1. Organized by KIDZEE In association with A discussion on
Child and Parents
2. Know your child Very important is to know the temperament of
child: What is TEMPERAMENT? General emotional state of a child. It
permanently affects their behaviour. Child of different
temperaments: The Easy Child The Difficult Child The Slow to Warm
up child
3. The Easy Child Just recognize the easy child: Cheerful
Adaptable Can fit easily in routine structure Quickly establish
relation with other children Has sharing approach Easily
accommodate in new environment
4. The Difficult Child Irregular daily routine-not willing to
follow instructions Slow to accept new experience Always reacts
negatively Intense emotion-forceful Not friendly with others
Irritation without any serious cause Intolerance towards any
change-of person around him/situation/environment
5. Slow to Warm up Child Initially shy-slowly becomes friendly
Low key reactions to environment Negative in mood Can adjust slowly
to new experiences Bit fearful, but can overcome at time
6. Parenting depends on Child Temperament as it has an impact
on development of Childs Personality Parenting is an On Going
process-starts at the BIRTH of child and will take back gear at the
ONSET of adulthood There is some General aspects in parenting but
most of the time it depends on the TEMPERAMENT of child Parents
need to have good idea of their childs development: Physical and
Emotional both step wise Parenting is a serious issue as : Child
needs to be under the parents constant attention Responsibility of
parents begins at the conception more you enjoy more you successful
as parents-literally it is a journey
7. Enjoy Parenting: It is another Identity given by your
beloved CHILD Think positively, Bringing up Toddlers is not only a
big Responsibility, it is also the source of JOY Parents needs to
Enjoy Parenting-it brings happiness Be an Observer and also the
Listener- Listening and Talking is the key to a healthy connection
between you and your child-by any mean Keep a network with
Paediatrician, Child Psychologist and the Caregivers- they can be
helpful at crisis Mind that no two children are same-so causes of
problem is also different-in any confusion-apply your intelligence
instead of being conventional Till the childs adulthood priority is
your Motherhood-as it is your decision to become parents.
8. An IDEA of your pattern of PARENTING How is your Parenting
Style? 4-Types of parenting are there. Please be sure what is your
way of parenting and how you convert your style of Parenting for
the betterment of your child. This is very Important if you find
any difficulties in controlling your CHILD-start working on it
9. Dominating/ Authoritarian Parenting Rigid Not listener
Strict Demanding Likes to rule than becoming empathetic The
guardian Prefers punishment instead of giving scope to explain Not
responsive to the reasons of childs difficulties
10. Permissive Parenting Too much friendly Permissive Giving
indulgence Nontraditional and Lenient Less discipline Avoidance
More responsive to the demand of Child Allow considerable self-
regulation
11. Positive/ Authoritative Parenting Assertive Flexible but
not permissive Empathetic Democratic Listener Observer Nurturer
& forgiving rather giving punishment Democratic nature-give
important to listen to other Monitor and impart clear standards for
their childrens conduct.
12. Neglected/ Uninvolved Parenting Care free Neglect their
child Detached Less communicative Low responsiveness Even reject or
neglect the needs of their children.
13. Part-I How to come out: My child and My Parenting Be
observer both for you and your child Study effect of your parenting
on child and also the type of your child In crisis or difficult
situation/confusion take the help of related experts Knowledge
about effect of different Parenting styles: Under Dominating
Parenting: Children may become obedient and proficient, but they
rank lower in happiness, social competence and self-esteem Under
Permissive Parenting: Children rank low in happiness and
self-regulation. These children are more likely to experience
problems with authority and tend to perform poorly in school. Under
Authoritative Parenting: Children are happy, capable and successful
Under Neglected /uninvolved Parenting: Children tend to lack
self-control, have low self-esteem and are less competent than
their peers. There is another way of study above- this is PART
II
14. Part-II How to come out: My child and My Parenting from the
SLANT of Handwriting
15. Part-II How to come out: My child and My Parenting from the
SLANT of Handwriting
16. Samples of Original Writings of Children
17. Part-II My child and My Parenting from the Handwriting
Child is in Anxiety-The source of all difficulties No Curves-rigid
and retraced writing
18. How is the pattern of the strokes of A to Z in HW
19. Part-III How to understand child is in Emotional Crisis
from HW
20. Part-III How to write- and what will be the direction of
flow of HW
21. Part-III How to write- and what will be the direction of
flow of HW
22. Part-III How to write- and what will be the direction of
flow of HW
23. How Parenting affects your Child's Personality Nowadays
many parents complain about the personality and the behavior of
their children without realizing that their parenting style is the
main reason behind the child's undesired behavior. Genes has
nothing to do with behavior but its the way parents raise children
that affects their personality later on. The first person the child
comes in contact with are the parent and so childs relationship
with the whole world is determined by what happens between him and
his
24. How Appropriate Parenting positively affects your Child's
Personality The good news is that you can positively affect your
child's personality by learning how to deal with him the right way.
The best way to deal with children is to consider them little
adults. Don't lie to them, don't scold them in front of others and
don't disrespect them. Be authoritative and not authoritarian, this
means that you must set rules but in the same time be democratic
enough to explain to your child the reason behind these rules when
possible. Before you complain about your child's behavior put in
mind that its your parenting style that either affects his
personality positively or negatively.
25. Positive Child and Parenting Style from HW of CHILD Writing
should have pressure-Vitality-a fighter struggle r Child should be
in receiving end-good listener Reasonable Friendly Balance in
emotion Ascending BL-
26. Positive Child and Parenting Style from HW of CHILD Child
needs to write covering all 3-zones : UZ-for intellectual
development MZ for friendly social gesture LZ for practicality
27. Positive Child and Parenting Style from HW of CHILD Child
needs to write, With rounded body structure-for non frictional
approach Clear O-for having transparency No Starting and Ending
strokes-get into the point appropriately
28. Positive Child and Parenting Style from HW of CHILD The
letters need to be the shapes given: The distortion means lacking
of skill of being POSITIVE Positive child has devoid of all
clumsiness described and
29. Thank YOU for giving your Patient EAR Also thanks to KIDZEE
for organizing a programme like Know Your Child & Your
Parenting Styles By Courtsey