What We Already Know...
● Dont send a boring first message: Whats up? How are you doing? You’re sexy, etc.
● Send something interesting which engages HER on an emotional level: Example - (if she is in a picture with her friends) “you’re the troublemaker of the group aren’t you ;)”
● This gets her to laugh and gets her interested. Don’t worry about word-for-word texts, simply understand the concept - then you can be creative.
Little Known Tinder Texting Mistakes
● These are some of the lesser known mistakes that guys are making
● Also, there is a free report and a free mindmap in the link below
● Lets get started...
#1: Never Text a Girl on a Monday● Note: the actual “day” is not really important but…● You don’t want to text too far ahead of when YOU can
go on a date. ● It can be very difficult to keep a text conversation going
for more than a few days. If you have Friday night and Saturday night available for dating then start texting girls on Thursday to set up a date for the next couple of days.
● Continued...
#1: Continued● The idea is to get her out on a
date soon so that you can make a REAL connection.
● Everyday she is getting more and more “matches” and messages, which will be a distraction.
● Come in bold with a good first message and some flirting, THEN invite her out today or the next day
● Too much texting will eventually End all attraction
#2: Not Leading The Conversation● You must be leading the conversation
somewhere. Don’t just text back and forth: have a purpose and reason for texting
● Text and flirt a little with her But eventually you have to ask her out or make plans to do something. Lead the conversation
● As we know: too much texting will eventually kill all attraction
● IMAGE: I am asking her out to get sushi (we are also flirting) =======>
#3: Showing to Much Interest ● Showing too much interest to
early is NEVER a good thing. ● People don’t like what comes
easy. They won’t value it. ● Let her feel like she is “winning
you over” you have standards; you won’t just take whatever comes your way.
● Text breakdown - Next Slide...
#3: Continued...● When we were texting - I wasn't
really interested. She was texting me a lot and asking me questions i.e. “chasing me.” She WAS interested in me more than I was in her. Which will = attraction
● AFTER the date I became MORE interested and I showed it by saying “wanna help me slice cucumber…” (which was just an inside joke)
● But it was the first time that I had show real interest….
● Continued...
BeforeThe Date
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After TheDate(next day)
#3: Continued...● This might be hard to understand but I’m sure that
you have “Felt” it before. In this case I “FELT” it. I knew right away that I had changed something. I was more into her and wanted to see her again. I subtly conveyed this through my text - which was a turn off for her.
● Does this bother me? No. I am not into playing the “game” this much with anyone. I will simply move on.
● But I wanted to make you aware of this phenomenon of “showing too much interest” so that you are at least aware.