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Tehani, 8, Yemen. “Whenever I saw him, I hid. I hated to see him,” Tehani (in pink) recalls of the early days of her marriage to Majed, when she was 6 and he was 25. The young wife posed for a portrait with former classmate Ghada, also a child bride, outside their home in Hajjah.

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  • 1. Tehani, 8, Yemen. Whenever I saw him, I hid. I hated to see him, Tehani (in pink) recalls of the early days of her marriage to Majed, when she was 6 and he was 25. The young wifeposed for a portrait with former classmate Ghada, also a child bride, outside their home in Hajjah.

2. Ghulam, 11, Afghanistan. Ghulam plays in the village on the day of her engagement. Removed from school just months earlier, she said she is sad to be getting engaged, as she wanted tobe a teacher. Parents sometimes remove their daughters from school to protect them from the possibility of sexual activity outside of wedlock. 3. Faiz, 40, and Ghulam, 11, Afghanistan. Ghulam and Faiz sit for a portrait in her home before their wedding in Afghanistan. According to the U.S. Department of State report Human RightsPractices for 2011, approximately 60 percent of girls were married younger than the legal age of 16. Once the girl's father has agreed to the engagement, she is pulled out of schoolimmediately. 4. Destaye, 11, and Addisu, 23, Ethiopia. Addisu and his new bride Destaye are married in a traditional Ethiopian Orthodox wedding in the rural areas outside the city of Gondar, Ethiopia.Community members said that because of his standing as a priest, Addisus bride had to be a virgin. This was the reason Destaye was given to him at such a young age. 5. Destaye, now 15, intended to continue her schooling, in spite of the teasing she endured from her community. They used to laugh at me for going to school after marriage, she said. ButI know the use of school so I dont care...But people laughing at you makes it more difficult. After the birth of her son six months ago, however, Destaye no longer had time for classes. Ifeel sad because I quit learning, she said. 6. Sumeena, 15, Nepal. Sumeena leaves her home to meet her groom, Prakash, 16. The harmful practice of child marriage is common in Nepal. Many Hindu families believe blessings will comeupon them if they marry off their girls before their first menstruation. 7. Bishal, 15, and Surita, 16, Nepal. Bishal accepts gifts from visitors as his new bride, Surita, sits bored at her new home. Here in Nepal, as in many countries, not only girls, but boys too aremarried young. 8. Rajani, 5, India. Long after midnight, Rajani is roused from sleep and carried by her uncle to her wedding. Child marriage is illegal in India, so ceremonies are often held in the wee hours of themorning. It becomes a secret the whole village keeps, explained one farmer. 9. Rajani, 5, and her boy groom barely look at each other as they are married in front of the sacred fire. By tradition, the young bride is expected to live at home until puberty, when a secondceremony transfers her to her husband. 10. A young woman walks through the fog in the early morning near the city of Kapilvastu, Nepal. 11. Roshan, 8, Afghanistan. Female relatives of the bride-to-be, Roshan, prepare food and tea for guests on the day of her engagement to Said, 55, at her home in rural Afghanistan. Upsetabout the engagement of her daughter, her mother exclaimed, We are selling our daughters because we dont have enough food to feed the rest of our children! 12. Surita, 16, Nepal. Village leader Pudke Shreshta Balami blesses the home of Surita directly following the wedding ceremony in Nepal. 13. Tehani, 8, Yemen. Tehani works in the fields just outside her village in the rural areas of Hajjah, Yemen. 14. Young girls sit inside a home outside of Al Hudaydah, Yemen. Yemeni women's rights groups agree that child marriage is rampant in every part of Yemeni society. 15. Leyualem, 14, Ethiopia. Family members place a white cloth over the head of Leyualem as they prepare to take her to her new grooms home in Ethiopia. 16. Leyualem is transported by mule to her new home on her wedding day. The men later said the cloth was placed over her head so she would not be able to find her way back home, shouldshe want to escape the marriage. 17. Sarita, 15, India. Sarita is seen in tears before she is sent to her new home with her new groom. The previous day, she and her 8-year-old sister Maya were married to sibling brothers. 18. Sidaba, 11, and Galiyaah, 13, Yemen. After celebrating with female relatives at a wedding party, Yemeni brides Sidaba and Galiyaah are veiled and escorted to a new life with theirhusbands. 19. Debitu, 14, Ethiopia. Debitu escaped from her husband after months of abuse. Seven months pregnant, she is now homeless and uncertain of her future. I didnt want to get pregnant because I was very small. I wantedto wait until I am old enoughSometimes I think I will die during child birth 20. Agere, 32, Ethiopia. Agere breastfeeds her twin newborns. Agere was married at age 12 to her husband who later gave her AIDS. The twins have tested HIV positive. Now abandoned, shedoes not have enough money to buy them uninfected milk. 21. Niruta, 14, Nepal. A nine-months pregnant Niruta carries grass for her familys farm animals in Kagati Village, Kathmandu Valley, Nepal. Niruta moved in with the family of Durga, 17, andbecame pregnant when they were only engaged. In some circles of the more socially open Newar people, this is permissible. 22. Asia, 14, Yemen. Asia washes her newborn at home in Hajjah while her 2-year-old daughter plays. Asia is still bleeding and ill from childbirth, yet has no knowledge of how to care forherself or access to maternal health care. 23. Mejgon, 16, Afghanistan. Mejgon weeps in the arms of her case worker near fellow residents at an NGO shelter run by Afghan women in Herat, Afghanistan. Mejgons father sold her atthe age of 11 to a 60-year-old man for two boxes of heroin. 24. Bibi Aisha, 19, Afghanistan. In a practice known as baad, Bibi Aisha's father promised her to a Taliban fighter when she was 6 years old as compensation for a killing that a member of herfamily had committed. She was married at 16 and subjected to constant abuse. At 18, she fled the abuse but was caught by police, jailed and then returned to her family. Her father-in-law,husband and three other family members took her into the mountains, cut off her nose and her ears, and left her to die. I was a woman exchanged for someone elses wrongdoing. (Mynew husband) was looking for an excuse to beat me. 25. Jamila, 15, Afghanistan. Kandahar policewoman Malalai Kakar arrests a man who repeatedly stabbed his wife, 15 and mother of two children, for disobeying him. When asked whatwould happen to the husband for this crime, Nothing, Kakar said. Men are kings here. Kakar was later killed by the Taliban. 26. China, 18, Ethiopia. A young sex worker named China sits stunned after being beat up by a client. Many of the girls who run away from child marriages end up trafficked tobrothels where they often face intense violence. 27. Members of the Fistula Girls Club and the Community-based Reproductive Association, get ready to perform a traditional dance during a performance against child marriage in theShende village in Ethiopia. This is one of many events hosted by the groups to discourage early marriage and other harmful practices in the Bure district. 28. Street girls attend classes at Godanaw Rehabilitation Integrated Project, GRIP, in Addis Ababa, Ethiopia. This Ethiopian humanitarian shelter provides skills training and health care tothousands of street girlsthree-quarters of them escapees from early marriages in the countryside. 29. Nujood, 12, Yemen. Nujood Ali, two years after her divorce from her husband, who was more than 20 years her senior. Nujood's story sent shock waves around the country and causedparliament to consider a bill writing a minimum marriage age into law. The bill is still pending. Don't let your children get married. You'll spoil their educations, and you'll spoil theirchildhoods if you let them get married so young. 30. Maya, 8, and Kishore, 13, India. Family members escort the newly married Maya and Kishore to his familys home. They were married on the Hindu holy day of Akshaya Tritiya, which issaid to bring good luck and is widely known in Rajasthan as the day for child marriages. 31. Maya and Kishore pose for a wedding photo in their new home. 32. Sumeena, 15, and Kanchi, 17, Nepal. Kanchi kisses her younger cousin Sumeena goodbye as she leaves home on her wedding day. 33. Leyualem, 14, Ethiopia. Leyualem has a moment alone before being whisked away on a mule by her new husband and groomsmen in Ethiopia. Leyualem had never mether husband before her wedding day, yet submitted as they bound her in the white wedding cloth. 34. Photos: Stephanie Sinclairfrom