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SHORINJIKEMPO INDIA
No matter what tactics your partner uses, the effect is to
control and intimidate you or to make you feel that you
do not have an equal voice in the relationship.
UNDERSTAND ABUSIVE TACTICS
HOW TO FIGHT-BACK
SELF DEFENSE WORKSHOPS
ABUSIVE TACTICS 1
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Oppression is the exercise of authority or power in a burdensome, cruel, or unjust manner.
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A tool for exerting control and power is the use of
threats and coercion. The victim may be subject to
threats that they will be left, hurt, or reported to
welfare. The abuser may threaten that they will
commit suicide.
COERSION AND THREATS
ABUSIVE TACTICS 2
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Control freaks manipulate and pressure others to change so as to avoid having to change themselves.
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Abused individuals may be intimidated by the
brandishing of weapons, destroying their property
or other things, or using gestures or looks to create
fear.
INTIMIDATION
ABUSIVE TACTICS 3
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Control freaks use power over others to escape an inner emptiness .
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One method is to prevent the abusee from getting a
job. Another is to control their access to money;
This can be done by withholding information and
access to family income, taking their money,
requiring the person to ask for money, or giving
them an allowance.
ECONOMIC ABUSE
ABUSIVE TACTICS 4
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Individuals with sadistic personality disorder derive pleasure from the distress caused by their
aggressive, demeaning and cruel behaviour towards others.
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Emotional abuse include name-calling, playing
mind games, putting the victim down, or humiliating
the individual. The goals are to make the person
feel bad about themselves, feel guilty or think that
they are crazy.
EMOTIONAL ABUSE
ABUSIVE TACTICS 5
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Sadistic people have poor ability to control their reactions and become enraged by minor disturbances.
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Isolation includes controlling a person's social
activity: who they see, who they talk to, where they
go and any other method to limit their access to
others. The abuser exhibits hypersensitive and
reactive jealousy.
ISOLATION
ABUSIVE TACTICS 6
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Psychopath will weigh you up according to your usefulness, and you could be recognised as either a
pawn or a patron.
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The abuser may deny the abuse occurred to
attempt to place the responsibility for their behavior
on the victim. Minimizing concerns or the degree of
the abuse is another aspect of this control.
DENYING & BLAMING
ABUSIVE TACTICS 7
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Psychopath will create a scenario of “psychopathic fiction” where positive information about
themselves and negative disinformation about others will be created.
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Children may be used to exert control, by
threatening to take the children or making them feel
guilty about the children. It could include harassing
them during visitation or using the children to relay
messages. Abusing pets.
USING CHILDREN AND PETS
ABUSIVE TACTICS 8
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Individuals with sadistic personality disorder derive pleasure from the distress caused by their
aggressive, demeaning and cruel behaviour towards others.
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Using "privilege" means that the abuser defines the
roles in the relationship, makes the important
decisions, treats the individual like a servant and
acts like the "master of the castle".
USING PRIVILEGE
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