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006 \ A Journal. November, 2015 Dear Rec Community, I write this month to call your attention to a thought-provoking article by Jonathan Wilson- Hartgrove of the School for Conversion in Durham. I thank Gann Herman for bringing it to my attention. Over the next year, and especially next summer, leading up to our 50 th anniversary celebration, September 17-18, 2016, we will be talking with each other about racial equality, racial reconciliation, and the beloved community. For those of us who are white, unlearning “whiteness” is a critical part of our work. Jonathan offers some thoughts about what that means. What are your thoughts? Chris McQuistion also has an article in this issue lifting up some of the important insights of Michelle Alexander in her ground-breaking work on mass incarcerations in the U.S., The New Jim Crow. She also mentions Circles of Support and Accountability (COSA), a program the Rec will hear about after church Sunday, November 15, from Drew Doll, Coordinator for Faith Teams. I invite your prayerful consideration to these reflections. Peace and blessings, Mark Turning Again: Unlearning Whiteness Some days I’m not sure I know exactly what my job is, but one thing I end up doing quite a bit is hearing confessions. Many of these confessions come by email these days (just as this one is coming to you). Occasionally, I still get a handwritten letter. But the confessions that have stayed with me over the past few months are ones I’ve heard in one-on-one meetings that were requested without a stated purpose. (continued on next page…) Inside… Turning Again: Unlearning Whiteness ... 2 Ministry with Children & Youth ............ 3 Adult Education Program ....................... 3 “Many Ways to Pray” ............................ 4 Let’s Do the Numbers ............................ 4 5 th Sunday Market .................................. 4 Salaam-Shalom ...................................... 5 RSVVP ................................................... 5 AdventFest 2015 .................................... 5 Rec Sound Ministry ................................ 6 Incarceration & Reconciliation .............. 7 November Responsibility Schedule ....... 8 November Calendar................................ 9 New Hope Camp & Conference Center .... 10 And More! Church of Reconciliation Presbyterian Church, USA 110 North Elliott Road Chapel Hill, NC 27514 (919) 929-2127 E-mails: [email protected] [email protected] [email protected] Web Page: www.churchrec.org Facebook: www.facebook.com/churchrec

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A Journal. November, 2015

Dear Rec Community,

I write this month to call your attention to a

thought-provoking article by Jonathan Wilson-

Hartgrove of the School for Conversion in Durham.

I thank Gann Herman for bringing it to my

attention. Over the next year, and especially next

summer, leading up to our 50th

anniversary

celebration, September 17-18, 2016, we will be

talking with each other about racial equality, racial

reconciliation, and the beloved community. For

those of us who are white, unlearning “whiteness”

is a critical part of our work. Jonathan offers some

thoughts about what that means. What are your

thoughts? Chris McQuistion also has an article in

this issue lifting up some of the important insights

of Michelle Alexander in her ground-breaking work

on mass incarcerations in the U.S., The New Jim

Crow. She also mentions Circles of Support and

Accountability (COSA), a program the Rec will

hear about after church Sunday, November 15, from

Drew Doll, Coordinator for Faith Teams. I invite

your prayerful consideration to these reflections.

Peace and blessings,

Mark

Turning Again: Unlearning Whiteness

Some days I’m not sure I know exactly what

my job is, but one thing I end up doing quite a bit is

hearing confessions.

Many of these confessions come by email

these days (just as this one is coming to you).

Occasionally, I still get a handwritten letter. But the

confessions that have stayed with me over the past

few months are ones I’ve heard in one-on-one

meetings that were requested without a stated

purpose.

(continued on next page…)

Inside…

Turning Again: Unlearning Whiteness ... 2

Ministry with Children & Youth ............ 3

Adult Education Program ....................... 3

“Many Ways to Pray” ............................ 4

Let’s Do the Numbers ............................ 4

5th

Sunday Market .................................. 4

Salaam-Shalom ...................................... 5

RSVVP ................................................... 5

AdventFest 2015 .................................... 5

Rec Sound Ministry ................................ 6

Incarceration & Reconciliation .............. 7

November Responsibility Schedule ....... 8

November Calendar ................................ 9

New Hope Camp & Conference Center .... 10

And More!

Church of Reconciliation

Presbyterian Church, USA

110 North Elliott Road

Chapel Hill, NC 27514

(919) 929-2127

E-mails:

[email protected]

[email protected]

[email protected]

Web Page: www.churchrec.org

Facebook: www.facebook.com/churchrec

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“Could we sit down and talk sometime?” Yes, I say. We plan a time. And when it

comes, I sit across the table or porch or coffee cup—

across the awkward silence—and await the bearing of

a soul. These are sacred moments, each singular and

distinct.

But lately they’ve had a theme: namely,

whiteness.

I know (because people tell me) that this

spiritual struggle with whiteness is connected to

things happening in our world: widely-publicized

stories of racial profiling, disparities in our criminal

justice system, the #BlackLivesMatter movement, and

race-baiting in political campaigns. For years I’ve

been talking with black folks about the many-layered

problems of whiteness. What’s noteworthy lately is

that white folks want to talk about whiteness.

What’s more, the folks whose confessions I’ve

heard realize that whiteness—whatever it is—is not

just hurting people of color. It’s hurting them.

Whiteness, they tell me, is getting in the way

of their relationship with God.

At least, that’s what I hear them saying. But

these things are not easy to talk about because our

language itself deceives us. Some people start by

talking about “racism,” noting how race itself is a

myth and we’re never going to heal the wounds it has

caused without exposing the lie. But you can’t begin

to talk about the ways we’ve all been impacted by

racism without talking about… well, race. The most

pernicious thing about this lie is that we can’t

understand our history without it.

Race shapes self-understanding as well as the

way we see others. “Implicit racial bias,” as it turns

out, is verifiable. But race has also shaped systems,

which means that it does not go away if we change

our minds. Its assumptions have been written into

governmental, academic, and economic policy. Racial

intent isn’t necessary to perpetuate racial disparities.

This lie is written into the fabric of our lives. We can

“mean well” and go on being racist just the same.

Like I said, this is a problem that’s hard to nail

down with words. But most of the folks I talk to these

days have grappled with these personal and systemic

dynamics of what we usually call “racism.” They

know this lie hurts other people and they’d like to do

what they can to stop it. They’ve heard people talk

about being an “ally” and, while they’re not entirely

sure what that means, they’re thinking about it. No

one wants to believe that their way of life is at odds

with a whole group of people.

But this, I’ve noticed, is where education

about racism seems to run aground for so many of us

who’ve been told that we’re white. Seeing a problem,

we want to “do something about it.” But this desire —

and the belief that we can, in fact, “do something” —

is part of being white.

And this being white, I hear in my make-shift

confessionals, is keeping us from being like Jesus,

who did not have to “do something” to make

everything work out right, but gave himself in love,

showing us a better way.

How can we find that way in America today?

This is the fundamental question I hear folks asking.

And the questions itself gives me hope. Because

“How can we help?” won’t transform us. For too long,

on the political left and right in America, “How can

we help?” has been the only question that we who

assumed we were in charge could ask.

“How can we help poor people help

themselves and take care of their families?” the so-

called conservatives taught us to ask. Answering their

own question, they created nonprofits and ministries

that try to help people of color perform whiteness.

“How can we help dismantle a racist system?”

the so-called liberals responded. Answering their own

question, they built poverty management systems that

employ people who’ve learned to perform whiteness

to manage those who haven’t.

“How can we help?” hasn’t transformed us.

But, “How can we find our way beyond whiteness?”

is a question that gives me hope.

Nearly 50 years ago, in the book he published

shortly before he was assassinated, Dr. King wrote,

“Whites… are not putting in a mass effort to reeducate

themselves out of their racial ignorance. It is an aspect

of their sense of superiority that the white people of

America believe they have so little to learn.”

Indeed, we have so much to learn. Thankfully, we

have people who’ve been on this journey a long time

who are willing to help us. I’m excited that School for

Conversion is hosting a workshop next month entitled

“Being White When #BlackLives Matter: A Workshop

on Accompaniment in the Black-Led Freedom

Struggle,” where Rev. William Barber and Bob Zellner

will join us to pursue this question of how we can find

our way beyond whiteness together. If you’re able, I

hope you’ll join us. Even more, I hope you’ll have the

conversation with people you know and love where

you are. Because I’m learning from these confessions

that much more than domestic tranquility is at stake in

these conversations. What we’re talking about is

whether we’ll know God’s face when we see it.

Peace and all good,

Jonathan Wilson-Hartgrove

Director of School

for Conversion

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CHURCH of REC WEBSITE

The Session’s Membership and Communi-

cations Committee is pleased to announce that our

new website has launched! To get to the new site,

you use the same address as always:

www.churchrec.org

We hope you’ll take some time to explore

the many features! Let us know if you need more

help.

MINISTRY WITH CHILDREN & YOUTH

We are looking for volunteers to fill two

roles with the Ministry to Children and Youth.

First, we need someone who can help organize

VBS, which is tentatively scheduled for the week of

August 1-5, 2016. This person will act as co-

coordinator with Matt and the MCY committee to

help plan and organize a fun, meaningful week for

the children of the congregation. Second, we need

two people to be co-coordinators for our

confirmation program, which will begin in the

2016-2017 school year. These people will work

with Matt and the MCY committee to plan and

arrange an intensive, year-long confirmation

program for 8th graders in the congregation. If you

are interested in either of these roles, or know of

someone who might be, please contact our Church

Educator, Matt Moorman, at [email protected].

Thank you!

As part of my ministry with the families of

children and youth in this congregation, I invite

ALL parents of children and youth (of any age) to

our first Parents' Evening Off, to be held Friday,

November 6th

, from 7-9 pm in the Parish House

Chapel. Dinner and drinks will be provided, and

there will be childcare. This will be one of many

opportunities for me to thank all of you parents for

doing what you do, and to get to know you all a bit.

I hope you'll come out for an evening of (hopefully)

fun and fellowship.

-- Matt Moorman, Church Educator

Adult Education Classes - November, 2015

9:30 AM in the Peace Chapel

Building on the enthusiasm of our October classes,

the Adult Ed Committee will continue with Pope

Francis’s climate Encyclical, “Laudato Si,” through

November. We need only read the Table of Contents

of this remarkable and comprehensive document to

have an idea of the rich opportunities for discussion.

On November 1, communion Sunday,

Brenda McLeod will lead the class on “Sacramental

Signs and the Celebration of Rest” from Chapter Six.

This class will focus on how to bring more

intentionality into receiving the Eucharist and

observing the Sabbath. As Pope Francis writes: “Rest

opens our eyes to the larger picture and gives us

renewed sensitivity to the rights of others. And so the

day of rest, centered on the Eucharist, sheds its light

on the whole week, and motivates us to greater

concern for nature and the poor.”

On November 8, Bill Peck will speak on “The

Message of Each Creature in the Harmony of Creation”

from Chapter Two. He will lead the class towards a

better understanding of the importance of each creature

if we contemplate it within the entirety of God’s Holy

Plan. From the Encyclical: “God wills the interde-

pendence of creatures. The sun and the moon, the

cedar and the little flower, the eagle and the sparrow…

Creatures exist only in dependence on each other, to

complete each other, in the service of each other.”

On November 15, Desiré Volkwijn will lead

a discussion of “Queen of All Creation” from Chapter

Six. Mary, the Mother who cared for Jesus, now cares

with maternal affection and pain for this wounded

world. Pope Francis asserts that Mary is the Woman,

“clothed in the sun, with the moon under her feet, and

on her head a crown of twelve stars” from The Book

of Revelation. She is also called “Sophia,” Holy

Wisdom. The world has not yet welcomed feminine

wisdom, yet an understanding of Her is essential if we

are to care for our Common Home.

On November 22, Bron Skinner will lead us

in “Dialogue and Transparency in Decision-Making”

from Chapter Five. Related to this subject is a

dialogue on politics and economy. As Pope Francis

reminds us: “Environmental protections cannot be

assured solely on the basis of financial calculations of

costs and benefits. The environment is one of those

goods that cannot be adequately safeguarded or

promoted by market forces.”

All of these classes lead up to the first Sunday

in Advent on November 29, which will lay the

foundation for the December Advent classes. Please

join us from November 1 to November 29 for an

exciting series of classes that promise to be

inspirational as well as thought-provoking. -- Submitted by Ann Loomis for Adult Ed

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MANY WAYS TO PRAY

You are cordially invited to join us for

Wednesday Evening Prayer Re-imagined,

as we explore Many Ways to Pray. Join us

the first Wednesday each month, from

7:00 to 7:45. Each gathering will be

unique, with time for silence, for

intercession and for learning a new prayer

practice. Join us on Wednesday night,

November 4. We meet in the Parish House

Chapel. Everyone is welcome: Come as you are,

whenever you can.

Facilitators: Carol Eckerman, Nancy Corson Carter,

Mark Davidson, and Allison Davidson

“LET’S DO THE NUMBERS…”

Each month, Session will report

key financial data about our

church’s budget.

September revenue: $28,619.88

September expenses: $37,853.25

Jan - September revenue: $267,243.02

Jan - September expenses: $245,760.90

The church’s regular monthly income

comes from pledges, unpledged contributions,

rental income, and an offset from the Hillsborough

Presbyterian Church for their share in JoAnn’s

pension and medical benefits.

The church’s regular monthly expenses go

to pay the mortgage and property insurance, utilities

and property management, committee expenses,

office expenses, personnel costs, and benevolences.

If you have questions, please be in touch

with Bill Andrews, Session Liaison to Finance

Committee, or Finance Committee Co-Chairs Jim

Spaeth and David Robinson.

REC OFFICE HOURS

Mark’s Office Hours:

Tuesday/Wednesday/Thursday 10 am – Noon;

other times by appointment; Sabbath day: Friday;

Matt's Office Hours: Tuesdays, 6pm-8pm; Wednesdays, 10am-2pm;

Sundays, 2pm-5pm

Days off: Monday and Saturday. Will respond to

emails as soon as I can, but it may be the following

office day.

JoAnn’s Office Hours:

Monday – Friday, 9:00 AM – 12:30 PM

5th

SUNDAY MARKET

November 29th

Our first-ever 5th

Sunday Market was a huge

success in August and the next one is coming up the

weekend after Thanksgiving, Sunday November

29th

. Get a head start on your holiday shopping with

handmade items from our own Rec artisans and

friends from the community, including jewelry,

ornaments, greeting cards, home decor and much

more. Or treat yourself to Sparkle Hair, Henna

painting or handcrafted chocolates.... It all begins

immediately following worship in the Fellowship

Hall.

Like to sell your crafts? Questions? See

Allison Davidson.

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AdventFest 2015 -- Mark your calendars now for Saturday November 21st,

from 10:00AM til 12Noon! There will be children's cookie-decorating and crafts,

including Nativity and animal ornaments, countdown-to-Christmas paper chains, and

cards for hospitalized veterans in the Ed Building, and intergenerational textile crafts and

teen/adult jewelry design with Liz Evans and Chris McQuiston in the Fellowship Hall. Refreshments, too!

Come for a few minutes or stay all morning. Questions? See Allison Davidson.

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SALAAM-SHALOM

CALLS US TO ACTION

Boycott is the Palestinian non-violent

resistance to occupation. Boycott, Divestment and

Sanctions (BDS) is an effective and responsible

protest against Israel’s illegal “settlements” on

Palestinian land. The PC(USA) has forcefully

spoken out for many years to end the occupation of

Palestine and human rights abuses. These calls

have been unheeded because they have little power.

A selective boycott is a non-violent way to press for

change. It is action to give force to the PC(USA)

statements that the occupation of Palestine must

end. And it is a vehicle to educate ourselves and

others about the facts on the ground in Palestine.

The Salaam-Shalom group is asking

members of our congregation to prayerfully

consider how we can be a part of this non-violent

way to press for justice for the Palestinians. It is

often overwhelming when we consider the complex

problems in the region, but participating in a

boycott is one small way in which we can work for

justice. In order to make this easier as we shop, a

short list of products is provided below. More

information is available on the Israel/Palestine

Mission Network web page – a mission group of the

Presbyterian Church (USA).

www.israelpalestinemissionnetwork.org/

Ahava Cosmetics: cosmetics products

using Dead Sea minerals illegally extracted from

occupied territory: moisturizers, creams, bath salts,

etc. The company factory and visitors’ center are in

an illegal Israeli settlement in the occupied West

Bank. These products are sold at Macy’s,

Nordstrom’s, Bed Bath & Beyond, Marshall’s, TJ

Maxx, Target, Ulta Health and Beauty, among other

places

SodaStream: home carbonated beverage

machines and syrups. The main plant of the

company has been in an illegal settlement in the

West Bank, and has now moved to a site in the

Negev Desert that displaces Bedouins. Products are

sold by Amazon, Bed Bath & Beyond, Best Buy,

Crate & Barrel, Costco, JC Penney, Kohl’s, Macy’s,

Sears, Staples, Target, among other places.

Interstar and Edushape Toys: modular

plastic toys, building pieces. The products are made

in an illegal settlement in the West Bank. They are

shipped to Edushape USA and sold by Toys R Us,

Amazon, Walmart and other locations.

Keter Plastic Products: garden furniture,

outdoor storage and sheds, shelving systems, utility

cabinets, tool boxes, household, baby and toddler

products. They are sold by Ace Hardware, BJ’s

Wholesale, Costco, Home Depot, Lowe’s, Sam’s

Club, Sears, Walmart, Bed Bath & Beyond, Target,

True Value Hardware, and other locations.

Other Products include Sabra Hummus,

Hadiklaim dates and fruits and vegetables. Check

the label for place of origin.

Boycotting products from illegal Israeli

settlements on Palestinian land is one way to say

“enough is enough.” It is a concrete action that can

be taken to put pressure on the Israeli government

to follow international law and end the

expropriation of Palestinian land, the construction

of illegal Jewish-only settlement colonies, and the

military occupation of Palestine. Join us if you feel

called to do something as part of your everyday

routine. Check the origins of the products you buy.

-- Jane Hare for the Salaam-Shalom

Support Group

RSVVP DAY

27th

Annual RSVVP Day on Tuesday,

November 10! "RSVVP" stands for Restaurants

Sharing Ten Percent. Participating restaurants

contribute 10% of their total proceeds on RSVVP

Day (from breakfast, lunch, dinner and in-between

snacks) to benefit the IFC's FoodFirst food

programs: Food Pantry and Community Kitchen.

Last year’s RSVVP Day raised a record amount for

IFC hunger-relief programs: 112 restaurants

contributed a total of $26,004.62!

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Loretha Greene is looking for a private duty

work on weekday evenings and weekends to

care for our senior members and families in

their homes. Loretha has excellent references

upon request and is listed on the NC Nurses'

Aide Registry. Loretha now has reliable

transportation. You may contact her at:

[email protected] or 919-636-8371 or

919-593-8155 or by mail, 106 N. Elliott Road,

Apt. B10, Chapel Hill NC 27514.

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CHANGING LEADERSHIP FOR

REC SOUND MINISTRY

A tradition at the Rec is changing the guard

of leadership. Beginning January 10, 2016, the Rec

will need new leadership for its sound ministry,

which includes the Sanctuary, Fellowship Hall, and

Chapel in the Parish house.

Mary Charles Blakebrough, who has

shepherded the sound ministry of the church since

1993, and Meri-Li Douglas, who has been her co-

conspirator since 2007, are stepping away from

their leadership of this ministry. Who will take

over?

Who will take over? There are three ways you can

serve -- As:

1. Co-leader of the Sound Team -- two

people to coordinate schedules and ensure

coverage for weekly services and special

events. They will also be the point people

to consult with Sound Team technical

support when technical issues arise.

2. An additional 3-5 people handling

Sunday morning Sound System

operations, by:

o Arriving half-hour early to set up the

sound equipment and being

available during the service

o Welcoming visitors during the

service by passing the mics

o Staying 15-20 minutes after the

service to return equipment to the

sound closet

3. Technical support: Currently technical

support is primarily provided by

Moustapha Barry and Ken Hoover. This

support includes resolving issues that

inevitably arise as wireless systems evolve

and our equipment needs to be adapted.

These volunteers are available when

equipment simply does not work and the

rest of us cannot figure out why. We can

always use additional linear thinkers.

Sound System trainings will be scheduled at times

suitable for volunteers. Please contact:

Mary Charles Blakebrough or Meri-Li Douglas

CHRISTMAS POINSETTIAS

A Sign-up Sheet to purchase a Christmas

Poinsettia to be displayed in the Sanctuary during

Advent will be available in the narthex by mid-

November. Deadline to make a purchase will be

Sunday, December 6.

Poinsettias will be placed in the church on

December 12 – and you may take your plant home

following the Christmas Eve Love Feast Service.

Approximate cost for each Poinsettia will be

$8.00. (We’ll have an exact cost before the sign-up

sheet is printed!). We will get a mix of red and

white poinsettias. Final details will be coming to

you soon!

If you have questions, see Nancy Gustaveson.

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Cookies and Carols

On Saturday, December 5, Mary Anne Dooley

and Jeep Morrison invite you to an evening of

carol singing. Here is how it works. Show up at

6:30 PM with a batch of your favorite Christmas

cookies. After an hour of good conversation,

punch and cookies we will break out the song

books and sing Christmas carols accompanied by

the UNC Trombone Choir. At 8:30 PM you will

be on your way with good cheer in your heart,

(way too many cookies in your belly), and an

assortment of the cookies that everyone else

brought.

Cookies and Carols: 6:30 – 8:30 PM

Saturday December 5, 2015

Jeep Morrison & Mary Anne Dooley

810 Greenwood Road

Chapel Hill, NC 27514

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INCARCERATION and RECONCILIATION

The United States is exceptional – though not

necessarily in the way that some often brag about.

Our nation is a world leader in incarceration of its

population. We are also exceptional in the racial

bias in its justice system. One out of three African

American men will experience jail or prison in their

lifetime. North Carolina is exceptional as well.

Echoing a national bias, our state imprisons African

Americans at a rate six times that of whites. In

addition, NC is one of only three states that

automatically prosecutes 16- and 17-year-olds as

adults. These realities are so common that we have

coined a name for the journey – the school to prison

pipeline. All this, as exposed Michelle Alexander

in The New Jim Crow, is the consequence of

longstanding and intentionally unfair U.S. and state

laws and policies carried out in our name

These truths lead us to two imperatives for action:

1) change systems to stem the flow into the jails and

prisons, and 2) express solidarity and provide relief

to those in and returning from our prison system.

Here we focus on real volunteer opportunities for

the latter.

The Orange County Correctional Center (OCC) in

Hillsborough, a NC state prison for men, has two 50

bed dormitories. It also has a 40 person segregation

(solitary confinement) facility. Though its existence

is commonly unknown in our community, OCC had

an important place in the 1970s N.C. and U.S. civil

rights history when it housed Ben Chavis, then

leader of the falsely convicted the Wilmington Ten.

Since Chavis’ clear and resounding voice resounded

across that fence line, OCC has largely been out of

sight and out of mind.

What can we do at the Rec? There are multiple

ways to become directly involved to help the men at

OCC.

1) You can become a part of Yokefellows.

Men and women from outside the fence

line visit men at OCC on Tuesdays from

7:00 to 8:00 pm to join in conversation. It

is a highly spirited and always enjoyable

time.

2) Men can become Community Volunteer

Sponsors. Sponsors can take men out on

scheduled passes on the weekend for

religious services or simply for fellowship

and recreation. During the week, men can

take OCC residents to recovery meetings

or to attend to tasks to prepare them for

release, for example, for job interviews or

to obtain identification cards.

3) Men and women can volunteer at the

prison to teach computer skills or to assist

in literacy or GED programs.

4) Men and women volunteers can become

part of support or transition teams or

circles working with residents to prepare

them for release and transition to the

community following release.

A program for this fourth option was recently

presented to the Justice and Peace Committee (JPC)

by Drew Doll, Coordinator for Faith Teams and

Circles of Support and Accountability (CoSA).

Locally, centered in Durham, CoSA is a highly

successful international program. In the program,

4-6 community volunteers meet weekly with a

Partner (a person returning from prison) to provide

social support, prevent isolation and build

community. This is the Inner Circle. An Outer

Circle is composed of service providers who assist

with the basic needs after release and a Probation or

Parole Officer. CoSA is based on four assumptions

for the partners. These are: a) our love is

unconditional, b) no one ever gets hurt again, c) no

one is disposable, and d) no one is alone in reentry

into the community. Volunteers are needed for the

CoSA’s Inner Circles to spend an hour to an hour

and a half per week in conversation with a Partner.

If you are interested you can contact

[email protected].

Closer to home, Chapel Hill Friends Meeting also

has support teams for those leaving OCC and

returning to Orange County. Their Transition and

Support Committee is open to sharing its

experiences. You may contact Tom McQuiston.

You may also visit:

http://yokefellowhttp://yokefellowprisonministry.or

g/prisonministry.org/

In addition to hugely

rewarding fellowship

and friendship, these

activities can become

lived reconciliation

equally benefitting

those outside and inside.

- Chris McQuiston

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LITURGISTS

1st Gay Scannell

8th

Bron Skinner

15th

Nancy Corson Carter

22nd

Liz Evans

29th

John Thompson

ELDER-ON-CALL 1

st Steve Unruhe

8th

Craig DeBussey

15th

Bron Skinner

22nd

Steve Unruhe

29th

TBD

GREETERS 1

st Loretha Greene, Jill Friedman

8th

Ellen Davis, Gail McKinnis

15th

Ken & Sandy Milroy Jens

22nd

Robbie Blue, Shirley Brazda

29th

Nancy Gustaveson,

Sue Regier

SANCTUARY ASSISTANT

1st Paula Rogenes, Lil Royal

8th

Sue Regier, Patt Grandstaff

15th

Lisa Anthony, Maye Hardin

22nd

Desire Volkwijn,

Nancy Gustaveson

29th

Sandra & Willie Burt

WORSHIP COORDINATOR 1

st Sandra Burt

8th

Courtney Chávez

15th

Howard Carter

22nd

Courtney Chávez

29th

TBD

CAREGIVERS 1

st Beth Welton, Lil Royal

8th

Jane & Wes Hare

15th

Sandra Burt, Mary Odoms

22nd

Beth McArthur, Gann Herman

29th

Robbie Blue, Moustapha Barry

MUSICIANS 1

st Dale Herman

8th

Dale Herman

15th

Akiko Yamazaki Haywood

22nd

Akiko Yamazaki Haywood

29th

Dale Herman

OFFERING COUNTERS 1st

Steve Unruhe,

Jennifer McGovern

8th

Desiré Volkwijn, Sandra Burt

15th

Raymond Farrow, Sue Regier

22nd

David Robinson,

Lisa Anthony 29

th Jim Spaeth, Alex Gordon

CHANCEL ASSISTANTS 1

st Meri-Li Douglas

8th

Nancy Gustaveson

15th

Rose Crawford

Elsa Covington

22nd

Brenda McLeod & Bill Peay

29th

Desiré Volkwijn

FLOWERS 1

st Paula Rogenes

8th

Sandra Burt

15th

Jennifer McGovern

22nd

Sandy DeBussey

29th

Advent Candle

SOUND TECHNICIANS 1

st Mary Charles Blakebrough,

Meri-Li Douglas

8th

Mary Charles Blakebrough,

Meri-Li Douglas

15th

Mary Charles Blakebrough,

Meri-Li Douglas

22nd

Mary Charles Blakebrough,

Meri-Li Douglas

29th

Mary Charles Blakebrough,

Meri-Li Douglas

LOCK-UP 1

st Chris Lutes

8th

Marty Propst

15th

TBD

22nd

Alfred Covington

29th

Bill Andrews

Land & Structures On-Call Lil Royal

SIGNING CHECKS 1

st Raymond Farrow

8th

Paula Rogenes

15th

Gene Johnson

22nd

Lucy Richardson

29th

Raymond Farrow

Childcare Providers should be in

their rooms by 10:45 AM

November 1st Providers: Robyn Davis Stephens

Volunteers: Keana Davis, Anne Lutes

November 8th Providers: Robyn Davis Stephens

Volunteers: Laura Kline,

Jennifer Hardison Walters

November 15th Providers: Robyn Davis Stephens

Volunteers: Molly Farrow, TBC

November 22nd Providers: Robyn Davis Stephens

Volunteers: Jeff Koonce, Braeden Hilliard

Volunteer November 29th Providers: Robyn Davis Stephens

Volunteers: Brennan & Elias Stephens

NOVEMBER RESPONSIBILITY SCHEDULE:

Sunday School at 9:30 AM and Worship at 11:00 AM on Sunday mornings

If you have a conflict with this schedule – please call others on the list and make a swap. Then inform

the church office of these changes at 919-929-2127 or [email protected]. THANKS!

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AdventFest 2015 – Saturday, November 21 from

10 AM til noon in the Education Building and

Fellowship Hall. All ages are welcome to join us!

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November, 2015

SUN MON TUE WED THUR FRI SAT

1 5:00 PM Youth Group (PHC)

3:15 PM Mennonites (SN/FH/EB)

2 RPC

4:00 PM (FH)

3 New Voices

7:00 PM (SN)

4 Knitting in the Spirit

2 PM (Thompson’s)

“Many Ways to Pray”

7:00 PM (PHC)

5 L & S

7:00 PM (PHC)

6

Parents Evening Off

7-9 PM (PHC)

10 AM Deadline for

Weekly Rec Email

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8 9:00 AM Handbell Rehearsal (SN)

12:15 PM Africa Support (PHC)

5:00 PM Youth Group (PHC)

3:15 PM Mennonites (SN/EB)

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Personnel

6:30 PM (PHC)

10 New Voices

7:00 PM (SN)

Stephen Ministry

6:30 PM (FH)

11

10 AM Deadline for Weekly

Bulletin Announcements

12

JPC

7:00 (PHC)

Worship

7:00 PM (PHL)

13

10 AM Deadline for

Weekly Rec Email

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15 11:00 AM Hymn Sing

5:00 PM Youth Group (PHC)

7:00 PM PORCH (MS Youth)

3:15 PM Mennonites (SN/FH/EB)

16 Newsletter Deadline

10:00 AM

Salaam-Shalom

7:00 PM (PHC)

17 Deacons

6:30 PM (PHL)

Stephen Ministry

6:30 PM (FH)

18 Knitting in the Spirit

2 PM (Thompson’s)

Session 6:00 PM (FH)

10 AM Deadline for Weekly

Bulletin Announcements

19 Earth Care

7:00 PM (PHL)

20

10 AM Deadline for

Weekly Rec Email

21

Advent Festival

10 AM – Noon

(EB / FH)

22

9:00 AM Handbell Rehearsal (SN)

5:00 PM Youth Group (PHC)

3:15 PM Mennonites (SN/EB)

23

10 AM Deadline for Weekly

Bulletin Announcements

24 Adult Ed

6:30 PM (PHC)

25

10 AM Deadline for

Weekly Rec Email

26

27

28

Advent I 29

12:15 PM Fifth Sunday Market (FH)

3:15 PM Mennonites (SN/EB)

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Join us on Sunday mornings for

Sunday School at 9:30 AM

Worship at 11:00 AM

and Community Fellowship

at 12:15 AM

KEY -- SN: Sanctuary FH: Fellowship Hall

PHL: Parish House Library

PHC: Parish House Chapel EB: Education Building

YR: Youth Room (Ext. EB)

YL: Youth Lounge (EB)

NOTE: The deadline for getting articles in to the church office for the December Reconciler will be Monday, November 16th

.

Calendar dates are needed by that time too! You may leave a message, email or fax at your convenience!

Pastor Mark on Retreat November 3-6

Office Closed for Thanksgiving

Office

Closed for

Thanksgiv

ing

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New Hope Camp and Conference Center

Thank you to everyone involved for our annual BBQ fundraiser. This year hurricane Joaquim joined us but this did not dampen our spirits. Our to-go options this year included a convenient drive-thru for friends and family – everyone was able to enjoy our BBQ anytime and anywhere.

Camp has been busy for many weeks with Intersession students joining us from Hillsborough Elementary and The Expedition School. Campers have enjoyed field trips to the zoo, exploring the camp as Indiana Jones and digging & planting in our new camp garden. Our camp is open for Early Release Days, Intersessions and Teacher Workdays. Please contact the office at 919-942-4716 for more information.

The holiday season is just around the corner but now is the time to start planning for your event. Please contact the office at 919-942-4716 for more information.

The renovation of our main building Fleming Lodge is underway with a projected completion date of January 31st, 2016. Fleming Lodge has been the number one facility in past decades for receptions, parties, dances, and daily use by our day camp. In order to preserve this space for continued use we must perform repairs and upgrades to this much loved building that will be seen for many years to follow.

New Hope Camp and Conference Center is flourishing thanks to all your financial, volunteering efforts, and loving support of our camp. We cannot say it enough – thank you for sending your kids, grandkids, and family to summer camp and afterschool programs. Thank you for your fundraising efforts that allow us to renovate and maintain our facilities. We are very blessed to have a church and community family that is proud to call us home. Thank you for being our biggest supporters.

Church of Reconciliation

110 North Elliott Road

Chapel Hill, NC 27514

(919) 929-2127

Web Page: www.churchrec.org

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Please join us on Sunday mornings for

Sunday School at 9:30 AM and Worship at 11:00 AM!

Web Page: www.churchrec.org Phone: (919) 929-2127

E-mails: [email protected]; [email protected]; [email protected]