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Question: • I want to leave my marriage and
my children for the sake of my own sanity
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• I have never been maternal • My marriage is smothering me
with obligations and expectations
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• I have thought this through • This is the right decision for me
and them • How do I get my husband to
allow me access to the children?
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Answer: • You are going against the norm
by leaving your marriage as well as your children
• This is not about right or wrong • This is about security
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• You do not feel secure inside or outside of the relationship
• You want to leave the marriage so that you can survive and grow
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• You will need a lot of courage • How do you prepare yourself
and your children? • Find self-love before you do
anything else
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• Your relationship has a natural life cycle
• Holding on to the relationship at all costs is not a solution
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• For example you feel like a failure as a mother
• What if your husband is frustrated by your lack of conformance and a better carer than you?
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• When you find self-love, your children will know you are all right
• Your husband will also find clarity
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• Wait until you can leave feeling happy and without self-blame
• Your relationship with your children will benefit
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• You have a soul contract with your husband and children
• You are living that soul contract
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• Love means accepting and loving yourself, so that you have love to give to others