8/8/2019 The Beauty of a Christain Woman
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THE BEAUTY OF A CHRISTAIN WOMAN
MEMORY VERSE: I SAMUEL 16 VS 7
BY BEING OF GOOD OR BAD EXAMPLE IN WORDS AND DEEDS:A woman by
the way she speaks can be a joy to her husband, children and to all
who know her. Orshe can make life miserable for all who come within
the sound of her voice. Such as: Nagging,
complaining, a sharp and loud voice and making everyone unhappy
(PROVERBS 20 VS 19). Good
Deeds of a woman are the set of doings she displays such as
submissiveness to their husbands,keeping their bodies clean,
cleaning their surroundings and making their houses look tidy for
theirhusband and visitors, washing and ironing their clothes,
cooking nice meals, always organizingpraying sessions for the
family, going to church on time, bringing peace and unity into the
family and
being hard working. Remember that children who are raised under
this kind of influence in the housetend to follow the same pattern
when they are married or establish a home of their own.
What is beauty?
The Word of God gives the answer of beauty in the eyes of the
Lord. Beauty is not found in perfectmeasurement, you do not get it
in the gym, or beauty salon. It is not by plastic surgery or change
of
skin color or even by weight loss. Instead it is found in Gods
school of beauty. It is living to please
God, which is shown in ourconduct and character.Beauty has to do
with excellent spirit. It is thebeauty of Jesus Christ within. It
has to do with a certain kind of spirit.
What is beauty in conduct and Character?
Every woman has a spirit within her and this spirit testifies of
her to others by bringing out thecharacter, attitude or manner that
is within her whether it is good or bad. This spirit leaks out
the
beauty of the woman. People either get attracted to this
behavior or repel (keep away) from thebehavior. The spirit cant
hide nor keep our character within us; instead it makes it visible
throughour eyes, facial expression, disposition, communication
(talking), through attitudes and body
language.
Character in people comes from different angles:
Home training: PROVERBS 22 VS 6. Some parents have trained their
children in the ways of Lord.
Some other parents have trained their children best to their own
knowledge known to them.Habits borrowed from friends and from
environment: Some traits or a character of women comesfrom the
company of friends they have kept in the past or from the
environment which they grew upin. There is a saying that reads Show
Me Your Friends and Ill Tell You Who You Are.Some
women who grew up in lousy environment tend to have traits of
talkativeness, gossiping, arguing,complaining and so on. While
those who grew up in the peaceful environment tend to be quiet,
niceand good. You notice that some people who grew up in praying
environment are prayer warriors.
This is also applicable to each and every environment, household
and places. So if you have beeninfluenced by any of the negative
factors, ones you become born again and continue in faith you
would be able to live a life that pleases God. 1Cor 5 Vs 17.
NOTE:We should learn to be peaceful. A cheerful attitude and
kind loving words of a woman can have a
great influence upon the family. We should learn to keep our
mouth closed until there is need to talkand if you are opportune to
talk, talk with wisdom. Women should use the time for negative
talkinginto prayers and into their quiet time.
Remember women should learn to be truthfully, loyal, have
dignity and show the virtues of
womanhood in them. All these beautify a woman in eyes of the
Lord.PROVERBS 31 VS 26,1Pet 3 VS 3 4.
