A way to overcome our personal weaknesses

Weakness 1 : Talk too much

Solution

Talk half as much as before Watch for signs of boredom Condense your comments Stop exaggerating

Weakness 2 : Self centered

Solution

Be sensitive to other people interests Learn to listen

Weakness 3 – Uncultivated memories

Solution

Pay attention to names Write things down

Weakness 4 – Forgetful friends

Solution

Appreciate friendship Put others need first

Weakness 5: Interrupt and answer for others

Solution

Don’t think you must fill all the gaps

Weakness 6: Disorganized and immature

Solution

Pull your life together Grow up

Weakness 1 : Easily depressed

Solution

Realize no one likes gloomy people Don’t look for trouble Don’t get hurt so easily Look for the positives

Weakness 2 : Have low self – images

Solution

Search out the source of your insecurities

Listen for evidence of false humility

Weakness 3 : Procrastinate

Solution

Get the “right things” before starting Don’t spend too much time planning

Weakness 4 : Put unrealistic demands on others

Solution Relax your standards Be grateful you understand your

temperament

Weakness 1 : Compulsive worker

Solution Learn to relax Take the pressure off others Plan leisure activity

Weakness 2 : Must be in control

Solution

Respond to other leadership Don’t look down on “The Dummies” Stop manipulating

Weakness 3 : Don’t know how to handle people

Solution

Practice patient Keep advice until asked Tone down your approach Stop arguing and causing trouble

Weakness 4: Right but unpopular

Solution

Let someone else be right Learn to apologize Admit you have some faults

Weakness 1 : Not exciting

Solution

Try to get enthused

Weakness 2 : Resist change

Solution

Try something new

Weakness 3 : Seem lazy

Learn to accept responsibility Don’t put off until tomorrow Motivate yourself

Weakness 4: Have a quiet will of iron

Solution

Learn to communicate your feeling

Weakness 5 : Appear wishy-washySolution

Practice making decision Learn to say no