Smart Parenting for Smart Kids - book excerpt

8/6/2019 Smart Parenting for Smart Kids - book excerpt

1/16

TABXNG G\DG_XV CINU.

X_G-C_FG_ VLG OCCK VCFAU!


2/16


3/16

Tbart Xargitei`

Jcr Tbart Kefs=

Iurturei` Ucur DlenfsVrug Xctgitean

Genggi Kgiigfy-Bccrg, Xl.F.

Bark T. Ncwgitlan, Xsy.F.

SSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS

?811 Genggi Kgiigfy-Bccrg & Bark T. Ncwgitlan

Xuoneslgf oy Mcssgy-Oass/Pengy, Tai Jraidesdc, DA.

Gxdgrpt rgpreitgf wetl pgrbesseci.


4/16

Xraesg jcr Tbart Xargitei` jcr Tbart Kefs

Vles occk es a netgran @cfsgif. Xargits wenn fiif `rgat wesfcb ei ets pa`gs.

- Ttgplgi _. Dcvgy, autlcr cj Vlg 0 Laoets cj Le`lny Gjjgdtevg Xgcpng

A sbart, fggpny pgrdgptevg aif ebpcrtait occk.

- Pgify Bc`gn, XlF, autlcr cj Vlg Ongssei` cj a Tkeiigf Kiggaif

Vlg Ongssei` cj a O Beius

A jrgsl pargitei` occk finngf wetl veìgttgs aif stratgègs jcr raesei` sbart kefs

tc ogdcbg lgantly, lappy aif dcitreoutei` afunts. Et sleigs ne`lt ci tlg beifsgt

iggfgf tc dcuitgr tlg gjjgdts ci cur dlenfrgi cj cur le`l-stakgs dunturg aif gfu-dateci systgb.

- Zedke Aogngs, Xrcfudgr aif Dc-Fergdtcr,_adg tc Icwlgrg

SSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS

Ctlgr occks wrettgi cr dc-autlcrgf oy Genggi Kgiigfy-Bccrg=

Vlg Wiwrettgi _ungs cj Jregifslep=

Tebpng Ttratgègs tc Lgnp Ucur Dlenf Bakg Jregifs

(jcr pargits)

Gxprgssei` Gbcteci=

Bytls, _ganetegs, aif Vlgrapguted Ttratg egs

(jcr bgitan lgantl prcjgssecians)

Plat Aocut Bg31? Pays tc @gt Ucur Xargits Attgiteci Petlcut Lettei` Ucur Testgr

(jcr dlenfrgi)

SSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS

Ictg tc _gafgrs

Vlg veìgttgs ei tles occk arg oasgf ci dcbpcsetgs cj dlenfrgi wg lavg kicwi. Iabgs

aif efgitejyei` eijcrbateci lavg oggi dlai`gf cr cbettgf. Vlg feancùgs arg fidtecian.

Vlgy arg eitgifgf tc rgprgsgit typedan oglavecr aif prcongbs, aif tlgy fc ict rgjgr tc

spgdefid pgcpng cr rgan gvgits. Vles occk es jcr `gigran gfudatecian purpcsgs ciny. Et fcgs

ict dcistetutg aif slcunf ict suostetutg jcr eifevefuan prcjgssecian afvedg, psydlctlgrapy,

cr tlg prcveseci cj psydlcncèdan sgrvedgs.


5/16

EIV_CFWDVECI=

_gtleikei` Xctgitean

Xctgiteanes a fai`grcus wcrf.

Plgi scbgcig tgnns ycu tlat ycur dlenf las rgan pctgitean, ycu prcoaony jggn

fgne`ltgf. Bayog ycu ebaèig ycur dlenf scarei` tlrcu`l nejg, surpassei` ann

cj ycur addcbpneslbgits, sujjgrei` icig cj ycur sgtoadks, wleng ycu watdl

wetl ncvei` afberateci.

Out tlgi tlg wcrregs start, ogdausg pctgitean, ajtgr ann, es a pcsseoenety, ict a

ùaraitgg. Plat ej ycur dlenf fcgsit nevg up tc tlat pctgitean3

Vlg Xrgssurg tc Lgnp Cur Kefs Adlegvg

Jregifs, ige`locrs, aif tlg dlenf ebprcvgbgit eifustry arg quedk tc tgnn us

gvgrytlei` wg iggf tc fc tc lgnp cur dlenfrgi rgadl tlger pctgitean. Vlgy eisest=

- Xnay Bczart wleng ycur oaoy es ei tlg wcbo.

- Wsg tlg oraei occstei` oaoy jcrbuna.- Teì ycur tcffngr up jcr `yb dnassgs tc fgvgncp `rcss bctcr skenns.

- Arrai`g jcr bused dnassgs tc fgvgncp ycur dlenfs batlgbatedan

tleikei`.

- Ttart scddgr oy tlrgg cr et wenn og tcc natg.

- Naiùa`g ebbgrseci bust takg pnadg ogjcrg tlg dretedan pgrecf gifs.

- Ets ict gicu`l tc fc cig adtevety; ycu lavg tc bakg surg ycur dlenf

es wgnn rcuifgf.

Jrcb ann sefgs, tlg bgssa`g es, Ttart garny; `c jastgr; fc bcrg. Vlg

garigstigss aif eitgisety cj tles afvedg bakgs et sggb as tlcu`l aiy

pargit wlc fcgsit seì lgr dlenfrgi up jcr a ogvy cj giredlei` adtevetegs es

ig`ngdtjun.

Pg ann kicw tlat cvgrsdlgfungf dlenfrgi (tlat es, kefs wlc fc bcrg adtevetegs

tlai curs fc!) arg a iatecian prcongb, out tlg prgssurg aif dcbpgtetecidciteiug, aif ictlei` dlai`gs. Xlencscpledanny, wg be`lt apprgdeatg tlg vanug

cj fcwi tebg, out as pargits, wgrg ajraef tc fc aiytlei` ngss tlai gvgrytlei`

pcsseong tc fgvgncp cur dlenfrgis pctgitean.

7


6/16

Ei cur zgan aif aixegty tc bakg surg cur dlenfrgi junfinn tlger pctgitean, wg ncck

tc `rafgs, tgst sdcrgs, aif dnass pnadgbgit as ej tlgy wgrg drystan oanns eitc

tlg juturg -- comgdtevg aif eijanneong eifedatcrs cj wlat negs algaf. Pg jrgt ej a

`rafg es ncw. Pg wcrry tlat cur dlenfrgi be`lt ict og wcrkei` larf gicu`l.

Pg jgar tlat tlg durredunub cjjgrei`s be`lt ict og dlanngi`ei` gicu`l. A`aei,wg arg ocboarfgf oy afvedg= Cl, esit ycur fau`ltgr fcei` tlg dcbputgr-

oasgf tutcrei` tlat wenn afvaidg lgr tgst sdcrgs cig wlcng ygar3 Pg bcietcr

lcbgwcrk, lgnp tlgb stufy jcr tgsts, dretequg tlger papgrs, supgrvesg tlger

sdegidg prcmgdts, aif wcrry wgrg ict fcei` gicu`l. Pg wcunfit wait cur

dlenfrgi tc wastg tlger pctgitean.

Vlg Ourfgi cj Xctgitean

Ets vgry gasy jcr tlcu`lts aocut pctgitean tc snep jrcb pcsseoenety tc

gxpgdtateci. Dcisdegitecus gjjcrts tc suppcrt aif gidcura`g cur dlenfrgis

adlegvgbgit dai frejt eitc aixecus dcidgris aocut wlat tlgy dcunf

addcbpnesl, ej ciny tlgy appny tlgbsgnvgs fene`gitny gicu`l aif takg tlg re`lt

dnassgs aif `gt tlg re`lt cppcrtuietegs aif sdcrg le`l gicu`l

Xctgitean ogdcbgs a ourfgi wlgi wg sgg et as a prgfgsteigf dannei` tcebprgssevg addcbpneslbgits. Octl pargits aif dlenfrgi dai ogdcbg

sgfudgf eitc jcdusei` ci pgrjcrbaidg ratlgr tlai `rcwtl, ci ogei` Vlg

Ogst ratlgr tlai bakei` prc`rgss, aif ci addubunatei` gxtgrian awarfs aif

addcbpneslbgits as tlg prebary bgasurg cj wcrtl. Pcrst cj ann, tles cig-

febgisecian pgrspgdtevg ci pctgitean drgatgs a tgrreong jgar cj jaenurg.

A Fejjgrgit Efga cj Xctgitean

A iarrcw vegw cj pctgitean su``gsts tlat tlgrg es scbg ncjty `cnf rei` cj

suddgss cur dlenfrgi wenn getlgr mubp le`l gicu`l tc rgadl et cr gnsg jann slcrt.

Out nejg fcgsit wcrk tlat way. Ei rgan nejg, tlgrg arg ncts cj dlcedgs, ncts cj

dlaidgs, aif ncts cj patls. Et bakgs ic sgisg tc tank aocut kefs ict nevei` up

tc tlger pctgitean ogdausg tlg beradng cj dlenfrgi es tlat wg must fcit kicw

lcw tlgy wenn dlai`g cr wlc tlgy wenn ogdcbg. Vlg patl cj fgvgncpbgit es a

mcurigy cj fesdcvgry tlat es dngar ciny ei rgtrcspgdt, aif ets rargny a strae`ltneig.

Vles occk es jcr pargits wlc uifgrstaif tlat pctgitean es ict ai gifpceit out a

:


7/16

dapadety tc `rcw aif ngari. Iurturei` dlenfrgis pctgitean, ei tlg orcafgst

sgisg, bgais duntevatei` tlger lubaiety. Et eivcnvgs suppcrtei` tlger gxpaifei`

aoenetegs tc rgadl cut tc ctlgrs wetl keifigss aif gbpatly, tc jggn part cj

scbgtlei` oe``gr tlai tlgbsgnvgs, tc fiif mcy aif satesjadteci ei drgatei` a nejg

tlat es pgrscianny bgaiei`junaif sc budl bcrg.

Vlg Fcwisefg cj Ogei` Tbart

Dcidgris aocut adlegvei` pctgitean tgif tc og gspgdeanny prcbeigit wlgi

et dcbgs tc sdlccn pgrjcrbaidg. Bayog tles es ogdausg kefs spgif sc budl

tebg ei sdlccn. Bayog ets ogdausg sdlccn es cjtgi a sg`ug tc juturg darggrs. Cr

bayog ets ogdausg icwafays dlenfrgis adafgbed pgrjcrbaidg es dcistaitny

ratgf aif raikgf.

Plats surpresei` tc us es tlat tlg `rgatgst aixegty aocut adlegvgbgitei octl

pargits aif kefscjtgi surrcuifs tlg dlenfrgi wlc lavg tlg bcst sdlcnasted

aptetufg. Vlgsg dlenfrgi spgif a nct cj tebg tleikei` aif lgarei` aocut wlat

tlgy dcunf cr slcunf adlegvgogdausg cj tlger pctgitean.

Vlgrg arg ncts cj ways tc og sbart, out ei tles occk, wlgi wg rgjgr tc sbartcr ore`lt kefs, wgrg tankei` aocut dlenfrgi wlc arg aong tc gari As aif Os,

gvgi ej tlgy argit durrgitny prcfudei` ei sdlccn. Ogdausg tlgy arg sc dapaong,

tlgy cjtgi jadg a nct cj prgssurg tc adlegvg. Aif scbgtebgs tlat dai ngaf tc tcc

budl jcdus ci wlat tlgy fc ratlgr tlai ci wlc tlgy arg.

Ply Pg Prctg Vles Occk

Kefs tcfay jadg uiequg dlanngi`gs ei fgvgncpei` a lgantly pgrspgdtevg ciadlegvgbgit. Pgvg cosgrvgf tles ei cur cwi dlenfrgi, ei cur jregifs kefs,

aif ei tlg dlenfrgi wg wcrk wetl ei cur psydlcnc`y pradtedgs. Vcc cjtgi, wgvg

sggi sbart kefs wlc

- @evg up at tlg first se`i cj fejfidunty,

- Ogdcbg festrau`lt cvgr beicr bestakgs,

- Tggb uibctevatgf aif put jcrtl beieban gjjcrt - Jeif wcrkei` wetl dnassbatgs eitcngraong

- @gt eitc iggfngss pcwgr stru``ngs wetl afunts

- Jggn ncigny aif fesdciigdtgf jrcb pggrs.

0


8/16

As dneiedan psydlcnc`ests, wgvg sggi a nct cj ore`lt out uilappy dlenfrgi. Ei

jadt, scbg cj tlg bcst besgraong, ai`ry, cr strgssgf-cut kefs wgvg wcrkgf

wetl wgrg ansc tlg bcst adafgbedanny dapaong.

Pg nevg ei a iardessested a`g tlat gbplasezgs ogei` ebprgssevg aif sggkei`afberateci. Tafny, sbart kefs arg cjtgi tlg cigs wlc arg lurt bcst oy tles

jcdus ci gxtgrians. Ogdausg tlgy dai pgrjcrb, aif tlat pgrjcrbaidg sggbs sc

ebpcrtait tc gvgrycig arcuif tlgb, tlgy bay start tc ognegvg tlat tlgy arg tlg

pgrjcrbaidg.

A rgan fai`gr jadei` ore`lt dlenfrgi es tlat tlgy wenn dcbg tc fgfiig tlgbsgnvgs

scngny ei tgrbs cj tlger addcbpneslbgitstc ognegvg, Eb sbart, out tlats ann

E ab. Vles bakgs tlgb tgrreony vunigraong. Ej tlgy fcit pgrjcrb pgrjgdtny,ej scbgcig gnsg es sbartgr, ej tlgy lavg tc stru``ng tc ngari scbgtlei`, cr ej

tlgy gidcuitgr aiy sgtoadk, tlgy jggn eiafgquatg cr gvgi wcrtlngss. A beicr

dretedesb ngavgs tlgb jggnei` wcuifgf cr gira`gf. Gvgi tlger vedtcregs dai

jggn gbpty ogdausg afberateci es a dcnf suostetutg jcr dncsgigss. Plgi kefs

bgasurg tlger wcrtl scngny ei tgrbs cj adlegvgbgit, tlger sgnj-eba`g ogdcbgs

festcrtgf aif tlger aoenety tc dciigdt wetl ctlgrs es dreppngf.

Vlg aitefctg es tc lgnp dlenfrgi tc duntevatg a orcaf sgnj-fgfiieteci tlat

gidcbpassgs ict ciny tlger aoenetegs, out ansc tlger lubaiety. Vles fcgs ict

bgai getlgr sgttnei` jcr bgfecdrety cr drgatei` supgr kefs; et bgais lgnpei`

dlenfrgi fgvgncp tlg jcuifateci tlgy iggf tc fesdcvgr tlger passecis, ouenf

rgnatecisleps, sustaei gjjcrt, aif drgatg a nejg wetl autlgited lappeigss.

Pg wrctg tles occk ogdausg wg waitgf tc og a vcedg cj dnarety aif dcbjcrt jcr

pargits wlc darg aocut fgvgncpei` tlger dlenfrgis eiigr strgi`tl. Dcbpasseci,pgrspgdtevg, rettlgsg quanetegs argit igdgssareny ebprgssevgycur kefs

wcit wei a dgrtefidatg jcr fgvgncpei` tlgbout tlgy arg gssgitean tc a wgnn-

nevgf nejg.

Tgvgi Juifabgitan Dlanngi`gs

Ann dlenfrgi jadg dlanngi`gs `rcwei` up, out jcr ore`lt dlenfrgi, dcidgrisaocut adlegvgbgit dai gdnepsg aif dcbpnedatg icrban fgvgncpbgitan tasks.

Vlg dlaptgrs ei tles occk le`lne`lt sgvgi juifabgitan dlanngi`gs=


9/16

1. Vgbpgrei` pgrjgdteciesb

?. Ouenfei` dciigdteci

4. Baiaèi` sgisetevety

6. Laifnei` dccpgrateci aif dcbpgteteci

7. Fganei` wetl autlcrety :. Fgvgncpei` bctevateci

0. Jeifei` mcy

Vlgsg arg tlg dcrg essugs tlat kefs stru``ng wetl aif pargits wcrry aocut. Gadl

cj tlgsg essugs eivcnvgs dlenfrgi fiùrei` cut wlc tlgy arg, lcw tlgy rgnatg tc

ctlgrs, aif wlat adlegvgbgit bgais tc tlgb. Vlgsg arg dcbpngx essugs tlat

dann jcr fggpny pgrscian rgspcisgs, out tlgrg arg tlei`s ycu dai fc tc lgnp ycur

dlenf iaveàtg tlgb.

Vles occk es scnuteci-jcdusgf aif finngf wetl pradtedan stratgègs tlat ycu dai

usg tcfay aif dciteiug tc usg as ycur dlenf `rcws aif fgvgncps. Vlg stratgègs

tlat wg fgsdreog arg fc-aong ei tlg dcursg cj gvgryfay nejg. A nct cj tlgb

eivcnvg dcivgrsatecis, gxpnaiatecis, cr ways cj rgspcifei` tc ycur dlenfs

oglavecr.

Vlg Ebpcrtaidg cj tlg Gngbgitary Tdlccn Ugars

Vlg gxabpngs aif stratgègs fgsdreogf ei tlg occk jcdus ci dlenfrgi

apprcxebatgny sex tc twgnvg ygars cnf. Vles a`g rai`g dcvgrs tlg pgrecf wlgi

adafgbed prgssurg starts, out tlg stakgs argit ygt sc le`l. Dlenfrgis dcpei`

aoenetegs dai eidrgasg frabatedanny furei` tlgsg ygars. Ets a pgrecf cj eitgisg

eitgnngdtuan `rcwtl, furei` wledl dlenfrgi àei tlg aoenety tc rgasci ncèdanny,

uifgrstaif dausg aif gjjgdt, aif scnvg prcongbs.

Ei gngbgitary sdlccn, dlenfrgi ogèi tc fgvgncp a staong sgisg cj efgitety,

aif tlgy tgif tc og ngss sgnj-dgitgrgf tlai ycui`gr dlenfrgi ogdausg tlgy dai

uifgrstaif tlat ctlgr pgcpng lavg fejjgrgit tlcu`lts, jggnei`s, aif waits. Vlgy

ansc ogèi tc dcbparg tlgbsgnvgs tc pggrs aif tc bakg muf`bgits aocut tlger

cwi rgnatevg dcbpgtgidg. Ann cj tles bgais tlat tles es a tebg wlgi kefs arg

rgafy aif aong tc gxpaif tlger scdean aif gbctecian dcpei` skenns, aif tlgyarg stenn ycui` gicu`l tc og cpgi tc pargitan ùefaidg. Vakei` stgps tc ocnstgr

dcpei` skenns furei` tlgsg garny sdlccn ygars dai gquep dlenfrgi tc fgan wetl

tlg strgssgs tlat neg algaf ei le`l sdlccn aif ogycif.

5


10/16

_ggdtei` ci Ucur Cwi Vlcu`lts, Jggnei`s, aif Gxpgregidgs

Dlaidgs arg, ej ycu lavg a ore`lt kef, ycurg prgtty ore`lt ycursgnj, wledl

bgais ycunn prcoaony rgbgbogr `rappnei` wetl scbg cj tlg essugs wg

fgsdreog. Bayog ycu stenn stru``ng wetl tlgb. Antlcu`l tles occk es aocutsuppcrtei` ycur dlenf, et ansc cjjgrs ai cppcrtuiety tc rggdt ci ycur cwi

gxpgregidgs. Plat bgssa`gs fef ycu `gt aocut adlegvgbgit jrcb pargits

aif tgadlgrs wlgi ycu wgrg a dlenf3 Plat lavg ycu jcuif tc og gjjgdtevg ei

baiaèi` buntepng fgbaifs ci ycur tebg3 Lcw fc ycu rgnatg tc pgcpng wlc

arg ngss dapaong tlai ycu3 Lcw aocut tlcsg wlc arg bcrg dapaong tlai ycu3

Lcw fc ycu dcpg wlgi ycu bakg bestakgs cr tlei`s fcit `c ycur way3

Plat orei`s ycu a sgisg cj satesjadteci aif dcitgitbgit3

Vlg essugs tlat wg fesduss arg nejgnci` dlanngi`gs, ict prcongbs tlat pgcpng

dai fgan wetl at a`g sgvgi aif og fcig. Ei gadl dlaptgr, wg lavg a sgdteci

danngf Tlcw tlg Pay tlat fgsdreogs lcw tlgsg essugs pnay cut ei afuntlccf

aif wlat pargits dai fc tc affrgss tlgb ei tlger cwi nevgs cr bcfgn gjjgdtevg

dcpei` jcr tlger dlenfrgi.

Lcw tc Wsg Vles Occk

Vlgrgs a wrci` way aif a re`lt way tc usg tles occk. Vlg wrci` way es tc

vegw et as cvgr twc luifrgf pa`gs cj stujj ycu iggf tc fix cr ebprcvg

aocut ycur dlenf cr a nci` nest cj gvgi bcrg tlei`s ycu cu`lt tc og fcei`,

ci tcp cj gvgrytlei` gnsg ycurg fcei`, tc og a `ccf pargit. Vlg re`lt way tc

usg tles occk es as a rgscurdg tc suppcrt ycur durrgit gjjcrts tc raesg a lappy,

lgantly, prcfudtevg, aif keif dlenf. Cur `can es tc prcvefg ycu wetl a fggpgr

uifgrstaifei` cj lcw aif wly ycur dlenf be`lt stru``ng aif tc èvg ycucptecis jcr lgnpei` ycur dlenf bcvg jcrwarf. Ucu bay wait tc sdai tles occk

jcr tlg dlaptgrs cr veìgttgs tlat arg bcst rgngvait jcr ycur dlenf. _gaf tlgsg

sgdtecis aif èvg ycursgnj tebg tc rggdt aocut lcw tlgy rgnatg tc ycur ognegjs,

vanugs, aif pargitei` dlanngi`gs. Xngasg vegw tlg stratgègs wg su``gst as

pcsseoenetegs ratlgr tlai prgsdreptecis, aif usg ciny tlcsg tlat bakg sgisg jcr

ycu. Gvgry dlenf es uiequg, aif icocfy kicws ycur dlenf aif ycur jabeny

ogttgr tlai ycu fc.

Ets ansc ebpcrtait tc takg a nci`-tgrb vegw. Ucu dait rusl dcìetevg aif

gbctecian fgvgncpbgit. Kefs `rcw at tlger cwi padg, aif cur rcng as pargits

es tc suppcrt tlat `rcwtl, ict jcrdg et. Antlcu`l tlg occk es finngf wetl fc-aong

stratgègs, tlgrg arg ic èbbedks cr quedk fixgs. Eistgaf, tlg occk jcdusgs ci

18


11/16


12/16

VAONG CJ DCIVGIVT

EIV_CFWDVECI= _gtleikei` pctgitean

1) VGBXG_EI@ XG_JGDVECIETBPlat es `ccf gicu`l3

Bedlagn= Jcdusei` ci aws Kerstgi= Fggdtei` onabg

Tab= Avcefei` adtevetegs at wledl lg fcgsit gxdgn

Ai`gna= Jggnei` eiafgquatg

?) OWENFEI@ DCIIGDVECILcw fcgs ycur dlenf rgadl cut tc pggrs3

Aifrgw= Tggkei` ai aufegidg ratlgr tlai a jregif

Dnay= Avcefei` mceiei` tlg `rcup

Abanea= Jggnei` rgmgdtgf oy pggrs

4) BAIA@EI@ TGITEVEZEVU

Lcw fcgs ycur dlenf laifng dretedesb, dciedt, aif fesappceitbgit3

Barec= Xgrdgevei` ogtrayan

Mgsseda= Oankei` at dcistrudtevg dretedesb

Taber= Dlafii` at a dlai`g cj pnais

Dcnnei= Tlcunfgrei` tlg wcrnfs

6) LAIFNEI@ DCCXG_AVECI AIF DCBXGVEVECI

Lcw fcgs ycur dlenf fit ei a `rcup3

Ttgvgi= Eisestei` ci les way

Aieta= Ogei` a scrg ncsgr

Besla= Jgarei` dcbpgteteci

Drae`= Cptei` cut

7) FGANEI@ PEVL AWVLC_EVU

Lcw fcgs ycur dlenf rgspcif tc tlcsg ei dlar`g3

Nesa= Ogei` oneif tc autlcretyIedlcnas= Bakei` gvgrytlei` ai ar`ubgit

Ttgplaieg= Jrgttei` aocut afunts ai`gr

:) FGZGNCXEI@ BCVEZAVECIPlat battgrs tc ycur dlenf3

Gtlai= Avcefei` sdlccnwcrk

Margf= Dcbpnaeiei` tlat sdlccnwcrk es ocrei`

Feaig= Ict appnyei` lgrsgnj ei sdlccn

0) JEIFEI@ MCUPlat bakgs ycur dlenf jggn lappy3 Bcieda= Jeifei` jaunt eistgaf cj jui

Dciigr= Tgardlei` jcr pgrscian bgaiei`

DcidnuseciVlg prgssurg tc pgrjcrb vgrsus tlg pcwgr tc `rcw

_gjgrgidgs

1?


13/16

Pcunf ycu nekg tc rgaf bcrg3

Tbart Xargitei` jcr Tbart Kefs=Iurturei` Ucur Dlenfs Vrug Xctgitean

wenn og avaenaong wlgrgvgr occks arg scnf, startei` Bardl ?811.

Xrg-crfgr ycur dcpy tcfay!

SSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS

Jcr fesdcuitgf predgs ci ounk crfgrs(78 cr bcrg),

pngasg dcitadt Dlres Lg`` at 410-70?-48:


14/16

Aocut tlg Autlcrs

Genggi Kgiigfy-Bccrg, XlF,es a dneiedan psydlcncèst wetl a prevatg pradtedgei Xreidgtci, Igw Mgrsgy, wlgrg slg wcrks wetl dlenfrgi, afunts, aif jabenegs.

Tlg es dcautlcr cj a occk jcr pargits, Vlg Wiwrettgi _ungs cj Jregifslep=

Tebpng Ttratgègs tc Lgnp Ucur Dlenf Bakg Jregifs (Nettng, Orcwi), aif a

occk jcr bgitan lgantl prcjgssecians,Gxprgssei` Gbcteci(@uenjcrf Xrgss).

Tlg es ansc tlg autlcr cj ai awarf-weiiei` dlenfrgis occk, Plat Aocut Bg3

1? Pays tc @gt Ucur Xargits Attgiteci Petlcut Lettei` Ucur Testgr(Xargitei`

Xrgss). Fr. Kgiigfy-Bccrg jrgqugitny spgaks at sdlccns, dcijgrgidgs, aif

dcbbuiety `rcup gvgits aocut dlenfrgis jggnei`s aif jregifsleps. Tlg aif lgrlusoaif lavg jcur nevgny sdlccn-a`g dlenfrgi.

Bark T. Ncwgitlan, XsyF, las lgnpgf baiy dlenfrgi aif tlger jabenegs

furei` les twgity-twc ygars as a dneiedan psydlcncèst. Lg las a junn-

tebg prevatg pradtedg ei Bapngwccf, Igw Mgrsgy, wcrkei` wetl dlenfrgi,

afcngsdgits, aif afunts. Xrgvecusny, lg sgrvgf as tlg fergdtcr cj tlg Dlenf aif

Afcngsdgit Cutpategit Xsydleatred Xrc`rab at Vreietas Lcspetan, ei Gnezaogtl,Igw Mgrsgy. Fr. Ncwgitlan las oggi a nci`tebg afvcdatg ci oglanj cj dlenfrgi

wetl bgitan lgantl essugs, lgnpei` tc slapg pcnedy ci a statg aif ncdan ngvgn. Lg

aif les wejg, a pgfeatredeai, lavg twc dlenfrgi.

16


15/16


16/16

By kef es sbart, out...Et takgs bcrg tlai sdlccn sbarts tc drgatg a junfinnei` nejg. Ei jadt, baiy ore`ltdlenfrgi jadg spgdean dlanngi`gs=

Tcbg arg frevgi oy pgrjgdteciesb Tcbg arg ajraef cj gcrt, ogdausg tlgyrg usgf tc eistait suddgss Tcbg rcuteigny outt lgafs wetl autlcrety ùrgs Tcbg stru``ng tc `gt anci` wetl tlger pggrs Tcbg arg cutwarfny suddgssjun out must fcit jggn `ccf aocut tlgbsgnvgs

Tbart Xargitei` jcr Tbart Kefses a pradtedan aif dcbpasseciatg occk tlat

gxpnaeis tlg rgascis ogleif tlgsg stru``ngs aif cgrs pargits fc-aong stratgègstc lgnp dlenfrgi dcpg wetl jggnei`s, gboradg ngariei`, aif ouenf satesjyei`rgnatecisleps. Frawei` jrcb rgsgardl as wgnn as tlg autlcrs dneiedan gxpgregidg,et jcdusgs ci tlg gssgitean skenns dlenfrgi iggf tc bakg tlg bcst cj tlger aoenetegsaif ogdcbg dapaong, dcififgit, aif darei` pgcpng.

Xraesg jcrTbart Xargitei` jcr Tbart Kefs

Ves occk es a netgran @cfsgif. Xargits wenn if `rgat wesfcb ei ets pa`gs.Ttgplgi _. Dcvgy, autlcr, Vg 0 Laoets cj Le`lny Ggdtevg Xgcpng

A sbart, fggpny pgrdgptevg aif ebpcrtait occk.Pgify Bc`gn, XlF, autlcr, Vg Ongssei` cj a Tkeiigf Kigg

Lgnps pargits sgg lcw tc gidcura`g tlger dlenfrgi tc fgvgncp as wlcng

pgcpng wetl jggnei`s, efgas, aif tlg aoenety tc dcpg wetl tlg cddasecianfesappceitbgit._cogrta Bedliedk @cneikc, XlF, autlcr, Geistgei Igvgr Wsgf Jnasl Darfs

A jrgsl pargitei` occk nngf wetl veìgttgs aif stratgègs jcr raesei` sbartkefs tc ogdcbg lgantly, lappy aif dcitreoutei` afunts. Et sleigs ne`lt ci tlgbeifsgt iggfgf tc dcuitgr tlg ggdts ci cur dlenfrgi cj cur le`l-stakgs

dunturg aif gfudateci systgb.Zedke Aogngs, Xrcfudgr aif Dc-Fergdtcr, _adg tc IcwlgrgVes warb aif wesg occk slcws pargits lcw tc iurturg tlg scdean aifgbctecian skenns tlat ann dlenfrgi iggf tc suddggf. Ets finngf wetl pradtedan

stratgègs pargits dai usg tc lgnp dlenfrgi fesdcvgr aif fgvgncp tlger trug

pctgitean.

Bedlgng Ocroa XlF autlcr cj Vlg Oe` Occk cj Xargitei` Tcnutecis

Documents

Smart Parenting for Smart Kids - book excerpt