Why do girls get so dressed up when they go out?

This is not such a simple question.

On the one hand, they do it to "out perform" all the other girls.

Girls stare daggers at each other when they're doing this.

To see this in action, go somewhere where you can sit and watch girls walk

around, AND there are girls sitting around.

Most guys stare at the girls walking by.

But it's interesting to notice the OTHER GIRLS watching (and usually judging)

the hot girls walking by.

Another place you can see this in action is by watching a beauty pageant

with a bunch of girls.

Even though those girls on TV are considered some of the hottest on the planet, the girls watching will rip them

apart.

Why?

It's all about competition.

Competition for what?

Men, of course.

Men like you.

Hard wired into our DNA are two different strategies for attraction. Women are hard wired to be like

magnets, and attract as strongly as they can.

In doing so, all the women in any one place are competing with one another.

It's a guys job to do the approaching, initiating, opening and closing.

Most guys have a hard time accepting this, but there it is.

Of course, you don't HAVE to approach.

You CAN be outgoing and expressive enough to convey a whole set of

emotions ONLY through your facial expressions, so she'll approach you.

But you may as well get into approaching.

Once you get over the mythological fear behind it, it's pretty fun.

Especially when you are sorting.

When you take on the mind of a sorter, and demand they have MORE going for them than JUST their looks,

you'll take things to a completely different level.

You'll also put yourself in a completely different class.

How do you sort?

Simply ask HER some easy to answer, open ended questions.

Get her talking about things she's excited about.

Things that move her. Things that get her juices flowing.

This will do two things.

One is that she'll start to associate those emotions with YOU.

Two is that while she's doing that, you can measure her "energy" or her

"personality" and make a decision.

If she feels this "vibe" from you, SHE'LL be the one who's trying to close YOU.