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Why Doesn’t My Boss Understand Me? Presented by Sherrell Wheeler New Mexico State University Alamogordo Generational Communication Issues

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Presented by Sherrell Wheeler New Mexico State University Alamogordo. Generational Communication Issues. Why Doesn’t My Boss Understand Me?. Do These Offend You?. You’re right, but I’m the boss! Just do your job! I remember when . . . - PowerPoint PPT Presentation

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Why Doesn’t My Boss Understand Me?

Presented by Sherrell WheelerNew Mexico State University Alamogordo

Generational Communication Issues

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Do These Offend You?

You’re right, but I’m the boss!Just do your job!I remember when . . .The kid wants a promotion after

six months on the job!No!It’s five, I’m out of here!

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Who in Here?

Remembers life without a cell phone… Remembers getting off the couch to

change the channel on the TV… Remembers black & white TV… Has ever owned a “vinyl record”… Has ever owned an “8 track tape”…

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Who in Here?

Has never owned a record player. Can’t believe baby diapers were once made of cloth. Doesn’t care who shot JR. Never thought of Jaws while you were swimming in

the sea. Think the Vietnam War is as ancient as World Wars I

and II. Has only known a world with AIDS. Can understand the following: “c u b4 2nite”

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People Communicate

Based on Their Generational Backgrounds

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Successful Session:

Understand the four generations currently in the workforce

Understand generational differences in key workplace dimensions

Learn how to prepare your students to communicate with a representative of any generation at their workplace

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Communication with Four

Generations of Employees

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The Power of Four

First time to have four different generations together in the workforce

Generational differences can affect everything

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The Power of Four

Each generation has distinct attitudes, behaviors, expectations, habits and motivational buttons.

Each generation struggles to understand the others.

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Generational Diversity

Each generation tends to be shaped or influenced by its environment and experiences May have different meanings for the word

“employment” May have different communication styles

It is important to narrow any “generation gaps” in order to work well with others

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Generation Timeline

1922-1945TraditionalistsSilent

1946-1964Baby Boomers

1980-2000Generation YGen YMillennialEcho Boomers

1965-1979Generation XGen XXers

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Personal and Lifestyle Characteristics - Traditionalist

Core Values

Family

Education

Communication Media

Dealing with Money

Respect for authorityConformersDisciplineTraditionalNuclearA dream

Rotary phonesOne-on-oneWrite a memoPut it awayPay cash

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Personal and Lifestyle Characteristics – Baby Boomers

Core Values

FamilyEducation

Communication Media

Dealing with Money

OptimismInvolvementDisintegrating

A birthright

Touch-tone phonesCall me anytime

Buy now, pay later

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Personal and Lifestyle Characteristics – Generation X

Core Values

FamilyEducation

Communication Media

Dealing with Money

SkepticismFunInformalityLatch-key kids

A way to get there

Cell phonesCall me only at workCautiousConservativeSave, save, save

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Personal and Lifestyle Characteristics – Generation Y

Core Values

FamilyEducation

Communication Media

Dealing with Money

RealismConfidenceExtreme funSocial

Merged families

An incredible expense

InternetPicture phonesE-mail

Earn to spend

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Which generation best characterizes

you?

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Workplace Characteristics – Traditionalist

Work Ethic and Values

Work is . . .

Leadership Style

Interactive Style

Communications

Hard workRespect authoritySacrificeDuty before funAdhere to rulesAn obligation

Dictatorial and rigidCommand-and-controlIndividual

FormalMemo

Feedback and Rewards No news is good newsSatisfaction in a job well done

Messages That Motivate Your experience is respected

Work and Family Life Ne’er the twain shall meet

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Workplace Characteristics – Baby Boomers

Work Ethic and Values

Work is . . .

Leadership Style

Interactive StyleCommunications

WorkaholicsWork efficientlyPersonal fulfillmentDesire quality

An exciting adventure

Consensus-building approachesCollegial/People oriented

Team playerLoves to have meetingsIn person

Feedback and RewardsDon’t appreciate itMoneyTitle recognition

Messages That Motivate You are valued and neededYour contribution is unique and important

Work and Family Life No balanceWork to live

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Workplace Characteristics – Generation X

Work Ethic and Values

Work is . . .

Leadership Style

Interactive Style

Communications

Flexibility - work whenever, just get it doneSelf-relianceNot looking for longevity or lifetime positionSkeptical

A difficult challengeA contract

Everyone is the sameChallenge othersAsk why

Entrepreneur

DirectImmediate

Feedback and Rewards Sorry to interrupt, but how am I doing?Freedom is the best reward

Messages That Motivate Do it your wayForget the rules

Work and Family Life Balance

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Workplace Characteristics – Generation Y

Work Ethic and Values

Work is . . .

Leadership Style

Interactive Style

Communications

Work is a way to fill time between weekendsNot likely to seek out additional responsibilityTolerantGoal oriented

A means to an endFulfillment

HonestyIntegrityTeam oriented

Participative

E-mailVoice mail

Feedback and Rewards Whenever I want it, at the push of a buttonMeaningful work

Messages That Motivate You will work with other bright, creative people

Work and Family Life Balance

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“We need to get the report done.”

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Commonalities for ALL Generations

Everyone is comfort seeking Most people resist change, but don’t like

status quo either Everyone wants information, to be kept “in

the loop” Everyone likes some level of control

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Workplace Differences Message

We are good for each other,Let’s challenge each other,

Let’s communicate with each other!

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Communicating with Traditionalist

Respect and acknowledge their expertise Follow the chain of command Speak positively of the organization Show interest in the work being done Appreciate their insights Be patient of their approach to technology Don’t refer to their age

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Communicating with Baby Boomers

Acknowledge their experience and dedication Seek them out as mentors Find a balance between face-to-face and

technological communication Use them as “sounding boards” Focus on relationships as well as results Show them you can carry your share of the

load

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Communicating with Gen X

Acknowledge their talents and expertise Be clear and specific, get to the point Rely on technology for communicating Place a high premium on efficiency Understand their need for balance Encourage a friendly and informal work

enviroment

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Communicating with Gen Y

Acknowledge their talents and fresh perspectives Be open to new and different ways to work Encourage and embrace technology Involve them in projects of significance Show them respect as team members Offer to be a mentor Build a fun, challenging and fast-paced work

environment

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People Communicate

Based on Their Generational Backgrounds

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Potential “Clash” Points

Agency loyalty - From organizational to individual

Chain of command - From rigid to freedom

Work ethic - From corporate to individual

Workplace diversity - Gen Y is colorblind

Feedback and mentoring - Differences in communication styles

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Minimizing Friction

Know who you’re working with Create a climate for and of RESPECT Communicate openly and honestly

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To Narrow the Gap

Use the A List Accept your “mutual rightness” Acknowledge your interdependency on

each other generation Appreciate what you have in common Assume responsibility for making your

relationships better Adopt the “Platinum Rule”

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What is the “Platinum Rule”?

The “Golden Rule” (in modern terms) –treat others the way ‘you’ want to be treated.

The “Platinum Rule” – treat others the way they want to be treated.

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Is It Really a Communication

Problem?

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Sherrell Wheeler

Assistant Professor of BusinessDirector of Online Quality Assurance

New Mexico State University Alamogrodo

[email protected]