Office Location Phone Email/Fax Website

Parish Office 105 Harrison St., New Milford 201-261-0148 office@sjcnj.org Fax #: 201-261-0369

sjcnj.org

Religious Education 105 Harrison St., New Milford 201-261-1144 religioused@sjcnj.org sjcnjre.org

Saint Joseph School 305 Elm St., Oradell 201-261-2388 office@sjsusa.org sjsusa.org

the greenhouse-PreK 305 Elm St., Oradell 201-477-8114 vailc@greenhouseusa.org greenhouseusa.org

MASS SCHEDULE Saturday 5:00 pm

Sunday 7:30 am, 9:00 am, 10:30 am, 12:00 pm

DAILY Weekdays 7:00 am &

8:30 am

Saturday 8:30 am

HOLY DAYS as announced

Miraculous Medal Novena Monday, 7:00 pm in Mary’s Chapel

Eucharistic Adoration First Wednesday of Month

SACRAMENTS Confession: Saturday,

4:00 pm - 5:00 pm Baptism

Contact the Parish Office. Marriage

Arrangements should be made with a priest at least one year in advance.

Sick/Homebound/Hospital Call the Parish Office.

Christian Initiation of Adults—RCIA

Contact the Parish Office.

PARISH REGISTRATION Contact the Parish Office.

PASTOR:

Msgr. David C. Hubba

PAROCHIAL VICARS:

Rev. Andrew Park Rev. Roy Regaspi

DEACON George Montalvo DEACON Edward Maron

PASTOR EMERITUS:

Rev. George M. Reilly

Oradell/New Milford, NJ Roman Catholic Church Saint Joseph

Thirty Third Sunday in Ordinary Time — November 13, 2016

Parish Office Hours: Parish: Mon.-Fri..9 am-5 pm, ; Rel. Ed.: Mon –Thurs.: 9:30 am—5 pm (Also by appointment.)

“NEW HOPE FOR CHILDREN” RAFFLE TICKETS

—SOLD AFTER ALL MASSES

THANKSGIVING FOOD DRIVE —NEXT WEEKEND

Welcome

Cardinal-Elect Joseph T. Tobin NEW ARCHBISHOP OF NEWARK (See page 5.)

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Saturday 5:00 pm

Sunday 7:30 am 9:00 am 10.30 am 10:30 am MC 12:00 pm

Monday 7:00 am 8:30 am

Tuesday 7:00 am 8:30 am

Wednesday 7:00 am 8:30 am

Thursday 7:00 am 8:30 am

Friday 7:00 am 8:30 pm

Saturday 8:30 am 5:00 pm

Sunday 7:30 am 9:00 am 10:30 am UC 10:30 am MC 12:00 pm

PRAYER REQUESTS

Let us remember those who are ill: Patrick O’Brian, Harold Bottino

Let us remember those who have recently died: Lerry Tabalon

Let us remember those serving in the military.

SUNDAY COLLECTION

Week of November 6, 2016 BASKET PARISHPAY TOTAL

$8,999 $4,659 $13,658

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BREAD & WINE INTENTIONS

The bread and wine for the week of November 13, 2016

are offered in remembrance of

Dan O’Grady

as requested by Maureen Hanley.

Visit us on our websites: CHURCH: sjcnj.org SCHOOL: sjsusa.org RELIGIOUS ED.: sjcnjre.org

STEWARDSHIP REFLECTION “… Rather, we wanted to present ourselves as a model for you, so that you might imitate us.” 2 THESSALONIANS 3:9 Most people who live a grateful and generous lifestyle don’t go around bragging about it. But through their actions and words, others do take notice. They notice because of the joy and peace that results and other people desire this in their own lives. Know that the way you live your life may be the only interaction others have with the Catholic faith.

Saint Joseph Parish Staff

Parish Trustees………..Mr. Brendan Walsh/Mrs. Carol Winkler Dir. of Religious Education ……..Deacon George Montalvo Sacraments Coordinator ………...Mrs. Arlene Kennedy Director of Music ……………………Mr. Monroe Quinn Youth Minister ……………………….Mrs. Donna Cirino Facilities Director …………………...Mr. Tom Meli Business Manager …………………. .Mrs. Phyllis Vrola Parish Secretary ……………………...Mrs. Geraldine Carolan

Principal of Saint Joseph School…………..Mrs. Colette Vail Dir. of Comm./ Bulletin Editor…...Mrs. Diane Hellriegel

EARLY BULLETIN DEADLINE

Announcements for the Nov. 27 bulletin are due no later than

Tuesday, Nov. 15 to hellriegeld@sjcnj.org

FIRST ANNUAL FELLOWSHIP BREAKFAST —THIS SUNDAY, NOV. 13

AFTER 10:30 MASS Hosted by Saint Joseph

Religious Education Families Please join us in the Lower School Gym

to catch up with friends and welcome new families!

November 12, 2016 Mary & William Sweeney

November 13, 2016 People of the Parish Irene Esposito Hugh J. Flanagan Eamon G. McCarthy (10th Anniversary Remembrance) Anthony Navarra

November 14, 2016 Mary Glynn Deceased Members of the Legion of Mary

November 15, 2016 Daniel C. O’Grady Arthur M. Schrader, Jr.

November 16, 2016 In Thanksgiving to St. Joseph Betty Jane Corbett (Anniversary Remembrance)

November 17, 2016 Antonio Luconi John Dabrowski (5th Anniversary Remembrance)

November 18, 2016 Lu Cendana Francis X. Rieger

November 19, 2016 Lloyd De Nicolo Richard Nelson

November 20, 2016 People of the Parish Felice Bartolomeo (18th Anniversary Remembrance) Antonio B. Claveria, Sr. (Anniversary Remembrance) Perry DiGiovanni John Pimpinella

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THIRTY THIRD SUNDAY IN ORDINARY TIME ~ NOVEMBER 13, 2016

FROM THE PASTOR’S DESK For centuries Hungary has experienced the influence of many people whose complicated

histories are difficult to untangle. Scythians and Greeks, Tartars, Huns, Avars and Pechenegs, Magyars, Ottoman Turks, Bosnians and Serbs, Germans and Austrians, Slavs and Croatians, Albanians and Dalmatians have all left their mark. This Wednesday and Thursday, the Church keeps the feast days of two saints with Hungarian connections, St. Margaret and St. Elizabeth. The parents of St. Margaret (c. 1045-1093) came to Hungary as refugees from Saxon England after her father, the King of Wessex, was forced to flee when Danes conquered his realm. There Margaret was born, received a fine education and became an artistically refined young woman. Soon after returning to England, where her father had prospects of regaining power that were frustrated by the Norman conquest, Margaret had to relocate to Scotland, where, in 1070, King Malcolm III, captivated by her beauty and intelligence, entered into a happy marriage with her, one that produced eight children. Margaret was deeply committed to her religion. She loved to read and pray, built several monasteries, saw to it that workers got Sundays off, and looked after the poor with extensive charity. Her husband greatly respected and wholly supported her efforts. In the words of her biographer Turgot, he “saw that Christ truly dwelt in her heart… . What she rejected, he rejected [and] … what she loved, he for love of her loved too.” Although Malcolm could not read, he admired the beautifully bound and illuminated books she used for her devotions, including volumes of the Gospels and the Psalms that still exist in Oxford libraries. The bodily remains of this remarkable royal couple had to be removed from Scotland in 1560 to escape desecration and now reside in a chapel of the Escorial near Madrid. Margaret is the patron saint of Scotland.

St. Elizabeth (1207-1231), daughter of King Andrew II of Hungary, was betrothed to Ludwig, the future Landraf of Thuringia, when she was just four years old, and was sent to that royal family’s castle in Wartburg to be raised. She married Ludwig when she was fourteen and he

was twenty-one. Elizabeth was a strikingly beautiful girl with a warm personality and a generous disposition, but some members of the court opposed her, wanting

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her to be sent back to Hungary. Ludwig’s response to this pressure was to say that he would rather lose a mountain of gold than lose Elizabeth. The couple had a very happy marriage that was blessed with three fine children. Elizabeth was devoutly prayerful and became renowned for her exceedingly generous work with the poor and with orphans. She built a hospital, where she personally fed the patients and made their beds. When her expenditures on behalf of the needy drew complaints, her husband reacted to the critics by saying:

As for her charities, they will bring upon us divine blessings. We shall not want as long as we let her relieve the poor as she does.

After Ludwig died from the plague in 1227, Elizabeth became a Third Order Franciscan at Eisenach, where she lived in simplicity and continued her dedication to helping the sick, the poor and the elderly at a hospice she established there. She died when she was only twenty-four and was canonized just four years later. Fra Angelico, Piero della Francesca and Jan van Eyck all created paintings of her.

Msgr. David Hubba

ATTENTION ALL LECTORS! Your 2017 Lector Workbook can be picked up in the upper church (in the Ministers’ Gathering Room of the main foyer (Elm St. entrance). The book will

have your name on it. Please be sure to pick yours up before November 26-27 (the First Sunday of Advent).

MINISTERS OF HOLY COMMUNION Please note: The Christmas and New Year Mass schedule sign-up sheets are available in the Upper Church Sacristy. Please sign up for the Mass(es) at which you can serve. Thank you for your dedication and commitment to our Ministry.

CAMPAIGN FOR HUMAN DEVELOPMENT —COLLECTION NEXT WEEKEND Next week’s collection for the Catholic Campaign for Human Development (CCHD) needs your help. CCHD was founded to break the cycle of poverty in

the U.S. by funding organizations that help individuals help themselves. With the tradition of improving education, housing situations, and community economic development, CCHD continues to make a positive impact in communities nationwide. Your contribution will defend human dignity and reach out to those living on the margins. Please give to the CCHD Collection. Use your parish envelope or memo your check “CCHD.”

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SAINT JOSEPH CHURCH ORADELL/NEW MILFORD, NJ

FOOD DRIVE AT SAINT JOSEPH

—NEXT WEEKEND NOVEMBER 19-20

“Lord when did we see You hungry, and feed you, or thirsty, and give You drink? … Truly, I say to you, as you did it to one of the

least of these my brethren, you did it to Me.” Matt. 25: 37, 40

Our traditional Thanksgiving Food Drive will take place in two weeks. Your generous donations will bless those in need of the Food Pantries at the Church of the Ascension in New Milford and our Brother/Sister Parish of St. Joseph in Jersey City.

If you prefer, you may make a monetary donation. Please make your check payable to “Saint Joseph Church” and mark the

envelope “Food Drive.”

The following is a list of items often requested. Please make sure that the food is NOT OUTDATED. Thank you for using your own grocery bags!

Baby Food/Formula Macaroni & Cheese Baked Beans/ Mayo/Mustard/Ketchup Pork & Beans Meat/Fish (Canned) (Dried or Canned) Beef Stew (Canned) Beans Milk (Powdered or Canned) Bisquick/Pancake Mix Pasta/Pasta Sauce /Syrup Peanut Butter & Jelly Cake Mix/Frosting Potatoes Cereal (Canned or Instant) Coffee/Tea Rice Cranberry Sauce Salad Dressing Fruit (Canned) Soup (Canned) Fruit Juice Stuffing Mix Gravy Sugar/Salt/Pepper/Etc. Jello/Pudding Vegetables (Canned) Deodorant Shampoo Dishwashing Liquid Shaving Cream Garbage Bags Soap Laundry Detergent Toilet Paper Napkins/Paper Towels Toothpaste

*Please bring your donations to the Saint Joseph Rectory Garage, before or after any of the Masses the weekend of Nov. 19-20.

TURKEYS may be dropped off at that time, or on Monday morning, November 21, before 9:30 am .

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RAFFLE TICKETS TO HELP “NEW HOPE FOR CHILDREN”

AVAILABLE AFTER ALL MASSES TODAY!

SHARE THE SPIRIT OF CHRISTMAS

What better way to prepare our homes and hearts for Christmas than to share

the blessings and joys of that holy season with those in need.

Our Giving Trees will be placed in the main entrance of the Church and at the Harrison Street entrance on November 23. Please take a tag from the Giving Tree, purchase the requested gift and then place the wrapped gift, with tag attached, under the tree the next time you come to Mass. The tag you take from the tree is very important. It tells our office staff and the agencies we are helping for whom the gift is meant. It is extremely important that the tag you took from the Giving Tree be attached securely to the wrapped gift so that it will reach the correct person on Christmas. All Giving Tree Gifts need to be returned no later than Monday, December 12.

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THIRTY THIRD SUNDAY IN ORDINARY TIME ~ NOVEMBER 13, 2016

The Vatican announced Monday, November 7, 2016 that recently announced Cardinal-elect Archbishop Joseph William Tobin, C.Ss.R., of Indianapolis will soon take over as the new head of the Archdiocese of Newark.

The son of the late Joseph W. Tobin and Marie Terese Kerwin, His Eminence, Joseph W. Tobin was born on May 3, 1952 in Detroit, MI. He is the oldest of 13 children. Joseph Tobin attended Holy Redeemer Elementary School in Detroit, and then graduated from St. Joseph’s Prep College, Edgerton, WI in 1970. He continued his education at Holy Redeemer College, Waterford, WI, receiving a Bachelor of Arts degree in Philosophy in 1975. From 1977 until 1979, he attended Mount Saint Alphonsus Seminary in Esopus, NY, earning Masters Degrees in Religious Education in 1977 and Divinity in 1979. In 1973, the Cardinal-elect professed vows as a member of the Congregation of the Most Holy Redeemer, the Redemptorists. In 1976, he professed perpetual vows with the Community. In 1978, he was ordained to both the diaconate and the priesthood. Between 1979 and 1984, Father Tobin served as associate pastor of Holy Redeemer Parish, Detroit, where he engaged in both pastoral ministry to the Hispanic community and youth ministry. In 1984, he was named pastor of Holy Redeemer Parish. He also served in a number of diocesan assignments within the Archdiocese of Detroit, including: Episcopal Vicar, member of the Presbyteral Council, and official in the Metropolitan Tribunal. From 1990 until 1991, he served as pastor of St. Alphonsus Parish in Chicago, a parish staffed in that Archdiocese by the Redemptorists. Within the Redemptorist Community, Father Tobin served as a Provincial Consultor from 1984 until 1990, as General Consultor of the Community in Rome from 1991 until 1997, and as Superior General of the Redemptorists in Rome from 1997 until 2009. On August 9, 2010, His Holiness, Pope Benedict XVI, named Father Tobin to the Roman Curia post of Secretary of the Congregation for Institutes of Consecrated Life and Societies of Apostolic Life (CICLSA), and titular Archbishop of Obba. On October 18, 2012, Pope Benedict appointed him to serve as the Sixth Archbishop of Indianapolis. He was installed as Archbishop of Indianapolis on December 3, 2012. His Holiness, Pope Francis, named him to the College of Cardinals on October 9, 2016. (continued above)

IN HIS OWN WORDS

In his remarks following Archbishop Myers’ introduction, Cardinal-elect Tobin explained that there were three principals that will guide his ministry as he discerns with the people of this local Church of Newark the way forward. “The criterion by which I want to be judged is

whether, by word and actions, I led people to a deeper love for Jesus, who is the merciful face of God. “My first conviction is that I am called to watch over the unity of this Archdiocese and to encourage in charity the journey of all toward an ever-greater knowledge, faith and love of Christ. “My second conviction is that the love of Christ is made manifest through His Body, the Church. In describing the mission of the Church. ...The Holy Father outlined the tasks of the Archdiocese of Newark: to heal the wounded hearts, to open doors, to free [people] to say that God is good, God forgives all, that God is our Father, God is tender, that God is always waiting for us.” “Third, I believe that the Church in every age is challenged to reproduce the double miracle that accompanied her birth. The first miracle is dramatic: on the day of Pentecost, people from many lands heard the Good News proclaimed by the apostles, each in his or her own language. This miracle produced an abundant response of faith. The second miracle is understated but nonetheless wonderfully real. There is no evidence that the response of faith erased the richness of culture. The Parthians, Medes, Elamites and all those other tongue-twisting nationalities did not “melt” into some celestial “pot.” The first Christians retained the richness of their cultures while discovering a principle of unity. This principle is nothing less than the Holy Spirit. … My service to the Church obliged me to live many years in cultures different from the Irish-American ambient of my family. So I am excited to lead an Archdiocese where the Eucharist is celebrated each Sunday in 20 languages. The Holy Spirit will help us prolong the double miracle of Pentecost.” “… I invite the Faithful of the Archdiocese of Newark to pray for me, that in my service to you, I might speak of the Good News with such authenticity that you may recognize in my words the voice of the Good Shepherd.”

Cardinal-elect Tobin speaks English, Spanish, Italian, French and Portuguese, and reads several other languages. He has participated in five Synods of Bishops, and has been a member of the Canon Law Society of America since 1985. He will serve as the Sixth Archbishop of Newark and will be formally installed January 6, 2017. … from rcan.org (Website of Archdiocese of Newark)

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SAINT JOSEPH CHURCH ORADELL/NEW MILFORD, NJ

“YEAR OF MERCY” SERIES JOIN US FOR 3 SPECIAL

PRESENTATIONS AT SAINT JOSEPH CHURCH

1. SAINT AUGUSTINE: Mercy in the Fathers of the Church —NOVEMBER 15 Msgr. David Hubba with parishioner Ana Posadas will offer a presentation on Saint Augustine (“The Preacher of Mercy”) as we continue our Year of Mercy series. The beautiful witness of the Church’s greatest early saints and their writings abundantly confirm the Scriptural examples of God’s mercy. Pope Francis believes that we can learn to be more merciful through these saints’ experiences of mercy. The talk will take place on Tuesday, November 15 at 9:15 am in the Jackson Room (in the lower church). There is NO COST and everyone is welcome!

2. CORPORAL AND SPIRITUAL WORKS

OF MERCY —NOVEMBER 19 Jesus asks us to follow him by identifying with and showing compassion to people most in need. Saint Joseph’s Social Concerns Committee will present "The Corporal and Spiritual Works of Mercy" in conjunction with the Legion of Mary's Third Saturday Prayer on Saturday, November 19 after the 8:30 am Mass in Mary's Chapel. There is NO COST and all are welcome!

3. PARABLES OF MERCY—NOVEMBER 26 Parishioners Dana and Barry Celestine invite us to see the “Parables of Mercy” (the prodigal son, the lost sheep, the rich man and Lazarus) in a new way, recognizing ourselves in the stories, on Saturday, November 26 after the 8:30 am Mass in Mary’s Chapel. The presentation is free and open to all. Please come! Through personal reflection we will see that mercy is a powerful force that overcomes all and fills our hearts with God’s pardon and love for us.

A CHRISTMAS GIFT TO REMEMBER

Looking for a special gift? Or a way to remember a loved one? Or something to record a special event (birth, Baptism, First Communion, Marriage) in the life of your family? A personalized engraved paver placed in our Commemorative Path (beside the church) or in our Garden of Saints (behind the parish office/rectory) may be just the answer. In the Garden we have shrines to Saints Francis of Assisi, Anthony of Padua, Joseph, Therese the Little Flower, and Jude. (We hope to include Saint Patrick in the near future.) Your brick can be placed in front of the saint of your choice. The donation for each brick is $125. Pick up an order form in the literature racks in the church or in the parish office/rectory and return it to 105 Harrison St., New Milford. Engraved bricks will be installed in the spring. Any questions, call 201-261-0148.

YOUR

LOVED ONE’S

NAME

PLEASE COME! INTERFAITH THANKSGIVING

PRAYER SERVICE—NOVEMBER 20 The annual Interfaith Thanksgiving Prayer Service will be held this year on Sunday, November 20 at 4:00 pm at Grace Lutheran Church (925 Fifth Avenue, River Edge). Saint Joseph will join Grace Lutheran and other houses of worship in our area to offer thanks to God for all our blessings. Help represent Saint Joseph at this beautiful prayer service that has become a very special tradition in our community.

PARISH FACILITIES UPDATE To keep you informed about all the exciting things happening with our parish facilities, Director Tom Meli will be sharing the latest

info every month. Here is his first report.

STAINED GLASS WINDOWS The repair and restoration of our beautiful windows is well underway. The reframing of the windows in the nave of the church has been completed along with the replacement of the clear protective glass. This now allows for the nave’s stained glass windows to be reinstalled one by one. The next step will be the small windows at the top of the sanctuary (the Prophets) and then the windows in the sacristies. The final stage will be the large rose window and triptych in the choir loft. Bovard Studios plans to have all the work completed by Advent.

SOUND SYSTEM in UPPER CHURCH The second project we are undertaking (with thanks to the generous donors of the “We Are Living Stones” capital campaign), is the replacement of our almost thirty-year-old sound system in the upper church. Monte Bros. Inc., which specializes in the design and installation of high quality sound systems in worship spaces, has already replaced some of the interior components of our system which should help to improve sound quality and eliminate feedback or sound drop off. After Christmas, speakers, exterior wiring and microphones will also be replaced.

PAINTING of UPPER CHURCH Also after Christmas, the nave of the upper church will be freshly painted. The sanctuary (altar area) and Grand Street entryway have already been completed.

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