How to Be Funny Around Girls
The Power of Sub-Communication With Humor
By: Frankie Cola
championsofmen.com
Want to know how to be funny around girls?
Then read on as you discover the "Secret Language"of
Sub-Communication and why it matters when you talk to girls.
Read on to the very end and I'll link you to a FREE guide on
what to say to a girl to make her want you.
Trust me, you'll want to have this conversation tactics arsenal in
your back pocket...
But first, let me tell you about the WRONG kind of humor that
you might be using to accidentally turn girls off...
You see, there's a type of humor that will turn a girl off.
You won't notice it, unless you know you're doing it...
And there's also a type of humor that will turn a girl ON if you
use it right.
Because using the RIGHT humor is CRUCIAL if
you want to get the responses you want from women.
The Answer Lies in Sub-Communication...
Whenever you say a joke, not only does it havea "surface"
meaning, but the joke also has a DEEPER meaning below the
surface.
This is called the "Sub-Text" of what you're saying.
And this is what makes up sub-communication.
What's More
The subtext of a joke leaves clues, to the kind of man that you
are, and the female mind hunts for these clues like Sherlock
Holmes.
Something You Might Not Know is
A lot of men don't understand how to be funny around girls, so
they fall into a trap...
They Fall Into the Trap of Getting Laughs From a Girl
When you're starting out in your "dating career, it's easy to
get into this routine:
You get a laugh from a girl, it gives you good-feelings that
make you feel validated...
But what you may fail to realize is that, those laughs aren't
laughs of ATTRACTION!
Which is why even though a guy might act like the entertainment
monkey around a girl... he will probably NEVER take her home!
Why? Because of the unattractive sub-communication that he fails
to notice in his humor.
Examples of Sub-Communication: The Good, the Bad, and the
Ugly
The Ugly: The "Dead Baby" Joke
Have you seen these jokes before?
An example of it is "What's the difference between a pile of
dead babies and a ferrari? I don't keep a Ferrari in my garage"
(For those of you who don't get it, it implies you have a pile
of dead babies in your garage)
The Bad: Self-Deprecating Humor
Self-deprecating humor can work if it's coming from a position
of strength... but when you're a "noob" in the dating game and
you're just starting out trying to better yourself with women...
self-deprecating humor is a bad idea.
If you aren't good at establishing confidence yet then you run
the risk of the girl laughing AT YOU, and not WITH YOU.
That's why you might get fooled thinking her laughs are
attraction... yet she's really just laughing at you!
Instead, let's go over the "Good" and how it can work wonders
for you when you say it to women.
The Good: Joking About Guys Who Get Needy or Clingy
This is one technique that sub communicates strong social acuity
and it implies to the girl that you understand her perspective
(it even suggests you have EXPERIENCE with women and the dating
world)
Remember how I said humor has a "sub" level of
communication?
Well the subtext of this tells the girl that you're not the kind
of guy that will get needy or clingy if she decides to get intimate
with you.
And this is HUGE...
You see, almost every attractive girl can tell you her "dating
horror story" about a guy they went on a date with who suddenly go
all clingy and even stalker-ish.
...And they REALLY REALLY want to avoid that again.
So what do girls do? They subtly throw tests at you to see if
you're that kind of guy.
This is where THIS humor works its *Magic*
When you playfully make a joke that you hope she doesn't get
clingy or you exaggerate how you'll get clingy... it will not only
make her laugh, but you'll sub-communicate that you're really NOT
CLINGY.
That's why when I'm talking to a girl on OkCupid or Pof, I tease
her that hopefully she won't call me 17 times a day.
Or sometimes I say "Don't worry I'll only call you 17 times a
day"
Although at the surface "logical" level it seems that I'm
admitting I'll get clingy, the funny sarcasm in my humor
communicates that I get it and that I'm actually not the type of
guy to get desperate or needy over a girl.
Knowing how to use humor is one giant leap towards creating
attractive conversations with smart beautiful, women who know you
"get it"...
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