Wait For Your Ex Make The First Move

If You Want Them Back

By Makoo Leandro

Bob and his girlfriend Carol got into an fight one day

and Carol marched out saying she in no way wants to see

him again.

This left Bob distraught as this came so suddenly and he

was anxious to find out how to get her back.

What Bob needs to realize first off is Carol needs

some time to herself right now.

Obviously she was very stressed out about

something so she needs some time to calm down.

At this point Carol does not need Bob to start

calling, emailing or texting her now.

He also should not be sending her flowers or

any kind of gift to bribe her to come back.

All he should be doing for now is waiting for

her to call him.

For example she will have to contact him

eventually to say she wants to pick up her

stuff.

In any event she will want some closure

to this and will contact him for that.

What Bob must do is be prepared for when she does

call.

He needs to be ready to discuss the problems they

may have had in their relationship and be able to

admit to the things he is guilty of.

He also must confront Carol on any issue that she

may be responsible for that caused any problems.

The two of them would benefit from a long heart

to heart talk but Carol must initiate the contact.

Bob may desperately want to contact her but he

must have patience and wait for her to make the

move.

There was definitely enough of a problem for

Carol to make a grand exit by storming out.

Given time she will get it out of her

system, that’s why he must leave her alone.

Any pressure from him would prolong the anger

or worse just chase her further away.

You could assume Carol is attracted to Bob.

If she was not she would have just slipped away

quietly without making a fuss.

All the dramatics show she still has that emotional

energy invested in this relationship.

Bob did the right thing and waited for Carol to

call.

Turns out she was kind of embarrassed by how

she handled the situation.

Bob suggested getting together at some neutral

location to talk it over and she was all for it.

Having the time to think about it Carol concluded

things were not as bad as she thought and the two of

them were able to reconcile their differences and get

back together.

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