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The Jack and Carla Weingarten Story ByBeverlyGarfunkel,GuestReporter
JackandCarlaWeingartencelebratedtheir75thWeddingAnniversarythispastmonthofAugust,2016!TheywerechildhoodfriendsinVienna,Austria,wheretheKlingerandWeingartenfamilieswereneighborsandfriends.TheriseoftheNazisandWorldWarIIsawJack,at17,emigratingtoPalestinein1935,andCarlaexcludedfromschoolandwitnessingKristallnachtwhenherfatherwasarrestedandsenttoDachau.CarlawasfluentinHebrewandamongthosefortunateenoughtobechosentoimmigratetoPalestinein1939.ThatwasthelasttimeCarlasawherfamily,whomettheirendsinconcentrationcamps. Jack’smotheraskedCarlatofindJackinPalestinetodeliveralettertohim.LittledidCarlaknowthattwoyearslater,Mrs.Weingartenwouldbehermother‐in‐law!JackwasintheBritishArmyandvisitedCarlawhenpossible.In1941,theymarriedafterJackwasreleasedfromtheBritishArmyandjoinedtheAmericanArmy‐OSS(OfficeofStrategicService)‐untiltheendofthewar.
InIsrael,Jackwasanintegralmemberofalargemanufacturingcompanymakingcansandmetalboxes.Togethertheyraisedtwosons.In1958,theydecidedto
leaveIsraelandjoinJack’sfamilyinOakland,latermovingtoLosAngeles.Here,JackhelpedrescueacompanyinthefashionindustryfrombankruptcyandbecameitsPresident.TheylivedinMountaingatebeforesettlingatFountainviewin2010. JackandCarlaareavidbridgeplayersandenjoytheirnewlifeinourcommunity.AskanyonewhohasbeenaroundsincetheWeingartensmovedin,andtheywillfondlyrememberJackdressedup
infullIslandattiretohulaatthefirstFVLaborDayluau,CarlaenjoyingallthedanceclassesofferedaswellasparticipatingineveryWalkofAgesevent! Astaffcommentoftenoverheardaboutthesetwo,whostillwalkhand‐in‐handafteralltheseyears:“Theyaresoadorabletogether,theyoughttobeonthetopofeveryweddingcake!”Awell‐deservedcompliment.HappyAnniversary,JackandCarla!
A Warm Welcome to Our Newest Residents MiriamBetsalelShaniSmolensBeatriceBelcoveMortMaurer
Fountainview at Eisenberg Village Reseda, California Summer 2016
www.fountainviewjha.org/fountainview‐living/publications
USC Zekenim Recognition Reception
ByShirleyLazar
OnSaturday,June25,2016,weenjoyedaspecialhappeninghereatFountainview,sponsoredbytheUSCDavisSchoolofGerontologyandfundedbytheJewishCommunityFoundation.OurfirstmeetingwiththeleadersoftheZekenimProgramwasheldonJanuary21,2016,and19ofourresidentswhoattendedthismeetingenlistedfortheprogramandcommittedtoattendingthethreenecessarysessions.Theprogramaimstodiscover,illuminateandhonorolderadultsintheentireJewishcommunity. Wehadtwo,three‐weekworkshopsatFountainview–oneinMarch,andoneinApril.Iattendedthesecondone,endinginlateApril.Inthesessions,wesharedourlifestoriesandsketchedakeyturningpointfromourlife.Youngartistswerethenassignedtotranslate
participants’lifestoriesintooriginalworksofart.CraigCody,ProjectDirectoroftheZekenimProject,ledthesessions. OnJune25,theZekenimProjecthonoredtheparticipantswithaRecognitionReception.Afabulousbuffetlunchandartshowwereincluded.ShownattheArtShowwereourlifestoriesandsketches,andtheartworktranslatedintovisualartformbytheyoungartists. ItwasapleasuretomeetNina,theyoungladywhotranslatedmystoryandsketch.SheandImadeanimmediate,friendlyconnectionand,together,weviewedthewonderfulartshow.Ithankedherfortheworkshedidonmystory,andshethankedmeforsharingmypersonalstorywithher.ItseemsthatalloftheFountainviewparticipantshadsimilarexperienceswiththeirartist. IfeelsofortunatethatIwasaparticipantinthisprojectandgratefulthatsomanyyoungpeopleareworkingsohardtobetterthelivesoftheelderly.
Saturday Night Live ByEvelynBauer Not quite ready for prime time? I don’t think so. Here at Fountainview many of our entertainers are first rate. I’m thinking of the Andrews Sisters – oh wait – they were actually the “Swing Dolls” impersonating the Andrews Sisters. Three adorable ladies dressed in WWII army uniforms, right down to seams in their stockings, belted out “Rum and Coca Cola,” “The Boogy Woogy Bugle Boy,” “Bie Mer Bist de Shane,” etc. Thank you, Rabbi Tomsky, for bringing them to us. Then there was Tom Ogden with his unique combination of comedy and magic. His performance was a special Father’s Day treat and, although on a Sunday, it was a very special live performance. Bill Jones took us to Las Vegas for his 6th time at Fountainview. He was elegantly dressed, very professional, and an engaging crooner. It was as if we were at a show on the Strip, listening to Frank Sinatra, Bobby Darin and Sammy Davis Jr. Outstanding is the adjective for the Dick Parent Trio. Piano, drums and a horn were combined to bring us our old favorite dance tunes. Some of our residents couldn’t resist and were on their feet dancing away. It was a nostalgic and very enjoyable performance. On a different note, classical pianist Michael Sellers returned for an impressive concert of Mozart, Schuman, and Beethoven. It was all first rate but the Gershwin pieces towards the end were particularly enjoyable. Saturday night does not have to be the loneliest night of the week. Come on down and join in on the fun. Thank you, Shelley and Lauri, for bringing us such great performers.
Feed Your Soul Each Week ByEthelKett,GuestReporter
IwouldliketoinformyouthatFountainviewhasa“Sing‐a‐long"groupthatmeetseachWednesdayat2:00pmintheDiningRoomnexttothepiano.Comeandjoinus!Youwillbesurroundedbybeautifulmusicandtouchedbybeautifullyrics.Foronemagnificenthour,youwillrecallhappymemoriesofyouryouthasyousingsongsofthatera.Youdonotneedanoutstandingvoice‐youneedonlyaloveofmusic.Wewillwelcomeyouwithopenarms!Thereisnocost,andthishouriswonderfultherapyforthesoul.
Life Without Wheels
ByShirleyRosenberg
Everlostyourbestfriendandyourindependenceatthesametime?I’mspeakingfiguratively,ofcourse,andreferringtomycarandallthefreedomitrepresents.Attheripeageof91,Ifinallydecidedtoputmydrivingdaysbehindmeandretiredmycaranddriver’slicensethispastJune. I’msureI’mnottheonlyonehereatFountainviewwho’sexperiencedthisphenomenon.Manyofyoualreadyknowthehugelifechangethatcomeswithgivinguplifebehindthewheel.Yetwhiletheinitialsensationisanemotionalandlogisticaljolt,it’snottheendoftheworldeither.I’vefoundotherwaystoretainmyindependence,andlargelywithoutimposingonfriendsandfamily.ThankfullyweliveintheageofUberandLyft,sousingthose,alongwithourFountainviewtransportation,lifeain’tsobadafterall. IhavebeendrivingsinceIwas17yearsold.IhavevividmemoriesofmydadteachingmetodrivethecurvyoldArroyoSeco(nowthePasadenaFreeway).LosAngeleswasjusta“village”then,backin1943.Myfirstcarwasaused1941Chevrolet,abluecoupewithastickshift.Ipaid$500,mydadputupanadditional$900,andthatoldfriendservedasourfamilycarforseveralyearsaftermymarriage.ThatoldChevytookmyfriendsandmetothebeaches,SanDiego,SantaBarbara,evenSanFranciscoontheold101.Ilovedit! AsL.A.grew,sodidthetrafficandwe’veallseentheimpactovertheyears.Todaywehavedriversfromaroundtheworld,manyofwhomareunfamiliarwithourfreeways,ourlawsandthewaywedrive(orshoulddrive).Ihatetosoundlikean“oldperson,”butdriversdon’tseemtobeascompetentaswewere,particularlyinthiseraofcellphones.Howmanytimeshaveyouseenpeopletalkingortexting,notpayingattentiontotraffic?Orwomenputtingonmake‐up,orpeopleeatingtheirJack‐in‐the‐Box
burgersbehindthewheel?Timetoquit! Atourage,mostofus,anyway,exhibitsignsofaging—diminishedhearing,sight,slowerreactiontime,agilityandbalance.Ifirstnoticedhowdifficultitwastodriveatnight,theglarebecamealmostblinding. I’mstillafairlygooddriver,butformyown
safetyandthesafetyofthosearoundme,Idecidedtothrowinthetowel.Onthedayofmy91stbirthday,Ireplacedmydriver’slicensewithaCaliforniaIDcard.AAAgavemeanewHandicapplacardtoreplacemylicenseplates,sonowthoseI’mdrivingwithhavetheprivilegeofusinghandicapspotswhenIridewiththem. MydaughterwentwithmethedayIturnedinmycar,whichwasfarmoreemotionalthanIeverthought.Ieven
wentbacktokissmycargoodbye.Butnowit’sallbehindme,andIseemtobeadjustingjustfine.Ievenhaveadriverhalf‐a‐dayeachweek,soIcanconsolidatemyerrandsandappointments.Ineedtothinkaheadabitmorethanbefore,buthey!It’soneoflife’sadjustmentsandI’mgettingusedtoit.
Babies at Fountainview ByLillianBaker
Babiesarealwaysadelight,especiallyiftheircareissomeoneelse’sresponsibility.Theproudparentsbringtheiroffspringforthegrandparentstoenjoy.HereatFountainview,wherealmosteveryoneofusfeelslikefamily,wepartakeinthejoytoseefamilieswelcomingeachother.Westopby,cooormakenoisesatthelittleones,offercomplimentarycomments,andtrynottoscarethemwhileweviefortheirattention.Ofcourse,theirsmaynotbeascute.asours,butwelovethemall.Thepleasureofthissharedvisit,ifonlyforthemoment,isfun.
July 4th at Fountainview
What a Wonderful Day!
Red,whiteandbluewerethethemecolorsofthisspecialholidayatFountainviewwithnearlyeveryonedressedintheirmostspiritedgarb!Closeto80residentsplayedblackjack,pokerandroulette,andSueRichterwonthegrandprizeofaCheesecakeFactorygiftcard.HelenBurns,RosalynHeyman,LorettaEhrig,RochelleandBobSteresweretheCandyGamewinners,walkingawaywithlotstosatisfytheirsweettooth.Twenty‐twoluckycasinoplayerswonred,whiteandbluebaseballcapstoaddtotheircolorfulattire.Endingthefestivities,nearly40ofusenjoyedfreshlypoppedpopcornwhilewatching“ACapitolFourth”onthebigscreeninthetheater.Itwasagreatdayofcelebrationandfun!
Passion
APoembyJoanKagan
Oh,whereisthepassionIhadinmyyouth?WhenIhadthecouragetostanduptothetruth?
Oh,whereisthepassionIfeltformylove?Ohwherediditgo,diditflylikeadove?
ThefeelingIhadthatburned‐DiditleavewithallthelessonsI’velearned?
Inmyyouth,Istoodupforacause,neverfearingwhatpeoplethoughtofallmyflaws.
Oh,howdidthatburningdesirefadeaway‐Didtimetakeitstolllikeachildgoneastray?
Oh,whereismywillthatwasstrongerthannails?Oh,whenwastimewhenitstartedtopale?
NowandagainIstillfeelaspark,whenthereisacausethatisclosetomyheart.Butpassioncanbeanelusivedesire.Itreallytakessomethingtosetmeafire.
IwanttofeelagainthatfirethatburnssoIamhopingthereissomethingnewIcanlearn.Somethingthatmakesmyheartskipabeat.Tomethatwouldbeafabuloustreat.
Hollywood Bowl Revisited
ByEvelynBauer
ItwasamagicalnightattheBowlwithwarmandpleasantweather.Theprogramwasthecompletescoreof“WestSideStory”.GustavoDudamelconductedtheL.A.Philharmonicandayoung,talentedcastperformedourfavoritesongsfromthisstilltimelymusical.
ThebookbyArthurLaurentsandthelyricsbyStephenSondheimcouldhavebeenwrittentoday.Racerelations,rivalfactions,encounterswiththepolice,violence,andtheadmonitionto“marryyourownkind”seemedverypertinent.Themagicoffallinginlovewasparticularlypoignantintheballad“Maria”.ThemusicbyLeonardBernsteinwasinspiredanddramatic.TheproductionwasoriginallyconceivedbyJeromeRobbinswhobasedthestoryonShakespeare’sRomeoandJuliet.Robbinswasalsothechoreographer,andalthoughhewascreditedonthemarquee,therewaslittleevidenceofthiscontribution. Forme,theminimalemphasisoncostumesanddancewasadisappointment.Butthis,afterallwasaconcertrenditionof“WestSideStory”. Averytalented,youngSoleaPfeifferportrayedMariawithbeautifulvoiceanddelivery.ThedoomedTonywaseloquentlyplayedbyJeremyJordan.Theentirecastwasexcellentbutthemostfascinatingperformanceofallwasbytheconductor.WatchingDudamel’sfacialexpressionsandbodymovementsonthebigscreenasheconductedhisexuberantorchestrawastrulyatreat.Itwashisshowandhewasthestar! IcouldnothelpbutreminisceaboutpastconcertsattheBowl.Dinnerswithfriendsintheboxes,happytimeswiththekidsonfireworksnights,arrivingearlytosnagapicnictablefordinneralfresco.SohereIwas,attheBowlagain,butthistimewithnewfriends,organizedbyLauri,ourenergeticActivitiesCoordinator,assistedbyaveryableMayra.WecameonabusfromFountainview,enthusiastic,appreciative,andmarvelingatourgoodfortunetobehereagain.Wesharedtheeveningwiththousandsofstrangers,broughttogetherforacommunal,lifeaffirmingexperienceofcreativity.Itwasagreatperformanceandanighttoremember.
Fountainview Treads the Light Fantastic
ByRikkiLevine
Themusicenticedyoutojoininwithsongs(whichweallremember)andtodance.Butunfortunatelywewerecontainedtoourseats.WizardofOzwasnotsomethingIwasparticularlylookingforwardtoseeing…again.Tomydelight,itwasentertainingfrombeginningtoenddespitethefactthatitwasaverylongproduction. Notbeingatheatercritic–Icannonethelessexultinthetalent,thecostumingandtheadorablechildrenperforming. TherearenobadseatsintheGlendaleTheater.Youcanseeandhearthrough‐out.ThebusrideonaSaturdayisnotlong,andweareserveddrinksbyLauriassoonaswe’reseated. Actually,wearepamperedthroughouttheafternoon(asisourdue).Withallthesepositivesandundeniablyreasonableticketprices,whywouldweleaveGlendale?
Great Day—An Intellectual Adventure
ByRikkiLevine
Thiswasavery“broad”exhibit.Itisnotoneforthefaintofheartoronenotinitiatedintotheworldofart. Thestructurehousingthemuseumisnothingshortofspectacular(FrankGehrytakenotice).Itsflowbeckonedyoutocomeinandexplorefurther.Lightingwasplannedsothatalthoughtheinteriorwasbrightinalltherooms–nosunlightentered,anditwasnaturallight! TheBroad(rhymeswith‘road’)collectionisuniquetosaytheleast.Itismoderninconcept–brightunusualcanvasesthattellastory.TheywereallartistsunfamiliartomesincemyforteisImpressionism. ForthoseofuswhoenteredintotheworldofCindySherman…sheisa“performingartist”.Whataperformingartistdoesisdevelopacharacterwithclothingorcostumeandmake‐up.Shewasayoungwoman,anoldone,amaninperioddress,orwithpropstocreatealewdposition…therewereperhapsonehundredormore.Hertalentisuniqueandwidelyrecognizedinthefieldofart. Lunchfollowedatasurprisinglygoodrestaurantnextdoor.Weleftwithadayhavingsatiatedourartisticintellect–andby1:30–ourgrowlinghunger. ThebusridehomewasenhancedwithdeliciousbrowniesmadewiththegiftedhandsofSueRichter.
Wear Orange Day
ByJoyPicus,GuestReporter
OnJune2,about30Fountainviewresidents,menandwomen,assembledintheLibrary,wearingtheirmostcolorfulorangejackets,shirts,scarves,jewelry,andevenshoes!WegatheredinsupportofWearOrangeDay,aneventdesignedbyWomenAgainstGunViolencetocallattentiontothehorrendousnumberofgundeathsthroughoutthecountry,andtheneedtotakeactionlegislativelyandpersonallytoendthisneedlessbloodshed. ThiswasoursecondcomingtogethertosupportWAGV.AphototakenatFountainviewlastyearwasdisplayedatCityHallearlierthatweektomuchacclaim.Aphotofromthisyearwasshownontheorganization’swebsite. WomenAgainstGunViolenceisaLosAngeles‐basedorganizationthateducatesthepublic,policymakersandthemediaaboutthehuman,financialandpublichealthconsequencesofgunviolence.
Happy Hour al Fresco
ByEvelynBauer
OnWednesday,July20,weweretreatedtothefirstofthreeoutdoorsunsetcocktailparties.At7o’clock,wegatheredinthemaincourtyardtosipgimlets,margaritas,andsodas,andmunchonseafoodcocktailsandnuts.Wesatcomfortablyaroundtablesenjoyingthenight‐timebreezesandeachother. Throughout,Fumanientertainedwithherlovelyvoiceandengagingpersonality.ShewasablyaccompaniedbyDavidCohenonthekeyboardsandanotherDavidonsaxophone.Marvincouldn’tcontainhimself.Hedancedhiswayacrossthecourtyardasheexited.MaybeweshouldgoLatinnexttimesothatMarvincanleadacongaline. Itwasalovelyevening,andwelookforwardtothenextHappyHouronAugust17.IsuggestSangriaasadrinkoption.Shelley,Lauri,Angel,andstaffdidafantasticjobonthisverypleasantadditiontoouractivities.Theywelcomeourcommentsandsuggestions.
In Memoriam
WerecallthenamesofourrecentlydeparteddearfriendsSofieFriedman,AileenCohenandJosephScheer.Maytheirmemoriesbeablessing.
the VIEW Staff
EDITOR:RuthOrbuch
REPORTERS:LillianBaker,EvelynBauer,JoyceEdelman,ShirleyLazar,RikkiLevine,ShirleyRosenberg,RabbiMervinTomsky
PHOTOGRAPHER:MikeMarokoPROOFREADER:BobSteresSTAFFSUPPORT:ShelleySmilen,JohnLaClair,ConciergeTeam
PRODUCTION/DESIGN:CaryHaskin
Watercolor Painting at Fountainview
ByJoyceEdelman Tuesdaymorningsat11:15,twelveeagerFountainviewersmeetwiththeirtalentedandenthusiasticteacher,Stephanie,intheCreativeArtsStudiotolearnandpracticewatercolortechniques.Whentheyarriveforeachsession,theyfindtheirmaterialsallsetoutforthem:asetofpaints,alargeandsmallbrush,apencil,acontainerofwater,apapertowel,andascrapofwatercolorpapertotestoutcolors.Fromthesehumbleobjects,masterpiecesarecreated.Thefirstsessionwasintroductory.Thentherewasaseriesoffoursessionsdevotedtothepaintingofflowers.Participantswererequiredtocommittoattendallfoursessions.Thestudentsenjoyedthesesessionssomuchthattheycommittedtoattendthe
nextseriesoffoursessionsdevotedtolandscapepainting.Theyallreturnedforthethirdseriescalled"SummerCelebration."BellaBergman,oneoftheparticipants,saidshe
hadpreviousexperiencewithoilpaintsbutwatercolorwascompletelynewtoher,andshelikeditalot.ShirleyLazarhadusedacrylicpaintsbutsheenjoyedlearningthewatercolortechniquesandwaseagertocontinue.Shesaiditwasveryrelaxingforher.ForLeaSwidler,
watercolorpaintingwasatotallynewexperienceandshelovedit.TobyTreitmanwasalsoenthusiastic.ThereasontheclasseshavebeensosuccessfulisbecauseeverydetailofeachsessioniscarefullyplannedbyStephanie.Anewsix‐sessionseriesisplannedforAugustandSeptember. Therewillbenolackofparticipants.
Why We Need the High Holy Days
ByRabbiMervinTomsky
Weliveinsuchturbulentandtroublesometimes!Hatred,violence,destructionandconspicuousinequalityhavecausedinexplicableagonytohumansocietyaroundtheworld‐‐includingcitiesofourowncountry‐‐suchashasnotbeenevidentsinceWWll.It'seasyforustofeeldismayandangerandhopelessness. ButsoontheHighHolyDayswillbecoming(beginningtheeveningofOctober2ndthisyear),andweagainwillbegiventheopportunitytoengageinintrospection,reflectionandre‐connection.WeneedthisreligiousandcommunalexperiencesothatwedonotloseoursenseofvaluesandpurposeasJewsandashumanbeings.Itisforustochampionthecauseofdecency,dignityandthesanctityoflifeforall‐‐regardlessofrace,ethnicityorcreed. Weareendowedwithconscienceandfreewill,andwecanbringholinessintotheworldbyhowweliveourlivesandinfluenceothers.LetuseachdoourpartinmakingtheNewYear‐‐5777‐‐abetterone.Andmayitbringblessingsofpeaceandwell‐beingtousall! ShanaTovah!
Forum Preview
RabbiRonStern–ofStephenWiseTemple‐hasbeeninvitedtospeakonThursday,September15,at3:30pminourTheater.Hewillpresenthisfavoritesubject:“WhoWrotetheBibleandWhyDoesitMatter?” RabbiSternjoinedtheTempleClergyin1998afterbeingordainedatHebrewUnionCollegeandservingasAssociateRabbiatTempleAhavatShalominNorthridge.HehasimpactedtheTemplecommunitywithinnovativeprogrammingsuchasCarpoolTorah,thenationwideFreedomSchool,incoordinationwiththeChildren’sDefenseFund,andwasthefoundingrabbioftheWiseCenterforSocialJusticeEngagementwhichincludespoliticaladvocacyinSacramentoandWashington. Pleasecomewithyourquestionsandcomments.
Top Players of the Month: DAKIM
Thefollowingresidentsreachedthetopofthelistforthemostnumberofgamesplayed.CONGRATULATIONS!
May:IreneNathanJune:LeaSwidlerJuly:ShirleyWolfson