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By Angela Blackburn OAKVILLE BEAVER STAFF Always listen to your inner voice — just don’t answer it out loud. Oakville’s 43-year-old Laura Andrews and Marie Borges listened and have, as a result, overcome breast cancer. They’ll share their experience with oth- ers at the Canada National Conference for Young Women with Breast Cancer Nov. 2- 4 at Toronto’s Sheraton Centre. The conference, organized by Tracey Guthrie, another young woman battling breast cancer in Toronto, is for young women with breast cancer, under age 45. Speakers will include Dr. Marla Shapiro, broadcasters Beverly Thomson and Libby Znaimer as well as workshops and activities meant to inspire including The Fashion Journey: Bringing Sexy Back on Nov. 2. All models in the show are young breast cancer survivors — among them will be Andrews and Borges. Fashions will include those for wed- dings, sports and the beach — important life experiences when you’re young or have young children, and bear extensive scars. Giggling about the riot that was a recent “tasteful” photo shoot to promote the conference, Andrews and Borges epito- mize the modern breast cancer survivor. They speak freely of their ordeal, the emotional roller coaster ride it is, the fears they must confront for themselves, and their young children, their need for sup- port, coping with medical treatments, fam- ily responsibilities, returning to work, tak- ing responsibility for their medical treat- ment, feeling the toll on their appearance — and the need to deal with it all head on and then move on, wiser, and richer emo- tionally, for the experience. It’s far from what used to happen when breast cancer patients weren’t encouraged to speak of what was happening to them. For Borges, an Oakville resident who attended St. James Catholic School and the former Gordon E. Perdue High School, breast cancer has been scary. She’s a single parent of 12-year-old Christopher. “He’s my strength. My life is not my own, he is my strength and he’s why I’m fighting this twice as hard,” said Borges, a legal assistant at a local law firm. Diagnosed before Christmas last year, Borges had surgery followed by chemotherapy and radiation. She is also among the 20 per cent of the population that has a higher risk for cancer cell growth so she receives a chemotherapy drug treat- ment every three weeks. It was at her annual physical that Borges pursued getting a mammogram. Two weeks later she was diagnosed. “You’ve got to always listen to that inner voice ... just don’t answer it out loud or everyone will look at you funny,” smiles Andrews. “I lost a friend at age 40. I watched her battle breast cancer. It went to her bones and she had a bone marrow transplant. I watched what cancer can do and it was a real kick in the stomach when I got it,” said Andrews. Andrews, too, had a mammogram and she, too, was diagnosed. She didn’t need chemotherapy, but had extensive surgery. Andrews and her husband, Gary, have a 10-year-old daughter Victoria and eight- year-old son Brendan. She was diagnosed in November of 2005, not long after her 41st birthday, had her surgery in December and returned to work in January. Now, as the ordeal of breast cancer moves behind them, if only recently, Andrews and Borges want to help others. That’s why they’re involved in the upcoming conference and they speak of a local support group for young breast can- The Oakville Beaver Weekend, Saturday October 27, 2007 - 39 www.oakvillebeaver.com FOOT AND ANKLE SPECIALIST Focused on your individualized needs. GAVIN BADYAL B.Sc.(Hon.), D.Ch REGISTERED CHIROPODIST 232 South Service Rd. Oakville 905-845-2291 [email protected] Covered by all private medical plans We do custom footwear and orthotics OPEN FRIDAY, SATURDAY, SUNDAY ONLY FOR YOUR CONVENIENCE Suffering from Heel Pain? Personal Trainer & Nutrition Counsellor Certified & Experienced Call Today! 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The correct number to call for your offer is 905 582 2642 As a follow up, Mind & Body Strength is giving talks to include more tips on how to keep weight off as well as Discuss ‘n’ Demonstrate sessions on toning up, core strength/flatter stomach, etc. Email or call to reserve your space now. Make your health a priority today…Get started with FREE Group walks, boot camp sessions & fitness assessment offered with this advert (above). Space is limited. Offer ends November 1, 2007. Boot camp 7.30am daily. Group walks 3.00pm daily. D ‘n’ D sessions 10.30am Tuesdays & Fridays. 905 582 2642 [email protected] wwwmindandbodystrength.com 232 South Service Rd. E, Oakville, ON L6J 2X5 www.alliancehealthcare.ca Dr. Jenna Davis Dr. Jenna Davis Family Chiropractor/ Acupuncturist Alliance Healthcare Professionals 905.845.2291 Specializes in: • Pediatrics • Pre and Postnatal Care • Naturally Turning Breech Babies • Headaches/Migraines • Low Back and Neck Pain • Fertility Issues Wellness care for the entire family! Halloween special offer... Mention this ad, and receive a consultation, examination, S-EMG, x-rays (if necessary) and report of findings with Dr. Jenna Davis for only $40.00! (a $180 value) Call and schedule an appointment with Dr. Jenna Davis TODAY! Offer expires November 11, 2007 Specializing in: • Foot/Arch Pain • General/Diabetic Care • Permanent Ingrown Toenail Removal • Custom Made Foot Orthotics Reiki and Reflexology now available 728 Burloak Drive CALL 905-632-1414 SALIMA KASSAM REG. CHIROPODIST P A STEP BEYOND IN CARE New Location MEDICAL BREAKTHROUGH Do you have back or neck pain? Our Spinal Decompression Technology can help! Call NOW for a free report on how to get your life back! 905-339-2500 Young breast cancer role models take action DEREK WOOLLAM / SPECIAL TO THE BEAVER BREAST OF FRIENDS: Marie Borges, left, and Laura Andrews are young breast cancer survivors involved in the first ever in Canada National Conference For Young Women with Breast Cancer to be held in Toronto Nov. 2-4. cer patients — where topics can include concerns of younger women. “Every person who gave me a bit of their time, made me feel better,” said Borges. “People think of cancer as a death sen- tence, but cancer can be beaten. People live with it, too,” said Andrews. Andrews said after five years of being cancer free, life expectancy rises to 80 per cent. Borges said she has an 87 per cent survival expectation. “That’s pretty sweet,” said Andrews, adding diet can be managed and noting, “The mind can do a lot for your body.” “I have not even once asked “why me? or been angry about having breast cancer. I believe this is some- thing I have to go through, as we all have challenges in our lives,” said Borges. “Having had breast cancer has certainly opened my eyes to what is really important in this world – those we love uncondi- tionally and the beauty that surrounds us,” said Andrews. Sharing the journey is at the heart of the conference. “Early detection and taking control of one’s life is so very important,” said Andrews. The conference will tackle issues such as on which date of a budding romance do you inform that special person that, due to a bilateral or radi- cal mastectomy, you have no breasts? How you can cope with relating to a 30-year-old friend’s wedding when you are worried about possibly having to plan your own funeral? How might you windsurf with pros- theses?” In 2004 the Canadian Breast Cancer Network started a research project focusing on young women with breast can- cer and published a report called Nothing Fit Me. A national committee was struck and the conference is a result. For conference details visit www.youngwomensconfer- ence.ca or call 1-800-685-8820.

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■ By Angela BlackburnOAKVILLE BEAVER STAFF

Always listen to your inner voice — justdon’t answer it out loud.

Oakville’s 43-year-old Laura Andrewsand Marie Borges listened and have, as aresult, overcome breast cancer.

They’ll share their experience with oth-ers at the Canada National Conference forYoung Women with Breast Cancer Nov. 2-4 at Toronto’s Sheraton Centre.

The conference, organized by TraceyGuthrie, another young woman battlingbreast cancer in Toronto, is for youngwomen with breast cancer, under age 45.

Speakers will include Dr. Marla Shapiro,broadcasters Beverly Thomson and LibbyZnaimer as well as workshops and activitiesmeant to inspire including The FashionJourney: Bringing Sexy Back on Nov. 2.

All models in the show are young breastcancer survivors — among them will beAndrews and Borges.

Fashions will include those for wed-dings, sports and the beach — importantlife experiences when you’re young or haveyoung children, and bear extensive scars.

Giggling about the riot that was arecent “tasteful” photo shoot to promotethe conference, Andrews and Borges epito-mize the modern breast cancer survivor.

They speak freely of their ordeal, theemotional roller coaster ride it is, the fearsthey must confront for themselves, andtheir young children, their need for sup-port, coping with medical treatments, fam-ily responsibilities, returning to work, tak-ing responsibility for their medical treat-ment, feeling the toll on their appearance— and the need to deal with it all head onand then move on, wiser, and richer emo-tionally, for the experience.

It’s far from what used to happen whenbreast cancer patients weren’t encouragedto speak of what was happening to them.

For Borges, an Oakville resident whoattended St. James Catholic School and theformer Gordon E. Perdue High School,breast cancer has been scary. She’s a singleparent of 12-year-old Christopher.

“He’s my strength. My life is not myown, he is my strength and he’s why I’mfighting this twice as hard,” said Borges, alegal assistant at a local law firm.

Diagnosed before Christmas last year,Borges had surgery followed bychemotherapy and radiation. She is also

among the 20 per cent of the populationthat has a higher risk for cancer cell growthso she receives a chemotherapy drug treat-ment every three weeks.

It was at her annual physical thatBorges pursued getting a mammogram.Two weeks later she was diagnosed.

“You’ve got to always listen to that innervoice ... just don’t answer it out loud oreveryone will look at you funny,” smilesAndrews.

“I lost a friend at age 40. I watched herbattle breast cancer. It went to her bonesand she had a bone marrow transplant. Iwatched what cancer can do and it was areal kick in the stomach when I got it,”said Andrews.

Andrews, too, had a mammogram andshe, too, was diagnosed. She didn’t needchemotherapy, but had extensive surgery.

Andrews and her husband, Gary, have a10-year-old daughter Victoria and eight-year-old son Brendan.

She was diagnosed in November of2005, not long after her 41st birthday, hadher surgery in December and returned towork in January.

Now, as the ordeal of breast cancermoves behind them, if only recently,Andrews and Borges want to help others.

That’s why they’re involved in theupcoming conference and they speak of alocal support group for young breast can-

The Oakville Beaver Weekend, Saturday October 27, 2007 - 39www.oakvillebeaver.com

FOOT AND ANKLE SPECIALISTFocused on your individualized needs.

GAVIN BADYAL B.Sc.(Hon.), D.ChREGISTERED CHIROPODIST

232 South Service Rd. Oakville

[email protected]

Covered by all private medical plans

We do custom footwear and orthotics

OPENFRIDAY, SATURDAY, SUNDAY ONLY

FOR YOUR CONVENIENCE

Suffering from Heel Pain?

Personal Trainer & Nutrition CounsellorCertifi ed & Experienced

Call Today!

(905) [email protected]

Strength & Cardio TrainingCore & Circuit TrainingKickboxing & Boot CampsGroup Walks & RunsFlexibility & NutritionBoxing Classes

PRIVATE & PUBLIC STUDIOS, HOME, GYM & OFFICE VISITS AVAILABLECALL NOW TO FIND OUT HOW WE CAN GET YOU FIT AND MAKE YOUR LIFE LESS BUSY AND STRESSFUL

As part of lifestyle support, we also offer concierge services:• Pick ups/drop offs• Grocery shopping• Cleaning• Help with home management

• Assistance with event and party planning• Elderly home help• Small business offi ce help and more

CORRECTION NOTICEThere was an error in the contact information given for the

article that appeared on Saturday October 20th titled – How to keep weight off this winter (in Health & Wellness).

The correct number to call for your offer is 905 582 2642As a follow up, Mind & Body Strength is giving talks to include more tips on how to keep weight

off as well as Discuss ‘n’ Demonstrate sessions on toning up, core strength/fl atter stomach, etc. Email or call to reserve your space now.

Make your health a priority today…Get started with FREEGroup walks, boot camp sessions & fi tness assessment offered with this advert

(above). Space is limited. Offer ends November 1, 2007.Boot camp 7.30am daily. Group walks 3.00pm daily. D ‘n’ D sessions 10.30am

Tuesdays & Fridays.905 582 2642 [email protected]

wwwmindandbodystrength.com232 South Service Rd. E, Oakville, ON L6J 2X5

www.alliancehealthcare.ca

Dr. Jenna Davis

Dr. Jenna DavisFamily Chiropractor/

AcupuncturistAlliance Healthcare

Professionals

905.845.2291

Specializes in:• Pediatrics• Pre and Postnatal Care• Naturally Turning Breech Babies

• Headaches/Migraines• Low Back and Neck Pain• Fertility Issues

Wellness care for the entire family!

Halloween special offer...Mention this ad, and receive a consultation, examination,

S-EMG, x-rays (if necessary) and report of findings with Dr. Jenna Davis for only $40.00! (a $180 value)

Call and schedule an appointment with Dr. Jenna Davis TODAY!Offer expires November 11, 2007

Specializing in: • Foot/Arch Pain

• General/Diabetic Care • Permanent Ingrown

Toenail Removal • Custom Made Foot Orthotics

Reiki and Reflexology now available

728 Burloak DriveCALL 905-632-1414

SALIMA KASSAMREG. CHIROPODIST

P

A STEP BEYOND IN CARE

New Location

MEDICAL BREAKTHROUGHDo you have back or

neck pain? Our Spinal

Decompression Technology

can help!

Call NOW for a free report

on how to get your life

back!

905-339-2500

Young breast cancer role models take action

DEREK WOOLLAM / SPECIAL TO THE BEAVER

BREAST OF FRIENDS: Marie Borges, left, and Laura Andrews are young breastcancer survivors involved in the first ever in Canada National Conference For YoungWomen with Breast Cancer to be held in Toronto Nov. 2-4.

cer patients — where topics can includeconcerns of younger women.

“Every person who gave me a bit of theirtime, made me feel better,” said Borges.

“People think of cancer as a death sen-tence, but cancer can be beaten. People livewith it, too,” said Andrews.

Andrews said after five years of beingcancer free, life expectancy rises to 80 percent. Borges said she has an 87 per centsurvival expectation.

“That’s pretty sweet,” said Andrews,adding diet can be managed and noting,“The mind can do a lot for your body.”

“I have not even once asked “why me? or

been angry about having breastcancer. I believe this is some-thing I have to go through, aswe all have challenges in ourlives,” said Borges.

“Having had breast cancerhas certainly opened my eyes towhat is really important in thisworld – those we love uncondi-tionally and the beauty thatsurrounds us,” said Andrews.

Sharing the journey is atthe heart of the conference.

“Early detection and takingcontrol of one’s life is so veryimportant,” said Andrews.

The conference will tackleissues such as on which date ofa budding romance do youinform that special person

that, due to a bilateral or radi-cal mastectomy, you have nobreasts? How you can copewith relating to a 30-year-oldfriend’s wedding when you areworried about possibly havingto plan your own funeral? Howmight you windsurf with pros-theses?”

In 2004 the Canadian BreastCancer Network started aresearch project focusing onyoung women with breast can-cer and published a reportcalled Nothing Fit Me. Anational committee was struckand the conference is a result.

For conference details visitwww.youngwomensconfer-ence.ca or call 1-800-685-8820.