Mun sanh con trai hay
Mun sanh con trai hay
Gi Phi tnh nh th no ?
Hn Lm Nguyn-Ph-Th
(Trch dn quyn thng T Vi u S V a L Thc Hnh nm 2007 t trang 185 n
trang 193 ca Gs Nguyn-Ph-Th)
Ngy xa, ng B chng ta thng quan nim : Trng Nam, khinh N, bi v nu
sanh c con Trai th xem nh tip ni di gia tc, tri li, nu sanh con Gi,
th xem nh N sanh ngoi tc hoc l : Nht Nam vit t hay (hu), thp N vit
v tc l xem : Mt a con Trai gi l con, cn mi a con Gi cng bng khng,
bi v con Trai s ni di gia tc, cho nn rt trng hn con Gi.
Vy phi tnh nh th no sanh con Trai hay Gi ?
Nhn y, xin mi qu b con ng hng th thc hin phng php nh sau :
Chng ta ch cn cng li :
- s tui ca ngi Chng.
- s tui ngi V.
- Thng th thai
(nn tnh theo nm thng m lch) bit kt qu sanh con Trai hay Gi.
Nu tng s l S L, th sanh con Trai, tri li nu tng s l S Chn, th
sanh con Gi.
Vit Nam ngy xa, thng thng mi khi sanh con chu, ng B mnh thng ghi
rt k lng Gi, Ngy, Thng, Nm Sanh bng m Lch, khi a tr th lt lng d
thng Ging hay thng Chp cng bt u tnh tui ti, bi v dn tc Vit Nam tnh
tui t thng th thai, cho nn c ngi sanh thng Chp, k n n Tt Nguyn n,
th phi chu oan 1 tui v xem nh 2 tui, mc d ch c vi thng cho i.
Nh vy, sau ny khi ln ln thnh lp gia tht dng v, g chng cho cc
con, cc chu th xem tui cho i tr trc khi tin hnh hn l d dng, cho nn
nm sanh nm ca i v chng Vt Nam tnh theo m Lch c Cha M ghi li r rng
cho cc con sau ny, t khng cn phi tnh t nm Dng Lch ri chuyn sang nm
m Lch nh nhng gia nh ng hng Vit Nam hi ngoi hin nay.
Do vy, cp v chng no mun sanh con Trai hay con Gi, th trc nht cng
s tui V Chng bit trc? V nh : Chng 26 tui + V 25 tui = 51 tui (Chng
ln hn V 1 tui).
Ri sau , tnh xem thng no th thai c tng s l S L, v nh cc thng : 2
- 4 - 6 - 8- 10 -12 (Chp), bi v : 26 +25 + thng 2 = 53 (s 53 l S L
s sanh con Trai)
Cn v nh nu cc thng : 1 (Ging) - 3 - 5 - 7 - 9 - 11 th thai, bi v
: 26 + 25 + thng 1 (Ging) = 52 hoc l : 26 + 25 + thng 3 = 54 (52 v
54 l 2 S Chn s sanh con Gi).
Ni tm li cho d hiu :
Mun sanh con Trai :
a)-Tng s tui ca cp v chng c s l, th phi chn thng th thai s chn
nh : 2 - 4 - 6 - 8 - 10 -12
b)-Tng s tui ca cp v chng c s chn, th phi chn thng th thai s l
nh : 1 -3 -5 -7 - 9 -11
Cn tri li :
Mun sanh con GI :
a)-Tng s tui ca cp v chng c s l, th phi chn thng th thai S L nh
: 1 -3 -5 -7 - 9 -11.
b)-Tng s tui ca cp v chng c s chn, th phi chn thng th thai S Chn
nh : 2 - 4 - 6 - 8 - 10 -12.
Bi v,
- S L cng vi S L thnh S Chn.
- S Chn cng vi S L thnh S L.
- S Chn cng vi S Chn thnh S Chn.
l, phng php trn c th thc hin sanh con Trai hay con Gi, khi ngi n
b th thai ri, ngy xa cha c my mc ti tn xem ci bo thai Trai hay Gi
hoc sanh i hay khng? cho nn c kinh nghim nh sau :
Nu ngi mang thai thm n nhiu v chua nh : Me, Kh, Chanh... th s
sanh con Gi hoc thm n nhiu v ngt nh : Ch, ng, Mt Ong...th s sanh
con Trai. Cn trng hp ngi mang thai thm n nhng loi khc c bit, th kh
bit Trai hay Gi, xem nh bt bnh thng.
Nu ngi mang thai ang i, c ngi i pha sau gi tn, ngi mang thai
quay li bn tri th xem nh sanh con Trai, cn quay li bn mt th xem nh
sanh con Gi.
Bi c cu :
Nam t, N hu (Nam tri, N phi).
Hn na, cn xem bng trn hoc nhn hay khng? hoc tri tai dy hay mng
bit ci bo thai Trai hay Gi?
l my trng hp trch dn tiu biu ca ngi xa thng dng...
Vic sanh con Trai hay con Gi l c tnh cch phn bit. Nhng ti thin
ngh d sanh con Trai hay Gi cng l con nh nhau cng hu ch cho gia nh
hay quc gia x hi, bng chng, nu chng ta nhn ngc li thi gian t nc b h
ca gic Tu gn 1000 nm qua cc triu i nh : Ng, Tn, Tng, T, Lng...cho
nn dn tc chng ta c c Nam ln N ng ln chng gic ngoi xm nh cc B Trng
Trc, Trng Nh...Hng o Vng Trn Quc Tun, Quang Trung Nguyn Hu.... lm
cho qun th khng th chim t nc chng ta.
Nhn nhc n cc anh hng dn tc chng gic ngoi xm, xin mi qu b con ng
hng c quyn Tm Hiu Lng M, nh v Trng Hc c Tn cc Danh Nhn VN trong Hu
Bn Th K XIX t trang 198 n 235 cng tc gi Nguyn Ph Th.
Mt c im na, nu chng ta bnh tm m xt, th mi con ngi trong chng ta
u c ci nghip, cho nn ngi ny thch ngh ny, ngi kia thch ngh n, k c t
tung cng vy...thnh ra chng ta tng nghe ni : Nht ngh tinh nht thn
vinh v Chn ngi Mi l th , c ai dm chc ni : anh ny hay hn ch kia hon
ton ging ti sut i bao gi (k c i v chng hay nhng cp sanh i).
Do vy, chng ta ng bao gi t ph bnh, khen ch i sng ca ngi ny hay
gia nh ngi kia, a n s phin no cho bn thn v ch, c nh vy tm chng ta
mi an lc v t ti. Bi v, nhng li ph bnh ca chng ta s khng bao gi thay
i c bn tnh v s sng ca ngi ny hay gia nh ngi kia, i khi chng ta b
ngi phin trch, hn th...v lm mt ht tnh hiu knh vi nhau. Hn na, chng
ta t hi c ai bng lng cho ngi no ph bnh hoc ch dy chng ta hay
khng?
Tr li, vic Mun sanh con Trai hay Gi nh thy, c th thc hin c nhu
cu ca gia nh mong mun, ch chng ta chu kh p dng cho ng phng php s c
toi nguyn v a con cho i Trai hay Gi m thi, nhng i khi cn khng th
thc hin c, v l do ny hay l do khc a n, bng chng :
C b thn mu ca C Trng Trnh Nguyn Bnh Khim, l con gi ca quan Thng
Th Nh Vn Lan, cn thn ph l C C Xuyn tin sanh Nguyn Vn nh rt mong c a
con ra i mt a con Trai ti c kinh bang t th tc s lm vua sau ny.
Sau khi song thn ca c Trng Trnh Nguyn Bnh Khim, b nhiu th gi tnh
thi gian, cho th thai, nhng tic thay, thn ph ca C thiu kin nhn, ch
khng thc hin ng gi nh, cho nn C Trng Trnh Nguyn Bnh Khim khng th lm
vua, m c vua phong tc Trnh Quc Cng, sau ny mi ngi u gi C l Trng
Trnh Nguyn Bnh Khim v cc mn nh : Phng Khc Khoan, Lng Hu Khnh, Nguyn
D... l nhng v khai quc cng thn ph nh L Trung Hng, tn xng C l Tuyt
Giang Phu T (tc ng Thy Tuyt Giang)...
Nhng nu xt cho tn tng, sanh c a con gi l qu t, th khng th d dng
hay n gin c, mc d c nhiu sch vit, xin trch dn nh sau :
- Khng nn c n i vo thi gian nh : Thp Trai Nht l : mng 1, 8, 14,
15 (rm), 18, 23, 24, 28, 29, 30 v nhng ngy : H Ch, ng Ch, Lp Xun,
Lp H, Lp Thu, Lp ng hoc ma to gi ln, sng m, lnh lo, nng bc, no qu,
qu say, tc gin, tri sm st, tri m u, Nht thc, Nguyt thc, tri ng rng,
ngy Thnh n, ngy va Pht, B Tt, Thn Tin, ngy k gi Cha M, ngy bn mng v
chng....
Ngoi ra, cc ni khng hnh dm i di nh sng Mt Tri, Mt Trng, ngn la,
trong miu Thn, Cha Pht, cnh ging nc, cu x, gn m v linh cu.
V nn n i trong thi gian, xin trch dn sau y :
1.- Sch Vng Tng vit :
NgyMa
Ngy Gip v tMa Xun
Ngy Bnh v inhMa H
Ngy Canh v TnMa Thu
Ngy Nhm v QuMa ng
Cn c dn, th cc ngy Mu v K th khng nn n i trong c nm 4 ma?
2.- Sch Nguyt Tc vit :
NgyThng
Ngy 10, 11 v 12Thng Ging
Ngy 4, 7, 10, 12 v 22Thng Hai
Ngy 2, 5, 7 v 10Thng Ba
Ngy 5, 10 v 22Thng T
Ngy 2, 4 v 20Thng Nm
Ngy 26Thng Su
Ngy 21 v 26Thng By
Ngy 13, 21, 22 v 26Thng Tm
Ngy 6, 16, 21 v 22Thng Chn
Ngy 4, 9, 17, 20 v 22Thng Mi
Ngy 16Thng Mi Mot
Ngy 4, 9, 13 v 17Thng Chp (*)
(*) tnh theo thng m lch, thng Chp tc l thng 12.
