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Welcome to the September edition of Family Matters. This month, we have informative articles on teens and technology and preparing a budget for the Holiday season. You'll also find information on upcoming Child & Youth activities, patriotic events, and our first-ever Strong Bonds Mega Event. Take time to see what's inside, and please share with others.
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SEPTEMBER 2012 FAMILY MATTERS 1
Family Matters NCNG Family Programs ~ September 2012—Volume 4, Issue 9
Holiday Spending & Preparing Ahead
Volunteer Webinars Learn the fundamentals of Joint Services
Support (JSS) this September
Kids on Guard “Boots On Boots Off”
Explore the Wonders of Science
Bonded By Change, Stronger Together Exciting New Strong Bonds Mega
Event
Across the State
Become a Fan
“North Carolina National Guard
Family Programs”
Texting Effects on Writing and Communication
NCNG Family Programs ~ September
2012—Volume 4, Issue 9
Family Matters
SEPTEMBER 2012 FAMILY MATTERS 2
Contents
FAMILY MATTERS
SEPTEMBER 2012
Diane Coffill
State Family Program Director
diane.coffill2@us.army.mil
(919) 664-6324
SFC Ramona Scott
Family Program NCOIC
ramona.scott1@us.army.mil
(919) 664-6000 Ext. 47005
SGT Tammy Fowler
Family Programs Assistant
tammy.l.fowler@us.army.mil
(919) 664-6000 Ext 46876
Wendi Bell
FAC Administrative Assistant
wendi.bell@us.army.mil
(919) 664-6078
Lana Greer
State FAC Coordinator
lana.m.greer@us.army.mil
(828) 652-4595 Ext. 2
Terry Henderson
Airman & Family Readiness
Program Mgr.
terry.henderson@ang.af.mil
(704) 398-4949
Alice Dean
Lead Child & Youth Coordinator
alice.dean@us.army.mil
(919) 520-9548 or 800-621-4136
Angelena Dockery
Marketing & Communications Manager
sallie.a.dockery@us.army.mil
(919) 485-9570
Kathryn Jarvis
Marketing & Communications Manager
Kathryn.jarvis@us.army.mil
(919) 485-9571
Judy Richardson
Senior FRSA
judy.richardson@us.army.mil
(910) 347-4352 Ext. 5
NC National Guard
Family Programs State Office
1636 Gold Star Drive
Raleigh, NC 27607-6410
(919) 664-6053
www.nc.ngb.army.mil
Volume 4, Issue 9
4 Director’s Column 6 Holiday=$ 9 IDKWTM? LOL 10 KOG—Cape Fear Museum Trip 12 Upcoming Events 14 FRG—JSS Webinars 15 Child and Youth Programs 16 American Airlines Military Movie Night 17 Family Assistance Centers 18 Strong Bonds—Event Registration 19 2012 Patriot Day—Jacksonville, NC
@ncngFamily
Kimberly Lewczyk and spouse, Sgt. First Class David Lewczyk, 882nd ENG CO,
exchange goodbyes on June 22, 2012, before he departed Charlotte Douglas
International Airport for a deployment to Kuwait, while the couple’s middle
son nestled in-between them. Mrs. Kimberly Lewczyk says, “Saying goodbye
is never an easy task…. We have three sons, but our middle child, Isaiah (age
6), was having a difficult time at the airport. I think this picture shows of the
great sacrifice that even our children have to endure.”
Photo taken by Lori Mathis, Sister of Kimberly Lewczyk
Need to talk? Call us today.
Voluntary, Confidential,
Free, and Professionally Staffed
1-800-621-4136 Option 1
SEPTEMBER 2012 FAMILY MATTERS 3
Pre-Registration is required for those interested in attending. The day of the event sign-in will begin at 8:30am for all age groups. First For-mation will begin promptly at 9:00am. Lunch will be provided for all (Kiddies & Kids). We ask that you inform us when you RSVP if there are any special dietary needs of attendees you are registering. To ob-tain a registration form and/or further information, please contact:
Carina Surface
1-800-621-4136 Ext. 8820 line 23 919-693-3651 Ext. 23
carina.s.surface@us.army.mil
Kids on Guard, 9 a.m.—3 p.m. Designed for ages: 5 years old and up
Kids will learn what happens after orders are received: How to tell your family, the SRP process, Training, Deployment
Team Building and the Road Home!
Kiddies on Guard, 9 a.m.—Noon Designed for ages: Birth to 4 years old
A special program for child and parent to participate in with lots of fun hands on activities. A parent or guardian must accompany the
child.
“Boots On, Boots Off”
September 15, 2012
Join Us at East Flat Rock Armory 2025 Spartanburg Highway East Flat Rock, NC 28721
A day full of interactive fun taking you
through the Deployment Cycle …From Or-ders to Homecoming!
Junior
Heroes Operation Kids on Guard
SEPTEMBER 2012 FAMILY MATTERS 4
Hi Everyone,
This September we have some exciting
new opportunities coming our way. Our
staff, community partners and organiza-
tions have planned a wide range of chil-
dren activities and family fun. There are
Patriotic celebrations, a museum trip, and
an art contest to look forward to. But, just
when we think there is time to take a
deep breath, our staff is gearing up for the
upcoming holidays.
In this issue, Family Programs has included an article highlighting the three ma-
jor Holidays on the horizon, and how to prepare for the expenses that come with
them. Just as we prepare for natural disasters, we too can prepare financially and
hopefully avoid “flooding” our holidays with any undue stress.
As I interact more and more with youth, I have come to notice the profound ef-
fect of technology today. We are fortunate to have some many ways to help us
keep in touch. But with the emergence of technology, there is a new language
creeping into our teen’s communication strategies that can have an effect on
grades and college admissions. Our Teen Council provides opportunities for
Military Youth to practice various ways of communicating and invites teens that
are not a member to join the Face-To-Face meetings coming soon.
We hope you enjoy this issue and invite you to share, with Family Readiness
Groups and Family Assistance Specialists, your ideas and talents for upcoming
Holiday events and support. We would like your input on what you would like to
see in the Family Matters for the upcoming months (i.e. do you have great Fami-
ly recipe, craft for the kids, Holiday tradition, etc.) that you would like to share?
We look forward to you sharing your creative ideas.
Take Care!
Sincerely,
Diane Coffill, State Family Program Director
diane.coffill2@us.army.mil
About Family Matters Family Matters was created to provide Servicemembers and Families the most up-to-
date information and services available. If you would like to contribute to future is-sues, or if you have suggestions and comments, please contact the NCNG Family Pro-grams Marketing and Communications Department personnel, Angelena Dockery or
Kathryn Jarvis, at ncngfamilyprograms@gmail.com. E-Versions of Family Matters can be downloaded at the NCNG Family Programs webpage at www.nc.ngb.army.mil.
References in this newsletter to any specific commercial products, processes, or ser-vices, or the use of any trade, firm, or corporation name does not constitute en-
dorsement, recommendation, or favoring by NCNG Family Programs.
DIRECTOR’S COLUMN
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919.745.9635
Betty Steelman
Child & Family
Specialist 919.665.9178
MILITARY
FAMILY LIFE
CONSULTANTS
SEPTEMBER 2012 FAMILY MATTERS 5
SEPTEMBER 2012 FAMILY MATTERS 6
Holidays=$ By Mrs. Kathryn Jarvis, NCNG Family Programs
Co-author David Porter, Accredited Financial Counselor Fall is coming and some Families’ finances are still recovering from the hefty cost of getting kids ready for
school. Soon Families will gear up for more spending as Halloween, Thanksgiving and Christmas approach.
These extra expenses can be stressful during an already taxing season. Now is the time to have a plan for
what money will be going out compared to what amount is coming in.
There are several ways to effectively budget. One way is to break down a budget for each holiday and set
a limit for how to spend on what. For example:
HALLOWEEN $30.00 limit on Costume Create your own costume $15.00 limit on Candy $15.00 limit on decorations
THANKSGIVING $75 limit on Thanksgiving Meal Divide the cost of the meal among
the guest attending $100 expected travel costs
CHRISTMAS Gifts Bake goods/make gifts gift certificates for your time/talent $50 Spouse/Significant other $100 each Child $15.00 Other people up to four
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Photo: Holiday Savings by Kathryn Jarvis
SEPTEMBER 2012 FAMILY MATTERS 7
(Holidays=$ continued from pg 6)
Making a list and having a plan is only
one part of being prepared. There are a
few common budgeting pitfalls that
can destroy even the most organized
plan, but the most common is unrealis-
tic expectations. This includes,
“starving your budget” from fun things
that later lead to binge spending, un-
dervaluing expected costs and expens-
es and viewing a budget as restrictive
instead of looking at a budget as a plan
for success.
Starving Your Budget
Author of the article “Is Budgeting
Keeping You Poor,” Rob Berger, wrote
that bad budgets are like bad diets.
“The result is almost always to gain
more weight when the diet crashes.
The same thing can happen with our
finances. We put together an unrealis-
tic budget that deprives us of any fun,
and eventually we crash through the
budget with a big spending splurge.”
“...We put
together an
unrealistic budget
that deprives us of
any fun, and
eventually we
crash through the
budget with a big
spending
splurge.”
Restrictive Budget vs. Goals
The way one perceives or thinks about
a budget is just as important as the
budget. Four university professors
conducted an eleven year research
project on “Goal Setting and Task Per-
formance”. They concluded 90% of la-
boratory and field studies with specific
and challenging goals had a higher rate
of performance than those with easy or
no goals. Furthermore, researchers
found that goals positively affected
performance, persistence and motiva-
tion. One way to avoid this pitfall is to
develop a budget with financial goals at
the forefront.
A good way to look at a budget is to
think of it as a way of telling your mon-
ey what to do. This may help you stop
wondering where it went when their
are more days left in the month and
you have no money for gas or food.
North Carolina National Guard Family
Programs has a full-time, Accredited
Financial Counselor, David Porter, who
can assist Military Families in devising
the best financial plan for free. Take
advantage now before the fall spending
extravaganza starts. Additionally, Mili-
tary One Source offers tools and advice
for making a plan.
Start this Fall prepared, don’t let it be
the season where you “fall” behind.
Contact David Porter: 919-334-8313/
ncng.pfc@gmail.com
Always plan for some fun. Example: a
family puts aside (budgets) money for
“Pizza/Movie night” each week. The
kids get to pick the movie from “Red
Box” and they cook a good store
bought pizza and watch the movie. Pick
something your family likes to do and
put it in the budget. If you can’t afford
it each week do it every other week. It
is very important that you budget for
something fun each month.
Undervalue Costs/Expenses
Prices are changing on a regular basis.
Not staying in-tune with the costs of
things can lead to budget disasters
and can discourage people from keep-
ing with the plan. In addition to the
costs of things, another mistake in un-
dervaluing or not keeping in mind
emergency expenses that may come.
An example with the upcoming holi-
days and travel would be forgetting to
add in any car repairs or misshapes
that can happen during your road trip.
There are a lot of ways to “in-tune”
with the cost of things. One thing to do
is track your spending. There are sever-
al programs, a lot of free ones, that can
make this simple. But the best thing is
to make sure emergencies don’t ruin
your plan, plan for the emergencies.
Everyone who wants to get ahead in
money, plans for emergencies. Get a
savings set up just for these events,
keep at least $500 to $1,000 dollars in
it.
Photo from Microsoft ClipArt
SEPTEMBER 2012 FAMILY MATTERS 8
NC OMK is excited to an-
nounce the 6th Annual NC
Operation: Military Kids
Visual Arts Contest.
The contest is open to all North Caro-
lina youth. Age categories are 5-8, 9-
10, 11-12, 13-15, and 16-19. De-
signed to introduce youth to the Visu-
al Arts as a part of the 4-H Expres-
sive Arts Curriculum, youth will uti-
lize their skills and their artistry to
capture their views of America and
patriotism.
This year’s themes are:
America the Beautiful
Proud to be an American
Patriotic Pride
Celebrating Our Heroes...Past
and Present
Contest rules and guidelines can be
found at www.nc4h.org/military/
index/html or http://
www.operationmilitarykids.org/
public/statePOCHome.aspx?
state=North%20Carolina
Eligibility of Photos: All photographs
must have been taken by youth be-
tween the dates of May 1, 2012 and
the time of entry. Photos may be sub-
mitted only one time and in only one
division and class to the North Caro-
lina Operation: Military Kids photog-
raphy contest.
Eligibility of Artwork: All artwork
must have been created by youth be-
tween the dates of May 1, 2012 and
the time of entry. Artwork may be
submitted only one time and in only
one division and class to the North
Carolina Operation: Military Kids
Visual Arts contest.
Entry Deadline: ENTRIES must ar-
rive in the North Carolina 4-H Youth
Development Office, postmarked no
later than Tuesday, April 30, 2013.
What a great opportunity for all
North Carolina youth to showcase
their talent and skills in the Expres-
sive Arts area.
Please share with families, col-
leagues, volunteers and community
partners of this wonderful opportuni-
ty.
Please feel free to contact J.
Scott Enroughty, Project
Coordinator – OMK-NC
919.515.8500/ scott_enroug
hty@ncsu.edu if there are
any questions.
Focus On
SEPTEMBER 2012 FAMILY MATTERS 9
By Mrs. Kathryn Jarvis, NCNG Family Programs
Since the boom of instant messages, Twitter, Facebook and text messages a new language has surfaced and taken over the way teens communicate. Now teens use abbreviations, emotional symbols and incorrect grammar structures in a great amount of their communication. James Billington, Librarian of Congress, noted that electronic communication might be “the slow destruction of the basic unit of human thought, the sentence”
IDKWTM? LOL
In a 2008 PEW Internet and American Life Project
Research Report, “Writing Technology and Teens,” a
group of researchers concluded that 85% of teens in
the age range of 12-17 communicate through e-
messages and 60% don’t consider it a form of writing;
but it is. It is considered an informal style of writing
which is concerning educators as it unintentionally
creeps into school assignments and even college ad-
mission essays. In the US News and World Report
article, “How Slang Affects Students in the Class-
room” by Ryan Lytle, a foreign language teacher with
more than 10 years of teaching, Terry Wood says
there is a decline in writing skills. "They do not capi-
talize words or use punctuation anymore… even in E
-mails to teachers or [on] writing assignments, any
word longer than one syllable is now abbreviated to
one."
Electronic Communication is not all doom and
gloom. Teens write more often than before using e-
communication and most youth realize the im-
portance of the skill. The Pew research report found
that 98% of teens “agree that writing is a least some-
what important for their future success.”
Participants of the focus group said, “…You have to
have good writing skills to get a job.” And “…Writing
well is a part of doing well.” They attributed writing
improvements to teachers who gave harder assign-
ments and used tougher grading standards.
Ways to Help At Home
The National Council of Teachers of English devel-
oped a comprehensive guide for parents to help their
teen expand their writing skills at home. In the guide,
teachers suggest having a notebook where teens can
keep their writing assignments for them to read and
analyze later on, and to encourage teens to write out
plans, problems or activities. Writing is about organiz-
ing thought and ideas; it is a part of thinking.
There are free resources and programs for military
teens. Tutor.com is a free service for Military Families
that can help parents and teens with writing. You or
your teen can upload a writing project or assignment
anytime and qualified professionals help by editing
and providing suggestions to help improve the writing
project.
(continued on page 11)
At Cape Fear Museum
E xplore
The
Wonders of
History and Science
Cape Fear Museum
814 Market Street
Wilmington, NC 28401
Pre-Registration is required for those interested in attending. During
the event lunch will be provided. We ask that you inform us when you
RSVP if there are any special dietary needs of attendees you are registering. To obtain a
registration form and/or further information please RSVP to:
October 13, 2012 from 9:30 a.m.—3:30 p.m. for Ages 5 and Up
Join the Kids on Guard team for a day at North Carolina’s oldest history museum! Located
in historic Wilmington, youth will learn about history, science, and cultures of Lower Cape
Fear through fun and exciting educational exhibits and programs.
Carina Surface 919-693-3651 Ext. 23 carina.s.surface@us.army.mil Pre-registered attendees will need to be at the Museum between 9 a.m—9:30 a.m. for Check-in and Drop-off.
SEPTEMBER 2012 FAMILY MATTERS 11
What’s That Mean???
AFAIK: As Far As I Know
AWHFY: Are We Having Fun Yet?
B4N: Bye For Now
BBFN: Bye Bye For Now
BBL: Be Back Later
BF: Boy Friend
BFN: Bye For Now
BIF: Before I Forget
BION: Believe It or Not
BRB: Be Right Back
BTW: By The Way
BWL: Bursting With Laughter
BYKT: But You Knew That
CU: See You
CUL: See you Later
CWYL: Chat With You Later
DIKU? Do I Know You?
DK: Don’t Know
FOAF: Friend Of A Friend
F2F: Face to Face
FTF: Face To Face
G: Grin or Giggle
G2G: Got to Go
GA: Go Ahead
GAL: Get A Life
GF: Girl Friend
GFN: Gone For Now
GIWIST: Gee, I Wish I’d Said That
GOW: I Get On With It
GTG: Got To Go
GTSY: Great To See You
H&K: Hugs and Kisses
HAK: Hugs And Kisses
IC: I See
IDK: I Don't Know
IDKWTM: I Don’t Know What That
Means?
IIWM: If It Were Me
IJWTK: I Just Want To Know
IKWUM: I Know What You Mean
IRL: In Real Life
ISS: I’m So Sure
ISSYGTI: I’m So Sure You Get The Idea!
ISWYM: I See What You Mean
IYSWIM: If You See What I Mean
JAS: Just A Second
JTLYK: Just To Let You Know
K: Okay
KIT: Keep In Touch
KWIM: Know What I Mean?
KYFC: Keep Your Fingers Crossed
Some abbreviations are not appropriate
for this publication and were not included.
(continued from page 9)
Additionally, North Carolina National Guard Family Programs has
launched the Teen Council. The council is where military youth partici-
pate and support in a myriad of events and activities. As part of this pro-
gram, military teens are often asked to share their experiences or
thoughts, which is later used for publications such as Family Matters.
Alice Dean, North Carolina National Guard Lead Child and Youth Co-
ordinator, says teens develop more than writing skills in the Council.
They learn how to be an advocate for Military Youth in their communi-
ties, how to be a leader and a follower, and gain lasting friendships with
other Military Youth across the state.
This fall the Child and Youth Programs Teen Council invites military
youth ages 13-18 to join us for one of our regional face-to-face Meet-
ings. For more information or to attend contact Alice Dean.
To find the Teachers Association Helping your Teens Write Better
Guide, visit www.ncte.org/library/NCTEFiles/Resources/Positions/tips
-parents.pdf. The full PEW “Writing, Technologies and Teen” Report
can be found online at www.pewinternet.org/Reports/2008/Writing-
Technology-and-Teens/09-The-Way-Teens-See-Their-Writing.aspx?
view=all.
Help Wanted? NORTH CAROLINA EMPLOYMENT
READINESS PROGRAM
Contact
David Ponder, Employment Specialist
(919) 485-9567—
david.ponder@us.army.mil
SEPTEMBER 2012 FAMILY MATTERS 12
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UPCOMING EVENTS | COMMUNITY-BASED
SRPs
Sept. 7 (8am-5pm)—630th CSSB
Lenoir Armory
1535 Beecher Anderson Rd., Lenoir
Sept. 7-9 (8am-5pm)—230th BSB; HHC; A CO; B CO; C CO
Goldsboro Armory, 700 US Hwy 117 South Bypass,
Goldsboro
Sept. 15 (7am-6pm)—HHB/113th-30th HBCT
Charlotte Armory, 4240 West Blvd., Charlotte
Sept. 20-23 (Time TBA)—5-113th FA BN
High Point Armory, 3515 Armory Rd., High Point
Sept. 21-23 (Time TBA)—HHC/1-120th CAB; A/1-120th
CAB; E/230th
Wilmington Armory, 2412 Infantry Rd., Wilmington
Sept. 22-23 (Time TBA) —B/1-120th CAB; C/1-120th CAB;
D/1-120th CAB
Lumberton Armory, 4502 Fayetteville Rd., Lumberton
SEPTEMBER 2012 FAMILY MATTERS 13
SEPTEMBER 2012 FAMILY MATTERS 14
Judy Richardson, Senior FRSA
142 Broadhurst Road
Jacksonville, NC 28540-3545
judy.r.richardson@us.army.mil
(910) 347-4352 Ext. 5 (800) 621-4136 Ext. 11346
FAMILY READINESS SUPPORT ASSISTANTS
CHARLOTTE
Nikkie Newsome
nikkie.newsome@us.army.mil
(704) 344-2352 Ext. 14548
CLINTON
Sarah Strickland
sarah.r.strickland@us.army.mil (910) 592-2100 Ext. 14735
GREENSBORO
Gloria Fields
gloria.d.fields@us.army.mil (336) 691-7700 Ext. 15620
GOLDSBORO
Greg Smith
gregory.paul.smith@us.army.mil (919) 731-2021 Ext. 15423
MORRISVILLE Pamela Hughes
Pamela.hughes5@us.army.mil (919) 804-5300 Ext. 16313
OXFORD Norman Dean
norman.dean@us.army.mil (919) 693-3651 Ext. 27
RALEIGH
George Lane
george.lane1@us.army.mil (919) 664-6054
Updating Your User Profile in JSS
Wednesday September 5, 10:00 AM – 11:00 AM, Eastern
You will learn how to request a change to your state affiliation and role permissions,
update your personal information, reset your JSS password and view your JSS Histo-
ry. A link to the webinar will be emailed to you. Register at
www.jointservicessupport.org/Events/EventDetails.aspx?
Mode=ReadOnly&Id=CEA1504B-76CA-4D5E-B5A5-63A0B376CA26
Get R.E.A.D.Y. with JSS – Staff
Wednesday September 5, 12:00 PM – 1:00 PM, Eastern
This webinar provides an overview and shows program staff how JSS tools empower
them to effectively support the National Guard community. This includes how to set-up
program-specific events, create targeted email campaigns, and locate community re-
sources. Register at www.jointservicessupport.org/Events/EventDetails.aspx?
Mode=ReadOnly&Id=4B61DB7B-38E6-4872-B5D7-B4AB4432C99F
ESS Reporting Tool in JSS
Wednesday September 5, 2:00 PM – 3:00 PM, Eastern
This webinar shows Employer Support Specialists how to submit the state Monthly
Program Report. This includes how to access and view the MPR sub-reports, create
sub-reports and enter sub-report data. Register at www.jointservicessupport.org/
Events/EventDetails.aspx?Mode=ReadOnly&Id=9A098826-3BE0-43B3-BA09-
E37682313732
Using the Volunteer Activity Tracker in JSS – Volunteers
Thursday September 20, 2:00 PM – 3:00 PM, Eastern
This webinar shows volunteers how to enter volunteer activity hours, as well as
search and edit volunteer activity hours in the JSS Volunteer Activity Tracker Tool.
Register at www.jointservicessupport.org/Events/EventDetails.aspx?
Mode=ReadOnly&Id=343DBD6E-C64E-447A-9BF0-3896F65CE51F
Using the Volunteer Activity Tracker in JSS – Staff
Tuesday September 25, 12:00 PM – 1:00 PM, Eastern
This session orients Staff to relevant reports detailing volunteer activities. This includes
how to view and export the User Report and enter and view volunteer activity hours.
Register at www.jointservicessupport.org/Events/EventDetails.aspx?
Mode=ReadOnly&Id=47A1081F-F39A-42BD-A22B-3D5A13A0823E
Creating and Uploading Event Evaluations in JSS
Tuesday September 25, 2:00 PM – 3:00 PM, Eastern
This webinar will show event coordinators how to produce standard Yellow Ribbon and
custom breakout class evaluations; how to scan and upload evaluation forms; and tips
for ensuring the successful processing of uploaded evaluation forms. Register at
www.jointservicessupport.org/Events/EventDetails.aspx?
Mode=ReadOnly&Id=96989DAD-B581-47C0-833A-976E5E7F7DF7
Learn more about the upcoming webinars by visiting
www.jointservicesupport.org
Or contact Judy Richardson, Senior FRSA, at judy.r.richardson@us.army.mil or (800) 621-4136 Ext. 11346
JSS Webinar SessionsJSS Webinar Sessions FAMILY READINESS GROUPS | SEPTEMBER WEBINARS
Yellow Ribbon, 30-60 Day,
1452nd Trans Co.,
Sept. 28 - 4pm-7pm
Sept. 29-9am-4pm
Koury Convention Center,
31121 High Point Rd., Greensboro
SEPTEMBER 2012 FAMILY MATTERS 15
CHILD & YOUTH PROGRAM NCNG CHILD & YOUTH
PROGRAM STAFF
Alice Dean
Lead Child & Youth Coordinator
(800) 621-4136
(919) 520-9548
alice.dean@us.army.mil
Kristi Wagner
Youth Coordinator
1-800-621-4136 ext. 8851
kristi.wagner@us.army.mil
Carina Surface
Child & Youth Specialist
919-693-3651 ext. 23
carina.s.surface@us.army.mil
Upcoming Family Days
1451st TRANS CO Family Day, Sept. 9, 8am-3pm Boone Armory, 274 Hunting Hills Lane, Boone 105th EN BN Family Day, Sept. 9 9am-2pm, Buncombe County Sports Park, 58 Apex Dr., Can-dler
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Tip #1: Develop organizational systems that will work for YOU. Not all organizational systems will work for all students. You should choose the ones that will work best with your schedule and needs. Remember, though, that learning to be organized takes time and practice. If a system doesn’t work the first time you try it, try again. You may just need more time to become accustomed to it. Tip #2: Avoid distractions in your study space. If your study space includes a TV and radio, it’s probably not the best place for you to study. Your study space should be used for studying and working only. Choose a space that doesn’t have a lot of tempting distractions available. Tip #3: Keep all of your books, notebooks, binders, and folders for each class together on a shelf. Then when you need to grab your math materials for school, they are all in one place, making it less likely for you to forget something. You can even label the shelves to make it that much easier to find the right materials. Tip #4: Reward yourself! Positive reinforce-ment is an amazing thing. When you have completed tasks, reward yourself in small ways. This can be anything from allowing yourself to take a 10 minute break to treat-ing yourself to a movie. This will help to avoid procrastinating!
Tip #5: Schedule time to complete your as-signments based on anticipated time on task and urgency. Once you know all the assign-ments that you need to complete, determine their deadlines and estimate how long it will take to finish each one. You can then priori-tize your tasks and set a clear schedule for completing them! Tip #6: Use an academic planner to keep track of your assignments, deadlines, and appointments. By having all this information in one place, you’ll know exactly where to look to find out what you need to do. You can even use your planner to prioritize tasks and set a study schedule. See the example provided. Tip #7: Use shorter, less grammatically cor-rect sentences. Since you are the only one who will be reviewing your notes, you need not write grammatically correct sentences. You should do your best to shorten your sentences as much as possible. This will enable you to take notes at a faster speed and will reduce the risk of falling behind. Just make sure that you don’t abbreviate the sen-tences to the point where you are unable to understand what you wrote when you go back to review your notes. Tip #8: Divide your study time into blocks separated by quick breaks. It is most effec-tive to study in 30-45 minute blocks of time, allowing yourself quick 3-5 minute breaks in between study blocks. This approach gives you time to focus while also allowing time to relax and reenergize. Be careful though—you need to make sure that your quick breaks don’t turn into longer procrastination breaks! Tip #9: Create and save study guides and aids. Students often wait until the night be-fore big tests to start creating study aids. Instead, you should create study aids for each quiz and test that you have in a class. Once the quizzes and tests are completed, you should save your study aids. Then when it comes time to study for your big tests and quizzes, you will already have your study aids created, which saves you valuable time that you can dedicate to studying. Tip #10: Learn how to effectively communi-cate with your teachers. Your teachers are there to provide guidance and sup-port. You’ll find that most of your teachers are more than happy to provide additional instruction and extra help. This also shows that you care about your academic perfor-mance. Your teachers want to see that you are interested in the class material and that you are driven to succeed. There’s a good chance that a portion of your grades will be based on your class participation. By effec-tively communicating with your teachers, you can help maintain and increase your class grades.
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Back-to-School Study Tips
It’s that time of year…students are heading back to school. To ensure your child starts the school year off right, StudyPoints, Inc. has provided some helpful tips.
September Did you know? September is full of holiday’s remembering and honoring people starting with Labor Day in celebration of working Men and Women, the 9th is Grandparent’s Day (spending time with them is the best present), 21 September is POW/MIA Day, a day of remembrance and hope for a safe and speedy return and this year is the 11th anniversary of the 911 terrorist attacks please spend a moment in silence hon-oring those who gave their lives that day and since protecting our freedoms. Other days to celebrate in September are Good Neighbor Day and National Play Dough Day. Why not plan a special block party or lend a hand to an elderly neighbor or veteran in need. Have fun with your kids celebrating the crea-tion of play Dough with the recipe below. Simple Play Dough 1/4 cup salt 1 cup flour 1/4 cup water Have your child mix the flour and salt in a bowl then add water. Knead and squeeze the dough to make a clay consistency. You may need to add more water. Note: This dough doesn't last as long as the cooked recipes. Kids love to Color: Divide into sections, then knead in food coloring (liquid or paste). Use unsweetened Kool-Aid for color and scent. Add glitter for sparkly play dough. www.tutor.com/military
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