20090122 Positive Attitude and Inter Personal Relations - 42s Ati Epi

April 7, 2023 Viswam-2009 1

April 7, 2023 Viswam-2009 3

BenefitsBenefits of Positive Thinking of Positive Thinkingand Positive Attitudeand Positive Attitude

Don’t underestimateDon’t underestimate

the Powerthe Power

April 7, 2023April 7, 2023 Viswam-2009Viswam-2009 55

Positive ThinkingPositive Thinking

will create awill create a

Positive AttitudePositive Attitude..

Your Your mindsetmindset

will become Positive.will become Positive.

You become more You become more confidentconfident and and

inspireinspire other people around you. other people around you.

April 7, 2023April 7, 2023 Viswam-2009Viswam-2009 66

Positive AttitudePositive Attitude

makes you stay makes you stay motivatedmotivated and and

achieveachieve moremore in less time. in less time.

April 7, 2023April 7, 2023 Viswam-2009Viswam-2009 77

With Positive AttitudeWith Positive Attitude

you you attractattract great relationships and great relationships and people to your life.people to your life.

April 7, 2023April 7, 2023 Viswam-2009Viswam-2009 88

Positive AttitudePositive Attitude

helps you to helps you to Stay focussedStay focussed

Determination, Discipline,Determination, Discipline,Perseverance andPerseverance andAchievement OrientationAchievement Orientationwill furtherwill further

improve continuouslyimprove continuously

April 7, 2023April 7, 2023 Viswam-2009Viswam-2009 99

You will You will feelfeelmore confident, more confident, more energetic,more energetic,more enthusiastic,more enthusiastic,more motivated andmore motivated andhappy.happy.

YOU will beYOU will beunstoppable.unstoppable.

April 7, 2023 Viswam-2009 10

April 7, 2023 Viswam-2009 11

April 7, 2023 Viswam-2009 12

STARTSTART THE DAY WITH THE DAY WITH L O V EL O V ESPENDSPEND THE DAY WITHTHE DAY WITH L O V EL O V EFILLFILL THE DAY WITHTHE DAY WITH L O V EL O V EENDEND THE DAY WITHTHE DAY WITH L O V EL O V E

~ THAT IS THE WAY~ THAT IS THE WAY TO DEVELOPTO DEVELOP

April 7, 2023 Viswam-2009 13

April 7, 2023April 7, 2023 Viswam-2009Viswam-2009 1414

ALTITUDE

ALTITUDE

ATTITUDEATTITUDE. Others• Work• Wealth • World • Worship • Winning• Wisdom• Worry• Service• Learning • Love • Self

Towards

Mother Motherland Women / Men

ATTITUDEATTITUDETOWARDSTOWARDS

??

April 7, 2023 Viswam-2009 16

April 7, 2023 Viswam-2009 17

April 7, 2023 Viswam-2009 18

April 7, 2023 Viswam-2009 19

April 7, 2023 Viswam-2009 20

April 7, 2023 Viswam-2009 21

April 7, 2023 Viswam-2009 22

CONSCIOUS AND CONTINUOUS CONSCIOUS AND CONTINUOUS EFFORTS ARE REQUIRED TOEFFORTS ARE REQUIRED TOCONSCIOUS AND CONTINUOUS CONSCIOUS AND CONTINUOUS EFFORTS ARE REQUIRED TOEFFORTS ARE REQUIRED TO

IINNCCRREEAASSEEDDEECCRREEAASSEE

April 7, 2023 Viswam-2009 23

April 7, 2023 Viswam-2009 24

WHAT ISWHAT IS

THE POWER OFTHE POWER OF POSITIVE ATTITUDEPOSITIVE ATTITUDE

WILL WILL CLEANCLEAN THE COBWEBS OF THE COBWEBS OFBAD HABITSBAD HABITS

WILL WILL CLEARCLEAR THE ENTRENCHED THE ENTRENCHEDNEGATIVE EMOTIONSNEGATIVE EMOTIONS

WILL WILL CORRECTCORRECT THE DEMOTIVATING THE DEMOTIVATINGWRONG ATTITUDESWRONG ATTITUDES

April 7, 2023 Viswam-2009 25

INTRODUCE INTRODUCE JUST A JUST A LITTLELITTLE BIT OF BIT OFU N S E L F I S H N E S SU N S E L F I S H N E S S&&T H O U G H T F U L N E S ST H O U G H T F U L N E S S

April 7, 2023 Viswam-2009 26

April 7, 2023 Viswam-2009 27

DISCOVERDISCOVERYOURSELFYOURSELF

POSITIVE ATTITUDE HELPS POSITIVE ATTITUDE HELPS YOUYOU POSITIVE ATTITUDE HELPS POSITIVE ATTITUDE HELPS YOUYOU

April 7, 2023 Viswam-2009 28

April 7, 2023 Viswam-2009 29

www.enercon.de

www.enerconindia.net

NEED FOR INTERPERSONAL SKILLS

• Today’s work needs good networking skills.• Families stay as nuclear. Help is scarce.• Friends change faster than your toothpaste.• Colleagues change faster than friends.• Customers / all others - now call up and ask rather than

wait for you to complete the work.• Hierarchy is flattened so your co-workers increase.• Your team interacts with other teams.

• People work as a team.• Because teams achieve more.• Collective intellect is very effective for all types of

problems.• To grow faster you will need all the help you can get.

www.enercon.de

www.enerconindia.net

• Effectively translating and conveying information.

• Being able to accurately interpret

other people's emotions. • Being sensitive to other people's feelings. • Calmly arriving at resolutions to conflict. • Avoiding gossip. • Being polite.

INTERPERSONAL RELATIONS

www.enercon.de

www.enerconindia.net

IMPROVE YOUR Inter-Personal SKILLS BY:• Self Promotion.Self Promotion.

– Promote yourself effectively. – Understand your features and benefits (your strengths and how to

use them) andlearn how to express them. (SMILE and ASK)

• Communications.Communications.– Communicate effectively. – Good communications are invaluable in any situation. Be articulate,

concise, enthusiastic, honest, open. Use language with which you are comfortable but make sure it is powerful.

– Don't forget the other side of communicating: listening. This is as important as speaking. Don't make the mistake so many people do. Rather than listening, they spend their time thinking of the next thing they are going to say, thus taking virtually nothing in at all.

• Think Creatively.Think Creatively. – Solve problems and maximize opportunities with innovative ideas.

Rarely does an answer present itself in back and white. You have to assemble it, create it, and think it through.

… continued

www.enercon.de

www.enerconindia.net

• Follow through.Follow through. – Follow through on your commitments, both to yourself and others.

A good referral or piece of advice only becomes activated into help when you follow it up.

• Record keeping.Record keeping. – Take full and accurate notes. Otherwise, you will never remember

what you've committed to do. Keep lists, schedules, cross-referenced files.

– Write reminder notes about people you've met on the back of their business cards. Remember to keep your business cards in your right pocket and collected cards in your left pocket, this way you don't give out someone else's card.

• Organization.Organization. – Organize yourself: your thoughts, your notes, your files, your time.

This takes time in the short run, but will save you tenfold in the long run. Use a good database, organize by category and use codes for easy identification.

• Teamwork. Teamwork. – Work hard for others and the rewards will come back to you ten

times over.

www.enercon.de

www.enerconindia.net

INTER-PERSONAL RELATIONS CAN BE IMPROVED BY BEING

T.A.C.T.F.U.L.T = Think before you speakA = Apologize quickly when you blunderC = Converse, don’t competeT = Time your commentsF = Focus on behavior – not personalityU = Uncover hidden feelingsL = Listen to feedback

April 7, 2023 Viswam-2009 35

Task:Task:

Think of someone you would like to Think of someone you would like to improve interpersonal communication improve interpersonal communication with-in your work environment. It should with-in your work environment. It should be someone you interact with on a be someone you interact with on a regular basis.regular basis.

• 1. What kind of work relationship1. What kind of work relationshipdo you have with this person:do you have with this person:cooperation,cooperation,interdependence,interdependence,independence?independence?

• 2. Did/do you have the option of 2. Did/do you have the option of working working withwith him/her? him/her?

April 7, 2023 Viswam-2009 36

• 3. Has there been any conflict 3. Has there been any conflict with this person?with this person?

• 4. What’s the history behind 4. What’s the history behind this relationship?this relationship?

• 5. Do you feel any form of 5. Do you feel any form of affection for him/her?affection for him/her?

• 6. Who has the power in this 6. Who has the power in this relationship?relationship?

April 7, 2023 Viswam-2009 37

• 7. What are the positive traits you 7. What are the positive traits you see see in this person?in this person?

• 8. What are the negative traits you 8. What are the negative traits you see see in this person?in this person?

• 9. Will you have to interact with 9. Will you have to interact with each other for a long time?each other for a long time?

• 10. How much impact could he/she 10. How much impact could he/she have in your present orhave in your present or

future career?future career?

April 7, 2023 Viswam-2009 38

TWELVE TIPSTWELVE TIPSTO IMPROVE YOURTO IMPROVE YOUR

INTER-PERSONAL SKILLSINTER-PERSONAL SKILLS

1.1. Set the ground for communication Set the ground for communication and align your horizon.and align your horizon.

2.2. Work on your attitude. Work on your attitude.

3.3. Have reasonable expectations.Have reasonable expectations.

4.4. Make the right choices of timing.Make the right choices of timing.

April 7, 2023 Viswam-2009 39

TWELVE TIPSTWELVE TIPS

5.5. While interacting, use your While interacting, use your resources. Apply a variety of resources. Apply a variety of techniques to communication.techniques to communication.

6.6. Consider the nonverbal aspect Consider the nonverbal aspect of communication. of communication.

April 7, 2023 Viswam-2009 40

TWELVE TIPSTWELVE TIPS

7.7. Be the best listener you can be.Be the best listener you can be.

Be an active and responsive listener. Be an active and responsive listener.

8.8. Avoid “fire starters” such as:Avoid “fire starters” such as:

hot words, overdramatization,hot words, overdramatization,

guilt induction, blaming,guilt induction, blaming,

person and past-centered person and past-centered comments.comments.

April 7, 2023 Viswam-2009 41

TWELVE TIPSTWELVE TIPS9.9. Choose to behave assertively. Choose to behave assertively.

Avoid aggressive and passive-Avoid aggressive and passive-aggressive behavior.aggressive behavior.

10.10. Stay focused and monitor. Stay focused and monitor. Take your emotional Take your emotional temperature.temperature.

11.11. Reflect upon the interaction Reflect upon the interaction and get ready to keep and get ready to keep developing the relationship.developing the relationship.

12.12. Be ready to change and keep Be ready to change and keep exploring continuously.exploring continuously.

April 7, 2023 Viswam-2009 42

In case YOU liked this speech and presentation~ for listening to more speeches and for viewing more presentations, Please Visit:

http://www.viswam-becomingbetter.blogspot.com

http://www.archive.org/details/HowToExcelInWork

In case YOU want to see some more presentations :Please visit : www.slideshare.net/viswanadham

In case YOU want to give some feedback / contact me :

Viswam.vangapally@gmail.com

April 7, 2023 Viswam-2009 43

Links to Prof. V. ViswanadhamLinks to Prof. V. Viswanadham

• Link to Presentation slides• Link to Audio Files• Link to Blog