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www.themindrooom.com.au | [email protected] | @themindroom The Okinawans call it ‘Ikigai’ and the Nicoyans call it ‘plan de vida;’ for both, it translates to ‘why I wake up in the morning.’” In other words, our purpose or what makes life worth living. According to Japanese culture, everyone has a hidden ikigai. Finding it requires a deep and sometimes lengthy search of self. This search is regarded as essential, as the discovery of one’s ikigai brings satisfaction and meaning to life. Consider this Japanese fable: In a small village outside of Osaka, a woman in a coma was dying. She suddenly had a feeling that she was taken up to heaven and stood before the Voice of her ancestors. “Who are you?” the Voice said to her. “I am the wife of the mayor,” she replied. “I did not ask whose wife you are but who you are.” “I am the mother of four children.” “I did not ask whose mother you are, but who you are.” “I am a school teacher.” “I did not ask what your profession is but who you are.” And so it went. No matter what she replied, she did not seem to give a satisfactory answer to the question, “Who are you?” “I am a Shinto.” “I did not ask what your religion is but who you are.” “I am the one who wakes up each day to care for my family, and nurture the young minds of the children at my school.” She passed the challenge and was sent back to earth. The next morning she woke at sunrise, feeling a deep sense of meaning and purpose. She tended to her children’s lunches, and planned fun lessons for her students that day. The woman had discovered her ikigai. purpose & ikigai The Blue Zone studies (Buettner et al., 2004) identified universal health habits for a long and meaningful life, and along with a healthy diet, regular exercise, connection to family/community, having a sense of purpose was key. The research indicates that having a sense of purpose helps in the following ways: 1. It gives you direction. When you have a clear purpose you can then set the right goals and take the right steps to create your most meaningful life. 2. It reduces mortality risk. Studies have shown that having a purpose in life is an indicator for healthy ageing. 3. It increases your resilience. Having a purpose in life may motivate you to reframe stressful situations to deal with them more productively. In the long run, this will help you facilitate recovery from stress and trauma. 4. It improves quality of sleep. Studies have shown that a higher level of meaning and purpose in life among older adults is related to better sleep quality. It can also be protective against symptoms of sleep apnea. 5. It motivates you. When you discover your purpose you pursue and stick with your goals and are more likely to achieve success in important life domains. the science A research study that asked over 40,000 Japanese people if they had an ikigai in their life, found those that did lived longer. Sone et al. (2008)

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www.themindrooom.com.au   |   [email protected]   |   @themindroom 

The Okinawans call it ‘Ikigai’ and the Nicoyans callit ‘plan de vida;’ for both, it translates to ‘why I wakeup in the morning.’”  In other words, our purpose orwhat makes life worth living. According to Japanese culture, everyone has ahidden ikigai. Finding it requires a deep andsometimes lengthy search of self. This search isregarded as essential, as the discovery of one’sikigai brings satisfaction and meaning to life. Consider this Japanese fable:In a small village outside of Osaka, a woman in acoma was dying. She suddenly had a feeling thatshe was taken up to heaven and stood before theVoice of her ancestors. “Who are you?” the Voice said to her. “I am the wifeof the mayor,” she replied. “I did not ask whose wifeyou are but who you are.” “I am the mother of fourchildren.” “I did not ask whose mother you are, butwho you are.” “I am a school teacher.” “I did not askwhat your profession is but who you are.” And so itwent. No matter what she replied, she did not seemto give a satisfactory answer to the question, “Whoare you?” “I am a Shinto.” “I did not ask what yourreligion is but who you are.” “I am the one who wakes up each day to care formy family, and nurture the young minds of thechildren at my school.”  She passed the challenge and was sent back toearth. The next morning she woke at sunrise,feeling a deep sense of meaning and purpose. Shetended to her children’s lunches, and planned funlessons for her students that day. The woman haddiscovered her ikigai.

purpose & ikigai

The Blue Zone studies  (Buettner et al., 2004) identified universal health habits for a long andmeaningful life, and along with a healthy diet,regular exercise, connection to family/community,having a sense of purpose was key. The research indicates that having a sense ofpurpose helps in the following ways: 1. It gives you direction. When you have a clearpurpose you can then set the right goals and takethe right steps to create your most meaningful life. 2. It reduces mortality risk. Studies have shown thathaving a purpose in life is an indicator for healthyageing. 3. It increases your resilience. Having a purpose inlife may motivate you to reframe stressfulsituations to deal with them more productively. Inthe long run, this will help you facilitate recoveryfrom stress and trauma. 4. It improves quality of sleep. Studies have shownthat a higher level of meaning and purpose in lifeamong older adults is related to better sleepquality. It can also be protective against symptomsof sleep apnea. 5. It motivates you. When you discover yourpurpose you pursue and stick with your goals andare more likely to achieve success in important lifedomains. 

the science

A research study that asked over40,000 Japanese people if theyhad an ikigai in their life, foundthose that did lived longer. Sone et al. (2008)

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Try writing your own ikigai in a simple sentence,such as the example given in the story: “I am the one who wakes up each day to care formy family, and nurture the young minds of thechildren at my school.” "For sale. Baby Shoes. Never Worn." The writer, Hemingway, wrote this short 6-wordstory. This short but impactful style of writing isnow called flash fiction. Try writing your own flashfiction ikigai, for example: •  To joyfully provide for my family.•  Inspire & influence excellence & beauty.•  Appreciate my space in the world.•  To learn. Have adventures. And achieve. Map out on a timeline from birth to now of anyimpactful events or experiences (positive ornegative). Then, taking each into consideration,write what you learned about yourself from eachof these events. •  How did they shape you?•  What do they say about who you are as aperson? Your strengths, passions, skills.•  What do they tell you about what matters most(and least) to you?  Reflecting on our values can help us understandour purpose in life. Try doing a values card sorttask to identify your top values. Discover more byreading our Values info sheet atwww.themindroom.com.au/library and/or purchasea card sort pack from our online shop.

Man's Search for Meaning, Viktor Frankl  TED Talks, Dan Beuttner on Blue Zones (2009).  Values Ink, a values card sort mobile app George, L. S., & Park, C. L. (2016). Meaning in life ascomprehension, purpose, and mattering: Towardintegration and new research questions. Review ofGeneral Psychology, 20(3), 205-220. Positive Psychology Program, Blog post https://positivepsychologyprogram.com/meaning-of-life-positive-psychology/ Purpose Literature Reviewhttps://www.templeton.org/wp-content/uploads/2018/02/Psychology-of-Purpose-FINAL.pdf Blue Zone Studyhttps://bluezones.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/01/Nat_Geo_LongevityF.pdf      

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The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to becompassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well.

- Ralph Waldo Emerson

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“Life has no meaning. Each of us hasmeaning and we bring it to life. It isa waste to be asking the questionwhen you are the answer.” – Joseph Campbell