The Broken Picker Solution - Dating with Confidence · 2017. 2. 28. · You find yourself thinking that you’ve never met anyone like him or have never been swept off your feet like

The "Broken Picker" SolutionSTOP DATING THE WRONG MEN

Raeeka YaghmaiCertified Life CoachDating & Relationship Expert

www.DatingWithConfidenceCoaching.com

Crack the dating code with information you can use right away—before you go on another date!

If you said “Yes” to any of these questions, you are in the right place !

Are you suffering from “dating burnout,” tired of guys disappointing you over and over again?

Do you have a history of repeatedly dat-ing the wrong guys, and each time tell-ing yourself “this time will be different”?

Do you wonder if your “picker” is seri-ously broken?

In other words: Do you wonder if you’ll EVER find the Quality Man you’ve been dreaming of?

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I UNDERSTAND...Hello, My name is Raeeka Yaghmai and I am the CEO and Founder of Dating with Confidence™. For 16 years, I dated all the wrong men, I was cheated on multiple times, I became more and more disappointed and frustrated about dating and love, and I almost gave up on the hope of ever being with a quality, loving, and relationship-ready man. Finally, I decided that enough was enough, and when I made a commitment to changing my approach to my love life, I found the love of my life!

I experienced so much pain, and I don’t want any woman to go through what I had to go through on my quest to find real love. As a certified coach and a dating and relationship expert, I know exactly what needs to be done in order to fast track your love life success. My “Dating Success System©” truly works if you commit to following it and applying it to your life, and this free training will teach you a part of that system. Think of it as a tool to add to your “Dating Tool Kit” - this is a tool that you can start using right away!

LADIES — STOP PICKING THE WRONG GUYS TODAY!This training is packed with crucial information and important tools you need to start creating success in your love life and put a stop to those dating mistakes that lead to your ongoing disappointment and frustration! I see far too many smart and savvy women work so hard to find love, but they end up dating the wrong men until they eventually burn out and give up. Many of these women end up telling themselves that they don’t need a man and prefer to be single, but the truth is that this is just an excuse. What they really want is to find the right man. What they really want is real love!

The truth is that there is no school in our academic system to teach us this information, so oftentimes we misinterpret our lack of success in the love department as something we are personally lacking, and we make excuses and assumptions that condemn us to a life that is less than what we de-serve. It’s time to stop wasting your precious time with unavailable men or once again letting the great, awesome, relationship-ready man slip away—just because you didn’t know the things I am going to share with you now!

What if you had the exactly information and tools to help you read men and stop second guessing yourself? Wouldn’t it be awesome if you can quickly identify if a man is the quality, relationship-ready type or not? I can only imag-ine how much more fun dating would be AND how confident you can feel.

Well, let’s stop wishing and let’s create YOUR love life success!


LET’S TALK MEN!When a woman doesn’t know how to read men, she can easily fall in the trap of attracting and dating men who appear to be the “Relationship Type.” The solution is to learn about these different types of men and their characteristics, so you can see the truth behind what appears to be a relationshiptype man and avoid a dead-end relationship.

At Dating with Confidence™ we categorize men who appear to be a “Relationship Type” into 3 categories:

The Player Type

The Needy Type

The Noncommittal Type

Then there is the “REAL” Relationship Type man

HINT — This is the one you really want to get to know!

We will study each type and learn their characteristics and communication style, so when you experience them, you will know what type of man you are dealing with. From there you can make an informed decision without being disappointed or stuck in the wrong kind of relationship.

I want to be very clear that I am not saying that the “Non-relationship” types are bad men. I simply want you to be aware that they are just not a match for a relationship-ready woman.


The Player Type: This type of man is a master of flirtation! He’s a classic “schmoozer,” he is bold, and he almost always takes the lead. You find yourself thinking that you’ve never met anyone like him or have never been swept off your feet like this before. He says all the right things, looks at you the right way, touches you the right way, and makes you feel like you are the only woman in the world that matters to him. He is persistent, smooth, and fast in his approach. He will do whatever it takes to get your attention and get you to say YES to him. He is exciting, and life with him is adventurous. Things move so fast with him that he might even want to meet your family. However, here’s the what you really need to know: The Player Type loves the excitement so much that once that chase is over, he quickly loses interest. Just as quickly as he appeared in your life, he vanishes.

TIP ALERT: Intelligent and high-achieving women are often extremely attracted to The Player Type. He is a master of conversation and clever banter, and keeps you not only physically interested, but intellectually stimulated, challenged, and on your toes. Relation-ship-ready women who fall into the trap of mistak-ing The Player for The Relationship Type may end up heartbroken with the feeling that there is something wrong with them. They end up overthinking and over-analyzing, trying to figure out what they said or did wrong to cause The Player Type to lose interest.


The Needy Type:This type of man is a tricky one. He can easily come across as the relationship type, but deep down you have a feeling that the whole thing is too good to be true, (not in a cynical way, but in a conscious, intuitive way). At first you may be to-tally enamored by his willingness to talk about his feelings with you, and his ability to “open up” and be “vulnerable.” The Needy Type can be very sweet, charming, complementary, and affectionate. He makes you feel like he really needs you and you are everything to him. After a while though, when the excitement wears off, you start to feel like the relation-ship with him is a one-way street. You are giving far more than you are getting. He either doesn’t have the bandwidth to attend to your needs (as he has not set up important parts of his life, which are foundations to a working relationship), or he has a hidden agenda and views girlfriends as “stepping stones” to get to the next part of his life. It feels great to be needed, and this type of man may fulfill something for you in that way, but he’s rarely available and able to meet your needs when you express them. A subcategory of The Needy Type is The Controlling Type. He may monopolize your time, zap you of a lot of your energy, and make you feel constantly guilty like you are never giving him enough.

TIP ALERT: Relationship-ready women who tend to be “givers,” “care-takers,” and “forgivers” are so drawn to this type of man because he makes them feel special and needed. They fall into the trap of The Needy Type and ending up feeling burnt out, drained, resentful, and unfulfilled thinking they are not worthy of being loved and taken care of.


The Noncommital Type: This type of man is a master at giving you just enough to string you along with no intention to fully commit. He is not consistent with you and there are large gaps between the times you connect and see each other. He might reach out to you by text, but no follow-ups with concrete dates or plans. He looks great on paper though! He is a good guy and a gentleman, dresses well, can have a successful career and an attractive social life. The two of you have a fiery “con-nection” with lots of “chemistry” and a fairytale “how we met” story! This is the type of man we have always wanted, so we pine after him and keep going back again and again. He is the quintessential model for unrequited love. While the conversation flows, the connection feels very real, and the sex is awesome, you’re the only one with the true feelings and the desire for a future, when he’s “just enjoying the moment.”

TIP ALERT: Women who have a need to be right fall for this type of man, because they want to be right about the possibility of him being “the one.” They create a fanta-sy story about him in their minds, and while he repeated-ly tells them in different ways that he is not ready for a commitment, they choose to ignore what he is saying and demonstrating, and choose to believe their own made up narrative. The Noncommittal Type may either say direct-ly “I am not emotionally ready yet,” “ I need to finalize XYZ in my life,” “I need time,” “I am not ready to settle yet,” or demonstrate more indirectly, by making everything else (his work, mom, family, kids, etc.) more of a priority.


The Relationship-Ready Type:This type of man doesn’t disappear after the excitement is over. He tells you and shows you that he is ready for a relationship in many ways. Here is how:

He is consistent in spending time with you and including you in his plans.

He always follows up after your dates, and makes sure the two of you keep seeing each other.

Over time he shares more of his feelings, thoughts, and goals with you.

He wants you to meet his family and wants to meet yours, and in his conversations he includes you in his future plans.

The Relationship Type stops staying connected with his ex and takes down his online dating profile.

He is interested in what you say and think, hears your relationship needs and is happy to collaborate with you on them.

Most importantly, when you have a disagreement he doesn’t run away—he is willing to communicate until you have reached some sort of an agreement, even if in some cases you “agree to disagree.”

TIP ALERT: At first this man might be slow to approach. He may stumble to get your attention, and you may not feel the fire and excitement right away. Be open and aware, and don’t assume too soon that he is not in-terested or that there is no chemistry.


HOW TO PICK THE “RELATIONSHIP READY MAN” Now that you have this inside information to know the difference between the “Real Relationship Type” man and men who appear as a “Relationship Type,” let’s put your knowledge into action.

Take these proven 3 Steps To Always Pick The Relationship Type:

Manage Your Dating Speed ➙ Collect Info ➙ Communicate Your Needs

= PICK THE RIGHT MAN


STEP ONE - Manage Your Dating Speed It’s very exciting to meet someone who seems like a match. Managing your dating speed means giving him the opportunity to show you that his words and actions match up.

TIP: Quality men can’t wait to have the opportunity to represent themselves in an impressive way and gain your attraction and commitment.

ACTION STEPS: How To Manage your Dating Speed...1. Be very clear about your vision for your love life.2. Be patient, take your time, and observe how he could fit into your vision. 3. Don’t be blinded by the excitement of meeting someone new when it comes

to making big decisions. 4. Keep your dating limiting beliefs in check and don’t allow yourself to be rushed

by those beliefs.

STEP TWO - Collect InfoThis step could seem counterintuitive for proactive women, however focusing on how you choose to show up and letting him give you info about himself is being a proactive and smart dater.

ACTION STEPS: How To Collect Info?

1. Pay attention to his words and don’t make excuses for him. 2. Observe him: Are his words and actions matching? 3. Make decisions based on the information he gives you.4. Stay grounded and don’t jump into a fantasy relationship.5. Let him write his own story and don’t project who you want him to be. 6. Observe how engaged he is in keeping the momentum and make sure

that you are both making an effort.


STEP THREE - Communicate Your Needs So many women believe that by asking for their needs to be met, they are being “needy” or “self-centered,” or that knowing what they need will be seen as a “turn-off.” Not to the right man. This is the real litmus test to see if the man you are dating is a match or not.

ACTION STEPS: How To Communicate Your Needs?

1. Acknowledge that you are enjoying getting to know him.2. State your needs.3. Collaborate with him in finding a solution.

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The Broken Picker Solution - Dating with Confidence · 2017. 2. 28. · You find yourself thinking that you’ve never met anyone like him or have never been swept off your feet like