Kelley Peel Kelley Peel Counselor R-P IntermediateCounselor R-P Intermediate

ToolboxToolbox

Tool BoxTool BoxSituationSituation

Tool Box vs. Tool Box vs. Strainer Strainer

Feel - BehaviorFeel - Behavior

Self-AcceptanceSelf-Acceptance

Dollar Bill Dollar Bill

PizzaPizza

ShieldShield

What you say and do is about you. What What you say and do is about you. What others say and do is about them. others say and do is about them.

Careful for that hook!Careful for that hook!

Crazy Eighted! What wasn’t yours, now Crazy Eighted! What wasn’t yours, now is. is.

How Not To AwfulizeHow Not To Awfulize

Worst ever………………Bad but I can Worst ever………………Bad but I can COPECOPE

Awfulizing: Awfulizing: Reduces problem solving abilitiesReduces problem solving abilities Doesn’t improve the situationDoesn’t improve the situation

Find your own yard stickFind your own yard stick

Demands vs. Demands vs. PreferencesPreferences

DemandsDemands Closes off thinkingCloses off thinking Angry, angry, angry Angry, angry, angry

PreferencesPreferences Allows us to address issues rationally – Allows us to address issues rationally –

more resultsmore results I can function I can function

SituationSituation

Tool BoxTool Box

Self-AcceptanceSelf-Acceptance ShieldShield CopeCope Preference Preference

StrainerStrainer

Mixing Pizza w/ Mixing Pizza w/ DollarDollar

Hooked, Crazy Hooked, Crazy EightedEighted

AwfulizingAwfulizing DemandsDemands