Preventing Violence and Abuse

I. Abuse

Physical or Emotional harm to someone

II. Abusive BehaviorPerson is: Controlling Obsessive Manipulating Selfish Aggressive Needy

Behaviors include: Insult Humiliate Put-downs Coercion Threats

III. Child Abuse

Physical abuse, emotional abuse, sexual abuse, and neglect of anyone under 18 years of age.

IV. Neglect

A caretaker fails to provide basic needs such as food, clothing, or love.

V. Domestic Violence

The use of force to control and maintain power over a spouse

VI. Cycle of Abuse1. Tension Building Phase:

arguments, insults, accusations, threats.

2. Violent Episode Phase: pushing, hitting, choking, weapons.

3. Honeymoon Phase: apologies, reconciliation, promises

VII. Elder Abuse

Fraud, physical abuse, emotional abuse, or neglect of a senior citizen.

VIII. Hazing

Harassing newcomers into a group in an abusive, humiliating manner.

IX. Effects of Abuse

Physical signs Depression Low self-esteem Eating disorders Low energy or fatigue Poor concentration

Difficulty making decisions Difficulty sleeping Feelings of worthlessness Guilt Shame Anxiety

X. Protecting yourself from abuse

Create a supporting network of friends and family.

Avoid disrespectful people. Be assertive. Show disapproval to abusive behaviors.

XI. Help for the abused.

Tell someone.

Go somewhere safe.

Consider counseling.