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When Is Reconciling With An Ex A Good Idea?

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The time after a breakup can be a confusing and difficult time and you may at

some point desire to reconcile with him or her. Although giving love a second

shot can many rekindled relationships work, it could also fail again, and render

you more emotionally vulnerable than ever. There is no single principle that is

applicable to everyone with regards to determining whether to give love a

second chance, but here are some things you can think about.

Reasons why you shouldn't get back together

Firstly, you shouldn't reunite with your ex lover because you are feeling lonely.

Losing a relationship, especially long-term ones, can result to significant

despair. If you are thinking about getting back together with your ex only

because you are lonely, you should reconsider. In most cases, that emptiness

can be filled by surrounding yourself with friends and family. As soon as the

loneliness goes away, you will feel more contented than when you were

together with your ex lover. Another example when it may be a bad idea to

rekindle your relationship is if you haven’t determined and spoken about what

caused you to break up in the first place. Follow this link to find a guide on how

to get back together with your ex.

Relationships fail for certain reasons and these might not be that obvious to you

when you decided to call it quits. It is, however, something you and your ex

need to determine if you really want to reunite. It is important to deal with the

reasons why you split and if you definitely see yourself in a relationship with

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him or her once again, deal with each

issue methodically. The worst thing

you can do is to sweep all the problems

of the past under the carpet. Moreover,

under no circumstance should you

return to an abusive partner.

A lot of people are confused after a breakup that they think that getting back

together with a violent ex is preferable to nothing. A violent partner may

attempt to win you back by stating that they won't hurt you again. That is a lie

and you ought to have someone better. For more information about how to get

back together with your ex, follow this link.

When is it alright to get back together with an ex?

If you separated due to a mistake made in the heat of the moment, there is a

good chance of fixing your relationship. A lot of couples often realize when

their emotions have settled down that they broke up for the wrong factors and

that they do genuinely wish to be with each other. If that situation pretty much

sums up what happened when you broke up, then getting back together may be

a beneficial step for both of you.