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Desiree S. Policarpio Socsci 100
BSAT 4-2 February 26,2013
My Personal Experiences
Id: Meeting Basic NeedsIt was our family day. And Im still young when this happened. We went to Jollibee and
have our lunch. I, my younger sister and baby brother ordered the same meal and its our
favorite fried chicken. The waiter served the first fried chicken and the other will serve later.
Without a glimpse, I eat the chicken because Im hungry and tired of waiting and didnt think
anything. What I want on that moment was I need to eat and thats makes me feel happy. Then
my younger brother cried, craving for chicken. My mother told me to give the chicken to my
brother to stop him from crying but I dont want. I am hungry too and its not enough for me.
Then my mother said to me that Im the eldest and I should not be selfish because she will order
me a lot of fried chicken if I behave.
My mother and I went to her friend near in our house. Her friend has a small store of
candies. Since they talk long, I get bored and saw the candy inside the box. I eat the candy and I
enjoy it then my mother saw me. Since I already open the candy wrapped, my mother pay for
the price of that candy bar.
Another experienced was when me and my sister where going to school. Since our
school was far from our home and its very hot, around 12:30 pm, I drink all the water in our
bottle brought without saying to my sister and without thinking that she was thirsty too.
This experienced makes me realized of being self-centered and desires for everything I
want when not given, I cried and feel sad.
Ego: Dealing with Reality
My mother ordered me to buy some groceries after our class in Nueva Ecija High School.
She gave me P500.00 to buy all groceries needed. When I am on the store, I saw a cute t-shirt
and I want to buy it but I realized that buying it will makes the fund short and therefore, my
mother will get mad on me if I priority that t-shirt over the said groceries. So, I did not buy and
buy all the groceries needed.
I saw my sisters necklace. It was three colored and it was beautiful. It was a gift from
her when she graduated as valedictorian when she was high school. I want to wear but then, I
think that even though were sister, I still need to ask permission because its her personal
belongings and she will get mad at me. Then my sister, after I ask permission, decided to give it
to me since she said she receives many necklaces and she cannot wear it all.
Dr. Cecile Chavez, our beloved representative of Butil Party list treat us, our scholars in a
restaurant in the Cabanatuan after having our tree planting activity. That activity was so tiredly
and I am hungry and thirsty too. That moment, I want to say to my friend that I want to eat and
she will surely give her food to me. But I realized that soon, the waiter will coming bringing my
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ordered food so I must wait a little. Besides, I think then that its happier to eat together so I
wait for the food to serve.
Superego: Adding Morals
When I was walking near in our classroom in Jaica building in NEHS, I saw a wallet and
no one was there. I open the wallet and I saw the picture of the person owned that wallet. I
cant remember how much money inside of it because what matter for me then was how can I
return it to the owner as soon as possible because I know the feeling of losing my own wallet
and the right way was to return it so that the student whom dropped it will find it soon and will
not face problem of having no money. I decided to go to our principals office give the wallet
and also, I say it to our guard so that in case that someone was looking for her wallet, the guard
already know and will make it easy to return that wallet.
It happens during our training in chess here at CLSU. Me and my teammates were
finished eating and return to our proper training. Then its already 2:00 pm when I recall that thecashiers didnt ask me to pay for the foods I eat and ask if my teammates paid my meal. I
decided to come back and give my payment to the cashier. Honesty is the best policy and I
know that that their source of living.
When I was on the mall I saw a child, around 4 to 5 years old alone and crying. No one
sees him since hes small and everyone was busy shopping. I walked near to him and hold his
hand asking where is his mom. Then I decided to find the security guard to report it but
suddenly I saw a mother with an expression of something was missing then I think it was his
mom coming searching for him. Then it was a happy experience and his mom saying thanks for a
simple concern I showed.
Through these experiences, I learned that the id, ego and superego work together increating a behavior. The id creates the demands, the ego adds the needs of reality with the
superego adds morality to the action which is taken