Creating Your Creating Your DestinyDestiny

Ophelia ChamberlainOphelia Chamberlain

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Aretha AbdullahAretha Abdullah

Workshop AgendaWorkshop Agenda Understanding how the Law of attraction Understanding how the Law of attraction

contribute to our everyday livescontribute to our everyday lives Summary of Last Months WorkshopSummary of Last Months Workshop Learning How to Deliberately Create the Life you Learning How to Deliberately Create the Life you

WantWant

Break For LunchBreak For Lunch

Developing Positive Roles and Relationships Developing Positive Roles and Relationships Review of Goal and Goal SettingReview of Goal and Goal Setting The Mentor/ Mentee and what it should BEThe Mentor/ Mentee and what it should BE

The Laws of AttractionThe Laws of AttractionSummary from Last Two MonthsSummary from Last Two Months

I.    A Brief History of the I.    A Brief History of the Law of AttractionLaw of Attraction

   Here are simple phrases that Here are simple phrases that summarize the summarize the Law of Law of AttractionAttraction:: What you focus on expandsWhat you focus on expands You reap what you sowYou reap what you sow Birds of a feather flock togetherBirds of a feather flock together Whatever you want wants youWhatever you want wants you What comes around goes aroundWhat comes around goes around

The Natural Laws of the The Natural Laws of the UniverseUniverse

There are two universal laws that There are two universal laws that are active in our life”are active in our life”

The law of AttractionThe law of Attraction

The law of cause and effectThe law of cause and effect

In simple terms, the Law of In simple terms, the Law of Attraction expresses the Attraction expresses the truth that you attract to truth that you attract to yourself what you focus yourself what you focus your mind on; whether your mind on; whether

those things are negative those things are negative or positive or positive

The Law of AttractionThe Law of Attraction

The The law of attractionlaw of attraction states that like states that like energy attracts like energy like a magnetenergy attracts like energy like a magnet

Also stating like Also stating like thoughtsthoughts attract like attract like thoughtsthoughts and events. and events.

Meaning we attract whatever we give Meaning we attract whatever we give our attentions to the most, wanted or our attentions to the most, wanted or unwantedunwanted

The Law of Cause and The Law of Cause and EffectEffect

Cause and effect is merely a Cause and effect is merely a scientific term for The law of scientific term for The law of attraction.attraction.

Also known as Sowing and ReapingAlso known as Sowing and Reaping

Unlike man made laws, the Law of Unlike man made laws, the Law of cause and Effect delivers back to you cause and Effect delivers back to you the results of whatever you gave to the results of whatever you gave to the universe, based on your actions.the universe, based on your actions.

The Law of Cause & EffectThe Law of Cause & Effect

This Universal Law states that This Universal Law states that nothing happens by chance or nothing happens by chance or

outside the Universal Laws. Every outside the Universal Laws. Every action has a reaction or action has a reaction or

consequence and we “reap what consequence and we “reap what we have sown.”we have sown.”

Law of Cause and Effect in Law of Cause and Effect in ActionAction

In this case the THOUGHT represented In this case the THOUGHT represented the seed, and the preceding thoughts, the seed, and the preceding thoughts, words, and actions represent the words, and actions represent the nurturing of that seed, like the sun and nurturing of that seed, like the sun and water were the nurturing factor for the water were the nurturing factor for the sunflower seed in the previous example.sunflower seed in the previous example.

With the proper nurturing With the proper nurturing it has to growit has to grow

RememberRemember

Thought is the CAUSE, Thought is the CAUSE,

Experiences you meet in life, Experiences you meet in life, are the Effects.are the Effects.

Learning How to Learning How to Deliberately Create Deliberately Create the Life you Wantthe Life you Want

&&The Process of The Process of ManifestationManifestation

Are We Living Life by Are We Living Life by Default?Default?

Begin by Changing the way we Begin by Changing the way we think and the Story we are tellingthink and the Story we are telling

Understanding your story & what Understanding your story & what effects effects thoughtsthoughts have on your have on your storystory

Understanding that by changing Understanding that by changing your your thoughtsthoughts you can change you can change your storyyour story

Living Life by DefaultLiving Life by Default

Stop being buffered around like a Stop being buffered around like a small cork on a raging sea.small cork on a raging sea.

Stop taking life as it comesStop taking life as it comes

In order to do this we have to change In order to do this we have to change our story on how you want it to be.our story on how you want it to be.

Tell the story that you want to Tell the story that you want to experienceexperience

As you tell your story in your life (and As you tell your story in your life (and you do it nearly all day, every day you do it nearly all day, every day with your words your thoughts and with your words your thoughts and your actions) you have to feel good your actions) you have to feel good while you tell it.while you tell it.

In every moment, about every In every moment, about every subject, you can focus positively or subject, you can focus positively or negatively, negatively,

What is the Story You are now What is the Story You are now tellingtelling

I can’t do that/I can do thatI can’t do that/I can do that I can’t afford that/I want to buy thatI can’t afford that/I want to buy that I don’t have enough Money/I want I don’t have enough Money/I want

more moneymore money I am fat/I want to be slenderI am fat/I want to be slender I don’t know how to get more I don’t know how to get more

money/I want more moneymoney/I want more money I don’t feel good/I want to feel goodI don’t feel good/I want to feel good

The Process of ManifestationThe Process of Manifestation Know your DesireKnow your Desire

Ask for your DesireAsk for your Desire

Experience your DesireExperience your Desire

Action Towards your DesireAction Towards your Desire

Gratitude for Your DesireGratitude for Your Desire

Step 1, Knowing Your DesireStep 1, Knowing Your Desire

Do you really know your Desire?Do you really know your Desire? Knowing what you really want is an Knowing what you really want is an

extremely important first step in the process extremely important first step in the process of the object of the object

Consider details as to what the object of Consider details as to what the object of your desire will really bring to you.your desire will really bring to you. A. How will it benefit youA. How will it benefit you How will it make you happy and enhance your How will it make you happy and enhance your

realityreality Most of all how will it help you towards arriving Most of all how will it help you towards arriving

at where you really need to be in your lifeat where you really need to be in your life

Be Brutally Honest with yourselfBe Brutally Honest with yourself

Do not just want somethng, just because Do not just want somethng, just because someone else has it and you would like to someone else has it and you would like to have it.have it.

Wanting something just to show off to Wanting something just to show off to people, or to convey an impression of people, or to convey an impression of wealth is not a good reason , it is simple wealth is not a good reason , it is simple egotistic, van and materialisticegotistic, van and materialistic

This means that your desires are driven by This means that your desires are driven by

the demands of your egothe demands of your ego

Desiring something on a whim Desiring something on a whim because it seems like a good idea at because it seems like a good idea at the time is also not a good reason to the time is also not a good reason to manifest anything into your manifest anything into your existence.existence.

Take as much time as necessary.Take as much time as necessary. Only you an make this decision, no Only you an make this decision, no

one else can make it for you.one else can make it for you. You are the one who will have to live You are the one who will have to live

with whatever you bring into your with whatever you bring into your reality, as well as for its affect on reality, as well as for its affect on your family and all those around you.your family and all those around you.

It is important to focus on one It is important to focus on one object at a timeobject at a time

Decide on exactly one thing at a Decide on exactly one thing at a time, do not waste time on dreaming time, do not waste time on dreaming and visualizing on numerous things.and visualizing on numerous things.

Decide on one thing and focus your Decide on one thing and focus your entire energy until such time it has entire energy until such time it has manifested into you’re your life.manifested into you’re your life.

There is no time limit on this step for There is no time limit on this step for it is very important.it is very important.

Finally, Never Ever, Ever ask for Finally, Never Ever, Ever ask for moneymoney

Money is in and and of itself totally Money is in and and of itself totally meaningless.meaningless.

It is merely a human construct, an It is merely a human construct, an object, a rational method of object, a rational method of exchange wich as far as the universe exchange wich as far as the universe is concern is no more than energy in is concern is no more than energy in the form of bits and physical metal, the form of bits and physical metal, paper, or electronic bits stored on a paper, or electronic bits stored on a computer systemcomputer system

THE UNIVERSE IS INFINITLYTHE UNIVERSE IS INFINITLYABUNDANTABUNDANT

Everything you could possible wish for Everything you could possible wish for already exist, all you need to do is t bring already exist, all you need to do is t bring it into physical awareness, and therefore it into physical awareness, and therefore your physical reality.your physical reality.

Always asks for what you want and never Always asks for what you want and never place a monetary value on it.place a monetary value on it.

Once you know beyond a doubt what you Once you know beyond a doubt what you really want you are ready for the next really want you are ready for the next step.step.

Step 2, Ask For Your DesireStep 2, Ask For Your Desire

Ask and you shall receive. These are Ask and you shall receive. These are indeed ancient and most wise words.indeed ancient and most wise words.

We are here to evolve by means of We are here to evolve by means of our freewill. The universe will never our freewill. The universe will never ever denies anyone any request for ever denies anyone any request for anything whatsoever: there are no anything whatsoever: there are no exceptions to this truth. Each and exceptions to this truth. Each and every person must experience in every person must experience in order to learn and evolve back to the order to learn and evolve back to the first cause. first cause.

Asking is an important StepAsking is an important Step

The asking process can purely in the The asking process can purely in the mind, how the most powerful method mind, how the most powerful method is to simply write down your request is to simply write down your request down on paper.down on paper.

The physical action of writing down The physical action of writing down your desire impresses your wish on your desire impresses your wish on your subconscious mind.your subconscious mind.

Ask in the present tenseAsk in the present tense

Example: I now have a new car. My Example: I now have a new car. My new car is blue.new car is blue.

Always remember to avoid restricting Always remember to avoid restricting the universe by a timescale.the universe by a timescale.

It is important to have faith in the It is important to have faith in the universe (the Source) to fulfill your universe (the Source) to fulfill your desire.desire.

Step 3, Experience Your DesireStep 3, Experience Your Desire

In order to experience what you have In order to experience what you have asked for you must allow it to asked for you must allow it to manifest into your physical reality by manifest into your physical reality by the law of attraction, and that means the law of attraction, and that means bringing your energy vibration into bringing your energy vibration into harmony with the desires you have harmony with the desires you have already asked for and have been already asked for and have been given.given.

Believing is SeeingBelieving is Seeing

You must believe it before you can You must believe it before you can actual see it. actual see it.

If you believe something to be so in If you believe something to be so in your life, then so it shall it be your life, then so it shall it be according to the Law of Attraction.according to the Law of Attraction.

The ExperienceThe Experience

By experiencing we do not mean By experiencing we do not mean physical experience in the physcil, the physical experience in the physcil, the experience is therefore at this sage experience is therefore at this sage the imagination.the imagination.

How do you do this?How do you do this? Whenever you have the opportunity to Whenever you have the opportunity to

remain undisturbed for a period of remain undisturbed for a period of time, clear your mind, best time is just time, clear your mind, best time is just before sleep. before sleep.

Use all of your five senses within your Use all of your five senses within your imagination to experience your imagination to experience your desire.desire.

Feel it, live it, and be totally one with Feel it, live it, and be totally one with your desire.your desire.

This process is like playing a movie in This process is like playing a movie in your head with surround sound.your head with surround sound.

This is called creative visualization.This is called creative visualization. This is a very powerful way to This is a very powerful way to

experience your desire.experience your desire.

It is important to align your vibrations It is important to align your vibrations with your desire through this process.with your desire through this process.

The more you can feel, experience, The more you can feel, experience, and become excited about your and become excited about your desire, the more powerful will be the desire, the more powerful will be the attraction.attraction.

Feel the joy, feel the excitement of Feel the joy, feel the excitement of your desire.your desire.

Step 4, Actions Toward your Step 4, Actions Toward your DesiresDesires

Although the Universe (the Source) Although the Universe (the Source) will deliver your desire, it will be will deliver your desire, it will be empowered considerable if you also empowered considerable if you also take your own steps in the direction take your own steps in the direction of your desires.of your desires.

This step has many positive benefits This step has many positive benefits by reinforcing on your subconscious by reinforcing on your subconscious mind your total commitment to mind your total commitment to realizing your desire.realizing your desire.

This does not mean you have This does not mean you have physically have to go our there and physically have to go our there and do everything yourself.do everything yourself.

By taking positive steps in the By taking positive steps in the direction of your desire you invoke direction of your desire you invoke another powerful energy, the energy another powerful energy, the energy of intent.of intent.

This energy works in conjunction with This energy works in conjunction with the knowing, asking and the knowing, asking and experiencing of your desire.experiencing of your desire.

ExampleExample

If you wished to manifest a new If you wished to manifest a new house, you should take a positive house, you should take a positive action to physically go out and look action to physically go out and look for one.for one.

Do not worry weather you can afford Do not worry weather you can afford it or not, that would be an negative it or not, that would be an negative emotion resulting in the negative emotion resulting in the negative influence of energy.influence of energy.

It is up to the universe or the source It is up to the universe or the source to materiiaze your desire.to materiiaze your desire.

In the case of your new house, the very In the case of your new house, the very act of physically going out and looking act of physically going out and looking for the house of your desires will for the house of your desires will project the positive energy of intent, project the positive energy of intent, influence, and other emotions such as influence, and other emotions such as excitement, all of which is of positive excitement, all of which is of positive energy that harmonizes with the law of energy that harmonizes with the law of attraction.attraction.

This same principle applies to any This same principle applies to any material thing or situation.material thing or situation.

The more physically you take steps The more physically you take steps toward in the direction of your desire, toward in the direction of your desire, the more emotion you can feel as a the more emotion you can feel as a results.results.

As soon as you know y our desire, As soon as you know y our desire, have asked for it and are have asked for it and are experiencing it, you must then take experiencing it, you must then take steps towards it and allow the steps towards it and allow the Universe to manifest your desire into Universe to manifest your desire into your physical experiential reality in your physical experiential reality in ways the Universe will take care of.ways the Universe will take care of.

Gratitude for your DesireGratitude for your Desire

Gratitude is an extremely important Gratitude is an extremely important energy that you really must project during energy that you really must project during the course of manifesting your desire.the course of manifesting your desire.

Before we move on the why gratitude is so Before we move on the why gratitude is so important we must understand gratitude important we must understand gratitude has nothing whatsoever to do with has nothing whatsoever to do with thanking, or worshipping an individual for thanking, or worshipping an individual for his works. These are human constructs his works. These are human constructs and not of the true nature of the Cause.and not of the true nature of the Cause.

Gratitude brings you into harmony with Gratitude brings you into harmony with the Universe (cause) letting you know the Universe (cause) letting you know that we were told that we are natural that we were told that we are natural co-creators with the Universe (first co-creators with the Universe (first cause).cause).

Never take anything for granted. Never take anything for granted. Always feel deeply grateful for Always feel deeply grateful for everything that happens in your everything that happens in your reality, regardless o whether you reality, regardless o whether you consciously attracted it or whether you consciously attracted it or whether you perceived it to be positive or negative.perceived it to be positive or negative.

REMEMBER!!!REMEMBER!!!

In the grand scheme of things In the grand scheme of things everything that manifests into your everything that manifests into your physical reality is directly for the physical reality is directly for the benefit of your own personal benefit of your own personal evolution, and you should be most evolution, and you should be most grateful for it whether you grateful for it whether you consciously brought it into your own consciously brought it into your own reality or not.reality or not.

REMEMBER!!!REMEMBER!!!

Remember we are made in the Remember we are made in the image of the First cause and we are image of the First cause and we are Co-Creators within the Universe.Co-Creators within the Universe.

It is hard work, But you can do it.It is hard work, But you can do it.

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