How to Attract Women Naturally

Attraction plays a central role in a romantic interaction between a man and a woman and most of

the time decides if they end up as a couple or just as friends. And most men usually try to avoid

falling into the second category. So, what exactly can you do to

attract women naturally?

One sure way to draw a woman's attention is by taking care of your

appearance. I said it before and will say it again: your looks don't play such a big role, but you still

have to look your best. If you come across as a slob, you will

have a much harder time building natural attraction with a woman than if you looked well groomed

and psychically fit. So, start dressing well and hit the gym!

But don't just fix your appearance and hope to be done. It's actually your

personality - your mindset - that will make the real difference here. When most guys think that being rich and

handsome are the only requirements to become a guy women want, it's actually your behavior that plays a much bigger

influence on women than these two combined.

Without the right kind of mindset and the matching behavior, you could have all the looks and riches in the world, but

you would still have a hard time attracting women. Sure, you could find

a companion who wants you only because of your money, but would you really want a women who is only after

your money? And if you think that good looks would get you far, not if you

demonstrate wimpy behavior and have the personality of a shoe!

So, like I said before, the deciding aspect here is your mindset. A guy, who has his own unshakable mindset, doesn't really let women affect him as much. He won't chase a woman just because

he thinks she is "the one" or let her control and manipulate him. He won't

look for a woman to define himself because he already knows who he is.

It is actually easy to understand the mindset of a natural attractive guy: he

never compromises his own beliefs because of other people, not even for a

woman. He has a healthy set of boundaries and he expects others to

respect them. His worth as a man comes from within himself and not from the people surrounding him. With such

attitude, confidence and the feeling of independence are something that come

naturally to him.(Bolas Chinas)

Now, the difficult part is to acquire this kind of mindset. I could feed you all the

facts in the world, like how you shouldn't be affected by the behaviors

of other people or why having your own boundaries will make women attracted to you, but this will do no good until you have internalized them into your

own belief system.

Sure, for a short period of time, this stuff I just wrote can give you the motivation

to go after the women you want, but not until it's internalized into your psyche,

you will still fall back to your old beliefs. One sure way to really get to the stage, where you become a man

women feel naturally attracted to, is to find evidence for this new belief and

reinforce it with experiences and facts that support it.