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Page 1: Co parenting walking the walk with your ex session 3 of 4

Kevin Karlson JD PhD

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Guest Speaker

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Keep the focus on you Avoid complaining about former spouses Save flirting and dating for after the class is

completed in 4 weeks

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Check In- Homework; gratitude Victory testimonies for the week Q and A: Spiritual warfare in co-parenting Simulations Closing

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Format/agenda for each session:

5 minute warm up/check in/introductions exercise in pairs

2 pairs--one men, one women get together in a group of 4 for the simulations

Mini-lecture on these topics: (one per session)

-communicating effectively, -spiritual warfare -dealing with boundaries, extended families -mom’s house, dad’s house issues

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The simulation format: (each person plays each role one time) -one dad, -one mom, -dad's coach, -mom's coach;

Set up problem fact situation and describe the job for each role along with the challenge for the simulation;

-run simulation for 5-7 minutes, then -debrief in the group, coaches comment to each "parent", -discuss lessons learned, opportunities for improvement

*change roles, run simulation again (coaches from 1st round are "parents" this round) *report out to big group from each group of 4

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Write down one question about the lessons from the last two weeks

Write down one victory you have based on what you have learned

In order to ask a question, you must share a victory first

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Re-run the last disagreement between you and your ex in your head

Identify the spirits in each of you Pray; repent; practice doing it different in

your head Now set up the scene and practice doing it

differently Coaches; stop them when a spirit shows up

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The simulations: (each person plays each role one time) one dad, one mom, dad's coach, mom's coach;

Run simulation for 5-7 minutes, then Debrief in the group, coaches comment to each "parent" Discuss lessons learned, opportunities for improvement

Change roles, run simulation again (coaches from 1st round are "parents" this round)

Report out to big group from each group of 4

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lessons learned comments feedback homework Closing

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