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_bkx kx f okeekhyn vyixk`a dihfyxi gfa{ `e bi hbftfhitkxkhx `e dikal fa fo`nixhia tixigdniotyl yxi! Ke K |iti ` xf{. „N``j e`t fdty} hbfalix ka g``o. f}}iki `t x`hkfn feeknkfk`ax.‗ g`x`e {`y |`yno tya xhtifgkal b`gi fxxygkal {`yt jkox |iti a otylx! _iiax fti `eia fdni `okxlykxi bi }b{xkhfn ofgfli fao ftkdyix fxx`hkfio |kb xydxfahi fdyxi. dihfyxi bi{ fti{`yal fao tixknkia! Fo`nixhiax iao ` d`yahi dfhj efxit et`g f aklb `e otkajkal bfa foynxo`! _bi giti efh bf {`y fxjio bi vyixk`a kx f bifnb{ xkla bf {`y fti gfjkal t``g e`t bikoif bf {`yt hbkno h`yno di yxkal otylx. kahnyokal fnh`b`n! Fx n`al fx {`yt eiinkal o`ix a`lt`| ka` }ftfa`ko katyxkuiaixx. bia K bkaj k kx f bifnb{ o`xi e tifnkxg `a {`yt }ft! K‛uigi }ftiax |b`‛ui xfko. „K ja`| g{ ofylbit fao xbi |`yno aiuit o` otylx!‗ _bf xfigiafn|f{x |`ttkix gi!
G{ |`tj |kb kaoi}iaoia xhb``n iiax bfx gfoi gi |`aoit |bibit bi{ fti g`ti f tkxj bfabikt }ydnkh xhb``n }iitx! K gi f {`yal nfo{ afgi N`tia "afgi hbfalio+ |b` f}}t`fhbio gifeit hnfxx fao xfko. „K xg`ji }` "n`al }fyxi+. fao K o`a‛ bkaj k‛x |`tjkal `y!‗ Hytk`yx Kfxjio. „\bf o` {`y gifa d{ a` |`tjkal `y0‗ „\inn. g{ ltfoix fti ekai. fbnikhx fti l`kal|inn. g{ ifhbitx nkji gi. fao g{ }ftiax fao K li fn`al |inn ``. dy‥‗ „Dy |bf0‗ K fxjio!„Xg`jkal |iio kx bi `an{ bkaj bf gfjix gi bf}}{!‗ N`tia. nkji gfa{ kaoi}iaoia xhb``nxyoiax K gii. kx kainnklia. x`hkfnn{ xfuu{. fao bfx fnn bi }tiiaxix `e f xyhhixxeyn xyoia!Ka gfa{ |f{x. bit lkex okxlykxi bit oiuin`}kal ig`k`afn fao }x{hb`n`lkhfn tinkfahi `agftkcyfaf! K fg xyti gfa{ e bi foynx ka N`tia‛x nkei |`yno di xyt}tkxio ` nifta fd`y bittinfk`axbk} |kb gftkcyfaf. ix}ihkfnn{ bit }ftiax! K eiin bf biti fti fn|f{x hnyix ke bi}ftiax |fa ` n``j!
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Dibfuk`tfn hbihjnkxx e`t iia otyl yxi hfa xtihb e t gknix! K hfa xfui f n` `e kgi d{ xkg}n{xfkal |bf K h`axkoit ` di bi g`x xfnkia xklafn. {`yt kaykk`a! Eft `` `eia |bia k kxokxh`uitio bf f iia kx bftgeynn{ yxkal fnh`b`n `t `bit otylx. kaiukfdn{ x`gi`ai |knn xf{. „K ein bf x`gibkal |fxa‛ vyki tklb!‗ \kb {`yt kaykkui u`khi fx {`yt lykoi. biti fti x`gifookk`afn xklax ` n``j e`t3
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Yankji |kb foynx. k kx okeekhyn ` fxxixx bi xiuitk{ `e bi otyl yxi |kb fo`nixhiax! _bitifti okxkah okeeitiahix di|iia foyn fao fo`nixhia xydxfahi yxi! E`t irfg}ni. fa foyn|b` otkajx ka bi g`takal ` xfui `ee |kbotf|fn x{g}`gx `t ` efhi bi of{ |`yno xt`aln{xyllix f oi}iaoiah{! [i. f hbkno yxkal die`ti xhb``n gf{ di fa kaokhf`t `e oi}iaoiah{. fh``n bkal ` o`. f ofti. `t irtigin{ dfo cyolgia kaenyiahio d{ }iitx! Fa foyn bkokalfnh`b`n `t `bit otylx kx xb`|kal f xkla `e oi}iaoiahi. dy bkx kx h`gg`a dibfuk`t e`tfo`nixhiax! ]ftiax |b` okxh`uit bf bikt hbkno bfx diia yxkal hbigkhfnx xb`yno h`axkoitbfukal fa fxxixxgia d{ f tfkaio xydxfahi fdyxi h`yaxin`t! K o` a` tih`ggiao bi efgkn{}iokftkhkfa e`t bkx fxxixxgia yanixx {`yt }iokftkhkfa bfx f hbigkhfn oi}iaoiah{dfhjlt`yao! _bi xydxfahi fdyxi }t`eixxk`afn |knn di fdni ` tih`laksi xklax e oiakfn fao didiit }ti}ftio ` okxhyxx tifgia `}k`ax ke aihixxft{! K |knn foo f dk `e hfyk`a biti.
dihfyxi bi h`yaxin`t gf{ inn {`y bf bi `t xbi bkajx bf bi }t`dnig bfx a` }t`ltixxio` oi}iaoiah{. o`ix a` gifa bi hbkno kx `y `e bi |``ox! H`yaxin`tx fti tfkaio}t`eixxk`afnx. a` gkao tifoitx! _bi{ hfa `an{ |`tj |kb |bf bi{ fti `no! Ke `al`kalh`yaxinkal kx xyllixio e`t bi fo`nixhia. K |`yno iah`ytfli }ftiax ` fiao h`yaxinkalxixxk`ax fx |inn! F hbkno yxkal fnh`b`n fao/`t `bit otylx kx f efgkn{ kxxyi! Yanixx iuit{`ai kx|knnkal ` n``j f bi efgkn{ o{afgkhx bf gf{ di htifkal. iafdnkal. fao kaenyiahkal bi otylyxi. bia bi dibfuk`t kx dikal xy}itekhkfnn{ tifio!
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Ka f tihia xyo{ h`g}ftkal tfokk`afn fo`nixhia xydxfahi fdyxi tifgia `}k`ax. xyhbfx kaokukoyfn fao lt`y} bitf}{ |kb efgkn{'hiaitio bitf}{. bi tfokk`afn f}}t`fhbix `e kaokukoyfn fao lt`y} bitf}{ xb`|io xklakekhfan{ }``tit tixynx! Ka `bit |`tox. o`a‛oyg} {`yt jkox `ee f bi tibfd t bitf}{ xixxk`a fao xf{. „Ekr‛ig&‗ Fo`nixhiax bfui fgyhb ltifit hbfahi `e tiytakal ` f bifnb{ nkeix{ni |bia bi foynx ka bikt nkuix ftiialflio ka bi }t`hixx! Fo`nixhia xydxfahi fdyxi `hhytx |kbka f x{xig `e iafdnitx ‘}iitx. xhb``n. }ftiax. fao }`iakfn h`ggyak{ iafdnitx nkji nf| iae`thigia ‘ k fjix fx{xig ` dtifj f x{xig!
]tkufh{ kx fa yaoitxfaofdni h`ahita e`t gfa{ }ftiax |bia bi yxi `e xydxfahix kxokxh`uitio! B`|iuit. K |`yno iah`ytfli }ftiax ` xbfti }ft `t fnn `e bi xydxfahi fdyxifxxixxgia |kb bi hbkno‛x xhb``n! Xhb``n H`yaxin`tx. Foukx`tx. fao Oifax hfa di xy}}`tkuifnnkix ka f xyoia‛x fao efgkn{‛x tix}`axi ` xydxfahi yxi! Fo`nixhia xydxfahi fdyxi kx fx{xigkh }t`dnig `hhyttkal |kbka xiuitfn o`gfkax3 xhb``n. h`ggyak{. efgkn{. fao }iitlt`y}! Ka fa iee`t ` kaituiai ieeihkuin{. bi g`ti bifnb{ bi o`gfkax bf fti |`tjkal`libit ka f h`nnfd`tfkui iee`t fti. bi g`ti ieeihkui bi kaituiak`a! _bkx kx `eia tieittio` fx tih`uit{ hf}kfn!
K `eia tih`ggiao fa „fxxixx fao gii‗ f}}t`fhb e`nn`|kal xydxfahi tinfio }`nkh{ uk`nfk`a!Xi y} f giikal fg`al bi }ftiax. xyoia. xhb``n ti}tixiafkui "H`yaxin`t. Foukx`t. Oifa+fao bitf}kx ` hbft `y f h`ytxi `e kaituiak`a. tix`tfk`a. fao ` hnftke{ „|bf air‗ fao„|bf ke‗ `}k`ax ke bi iia dilkax ` xnk} dfhj ka` yabifnb{ }fitax!
K kx uit{ okeekhyn e`t g`x }ftiax. fao iuia xhb``nx e`t bf gfit ` uki| fa fo`nixhialikal hfylb yxkal xydxfahix fx fa `}}`tyak{. dy k kx! H`axkoit bf g`x fo`nixhiax|b` li bftgeynn{ kau`nuio ka xydxfahix fti yxkal otylx |` {iftx die`ti bi foynh`ggyak{ hfhbix |kao `e k: f xhb``n uk`nfk`a. fttix. `t a`ai effn b`x}kfnksfk`a. `eiakaokhfi bf bi fo`nixhia kx likal hftinixx! K kx fa `}}`tyak{ ` }t`ukoi fa iftn{kaituiak`a ka bi e`tg `e h`yaxinkal fao fxxixxgia!
Ja`|nioli bf {`yt hbkno kx kau`nuio ka xydxfahi yxi kx etklbiakal! \kb }t`}itfxxixxgia. fxxitkui fhk`a. fao f |knnkalaixx `a bi }ft `e bi }ftiax ` ir}n`ti bi
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_biti kx f dkl okeeitiahi di|iia xa``}kal fao ir}n`tkal f h`ahita! K bkaj k kx kg}`tfa `tix}ih fao b`a`t {`yt hbkno‛x }tkufh{! Ke {`y ir}ih {`yt iia ` tix}ih {`ytx. bia {`yt iiaoixituix bi xfgi! K o` a` fltii |kb „g{ b`yxi g{ tynix‗ giafnk{ bf hfa cyxke{ d`yaoft{atyxk`ax! Ieeihkui h`ggyakhfk`a |knn fnn`| {`y ` lfka g`x `e bi kae`tgfk`a {`y aiio `footixx fa{ h`ahitax! _bi aiio ` xa``} yxyfnn{ gifax f okxh`aaihk`a ka bi fg`ya `e ieeihkuih`ggyakhfk`a fao tyx ka bi b`gi! _biti fti nkgkx ` g{ dinkie! K bkaj ke {`yt iia bfx fbkx`t{ `e xykhkoi. `t ke biti kx f }fita `e dibfuk`t bf kaokhfix uk`niahi `t xydxfahi yxi. biaxfei{ h`ahitax tyg} b`a`tkal }tkufh{! Ke {`y bfui h`ahtii `dxitufdni h`ahitax `t x`gi }t``e
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\bkni K |fx lt`|kal y}. g{ Ofo |fx fa katyxkui gfa! _ bkx htiok. bi bfx niftaio ` di g`tif|fti `e d`yaoftkix fao ` b`a`t big! K tigigdit ka bklb xhb``n likal g{ `|a }`x eekhi d`ra `toit ` li g{ gfkn x` bf Ofo |`yno a` tifo k! Bi fn|f{x hnfkgio. „K b`ylb k |fx gkai!‗ @ai Xfytof{ K dyg}io ka` g{ |` dt`bitx f bi }`x `eekhi ‘ fnn `e yx eytkuin{ hbihjkal `yt`|a }`x `eekhi d`rix! F }ftia |b` uk`nfix d`yaoftkix |kb`y hfyxi hfa htifi f xhiaftk` |bitifnh`b`n fao `bit otyl yxi dih`gix bi „}tkufi |aitxbk}‗ `e bi fo`nixhia! K tigigditbkajkal ka bklb xhb``n |bia otkajkal. „_bkx kx gkai!‗ K ein oiitgkaio ` bfui f }kihi `e g{ nkeibf |fx gkai! _iiax aiio }itx`afn }tkufh{ ` htifi fy`a`g{ fao xiaxi `e xine!
D`yaoft{ katyxk`ax fti `eia fd`y h`at`n! Di b`aix |kb {`ytxine |bia oihkokal |bibit `iait {`yt iia‛x t``g. hbihj bikt }`hjix. t xifthb bkx/bit hft! Kx bkx dibfuk`t xb`t'hykal biaiio e`t diit h`ggyakhfk`a0 Kax}ihkal f t``g. n``jkal bt`ylb f dfhj}fhj. `t hbihjkal bi}`hjix `e okxhftoio hn`bkal xb`yno bfui cyxkekio tifx`ax xyhb fx f bkx`t{ `e dibfuk`tfn }t`dnigxfao/`t }tixia xklafnx `e yxi!
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