoftopics.

HowtoUseThisBookThebookconsistsofthirteenchaptersdividedintofourparts:phrasesforconversation,discussions,specialoccasions,andtelephoneconversations.Progressingindepthanddifficulty,thissecondeditioncoverstopicsrelevanttoeverydaylife.

ObjectivesTheseindicatetheskillsyoucanexpecttogainfromusingthephrasesineachchapter.

PhrasesParts1to3

Page 16: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Thefirstthreepartscoverphrasesforeverydayconversation.Eachchapterbeginswithtypicalconversationopenersandcontainsa

collectionoftopic-relatedphrasesthatwillguideyouthroughanaturalconversationordiscussion.Althoughthephrasesareorganizedthematically,theyarenotexclusivetoanyonetopic.Whereappropriate,referenceismadetophrasesthatappearinpreviouschaptersandcomeinhandywhenyoudiscussdifferentsubjects.

Part4Thethreechaptersinthissectionpresentphrasesthatarecommonlyusedwhenyoumaketelephonecallsforbothpersonalandbusinesspurposes,andtheseareorganizedfromformaltoinformal.Becausethecontentofatelephoneconversationdoesnotdiffergreatlyfromaface-to-faceconversation,thesymbolrefersyoutousefulphrasesfromParts1and2.Youwillfindthesephrasesunderthegivensectionheadingandpagenumber,e.g.,DiscourseMarkers,page30.

Becauselanguageiscloselytiedtoacountry’scultureandcustoms,manyphrasesareorganizedfromformaltoinformal,indirecttodirect,strongtomild,andindegreesofpolitenesssothatyoucanchoosethephrasesthatareappropriatetouseindifferentsituations.Theinformation symbolwillalsoalertyoutolanguageorculturetips.

Youwillseethatsomephrasesandpartsofphrasesappear:

inboldtype

betweenslashes(/)

Boldtypeindicatesphrasesthatrequireadditionalinformation.Forexample:

Letmeintroducemyfiancée,Alice.(Chapter2)

Whydon’tyoutrydoingvolunteerwork?(Chapter3)

Slashesareusedtoshowhowaphraseinboldtypecanbecompletedwithvariousinformation.Forexample:

Don’tyoulookcharming/pretty/handsometoday!(Chapter3)

Pleaseacceptmyapologiesforthemistake/oversight/inconvenience/trouble.(Chapter9)

Page 17: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Slashesalsoindicatehowaphrasecanbevariedwiththeuseofprepositions,gerundsorinfinitives,orsynonyms.Forexample:

Iplantosail/planonsailingaroundtheworldsomeday.(Chapter6)

What’syourview/take/stand/positiononthechangestoourcurriculum?(Chapter8)

Phrasesthatarenotindicatedinboldtypearefixedexpressionsandcanstandontheirown.Forexample:

Whatapity!(Chapter5)

Icouldn’tagreewithyoumore!(Chapter7)

Ofcourseitisnotnecessaryforyoutomasterorevenattempttomasterallofthephrasesundereachheadingandsubheading.Oneortwomaysuityourpurposesquitenicely.Choosethephrasesthatfityourpersonalstyle,andonceyou’recomfortableusingthem,youcantryoutanotherone.ListencarefullytonativeEnglishspeakersandmakeanoteofthephrasesthatyouhearthemuse.

DialoguesThedialogueineachchaptershowsyouhownativeEnglishspeakersmightusetheparticularphrasesinatypicalconversation.IfyouarelearningEnglishinaclassroomsituation,youcanactoutthedialogueasaskitoruseitasamodelforaconversationrole-play.

TopicsforPracticeAttheendofeachchapteryouwillfindalistoftopicstostimulateconversation.Practicewithafriendorclassmate.Themorepeopleyouincludeintheconversation,themerrier.

VocabularyNotesThereareblanklinedpagesattheendofeachchapterforyoutorecordnewvocabulary.MakeapointofwritingdowntheEnglishdefinition.Asyouwillnotice,somewordsandphrasescannotbeeasilytranslatedintoyournative

Page 18: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

language.Remember:ItwillbemucheasiertoconverseinEnglishifyoulearntothinkandexplainyourselfinEnglish.

AFinalNoteIntheend,thebestandonlywaytodevelopyourconversationanddiscussionskillsistotalk.IsincerelyhopethatPerfectPhrasesforESL:ConversationSkillswillaccompanyandguideyouontheroadtosuccessfulcommunication!

Goforit!

Page 19: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

PART1PhrasesforConversation

“Conversationisthelaboratoryandworkshopofthestudent.”

—RalphWaldoEmerson

Page 20: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

CHAPTER

SmallTalk

Objectivestointroduceyourself

tocarryonabasicconversationaboutyourselfandothers

ChanwoniswaitingforhisconnectingflighttoSeattle.He’scometotheUnitedStatesforayeartostudyEnglishbeforehereturnstoKoreatofinishhisdegreeinelectronicengineering.Hehasbeenonshortholidaysabroadwithhisfamily,butthisisthefirsttimethathewillbelivinginanEnglish-speakingenvironmentwithanEnglish-speakingfamily.Ofcoursehe’snervousabouthisabilitytocommunicateinalanguagehehasonlystudiedinschool.He’dliketotalktosomeonewhilehe’swaitingforhisplane,buthe’snotsurehowtobeginorwhattosay.Whatifheusesthewrongword,ornooneunderstandshim?Andwhatifsomeoneaskshimaquestionhedoesn’tknowhowtoanswer?Ifonlyhehadmorevocabulary!Ifonlyhecouldspeakasnaturallyaseveryonearoundhim!

Page 21: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

YoucouldbelikeChanwonwaitingforyourflightattheairportwithalongtrip

aheadofyou.Youcouldbehavingacoffeeinacaféoramealinarestaurant,standingsomewhereinaline,socializingataparty,orinteractingwithpeopleyou’veonlyjustmet.Situationsinwhich

peoplestrikeupaconversationoutofcuriosityormutualinterest,orjusttobesociable,presentthemselveswhenyouaretravelinginaforeigncountry.

Whetheryou’remeetingsomeoneforthefirsttimeorconnectingwithanoldfriendoracquaintance,mostconversationsstartoutonapersonalnote.Atfirstyou’remostlikelytotalkabout:

whereyouliveorcomefrom;

whatyoudoforaliving;

whatbringsyoutoaparticularlocation.

Iftheconversationcontinues,you’llusuallymoveontoeverydaysubjectswithwhichyou’refamiliarsuchas:

personalinterestsandhobbies;

theweather;

yourenvironment(theairport,restaurant,hotel,park,beach,etc.);

yourlocation(city,country,school,orworkplace);

currenthappeningssuchassportsandculturaleventsorthenews.

AlthoughEnglish-speakingpeopletendtoengageeasilyinconversationswithstrangers,therearecertaintopicsthatmaybeconsideredtoointimate.Topicsthatshouldbeavoidedare:

maritalstatus,

age,

income,

religion,

politics.

Page 22: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Phrases

Openers:ExcuseMe…Mostoftenaconversationbeginswithasimplequestion,arequestforinformation,oracommentabouttheweatherorsurroundings.Dependingonthepersonyou’retalkingtoandthesituationyou’rein—isthesituationformalorcasual,isthepersonclosetoyourage—therearetwoapproachesyoucantake.

Theindirectapproachisapoliteandunobtrusivewaytotestthewatersincasetheotherpersonisn’tinterestedintalkingatlength:

May/couldIborrowyournewspaper/magazine/thesaltandpepper?

CouldyoutellmeifthisiswheretheplaneleavesforHouston?

Wouldyouhappentoknowagoodrestaurant/anicehotel?

Iwaswonderingifyou’refromaroundhere.ThisismyfirstvisittoLondon.

Sorrytobotheryou,butisthisseattaken/isanyonesittinghere?

Wouldyoumindtellingmewhereyougotthatbook?

CouldItrouble/botheryouforchange?Idon’tseemtohaveanyquarters.

Youwouldn’thappentoknowifthere’sacafé/abank/agrocerystorenearhere?

Thedirectapproachtakestheinitiativeinafriendly,openmanner:

Excuseme,doyouhavethetime?

Thisisagreathotel,isn’tit?

Ican’tbelievehowbusytheairportistoday.

Niceday,isn’tit/eh?

So,whatbringsyouhere?

Doyoucomehereoften?

Areyoufromhere?

Page 23: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

TalkingAboutYourselfAconversationwithastrangerisagoodopportunitynotonlytopassthetimebutalsotopracticeyourEnglish.Ifthepersontowhomyouarespeakingisinthemoodtocontinuetheconversation,mostlikelyheorshewillbeinterestedinfindingoutmoreaboutyou.

Nationality I’mKorean/Japanese/German/Mexican.

Residence I’mfromSeoul/Kyoto/Hamburg/Guadalajara.

IcomefromKorea/Japan/Germany/Mexico.

Age* I’mtwenty-five/thirty-two/inmyforties.

Maritalstatus** I’msingle/married/divorced/widowed.

Job I’manengineer/ateacher/astudent/asystemsanalyst.

I’minadvertising/inelectronics/ininsurance.

I’mself-employed/retired.

I’mwithMcGraw-Hill/AT&T/Siemens.Hobbiesandinterests I’minterestedinsports/fashion/traveling/art.

I’mintoaerobics/gourmetcooking/pottery.

ShowingInterestItisimportantandpolite,ofcourse,toshowinterestinwhatyourconversationpartnertellsyou;otherwisewhat’sthepointoftalkingtosomeone?Whileitiscourteoustorespondtothepersonyouhavejustmet,itisevenmoreimportanttobesincereandtoreplyinacomfortable,naturalmanner.

Page 24: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

IntroducingYourselfIfyouandthepersonyou’vebeentalkingtohititoff,youmightwanttointroduceyourself.Herearesometipswhenmakingintroductions:

InEnglish-speakingcultures,itisusualforpeopletointroducethemselveswiththeirfirstnamesratherthantheirfamilyorsurnames.ItisveryrarethatAmericansorCanadianswillintroducethemselvesasMr.orMrs.Brown.Iftheygiveboththeirfirstandlastname,forexample“I’mJudySmith”,theywillusuallyexpectyoutocallthembytheirfirstname.AlsointheEnglishlanguagethereisnodistinctionbetweenformalandfamiliaraddress,asisthecaseinmanyotherlanguages.“You”is“you”regardlessofage,socialstatus,orfamiliarity.Becarefulnottoconfuse“howareyou”and“howdoyoudo.”Howareyou

isaquestionandrequiresananswer:I’mfine,thanksorNottoobad(seeAskingaboutSomeone’sWell-Being,page22-23).Howdoyoudolookslikeaquestionbutisreallyagreeting,anditisacceptabletorespondwithHowdoyoudo,oroneofthephrasesthatfollow.Ifyouwanttoknowaboutsomeone’shealth,it’sbettertoask,Howareyoufeeling?orHowareyou?Traditionallypeopleshakehandswhentheymakeintroductions,particularly

inbusinessorformalsituations.Menalmostalwaysshakehands,whereaswomenmayormaynot.Whenmeetingawomanforthefirsttime,waitforhertoofferherhand.

Page 25: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Inmorecasualandinformalsituationsshakinghandsisnotalwaysthecustom.Youngpeoplewillusegestures,suchaswavingtheirhand,toacknowledgetheperson.Ifyouarenotsurewhattodoinaparticularsituation,doasothersdo.Weusetheverbtomeetwhenwewanttosaythatwemakeaperson’s

acquaintance.Ifsomeoneasksyou:Howdidyoumeetyourhusbandorwife,theymeanhowwereyoufirstintroduced,notwhendidyouseehimorherlast.

Example:A:Howdidyoumeetyourhusband?B:Actuallyhewasafriendofmybrother ’sfromhiscollegedays,andatfirstIdidn’tevenlikehim.

Responses

BreakingtheIceTalkingtosomeoneyou’vejustmetcanbeawkward,especiallyifyou’renotsurewhattosayorask.Walkingawayorcuttingtheconversationshortcanappearrudeandunfriendly.Sowhatcanyoutalkabouttobreaktheice?

Ifyoufeeluncomfortableaboutaskingdirectquestions,“yesorno”questionsshowthatyou’reinterestedintheotherpersonandallowtheotherpersontoelaborateiftheywishto.NativeEnglishspeakersareoftenmoredirectandwillalmostalwaysaskstrangerswherethey’refromandwhattheydoforaliving.

Page 26: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

QuestionstoAskifthePersonIsNewtotheCity

IsthisyourfirsttimetoNewYork?

HaveyoubeentoVictoriabefore?

Areyounewtothecompany?

Areyoufamiliarwiththisarea?

Howlonghaveyoubeenhere?

QuestionstoAskWhythePerson’sHere

Areyouhereonbusiness/aholiday?

DidyoucomeheretostudyEnglish/totravelaround?

Doyouplantostayherelong?

Whichschool/universityareyoustudyingat?

Howlongareyoustaying/visiting?

QuestionsAboutthePerson’sExperiencesSoFar

Haveyouseenmuchofthecity/country?

Sohowdoyoulikeitheresofar?

Howwasyourflight/trip/firstlesson?

Theweather ’sbeengreat/nice/verycold,hasn’tit?

Areyouusedto/haveyougottenusedtothefoodyet?

QuestionsAboutthePerson’sPersonalInformation

Whereareyoufrom?

Wheredoyoucallhome?

WhatpartofBrazil/RiodeJaneirodoyoulivein?

Areyoutravelingaloneorwithfamily/friends?

Page 27: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Doyoulikemusic/theater/sports/skiing/swimming?

Whatdoyoudoforaliving?

Whatkindofbusinessareyouin?

Ifyou’rethepersonbeingintroduced,you’llwanttoshowinterestintheotherpersonaswell.Ifyouranswertoaquestionisnegative,it’sagoodideatorespondwithaquestionsoasnottocutofftheotherpersonorforcehimorhertocarrytheconversation.

Haveyoubeenherelong?No,I’vejustarrived.Andyou?

Haveyoubeentothemuseum?No,notyet.Haveyou?

Areyoustayingverylong?No,onlyafewdays.Howlongareyouherefor?

Soasnottosoundlikeaparrot,youcanrespondtoaquestionbyaskingthesamethinginanotherway:

Whereareyoufrom?FromOsaka.Andwheredoyoucallhome?

Areyouhereonbusiness?Yes,Iam.What/howaboutyou?

Howlongareyoustayinghere?Twoweeks.Areyouhereverylong?

Whatdoyoudoforaliving?I’manarchitect.Andwheredoyouwork?

Otheracceptabletopicsforsmalltalkaretheweather,localsightsandattractions,theeventyouareattending,andtheservicesorfacilitiesinthehotelwhereyou’restaying.

StayinginTouch

It’sbeengreatseeingyou/talkingtoyou.

We’llhavetostayintouch.

Weshouldgettogetheragain/sometime/soon.

Lookmeupnexttimeyou’reintown.

Page 28: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Don’tforgettogivemeacall/sendmeane-mail.

Dropinsometime.

Responses

Givemeacall/aring/abuzz.

That’sadeal.

I’lldothat.

I’llsuretry.

Youcancountonit!

Forsure.

Youbet!

SayingGood-Bye

Page 29: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Responses

WishingSomeoneWell

Page 30: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Haveaniceday/apleasantevening/asafetrip/anenjoyableflightback.

Enjoyyourflight/stay/tour.

Goodlucktoyou!

Allthebest.

Takecarenow.

Takeiteasy.

Responses

Youhaveaniceday,too.

Iwishyouthesame.

Sametoyou.

Likewise.

You,too.

Dialogue:SmallWorldThisdialoguetakesplaceatanairportcafé.Underlineorhighlightthephrasesfromthechapter.

Jenny:Excuseme.Doyouhavethetime?Brett:Uh,sure.Letmetakealook.It’stento.Jenny:Thanks.I’msorrytobotheryou,butmywatchseemstohavestopped.Brett:Noproblem.Jenny:I’malwaysalittlenervousaboutthetimewhenIhavetoflysomewhere.Brett:Iunderstand.Youwouldn’twanttomissyourflight.Jenny:No,that‘sforsure.I’mflyingtoLasVegastoseeafriendandI’mreallyexcited.Brett:Yeah,Vegasisquitetheplace.Jenny:Haveyoubeentherebefore?

Page 31: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Brett:Actually,Ilivethere.Jenny:You’rekidding!Haveyoulivedtherelong?Brett:Aboutfiveandahalfyearsnow.Jenny:Wow,thenyoumustknowthecityprettywell.Brett:Well,I’mawayonbusinessalot,butIgetaround.Jenny:I’mkindoftheopposite.Brett:Andwheredoyoucallhome?Jenny:IworkinVancouver,butI’moriginallyfromSaltSpringIsland.Ibetyou’veneverheardofit.Brett:Asamatteroffact,Iwasthereonasailingtriplastsummer.Jenny:Really?That’sinteresting.Brett:It’sabeautifulplace.Jenny:Oneofthebest.Wow,thisisasmallworld!Brett:SohowlongareyoustayinginVegas?Jenny:Justaweek.Unfortunately,that’sallthetimeIcouldgetofffromwork.Brett:Look,here’smycardwithmycellphonenumberande-mail.Bytheway,myname’sBrett.Jenny:I’mJenny.Brett:Nicetomeetyou,Jenny.Jenny:Nicetomeetyou,too.Brett:I’llbebackinthreedays.Maybewecangettogetherforanightout.Jenny:That’sadeal.Hey,I’dbettergetgoing.Brett:Yeah,youdon’twanttomissthatplane.Jenny:Itwasgreattalkingtoyou,Brett.Brett:Samehere.Jenny:Andthanksforyourcard.Brett:Mypleasure.Haveagoodflight,anddon’tgambleawayyourmoney.Jenny:Iwon’t.Bye-bye.Brett:Seeya!

Page 32: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

TopicsforPracticeWhatcanyousayabout:

1.yourjoborstudies;

2.yourfamily;

3.thecity/townorcountryyoucomefrom;

4.thecity/townorcountryyou’revisiting;

5.theflightorjourneyyou’vebeenon;

6.thereasonyou’reatyourlocation(hotel,airport,restaurant,city,school);

7.theweatherorclimate;

8.somethingyou’veseenordoneonyourtrip;

9.arecentsports,social,orculturalevent;

10.averydifferentcustomorhabitthatyou’venoticed?

VocabularyNotes

Page 33: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

* InEnglish-speakingcountriesitisnotcommontotalkaboutyourageortoaskacompletestrangerhisorherage.Infact,itcanbeconsideredrude,particularlyifthepersonismucholderormuchyoungerthanyouare.** Again,maritalstatuscanbeconsideredpersonalinformation,andapersonmaytakeoffenseifaskedifheorsheismarriedornot.Somepeoplemaynotwishtomentioniftheyaredivorcedorwidowed.

Page 34: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

CHAPTER

PastExperiences

Objectivestointroducefamilymembers,friends,andacquaintances

totalkandinquireaboutpastexperiencesandevents

Juttaisshowingherhusband,Franz,aroundthecityofVictoria,BritishColumbia,whiletheyarevisitingonaholiday.ThreeyearsagowhenshewasofferedanexcitingnewjobasaneditorialassistantwithapublisheroftradejournalsinNuremberg,Germany,JuttaattendedanintermediateEnglishcourseatalanguageschoolinVictoriatobrushuponherhighschoolEnglish.Duringherthree-monthstudiesshemetmanyforeignstudentsandmadefriendsfromJapan,Korea,andMexico.AlthoughJuttahaslosttouchwithYuko,Ryeowon,andPatricia,sheoften

wonderswhathappenedtothem,andhowtheirliveshavechanged.WhileJuttaandFranzarevisitingtheButchartGardens,shespotsagroupofKoreantourists.TheirguidelookssomuchlikeRyeowon,butthatwouldbetoomuchofacoincidence!Thegroupmovescloser,andJuttacallsRyeowon’sname.Theyoungwomanturnsaroundwithalookofsurpriseonherface.

Page 35: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Ifyouhavetraveledorstudiedabroad,chancesarethatwhenyouleastexpectityouwillrunintosomeone—aformerclassmateorcolleague,ateacher,orafriendofafriend—onaholiday,ataconference,ata

wedding,orevenonthestreet.Timehaspassed,and,ofcourse,youhavealottocatchupon.Therearesomanyexperiencesyouhavetoshare,somanystoriesyou’dliketotell,andsomanyquestionsyou’reanxioustoask.

Phrases

Openers:GreetingsWhenyouhaven’tseensomeoneforalongtime,it’scustomarytobegintheconversationbyaskingabouttheotherperson’swell-beingandbycommentingpositivelyonchangesthatyoumaynotice.

AddressingSomeoneWhoseNameYouCan’tRemember

Idon’tmeantobeforward,butdon’tIknowyoufromsomewhere?

Coulditbethatwe’vemetbefore?

Youremindmeofsomeone.Youwouldn’thappentobeMargarete?

Page 36: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Don’tIknowyoufromlastyear ’sbookfairinFrankfurt?

Haven’twemetbefore?

Youlookfamiliar.

AskingAboutSomeone’sWell-Being

Howareyou?

Howarethings?

Howhaveyoubeen?

How’sit/everythinggoing?

So,how’slifebeentreatingyou?

How’veyoubeengettingalong/makingout?

Responses

Justfine.Andyou?

Great.Andyourself?

Couldn’tbebetter.Howaboutyou?

Prettygood.

Can’tcomplain.

Nottoobad.

GeneralComments

It’sgood/great/toseeyouagain/torunintoyoulikethis.

You’relookinggreat/good/well.

Youhaven’tchangedmuch/atall.

You’vehardlychanged.

It’sbeenages/solong/suchalongtime.

Page 37: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Ican’tbelieveit’syou.

Isthatreallyyou?

Smallworld,isn’tit?

MakingIntroductionsWhetheryou’retravelingonbusinessorforpleasure,youaremostlikelyinthecompanyofanotherperson.Whenyouintroducefriendsandfamily,youshouldchoosefamiliarlanguage(seeChapter1),andintroducethepersonwithhisorherfirstname.

Whenintroducingathirdperson,itisagoodideatogivesomeinformationabouttheperson:

howthepersonisrelatedtoyou:husband/wife,fiancée/fiancé,son/daughter,niece/nephew,etc.

wherethefriendoracquaintanceisfromandwhat’shisorherjob

Responses

Page 38: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

CatchingUpOnceyou’vegottenreacquainted,youwillwanttofindoutaboutfriendsandacquaintancesthatyouhaveincommonandreminisceabout“thegoodoldtimes.”

AskingAboutRecentEvents

Whathaveyoubeendoingwithyourselfallthistime?

Where’veyoubeenhiding/keepingyourself?

What’scooking/up/new/thescoop?

Whathaveyoubeenupto?

So,what’sthestory?

Anythingnew?

AskingAboutFriendsandAcquaintances

Iwonderwhateverhappenedto/becameofGuido.

HaveyouheardanythingfromTomoko?

HaveyouseenMaria-Teresalately?

Doyouknowanythingaboutourteacher?

DidyouknowthatAndregotmarried/promoted?

TalkingAboutFriendsandAcquaintances

ThelastIheard,Guidohadchangedjobs.

It’shardtokeepupwithAnastasia.She’salwaysonthego.

Ihaven’theardfromherforages.

Weusedtoe-mail,butlatelyweseemtohavelosttouch.

That’sgreatnews.I’mreallyglad/happyforhim.

Page 39: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

SharedExperiences

Rememberwhenweheldamockelectioninourafternoonclass?

Didn’twehavefun/agoodtimeonthatcampingtrip?

Wasn’tthefoodinthecafeteriadelicious/awful?

Don’tyoumissthebeach/scenery/goingouttothedisco?

Thosewerethegoodolddays/goodoldtimes!

PastExperiencesReconnectingwitholdfriendsoracquaintancesisanopportunitytoexchangestoriesaboutyourexperiences.Timehaspassedsinceyoulastsaweachother,andyouareinterestedinfindingoutwhathashappenedinthemeantime.

AskingAboutPastExperiences

Whathaveyoubeendoingwithyourselfallthistime?

Haveyoubeenuptoanythingexciting/interesting?

WhathappenedafteryouwentbacktoJapan?

I’mdying/anxioustohearaboutyournewjob/whatyou’vebeendoing.

So,whathaveyoubeenupto?

So,fillmein.

IntroducinganExperience

You’llneverguesswhathappenedtomeinPhoenix.

Themostinterestingthinghappenedtometheotherday.

LetmetellyouaboutwhathappenedwhileIwasinToronto.

Know/guesswhathappened?

Guesswhat?

Page 40: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

TransitionsandConnectorsEveryonehasastorytotell.Whetherit’sajokeorshortanecdote;alengthyaccountofanadventure,game,orevent;areportofanaccidentormishap;orthesummaryofanintriguingconversation,theseaccountsmakeupalargepartofyourdailyconversations.Totellagoodstoryyoudon’thavetobeaprofessionalentertainer;youjustneedtoconnectyourthoughtsandtoaddalittledramaattherightmoment.

AskingAboutExperiences

Whathappenedonyourvacation/trip/whenyouwenttoFrance?

HowdidyoumakeoutwhileyouwereinLondon?

SohowdidyourvisittoNewYorkgo/turnout/workout?

WhateverbecameofyourplanstotakepartintheTourdeFrance?

WhatdidyouexperienceonyourcruisetoAlaska?

Didanythinginteresting/unusual/excitinghappentoyouonyourholiday?

I’vealwayswondered/wantedtoaskyouaboutyouryearinCalifornia.

We’dlovetohearthelatestnews.

Beginnings

Onemorning/afternoon/dayonourholidayinFrancewedecidedtogoforashortwalkinthecountryside.

Tostart/tobeginwith/firstoff/itallstartedwhenwehadbreakfastandgotreadyforourwalk.

Sequence

Next/thenextthing,wefollowedasetofredandwhitetrailmarkersfromourhoteltotheLotriver.

Page 41: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Alongthewaywesawasignpointingtoahistoricalvillageonahilloverlookingtheriver.

Then/sothenweclimbedupandspentsometimecheckingoutthevillage.

Inthemeantimeithadstartedtorain,sowewentintosomeshops.

Whilewewerelookingaround,therainstoppedandwecontinuedonourwalk.

Onthewaywepassedthroughanothersmallvillage.

Wekeptonwalkingbutafterawhilewenoticedthattherewerenomoreredandwhitetrailmarkers.

Afewmiles/kilometerslaterweaskedfordirectionsatafarmhouse,butthewomansaidshedidn’tknowofanytrailleadingbacktoourhotel.

Afterthat/afterwardwedecidedtoturnaroundandgobacktothevillage.

AddingDramaandInformation

Allofasudden/suddenlyitstartedtorainagain,onlythistimeitstartedrainingcatsanddogs.

Bythetimewegottothevillagewewerewet,hungry,andtired.

Totopitoff/tomakemattersworse,whenwegottothevillagecafé,theyhadfinishedservinglunch,andallwecouldhavewasacupofcoffee.

Unfortunatelythatdaywasanationalholiday,andtherewasnobusservice.

Infact/asamatteroffacttherewasnotaxiinthearea,either.

Luckily/fortunately/asluckwouldhaveit,therainsoonstoppedandwecontinuedon.

Luckyforuswecametoasignpointingtothevillagewhereourhotelwaslocated.

However,itwassevenkilometersawayandbeforeweknewit,itwasalreadylateafternoon.

Page 42: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Frankly/actually/truthfully/totellyouthetruthwethoughtwewerenevergoingtofindourwaybackbeforedark.

Asitturnedoutwecametotheriverwhereatlastwesawtheredandwhitetrailmarkers.

Concluding

Finallywemadeourwayalongthemuddyriverbank.

Intheendwegotbacktoourhoteljustbeforedarkandintimefordinner.

Tomakealongstoryshort/longstoryshortwecleanedup,haddinner,andwenttobed!

Themoral/lessonofthestoryiswhenyougoonawalkinaforeigncountry,neverleaveyourhotelwithoutamap.

Itjustgoestoshowyouthatyoushouldneverleaveyourhotelwithoutamap.

DiscourseMarkersBecausepeoplethinkontheirfeetwhentheyholdaconversation,theyuse“littlewords”calleddiscoursemarkerstofillinthegapswhentheyaresearchingforwords.Discoursemarkersdonotchangethemeaningofthesentence.Infacttheyhavenoliteralmeaningandcanbecomeabadhabit,asinthecaseof“like”or“youknow,”whenthespeakerusesthemtoooften.CommondiscoursemarkersinEnglishincludethefollowing.

Starters

Asyouknow/yousee/see

Now/then/okay/allright

Imean/well/so/oh

Say/why

Page 43: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Examples:Well,I’dlovetohearaboutyourtrip.Now,whathaveyoubeenupto?So,afterwegottotheairport,wehadtowaitfivehours.

Fillers

Uh/er/em

Like/youknow

Examples:Westayedatthisgreathotel,youknow,rightonthebeach.Itwas,like,thebestplaceweeverstayed.

QuestionTailsandTags

Whereasmanylanguageshavefixedquestiontags,suchasn’est-cepasinFrench,verdadinSpanish,andnichtwahrorgellinGerman,forinstance,Englishusesthesamehelpingverbsthatformaquestion,andeachquestiontagdependsontheverbtense.Commonexamplesare:It’saniceday,isn’tit?orYouhaven’tmetmyfiancée,haveyou?Forhelpwithquestiontags,youcanconsultagoodgrammarbook.

KnowwhatImean?

Don’tyouthink?

Ornot?

Right?

Eh?*

Examples:

Page 44: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Travelingisoneofthebestwaystogainexperience,don’tyouthink?

Terrificgame,eh?

EnjoymentandPleasure

ExpressingEmotionsEmotionscanbedifficulttoexpress,particularlyinalanguagethatisnotyournativetongue.Tosayhowyoufeelandtomakesurethatothersunderstandyourfeelings,youwillneedtousespecificphrasesandidiomaticexpressions.

AstonishmentandSurprise

That’sincredible/fantastic/amazing/farout/unreal/awesome.

That’shard/difficulttoimagine.

Idon’tbelievethatforaminute!

You’vegottabekidding/joking!

Page 45: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

You’reputtingmeon/pullingmyleg.

Whatacoincidence!

Noway!

Belief

Ibelieveyou/it.

Icanimagine.

That’strue/forsure.

Isn’tthatthetruth!

Ibet!

EndingtheConversationWe’llhavetogettogether/dothisagainsometimesoon.

Itwasgreattoseeyouagain.

I’msogladweranintoeachother.

Ireallyenjoyedseeingyouagain.

Let’skeepintouch/gettogetheragain.

Takecare/takeiteasy.

Catchyoulater/anothertime.

TimeExpressions

WhenreferringtothetimeinEnglish-speakingcountries,nativeEnglishspeakersgenerallydifferentiatebetweennightanddaybyusinga.m.andp.m.Forexample,breakfasttimeisat7:00a.m.anddinnertimeisat7:00p.m.(ratherthanat19:00).Itisalsocommontosayseveninthe

Page 46: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

morningoreveninginordertoclarifythetimeofday.Ratherthantentotwelveoraquarteraftertwelve,nativeEnglishspeakersshortenittotentoorquarterafter.

Time: at5:00

Day: onMonday/Friday

Month: inJune

Year: in2005

Date: onthe2ndofMarch/Marchthe2nd

Deadline: by7:30/tomorrow/Saturday/theendofthemonth

Other: inthemorning/afternoon/evening

atnight/thebeginning/theend

ontheweekend

from9:00to/until12:00

since8:00/Friday/January/1995/lastweek/Igothere

fortwohours/threedays/sixmonths/tenyears/alongtime/manyyears

duringlunch/theflight/myholiday/theweek

Dialogue:LongTimeNoSeeThisdialoguetakesplaceatagolfclub.Underlineorhighlightthephrasesfromthechapter.

Susan:Mark,Idon’tbelieveit.There’ssomeoneIknowoverthere.Linda!Linda:Oh,mygosh.Susan.SusanMacrae,isthatyou?Susan:SusanEdisonnow,butyeah,it’sme.

Page 47: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Linda:Noway!Nicetoseeyou,Susan.Like,it’sbeenages!Susan:Iknow.Gee,youhaven’tchangedabit.Linda:Idon’tknowaboutthat.Whathaveyoubeendoingallthistime?Susan:Oh,theusual.Youknow,life,work,family.Andyourself?Linda:Well,that’salongstory.Susan:I’dlovetohearit,butfirstletmeintroducemyhusband.Mark,meetLindaFranzen.Oratleastitwas.Linda:Stillis.Hi,Mark.Nicetomeetyou.Mark:Howdoyoudo,Linda.Susan:LindaandIlivedinthesamedormatcollege.Mark:SothisistheLinda…?Linda:Ihopeyouhaven’ttoldanystories.Susan:Nothingthatisn’ttrue.Linda:NowI’mreallyintrouble!Anyway,howcomeIhaven’tseenyoutwoherebefore?Mark:Well,weonlyjoinedthegolfclubthissummer.Susan:MarkgottransferredtoPortlandlastsummer,andsincethenwe’vebeenbusygettingsettledintoournewhouseandthentherearethekidsandalltheiractivities.Linda:Youalwayswereago-getter,Susan.Areyoustillintoacting?Mark:Acting?IstheresomethingIshouldknow?Susan:Oh,itwasjustamateurstuff.Butthatwasn’tallwedidforkicks,wasit?Linda:Don’tremindme.Susan:Thegoodoldcollegedays,huh?Butdidn’tyougotoEuropeforawhile?Linda:Yeah,ItraveledaroundandthenIendeduplivinginItalyfortenyears.Susan:Wow!WhatwereyoudoinginItaly?Linda:Well,firstIhadaballjusttouringaroundandthenIgotajobteachingEnglish.That’showImetGiorgio.You’llhavetomeethim.Look,let’sgettogetherfordinner.Susan:We’dloveto.Theremustbeamillionthingstocatchupon.LikewhateverhappenedtoBrenda.

Page 48: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Linda:You’llneverguess,butsheendedupinNewZealand.Susan:Whatdoyouknow!Weusedtohaveariottogether!Linda:Didn’twe!Anyway,sorryIhavetorun,butgivemearing.I’minthebook.Susan:Soarewe.EdisononCormorantDrive.Linda:Gotit!Well,itwasgreatmeetingyou,Mark.Mark:Samehere.Linda:Susanalwayshadgoodtaste.Hopetoseeyousoon.Susan:Youcancountonit!

TopicsforPracticeTellastoryabout:

1.yourlastholiday;

2.yourlastbusinesstrip;

3.oneofthehappiestmomentsinyourlife;

4.theluckiestorfunniestthingthat’severhappenedtoyou;

5.anunforgettabletravelexperience;

6.anaccomplishmentatworkorschool;

7.thehistoryofyourcompany/townorcity;

8.adisasteroraccidentthatyouhaveexperienced;

9.howyoumetyourbestfriend/wife/husband/girlfriend/boyfriend;

10.howyougotyourjob.

VocabularyNotes

Page 49: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

* EhisconsideredatypicallyCanadianquestiontail,butitisalsousedinGreatBritainandformerBritishcolonies,althoughthepronunciationwillvaryslightly.

Page 50: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

CHAPTER

Likes,Dislikes,andInterests

Objectivestoexpresslikes,dislikes,andpreferences

totalkandaskabouthobbies,interests,andleisuretimeactivities

MihoandLanxinaretwoofthemanyinternationalstudentswhoattendhighschoolinNorthAmericaeveryyear.NotonlywilltheyhavetogetusedtoanewschoolsystemandEnglish-onlyinstruction,buttheywillfindthemselvesinanewculturalenvironmentwithouttheirfamiliesandthefriendstheyhavegrownupwith.AlthoughbothgirlsknowthatgoingtohighschoolintheUnitedStatesorCanadaisagreatopportunity,theyareunsureofhowwelltheywillfitinandhoweasilytheywillbeabletomakefriends.Whatwilltheyhaveincommonwiththeirclassmates?Howsimilarwilltheirinterestsbe?Willtheybeincludedintheactivities,sports,andgamesthatinterestAmericanandCanadianteenagers?Andwhatiftheirclassmatesaskthemquestionstheydon’tknowhowtoanswer?

Page 51: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Commonlikesandinterestsarethebasisonwhichyoumakefriendsand

developlastingrelationships.Theyarealsothesubjectsyouprobablytalkaboutthemostfrequently.

Phrases

Openers:FeelingThingsOutDoyouhaveanyhobbies?

Areyouinterestedinsports/music/computers?

Doyouhaveafavoritekindoffood/music/sport?

Howdoyouspendyourspare/free/leisuretime?

Whatdoyoudo/liketodoinyourspare/free/leisuretime?

LikesIlikevs.I’dlike

Ilikeicecreammeansthaticecreamgivesmepleasureorenjoyment;inotherwords,ittastesgoodtome.

I’dlike(wouldlike)icecreammeansthatIdon’thaveanyicecreamatthemoment,butIwishIhadsome.

Examples:I’dlikeabigbowloficecreamrightnow,wouldn’tyou?I’dreallyliketoseetheGrandCanyonsomeday.

Also,weuseI’dliketorequestorordersomething,ortooffersomethingtosomeone.

Examples:I’dlikeacoffeetogo,please.

Page 52: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

I’dliketwoticketstothe8:00show.Wouldyoulikeasodaoraglassofjuice?

Verbs

Nouns

Verbs/AdjectiveswithPrepositions

ImpersonalSubjects

Page 53: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

FeelingsforPeople

SlangExpressions

I’mreally/heavilyintomodernart/painting.

Sun-Woogetsoffonfootball/playingtennis.

Claudiareallydigsyournewoutfit/JohnMayer.

ThisCDreallyturnsmeon.

Hikingisrightupmyalley.

Thatleatherjacketishot/sohot/totallyhot.

Page 54: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Alfonso’sareallycool/neatguy.

Rejoinders

Ilikepizza.SodoI/Ido,too.

Satoko’scrazyaboutsushi.Me,too.

Katecouldn’tlivewithoutherdishwasher.Samehere.

Andreareallygetsoffonreggae.Samegoesforme.

Thismusic’shot.Youbet!

DislikesThesimplestwaytoexpressadislikeistomakeapositiveintoanegative.Manyofthepreviousexpressionscanbemadeintocleardislikes.

Examples:Ilikedancing,butIdon’tlikesquaredancing.

You’refondofcomedies,butyou’renotfondofromanticcomedies.

Sascha’sreallyintojazz,buthissisterisn’tintomusicatall.

Choosingtherightphrasetoexpressyourlikesanddislikesisalwaysanindividualmatter.Itisalsoamatterofhowdeeplyorstronglywelikeordislikesomethingorsomeone.

Verbs

Page 55: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Adjectives+Prepositions

ImpersonalSubject

Page 56: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

FeelingsforPeople

Slang

Page 57: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Rejoinders

AsyoucanseefromChapter1andthepreviousexamples,youcanagreewithapositivestatementbyadding“too”;forexample:Ido,too,orMe,too.Whenyouagreewithanegativestatement,useeitherorneitherinstead.Asimpleruletorememberis:

toofortwoormorepositives;

Examples:Ireallyloveanespressoafterameal.Ido,too.Wegetoffonjazz.Me,too.

eitherorneitherfortwoormorenegatives.

Examples:Ican’tstandthisrain.Ican’t,either.Idon’tcaremuchforjunkfood.NeitherdoI/Idon’t,either.

AskingAboutLikesandDislikes

Page 58: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

How/howmuchdoyoulikerapmusic/mynewcamera/playingvideogames?

What’syourfavoritecolor/music/game?

Whatkindofsports/movies/fooddoyouprefer/favor?

What/whichfashions/TVshowsareyouinto?

Whatdoyouthinkoftennis/theweather/Beyoncé’snewsong?

Preferences

Page 59: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Interests

PersonalSubject

I’minterestedintennis/videogames/painting/cooking.

Chiafindsyoga/travelingfascinating/interesting/stimulating.

Norbert’sinvolvedinlocalpolitics/recycling/helpingkidswithcancer.

Lourdeshelpsout/volunteersatthelibrary/attheSPCA/atthehospital.

Tomo’samemberofaconversationclub/theRedCross/theYMCA.

Yi-Tingbelongstoabookclub/AmnestyInternational/Greenpeace.

ImpersonalSubject

Tennis/painting/cookinginterestsme.

Documentarymoviesareofgreatinteresttome.

Modernartintrigues/fascinatesme.

CommonInterests

Wehavealotincommon.

Wesharethesameinterests.

We’rebothinterestedinthesamethings.

EuropeansandAmericanssharecommongroundintheirvalues.

DesiresandDependencySometimesyourfeelingstowardsomethingorsomeonegobeyondsimplelikesorpreferencestobecomedesiresanddependencies.Althoughinsomecasesyoumaybeexpressingyourtruefeelings,inothersyoumayexaggerate

Page 60: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

forthesakeofeffect.

Desires

Dependency

Page 61: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

IndifferenceWekindof/sortoflikethispainting.

Idon’tmindournewoffice.

Theperformancewasratherinteresting.

Themoviewasnotbad/so-so.

Theweatherdoesn’tmattertome.

Itmakesnodifferencetomeifwegooutorstayhome.

It’sallthesametomeifitsnowsorrains.

Icantakeitorleaveit.

It’ssixofoneandhalfadozenoftheother.

MakingOffersChoiceofwordsandtoneappliestosituationsinwhichyouoffersomethingtosomeone.Whenyouaredealingwithstrangersorcustomers,wouldlikeismorepolitethanwant.

Ifyouwanttorefuseanofferfromsomeone,asimpleanswerisalwaysbest.Itisnotnecessarytoexplainyourselfortogiveadetailedreasonthatmaysoundinsincereoroffendthepersonwhoismakingtheoffer.

Offers

Page 62: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

PositiveResponses

Wouldyoulikeacupofcoffee?

NegativeResponses

CanIgetyousomethingtodrink?

Page 63: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

DatesandInvitationsWhenyoumeetsomeoneyoulikeandgetalongwith,it’sonlynaturaltowanttoseehimorheragain.Youcaninvitesomeonetoyourhomefordinner,toaclubforagameofgolf,ortoattendasocialoccasionsuchasawedding,birthdayparty,orcelebration.

Adate,ontheotherhand,isusuallyanarrangementbetweentwopeoplewhohavearomanticinterestineachother,althoughitisalsocommonforfriendstomakealunchortheaterdate,forexample.Traditionallyithasalwaysbeenthemanwhoasksthewomanforadateandwhopaysthecheck,butitisnowacceptable,thoughnotusual,forawomantoaskamanoutorforthemtosplitthecost.

Dates

Page 64: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Invitations

PositiveResponses

Page 65: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

NegativeResponses

AnotherTime

Offeringtopay

Letmegetthat.

Page 66: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Lunchisonme.

Mytreat.

It’sonthehouse.*

ExpressingEmotions

Excitement

I’mlookingforwardtothereunion/seeingmyclassmates.

Ican’twaittostartschool/canhardlywaittostartschool.

I’mreallyexcited/thrilled/stoked/firedup/woundupaboutthegame/goingtothegame.

I’mraringtogo/chompingatthebit.

I’mallgungho.

Enthusiasm

Hurrah/hurray/hooray!

Goodmove/goodshow!

Farout/cool/sweet/brilliant/excellent!

Wow/yippee/yeah!

ComplimentsI’dliketocomplimentyouonthedeliciousmeal/onthegreatparty.

Brightcolorsreallysuit/becomeyou.

Youlookgreat/fantasticinthatdress/shirt.

Thoseearringslookgoodonyou/gowellwithyourhair.

Page 67: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

IreallylikeyourT-shirt.

Don’tyoulookcharming/pretty/handsometoday!

Responses

Iappreciatethecompliment.

That’sniceofyoutonotice/tosaythat.

Thanksforthecompliment.

Really?Doyouthinkso?

Why,thanks!

Dialogue:What’sforDinner?Underlineorhighlightthephrasesfromthechapter.

Mike:HeySarah,what’sfordinner?Sarah:Gee,I’vebeensowoundupaboutmyjobinterviewtomorrowthatIhaven’tgivendinnerasinglethought.Mike:Icouldreallygoforsomethingspicylikechili.Sarah:Spicy?I’mnotintospicyfoodrightnow,andactuallyIdon’tfeelmuchlikecooking.Mike:Well,don’tlookatme.Ihatecooking.Andbesidesyou’retheexpert.Thatspaghettiyoumadetheothernightwasawesome.Sarah:Flatterywillgetyounowhere.Whatdoyousaytoorderingapizza?Mike:Goodidea.I’mcrazyaboutpizza.Infact,myfavoriteisHawaiian.Sarah:Ican’tstandpineappleonpizza.Mike:Ididn’trealizeyouweresofussy.Sarah:I’mnot.It’sjustthatIprefertoeatfruitfordessert,notwiththemaincourse.Mike:HowaboutifIorderHawaiianandyouordersomethingelse?Sarah:Butawholepizzaistoomuch,andIdon’tcareforleftoverpizza.Mike:Well,there’salwaysChinesefood.Don’twehaveamenusomewhere?

Page 68: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Sarah:Thelasttimeweorderedfromthatplacethefoodwasgreasyandittookthemforevertodeliver.Butyouknowwhat?There’sanewGreekrestaurantdowntown.It’llbemytreat.Mike:Butdoesn’tGreekfoodhavelotsofgarlic?Justthethoughtofgarlicturnsmeoff.Sarah:Garlic’sgoodforyou.Ican’tgetenoughofitmyself.Mike:Atthisratewe’llnevergetanythingtoeat.I’mstarving.Sarah:Can’tyouthinkaboutanythingbutyourstomach?Mike:Notwhenit’sgettingclosetodinnertime.(ThephoneringsandSarahanswers.)Ally:Hi,Sarah.Sorryforthelatenotice,butwouldyouandMikecaretocomeoverfordinnertonight?Sarah:Yeah,sure.IsthereanythingIcanbring,likeasalad?Ally:No,justbringyourselves.Issix-thirtyallright?Sarah:That’sfine.Seeyouthen.Mike,guesswhat?Ally’sinvitedusoverfordinner.Mike:Sweet!Didshesaywhatshewashaving?Sarah:Really,Mike!Hey,weshouldpickupsomewineontheway.Whatdoyouthink,redorwhite?Mike:Actually,I’drathergetsomebeer.Sarah:Ohno,herewegoagain.

TopicsforPracticeHowmuchdoyoulike…

1.walkingintherain;

2.music;

3.gettingupearly;

4.spendingthedayatthebeach;

5.horrormovies;

6.thecolorsredorblue;

Page 69: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

7.violenceontelevision;

8.Mozart;

9.applepieandicecream;

10.goingtoparties;

11.travelingtoforeigncountries;

12.goingtothedentist;

13.gambling;

14.Christmas;

15.catsordogs;

16.yourbossorteacher;

17.videogames;

18.snowboarding;

19.shopping;

20.teamsports?

VocabularyNotes

Page 70: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

*Thisphraseisusedwhentheownerofarestaurantorbargivesaguestsomethingforfree.

Page 71: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

CHAPTER

ObjectsandProcesses

Objectivestodescribeobjects,products,andprocesses

tocompareandevaluateobjects,products,andprocesses

Andreahasbeenpromotedtoseniorbuyerforawell-establishedcompanythatsellsfootwearandleatheraccessoriesprimarilyinItaly.RecentlythecompanyhastakenoverachainofshoeretailerswithoutletsinAustria,Switzerland,andGermany.InhisnewpositionAndreawillbetravelingfrequentlytoAsiatodiscusstheproductswiththecompany’ssuppliers.Aswell,hewillbeattendinginternationalshoefairswherehewillbebuyingnewproducts.AlthoughAndreaisfamiliarwiththetechnicaltermsoftheshoefashion

industry,hewillnowhavetodiscusshiscompany’sproductsinmoredetail.Whenitcomestodealingwithforeignsuppliers,heneedstoaskandanswerquestionsinaprecisemannersothathewillavoidmistakesandmisunderstandingsthatcouldcosthiscompanytimeandmoney.

Page 72: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Onadailybasismanyofyourconversationsfocusonobjects,devices,andmachinesthatyouuse,produce,buy,andsellatwork,school,home,orthestore.Inadditiontodescribingobjectsandprocesses,youneedtoexplainhowtouseoroperatedevicesandmachinesandtogive

othersinstructionsandexplanations.

Phrases

Openers:TakeaLook!How’dyouliketosee/takealookatmynewiPad?

I’vegotthistoolI’dliketoshowyou.

HowaboutIshowyoumyflat-screenTV?

WanttoseewhatI’vegot?

TakealookatwhatIjustbought.

Checkthisout!

DescribingObjectsTalkingaboutobjects,machines,andprocessescanbeacomplicatedbusiness.Forthispurposeyoumayrequirespecializedlanguageandvocabulary(engineering,IT,telecommunications,medicine,manufacturing,foodpreparation,etc.).Sinceyou’reprobablyalreadyfamiliarwiththetechnicalterms,allyouneedaresomesimpleandusefulexpressionsthatyoucanreadilyemploy.

What’sthisfor?

What’sitcalled?

Whathaveyougotthere?

What’sthissupposedtobe/todo?

Whatkindofmachine/object/tool/device/gadgetisit?

Page 73: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

What’sthemake/brandname/model/serialnumber?

IfEnglishspeakersdon’tknowtheparticularnameofanobjectordevice,theyusenondescriptwords,suchas:device/gadget/widget/contraption/orslangexpressions,suchas:doodad/dooie/doohickey/thingamabob/thingamajig/whatchamacallit.

Examples:WhatamIsupposedtodowiththisdoodadonthetop?TheDollarStoresellsallkindsofgadgetsandcontraptions.Pleasehandmethatthingamaboboverthere.

MeasurementsandDimensions

Whatsizeisit?

Howbigisit?

Howlong/wide/high/deep/bigaroundisit/doesitmeasure?

What’sthelength/height/depth/circumference?

Howmuchdoesitweigh/carry/hold?

What’sthemaximumload/capacity?

It’s10inches/22.5centimetreslong/wide/high/deep/around.

Thelength/width/height/depth/circumferenceis10inches/22.5centimetres.

Itmeasures10inches/22.5centimetresinlength/width/height/depth/circumference.

It’sa5-metre-longvehicle/a½-inch-wideband/an80-foot-highbuilding/a20-ouncebottle.

Itweighs10pounds/4.5kilograms.

It’s10pounds/4.5kilogramsheavy.

It’sthesizeofabaseball/abook/agiantsail.

Page 74: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Itfitsintoyourpocket/glovecompartment/closet.

It’s10by5by2inches/22.5by12.5by5centimetres.

It’sflat/two-dimensional/three-dimensional.

Itholds1gallon/4litres.

Shape

Whatdoesitlooklike?

Whatshapeisit?

It’stheshapeofacigar/balloon/walnut.

It’scigar-shaped/balloon-shaped/walnut-shaped.

Itlookslike/resemblesaballooninshape/size.

CommonGeometricalShapes

Page 75: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation
Page 76: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation
Page 77: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

PropertiesandFeaturesDescribingthesizeandshapeofanobjectwithstandardphrasesisrelativelyeasy.Discussinganobjectinmoredetail,however,requiresawidervarietyofphrases.

Material

What’sitmadeof?

Whatmaterialsdidtheyusetomakeit?

It’smade/constructedofglass/plastic/wood/metal/leather.

Itconsistsofglass/plastic/wood/metal/leather.

It’sasteelrod/agoldring/astonewall/abrickhouse.

Page 78: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Color

Whatcolorisit?

Whatcolor/colorsdoesitcomein?

It’swhite/red/blue/yellowandbeige.

It’sdark/medium/light/pale/brightgreen.

It’sayellowish/reddishcolor.

Origin

Itwasmade/produced/manufactured/assembledinChina/theUSA/Germany.

Itis/wasmade/produced/manufacturedbySony/Philips.

Itwasdesigned/built/constructedbyanarchitect.

ThetelephonewasinventedbyAlexanderGrahamBell.

MethodofProduction

Itwasmadebyhand/machine.

It’shandmade/machine-made/man-made/mass-produced.

Itwasprefabricated/pre-assembled/extruded/molded/mixed/packaged/wrapped.

Itwasmadetoorder/custom-made.

Properties

It’swaterproof/ovenproof/fireproof/childproof.

It’sheatresistant/water-resistant/stainresistant.

It’sdishwashersafe.

It’sdense/solid/liquid/gaseous.

Page 79: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

FeaturesandFunctions

Whatcanitdo?

Whatfunctions/featuresdoesithave?

Itcomesinfourcolors/tensizes/sixpatterns.

It’smultipurpose.

Itoperates/runsonelectricity/battery/solarpower/fuelcells.

It’seasytouse/cheaptooperate/efficienttorun.

Itperformsefficiently/inallweatherconditions.

Ithasallthefrills/bellsandwhistles.

Quality

CostandEstimatesHowmuchisit?

Page 80: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Howmuchdoesitcometo?

Howmuchdoyoupay/whatdotheycharge?

What’stheprice?

What’sthedailyrate?

What’sthedamage?

AmericanandCanadianCurrency*

$1.29 onedollarandtwenty-ninecents/adollartwenty-nine

$15.99 fifteendollarsandninety-ninecents/fifteenninety-nine

$5.00 fivedollars/bucks

25cents aquarter

10cents adime

5cents anickel

1cent penny

Itwas/cost$50.

Theychargedme$50.

Thepricewas$50.

It’s/wasworth$50.

It’svalued/appraisedat$50.

Itcameto$50.

Page 81: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Ifyoupaidmoreforsomethingthanitwasworth,youcansay:

Ipaidthroughthenose.

Theyrippedmeoff.

Itwasarealrip-off.

Whenyoudon’tknowtheexactcostorvalueofanobject,youwillhavetocomeupwithanestimateorapproximatevalue.

It’sworthabout/around/approximately/circa/nearly$1,000.

It’sintheneighborhood/intheregionof$1,000.

It’s$1,000giveortake/plusorminus/moreorless.

Aball-parkfigureis$1,000.

Ithasanestimated/approximatevalueof$1,000.

Anestimate/guesstimatewouldbe$1,000.

Weestimateitsvalueataround$1,000.

UseandAvailability

PurposeandUse

Page 82: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Whatdoesthisdo?

What’sthisusedfor?

HowcanIuse/operate/utilizethis?

What’sitspurpose/use/function?

Howdoesitwork/go/operate?

It’sforcuttingmaterial/hammeringnails/storingdata.

Arefrigeratorisusedforkeepingfoodcold/tokeepfoodcold.

Thisproductisdesignedtosavetime.

Itserves/actsasawaterheater/anansweringmachine/acalculator.

Ithasabunchofuselessgimmicks.

Availability

Where/howdidyouget/buyit?

Where’sitsold?

Whereisitavailable?

Who/whichstorecarriesit?

It’ssoldatWalmart/BestBuy/HomeDepot.

Youcanget/buy/orderitonline.

FutureShopcarriesit.

Popularity

Espressomachinesarereally“in.”

AniPhoneisthelatestthing/fashion/rage.

Xistheleadingbrand.

Everybody’sbuyingit.

You’vegottohaveit.

It’sinhighdemand.

Page 83: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Thestorescan’tkeepitinstock/ontheshelves.

MakingComparisonsTherearemanywaystocompareobjects,processes,andfunctions.Notethatthecomparisonsareshowninthefollowingorder:adjective,countnoun,non-countnoun,verb,andadverb.

ExpressingaDifferencewithaPositiveVerb

Aisunlike/differentfrom/differentthan/distinctfrom/dissimilartoB.

AdiffersfromB.

Aisbetter/bigger/cheaper/easiertouse/handiertocarrythanB.

Aismoreadvanced/expensive/efficient/innovativethanB.

Bislessadvanced/expensive/efficient/innovativethanA.

Ahasmorefeatures/functions/uses/advantagesthanB.

Bhasfewerfeatures/functions/uses/advantagesthanB.

Ahasmorecapacity/power/storagespace/valuethanB.

Bhaslesscapacity/power/storagespace/valuethanA.

Acosts/weighs/sells/isworthmorethanB.

Bcosts/weighs/sells/isworthlessthanA.

Asmellsbetter/runsfaster/operatesmoreefficientlythanB.

Bsmellsworse/runsslower/operateslessefficientlythanA.

ExpressingaDifferencewithaNegativeVerb

Bisnotasbig/durable/useful/efficientasA.

Bdoesn’thaveasmanyfeatures/functions/uses/advantagesasA.

Page 84: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Bdoesn’thaveasmuchcapacity/power/storage/valueasA.

Bdoesn’tcost/weigh/sellasmuchasA.

ExpressingSimilarity

Aislike/similarto/equalto/comparableto/thesameas/muchthesameasB.

AandBarealike.

Afunctions/acts/worksinthesamewayasB.

Aisasbig/good/easytouse/advanced/expensiveasB.

Ahasasmanyfeatures/functions/uses/advantagesasB.

Ahasasmuchcapacity/power/storagespace/valueasB.

Acosts/weighs/sells/isworthasmuchasB.

Toemphasizethelackofdifference,wecanaddadverbssuchasjust,exactly,orprecisely.

Examples:Thiscoffeeisjustastastyastheleadingbrand.Ahasexactlyasmanybuilt-infunctionsasB.

ExpressingaSmallDifference

Aisalmostas/nearlyas/isn’tquiteas/big/good/easytouse/advanced/expensiveasB.

Ahasalmostasmany/nearlyasmany/doesn’thavequiteasmanyfeatures/functions/uses/advantagesasB.

Ahasalmostasmuch/nearlyasmuch/doesn’thavequiteasmuchcapacity/power/storagespaceasB.

Acostsalmostasmuchas/nearlyasmuchas/doesn’tcostquiteasmuchasB.

Page 85: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

ExpressingaLargeDifference

Aisn’tnearlyasbig/good/easytouse/advanced/expensiveasB.

Aisalot/way/much/farbigger/better/easiertouse/moreadvancedthanB.

Ahasalotmore/manymore/waymorefeatures/functions/usesthanB.

Superlatives

Cisthebest/theworst/biggest/theeasiesttouse/thehandiesttocarry.

Cisthemostadvanced/expensive/efficient/innovative.

Distheleastadvanced/expensive/efficient/innovative.

Chasthefewestfeatures/functions/uses/advantages.

Chastheleastcapacity/power/storagespace/value.

Ccosts/weighs/sells/isworththeleast.

Adverbs

Foremphasisyoucanaddqualifyingadverbssuchas:considerably,definitely,really,byfar.

Examples:RunningshoesAareconsiderablycheaperthanRunningshoesB.PrinterAisdefinitelymorecompactthanPrinterB.CameraAtakesbyfarthebestqualitypictures.MachineAisreallythefastest.

MakingContrasts

Page 86: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Tocompareandshowacontrast,youcanusevariousconnectors:

Co-coordinatingconjunctions:but,yet;Adverbs:nevertheless,nonetheless,however,regardless;Subordinateconjunctions:whereas,while,although,eventhough,though;

Prepositions:despite,inspiteof,unlike;Phrases:ontheonehand,ontheotherhand,incontrast,atthesametime,forallthat.

PrinterAhasmanyusefulfunctions,but/yetittakesupalotofspace.

PrinterAhasmanyusefulfunctions;however/nevertheless/nonetheless/regardlessittakesupalotofspace.

Whereas/whilePrinterAhasmanyusefulfunctions,ittakesupalotofspace.

Although/eventhoughPrinterAhasmanyusefulfunctions,ittakesupalotofspace.

Despite/inspiteofitssize,PrinterAhasmanyusefulfunctions.

Unlikeotherprintersinitspricerange,PrinterAtakesupalotofspace.

OntheonehandPrinterAhasmanyusefulfunctions;ontheotherittakesupalotofspace.

PrinterAhasmanyusefulfunctions.Atthesametimeittakesupalotofspace.

EvaluationsandJudgments

Praise

CameraAisagoodbargain/agooddeal/goodvalueforyourmoney.

CameraAlivesuptoitsname/promise/advertising/reputation.

I’vehadonlygoodexperienceswithCameraA.

Page 87: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

CameraAisworththemoney/buying/having.

There’snothinglikeCameraA.

Youcan’tbeatCameraA.

CameraAisbeyondcomparison.

CameraAisthebestmoneycanbuy.

LotionBworkswonders.

Icouldn’tlive/do/managewithoutmylaptop.

Criticism

Thistoasterisarealpieceofjunk/garbage/trash.

MyDVDplayerisalemon/completewasteofmoney.

Thisgadgetservesnousefulpurpose.

AnyproductofCompanyA’sthelastthingI’dbuy/want.

I’vehadnothingbuttroublewiththisscanner.

Mybatterychargerdoesn’tworkworthadarn/damn/hoot.

Thesecheapknivesbelonginthetrash/dump.

Youcanhaveit!

It’slikethrowingyourmoneyoutthewindow.

GivingInstructionsTheeasiestwaytodescribeaprocessistorefertotheoperatingmanual,user ’sguide,manufacturer ’sinstructionsor,inthecaseoffoodpreparation,therecipe.Writteninstructions,however,maynotalwaysbeathand,andeveniftheyare,sometimesguidesarewritteninlanguagethatisn’teasytodecipher.Wheninstructionsanddiagramsareconfusingorambiguous,youmaybeaskedtoassistsomeoneortoexplaintheprocessinmoredetail.

Todescribeaprocessortogiveinstructions,youcandotwothings:

Page 88: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Usecommandformssuchaspress,select,turnthemachineon,etc.

Example:PressENTERtostartanewline.

Usemodalverbssuchashaveto,needto,ortobesupposedto.

Example:Youhaveto/needto/aresupposedtopressENTERtostartanewline.

Asyougoalong,youwillhavetocorrectorconfirmwhatthepersonisdoing,andifthere’sdangerofcreatingabiggerproblem,awordofcautionmightbenecessary.

Questions

WhatdoIdofirst/next/then/afterthat?

WhatamIdoingwrong?

Whydoesn’tthiswork?

Howcomethisdoesn’twork/nothinghappens?

Ican’tfigurethisout/understandthis.

Ican’tseemtogetthistowork.

Thisdoesn’tseemtowork.

Thefollowingexampleshowsphrasesthatyoucanusetogiveinstructionsonhowtorecordavoicemailgreeting.

HowtoBegin

Firstly/firstofall/tostartoff/taptheGreetingbutton.

Thefirst/initialstep/thingistotaptheGreetingbutton.

WhattoDoNext

Page 89: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Thenextstep/thingistotapCustom.

After/followingthattapRecordanddictateyourgreeting.

ThentapRecordanddictateyourgreeting.

NexttapRecordanddictateyourgreeting.Whenyou’vefinishedrecording,tapStopandreviewbypressingPlay.

HowtoFinish

Finally/lastly/attheendtapSave.

Thefinalstep/thingistotapSave.

MakingCorrections

Whenyougivesomeoneinstructions,itissometimesnecessarytocorrectamistakeorgiveawarning.Itisalsoimportanttoletthepersonknowwhenheorsheisdoingtherightthing.

Youhavetobackupastep/togobacktothefirst/laststep.

Gobackandstartagain/over.

Giveitonemore/anothertry/go.

Erase/delete/cancelthatandtryagain/startover.

Let’stryitanothertime.

Youseemtobedoingsomethingwrong.

Caution

Wait/holditasecondbeforeyougoon.

Slowdownandtakeiteasy/takeyourtime.

Make/besuretopressSELECTfirst.

Becarefultoadjustthesetting/nottopressdowntoohardonthefootfeed.

Page 90: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Takecaretoturntheknobgently.

Remember/don’tforgettopressOK.

Confirmation

Good,nowgoontothenext/followingstep.

That’sright/correct/thewaytogo!

That’sit/thewaytodoit!

Nowyou’recookingwithgas!

Nowyou’reontoit.

You’vegotit!

ExpressingEmotions

Confusion

Ican’tfiguretheseinstructionsoutforthelifeofme.

Idon’tknowif/whetherI’mcomingorgoing.

Ican’tmakeheadsortailsofthis.

I’mcompletely/totallylost/atsea.

Thisisovermyhead/beyondme.

Thishasgotmeconfounded/bamboozled.

Frustration

Thisisdrivingmecrazy/upthewall/aroundthebend.

I’matmywit’send/attheendofmyrope.

Idon’thaveaclue/thefaintestideawhattodo.

Ican’tfigureouthowtogetthistowork.

Page 91: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Ijustcan’tgetahandleonthis.

Thishasreallygotmestumped/stymied.

I’vehadituptohere.

I’mfedup/sickandtired.

Wonder

I’mimpressedwiththequality.

I’mamazed/astonished/flabbergasted/blownaway.

Thesoundqualityblowsmeaway/bogglesmymind!

Thedesignknocksmysocksoff!

Wonderswillnevercease.

Holycow/smokes!

Dialogue:TheNewSmartphoneUnderlineorhighlightthephrasesfromthechapter.

Sean:Hey,Paul,checkthisout!Paul:What’veyougotnow?Sean:GetaloadofmynewMangosmartphone.Paul:Wow!IsthattheMango3000z?Man,everybody’stalkingaboutit.Thatmusthavecostyouanarmandaleg.Sean:Well,itwasn’texactlycheap,butit’swortheverypenny.Paul:Isupposeithasallthebellsandwhistles.Sean:Besidesalltheregularcell-phonefeatures,thisbaby’sgotassistedGPS,plusWiFiandmobilebroadbandaccessthat’smuchfasterthanotherphones.AndIcansendandreceivee-mails,pluseditmessages.Paul:Howmanyapplicationscanyourun?Sean:Besidesthestandardbuilt-inappsthatcomewithit,thereareliterallythousandsmoretodownload.Andwhereasmostphonescanonlydoonething

Page 92: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

atatime,withtheMangoyoucanrunthird-partyappsandmulti-taskatthesametime.Paul:I’mimpressedbigtime!BycomparisonmymobilelookslikeitcameoutoftheStoneAges.Sean:Takealookatthesmudge-resistantinterface.Allyouhavetodoistouchanapplicationlikethisandthereitis!Paul:Thesleekdesign’sprettycool,too.Sean:Yeah,andit’slightasafeather.Itweighslessthanfiveounces,andisaboutafourthofaninchthicksoit’sdefinitelypocket-size.Andlookatthisfeature.Ifyouwanttotypeamessage,ithasaQWERTY*keyboardsoyoudon’thavetofiddlearoundwithnumberslikeyoudoonanormalcellphone.Paul:Sincewhenareyouintotypingmessages?Sean:Itextallthetime,butofcourseIdon’thavetonow‘cause—andthiswillknockyoursocksoff,buddy—nowIcanmakevideocallsrightfrommyMango.Paul:Howcanyoudothat?Sean:See,ithastwocameras.Oneonthefronthereandtheotherontheback.Sowhatyoudoisgointoyourcontactslistandfindanumber.Thenyoutouchvideocallandbingo.It’seasyaspie.Paul:Getoutofhere!You’resureit’snotjustsomegimmick?Sean:Noway,man.Mangoreallylivesuptoitsname.Andgetthis,Icanrecordmyownvideosandeditthemintomoviesrighthereonmyphone.YouTube,hereIcome.Paul:Sohowareyougoingtodothat?Sean:Well,Ihaven’tfigureditoutyet.Paul:Lookslikethissmartphone’ssmarterthanyouare.Sean:Saystheguywiththefossilphone.

TopicsforPracticeDescribethefollowing:

1.asurround-soundsystem;

2.amicrowaveoven;

Page 93: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

3.anMP3player;

4.acamera;

5.asailboat;

6.adishwasher;

7.acar;

8.ablenderorkitchenmachine;

9.apairofrunningshoes;

10.yourdreamhouseorapartment.

Describehowto:

1.sendane-mail;

2.changeacartire;

3.tieanecktie;

4.makecoffee;

5.parallelparkacar;

6.useanATMmachine;

7.makeapizza;

8.recordamovieortelevisionshow;

9.downloadimagesfromadigitalcamera;

10.burnaCD.

Comparethefollowing:

1.aminivanandanSUV;

2.alaptopandadesktopcomputer;

3.awalkingshoeandahikingboot;

4.abicycleandamotorcycle;

5.ahouseandanapartment;

6.apaperbackandane-book;

Page 94: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

7.atelevisionandaradio;

8.ascrewdriverandahammer;

9.anappleandanorange;

10.wineandbeer.

VocabularyNotes

Page 95: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

* AustraliaandNewZealandalsousethedollarbuthavedifferentcoins.* QWERTYkeyboard:StandardU.S.keyboardshavethelettersQWERTYarrangedonthetopleftrowofkeys,givingititsname.

Page 96: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

CHAPTER

ProblemsandAdvice

Objectivestoexplainaproblemandtogiveadvice

toexpresssympathyandunderstanding

Patriciaisgettingmarriedthissummer,andsheandherfiancé,Matthew,willbelivinginSanFrancisco.Patricia’sfuturein-lawshavewelcomedherintotheirfamily,yettoPatriciatheyseemquitereservedincomparisontoherfamilyinMexico,whoaregiventoexpressingtheirfeelingsandopinionsloudlyandopenly.HerEnglishisverygood—orsoeveryonetellsher—andshehasworkedhardtoloseherSpanishaccent,butshewishestherightwordswouldcometohermorenaturally.Whatwillshedoifthereareproblemsormisunderstandingsthatshewill

havetohandleonherown?Andhowcanshebringupaconcernwithouthurtingsomeone’sfeelings?Willshebeabletohelpifsomeoneasksherforadviceorneedsashouldertocryon?Beingthereforothersissomethingsheisusedtoinherculture,andshehopesthatshewillbeabletodothesameforherfuturefamilyandfriends.

Page 97: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Problemscanrangefromtheinconvenienceofamachinethatwon’twork;tocomplaintsabouttheweather,work,orschool;todifficultiesinourrelationshipswithfamily,friends,orcoworkers;toseriousphysical,

emotional,orpsychologicalconditions.Whilesomepeoplearehabitualcomplainers,othersfinditdifficulttoopenupandairtheirgrievances.Inanycasethebestwaytosolveaproblemistotalkaboutit,andinordertogetadvice,youmustknowhowtomakeyourselfunderstood.

Phrases

Openers:What’sWrong?Youdon’tseemtobeyourself.Isanythingwrong/thematter?

Isthereanythingyou’dliketotellme/talkabout?

Whatseemstobewrong/thematter/thetrouble?

What’sbothering/troubling/eatingyou?

What’swrong/thematter/theproblem?

What’sonyourmind?

What’sthestorywithyou?

Whysoglum/downinthemouth?

Anythingbothering/troublingyou?

StatingaProblemApopularsayingadvisesthatwhenlifehandsyoualemon,youshouldmakelemonade.Inotherwords,everyproblemhasasolution,andyoushouldtrytomakethebestofthings.Nevertheless,problemscomeinavarietyofshapesandsizes,andbeforeyoucanarriveatasolution,youhavetoopenup.

NativeEnglishspeakerssometimesask“What’syourproblem?”when

Page 98: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

theyobjecttowhatsomeoneisdoing,forexample,whensomeoneislookingatthemorisangryorupsetfornoapparentreason.It’snotreallyaquestion.

PersonalProblems

Ihaven’tbeenfeelingwell/likemyselflately.

I’vebeenfeelingdown/blue/outofsorts/outofit/undertheweather.

I’mjustnotmyselfthesedays.

I’mjustnotuptothings.

I’monedge.

Stress

I’vebeenfeelingreallystressedout/underpressurelately.

I’muptomyneck/myears/myeyeballsinwork.

Ican’thandle/take/dealwithallthispressureanymore.

I’mfeelingoverworked/overtaxed/overwhelmed/burnedout.

Theweddingplansareallgettingtobetoomuch.

Ican’tseemtomanage/handle/dealwith/copewiththingsanymore.

I’mhavingabad/hardtimewithmyassignments.

Thisnewprogramiscausingmealotoftrouble/nothingbutheadaches.

I’mnotgettinganywherewithmycomputercourse.

Ineedsomedowntime/personaltime.

ProblemswithThings

Theremotecontroldoesn’twork/won’twork/doesn’tseemtowork.

Ican’tfigureoutthisansweringmachine.

Page 99: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Ican’tgetthisswitchtowork/todoanything.

Themicrowaveisonthefritz/kaput/apieceoftrash.

Mylaptopjustbitthedust/Mylaptophadthebiscuit.

MoneyMatters

I’malittlehardup/shortonfinances/shortofmoney/outofcashatthemoment.

I’mhavingtroublemakingendsmeet.

I’mbroke.

ComplainingAboutaProblem

I’mreallybothered/annoyed/irritatedabouttheconstructioninthebuilding.

Ihavealotonmyplaterightnow.

I’mhavingahard/roughtimewithmystudies.

I’mnothavinganyluck/successwithmyinvestments.

Ournewworkscheduleisarealnuisance/bother/painintheneck.

Mybiologyclassisakiller/iskillingme.

Thetrafficisgettingonmynerves.

Gettinganextensiononmyvisaisonebighassle.

There’ssomethingIneedtotalkabout/dealwith.

Ineedtogetsomethingoffmychest.

AskingforHelporAdviceAlthoughyoumaynotalwayswanttoadmitit,sometimesyouneedtoaskforhelp.

Page 100: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

AskingforConfidentiality

Ihopeyou’llkeepquietaboutthis/keepittoyourself.

Pleasedon’tbreathe/sayawordtoanyone.

Thisisjustbetweenyouandme.

Don’ttellasoul.

Response

Ipromisenottotellasoul/tobreatheaword.

Mylipsaresealed.

Youcantrustme.

Youcanconfideinme.

Mum’stheword.*

IdentifyingtheCauseofaProblem

AskingAbouttheCause

Page 101: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Howlonghasthisbeengoingon/happening?

When/howdidthisstart/happen?

Whathappened/setthingsoff?

What’sbehind/atthebottomofthis?

Howdidthisallcomeabout?

What’sthestory?

What/whocausedtheproblem/wasthecause?

Whosefault/responsibilitywasit?

BlameandResponsibility

It’sallbecauseofamisunderstanding.

Ithappenedbyaccident/allofasudden/withoutwarning.

Itwasanaccident/amishap/unintentional.

It’sallmy/yourfault/mistake/error.

I’mresponsible/guilty/theguiltyparty/theculprit/toblame.

Itakefull/completeresponsibility.

Iblewit/mychance!

Itaketherap.

Iscrewedup.

Blameitonme.

SympathyandUnderstandingWhenafriendoracquaintanceneedsashouldertocryon,youshouldshowconsiderationandunderstanding.

OfferingSympathy

Page 102: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

AskingforSympathy

Trytosee/lookatthingsfrommyside/end/pointofview.

IfonlyyouknewhowIfeel.

Putyourselfinmyshoes.

Youhavenoidea.

AdviceandAssistanceSolutionstoproblemscomeintheformofsuggestions,advice,andoffersofassistance.Asuggestionleavesituptothepersontoacceptorrejectyouradvice.Inotherwords,youdon’twanttobeforwardorsteponanyone’stoes.Whatthepersondoeswiththesuggestionisuptohimorher.Advice,ontheotherhand,dealsmoredirectlywithaproblembyofferingaspecificopinionorsolution.

Page 103: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

MakingSuggestions

Problem:Johanna’sclassmate,Chiao-Jung,ishomesickandmissesherfamilyinTaiwan.

Theverbstosuggestandtorecommendrequiretheuseofthesubjunctiveandcanbetrickytouse.Thesubjunctivelooksliketheindicative(simplepresent)andisrecognizableonlywhenyouusetheverbtobe,thethirdpersonsingular,orthenegative.

Example:Isuggest/recommendthatyoubeontime/thathegetmoreexercise/thattheynotworry.

Theeasiestwaytogetaroundthesubjunctiveistouseagerund.

Page 104: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Example:Isuggest/recommendbeingontime/gettingmoreexercise/notworrying.

PositiveResponses

Thatjustmightbetheanswer.

Thatmakessense.

Ineverthoughtofthat!

Itneveroccurredtome!

I’llgiveitatry!

Whydidn’tIthinkofthat!

Nowyou’retalking!

Good/greatidea!

Soundsgoodtome!

NegativeResponses

Thatsoundsliketoomuchtrouble/hassle.

It’suseless/pointless/senseless/nouse.

Thanks,butIdon’tthinkthat’sforme.

Thatmakesnosense.

Whatgoodwouldthatdo?

Alotofgoodthatdoes!

I’drathernot.

Youcan’tbeserious!

Areyoukidding/joking?

Noway!

Page 105: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

OfferingAdvice

Problem:Moon-Hee’sroommate,Salman,isalwayscomplainingaboutneverhavingenoughmoney.

PositiveResponses

Thanksfortheadvice.

I’llgiveitatry/dothat.

That’sthebestideaI’veheard.

NegativeResponses

Iknowyoumeanwell/yourintentionsaregood,but…

That’seasyforyoutosay.

That’seasiersaidthandone.

Page 106: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Ifonlyitweresoeasy.

OfferingAssistance

Problem:AnelderlycustomeratthecaféwhereMeikoworksseemstohavelostsomething.

PositiveResponses

That’sverykind/thoughtful/considerate/helpfulofyou.

Ireallyappreciateit.

That’dbegreat.

NegativeResponses

Thanks,butI’llbefine/allright.

Icanmanage/doitmyself.

Thanks,butnothanks.

ConfirmingaSuggestion

Isthatokay/allrightwithyou?

Areyouokay/allrightwiththat?*

Howdoesthatworkforyou?

Page 107: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

PositiveResponses

That’sokay/allright/finewithme.

Thatworksforme.

Perfect.

Warnings

Problem:HenrikisplanningtotraveldowntheWestCoast,buthedoesn’thavealotofmoneysoheasksJoseifhethinksitwouldbeokaytohitchhike.

Iwouldn’tifIwereyou!

Becareful/bewareof/awareofdangerouspeople.

Don’thitchhikeatnight,oryoumightbesorry.

Hitchhikingalonecouldgetyouintotrouble.

You’dbetternottakeridesfromstrangers/strangepeople.

Justaheads-up:hitchhikingcanbedangerous.

LastResorts

Ifyouasktenpeopleforhelpwithaproblem,youwillprobablygettendifferentsolutions,butthereisnoguaranteethatanyofthemwillwork.Ifyoureallydon’tknowwhattodo,alastresortorextrememeasuremaybeyouronlyoption.

Problem:AlthoughUllahastrieddifferentdiets,shestillcan’ttakeoffthelastfivepoundsshewantstolosebeforeherwedding.

Iftheworse/theworstcomestotheworst/ifpushcomestoshove,youcantryfasting.

Ifnothingelseworks,youcangoonafast.

Youronlyotheralternativeistogoonafast.

Ifallelsefails,youcangoonafast.

Page 108: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Asalastresort,youcangoonafast.

Allthat’sleftistotryfasting.

AppreciationandGratitude

RespondingtoaThank-You

Page 109: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

MakingSomeoneAwareofaProblemTherearetimeswhenyoumighthavetheunpleasanttaskofmakinganotherpersonawareofaproblem.Incaseyoumeetwithhostility,orthepersonfeelsthatheorsheisbeingblamedforsomethingthatisnothisorherfault,youwillhavetoapproachthesubjectinamannerthatwillnotoffendtheperson.Dependinguponthegravityofthesituation,youcanchoosebetweenanindirectandadirectapproach.

Problem:Mariagetsalongwellwithhercolleagues,buttheyshareaverysmalloffice,andtheirnewcolleague,Tiffany,isnotverygoodatputtingthingsbackwheretheybelong.

Page 110: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

ComplaintsProblem:Saschaistryingtostudy,buthecanhearloudmusiccomingfromhisneighbor ’sapartment.

Page 111: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Responses

Sorry,Ididn’trealizethat/Ididn’tknow/Iwasn’taware.

I’msorry,itwon’thappenagain.

Ididn’tmeantobotheryou.

Really?That’stoobad.

Noproblem/troubleatall.

ReassurancesIfsomeone’sbeenthrougharoughpatchorhasevenlostalovedone,youcanreassurehimorherthateverythingwillbeallrightoroffercomfortorcondolences.

MakingReassurances

Everything’sgoingtobe/toturnoutallright.

Page 112: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Everythingwillworkout,justyouwaitandsee.

Thingshaveawayofworkingthemselvesout.

Believeme,it’sgoingtobeokay/fine.

It’snotasbad/halfasbadasitseems.

You’llbefine/okay/rightasrain.

You’redoingthebestyoucan.

Wecangettothebottomofthis.

CalmingSomeoneDown

There’snothingtoworry/fret/getupsetabout.

Don’tworry/fret/freakout/sweatit.

Don’tloseanysleepoverit.

Don’ttakeittoheart/letitgettoyou.

Don’tgetyourshirtinaknot.

Takeiteasy/slowly.

Calmdown.

Consolations

Theworstisbehindyou.

Thingscouldbealotworse.

You’dbebesttoputitallbehindyou.

You’reoutofthewoodsnow.

Justchalkituptoexperience.

ComfortandCondolences

I’msorryforyourloss.

Page 113: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Mydeepestsympathies/mycondolences.

Myheartgoesouttoyou.

Mythoughtsarewithyou.

I’llbethinkingofyou.

HumoringSomeone

Whenproblemsgetthebetterofyou,oryoumakethembiggerthantheyare,itmaybenecessarytoseethebrightersideofthings.Humorcanoftenbethebestmedicine.If,however,thepersonyou’retryingtohelpismerelyfeelingsorryforhim-orherself,heorshemightneedarealitycheck.

Whatdoesn’tkillyouonlymakesyoustronger.

It’snottheendoftheworld.

Thingsareneverasbadastheyseem.

Somedayyou’lllookbackandlaugh.

You’llgetoveritinnotime.

You’lllive.

Lookonthebrightside.

Lightenup.

Chillout.

PuttingThingsinPerspective

Don’tmakeamountainoutofamolehill.

Don’ttakeitsoseriously/toheart.

Don’tgetcarriedaway.

Howaboutcomingbacktoearth?

Getoverit!

Getreal/agrip!

Page 114: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

WhenAdviceIsIgnored

Althoughwemeanwell,sometimespeopledon’ttakeorappeciatetheadvicewegive.

Don’tcomerunningtome.

It’syourbusiness/funeral.

It’suptoyou.

Suityourself.

ReluctanceandAvoidanceDependingonthecircumstances,itisnotalwayseasyordesirabletotalkaboutaproblem.Sometimesyoumaynotcompletelyunderstandwheretheproblemcomesfromoryoumaynotbereadytotalk.

NotKnowingtheSourceoftheProblem

Ihaven’taclue/thefaintestidea/thefoggiestidea.

Ican’tputmyfingeronit.

Idon’tknowwhat’swrong.

Yourguessisasgoodasmine.

Yougotmestumped/beat.

Don’taskme.

Beatsme!

AvoidingaProblem

I’drathernotdiscussit.

Idon’tfeelliketalkingaboutit.

It’snotyourproblem/concern/business.

Page 115: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Idon’tseetheissue/theproblem/what’swrong.

What’sthebigdeal?

Leavemealone.

Letitbe.

Backoff,whydon’tyou?

ExpressingEmotions

WorryandFear

Thisproblemhasmeworried/concerned/upset.

Thatreallyfreaksmeout.

I’mveryworried/concerned/upset/uptight.

I’mabundleofnerves.

I’mjustsickwithworry/fear.

I’mbesidemyself.

I’mafraid/frightened/scared/freakingout.

EmbarrassmentandShame

I’membarrassed/mortifiedaboutmybadmemory.

Icoulddieofshame/embarrassment.

There’snowayIcanshowmyface.

I’mthelaughingstockofourclass.

I’msoashamedofmyself.

Iwishtheearthwouldswallowmeup.

I’vegoteggonmyface.

Page 116: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Anger

I’mreallyangry/mad/furious/tickedoff/pissedoffaboutmymarks.

Myroommatereallyticked/cheesed/pissedmeoff.

Rush-hourtrafficreallybugs/annoys/bothersme.

Whatreallygetsmeisthewaypeopleignoretherules.

Thatrudesaleslady’sattitudeburnsmeup.

I’vehadit/hadituptoherewithlonglines!

I’msoangryatmybrotherIcouldscream!

Mysonisreallypushingmybuttons.

I’mlosingit/flippingout/goingoffthedeepend!

Sadness

I’mfeelingblue/outofsorts/down/downinthedumps/downinthemouth.

Jeanne’sbesideherselfwithgrief.

Gabriel’sbroken-hearted.

Ijustcan’tsnapoutofit.

Ifeelsobad/sosadIcouldcry.

Dialogue:What’stheMatter?Underlineorhighlightthephrasesfromthechapter.

Jamie:Katie,wanttogooutwiththegang?Katie:I’msorryifIsoundlikeapartypooperbutI’mjustnotinthemood.Jamie:Yousurehaven’tbeenyourcheeryselflately.Isanythingthematter?Katie:Well,eversinceourbossannouncedthatthecompany’supforsale,everybody’sonedge,includingme.Jamie:Icanunderstandthat.Nobodylikesuncertainty,that’sforsure.

Page 117: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Katie:Especiallywhenyoumightendupwithoutajob.Jamie:That’sreallytoobad.So,what’sthestory?Katie:It’sallbecausethemanagementgotcarriedawayandtookontoomuchdebt.Jamie:Howlonghasthisbeengoingon?Katie:Forsometimeasitturnsout.I’mworriedsickaboutmyjobandfuriousatthesametime.Jamie:Well,ifIwereyou,Iwouldn’tfreakout.Withyourqualifications,youshouldn’thaveanytroublefindinganotherjob.Katie:ButIdon’twantanotherjob.AndJamie,thisisjustbetweenyouandme.Jamie:Iwon’tbreatheaword.AndKatie,don’tworry.Thingsalwayshaveawayofworkingout.Katie:That’seasyforyoutosay.It’snothappeningtoyou.Jamie:Iguesslifejustneverisabowlofcherries.Katie:You’retellingme.Itseemslikeeverything’shappeningatonce.Jamie:Why,issomethingelsewrong?Katie:Yeah,I’mhavingtroublewithmystupidcar,andIcan’treallyaffordanybigrepairsrightnow.Jamie:Iknowareasonablemechanic.HowaboutifIhavehimtakealook?Katie:Thanks,Jamie,butwhat’stheuse?Jamie:OrIcouldlendyousomemoneyifyou’dlike.Katie:WhatgoodwouldthatdowhenIalreadyoweenoughonmycreditcards?Jamie:Well,ItriedbutIguessI’mnoDoctorPhil,*amI?Katie:You’reagoodshouldertocryon,andIreallyappreciateit,Jamie.Look,whydon’tyougooutwithoutme?Jamie:Whatfunwouldthatbe?Anyway,nowthatyou’vegotafewthingsoffyourchest,Istillthinkit’ddoyougoodtotakeyourmindoffeverything.Katie:How?Withicecream?Afeel-goodmovie?Somefreshair?Jamie:Itellyouwhat.Let’swalkovertothevideostoreandstopforicecreamonthewayback.Katie:Now,you’retalking.Ifeelbetteralready.

Page 118: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

TopicsforPracticeTalkaboutarecentproblemyou’vehad:

1.atworkorschool;

2.withyourhealthorphysicalfitness;

3.withyourfamilyorfriends;

4.withyourcarorcomputer;

5.withmoney;

6.thatwascausedbyamistakeoranaccident;

7.thatyouneededhelpwith;

8.thatyouwereabletosolveonyourown;

9.thatwasn’tasbadasitseemed;

10.thatyouwereworriedabout.

Whatadvicewouldyougivetosomeonewho:

1.wantstostopsmoking;

2.isunhappyatworkorschool;

3.hasgainedtoomuchweight;

4.hadafightordisagreementwithafriendorlovedone;

5.wantstomakefriendsinanewcityortown;

6.hastroublesavingmoney;

7.ishomesick;

8.isupsetbecauseheorshedidn’tgetajobheorshereallywanted;

9.isnervousaboutflying;

10.oftenhasbadheadaches?

VocabularyNotes

Page 119: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

* ABritishslangexpressionmeaning“don’tsayaword”or“keepyourlipssealed.”*Saying“Areyouokay/allright”meansthatyouareaskingaboutsomeone’shealth.* Dr.PhilMcGrawisapopulartelevisionpersonality,psychologist,andauthorwhoisknownforhisfrankadvice.

Page 120: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

CHAPTER

DecisionsandGoals

Objectivestoexploreoptionsandtalkaboutdecisions

tomakeplansandsetschedules

tosetgoalsandrecognizeachievements

WhenPavelemigratedfromRussiatotheUnitedStatestwoyearsago,heparticipatedinanintermediateEnglishcoursefornew-comers.Headjustedquicklytohisnewenvironment,and,becauseofhisbackground,hewashiredbyanengineeringcompanywithstrongbusinesstiesinEasternEurope.Pavelreadsextensivelytobroadenhisvocabulary,andinhissparetimehe

playssquashandsocceratalocalsportsclub.HeiscomfortablespeakingEnglishonaneverydaybasisandhaslittletroubletranslatingfromEnglishintohisnativeRussianwhennecessary.Hismainconcernisthathewon’tbeabletoparticipateconfidentlyinthekindofplanning,goalsetting,anddecision-makingforwhichhisteamisresponsible,andheworriesthathislanguageskillsmightnotliveuptohisprojectleader’sexpectations.

Page 121: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Onceyouhavedefinedaproblem,asinChapter5,youwillneedtomakedecisionsaboutthethingsyouwanttobuyoracquire;thechangesyouintendtomakeatwork,school,orhome;orthegoalsyou

hopetoachievethroughfutureendeavors.Whileyouaresometimesfacedwithmakingdecisionsandplansonyourown,mostfrequentlyyourconversationswillincludefamily,friends,orcoworkerswhoseinputyouneedtotakeintoconsideration.

Phrases

Openers:WhatAreWeGoingtoDo?Weneedtomakeadecision/todosomethingabouttheproblem/situation/issue.

Whatareouroptions/choices/alternatives/possibilities?

Whatchoice/option/alternative/solutiondowehave?

Whatcanwedoaboutthissituation/issue/problem?

Howdoesthisappeal/soundtoyou?

Howcanwegoaboutthis?

Thesituationcallsforadecision.

OptionsandAlternativesOnceyouhaveidentifiedtheissues,youcangoaboutexploringyouroptions.Hopefullyyoucanmakeachoice,butsometimesyoumayfindthatunderthecircumstancesyouhavenochoiceatall.

Situation:MariaandPabloneedasecondcar.Althoughthey’dliketobuyabrandnewone,theycan’taffordto,andtheydon’treallywanttogointodebt.

Options

Page 122: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Wecouldalwaysbuyausedcar.

Oneoption/choice/possibilitywouldbetobuyausedcar.

Perhaps/maybeweshouldconsider/lookatbuyingausedcar.

Wouldn’titbesmartertobuyausedcar?

Wecouldkeepausedcarinmind.

Alternatives

Ratherthan/insteadofbuyingausedcar,wecouldleaseanewone.

Asanalternative/alternativelywecouldleaseanewcar.

Anotheroption/choicewouldbetoleaseanewcar.

NoChoice

Wehavenoalternative/choice/optionbuttowaitandsaveourmoney.

Ouroptionsarelimitedtowaitingandsavingourmoney.

Wecan’tdoanythingexceptwaitandsaveourmoney.

Ouronlyoption/choice/possibilityistowaitandsaveourmoney.

Thebestwecandoatthispointiswaitandsaveourmoney.

ReasonsandPurposeBeforeyoucanmakeadecisionorsetagoal,youneedtoclarifythereasonsbehindyoursituationanddeterminethepurposeyourcourseofactionwillserve.

Situation:Maximilianwouldliketoapplyforamorechallengingjob,butthecompanieshe’sinterestedinprefercandidateswhoarefluentinbothspokenandwrittenEnglish.

StatingaReason

Page 123: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Because/sincecompaniesarelookingforcandidatesfluentinEnglish,IneedtoimprovemyEnglish.

Becauseof/duetoacompetitivejobmarket,IneedtoimprovemyEnglish.

CompaniesarelookingforfluentspeakersofEnglish.Asaresult/consequently/thereforeIhavetoimprovemyEnglish.

ThereasonIneedtoimprovemyEnglishisthatcompaniesarelookingforfluentspeakers.

Mymotivation/incentiveforimprovingmyEnglishisabetterjob.

StatingaPurpose

I’mgoingtotheUnitedStatesfor*Englishlessons/togetmoreexperience.

I’mgoingtotheUnitedStatesso/sothatIcanimprovemyEnglish.

I’mgoingtospendayearintheUnitedStatesto/inorderto/soastoimprovemyEnglish.

I’mgoingtotheUnitedStatesforayearbecauseIwanttoimprovemyEnglish.

Thepurposeof/thepointingoingtotheUnitedStatesistoimprovemyEnglish.

AskingAboutReasonsorPurpose

WhyareyougoingtotheUnitedStatesforayear?

WhatareyougoingtotheUnitedStatesfor?

What’sbehindyourgoingtotheUnitedStates?

Howcomeyou’regoingtotheUnitedStates?*

WhatareyourreasonsforgoingtotheUnitedStates?

WhatreasondoyouhaveforgoingtotheUnitedStates?

Page 124: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

WhatpurposewillgoingtotheUnitedStatesserve?

What’syourmotivation/purpose/incentiveingoingtotheUnitedStates?

AdvantagesandDisadvantagesMakingdecisionsinvolvesnotonlymakingcomparisonsandcontrasts,asoutlinedinChapter4,butalsotakingagoodlookattheadvantagesanddisadvantageseachchoicehastooffer.

Situation:ErikoandMun-Jungarelivingwithahomestayfamilyinthesuburbs.Althoughtheygetalongwiththeirhosts,theywouldlikemoreprivacyandindependencesothey’rethinkingaboutmovingtoanapartmentdowntown.

Advantages

Theadvantages/benefits/merits/assetsofdowntownareitscentrallocationandconvenience.

Theprosarelocationandconvenience.

Theconvenienceofdowntowncanbeablessing/abonus.

Astrongpoint/goodthingisthecentrallocation.

Downtown’scentrallocationandconvenienceareadvantageous/beneficial/favorable.

Ontheplus/positiveside/upsidedowntowniscentralandconvenient.

Thecentrallocationandconveniencespeakfordowntown.

Wecanbenefit/profitfromtheconvenientlocation.

Theconvenientlocationcouldworkinourfavor.

Disadvantages

Thedisadvantages/drawbacks/liabilitiesofdowntownarethe

Page 125: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

expensiverentsandthenoiseatnight.

Theconsaretheexpensiverentsandthenoiseatnight.

Thenoiseatnightcanbeacurse.

Aweakpoint/badthingistheexpensiverents.

Ontheminus/negativeside/downsidetherentsdowntownaremoreexpensiveandthere’smorenoiseatnight.

Theexpensiverentsandthenoiseatnightspeakagainstdowntown.

AddingInformation

Inaddition/additionally/ontopofthat,wewouldhavetospendlessonpublictransportationifweliveddowntown.

Furthermore/moreoverwe’dhavetospendlessonpublictransportation.

We’dalsospendlessonpublictransportation.

Notonlywouldwebeclosertoshopping,butwe’dspendlessonpublictransportation.

Alongwith/aswellasspendinglessonpublictransportation,we’dbeclosertoshopping.

MakingaDecisionAccordingtoSophocles,quickdecisionsareunsafedecisions,whichiswhydecision-makingisoneofthemostdifficultthingsyouhavetodo,especiallywhenitconcernsyourhealth,welfare,andmoney.Oftenyoumightprefertoavoidordelaytheprocess,butfindyoucan’twhenyouarefacingurgentmatters.Decisionscaninvolvealongandpainfulprocessofpersuasion,compromise,commitment,consensus,andverification,especiallywhenotherpeopleareinvolved.Inthiscase,youmaybecalledupontomakepromisesasasignthatyouwillholdupyourendofthebargain.Seeingadecisionthroughalsorequiresconsiderabledeterminationtoreachadealthateveryonecanlivewith.

Page 126: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Persuasion

Urgency

Thisisimportant/urgent/critical/highpriority.

Thisisofutmostimportance.

Thisisanemergency.

It’samatteroflifeanddeath.

Wecan’twaitonthis.

There’snotimetohesitate/towaste/tofoolaround.

Thesituationhasreachedcriticalmass.

Compromise

Page 127: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

I’msurewecanwork/figuresomethingout.

Wecanfind/workoutacompromise.

Let’smeethalfway/inthemiddle.

Weneedsomegiveandtake/someleeway/someroomtomoveonthis.

Wecantrytofindahappymedium.

CheckingandVerifying

Canwegooverthisagain?

Canyourunthatpastmeagain?

Iseverybodyonthesamepage?

Doweseeeyetoeye?

Ineedtocheckthatoncemore.

Let’swalkthroughthisagain.

DefiningaDecisivePoint

Inthefinalanalysis,itismoneythatmakesthedifference.

Whenitcomesrightdowntoit,it’sallaboutmoney.

Whenall’ssaidanddone,it’samatterofmoney.

Anywayyoulookatit,it’sthemoneythatdecides.

Itallcomesdown/boilsdowntomoney.

Thecruxofthematterismoney.

Italldependsonmoney.

Attheendoftheday,it’sallaboutmoney.

StatingaDecision

I’vedecidedtotakeoutaloan/decidedontakingoutaloan.

Page 128: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

I’vemadeadecisiontoquitmyjobandgobacktoschool.

I’vetakenthefirststeptowardsellingmyhouse.

I’vemadeupmymindtorepaintthelivingroom.

I’veoptedforalifeinsurancepolicy.

I’llhavethesteakandlobster.

Thisisthedeal.

AskingforaCommitmentorConsensus

Who’sforit/infavor?

DoIhaveyoursupport/agreement?

CanIcountyouinonthis?

Areyouapartofthis?

Areyouokaywiththis?

MakingaCommitment

Youcanbank/countonme.

I’minonthis/infavorofthis.

I’llgoalongwiththat.

I’llback/supportyoualltheway.

I’mbehindyou100percent/alltheway.

Youhavemyvote/pledge/commitment.

Promises

Ipromise/sweartosticktoourdecision/agreement.

Igiveyoumyword/wordofhonor/promise.

Iwillabidebyourdecision/deal/agreement.

Page 129: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Iwillkeepmyendofthebargain.

Youcanholdmetoit.

Iwon’tgobackonit.

Crossmyheartandhopetodie.

Adeal’sadeal.

Determination

Youcan’ttalkmeoutofthis/changemymind/stopme.

There’snothingmoretodiscuss.

I’mnotmoving/budginganinchonthis.

Mymind’sset/madeup.

I’mstickingtomyguns/withit.

I’mdoingthiscomehellorhighwater.

It’sadonedeal.

That’sit/final.

IndecisionandHesitationSometimesthebestdecisionmaybenodecision:ifyoucan’tsay“yes,”youhavetosay“no.”Whileindecisioncanappeartobeprocrastination,waitinguntilthetimeisrightcanshowprudence.

Indecision

You’restraddling/sittingonthefence.

You’rewavering/seesawing/hemmingandhawing.

Ijustdon’tknow.

I’mnotsureaboutthat.

Page 130: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Ican’tsayonewayortheother.

Ican’tmakeupmymind.

Idon’tknowwhereIstand.

It’sdebatable.

HesitatingandDelay

Ineedtosleeponit/thinkitover/mullitover/giveitsomemorethought.

Maybeweshouldtakeourtime/waitandsee.

I’mhavingsecondthoughts/gettingcoldfeet.

Weshouldlookbeforeweleap.

Let’skeepitonthebackburner.

Let’snotmakeanyhastydecisions/moves.

Tomorrow’sanotherday.

SettingSchedulesandDeadlinesItisusualtoattachatimelinetoadecision;thatis,youneedtosetatimeordeadlineforwhenactionshavetobeginorbecompleted.

AskingAboutDeadlines

What’sourtimeline/timehorizon/timeframe?

Arewetalkingshorttermorlongterm?

What’sthedeadlineonthis?

Whatarewelookingattime-wise?

When’sthefirstpaymentdue?

Whendoestheofferexpire?

Page 131: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Howsoondowehavetoknow?

Bywhen/whattimedoestheprojecthavetobecompleted?

SettingaDate

Wecanplan/schedulethatfortomorrow/nextweek.

I’llpencilthatinforTuesdayafternoon/Apriltenth.

Let’ssetadatefortheparty.

I’llmakeanoteofitforFriday.

Asuitable/convenienttimewouldbesometimenextweek.

TheassignmenthastobeinonMonday.

Weneedadecisionby2:00/Friday/nextweekatthelatest.

Thepaymentwillbe/comedueonthefifteenth.

FutureTime

tomorrow/tomorrowmorning/afternoon/evening/night

nextweek/month/year

thedayaftertomorrow/theweekafternext

thefollowingThursday/week/month

infiveminutes/twohours/fivedays/threemonths/tenyears

fiveminutes/hours/fivedays/threemonths/tenyearsfromnow

by9:00/Thursday/nextFriday/October/2025

GoalsandPlansSettinggoalsandformulatingplansareanintegralpartofdecision-making.Goalsnotonlyguideyouractions,buttheintentiontoachievethemcanmotivateanddriveyou.

Page 132: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

AskingAboutShort-TermPlans

Whatareyouplanningtodoforthesummer?

Whatareyoudoingontheweekend?

Whatdoyouhaveinmindforyourhoneymoon/aftergraduation?

Whatareyougoingtodoaboutajob?

Areyoudoinganythingafterschool?

Got/haveanyplansfornextyear?

Short-TermPlans

I’mplanning/hopingtotraveldowntheWestCoast.

We’rethinkingaboutbuildingahouse.

I’mgoingtomovetoanislandforthesummer.

Iintendtorenovatemycondo.

AskingAboutLong-TermGoals

Whatareyourprofessionalgoals/objectives/aims/targets/ambitions?

Whatgoals/objectivesdoyouwanttoreachinyourlife?

Whatdoyouhopetoachieve/accomplishincollege?

Wheredoyouwanttobeprofessionally/personallyinfiveyears?

Whatareyouaimingtodoinyourcareer/inyourprivatelife?

Wheredoyouseeyourself/yourbusiness/infiveyears?

StatingGoalsandPlans

Mygoal/aim/objection/dream/ambitionistostartmyownbusiness.

Ihope/aspiretowriteabook.

Page 133: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Iplantosail/planonsailingaroundtheworldsomeday.

Idreamofretiringattheageofforty.

It’smydreamtoclimbMountEverest.

I’mstrivingtomakeamilliondollars/I’maimingforamilliondollars.

Ourtargetistoretireearlyandtravelaroundtheworld.

IhavemysightssetonanOlympicgoldmedal.

I’msetonmakingadocumentary.

MyNewYear’sresolutionistostopsmoking.

Encouragement,Recognition,andCongratulations

Whenafriendorfamilymemberisstartingoutonanewundertaking,youcansupportthemwithwordsofencouragement,recognition,andcongratulations.

Encouragement

You’vegotwhatittakestowintherace!

Youcanhandle/doit!

Youwerecutoutforthis!

Goon,giveitatry/ago/yourbestshot!

Don’tbeafraid/giveup/quitnow.

Keepyourchinup!

Knockyourselfout!

Neversaynever!

Breakaleg!*

Goforit!

Page 134: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

RespectandRecognition

Ifithadn’tbeenforyou,wewouldn’thavebeensuccessful.

Weallthinkveryhighlyofyou.

Wetakeoffourhatstoyou.

Ihavetohandittoyou.

Thecreditisallyours.

You’vemadeagreatcontribution.

Youhaveourrespect.

Respect!

Hatsoff!

Congratulations

Page 135: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

ExpressingEmotionsMakingadecisioncaninvolveyourheartaswellasyourhead,soitisusefultoknowtherightwordstoexpressemotionssuchashope,anticipation,doubt,regret,anddisappointment.

Hope

Ihope/praytoGodI’llbeacceptedintomedicalschool.

I’mhopeful/optimistic/positiveaboutgettingagoodjob.

Itrustthateverythingwillworkoutforyou.

Ihavehighhopesforourchildren/thatourchildrenwillgotocollege.

Hopefully/Godwilling/withanyluckwe’llmakeaprofitonthesale.

I’dliketothinkthatmykidswilldowellincollege.

I’llkeepmyfingerscrossedforyou.

Anticipation

Ican’twaittotakesailinglessons.

I’mreallylookingforwardtogradschool/togoingtogradschool.

I’mallwoundupaboutmynewjob.

I’monpinsandneedles(feelingnervous).

He’sraringtogo.

He’seagerasabeaver.

Doubt

Ihaveserious/grave/naggingdoubtsaboutputtingourhouseupforsale.

We’rehavingsecondthoughtsaboutputtingourhouseonthemarket.

Page 136: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

I’mnotconvincedaboutthisexerciseprogram/thatthisexerciseprogramistheanswer.

Idoubtthatwe’llsellourhouse.

Iwonderaboutputtingourhouseupforsalerightnow.

I’mnotsure/certainaboutsellingourhouseinthepresentmarket.

Idon’tknowif/whetherweshouldsellourhouse.

Weshallsee.

Regret

HadIknown/ifI’dknownthatthelaptopwasgoingonsale,I’dhavewaitedtobuyit.

IwishIhadthoughtofapplyingforavisaearlier.

Iregretnotputtingmoreeffortintomystudiesatschool.

I’msorryaboutwastingmymoney.

NexttimeI’llbemorecareful.

Icouldkickmyself.

Disappointment

Iwasreallylookingforwardtotheyogaclass/takingtheyogaclass.

Ihadmyheart/mindsetongettingapromotion.

Theexhibitionletmedown.

Mypartnerleftmeinthelurch.

I’mcrushed/devastated/blownaway.

Ihadmyhopesup.

Dialogue:AToughDecisionUnderlineorhighlightthephrasesfromthechapter.

Page 137: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Gina:Areyoudoinganythingthisweekend,Josh?Josh:Nothingexciting.Thedeadlineforcommunitycollegeregistrationisapproachingfast,andIstillhaven’tmadeupmymindwhichcoursetotake.Gina:Whatareyouroptions?Josh:Well,I’vebeendebatingwhethertotakeacourseonhowtobuildabasicwebsiteoroneonpersonalfinancialfundamentals.Gina:That’satoughchoice.Iguessitallboilsdowntowhichonemeetsyourgoals.Josh:Mylong-termgoalistostartupmyownbusiness.Gina:Goodforyou!Josh:TheadvantageofbeingabletobuildyourownwebsiteisthatIcangetmyselfoutthereontheInternet.Gina:Forsure.There’ssomuchyoucandoontheweb.Afriendofminesellsthejewelryshemakesonline,andshe’sdoinggreat.Josh:Ontheotherhand,Ineedtoknowhowtomanagemyfinances.Gina:Hmm.Soundslikesixofone,andhalfadozenoftheother.Josh:I’veevenconsideredtakingbothcoursesatthesametime.Gina:You’reabrightguy,Josh.Goforit!Josh:Thedownside,however,isI’dhavetoforkoutalotofmoneyatonce.I’mnotamillionaireyet.Gina:Isupposegoingintodebtinordertolearnhowtomanageyourmoneywouldbedefeatingthepurpose.Thereisn’tacompromise,isthere?Josh:No,it’soneortheother.Anyway,enoughaboutme.Gotanyplansyourself?Gina:Yeah,guesswhat?IenrolledintheHerbalStudiesCertificateProgram.Josh:Howcome?Ithoughtyouintendedtogotomedschool.Gina:Myparentshavetheirheartsetonmebecomingadoctor,butholistichealingandalternativetherapyaremoreupmyalley.Andthegoodthingaboutthecourseisit’sreallyhands-on.Icanhardlywait!Josh:IwishIwasasenthusiastic.Anddecisive.ThemoreIthinkaboutittheharderitgets.Gina:Maybeyoushouldn’tthinkaboutitsomuch.Josh:Yeah,butIdon’twanttomakeadecisionI’llregret.

Page 138: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Gina:Inanycase,youhavetotrustyourself,listentoyourinnervoice.Josh:RightnowallIhearfromtheinsideismystomachgrowling.Gina:Then,let’sgotomyfamily’srestaurant.Mygrandpaalwayssaidnevermakeaharddecisiononanemptystomach.Josh:Soundslikeawiseman.Washeajudge?Gina:No,acook.Hestartedthebusiness.

TopicsforPracticeTalkaboutarecentdecisionyou’vemade:

1.aboutworkorschool;

2.aboutaholidayortrip;

3.aboutyourmoney;

4.abouthowyouvotedinthelastelection;

5.aboutsomethingyouwantedorneededtobuy;

6.thatwasverydifficulttomake;

7.thatwasveryeasytomake;

8.thatinvolvedyourfriendsorfamily;

9.thatrequiredyoutodosomeresearch;

10.thatyouregretorwishyoucouldchange.

Talkaboutyourgoalsorplans:

1.foryourcareerorjob;

2.foryourfamily;

3.foryournextvacation;

4.foryourhealth;

5.foryourretirement;

6.forateam,club,ororganizationyoubelongto;

Page 139: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

7.forthenextfive/ten/twentyyears;

8.tochangesomethinginyourlife;

9.todosomethingyou’vealwaysdreamedof;

10.tolearnsomethingyou’veneverhadtimefor.

VocabularyNotes

Page 140: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

* Forisfollowedbyanoun,whereastointhecaseofexpressingpurposeisnotapreposition,buttheinfinitiveformofaverb:todo/tobe/tolearn,etc.* WhenyouaskaquestionbeginningwithHowcome,youdonotinvertthesubjectandverb.* Thisexpressionoriginatedinthetheaterandmeans“goodluck!”

Page 141: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

PART2PhrasesforDiscussions

“Ouropinionsdonotreallyblossomintofruitionuntilwehaveexpressedthemtosomeoneelse.”

—MarkTwain

Page 142: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

CHAPTER

Opinions

Objectivestoexpressyouropinionandtoaskothersfortheiropinions

toagreeordisagreewithanopinion

tosupportanopinionwithfacts,statistics,andexamples

Marie-ClairehasbeenacceptedintoagraduateprogramataU.S.universitywhereshewillcontinueherjournalismstudies.Sheiswellawareofhowdifficultitwillbetomakeherwayinsuchacompetitivefieldastelevisionjournalism.Evenifshe’sluckyenoughtolandajobinhernativecountryofFrance,shewillnotgoasfarasshehopestoinaglobalenvironmentwithoutadvancedEnglishskills.WhilestillinschoolMarie-Claireattendedintensivesummercoursesin

EnglandandtraveledwidelywithherfamilythroughoutEurope.Shehasbecomeacompetenttranslator,butgoodacademicskillsarenotenoughforher.Inordertoparticipateinresearchprojects,toconductinvestigativeinterviews,tomakeconvincingargumentsinbothspeakingandwriting,andtoexchangeandchallengeopinionsindiscussionsofcurrentaffairs,Marie-ClairemustmasteridiomaticphrasesandemploythemwiththeeaseofanativeEnglishspeaker.

Page 143: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Everyonehasanopinion,andinculturesthatvaluefreedomofspeechpeoplevoicetheiropinionsonanarrayofsubjectsrangingfromthetrivial(theweather,traffic)tomoreserioustopics(education,health)to

controversialissues(globalwarming,capitalpunishment,stem-cellresearch).Givinganopinioncanbeeasy,particularlyifyou“jumponthe

bandwagon”andechopopularpublicopinionorrepeatviewsyouhearorreadinthenews,ontelevision,orathome.Beingabletoexpressaninformedopinionandtomakeaconvincingargumentsupportedbyfactsisasignificantachievementinasecondlanguage.

Phrases

Openers:AskingforanOpinionWhatdoyouthinkaboutthecity’splantoreplacetheoldbridge?

Whatdoyoumakeofthenewcafeteria?

What’syouropinionof/ontheschool’sfoodservices?

What’syourview/take/stand/positiononthechangestoourcurriculum?

Wheredoyoustandondrunk-drivinglaws?

Howdoyoufeelabouttherecentweather?

What’syourreactiontothePresident’sspeech?

I’dliketohearwhatyouthinkabouttheeducationsystem.

I’dlikeanhonestopiniononmypresentation.

StatinganOpinionAnopinioncanbestatedinapersonalwaybyshowingpersonalownership—

Page 144: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

thatis,itisyouropinionandyouwanttostressthat.Youcanalsogiveanopinionintheformofanimpersonalstatementbyputtingforwardwhatsomeoneshouldorshouldn’tdoaboutaparticularissue.

LookattheLetterstotheEditororeditorialsinyourlocalnewspapertoseehowpeopleexpresstheirviewsoncurrentissues.

Ithink/feel/believe/findthattheoldbridgeshouldberepairedinsteadofreplaced.

Isupport/favor/advocate/standfor/opposeelectronicsurveillance.

I’mconvincedthatgunsdon’tbelonginpeople’shomes.

I’mfor/against/opposedtouniversalhealthcare.

Myopinion/position/stand/viewpointonspankingisthatitshouldbeaparent’sright.

Inmyopinion/viewsmokingshould/shouldn’tbeallowedinrestaurantsandbars.

Frommypointofview/perspectivebullyinginschoolshouldn’tbetolerated.

AsfarasI’mconcernedthecityshould/shouldn’tsetupaneedleexchangedowntown.

Ifyouaskme,thepriceofgasolineisoutrageous.

ThewayIlookatitsportshasbecometoomuchlikeabusiness.

AsIseeit/thewayIseethingsgoodmannersshouldbetaughtinschool.

Itseems/appearstomethatchildrenarelosingtouchwithnature.

Someone/theyshoulddosomethingabouthomelessness.

Thefollowingisalistofadverbsthatcanaddstrengthorconvictiontoyouropinions:

absolutely/completely/entirely/firmly/fullydefinitely/forsure/withoutadoubt

Page 145: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

frankly/honestly/personallystrongly/unequivocally

Examples:Ifirmlybelievethatallchildrenshouldbegivenequaleducationalopportunities.

Withoutadoubtthecityneedsamoreefficientpublic-transportationsystem.

Westronglysupportzerotolerancefordrinkinganddriving.

ValueJudgmentsValuejudgmentsarebiasedopinionsbasedonpersonalbeliefsratherthanfactsorreliableinformation.Usuallyvaluejudgmentsarestatementsofwhatisgoodorbad,andtheyarecoloredbyculturalorreligiousbackground,individualpreferences,andexperiences.Becausepeoplecannotbeobjectiveandrationalallofthetime,theyoftenmakevaluejudgmentsandtakethemforinformedopinions.

Valuejudgmentstellusmoreaboutthepersonwhomakesthemthanthesubjectheorsheisdiscussing.Althoughitisdifficultnottomakevaluejudgments,youshouldavoidtheminformaldiscussionsanddebateswhereobjectivityandrationalthinkingarerequired.

Examples:Jonathanisthebestteacherintheschool.Drinkingtoomuchalcoholisbadforyou.SoccerhooligansareabunchofNeanderthals.

GeneralizationsAswellasavoidingvaluejudgments,youshouldbecarefulnottomakehastyorsweepinggeneralizations.Forexample,itisasweepinggeneralizationto

Page 146: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

saythat,becauseawomancausedanaccident,allwomenarebaddrivers,whenthereareofcoursemanywomenwhoareexcellentdrivers.

Inordertobevalid,generalstatementsmustbesubstantiatedbyrepeatedexperienceandacceptedascommonknowledge.

Everyoneknows/itiscommonknowledgethatobesityincreasestheriskofheartdisease.

Ingeneral/generallyspeakingobesityincreasestheriskofheartdisease.

Obesityusually/generally/commonly/moreoftenthannotincreasestheriskofheartdisease.

Asaruleobesityincreasestheriskofheartdisease.

Obesitytendstoincreasetheriskofheartdisease.

Inthemajorityofcasesobesityincreasestheriskofheartdisease.

AgreeingandDisagreeing

AskingforAgreement

Whichopiniondoyousupport/sidewith/agreewith?

Whichsideoftheargumentareyouon?

Whatdoyousaytothat?

Whodoyouagreewith?

Doyouagree/disagree?

Doyouconcurornot?

Doyouseeitmyway?

Areweinagreement?

Areyouwithme?

Agreeing

Page 147: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Disagreeing

Indifference

Page 148: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Idon’tknowwhattomakeofthewholeissue.

Itdoesn’tmattertomeonewayortheother.

It’ssixofoneandhalfadozenoftheother.

It’snotworthgettingexcitedabout.

It’sallthesametome.

Icouldn’tcareless.

SupportinganOpinionAconvincingargumentrequiresthesupportoffacts,figures,andexamples.Otherwise,anunfoundedopinioncancomeacrossinadiscussionasbias,prejudice,orjusthotair.

Afactissomethingthatisdefinitelyknowntobetrue.Withoutthesupportoffacts,anopinionisneithersubstantiatednorconvincing.Becarefultodistinguishbetweenprovenandprobablefacts:

Provenfactsareacceptedandindisputable.

Example:Theearthrevolvesaroundthesun.

Probablefactssoundreasonableandareprobablytrue,buthaven’tbeenproven.

Example:TheMinisterofHealthreportedinhisspeechlastnightthatthegovernmenthasspent30percentmoreonhealthcarethisyear.

Anotherdangeristhatyoucanprobablyfindasmanyfactstoopposeanargumentasyoucantosupportit.Ascientificstudymaybeconvincing,butasyoucontinuallyhearinthenews,researcherscomeupwithnewfindingsthatcancontradictpreviousresults.Intheend,youhavetouseyourjudgmentandcommonsense.

Comparethepreviousvaluejudgmentsinthischapterwiththefollowingfacts:

JonathanhasaBachelorofEducationdegreeand15yearsofteachingexperience.

Page 149: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Asmallamountofalcoholcanimpairpeople’sjudgmentandslowtheirreactiontime.

FIFAhastakendrasticmeasurestocontrolaggressivebehavioramonggroupsoffansatsoccermatches.

Facts

It’sclear/obvious/evidentthattheInternethasbecomeamajorsourceofinformation.

Asamatteroffact/infactInternetuseisgrowingworldwide.

ThefactisthattheInternetisapartofourdailylife.

Clearly/obviouslypeopleusetheInternetmoreandmore.

There’snodoubtthattheInternetwillcontinuetogrowinimportance.

I’dliketopointoutthatwithouttheInternet,communicationwouldbeslower.

FiguresandStatisticsSomefacts,suchastherelationshipbetweenobesityandheartdisease,canbeself-evident;thatis,theydonotrequireadetailedexplanationtoprovetheirvalidity.Nevertheless,figuresandstatisticscanbeusefulwhenyouwanttomakeastrongcasefororagainstanissue.Becausestudiesarebeingconductedonanongoingbasis,besuretoquotethemostrecentandreputableones.

FactsThatExpressNumbersandCosts

Theaverageworldpenetrationofmobilecellphoneusestandsat96.2%.

About13countriesstilldonothaveaccesstotheInternet.

About8.6percent/nearlyone-tenthofInternetusersarelocatedintheUnitedStates.

InEurope8outof10peopleusetheInternet.*

Page 150: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Patientswithanalcoholproblemarenearlyfivetimesmorelikelytodieinmotorvehiclecrashes,16timesmorelikelytodieinfalls,and10timesmorelikelytobecomefireorburnvictims.

Americansaresubjectto$4billionworthofalcoholmarketingeachyear.

In2002,alcoholaccountedformorethan$14.5billioninmedicalcosts,or$463percapita,inCanada.**

FactsConcerningTrendsandChanges

Theyears2002,2003,and2007wererelativelyhighdroughtyears,while2001,2005,and2009wererelativelylowdroughtyears.

Carbondioxideaccountsfor/makesupapproximately80percentofthisincrease.

Greenhousegasemissionsincreasedby17percentfrom1990–2007.

Theprevalenceofextremesingle-dayprecipitationeventsremainedfairlysteadybetween1910andthe1980s,buthasrisensubstantiallysincethen.

Many,butnotall,humansourcesofgreenhousegasemissionsareexpectedtoriseinthefuture.

WhenexaminingtheentireACEIndexdataseriesfrom1950to2009,nocleartrendsincycloneintensityareapparent.

Overtheentireperiodfrom1910to2008,theprevalenceofextremesingle-dayprecipitationeventsincreasedatarateofabouthalfapercentagepointperdecade.*

VerbsThatExpressaChange,orLackofChange

grow/rise/increase/climb/surge/skyrocket

decrease/reduce/lower/decline/drop/dwindle/fall/sink/plummet

remain/stay/holdsteady/stagnate/shownochange/leveloff/freeze

fluctuate/change/vary/goupanddown/see-saw

Page 151: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

AdverbsThatExpressaRateofChange

sharply/steeply/dramatically/significantly/measurably/exponentially/suddenly

steadily/constantly/consistently/regularly

gradually/slowly/littlebylittle/incrementally

barely/hardly/minimally/marginally/slightly

ExpressinganInexactNumberorAmount

about/around/circa/intheneighborhoodof/giveortake/thereabouts

approximately/roughly/nearly/closeto/approaching

anestimated/projected/adjusted/relative/ballparkfigure

VagueLanguage

Watchforwordsthatsoundvagueandunconvincing.

kindof/sortof/somewhat/moreorlessimportant

alittle,alittlebitdangerous

He’sanexpertorsomethinglikethat/inaway.

Thisdrugisalittlebitdangerousifusedbychildren.

ReferringtoaSource

Whenyouusefactsandfigures,itisimportanttorefertoyoursources.Withoutareputableauthoritytobackyouup,anythingyousaycanbeconsideredhearsay,andyourargumentwilllackcredibility.

Accordingtoareport/interview/anarticleintheNewYorkTimes/theLancet…

AccordingtotheFDA/theSierraClub/MADD/UNESCO/DoctorSmith/ProfessorJones…

Page 152: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Astudy/researchconductedbytheUniversityofCalifornia/CenterforDiseaseControlandPreventionshows/proves/reveals/concludes/suggests/hasdiscovered/hasdeterminedthat…

Experts/scientists/researcherssay/claim/state/havefoundthat…

DoctorSmith/ProfessorJoneshasbeenreportedassayingthat…

Toquote/citeawell-known/reputable/reliable/credible/expertsource…

Abook/article/reportsaid/stated…

CommonKnowledge

Commonknowledgereferstoknownfactsthatdonotrequireproof.Inotherwords,wecanarriveattheseconclusionsifweuseourcommonsense.

Itiscommonknowledge/wellknownthatsmokingcauseslungdisease.

Everybodyknowsthatsmokingincreasestheriskoflungdisease.

Asyouknow,alcoholconsumptionimpairsone’sabilitytoreactquicklyindangeroussituations.

Becarefulnottoconfusemyths,urbanlegends,andpopularmisconceptions(beliefsthatarewidespreadbutunfoundedandsometimesblatantlyerroneous)withcommonknowledgethatisbasedonfact.Justbecausealargenumberofpeoplebelievesomethingtobetruedoesn’tmakeittrue.

Examplesofurbanmyths:TherearedeadlyalligatorslivingintheNewYorkCitysewersystem.

Youcangethighbysmokingtheinsideofabananapeel.

GivingExamples

Givinganexampleisaneffectivewaytosupportanopinionandtoillustrateapoint.

Example:

Page 153: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Take,forexample,Michel,whobelievesthatmostpeoplearenotawareofhowmuchwatertheywasteathome.

Letmeofferanexample:aleakytoiletcanwaste200gallonsofwaterperday.

Forexample/instancealeakytoiletcanwaste200gallonsofwaterperday.

Asanexample/thatisaleakytoiletcanwaste200gallonsofwaterperday.

Take,forexample,aleakytoilet,whichcanwaste200gallonsofwaterperday.

Inthecaseofaleakytoilet,upto200gallonsofwaterarewastedinaday.

One/anotherwaywewasteupto200gallonsofwateradayisbynotfixingaleakytoilet.

Inparticularaleakytoiletcanwaste200gallonsofwaterperday.

Let’ssayyouhavealeakytoilet.Youcanwasteupto200gallonsofwatereveryday.

Ifyouhavealeakytoilet,thenyoucanwasteupto200gallonsofwatereveryday.

IdentifyingFactorsandReasons

ThedominantfactoraffectingU.S.emissionstrendsisCO2emissionsfromfossilfuelcombustion.

Onefactor/contributor/reasonforrisingCO2emissionsisthecombustionoffossilfuel.

Fossilfuelcombustioncontributesto/accountsfor/isresponsibleforrisingCO2emissions.

RisingCO2emissionsareattributedtofossilfuelcombustion.

ThereasonwhyCO2emissionshaverisenisfossilfuelcombustion.

Page 154: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Fossilfuelsarewidelyusedincombustion.That’swhyCO2emissionshaverisen.

MakinganArgumentAsyourdiscussionproceeds,youwillwanttodevelopyourargumentbyemphasizingoraddingpoints,andpersuadingotherstotakeyourpointofview.Lookatthefollowingphrasesastheycouldbeusedinadiscussionaboutdrunkdriving.

EmphasizingaPoint

I’dliketoemphasize/stress/pointout/repeat/callyourattentiontothefactthatthreeoutofeverytenAmericansareinvolvedatleastonceintheirlifetimeinalcohol-relatedaccidents.

Ihavetostressthefactthat…

Letmetellyou/saythisagain/repeat/reiterate…

Letmemakeitclear/perfectlyclearthat…

AddingaPoint

Inaddition/additionallyanalarmingnumberofdeathsinmotor-vehicleaccidentsareduetodrunkdriving.

Moreover/furthermore…

Afurther/anadditionalpointis…

Also/aswell…

Besides/ontopofthat…

Incidentally/bytheway/onemorething…

Asithappens…

Ihappentoknowthat…

Page 155: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

ReferringtoaPoint

Inregard/relation/response/referencetotheZeroToleranceLaw,implementationhasreducedaccidentscausedbyintoxicatedyoungdriversbyafurther11percent.

Concerning/pertainingtoZeroTolerance…

AsfarastheZeroToleranceLawgoes/isconcerned…

WhenitcomestoZeroTolerance…

MakingQualifications

Dependingonyourpointofview/position/stance/circumstancespenaltiesfordrunkdrivingaretoostiff/lax.

Ifyoutakepenaltiesfordrunkdrivingintoconsideration,thereisagreateffect/noeffectonprevention.

Preventingdrunkdrivingdependsonthepenalties.

Italldependsonhowstiffpenaltiesarefordrunkdriving.

It’samatterofhowstiffpenaltiesarefordrunkdriving.

Relativelyspeaking,penaltiesfordrunkdrivingaretoostiff/lax.

Persuasion

Youhavetoadmit/recognize/considerthatthefactsareindisputable.

Youcan’tignore/overlook/discountthefacts.

Ifyoureallythinkaboutit,you’llhavetoagree/disagree.

Therearemanygood/validreasonstosupport/opposedrunkdrivinglaws.

Anybodywouldagree/see/admitthatthefactsareconvincing.

Itonlymakessense/standstoreasonthatnooneshoulddrinkanddrive.

Thefactsspeakforthemselves.

Page 156: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

SpeakingtheTruth

Frankly/truthfully/candidly/honestlyspeakingdrunkdrivingistakingyourlifeintoyourhands.

Totellyouthetruth…

Thetruthofthematteris…

I’mnotlyingwhenIsay…

YoucanbelievemewhenIsay…

Whetheryoulikeitornot…

Iswear…

SolutionsandRecommendationsWithoutarecommendationorsolutiontoaproblem,anopinionisjustanopinion.

Youcanoffersolutionsandrecommendationsby:

makingasuggestion(seepage97);

usingmodalverbs;

usingotherphrases.

UsingModalVerbs

PositiveStatements

Page 157: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

NegativeStatements

OtherPhrases

Wecansolve/resolve/takecareofairpollutionbyreducingfossilfuelconsumption.

Onesolutiontoairpollutionwouldbetoreducefossilfuelconsumption.

Onewaytosolve/tocutdownon/toputanendto/togetaroundairpollutionwouldbetoreducefossilfuelconsumption.

Istronglysuggest/recommend/proposereducingfossilfuelconsumption/thatwereducefossilfuelconsumption.

Whatweneedistoreducefossilfuelconsumption.

Thekeytocleanerairistoreducefossilfuelconsumption.

Weneedtothinkoutsideoftheboxifwewanttofindarealsolution.

CallingforSolidarity

Weneedtorollupourshirtsleeves/pulltogether/pullourweight.

We’reallinthistogether/inthesameboat.

Wehavetodoourpart/ourshare.

Wecan’tburyourheadsinthesand/standbyanddonothing.

Let’sactnow/dosomethingaboutitbeforeit’stoolate.

ExpressingEmotions

Page 158: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Youaremorelikelytoexpressanopiniononthebasisofhowyoufeelthanwhatyouthinkaboutanissue.Thestrongeryoufeel,themorevocalyoubecome.

Disgust

Ifindracistremarksentirelyunacceptable/revolting/disgusting/off-putting.

Toomuchviolenceinmoviesreallyputsmeoff/turnsmeoff/grossesmeout.

Thefoodhereisgross/revolting/disgusting/sickening.

Dirtybathroomsmakemesick/nauseated.

Crueltytoanimalsturnsmystomach.

Outrage

Thisisincredible/unbelievable/unreal/outrageous!

Haveyoueverheardanythingsoridiculous?

Ican’tunderstandwhy/howanyonecansay/believe/dothat!

Ijustdon’tgetit.

Canyoubelieveit?

Whatdotheythinkthey’redoing?

Don’tmakemelaugh!

Getoutofhere!

Disbelief

Youcan’tbeserious!

You’repullingmyleg/makingitup!

There’snowayonearth!

Page 159: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Yougottabekidding/joking!

Thisispathetic/unbelievable/ajoke!

Dialogue:TheBestIdeaI’veHeardSoFarThisdialogueimaginesacoffeebreakatthelocalcafé.Underlineorhighlightthephrasesfromthechapter.

Bob:So,youguysgoingtothemeetingtonight?Ray:Youmeanthetown-hallmeetingaboutthenewresorttheywanttobuildnearCoralBeach?Tom:ThewayIlookatitaresort’sjustwhatweneed.Bob:Idisagree.Thelastthingweneedissomethingthat’llonlymakemoneyforahandfulofstrangers.Ray:Well,ifyouaskme,aresortwouldbringalotofbusinessintothecommunity.Asamatteroffact,thatmarineresortatBedfordHarbourincreasedtaxrevenuesbymorethan25percent.Tom:Weallknowthistowncoulduseaboostlikethat.Ray:Icouldn’tagreewithyoumore.Asitistherejustaren’tenoughjobstokeepouryoungpeoplehere.Bob:I’mnotsosurearesort’stheanswer.Imeanmostofthejobsareseasonal,low-payingservicejobs.Tom:Inmyopinionaseasonaljob’sbetterthannojob.Besidestouristsneedcafésandrestaurants,andthatmeansbusinessopportunities.Bob:Yeah,butyoucan’tliveoffthetouristsinthewinter.Joe,what’syourtakeonthis?Joe:Quitefranklyitdoesn’treallymattermuchwhatanyofusthink.Ray:Whatdoyoumean,Joe?Joe:ThewayIseeit,thedecision’salreadymade.Thosedevelopershavegotthetowncouncilintheirpocket,andthismeeting’sjustawaytomakeeverybodythinkthey’vegotasay.Bob:Regardless,I’mgoingtothemeetinganyway.Somebody’sgottospeakout.Ray:Goodpoint,Bob.Afterall,itisafreecountry.

Page 160: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Tom:Wellifitwereuptome,I’dgiveitthegreenlight.It’stimewestartedlookingforwardinsteadofbackward.Ray:Yousaidit,Tom.Itseemseverytimesomebodycomesupwithanewidea,everybody’sagainstit.Joe:C’mon,youguys.Rememberourcostoflivingwillgoupaswell.Tom:Andsowillpropertyvalues.Idon’thaveanythingagainstthevalueofmyhousegoingup,doyouguys?Ray:Letmegiveyouagoodexample.IknowacoupleinBedfordHarbourwhosoldtheirhouseforfivetimeswhattheypaidforit.Youhavetoagreethat’saprettygoodreturn.Joe:Butthatalsomeansitcostsfivetimesmoreforayoungcoupletobuyahouse,andhowmanyyoungpeoplecanaffordthat?Ray:WhatdidIsay?Somepeoplejustcan’tlookonthebrightside.Joe:WhattheyshoulddoinsteadismaketheCoralBeachareaintoapark.Tom:Getreal,Joe.Weneedjobs,notparks.Jan:Sorrytointerrupt,butitlookslikeyouguyscouldusesomemorecoffee.Bob:NowJan,that’sthebestideaI’veheardsofar.

TopicsforPracticeWhat’syouropinionof:

1.gambling;

2.womeninthemilitary;

3.divorce;

4.cosmeticsurgery;

5.schooluniforms;

6.extremesports;

7.electriccars;

8.bingedrinking;

9.foreignexchangeprogramsforhigh-schoolstudents;

Page 161: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

10.tattoos?

Howwouldyouasksomeonehisorheropinionon:

1.usingcellphonesincars;

2.customerserviceindepartmentstores;

3.fast-foodrestaurants;

4.violenceinmovies;

5.testingcosmeticsonanimals;

6.recycling;

7.publictransportation;

8.livingtogetherbeforemarriage;

9.advertisingontelevision;

10.Internetdating?

Doyouagreeordisagreewiththefollowingopinions?

1.Childrenshouldlearnaforeignlanguageatanearlyage.

2.Thevotingageshouldbeloweredto16.

3.Peoplewhoarecaughtdrivingwhentheyaredrunkshouldlosetheirlicenseforlife.

4.Peoplewhocollectwelfareshouldhavetodosomekindofjobtoearnthemoneytheyreceivefromthegovernment.

5.Stoppingclimatechangeistheresponsibilityofindustry.

6.Carsthatrunongasolineshouldbephasedoutinfavorofcarsthatuseelectricity,solarpower,andotheralternativefuels.

7.Religionshouldnotbetaughtinpublicschools.

8.Parentsshouldnotbeallowedtospanktheirchildren.

9.ItisdangerousforchildrentousetheInternet.

10.TheOlympicGameshavebecometoocommercial.

Page 162: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

VocabularyNotes

*Source:http://www.internetworldstats.com/stats9.htm.

**Source:Alcohol,TraumaandImpairedDriving,4 thedition,2009.MADD.

Page 163: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

*Source:ClimateChangeIndicatorsintheUnitedStates,EPA,https://www.epa.gov/climatechange/climate-change-basic-information.

Page 164: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

CHAPTER

GroupDiscussions

Objectivestoleadandmanageagroupdiscussion

toparticipateinagroupdiscussion

Anexperiencedsoftwaredeveloperwithastrongmanagementbackground,Abdulazizhasbeenpromotedtothepositionofbusinessdevelopmentandsolutionsmanagerinaspecialistrecruitmentconsultancy.InthischallengingpositionAbdulazizwillhavetheopportunitytousehismanagementandcommunicationskillstoleadaninternationalteamofITandsoftwaredevelopers,andtobuildcruciallinkswithabroadnetworkofpartnersinNorthandSouthAmerica,Europe,theMiddleEast,Africa,andAsiaPacific.DuringhisstudiesintheUnitedStates,Abdulazizdevelopedasolid

commandoftechnicalEnglishandheisconversantinbusinessterms.Nowthathewillbeco-coordinatingandconductingworkshops,seminars,planningsessions,andbusinessdiscussionsprimarilyinEnglish,Abdulazizneedsabroaderrangeofphrasesinordertokeephisteamontrackandtoconsultwithseniormanagement.

Page 165: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Groupdiscussionsareanintegralpartofyourdailycommunicationonalllevels:personal,business,andpolitical.Throughmeaningfuldiscussions,younotonlyexchangeideasandformulatesolutions,but

youhavetheopportunitytotestthemoutonothersandreceivevaluablefeedback.

Phrases

Openers:OpeningtheFloor

LeadingaDiscussionWithoutacapableleader,agroupdiscussioncaneasilybecomeafree-for-allthatendsinfrustrationanddissension.Toassurethattimeisusedproductivelyandthatallparticipantscontributeinarespectfulandmeaningfulway,askillfulleadershouldbeableto:

providebackgroundinformation,includingfactsaboutthesituationorproblemtobediscussed;

giveeveryoneadequateandequalchancetospeak;

Page 166: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

fieldanddirectquestions;

limitthetimeindividualsspeakandpreventonepersonfrommonopolizingthediscussionorinterruptingunnecessarily;

keepparticipantsontopic;

askspeakerstosupporttheiropinionswithfactsorargumentsandtoexplainapointthatothersmaynotunderstand;

askforagreementordisagreementfromotherparticipantswherenecessary;

summarizeatintervalsorhaveoneoftheparticipantssummarizethemainpointsdiscussedsofar;

takeavoteonmattersthatrequireadecisionormotion;

guideparticipantsinarrivingataconclusionorconsensus.

SettingtheTopic

Todaywe’regoingtodiscuss/talkabouttheupcomingtradefair.

We’reheretodaytodiscussthematterof…

Nowthateveryone’shere,let’sgetdowntothebusinessof…

Asyouknow,thismeetinghasbeencalledtodiscuss…

Ourtopicfortoday’sdiscussionis…

BackgroundInformation

We’llbeginwiththeminutesofthelastmeeting/asummaryofourlastdiscussion/arundownofwhat’shappenedsincelasttime.

Ourlast/previousdiscussion/meetingconcludedwiththedecisiontochangeourwebsite.

Beforewegetstarted,letmegiveyouanupdateonoursalescampaign.

Asyouallknow,lasttimewediscussed/talkedabout/wentoverthenewschedule…

Page 167: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

GivingaSpeakertheFloor

AskingforComments

Whohassomethingtosaytothatlastremark/comment/point?

Doesanyoneelsehaveanythingtosay/toadd/tocontribute?

Whowouldliketomakeacomment?

Anyfurthercomments/points/remarks?

Comments,anyone?

FieldingQuestions

AskingforResponsestoQuestions

Page 168: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Who’dliketoanswer/take/respondtothequestion?

Doesanyonehaveananswer/response?

CouldIhavearesponse/replytothequestion?

Let’shavesomefeedbackonthelastpoint.

Anycomments?

ParticipatinginaGroupDiscussionAsaparticipantinagroupdiscussion,eachmembershould:

trytomakepointsclearlyandconcisely;

waithis/herturntospeakwithoutinterruptingunnecessarily;

avoidmonopolizingthediscussionevenifhe/shehasalottosayonthetopic;

respectotherpeople’sopinionsandtheirrighttotheseopinions;

respecttheroleoftheleaderandtrynottotakeover.

StatingaPosition

SeeStatingandOpinion,page147,formorephrases.

ReferringtoOtherParticipants’Points

Asyousaid/putit/mentioned…

Accordingtoyouropinion/yourcomment/whatyou’vejustsaid…

Torefertoyourlastcomment/point…

AskingaQuestion

Page 169: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

IntroducinganOpposingArgument

Whatyousaidmaybepossible/true,butifyoulookat/considerthefacts…

Iunderstandyourposition,butdon’tyouthink…

Iagreeinprinciple,butyoushouldconsider…

Yourpointiswelltaken,but…

That’savalidpoint,but…

Iseeyourpoint,but…

Ontheotherhand…

MakingContradictions

Yourstatement/remarkclearlycontradictstheevidence.

I’mafraidIhavetocontradict/challengeyouonthis.

Ifyoulookatthefactsyou’llseethattheopposite/thecontraryistrue.

Didn’tyouknow/weren’tyouawarethatthefactsproveotherwise/theopposite?

That’swrong/false/justnotthecase.

Contrarytowhatyousaid…

Onthecontrary…

Page 170: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

MakingObjections

CriticizingYourOpponent

Itisclear/obvioustousthatyouareunabletoseethedifferencebetween…

I’mafraidyoulackaclearunderstandingoftheimportanceof…

Youdon’tseemtograsp/realizethefullimportanceof…

Howcanyoupossiblypropose/believesuchanidea?

Don’tyouthinkyoushouldbemoreopen-minded?

Don’tbeunfair.

Page 171: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

AskingforJustification

Idon’tknow/see/understandhowyou’vecomeupwiththat.

Onwhatgroundsdoyoumakethatassumption?

Howdidyoucomeupwith/arriveat/figurethat?

Wheredidyougetthatidea/thosefacts?

Whatreasondoyouhavetosaythat?

Whydoyouthinkso?

Howcome?

RespondingtoaPointorQuestion

IfImay,I’dliketoanswer/respond/replytothequestion/makeacomment.

I’dliketoaddressthepoint/theissuebysayingthat…

There’ssomethingI’dliketosayinresponse.

Iwantto/needtomakesomethingclear…

RedirectingaQuestion

What/howaboutyou?

Andyou?

Yourself?

InterruptionsAtsomepointinthediscussionyoumaywanttoaddapointoraskaquestionwhilesomeoneelseisspeaking.Insteadofbuttingin,therearephrasesthatyoucanusetointerruptpolitelyandrespectfully.Ontheotherhand,theremaybeoccasionswhenyouneedtobemoredirect.

Page 172: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Interrupting(Participants)

ReactingtoInterruptions(Participants)

HandlingInterruptions(Leader)

Page 173: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

ClarificationandExplanations

AskingforClarification

Page 174: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

GivingClarification

WhatImean/meanttosayisweneedtocutcoststostaycompetitive.

WhatI’mtryingtosay/togetatis…

ThisishowIseeit…

Iwasreallytryingtosay…

Letmeclearthisup/makethisperfectlyclear…

It’sasclearas/asplainasday.

Anyonecanseethat…

AskingforExplanations

GivingExplanations

Letmeexplain/putitdifferently/rephrasethat.

Tobeginwiththis…

Firstofall…

Foronething/foranother…

It’slikethis…

Page 175: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Thatistosay…

Namely…

(SeeGivingExamples,page159,formorephrases.)

Rephrasing

WhatImeanto/intendedtosayis…

Letmeputitthisway…

Bythis/thatImean…

Inotherwords…

Anotherwaytolookatit…

Misunderstandings

AskingforRepetition

Wouldyoupleaserepeatthat/saythatagain/speakup/slowdown?

Doyouthinkyoucouldrepeatthat/gooverthatagain?

Couldyourunthroughthatagain?

I’mafraidwemissedthat/couldn’thear/didn’tcatchthat.

Ibegyourpardon.

Pardonme.

Dependingonthetoneofvoice,PardonmeorIbegyourpardoncanalsomeanIdon’tbelievewhatI’mhearingandindicatesthatthespeakerisshocked,offended,orsurprised.

NotUnderstanding

Page 176: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Whatareyougettingat?

IthinkI’mmissingsomethinghere.

Thatdoesn’tseemtomakesense.

I’mafraidIdon’tunderstand.

That’sbeyondme/overmyhead/allGreektome.

Ican’tmakeheadsortailsofthis.

Ihaven’tgotthefoggiest/faintestidea.

Idon’tget/didn’tgetthatatall.

Canyousay/putthatinplainEnglish?

CheckingforUnderstanding

ConfirmingUnderstanding

So,whatyou’resayingisthis…

SoletmeseeifI’vegotthisright…

Sowhatyou’vesaidinfactis…

Iunderstand/see/getit/hearyouloudandclear.

Igetthemessage/picture/idea/drift.

Iseewhereyou’recomingfrom/you’regoingwiththis.

Right/allright.

Page 177: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

ClearingUpaMisunderstanding

ManagingtheDiscussionWhenthediscussiongetsgoing,theleaderwillwanttomakesurethatparticipantsstayfocusedandontrackandthatnoteveryonetalksatonce.Intheeventofaheateddiscussion,agoodleadermayhavetocalmdownparticipantsandrestoreorder.

FocusingontheMainIssue

Themain/primary/realproblem/issue/concernishowtoraisemoremoney.

Theessence/cruxofthematter/mostimportantthingis…

Itallcomesdownto…

Thebottomlineis…

GettingAttention

Ifyou’llexcuseme/lendmeanear/payattentionforamoment.

Page 178: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

CouldIhaveyourattention,please?

Wouldeveryonestoptalkingforamoment?

Noweveryone,listento/hearthis.

Attention,everybody!

Listenup!

Quietnow!

GettingBackonTrack

AskingforBrevity

Couldyoubebrief?

Couldyougettothepoint/spareusthedetails?

Howaboutputtingthatinfewerwords?

Whatareyoutryingtosayexactly?

What’syourpoint?

Page 179: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Cuttothechase.

DefusingaSituation

We’dbettertakeabreather/atime-outfirst.

Maybeweshouldallcoolofffirst.

Let’scalmdown/keepalevelhead.

Let’snotjumpoffthedeepend/getallwoundup/getaheadofourselves.

Let’snotflyoffthehandle/getcarriedaway.

Don’tgetyourshirt/shortsinaknot.

Keepyourshirton!

Wouldyoumind/watchyourlanguage?

Thatremarkwasuncalledfor.

RestoringOrder

Couldwehavesomeorderplease?

Willeveryonecalmdown/settledown?

Let’snotalltalkatonce!

Quietdown!

Silence/order,please!

InConclusionWhereasaninformaldiscussioncanendinasimplesummaryorconclusion,amoreformaldiscussionatworkorinanorganizationwillprobablyendinanofficialdecisionthatrequiresmemberstomakeamotionandtovote.

Summarizing

Page 180: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Tosummarize/sumup/recap…

Inbrief/short/summary…

Tomakealongstoryshort…

Longstoryshort…

Sofar…

Inanutshell…

DrawingConclusions

Toconcludeourdiscussion,itlooksliketheprojectwillcomeinunderbudgetafterall.

Therefore/thus/sowecanconcludethat…

It’ssafetosaythat…

Inconclusion…

Allinall/allthingsconsidered…

Altogether/overall…

Therefore/thus…

Theupshotis…

LastWords

Wouldanyoneliketomakeonelastcomment?

Arethereanylast/finalwordsonthematter?

Nowisthechancetomakeafinalcomment.

Thisisyourlastchance.

Speaknow,orforeverholdyourpeace.

Anylastcomments?

MakingaMotion

Page 181: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

I’dliketomove/tomakeamotionthatweincreaseourmembershipfeesby10percent.

Imove/resolvethat…

Isecondthemotion.

AskingforaVoteorConsensus

Couldwehaveashowofhands?

Who’sinfavor/against?

Areweallinagreement?

Allinfavorsayyes/yea.

Allagainstsayno/nay.

Arethereanydissenters?

For/against?

WrappingUp

I’dliketothanktheparticipantsfortheirinput/contributions.

Iappreciateyourinput/participation/contributions.

Thanksforcoming/beinghere/takingpart.

Goodjob,everybody.

EndingtheDiscussion

Page 182: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Dialogue:TheHolidayPartyUnderlineorhighlightthephrasesfromthechapter.

Will:Nowthateveryone’shere,I’dliketobeginbythankingallofyouforbeingontime.Asyoucanseefromtheagenda,ourfirsttopicisthisyear ’sChristmasparty.Hasanyonegotanyideasthey’dliketoshare?Erin:Sure,I’dliketoseeusdosomethingalittledifferentthisyear.Ken:Why,what’swrongwithgoingtotheplacewealwaysgoto?Erin:Justthat.It’sthesamerestaurant,samefood,sameatmosphere.Ken:FarasIknowyou’retheonlyonewhodoesn’tlikeit.Erin:Don’tgetmewrong.Ididn’tsayIdidn’tlikeit.Ken:Well,that’swhatIunderstood.Will:Let’shearfromtheothers,okay?Commentsanyone?Deb:Idon’thaveanyobjectionstotryingsomethingelse.Erin,whatdidyouhaveinmind?Erin:Well,foronethingwecouldhavethepartyhere—Ken:Here?Intheoffice?Whatfor?We’rehereallthetime.Will:LetErinfinishfirst,ifyoudon’tmind,Ken.Erin:AsIwassaying,wecouldhavethepartyhere,havethefoodcatered,playsomegames,maybeevensomemusic.Deb:Ithinkgameswouldliventhingsup,andwe’dallhaveabetterchanceto

Page 183: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

mixthanwhenwe’restuckbehindatableforacoupleofhours.Tina:Icanseeyourpoint,Erin,butsomebodywouldhavetoorganizeeverythingandthat’salotofextrawork.Erin:Idon’tmind.Will:So,ifIunderstandcorrectly,Erin,you’dliketotakeiton.Erin:Ifit’sokaywitheveryoneelse,sure.Tina:I’dbegladtogiveyouahand.Will:Beforewetakeavote,doesanyonehaveanyfurtherquestionsoranythingtoadd?Ben:Actually,ifIcouldgetawordinedgewise.Will:Thefloor ’syours,Ben.Ben:I’vebeenthinking.Ifwehadthefoodcatered,there’dbemoremoneyfordrinks,right?Erin:I’dneedanestimateonthecatering,butwe’dhavemoneyleftover.Tina:Will,I’vegotaquestion.Will:Goahead,Tina.Tina:Idon’tknowhowwellgameswouldgoover,soIwaswonderingifyoucouldtelluswhatyou’resuggesting?Erin:Wedon’tnecessarilyhavetoplaygames.MaybeIcouldcomeupwithacontest.Ken:LikeguessthenamesofSanta’sreindeer?Deb:C’mon,Ken.Youdon’thavetobesarcastic.Will:Okay,everyone.Let’srememberit’sChristmaswe’retalkingabout.Tina:Iknow!Whydon’tweexchangepresents?Wewouldn’tneedtospendmorethanfivetotendollars.Deb:Yeah,andsomeonecandressuplikeSantaClaus.Will:Hey,nowwaitaminute.Don’teverybodylookatme!

TopicsforPracticeWithagroupoffriendsorclassmates,discuss:

1.thedetailsofatripyou’dliketotakeonaholidayweekend;

Page 184: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

2.howyou’dliketocelebratesomeone’sbirthday,awedding,oraspecialoccasion;

3.howyouwouldsolvetrafficproblemsinyourcity;

4.whatyouwoulddoifyouwonthelotteryasagroup;

5.whatchangesyouwouldliketoseeatschoolorwork;

6.howyoucanprepareyourselfforanemergencysituationsuchasanearthquake,hurricane,orfire;

7.whatstepsyoucantaketogethertodosomethingfortheenvironment;

8.howyoucanraisemoneytosupportacharitableorganization;

9.whoyouwanttovoteforinthenextelection,andwhatyoucoulddotosupportthecandidate;

10.howyoucanmaketheworldabetterplace.

VocabularyNotes

Page 185: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation
Page 186: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

CHAPTER

SeriousSubjects

Objectivestodiscusscomplaints,demands,mistakes,causes,andconsequences

toapologizeandmakeamends

toexpresscertaintyandpossibility

HavinggrownupinRiodeJaneiro,Gabrielaisusedtomakingcontactwithtouristsfromallovertheworld.Tohelpfinanceherstudiesinhotelandtourismmanagement,sheworkedinlocalrestaurantsandresorthotelswheresheputherschoolEnglishtogooduse.Gabriela’sdreamistostartupherownboutiquehotel,butfirstsheneedsto

acquiremoreexperienceinherchosenfieldand,ofcourse,tobringherEnglishskillsuptoaprofessionallevel.Alreadyonherfirstdayatthefrontdeskofaninternationalhotel,Gabrielawasfacedwithavarietyofcomplaintsandrequestsfromapartyofforeignweddingguests.Sheknewenoughtostaycalm,cool,andcollected,butshefoundthinkingonherfeetinanotherlanguagestressful.Inthosemomentswhenshehadtopacifydemandingguests,therightexpressionsfailedher.Gabrielacameawaynotwantingthesamethingtohappentoheragain.

Page 187: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

InChapters7and8youlearnedhowtoconductstimulatingdiscussionsbasedonanexchangeofopinions.Unfortunately,notalldiscussionscanbepleasantorentertaining,andnotallproblemscanbesolvedthroughadvice

orsympathy,asyoulearnedinChapter5.Attimesyouwillfindyourselfinsituationsthatinvolvebroaderimplicationsandthatrequiresensitivityandtacttoresolve.

Phrases

Openers:CommonConcernsIdon’tknowwhytheydon’tdosomethingaboutthetrafficcongestioninthecity.

They/somebodyshoulddosomethingaboutthecostofliving.

Iwishsomebodywoulddosomethingabouthomelessness.

Thewasteofenergyisintolerable/unacceptable.

Gangviolenceisreallygettingtobeaproblem/hassle/pain.

It’sabouttime/hightimetheybuiltanewbridge.

Don’tyoujusthateitwhenfoodpriceskeepgoingupfornoreason?

Thelackofaffordablehousinginthiscityismypetpeeve.

Whois“they”?InEnglish“they”canrefertogovernmentoranyindefiniteauthoritythatweexpecttosolveaproblemaffectingthegeneralpopulation.

OfferingSolutionstoGeneralProblems

Page 188: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

LevelsofLanguageWhenyouhavetobroachadifficultsubject,youcanendupinawarofwords,oryoucantrythroughtactandcourtesytoresolvetheproblemtothesatisfactionofallpartiesinvolved.Theformerendswithsomebodybeingtheloser;thelattercanresultinawin-winsituation.

Howyougoaboutdiscussingdelicateandserioussubjectsisdeterminedfirstbyyourpersonalstyleofinteractingwithothers,andsecondbythecultureinwhichyouwereraised.Whereasdirectnessisappreciatedinsomecultures,inotherspolitenessandsavingfacearevaluedmore.Inanycase,theleveloflanguageyouemployplaysanimportantroleingettingyourmessage

Page 189: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

across.

Directvs.IndirectLanguageInEnglishchoiceofwordsisimportant,partlybecauseoftheabsenceofafamiliarandunfamiliarsecondpersonpronoun.Youisyou,regardlessofaperson’sage,position,orauthority,andofnumber.ToshowdistanceorrespectintheEnglishlanguage,youcanuseindirect,ratherthandirect,language.Thefollowingexamplesshowhowtoasksomeonetoputouthisorhercigarette.

Usingdirectorindirectlanguagecanmakeadifferenceinsituationswhereyouhavetonegotiateanoutcome.Lookatsomeofthewaysyoucanturndirectintoindirectlanguage:

Direct Indirect

Iwanttohave… Iwouldliketohave…

Idon’twantto. I’dreallyrathernot/I’dprefernotto.

Idon’tlikethat. I’dreallyprefersomethingelse.

Page 190: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Idon’tknow. I’mnotquitesure/I’llhavetocheckonthat.

Youmust/havetoleave.

Isuggest/recommendthatyounotstaymuchlonger.

Don’tuseyourcellphone.

I’dappreciateitifyou’drefrainfromusingyourcellphone.

Stoptalking! Wouldyoumindnottalking?

Ican’t. I’mafraidit’snotpossible.

Wehavenochoice. Weareforcedunderthecircumstancesto…

No! Letmethinkaboutthis.

That’sbad. That’snotparticularlygood.

Wecanalsotempermeaningbyaddingthefollowingwordsasadjectivesoradverbs:

alittle,alittlemore/less

somewhat/rather

perhaps/maybe

Itmight/maybe

particularly/terribly/really/allthatmuch

Examples:

Ifindthesituationsomewhat/ratherannoying.

Perhaps/maybeyoucouldmakeafewchangestotheschedule.

We’dappreciateitifyou’dbealittlemoreaccommodating.

Idon’treallycareforthisseatingarrangement.

Saying“No”Nicely

Anegativeanswercanbethesimplestandperhapsthemosthonestone,buttherearetimeswhenitmaybenecessarytowordarefusalinmilderlanguage.

Page 191: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

I’dliketojoinyou,butIreallyhavetobesomewhereelseinafewminutes.

Sorry,butIdon’tthinkIcanfindwhatyou’relookingfor.

I’mafraidIcan’ttakeyourcallatthismoment.

I’dreallyrathernotgointothedetailsifyoudon’tmind.

Thanks,butasubstituteisnotwhatIhadinmind.

BeingPositive

Inunpleasantandstressfulsituationsyoucaneasilyseeonlythenegativesideofthings.Althoughoptimisminsuchcircumstancescanappearinappropriate,atalentformaintainingapositiveattitudecanrelievestressandrelaxtension.

I’msure/convinced/positivethatyourinsurancewillcoverthedamage.

Onthebrightside/onapositivenote…

Lookingatthepositiveside…

Optimisticallyspeaking…

Tobeoptimistic/positive…

Irony,Sarcasm,andEuphemismDependingonthetoneofvoice,however,indirectlanguagecanbeturnedintodirectlanguage.Whatmaysound“nice”mayconveyquitetheopposite.Englishspeakersoftenuseirony,sarcasm,tongue-in-cheek,andeuphemismsthatnon-nativeEnglishspeakersmayfinddifficulttointerpret.Takealookatthefollowingexamples:

Irony(usingwordsthatmeantheoppositewiththeintentionofbeingwittyorfunny)

Examples:(afterthreedaysofsolidrain)Don’tyoujustlovetherain?(aboutuncleardirections)Thesedirectionsareasclearasmud.

Page 192: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Sarcasm(usingsharpwordsthatmeantheoppositewiththeintentionofmocking,insulting,orwounding)

Examples:(toaslowwaiter)Youreallydidn’thavetobeinsuchahurry!(tosomeonewhohasn’tcalledyouinalongtime)Iwaswonderingifmaybeyou’dhadyourphonedisconnected.Youneverseemtouseit.

Tongue-in-cheek(sayingsomethingthatonedoesn’tmeanseriously,andindicatingsowithafacialexpressionsuchasawink)

Examples:(tosomeonewhohasahangover)My,youlookfreshandbouncythismorning!

(pretendinginnocence)Idon’tknowwhatyou’retalkingabout.

Euphemism(usingmildwordsforsomethingunpleasantoroffensive)

Examples:Wehadaminordisagreement(insteadofbigfight).Carthieftopoliceman:“ButIwasonlyborrowingit”(insteadofstealing).

HumorinEnglish-languagecultures,particularlywhatisknownas“black”or“gallows”humor,isbasedonsarcasmandirony,andsitcomsandcomedyroutinesarefullofexamples.Non-nativespeakerswillwonderwhat’ssofunny,especiallywhenanativeEnglishspeakerappearstobeveryseriousandsayssomethingironic,sarcastic,oreuphemisticwithastraightface.Asanon-nativespeaker,youwillnotbeexpectedtouselanguagelikeanativespeaker,butyoushouldbeawareofthesignals.Themorepositiveorpleasantaremarksounds,oftenthemorenegativethemeaning.

CommonRejoindersUsedIronicallyorSarcastically

Ohreally?

Howaboutthat!

Youdon’tsay!

Iwouldneverhaveguessed!

Well,I’llbe!

Page 193: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Isn’tthatnice/lovely/justwonderful!

Howkind/sweet/considerate/thoughtful/interesting!

I’veneverbeensohappy/glad/pleasedinallmylife.

Thankyouverymuch!

ComplaintsandDemandsInadditiontodiscussingpersonalproblems,asyoulearnedinChapter5,youwillfindyourselfhavingtodealwithproblemsthatinvolveotherpeople.Perhapsyou’redissatisfiedwiththeserviceyoureceivedinastore,orsomeonemadeamistakethatnegativelyaffectsyou.Complaintsanddemandsrequireadegreeoftactanddeterminationwhenyouwanttogetyourpointacross.

MakingaComplaint

Iwishtoexpressmydissatisfaction/disappointmentwith/concernaboutthechargesonmylaststatement.

Iwant/wishtocomplainabout/toobjecttothenoiseinthebuilding.

I’dliketofile/tolodgeacomplaintagainstmylandlord.

Thereseemstobeaproblemwith/mistakeonmyinvoice.

Ihaveacomplaint/beefabout/anissuewiththerepairsthatweredonetomycar.

I’mupset/unhappy/dissatisfied/displeased/annoyedwithmyorder.

I’mhavingaproblemwithmycableservice.

Myprescriptionisnotokay/inorder/howitshouldbe.

Somebodymesseduponmypointscard.

AskingforDetails

Whatexactly/specificallyseemstobethematter/theproblem?

Page 194: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Whatistheexactnatureofyourcomplaint?

Canyougivemeadetailedaccountoftheevent?

Canyouprovideuswithdetails/specifics?

What’sallthefuss?

RespondingtoaComplaint

I’llseewhatIcandoaboutit.

We’lltakecareof/seetoitrightaway.

We’reheretohelpyou.

I’msurewecanworkthisout/gettothebottomofthis.

ShowingUnderstandingorAgreement

Seepage96forphrasestoshowsympathyandunderstanding,andpage152foragreeingwithanopinion.

Misinformation

Iwasled/madetobelievethattheservicewasincludedintheprice.

IwasundertheimpressionthatIwouldreceiveairmiles.

Ithought/understoodthattherewerenointerestchargesonthebalance.

Iwastold/informedthatanagentwouldtakecareofthematter.

They/someonetoldmethattherewerenoextraservicefees.

StatingaRequest

Page 195: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

MakingDemands

BeingFirm

That’soutofthequestion.

Page 196: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

I’mnotbudging/moving/givinganinch.

I’mstickingtomyguns.

Iinsistonmyrights.

He’splayinghardball.

Youdriveahardbargain.

RulesandConditionsWhenyouenterintoagreementsorarrangementswithotherpeople,itisnecessarytostatetherulesandconditionsinspecificanddetailedlanguagesothateveryoneknowswhatisexpectedofhimorher.

Conditions

Ifyousignathree-yearcontract,youwillgetacellphoneforfree.

Unlessyousignathree-yearcontract,youwillhavetopayextraforthecellphone.

Youwillgetafreecellphoneprovided/ontheconditionthat/giventhatyousignathree-yearcontract.

Aslongasyousignathree-yearcontract,youwillgetacellphoneforfree.

Subjectto/dependingonthecontract,youeitherwillgetacellphoneforfreeorhavetopayextraforit.

Thecostofthecellphonedependson/iscontingentuponthelengthofthecontract.

Thetermsofthecontractstatethatyoumustsignathree-yearcontractinordertogetafreecellphone.

RulesandRegulations

Parkingisnotpermitted/allowedonthisstreet.

Page 197: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Smokingisprohibited/forbidden/bannedonairplanes.

Accordingtotherules/lawyoumaynotusehandhelddeviceswhiledriving.

Therulesstate/saythatyoumaynot/youarenotallowedtouseahandhelddevicewhiledriving.

Useofthepoolandwhirlpoolwillbelimitedtothehoursbetween10:00a.m.and4:00p.m.

Allguestsandresidentswillbeliableforanydamagetotheproperty.

Noreturnsonsaleitems.

Importance

Itisimportant/necessary/essentialtoreadthetermsoftheagreementcarefully.

Especially/particularly/importantly/firstlyyoushouldreadthetermsoftheagreementcarefully.

Firstandforemost/aboveall/inparticularyoushouldreadthecontractcarefully.

Whateveryoudo,readthecontractcarefully.

Thisinquiryhashighpriority.

BadNewsandGoodNewsAccordingtoapopularsaying,nonewsisgoodnews.Deliveringgoodnewscanbeapleasanttask,whereasbreakingbadnewsisdifficult,especiallywhenyouriskhavingtodisappointorangeranotherperson.Inbothcases,youcanuseavarietyofphrasesthatwillfitthesituation.

BadNews

Iregrettosay/toinformyouthattherehasbeenanaccident.

Page 198: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Ihatetobreakthistoyou,but…

I’msorry/afraidtohavetosaythat…

I’mnotsure/don’tknowhowtotellyouthis,but…

Itgivesmenopleasureatalltotellyouthat…

IwishIhadanotherwaytobreakthistoyoubut…

Unfortunately/regrettably/apparently…

Itseems/appearsthat…

Forsomereason/someoddreason…

Youmaynotwanttohearthis,but…

AvoidinganUnpleasantSubject

Doyouthinkyoucouldchangethesubject?

Can’twetalkabout/discussthissomeothertime?

DoIhavetohear/listentothis?

I’mreallynotinterested.

That’snotwhatIneedtohearrightnow.

Sparemethedetails.

Keepittoyourself!

ChangingtheSubject

Ifyoudon’tmind,I’dliketochangethesubject/topic.

Itwouldbeniceifwechangedthesubject/topic.

Could/canwechangethesubject?

Can’twetalkaboutsomethingelse?

Haven’twediscussed/talkedaboutthisenoughalready?

Howaboutswitchingtoanothersubject/topic/somethingmorepleasant?

Page 199: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

GoodNews

Fortunately/luckilynoonewashurtandnothingvaluablewaslostinthefire.

Asluckwouldhaveit…

Onthegood/positive/brightside…

Luckyforyou…

Itturnedoutthat…

Today’syourluckyday!

CausesandConsequencesTheexpectedresultorconsequenceofaparticularactionisanimportantfactorinanyin-depthdiscussion.Beforeyoucanarriveatanacceptablesolution,youwillalsowanttoinvestigatethecauseoftheproblem.

CauseandEffect

Maildeliverywillbedisruptedbecause/since/asthereisapostalstrike.

Maildeliverywillbedisruptedbecauseof/dueto/asaresultof/onaccountofthepostalstrike.

There’sapostalstrike;therefore/asaresult/consequentlymaildeliverywillbedisrupted.

Duetothefactthatthere’sapostalstrike,maildeliverywillbedisrupted.

Aslongasthere’sapostalstrike,maildeliverywillbedisrupted.

ResultsandConsequences

Thepostalstrikecancause/leadto/resultin/beresponsibleforadisruptioninmaildelivery.

Page 200: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Thedisruptioninmaildeliveryisattributedto/couldhappenbecauseof/isadirectresultofthepostalstrike.

Thepostalstrikecouldleadto/resultin/contributetoadisruptioninmaildelivery.

Asaresultof/theconsequenceof/duetothepostalstrike,maildeliverywillbedisrupted.

Theresult/consequence/outcomeofthemailstrikewillbeadisruptioninmaildelivery.

There’sapostalstrike;hence,adisruptioninmaildeliverywilloccur.

Ifnothingisdoneaboutthepostalstrike,therewillbeadisruptioninmaildelivery.

Themailstrikewillendupinadisruptionofmaildelivery.

Worst-casescenariowouldbeadisruptioninmaildelivery.

Effects

Social-networkingaffects/impacts/influencescommunication.

Social-networkinghasaneffect/impact/influenceoncommunication.

Social-networkinghasmade/makesadifferencetocommunication.

Toexpressthedegreeofeffectonethinghasonanother,youcanaddthefollowingadjectives(andadverbs):

Positive Negativemajor/significant minorserious/grave slight/minimalpermanent/lasting temporary

CertaintyandPossibilityNobodycanseethefuture.Nevertheless,beforeyoumakeadecisionorreach

Page 201: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

anagreement,youwillneedtopredicttheoutcomeoratleastconsiderthepossibilities.

Certainty

100percent Ourcandidatewill/won’twintheelection.

99percent Ourcandidatecan’t/couldn’tlosetheelection.

95percent Ourcandidatemust/hastowintheelection.

Ourcandidatecanwintheelection.

75to90percent

Ourcandidateshould/ought/isbound/islikelytowintheelection.

Chancesare/there’sa(good)chanceourcandidatewillwintheelection.

Lessthan50percent Ourcandidatecouldwintheelection.

Ourcandidatemay/mightwintheelection.

MakingDeductionsAboutRecentResults

100percent TheCPI(consumerpriceindex)hasincreased.

TheCPIcouldn’thavedecreased.

95percent TheCPIhastohave/musthaveincreased.

75percent TheCPIcouldhaveincreased.

50percent TheCPImight/mayhaveincreased.

Possibility

Itispossible/feasible/plausibletobuildacityonthemoon.

Page 202: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Someonecan/couldbuildacityonthemoon.

Therearewaystobuildacityonthemoon.

Buildingacityonthemoonisdoable/viable.

Itwouldn’tsurprisemeifsomeonebuiltacityonthemoon.

Impossibility

Itisimpossible/unfeasible/implausible/unrealistic/notviabletobuildacityonthemoon.

There’snoway/nopossiblewaythatpeoplecouldbuildacityonthemoon.

Acityonthemooncouldn’t/won’thappeninamillionyears.

Buildingacityonthemoonisridiculous/ludicrous/astretch/apipedream/anillusion/outofthisworld.

Toincreasethedegreeofcertainty/uncertaintyorpossibility/impossibilityyoucanusethefollowingadverbs:

100percent certainly,definitely,absolutely,unquestionably,undoubtedly

80–90percent probably,mostlikely,likely,surely,highly,inalllikelihood

lessthan50percent

perhaps,maybe,possibly,conceivably,foralloneknows

Examples:Therewilldefinitelybesomebigchangescoming.Thegovernmentwillprobablycutsocialprogramstosavemoney.Foralloneknowswecouldrunoutofoilsoonerthanwethink.

Page 203: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

ApologiesandAgreementsAsimpleapologycanbethebestwaytohealhurtfeelingsandmakeamendsformistakesandmisunderstandings.Sorrymaybeasmallword,butsayingyou’resorrycangoalongway.

MakingApologies

DemandinganApology

Youractionscallforanapology.

Iexpect/demand/insistonafull/completeapology.

IthinkI’mentitledtoanapology.

Anyconsideratepersonwouldapologize.

Iwon’tacceptanythingbutafullapology.

ExpressingRegrets

Page 204: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Ishouldn’thavebeensocareless/Ishouldhavebeenmorecareful.

IwishIhadn’tbeensocareless/Ihadbeenmorecareful.

Iregretmycarelessness/havingbeencareless/thatIwascareless.

RegretfullyIwascareless.

Mycarelessnesswasregrettable.

I’msorryaboutmycarelessness.

AcceptinganApology

RefusinganApology

Anapology’sanicegesture,butIneedmorethanthat.

Iexpectmorethanamereapology.

I’msorrybutit’snotenough.

Anapology/nicewordswon’tdoit.

That’sjustaneasywayout.

OfferinganExcuse

Page 205: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

I’dreallyliketohelpyouout,butI’mnotinapositiontodoanythingaboutit.

I’msorry,butit’snotuptome/myresponsibility/mydepartment.

IwishIcould,butit’snotinmypower.

Ididn’thaveanythingtodowithit.

You’llhavetoasksomeoneelse.

There’sreallynothingIcando.

You’vegotthewrongperson/department.

Itmusthavegottenlostintheshuffle/fallenthroughthecracks.

Myhandsaretied.

RecognizinganErrororAccident

MakingAmends

Page 206: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

SettlingDifferences

Howaboutifwesettleourdifferences/thescore?

Ihopetherearenobad/illfeelings.

I’msurewecanironthisout.

Let’sburythehatchet.

Letbygonesbebygones.

MakingCompromises

Weneedsomegiveandtakeonthis.

Canwemeetinthemiddle/halfway?

Let’ssplitthedifference.

Wecanworksomethingout.

It’sawin-winsituation.

ComingtoAgreement

Let’sshakeonit/signonthedottedline.

You’vegotadeal.

Youhavemyword.

Page 207: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

We’regoodtogo/allset.

Wecangiveitthego-ahead/greenlight.

It’sadeal!

Agreed!

Dialogue:AHardBargainUnderlineorhighlightthephrasesfromthechapter.

Landlord:Now,what’sthenatureofyourcomplaint?TenantA:Forthreemonthsnowwe’vebeenputtingupwithconstantnoiseduetorepairworkonthebuildingexterior.Landlord:Iunderstandthatsomerepairworkwastobedoneonthefaçadeandbalconies,anditwillcertainlyimprovetheoverallappearanceofthebuilding.TenantA:Butthere’sbeenconstantbangingandjackhammeringforthreemonthsnow.TenantB:Andbecauseoftheextremenoise,wearefrequentlyforcedtoleavethebuilding.Landlord:That’sunfortunate,butthegoodnewsisitwon’tlastforever.TenantA:Regardlesswe’dliketoknowwhywewereneverinformedbeforewesignedourlease.Ifyou’llremember,weclearlystatedfromtheoutsetthatwebothworkfromhome.TenantB:Underthepresentcircumstances,thenoiselevelcouldpotentiallyimpactourlivelihood.Landlord:Idoapologizefortheinconvenience,butthere’snothingIcandoaboutit.TenantA:Whenweagreedtorentthecondo,wewereledtobelievethatweweremovingintoaquietbuilding.Landlord:Undernormalcircumstances,itisaquietbuilding.Perhapsyoushouldcontactthemanagementcompanywhoisoverseeingtherepairwork.TenantB:Butwesignedtheleasewithyou,notthem.Landlord:Well,ifyouwanttomoveout,youarefreetodoso.

Page 208: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

TenantA:Andpayapenaltyforbreakingthelease?Landlord:Thosearethetermsoftheleaseagreement,yes.TenantB:Consideringthatwe’renotatfaultinallofthis,Idon’tthinkthat’sfairatall!Landlord:Sowhatisitexactlythatyouwantfromme?TenantA:Legallyweareentitledtocompensationforlossofpeacefulenjoyment.Landlord:Well,foryourinformationtheserepairsarecostingmethousandsofdollars,andalthoughI’mlegallyentitledtoraisetherenteveryyear,Ididnotdoso.TenantA:Wecouldgotoarbitration,butwe’dprefertosettlewithyou.Landlord:Iappreciatethegesture,butitputsmeonthespot.IsupposeIcouldofferyoua10percentreductionfromnowuntilyoumoveout.TenantB:ActuallyIwasthinkingofa30percentrentreductionretroactively.Landlord:I’msorry,butthat’soutofthequestion.TenantA:Likewesaid,wecouldgotoarbitration.Landlord:Okay,here’sthedeal:I’llsplitthedifference,butontheconditionthatIrequireonefullmonth’snotice.TenantA:That’sunderstood.(ToTenantB)I’mokaywiththatifyouare.TenantB:Well,it’snotexactlywin-win,butIguessit’sbetterthannothing.

TopicsforPracticeChangethefollowingintoindirectlanguage:

1.Idon’tlikethat.

2.Theserviceinhereisterrible.

3.Youmadeamistake.

4.Idon’tunderstandyou.

5.It’sallyourfault!

6.Whatastupididea!

7.Ican’thelpyou.

Page 209: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

8.That’sridiculous.

9.Idon’tknow!

10.Whatdoyoumean?

Howwouldyoucomplainabout:

1.amistakeonyourphonebill;

2.apackagethatyoureceivedbymistake;

3.havingtowaitalongtimetogetanappointment;

4.abadmarkonanunfairtestpaper;

5.poorserviceinarestaurant;

6.aheatingsysteminyourofficeorhomethatdoesn’tworkproperly;

7.havingbeenoverchargedforacarrepair;

8.lostluggageattheairport;

9.rushhourtrafficinyourcity;

10.ongoingconstructionnoiseinyourofficeorapartmentbuilding?

VocabularyNotes

Page 210: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

* Theverbtoinsistisanotherofthefew,liketorecommendandtosuggest,thattakethesubjunctive.Seepage98.

Page 211: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

PART3PhrasesforSpecialOccasions

“Goodwordsareworthmuch,andcostlittle.”

—GeorgeHerbert

Page 212: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

A

CHAPTER

SpecialOccasions

Objectivestohostinformalandformalgatherings

toextendwishesonavarietyofsocialoccasions

syouhavelearnedintheprevioussections,thereisawidechoiceofphrasesatyourdisposalforcarryingonaconversationordiscussion.Specialoccasions,suchasawardceremonies,birthdays,weddings,

holidays,andmanymore,comewithspecialphrasesthatmaynotbeonthetipofyourtonguewhenyouneedthem.Notknowingtherightwordsattherightmomentcanbeembarrassing,butyoudonothavetobeamotivationalspeakertomasterthoselittlewordsthatoftenmeanquitealot.

Phrases

Openers:WordsofWelcomeGoodmorning/afternoon/evening,ladiesandgentlemen/friends/colleagues/fellowmembers/guests.

Page 213: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

I’dliketowelcomeeveryonetoourmeeting/gathering/celebration.

Welcome,ladiesandgentlemen/everyone.

Hello/hi/greetings,everyone.

It’sgood/nice/greattoseeallofyou.

I’mgladyoucouldallbeheretoday/thisevening.

HonorsandAwardsWhenitcomestopresentingandacceptingawards,youcanfindyourselfatalossforwordsnotonlybecauseyoumaybenervousbutalsobecauseyouwanttosayjusttherightthing.

PresentinganAwardorHonor

ItgivesmegreatpleasuretocalluponElenatoacceptthisaward/scholarship/trophy.

Andtheaward/scholarship/trophygoestoYuan-Ting.

We’regatheredheretopaytributetoagreatfriendandcolleague.

Pleasestandupfor/putyourhandstogetherforAli.

Andnow,themomentwe’veallbeenwaitingfor.

AcceptanceSpeeches

I’mhonored/pleased/thrilledtoacceptthisaward/scholarship/trophy.

It’sagreathonor/pleasureformetoacceptthisaward.

I’dliketothank/toexpressmygratitudetomyparents/family/wife/husband/partners/teachers.

Icouldn’thavedoneitwithoutthesupportofmyparents/family…

Myspeechwouldnotbecompletewithoutawordofthanksto…

Myheartfeltthanks/deepestappreciationgoesoutto…

Page 214: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Announcements

Ladiesandgentlemen,I’mpleasedtoannounce/reportthatthisyearhasbeenaverysuccessfulone.

I’dliketotakethisopportunitytoannouncethewinnersofthecompetition.

Iwanttomakeaspecialannouncementatthistime.

Ifyouwouldlendmeyourearforthisshortannouncement.

CouldIhaveeveryone’sattention?

AJobWellDone

I’djustliketothankeveryonefortheirefforts/ajobwelldone/pitchingin.

IwanteveryonetoknowhowmuchIappreciateyourefforts.

Yourteamefforthasmadesuccesspossible.

You’vealldoneagreatjob.

Waytogo,team!

Congratulations

Congratulationsonyourgraduation/promotion/thebirthofyourchild.

I’dliketocongratulateyouon…

Allthebestforyourstudies/newjob/family!

We’rereallyproudofyou!

Goodshow!

Lotsofluck!

SpecialOccasions

Page 215: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Onelookinthegreeting-cardsectionofanygiftshopordrugstorewillshowyouthenumberofoccasionstherearetocelebrate.Whereasagreetingcardmayexpresswhatyoumeantosaymorepoeticallyandevencleverly,themostsincerewishesarethoseyoudeliveryourselfinsimple,personal,andheartfeltlanguage.

Toasts

Let’sdrink/raiseaglasstothebrideandgroom.

Here’satoasttothehappycouple/thegraduates.

Here’stoyou!

Birthdays

Wewishyouahappybirthday!

Allthebestonyourbirthday!

Bestwishesonyourbirthday!

Manyhappyreturns!

HappyBirthday!

Mayallyourwishescometrue!

WeddingsandEngagements

Congratulationsonyourengagement/wedding!

Wewishyoualongandhappymarriage/lifetogether.

Allthebestforthefuture.

Ourblessingstoyou!

Youmakealovelycouple!

Anniversaries

Page 216: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

HappyAnniversary!

Mayyouhavemanymoreyearstogether!

GivingaPresent

Pleaseacceptthispresentasatokenofourappreciation/affection.

Here’salittlesomethingforyou.

Thisisforyou.

AcceptingaPresent

That’sverythoughtful/considerateofyou.

Youreallyshouldn’thave.

Youdidn’thaveto.

You’retoomuch!

Ican’twaittoopenit.

Howsweet!

Forme?

Vacations,Holidays,andTripsAlthoughitmaynotbenecessarytowishsomeoneagoodtriporaniceweekend,it’scommoncourtesytodoso.

WishesfortheWeekend,Holidays,andVacation

Haveagood/greatweekend/holiday/vacation.

Haveagoodtime/funonyourholiday/vacation.

Ihopeyouhaveagreatholiday/weekend/vacation.

Enjoyyourvacation.

Page 217: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Haveagreat/safetrip/flight/journey.

Bonvoyage!

WelcomingSomeoneBack

It’sgoodtoseeyou’reback.

Great/nice/goodtohaveyouback.

We’regladyou’reback.

Wemissedyou.

Welcomeback.

NationalHolidays

Christmas MerryChristmas/HappyChristmas/Season’sGreetings!

NewYear ’s HappyNewYear!

Easter HappyEaster!

Thanksgiving HappyThanksgiving!

General HappyHolidays!

DiningAnyonewouldagreethatacelebrationorsocialoccasioninanyculturewouldn’tbethesamewithoutfoodanddrink.

Toasts

Here’stoyourhealth.

Let’sdrinktoyourhealth.

Page 218: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Here’slookingatyou!

Cheers!

Bottomsup!

BeforeaMeal

Althoughyoucanusethefollowingexpressionstowishsomeoneagoodmealor“appetite”beforeameal,thereisnoauthenticexpressioninEnglish,andsoEnglishhasborrowedfromFrench.Infact,peopleinEnglish-speakingcountriesrarelysayanythingbeforeameal.Why?That’sagoodquestiontowhichthisauthorhasn’tfoundagoodanswer.

Ontheotherhand,itismorecommon,particularlyamongChristianfamiliesintheUnitedStates,tosay“grace”beforeameal;thatis,tothankGodoraskHimtoblessthefood.Whilegraceisbeingsaid,peopleatthetablebowtheirheadsinprayerandsometimesjoinhands.

Bonappétit!

Enjoyyourmeal!

Haveanicemeal/goodlunch!

ComplimentingtheHost

Thatwassome/agreatmeal!

Ireallyenjoyedthemeal!

You’reagreat/terrificcook!

Thefoodwasreallydelicious!

Youwentallout/reallyknockedyourselfout!

PersonalNotes

Page 219: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Undoubedtlyyouhavefamily,friends,classmates,colleagues,andacquaintanceswhomeanalottoyou,andonaneverydaybasisyoucanshowthemthatyoucarebysimplysayingsomethingkindandthoughtful.Aswithgivingpresents,it’sthethoughtthatcounts.

PassingonGreetings

Sayhello/hitoyourwife/husband/familyforme.

Givemyregards/bestwishestoyourparents.

Passonmybestwishestoyoursister.

RemembermetoLasse.

Sickness

Saying“Blessyou”aftersomeonesneezesisprobablyoneofthefirstexpressionstodowithhealththatanon-nativeEnglishspeakerlearns.

Ihopeyourecover/getbettersoon.

Takegoodcareofyourself.

Getwell/bettersoon!

FuneralsandaDeathintheFamily

I’msorryforyourloss.

Mysympathies/heartfeltcondolences.

Ourthoughts/prayersarewithyou.

Myheartgoesouttoyou.

You’llbeinourprayers.

Dialogue:HappyBirthday!

Page 220: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Underlineorhighlightthephrasesfromthechapter.

Andy:Okay,everybody.Hereshecomes.(Heturnsofflight.)Ella:(Sheopensthedoor.)Hey,why’sitsodarkinhere?(Sheturnsonthelight.)Together:Surprise!Surprise!Ella:What—Together:HappyBirthday,Ella!Ella:Oh,mygoodness!Maya:Manyhappyreturns!Andy:HappyBirthday,honey!Dave:Allthebest,Ella!Ella:Idon’tbelieveit!Dave:AndherecomesMayawiththebirthdaycake.(Everyonesings“HappyBirthday.”)Ella:My,youshouldn’thavegonetosuchtrouble.Andy:Well,youonlyturn40once.Ella:Iwashopingyou’dallforget.Dave:Thinkofitthisway,Ella:you’renotgettingolder,you’regettingbetter.Ella:Isn’tthatwhattheysayonhaircolorcommercials?Maya:Comeon,Ella,blowoutthecandles,anddon’tforgettomakeawish.Ella:Okay,Iwon’t.Heregoes.(Sheblowsoutthecandles.)Andy:Goodjob!Nowtimeforatoast!(Hehandsoutglassesofchampagne.)Here’stoElla!Dave:Toyourhealthandhappiness!Maya:Andtomanymorebirthdays!Ella:Cheers!(Everyonedrinks.)Ella:Wow,myfavoritechampagne!Thiscan’tgetanybetter.Andy:Waittillyouopenthis.Ella:Youdidn’t!Idon’tknowwhattosay.Andy:Don’tsayanything.Justopenit.

Page 221: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Ella:(Sheopenstheenvelope.)Aspacertificate!Idon’tbelieveit!Honestly,thismakesmyday.Maya:Andhere’salittlesomethingfromustogowithit.Ella:Abathrobe!Youguysaretoomuch.Thanks.(Shegiveseveryoneahugandkiss.)Andy:So,whatdoyousaywegooutfordinnerandcelebrateinstyle?Ella:Whataboutthecake?Andy:Wecansaveitforlater.Dave:So,whatarewewaitingfor?Maya:Ella,Iknowyou’renotsupposedtotell,butwhatdidyouwishfor?Ella:Tobe39again.

VocabularyNotes

Page 222: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation
Page 223: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

PART4PhrasesforTelephoneConversations

“Thetelephoneisagoodwaytotalktopeoplewithouthavingtoofferthemadrink.”

—FranLebowitz

Page 224: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

N

CHAPTER

TelephoneBasics

Objectivestoinitiateandendabasictelephonecall

toperformsimpletasksonthetelephone

WhenThaoandDuongTranimmigratedtoAmerica,theydreamedofstartinguptheirownVietnameserestaurant.Runningarestaurant,however,willrequirethemtoconductmuchoftheirbusinessoverthetelephone,andThaofeelssomewhatintimidatedbytheprospectofdealingwithpeopleshecannotsee.Willsheknowwhattosay?Andwhatifthepersonshe’sdealingwithdoesn’tunderstandher?Orshedoesn’tunderstandthem?Howwillshegettheservicesorsuppliessheneeds?

owthatthetelephonehasdevelopedfromrotarydialtocellularandsmartphones,withalmostasmanymobilephonesubscribersastherearepeopleonEarth,thetelephonehasbecomeindispensableto

personalaswellasbusinesscommunication.

Page 225: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Intermsofcontent,telephoneconversationsdonotdiffergreatlyfromface-to-faceconversations.Thereare,however,specificphrasesusedintelephonecalls,particularlyinformalbusinesssituations.Whatyousayandhowyousayitareimportantnotonlyinmakingagoodimpression,butingettingyourmessageacross.

Phrases

MakingaCallInEnglish-speakingcultures,itiscustomaryforpeopletoidentifythemselvesonthetelephonewiththeirfirstandlastnames.VeryrarelydopeoplerefertothemselvesasMr.,Mrs.,Ms.,andsoon.( SeeIntroducingYourself,page9.)

Inaformalbusinesssituation,youshouldstatebothyournameandthenameofyourcompany,organization,ordepartment.Ifyouareunknowntothepersonwhomyouarecalling,it’sagoodideatogiveyourlastnameaswell.

IdentifyingYourselfastheCaller

Goodmorning/goodafternoon,thisisMaryO’ReillyfromSummitPublishing.

Hello,mynameisStevenNugent.

Hi,it’sKim.

Ifyou’recallingforsomeoneelse,youcansay:

Hello,I’mcallingonbehalfofAdamatBrightmanSecurities.

AskingtoSpeaktoSomeone

I’dliketospeaktoMargaretBurke.

Could/mayIspeakto/withBill?

Wouldyouputmethroughtoanagent/asalesperson?

Page 226: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

CanItalktosomeoneintheinsurancedepartment?

IsBrendain/there?

StatingtheReasonforCalling

I’mcallingabout/concerning/regarding/inregardtoaloanapplication.

ThereasonI’mcallingistoinquireaboutyourrates/makeacomplaint.

Ijustwantedtotouchbase/reachout.

CheckingtoSeeWho’sAnswering

Incaseyou’renotsureifyou’vereachedtherightperson,particularlyifthepersonontheotherendhasn’tidentifiedhim-orherself,youwillneedtoverify.Also,whenyoureceiveacall,theremaybetimeswhenyoudon’tunderstandorcatchthecaller ’sname.

To/withwhomamIspeakingagain?

AmIspeakingtoCustomerService?

IsthisJane/theFergusonresidence?

AskingforanEnglishSpeaker

I’dliketotalktoanEnglishspeaker.

IstheresomeonetherewhospeaksEnglish?

DoyouspeakEnglish?

ReceivingaCallWhenansweringthephoneinamoreformalorbusinesssituation,youshouldgiveinformationinthefollowingorder:

Page 227: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

company,departmentorofficename,andgreeting

speaker ’sname

offertohelp

Statingthecompanyphonenumberisanother,butratheruncommon,waytoanswerthephone.Inaninformalsituation,suchasathome,youcananswersimplywith“Hello.”Somepeoplemayanswerwith“Smithresidence,”forexample,althoughthisisoutdated.

Andremember,it’salwaysagoodideatoputasmileinyourvoicethatwillmakeyousoundfriendlyandhelpfultothecaller.

GivingtheCompany,Department,orOfficeNameandGreeting

Goodmorning/goodafternoon,SummitPublishing.

Hello,CustomerService.

ThankyouforcallingBrewsterandWyman.

GivingtheSpeaker’sName

ThisisErinMaguire.

Seanspeaking.

Marjoriehere.

OfferingtoHelp

Howmay/canIdirectyourcall?

Howmay/canIhelp/assistyou?

CanIbeofassistance?

WhatcanIdoforyoutoday?

Allthreecomponentstogetherwillsoundlikethis:

Goodmorning,SummitPublishing.Erinspeaking.HowmayIdirect

Page 228: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

yourcall?

ThankyouforcallingBrewsterandWyman.HowcanIbeofassistance?

Hello.ServiceCenter.Seanspeaking.WhatcanIdoforyou?

ConfirmingYourselfasthePersonAnsweringaCall

Whenyouanswerthephoneandthecalleraskstospeaktoyou,youcanreply:

Thisisshe/he.

Speaking.

AskingWhythePersonIsCalling

MayIaskwhatyou’recallingabout/inregardto/inreferenceto?

Whatisthenatureofyourcall?

Andwhatisthecallabout/regarding/concerning?

CheckingDetailsWhenspeakingonthephone,youmaymisunderstandormissinformationforavarietyofreasons:backgroundnoise,abadconnection,aperson’saccent,oryourownnervousness.

CheckingtoSeeWho’sCalling

MayIaskwho’scalling?

Whatwasyournameagain?

Andyourname,please?

Interrupting

Excuseme,youweresaying?

Page 229: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Justaminute,Idon’tthinkIgot/understood/caughtthat.

Sorry,Ididn’tcatchthat.

Ibegyourpardon.

Pardonme.

Comeagain.

ABadConnection

I’msorry,weseemtohaveabadconnection.

There’ssomethingwrongwiththisline.

Areyoustillthere/ontheline?

Hello?

AskingthePersontoRepeatDetails

I’msorrytointerrupt,butcouldyouspeakmoreslowly/repeatthat?

I’mafraidI’mhavingtroubleunderstanding.

Wouldyourepeatthatmoreslowlythistime?

Youweresaying?

ConnectingaCallAtworkorathome,thereareoccasionswhenyouwillreachsomeone—asecretary,receptionist,orrelative—otherthanthepersonwithwhomyouwanttospeak.Ifit’sasecretaryorreceptionist,thatpersonshouldautomaticallyconnectyouor“putyouthrough,”or“putyouonhold”untilthepersonisavailable.Dependingonthenatureofthecallandyoursuccess,orlackofsuccess,ingettingwhatyouwant,youcanasktobeconnectedwithsomeoneelse.

Page 230: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

PuttingaCallThrough

Justamoment,please.I’llputyouthrough.

Justaminute.I’llconnect/transferyourcalltoCustomerCare.

Holdtheline,pleaseandI’llseeifBill’savailable/free/in.

Letmetransferyourcalltoanaccountmanager.

Holdon/hangonasec’.I’llgether.

AnnouncingaCaller

IhaveVeronicaGutierrezontheline.

IhaveacallforyoufromaThomasStraub.

BradleyJonesisaskingtospeaktoyou.

It’syourson.

PuttingaCalleronHold

I’msorry,Michel’sonanotherline.Wouldyouliketohold?

Dr.Lennon’llbeacoupleofminutes.CanIputyouonhold?

Doyoumindholding/waitingwhileIpullupyourinformation?

IsitallrightifIputyouonholdwhileIcheckyouraccount?

I’msorrytointerrupt,butcanyouholdwhileItakeanothercall?

Justhangon.

ReconnectingafterPuttingaCalleronHold

Hello,IhaveMichelonthelinenow.

Hello,I’llputyouthroughnow.

Beth,areyoustillthere?

Page 231: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

InformationandServicesTelephonecallsarethemostcommonwaytoobtaininformationeasilyandquickly.

AskingforInformation

I’mcallingtoinquireabout/askaboutyourhoursofoperation.

I’dliketohavetheextensionforMs.Puccini’soffice.

WouldyougivemeJorge’scellphonenumber,please?

Iwaswonderingifyoucouldsendmeyourlatestcatalog.

Canyouprovidemewithanupdatedpricelist?

Ineedsomeinformationabouttravelinsurance.

Whatcanyoutellmeabouttheapartmentforrent?

TelephoneEtiquetteInbusinesssituations,itisimportanttousepoliteformallanguageonthetelephone.

( SeeDirectvs.IndirectLanguage,page202.)

Saying“Please”

Woulditbepossibletospeaktothemanager?

I’dappreciateitifyou’dputmethroughrightaway.

Ifit’snotany/toomuchtrouble/bother.

Ifyoudon’t/wouldn’tmind.

ExpressingThanks

Page 232: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Iappreciateit/that/yourhelp!

I’mverygratefulforyourassistance.

I’dliketothankyouforyourefforts.

Thankyouverymuch/alotforyourcall/returningmycall.

Thanksalot!

Response

Rememberthat“Please”isnotaresponseto“thankyou.”Whensomeonethanksyouforsomething,itiscustomarytoreplywith:

You’rewelcome!(morecommoninNorthAmericathaninGreatBritain)

Mypleasure/Thepleasurewasallmine!

Don’tmentionit!

Notatall!

Noproblem!

( SeeAppreciationandGratitude,page103.)

CallingaWrongNumber

Becausepeoplemoveandforgettochangetheircontactinformation,ortheypressthewrongdigitswhendialing,theycanendupreachingyoubymistake.Orforthesamereasons,youmightreachthewrongperson.

I’msorry,Imusthavethewrongnumber.

Iseemtohavethewrongnumber.

ReceivingaCalltotheWrongNumber

You’vegot/musthavethewrongnumber.

There’snooneherebythatname.

Page 233: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

UnwantedCalls

Unlessyouhaveanunlistednumber(anumberthatdoesn’tappearinatelephonebook),therewillbetimeswhenyoureceiveannoyingcallsfromtelemarketers,polltakers,solicitorsfordonations,andscamartists.

I’msorry,butI’mnotinterested.

Pleaseremovemynumberfromyourrecords.

Don’tcallthisnumberagain.

EndingaCallInadditiontosayinggood-bye,asyouwouldafteranyordinaryconversation,youcanshowyourappreciationforthecallortheperson’sassistance.

Itwasnice/good/apleasuretalkingtoyou.

Ilookforwardtoyournextcall/totalkingtoyouagain.

Iappreciateyourcall/yourassistance/theinformation

Thankyouforcalling.IsthereanythingelseIcanhelpyouwith?

Thanksforyourcall

Good-bye

Byenow

Talktoyoulater/then

Takecarenow

Seeyou!

MakingSmallTalkWhenpeoplearebusy,youdon’twanttowastetimewithirrelevantormeaninglesschitchat.Butsometimes,startingaconversationbyaskinghowthe

Page 234: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

personisandmakingacommentabouttheweather,arecentmeetingorbusinesstrip,asportsevent,orworkcanopenupthelinesofcommunication.Anditisalwaysthoughtfultoshowinterestinwhattheotherperson’ssaying.Someusefulphrasesare:

AskingAboutSomeone’sWell-Being,page22.

Rejoinders,page47.

ShowingInterest,page8.

Dialogue:TouchingBaseA:Goodmorning,MountainTrekking.Jodyspeaking.HowmayIdirect

yourcall?B:Hello,thisisTomSmith.I’dliketospeaktoMarciaGrant.A:Oh,I’msorry,Marcia’sonanotherline.MayIaskwhatyou’recalling

about?B:Well,Ijustwantedtotouchbase.A:Iseeherline’sstillbusy.CanIputyouonhold?B:Well,allright,ifit’snottoolong.A:Itshouldn’tbemorethanaminute.

(aminutelater)Marcia,IhaveTomSmithontheline.

C:Goahead,Jody.Puthimthrough.Hi,Tom?B:Hello,Marcia.How’sitgoing?C:Oh,thingsareprettycrazyasusualaroundhere,butIcan’tcomplain.

What’supwithyou?B:Well,I’vebeenonholidayforacoupleofweeks.C:Really?Where?B:IwasdoingsomeskiingupatWhistler.C:Whistler?Luckyyou!Ibetyouhadagreattime.B:Idid,butnowit’sbacktowork.C:SowhatcanIdoforyou?

Page 235: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

B:Actually,ifyou’vegotsometime,Iwasjustcallingtotouchbase.It’sbeenawhile.

C:Youaren’tkidding.Timejustseemstofly.Listen,Tom,I’vegotameetinginhalfanhourtopreparefor,sowhydon’tIcallyouback?

B:Betteryet,areyoudoinganythingforlunchtomorrow?C:Asamatteroffact,I’mfree.B:Great,sohowaboutImeetyouatLasPalapas?Say,12:30.Mytreat.C:Sure,soundsgood.B:Okay,meetyouthere.C:Allright.Andthanksfortheinvitation.B:Mypleasure.Seeyouthen.C:Okay,byenow.

PracticeRespondtothefollowing:

1.Thanksforcalling.

2.I’dliketospeaktoManuela.

3.CanIputyouonhold?

4.I’msorry,Ariel’sonanotherline.

5.HowcanIdirectyourcall?

6.MayIaskwho’sspeaking?

7.Talktoyoulater.

8.I’mcallingtoinquireaboutyouryogaclasses.

9.IhaveaSusanKellermanontheline.

10.Isthis[yourname]?

VocabularyNotes

Page 236: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation
Page 237: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

I

CHAPTER

TelephoneMessages

Objectivestakeandleavemessages

stateandconfirmimportantdetails

ntoday’sbusyworld,itcanbedifficulttoreachpeopleatyourconvenience.Therefore,yourelyonmessagestocommunicateimportantinformation.Knowingspecificphrasesandobservingbasicmessage

etiquettecanensurethatyourmessageisreceivedaswellasunderstood.

Bebriefandgettothepoint.Trytolimityourmessageto15seconds.Ifnecessary,prepareyourselfaheadofmakingthecallsothatyouknowexactlywhattosay.

Speakclearlyandslowly,especiallywhengivingimportantdetails,suchasphoneandaccountnumbers,orrepeatthemsothatthepersonreceivingyourmessagedoesn’thavetoreplayyourmessageseveraltimes.

Phrases

Page 238: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

GivingDetailsoverthePhoneTelephonemessagescontainimportantinformationthatmustbeclearlystatedsothatthepersononthereceivingendknowsexactlywhomtocontactandhowtogetintouch.

Numbers

NorthAmericanphonenumberscontaintendigits:forexample,604-659-3773.Thefirstthreearetheareacode,withthelastsevenbelongingtoanindividualresidenceoroffice.Whenmakinganinternationalcall,youneedtoincludetheparticularcountrycode.

Companiesandorganizationshavewhatarecalled1-800,ortoll-freenumbers,thatyoucancallwithouthavingtopaylong-distancecharges.

Whengivingsomeoneaphonenumber,saythenumbersindividually(6-0-4-3-5-6-8-2-1-4)orthelastfourinpairs(6-0-4-3-5-6-82-14).

Forrepeatednumbers,like33,onecansaydouble-three(orthirty-three);for888,triple-eight.

Thenumber0isreadaszeroortheletterO.Withphonenumbers,itdoesn’tmatterwhichoneyouuse,butifyou’restatingapostalcodeconsistingofnumbersandletters,itisnecessarytodifferentiatebetweenthetwo.Forexample,V0R,isreadasV-zero-R,and1O5as1-oh-5.

Whengivinganinternationalnumber,youshouldstatethecountryandcitycodesandphonenumberinamannerthatiseasytowritedownorrecordaswellastounderstand.Forexample,49911/552916:forty-nine,nine-one-one,fifty-five,twenty-nine,sixteen.

Accountnumbersareusuallygivennumberbynumber.Inthecaseofalongaccountnumber,youshouldspeakslowlyor,ifyouaretakingdownsomeone’saccountnumber,repeateachnumberasthecallergivesit.

Addresses

Whengivingsomeoneanaddressoverthephone,youcanbreakthenumbersintogroupsofonesandtens,ratherthansayingthemasacompletenumber.

Examples:

Page 239: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

683HollywoodCrescent:six,eighty-threeHollywoodCrescent(ratherthansix-hundred-and-eighty-three)

1142RoseStreet:eleven,forty-twoRoseStreet

426964HeywoodAvenue:suite/apartment/unitnumberfour,twenty-six,nine,sixty-fourHeywoodAvenue

Spelling

Becausesimilarsoundingorrhymingletters,suchasFandS,orDandT,canbemisunderstoodoverthephone,youcanusetheInternationalTelecommunicationsUnionStandardPhoneticAlphabetwhenyouspelloutanameorword.

Example:

Harper:HforHotel,AforAlpha,RforRomeo,PforPapa,EforEcho,RforRomeoA—AlphaB—BravoC—CharlieD—DeltaE—EchoF—FoxtrotG—GolfH—HotelI—IndiaJ—JulietK—KiloL—LimaM—MikeN—NovemberO—Oscar

Page 240: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

P—PapaQ—QuebecR—RomeoS—SierraT—TangoU—UniformV—VictorW—WhiskyX—X-rayY—YankeeZ—Zulu

LeavingaMessageAtelephonemessageshouldinclude:

yournameandcompanyordepartment

thetimeanddateofyourcall

yourreasonforcalling

yourphonenumberandothercontactinformation,suchasane-mailaddress,andyourlocation(e.g.,ahotelroomnumber)ifyou’retraveling

AskingSomeonetoTakeaMessage

WouldyougiveSandoramessage?

WouldyouhaveOlgacall/ringmeback?

CouldyoutakeamessageforHelga?

CouldyoutellMartinethatI’llbeafewminuteslate?

Page 241: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

PleasetellherI’mtiedupintraffic.

StatingImportance

It’surgent/ofutmostimportance.

It’sanemergencysituation.

Ineedtogetthisinformationtohimrightaway.

We’reonatightschedule.

Itcan’twait.

TakingaMessageWhenyoutakeamessageforacolleagueorfriendoverthephone,youneedtoletthecallerknowwhythepersontowhomtheywishtospeakisunavailable.Youalsoneedtoask:

whythepersontheywishtospeaktoisunavailable

whatthecall’sabout

whatspecificinformationthecallerwantstopasson

Whenthecallergivesyouanumberorspellsaname,youshouldrepeattheinformationtoassurethecallerthatyouhavetakenitdowncorrectly.

StatingUnavailability

I’msorry,butJohn’snotavailable/freeatthemoment.

I’mafraidFriedawon’tbeinuntiltomorrowmorning.

Marin’stiedup/outoftownatthemoment.

AskingtoTakeaMessage

Wouldyoulikemetogivehimamessage?

Page 242: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Ifyou’llgivemeyournameandnumber,I’llhavesomeonecallyouback/returnyourcall.

Can/shallItakeamessage?

IstheresomethingIcanpassontoher?

GivingAssurance

Whenyoutakeamessage,it’simportanttoletthecallerknowthathismessagewillbepassedon.Notetheuseofthefuturewith“will.”

I’llgivehimyourmessage.

I’llpassthatontoher.

I’llseetoitrightaway.

I’lllethimknowassoonashegetsback.

I’llhavehercallyouback/returnyourcallrightaway/assoonaspossible.

I’llseewhatIcando.

I’lldomybest.

Willdo.

DecliningtoLeaveaMessage

Ifyou’recallingaboutapersonalmatteroritmaybedifficultforsomeonetoreachyou,youcandeclinetoleaveamessage.

Thanks,butI’llcall/checkbacklater.

I’dprefertotryagainanothertime.

I’lltrylater.

OfferingAdditionalHelp

Doyouneedanythingelse/furtherhelp?

Page 243: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

IsthereanythingelseIcanhelpyouwithtoday?

EnsuringCommunicationWhenwordsfailyouinaface-to-faceconversation,gesturescometotherescue.Notsoduringtelephonecalls,whereyouneedtoletthepersonontheotherendknowthatyou’relisteningandthatyouunderstandhimorher.Inthiscase,afewlittlewordscanmakeabigdifference.

Yes.

Right.

Okay.

Isee/understand.

Goon.

( Formorephrases,seeDiscourseMarkers,page30.)

AskingforClarification

Would/doyoumindrepeatingthat/goingoverthatoncemore?

Couldyouwalkmethroughthatagain?

Couldyourepeatthat,please?

Canyouconfirm/double-check/goovermydirections?

I’msorry,Ididn’tcatchyourname.

I’msorry,whatwasyournameagain?

LetmeseeifI’vegotthatright.

ConfirmingDetails

I’llrepeatyoure-mailaddresstoverifyit.

I’llreadthatbacktoyou.

Page 244: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

LetmeseeifI’vegotthatright.

Gotit!

AskingforAdditionalContactInformation

DoesErikohaveyourcellphonenumber/e-mailaddress?

Canwereachyouatanothernumber?

HowcanJamesgetaholdofyouincasethere’sachangeinschedule?

Isthereanyoneelsewecancallifthere’saproblem?

ReturningaCallWhenyou’vereceivedamessage,thenextstepistocallbackassoonaspossible.

I’mcallinginresponsetothemessageyouleftformethismorning.

Hello,I’mfollowinguponyourmessageofJuly10that9:05.

ThisisSilviacallingback/returningyourcall.

Hello,thisisJack.Youcalled?

Hi,Igotyourmessage.

AnsweringMachines,VoiceMail,andTextMessages

Abusyscheduledoesn’talwaysallowyoutoleaveortakemessagesinperson,inwhichcasetechnologycomesinhandy.Whenyou’rerecordingamessageonaprivateansweringmachineorvoicemail,it’snotagoodideatoletstrangersknowthatyou’reawayfromhome.Thefollowingareexamplesonly.

Page 245: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

PrivateRecordings

You’vereached248-5792.Pleaseleaveamessageafterthetone/beep.

Hello,thisisCarly.Sorry,butIcan’tmakeittothephonerightnow.PleaseleaveamessageandI’llgetbacktoyouassoonaspossible.

BusinessRecordings

Hello,thisisMarySullivan’svoicemail.PleasebeadvisedthatI’llbeoutoftheofficeuntilnextMondaymorning.Ifyouleaveamessage,I’llgetbacktoyouassoonasIcan.Thankyou.

You’vereachedthedeskofWon-HoPark.AtthemomentI’meitherbusywithacustomeroratameeting,soifyou’dleaveyourname,timeanddateofcall,yourphonenumberandashortmessage,I’llgetintouchassoonaspossible.Thanksforcallingandhaveaniceday.

TextMessages

Usuallyyourelyonsecretaries,receptionists,officecolleagues,andrelativestodelivermessages,butnowadayswirelesstechnologyhaspopularizedtheuseoftextmessages.Textinghasevolvedintoalanguageofitsownthatcanbeveryuseful,butrememberthattheseabbreviationsdonottaketheplaceofgrammaticalEnglish.

ASAP assoonaspossible

ATB allthebest

ATM atthemoment

B4N beforenow

BBS bebacksoon

BFN/B4N byefornow

BRT berightthere

Page 246: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

CM callme

CU seeyou

DK don’tknow

FAQ frequentlyaskedquestions

FYI foryourinformation

HAND haveaniceday

IC Isee

IDK Idon’tknow

IMO inmyopinion

KIT keepintouch

L8R later

NRN noreplynecessary

PCM pleasecallme

PLMK pleaseletmeknow

SRY sorry

T2Go timetogo

T2UL talktoyoulater

THX thanks

WRT withrespectto

Dialogue:AMessageA:Goodmorning,PicturePerfectPrinting.Nikkispeaking.HowmayIdirectyourcall?

Page 247: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

B:Goodmorning,I’dliketospeaktoJack.A:I’msorrybuthe’sinameetingwithaclientrightnow.CanItakeamessage?B:Yes,wouldyouhavehimcallMichellebackassoonaspossible?Mynumber ’s250-653-8225andhecanreachmeuntil1:30.A:Isthereanothernumberhecancallincasehegetsheldup?B:Yes,hecangetmeonmycellphone.It’s703-295-8840.A:Okay,letmereadthosenumbersbacktoyou.250-653-8225and703-295-8840.B:That’scorrect.A:AndmayIaskwhatyou’recallingabout?B:Yes,IhaveanotherprojectI’dliketodiscusswithhim.A:Okay,gotit!I’llhavehimgetbacktoyou.B:Thanks.Good-bye.A:Good-byeandthanksforcallingPicturePerfectPrinting.(later)B:Hello.C:Hello,Michelle?It’sJackfromPicturePerfectPrinting.Ijustgotyourmessage.SowhatcanIdoforyou?

PracticeUsetheinformationinthedialogueandfilloutthemessageform.

Page 248: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

VocabularyNotes

Page 249: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation
Page 250: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

“I

CHAPTER

TelephoneBusiness

Objectivestomakeappointments,bookings,andreservations

toplaceorders

toreportanddiscussproblems

couldlivewithouttheinternalcombustionengine,MTV,andtheCuisinart.Butnotwithoutthetelephone,”wroteMichaelLevine,Americanwriterandpublicrelationsexpert.Indeed,withoutthe

telephone,mostpeoplewouldfinditextremelydifficult,ifnotimpossibletoconducteverydaybusiness,suchassettingupappointments,reportinganaccidentoremergency,orevenorderingapizza.

Phrases

MakingAppointmentsWhetherit’sanappointmenttoseeyourdoctor,dentist,hairdresser,or

Page 251: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

financialadvisorortosetupameeting,conference,orpresentation,youcanusethesamebasicphrasesonthetelephone.

AskingforanAppointment

Whenmakinganappointment,youneedtogivethefollowingdetails:

whattheappointmentisfor,orwhatyouneedtodo

whotheappointmentiswith,orwhoyouwanttosee

whentheappointmentisfor

I’mcallingtomake/setupanappointmentforahaircut/acheckup/aninterview.

I’dliketomakeanappointmentwithDr.Martin/aMemberServiceRepresentative.

Couldyousetupanappointmenttoseeaninsuranceagent?

IneedtomakeanappointmentfornextTuesday/threeo’clock.

When/howsooncanyougetmeinforahaircut?

IneedtoseeMarionaboutsomeurgentbusiness.

StatingtheDate

Therearetwowaystostatethedate:

Februarythesecond

thesecondofFebruary

Whengivingthedate,useordinalnumbers(first,second,third,fourth,fifth,etc.).

Remember:first,second,third,twenty-first,thirty-second,fifty-third,buttheeleventh,twelfth,andthirteenth.

StatingtheTime

Page 252: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Whengivingthetime,weusea.m.(ante-meridian)fortheperiodbetweenmidnightandnoon,andp.m.(postmeridian)fortheperiodbetweennoonandmidnight.Forexample,9:00a.m.isinthemorningand9:00p.m.isintheevening.Anotherwaytoavoidconfusionistosaynineinthemorningorsixintheevening.Ifyou’retalkingabouta2:00meeting,itshouldbeobviousthatyou’renotschedulingitinthemiddleofthenight.

InNorthAmerica,timeexpressionssuchas1400(fourteenhundredhours)appearonschedulesortimetables,butarealmostneverusedinconversation.

Whenmakingtranscontinentalorinternationalcalls,youneedtotaketimezonesintoaccount:forexample,6:00p.m.Easterntimeor8:00inthemorningyourtime.

( SeeTimeExpressions,page34.)

AskingfortheTimeoftheAppointment

When/whattimewouldyouliketocomein?

Whatday/timewouldworkforyou/suityou?

Whatwouldbethebest/mostconvenienttime?

WhattimeshallIputyoudownfor?

Would10:00tomorrowworkforyou?

What’sagoodtime/dayforyou?

HowaboutTuesdaymorningat8:30?

SettingaTimeastheCaller

Isanythingavailable/freeinthelateafternoon?

DoyouhaveanopeningFridaymorning?

What’stheearliestavailableopening?

Howsooncanyougetmein?

Page 253: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Howabout4:00?

CheckingAvailability

Letmecheck/see/takealookattheschedule.

Justasecond,I’llseewhat’savailable/free.

I’llsee/checkwhenthere’sanopening.

ConfirmingtheTimeandDate

3:00onOctoberthe27thisnotaproblem.

10:00onMondaymorningitis!

1:00soundsgood/great/fine.

That’llbe4:00onTuesday.

We’llseeyouthen.

SuggestinganAlternativeTime

I’msorry,Asha’sbookedupallmorning.MayIsuggesttheafternoon?

IcantryandgetyouintoseeJochen’sassistant,ifthatworksforyou.

Wouldyourathercomeinearly?

Howabout9:00instead?

MakingBookingsandReservationsThephrasesyouusetobookaflightormakeareservationdifferfromthoseonpage278onlyintermsofthedetails.

I’dliketobook/reserveadoubleroomfortwonights.

I’mplanningtogotoParisforeightdaysandneedtobookaflight.

Page 254: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

DoyouhaveatableforfourforthiscomingSaturday?

TakingReservations

Whenareyoulooking/planningtofly?

Whatday/time/timeframeareyouconsidering/thinkingof?

Howmanynightsareyouplanningtostay?

AskingQuestionsAboutPricesandRates

Doyouhaveanyspecialratesordiscounts?

Howmuchisthefare/thedailyrate?

( Seepage71formorephrases.)

ChangesandCancellationsAppointmentsandreservations,justlikeyourbusylife,aresubjecttoeventsthathaveawayofupsettingyourplansandschedules.

ChanginganAppointment,Booking,orReservation

I’dliketochangemyappointmentwithHelenfrom3:00to4:00,ifthat’spossible.

Couldyoumovemyappointmenttonextweek?

I’msorry,butIwon’tbeabletomakeittomyappointmentwithJames.Couldyougivemeanothertime?

Ineedtochangemyreservationfortomorrow.

CancelinganAppointment,Booking,orReservation

I’msorry,butI’mafraidIhavetocancel/postpone/calloffmy3:00

Page 255: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

appointment.

UnfortunatelyIwon’tbeabletomakeittomyappointmentwithEinar.

Sorry,butIcan’tkeepmydentalappointment.

OrdersandServicesNowadaysmanyproductsandservicesareavailableonline.Nevertheless,youmaychoosetoplaceordersmoredirectlyandpersonallyoverthetelephone.

OrderingFood

Orderingfromarestaurantthatofferstakeoutserviceisfairlyuncomplicated.Foradditionalconvenience,youcanevenfindagoodselectionofmenusinthephonebook,andunlessyouprefertopickupyourorder,mostplacesdeliverforasmallfee,orforfreeifyouplaceanorderthatexceedstheminimum.Ifyouliveinanapartment,youmayneedtogiveyourbuzzercodetothepersontakingtheordersothedeliverypersoncanenterthebuilding.

I’dliketoorderalargepizzasupremefordelivery.

CouldIhave/getafamily-sizeorderoffriedchickenforpickup?

AskingAboutDetails

Doyoudeliver?

Isthereaminimumorderfordelivery?

Howmuchdoyouchargefordelivery/extrasalami?

Howlongwillittaketogethere?

WhattimecanIexpectdelivery?

Whatareyourdailyspecials?

Whichdishesaregluten-free/lactose-free/vegetarian/vegan?

Page 256: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

TakinganOrderforFood

Willthatbepickupordelivery?

Wouldyoulikeanysidedishes/extrasauces/beveragestogowithyourorder?

Whattimewouldyoulikethattobeready?

We’llhavethatreadyinabouttwentyminutes.

OrderingProductsandServices

I’dliketoorderaproduct/toreservetickets/tocancelasubscription.

CouldIputinanorderforaproduct/reserveseatsonaflight?

Woulditbepossibletoopen/setup/applyforanaccount?

ArrangingUtilityServices

I’dliketohavemyphone/cable/Internethookedup/suspended/disconnected.

Wouldyouseethatmyphone/cable/Internetishookedupasofthefirstofthemonth?

Ineedtelephone/cableserviceatmynewaddress.

ArrangingTransportation

Couldyousendataxito54RiverRoad?

Ineedataxi/ashuttletotheairporttomorrowmorningat6:30.

I’mregisteredatyourhotelandneedaride/apickup.

PleasehaveataxipickmeupattheFourSeasonsHotel.

DiscussingaProblem

Page 257: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

Whendiscussingaproblemonthephone,it’simportanttoprovidebackgroundinformation:

youraccountnumber,ifyouhaveone

themodelandserialnumber,ifyou’rehavingproblemswithaparticularmachine

howyoufirstcontactedthecompanyorperson

thelasttimeyouspokeorwereincontact

StatingtheProblem

Iwaswonderingifyoucouldexplainthechargesonmybankstatement.

Itappearsthatmysubscriptiontoyourmagazinehasbeenrenewedbymistake.

Ihaveaquestionaboutthismonth’screditcardstatement.

There’saproblemwithmyInternetservice.

We’vebeenhavingsomeissueswithourcopymachines.

Can’tyoudosomethingabouttheongoingnoise?

DrawingAttentiontoaProblem

Ifyou’renotgettingahelpfulresponsetoacomplaint,youmightneedtousestrongerlanguagetomakethepersonyou’redealingwithpayattention.

Here’sthething:theshippingdelayisholdingupproduction.

It’slikethis:weneedthepartsurgently.

Listenhere:thisisjustnotacceptable.

Waitaminute,that’snotwhatIsaid.

Now,Ihaveanimportantquestion.

AskingforAssistance

Page 258: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

HowdoIgoaboutrenewing/suspending/cancelingmycablesubscription?

CouldyouexplainhowIcanapplyforacreditcard?

Youwouldn’thappentoknowwhere/howIcantakeoutamembership?

ReportinganUrgentProblem

Ineedtoreportastolencreditcard/anaccident/abreak-in.

Cansomeonehelpmerightaway?

Thisisanemergency!

DealingwithaProblem

Whatseemstobetheproblem/trouble?

WhatcanIdotohelp?

HowcanIassist/helpyou?

ShowingUnderstandingandSympathy

Iunderstandwhereyou’recomingfrom.

Iseetheproblem/issue.

Iknowwhatyoumean.

That’sunfortunate/toobad.

( Seepage96formorephrases.)

PromisingAction

I’llseethat’stakencareofassoonaspossible.

I’llgetonthat/followuponthatrightaway.

Don’tworry,I’lldealwithit.

Page 259: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

I’lldomybest.

I’monit!

EncouragingFurtherContact

Welookforwardtodoingbusinesswithyouagain.

Don’thesitatetocall/reachoutifyouneedanythingelse.

We’rehappytobeofservice.

Callanytime.

InConclusionBecausethecontentofatelephoneconversationdoesnotdiffergreatlyfromaregularface-to-faceconversation,youcanusemanyofthephrasesinParts1and2.Particularlyhelpfulphrasesare:

StayinginTouch,page13.

MakingOffers,page51.

AdviceandAssistance,page97.

Complaints,page105.

OptionsandAlternatives,page119.

ReasonsandPurpose,page120.

AdvantagesandDisadvantages,page122.

SettingSchedulesandDeadlines,page130.

GoalsandPlans,page131.

SolutionsandRecommendations,page164.

ClarificationandExplanations,page183.

Misunderstandings,page185.

Page 260: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

DialogueA:Goodafternoon.CommunityClinic.Renéespeaking.HowcanIhelp

you?B:Hello,thisisWillJameson.I’mcallingtomakeanappointmenttoseeDr.

Winter.It’saboutacheckup.A:Allright,whatdaywouldyouliketocomein?B:TuesdayorWednesdaywouldbegood,andI’dpreferlateafternoonif

youhaveanopening.A:Letmesee.Wednesday’sprettyfull.Howdoes3:30onTuesdaysuityou?B:Yes,3:30worksforme.A:Allright,I’llputyoudown.Andthenamewas?B:WillJameson.A:Anditwasforacheckup,yousaid?B:That’sright.A:Okaythen,Will.We’llseeyouonTuesdayat3:30.B:Thanksalot!A:Noproblem.IsthereanythingelseIcanhelpyouwith?B:No,thanks.That’llbeit.Good-byenow.A:Good-bye.

TopicsforPracticeWhatphraseswouldyouuseto:

1.bookaflighttoNewYork;

2.orderasubscriptiontoalocalnewspaper;

3.cancelahotelreservation;

4.checkyouravailabilityforameeting;

5.makeanappointmentforahaircut;

6.callforataxi;

Page 261: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

7.confirmanappointment;

8.suggestanalternativetimeforanappointment;

9.askaboutacarrentalagency’sweeklyrate;

10.changeyourappointmenttonextweek?

VocabularyNotes

Page 262: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation
Page 263: Perfect Phrases for ESL - WordPress.com · 2018-01-17 · The dialogue in each chapter shows you how native English speakers might use the particular phrases in a typical conversation

D

AbouttheAuthor

ianeEngelhardtholdsbachelordegreesinEducation(Secondary)andEnglishLiterature(Honors).ShebeganteachingEnglishasaSecondLanguageatBerlitzSchoolofLanguagesinNuremberg,Germany.

Overherlongcareershehastaughtconversational,businessandacademicEnglishinGermanyandCanada.