TEN COMMANDMENTS FOR A SHINING PERSONALITY
STEP–1 ACCEPT RESPONSIBILITY
“Responsibility gravitate to the person who can shoulder them”.
Albert Hubbard
“The price of greatness is responsibility”
Winston Churchill
STEP–2 THINK WIN/WIN
STEP–3 CHOOSE YOUR WORDS CAREFULLY
It hurts sentiments. It breaks relations. More devastative than natural
calamity.
Speak less say more
STEP–4 BE A GOOD LISTENER
NEGLECTED IMPORTANT
REJECTED PLEASED
DEJECTED SATISFIED
UNIMPORTANT ENCOURAGED
ANNOYED APPRECIATED
EMBARRASED INSPIRED
DEMOTIVATED CARED FOR
DISHEARTNED HONOURED“An open ear is the only believable sign of an open heart” David Augsburger
STEP–5 DISCUSS BUT DON’T ARGUE
LIGHT FIREREASONING EGOWHAT’S RIGHT? WHO’S RIGHT?OPEN MIND NARROW MIND
“I learned a long time ago never to wrestle with a pig. You get dirty and besides, the pig likes it.”
Cyrus Ching
STEP–6 TURN YOUR PROMISE INTO COMMITMENT
STEP–7 BE TRUSTWORTHY AND
LOYAL
STEP–8 PRACTICE COURTSEY
“RUDENESS IS THE WEAK MAN’S IMITATION OF STRENGTH”
STEP–9 DEVELOP A SENSE OF HUMOUR
“When someone blushes with embarrassment, when someone carries away an ache, when someone’s weakness provides the laughter, when a child is brought to tears and when everyone can't join in the laughter it’s a poor joke”
Chiff Thomas
STEP–10 BE THE PERSON OF PRINCIPLES