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Rejecting Perfection Finding Self Awareness and Peace Diana Nordlund, DO, JD, FACEP

Rejecting Perfection · Embrace Failure.* “When you fail, fall all the way to the ground… The willingness to fall all the way to the ground requires trust that the loss give you

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Rejecting PerfectionFinding Self Awareness and Peace

Diana Nordlund, DO, JD, FACEP

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Embrace Failure.*

“When you fail, fall all the way to the ground…

The willingness to fall all the way to the ground requires trust that the loss give you as much power as the win. Falling all the way to the ground means accepting your failure completely. It is the willingness to look directly at the actions and motivations that got you here.

Learning to see clearly requires meeting failure at every turn, without avoiding its emotional impact though denial, blaming others, or running toward a new goal.”

~Tim Burkett, Zen in the Age of Anxiety

*Seriously

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Kristin Neff, PhD

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Know Your Fear

Alex Honnold

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“Honnolding” on Thank God Ledge, Yosemite, 2008

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This is your brain on fear.

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“The first step, I’m sorry to say, is to love your fear.”

~Jack Kornfield

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ResourcesMeditation and Mindfulness

mindful.org

The Importance of a Breakdown

upliftconnect.com

12 Life Tips from Pema Chodron

headspace.com

shambhala.com

tricycle.org

vipassana.org

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Old-school ResourcesSuggested Reading List (in alphabetical order, suggested by emergency physicians)

High Performance Habits: How Extraordinary People Become That Way by Brendon Burchard

The Gifts of Imperfection: Let Go of Who You Think You're Supposed to Be and

Embrace Who You Are by Brene Brown

When Things Fall Apart: Heart Advice for Difficult Times by Pema Chodron

Storms Can’t Hurt the Sky by Gabriel Cohen

Anger by Thich Nhat Hanh

Fear by Thich Nhat Hanh

Girl, Wash Your Face: Stop Believing the Lies About Who You Are So You Can Become Who You Were Meant to Be by Rachel Hollis

Off Balance: Getting Beyond the Work-Life Balance Myth to Personal and Professional Satisfaction by Matthew Kelly

Grace Not Perfection: Embracing Simplicity, Celebrating Joy by Emily Ley

Broken Open by Elizabeth Lesser

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