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Jesus: Our Model of Servanthood

You have been blessed.Soar in the power of the Holy Spirit

SEVEN HABITS CAN CHANGE OUR

LIFE - AND OUR COMMUNITY

Good choices made repeatedly over time develop into habits, which have a positive lifelong influence. The seven habits are

essential for living Familia vision of community. We, as Individuals, groups and organizations are called to develop these habits.

PRACTICE SERVANT LEADERSHIP

• Listen first. Learn from others. Consider the needs of all.• Practice humility and generosity of spirit when using your

gifts and skills.• Lead for the good of the community not for advancing your

own image.• Speak up for those in need and those who have no voice.• Encourage your members in the organization to make a

positive contribution.

HOW DO I LEARN FROM OTHERS AND ENCOURAGE THEM TO USE THEIR GIFTS?

Ready for a challenge? Want to make a difference? 

TREAT YOURSELF WITH RESPECT

• Seek relationships that bring out the best in you and others.

• Makes choices which are safe, healthy and consistent with our faith tradition and values

• Follow the law.• Develop a sense of reverence for the dignity of

your oneself.

DO I RESPECT MYSELF? HOW DOES MY BEHAVIOR SHOW IT?

TREAT OTHERS WITH RESPECT

DOES MY BEHAVIOR SHOW RESPECT

FOR THE PEOPLE AROUND ME?

Do you take time to reflect on your experiences and increase your self-awareness?

Be surrounded by others who have a common passion or interest as you

TREAT OTHERS WITH RESPECT

• Demonstrate dignity and respect in your communication with others

• Develop relationships with people who are different from you.

• Honor the dignity and sexual integrity of others with your actions and words.

• Pay attention to the safety, comfort and health of others

• Learn to handle conflict with respect, dialogue, understanding and forgiveness.

BE HONEST, TRUTHFUL AND LIVE WITH INTEGRITY

AM I BECOMING THE KIND OF PERSON I WANT TO BE?

Who are you becoming?

Are our personal decisions consistent with our values?

As members of our community we look out for one another.

Respectfully confront others who violate legitimate

expectations for healthy living and learning.

BE HONEST, TRUTHFUL AND LIVE WITH INTEGRITY

• Model moral behavior and virtue.• Practice behavior that is not insulting, demeaning,

destruction or harmful to you or others.• Exercise integrity. Follow the Honor Code• Respond truthfully and respectfully when your

behavior is questioned.• Accept the consequences of your behavior, while

learning to forgive and to accept forgiveness.

AM I WILLING TO BE PART OF A FAITH TRADITION THAT IS LARGER AND WISER THAN ME?

The Familia Community is committed to the spiritual and religious

development of all members regardless of their status in life.

What wisdom does my faith

bring to my personal life and path to holiness?

NO MAPQUEST FOR YOUR JOURNEY OF FAITH. 

IT BEGINS WITH A SINGLE STEP.

Wherever you are in your faith, Familia Community can help you explore and grow through the things you love to do.

DEVELOP YOUR FAITH LIFE

DEVELOP YOUR FAITH LIFE

• Develop a capacity for silence. Pray – alone and with others. Participate in worship.

• Reflect on how faith contributes meaning t and challenges your everyday life.

• Study your religious tradition to deepen your understanding, practice and commitment to it.

• Learn about and show respect for the religious traditions of others.

• Live gratefully, show appreciation and give thanks to God and others.

INTEGRATE LEARNING & LIVING

ARE ALL OF THE DIMENSIONS OF MY LIFE IN HARMONY?

Through participation in the distinctive living and learning community at Familia, members accept the challenge of moral

development which will prepare them to live as mature members of a pluralistic society. Community living calls us to spiritual rigor integrated with faith and life, challenging each

person and group to take up the hard work necessary to build the intellectual, spiritual, religious, moral, physical, and

social dimensions of our community.

INTEGRATE LEARNING & LIVING• Learn about Catholic views of life, which shape

Familia values.• Inform and integrate your faith and beliefs with

your spiritual learning and moral living.• Seek truth and wisdom, not just knowledge

and skills.• Seek mentors and models who will affirm and

challenge you.• Consider your life’s path not just as a career,

but as a vocation, a calling from God.• Grieve losses, embrace challenges and

celebrate successes: live fully and joyfully.

My Mentor

TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR SELF & COMMUNITY

WHAT DOES IT MEAN FOR ME TO CONTRIBUTE TO THE COMMON GOOD?

Your decisions and actions affect people in your homecells,

houses, neighborhood, parish, city, country and ultimately the

world community.

We are called to work actively to create and promote

the common good at Familia and

beyond. 

In what ways are you willing to accept support

and challenge from others at Familia?

Who are the weakest and most vulnerable in our community?

How do you serve them?

TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR SELF & COMMUNITY

• Exercise self-discipline as an individual and in group situations.

• Be aware of the weakest and most vulnerable member around you and seek to serve them.

• Challenge groups and organization to respond to community problems and needs.

• Speak up when you witness abuse, drug use, violence, and behaviors that harm or demean people and damage community.

Know yourself.Part of being an effective leader is knowing your strengths and weaknesses. What types of activities do you enjoy? At what things to you excel? What areas aren’t your strongest? By figuring out what you like and what you’re good at, you’ll prepare yourself leading others.

Don’t be afraid to make mistakes.No leader, no matter how effective, is perfect. People make mistakes. Since it’s a fact of life, don’t fear and make decisions anyway. Remember: you miss 100 percent of the shots you don’t take.

Find a role model.Effective leaders emulate others. Find a person who embodies the traits you’d like to have yourself. Want to be a successful leaders? Find a leader in your community and learn from that person. How does that leader manage their time? What are his or her priorities? What advice can he or she offer to young leaders?

Focus on others.Remember that the best leaders are servants – they serve others first. Find ways you can build your leadership by serving others. When can you volunteer? Is there a neighbor that could use a helping hand? If you see a need, step in and fill it. Don’t worry about recognition.

Listen. Listen. Listen.Some leaders seem to do nothing but talk. But the most effective leaders are the ones who spend a lot of time listening. Take the time to learn from the people around you. You’ll find out their challenges and concerns, but you’ll also get suggestions and ideas.

1. Put the group first. True leaders know that the team is a priority.

2. Have confidence. Know that you will make the right choice for your group and yourself.

3. Set good example. Lead by doing.

4. Communication. Include everyone in your group.

5. Be a friend. Treat everyone as you would like to be treated.

6. Show respect. Servants must respect leaders and leaders must respect servants.

7. Find a need and fill it. Have courage to make positive changes.

8. Make a commitment. Plan for the future.

9. Think of your family. Avoid anything that would embarrass your loved ones.

10. Develop a sense of community. Work to connect the people in your group.

Lingkod ka ba?

“Tularan ninyo ako, gaya ng

pagtulad ko kay Kristo?”1 Corinto 11:1

Pagsasanay ng mga Lingkod

October 3, 10, 17, 2013 (1-5 P.M.)

Sacred Heart ChapelMontaña Subd., Burgos,

Rodriguez