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MarriageMarriage

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Why do people marry?

Identify 5 unhealthy reasons people marry?

Identify 5 healthy reasons people marry?

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A Christian Marriage Is…

a total commitment of two people to the person of Jesus Christ and each other. It is a commitment in which there is no holding back of anything.

a school, a learning and growing environment in which (if everything is as it should be) both partners can grow and develop. The relationship grows along with them.

H. Norman Wright

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What Does the Catholic Church / Christian Affirm about

Marriage?Believing that marriage is a covenant intended by God to be a lifelong fruitful relationship between a man and a woman, we vow to God, each other, our family, and our community to remain steadfast in unconditional love, reconciliation, and sexual love while purposefully growing in our covenant marriage relationship.

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What does your church believebelieve about marriage?

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What does your church dodo to strengthen marriages?

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A Holistic

Approach

To Marriage

Ministry

Outreach Prevention

EnrichmentIntervention

Health

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American Experience

Marriage is a fundamental social institution. It is central to the nurture and raising of children. It is the “social glue” that reliably attaches fathers to children. It contributes to the physical, emotional and economic health of men, women and children, and thus to the nation as a whole. It is also one of the most highly prized of all human relationships and a central life goal of most Americans. The State of Our unions 2003

The National Marriage Project

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Did You Know

About a third of all children and more than two-thirds of African-American children are born out of wedlock.

Since 1960, there has been an 850 percent increase in the number of cohabiting couples who live with children.

The State of Our unions 2003The National Marriage Project

Roughly a million children each year experience parental divorce and its aftermath.

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Did You Know

Compared to married fathers, men who are not married to their children’s mothers are significantly less likely to be consistently and positively involved with their children during their growing up years.

In reality, marriage is the social glue that holds fathers to their offspring. Marriage encourages regular and routine father involvement.

The State of Our unions 2003The National Marriage Project

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Did You Know

Unmarried cohabiting fathers fail to show as much warmth or put in as much time or money in the care of their biological children as do married fathers.

Cohabiting men who are living with nonbiological children pose a risk of physical or sexual abuse to such children.

The State of Our unions 2003The National Marriage Project

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Consider

…the new soul-mate ideal may create unrealistic expectations for intimacy that, if unfulfilled, may lead to disappointment, estrangement and even a search for a new soul mate.

The State of Our unions 2003The National Marriage Project

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The Marriage Ministry UmbrellaRelationship

Skill Development

Premarital Counseling

Marriage mentoring

Marriage Enrichment

and Education

Marriage Strengthenin

g and Rebuilding

Divorce Recovery Ministry

Children’s Ministry

Prepare Inventory

Paring Newlywed

Couple with Mentoring

Couple

Retreats Referral List of Local

Professional Counselors

Divorce Care Video Series and Support

Group

Adolescents FOCCUS Inventory

Outline of Mentor

Qualifications

Workshops and

Seminars

Retrouvaille Retreats

KidsHope Seminars for

Children

Young Adults DISC Personality Inventory

Clear Expectations and Definition

of Mentor Relationship

Enrich Inventory

Marriage Support Groups and Bible Study

Groups

Single Parent Family

Ministry

Adults Series of Focused Couple

Sessions

Prayer Ministry

REFOCCUS Inventory

Sermon Series and

Testimonies

Follow-Up Care

Resources Resources Resources Resources Resources Resources

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Relationship Skill Development

Areas of Focus

CoupleCloseness

Couple Flexibility

Communication

Personality Compatibility

ConflictResolution

SexualRelations

hipLeisure Activities

Familyand

Friends

FinancialManagement

Spiritual Beliefs

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Relationship Skill DevelopmentI am very satisfied with how

we talk to each other.Yes No

We are creative in how we handle our differences.

Yes No

We feel very close to each other.

Yes No

My partner is seldom too controlling.

Yes No

When discussing problems, my partner understands my opinions and ideas.

Yes No

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I am completely satisfied with the amount of affection from my partner.

Yes No

We have a good balance of leisure time spent together and separately.

Yes No

My partner’s friends or family rarely interfere with our relationship.

Yes No

We agree on how to spend money. Yes NoI am satisfied with how we express spiritual values and beliefs.

Yes No

Relationship Skill Development