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Beyond the Textbook Slides:

Keltner - Origins of Self 

Knowledge

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Beyond the Textbook Slides:

Gilovich - Origins of Self 

Knowledge

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“People prefer situations in which they have choice and control to those in which they do not.”

a) True b) False“People believe that the same rules should apply toeveryone—individuals should not be singled outfor special treatment because of their personalattributes or connections to important people.”

a) True b) False

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Common adages in East and West•  “The squeaky wheel gets the grease.”•  “If you’ve got it, flaunt it.”•  “The empty wagon makes the most noise.”•  “The nail that stands up is pounded down.”•  “jibun,” self in Japanese = “shared life space”

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 Standing out or blending in?

• Ss at SFO fill out a

questionnaire and then are

allowed to choose a penfrom a group of 5 as a gift.

Either 1 of one color and 4

of another, or 2 of one and

3 of another. Data = %

choosing less commoncolor.!

(Kim & Markus, JPSP, 1999)!

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Similarity Assessments

•  Is Scotland more similar to England, or•  Is England more similar to Scotland?•  Is your best friend more similar to you, or•  Are you more similar to your best friend?

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Culture, Choice, and Intrinsic Motivation

continued!Data = secs. !spent on task!

Iyengar & Lepper, JPSP, 1999)

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Culture, Choice, and Intrinsic Motivation

• Anglo- and Asian

American 2nd, 3rd, and

4th graders solve sets of anagrams that: a) they

chose, b) the E chose, or

c) their mother chose.

Performance monitored

and subsequent “freechoice” play assessed.

(Data= number solved)!Iyengar & Lepper, JPSP, 1999!

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The Seven Cultures of Capitalism

(Hampden-Turner & Trompennaars, 1993)•  Which job would you prefer? a) one in which personal

initiatives are encouraged and individual initiatives are

achieved, or b) one in which no one is singled out forpersonal honor but everyone works together?•  More than 90% of U.S., Canadian, Australian, British,

Dutch, and Swedish respondents preferred “a”•  Fewer than 50% of Japanese and Singaporeans chose “a”•  Germans, Italians, Belgians, and French in between

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The Seven Cultures of Capitalism

(Hampden-Turner & Trompennaars, 1993)•  “If I apply for a job at a company, I: a) will almost

certainly work there for the rest of my life, b) am almost

certain that the relationship will have limited duration

•  More than 90% of U.S., Canadian, Australian, British, and

Dutch respondents chose “b”•  Only 40% of Japanese respondents chose “b”•  Again, French, German, Italian, and Belgian respondents

were in between

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The Seven Cultures of Capitalism

(Hampden-Turner & Trompennaars, 1993)•  “Do you agree with the following: It is important for a

manager to be older than his subordinates. Older people

should be more respected than younger people”

•  More than 60% of U.S., Canadian, Australian, British, and

Swedish rejected this idea•  Only 40% of Japanese, Korean, and Singaporean

respondents rejected this idea•  Again, the French, Italians, Germans, and Belgians were in

between

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The Seven Cultures of Capitalism

(Hampden-Turner & Trompennaars, 1993)•  If a formerly productive employee becomes unproductive:

a) he should be dismissed because performance is the

proper criterion, regardless of age and previous record, b)it is wrong to disregard the years the employee has worked

for the company. •  Americans and Canadians: 75% choose “a”•  British, Australians, Dutch, and Belgians: 40% choose “a”•  French, Italians, Germans, and Japanese : 30% choose “a”•  Koreans and Singaporeans: 20% choose “a”

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•  We hold these truths to be

self-evident, that all men are

created equal, that they are

endowed by their Creator 

with certain unalienable

rights, that among these are

Life, Liberty and the pursuit

of Happiness.-

A person of humanity wishingto establish his own characteralso established the charaterof others.

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Japanese words for “I”watashi (when talking to a colleague)tochan (when talking to one’s child)ore (when talking to old friends)boku (when talking to close female friends)

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Percentage of “Role and Group Membership” Responses and “Personal

Characteristics” Responses on the “Who Am I?” Test!

Amer!Undrgrd! Kenyan!

Undrgrd! Nairobi!Office!Workers!

Masai!Tribe! Sambura!

Tribe!

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Individualistic Insults

Sexual Insults(segaiolo — wanker)

References to Excretia(stronzo — pile of shit)

Animal Analogies(porco — swine)

Ill Omens(che ti venga un cancro — I wish you a cancer))Negative Physical Features

(bruttone — you are incredibly ugly)

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Beyond the Textbook Slides:

Chen - Self Regulation

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Psych 160 Prof. Chen 33

Aspects of Self-Knowledge:Self-Discrepancies

  Self-Discrepancy Theory (Higgins & colleagues)

  Similar  to self-complexity theory:  multiple self-aspects

  affective consequences associated w/how self-aspects are related

  Different  from self-complexity theory: 

 discrepancies between self-aspects

  actual selves & hypothetical selves

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Self-DiscrepancyTheory (Higgins & his colleagues) 

  ACTUAL SELF: the self one thinks one actually is

  IDEAL SELF: the self one aspires to be (i.e., hopes,

wishes, goals)

  OUGHT SELF: the self one thinks one's significant others

wants one to be (i.e., duties, obligations)

KEY HYPOTHESIS: Thinking about discrepancies between

actual selves & ideal or ought selves specific emotions

Actual-Ideal Discrepancy dejection

Actual-Ought Discrepancy agitation

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Self-Regulation  Refers to the processes by which people

initiate, alter, and control their behavior in

the pursuit of their goals

  Given that successful goal pursuit often

requires resisting temptations, self-

regulation also captures people’s ability todelay gratification—that is, to prioritize long-term goals by foregoing short-term rewards

Psych 160 Prof. Chen 35

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Promotion and Prevention

Regulatory Focus

  Promotion focus: regulating behavior with respect to ideal standards  

focus on presence and absence of positive outcomes

  Prevention focus: regulating behavior with respect to ought standards  focus on presence and absence of negative outcomes

Psych 160 Prof. Chen 36

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Ego Depletion

 A state, produced by acts of self 

control, in which we lack the energyor resources to engage in further acts

of self-control

Psych 160 Prof. Chen 37

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Automatic Self-Control

Strategies?  Over time and with practice, certain self-

control strategies can be automatized

  Examples:

  Temptations and goals become connected

in memory so that being presented with

temptations brings to mind goals (and goalsactually inhibit temptations!)

  Faster to behaviorally approach goals and

avoid temptations, rather than the reversePsych 160 Prof. Chen 39

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Automatic Behavioral  

Self-Control Strategies?

Psych 160 Prof. Chen 40

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Beyond the Textbook Slides:

Keltner – Organization of Self-

Knowledge

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Know thyself? Accuracy vs.

Illusion

•  Long tradition of value of self insight – Greeks: Know thyself  – Therapeutic insights – Self actualization movement: come to terms

with all facets of self  –

 Developmental theories (Levinson): come toterms with illusions

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Taylor & Brown, 1986: Illusions

and well-being: Know thyself •  Comparisons of depressed, low self-esteem and controls•  Illusion of control

 – Langer: lottery, 227 cards – Choice (8.97) Gift (1.96)

•  Unrealistic Optimism (Weinstein, 1980) – Good events more likely to happen to us than average

peer (good job, gifted child)

 – Bad events more likely to happen to other (disease,

robbery, gum disease)•  Unrealistically positive views of the self 

 –  Self, own group more desirable traits than other, out group

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An explanation and a critique

•  Illusions mood, motivation, good

relations well-being•  Critiques

 – Not serious illusions like psychosis – Swann: Ubiquity of positive self concepts

• Seek truth in feedback from others, even negative• Recall truthful information about self 

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Beyond the Textbook Slides:

Chen – Motives Driving Self-

Evaluation

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Psych 160 Prof. Chen 46

Multiply Motivated Self  

 Enhancement

 Accuracy Improvement

 Consistency

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ENHANCEMENT •  Examples we’ve already encountered?

•  Self-serving attributional bias

•  Self-presentation

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Self-Evaluation Maintenance Model (Tesser & his colleagues) 

2 Fundamental Self-Evaluative Processes

Comparison Process

Reflection Process

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Two parameters that determine whether 

comparison or reflection occurs:

1. relevance of domain to self-definition

2. closeness of the outperforming other 

  Irrelevant?  Bask in reflected glory

  Closer the other is, more basking

  Relevant?  Suffer by comparison

  Closer the other is, more suffering 

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Self-Evaluation Maintenance Model (Tesser & his colleagues)

Close friend

outperforms you in a self-

relevant domain:

Self-evaluation dilemma!

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Downward Social Comparisons 

•  Comparing ourselves to those who are worse or worse off than we are

•  Everyday examples???

•  Does making downward social comparisonswork? Do we feel better about ourselves?

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Health-Related Implications of 

Downward vs. Upward Social Comparisons 

•  Bogart & Helgeson (2000)

  Breast-cancer patients in support groups

  Report on times when they talked to, heard about, or thought about other patients

  Majority of social comparisons were downward—and themore comparisons were made, better patients felt 

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ACCURACY 

  Desire for accurate self-assessments

  Seek out most informative, diagnosticinformation

  E.g., social comparison theory

  Related to need for prediction and control

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IMPROVEMENT 

 Desire to improve the self 

 Seek out information and situationsrelevant to “ideal” visions of self 

 E.g., upward social comparisons

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CONSISTENCY 

 Desire for a consistent self-concept

 Seek out (or act in ways that elicit)feedback that confirms existing

(positive or negative) self-conceptions

 e.g., self-verification theory

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Art PowerPoints Chapter 3: The

Social Self 

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Chapter 3

The Social Self 

© 2013 W. W. Norton & Company, Inc.

Gilovich • Keltner • Chen • Nisbett

Social 

PsychologyTHIRD EDITION

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Lecture PowerPoints Chapter 3:

The Social Self 

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Chapter 3

The Social Self

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Nature of the Social Self

 The Principles of Psychology (1890)

 Individual self are beliefs about our unique

personal traits, abilities, preferences, tastes,

talents, and so forth

 Relational self are beliefs about our identities

in specific relationships

 Collective self are beliefs about our identitiesas members of social groups to which we

belong

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Origins of Self-Knowledge

 Family influence and sibling dynamics

 Diversification

 Siblings may take on different roles in the family tominimize conflicts

 Birth order may influence personality traits

 Older siblings are often more responsible and

supportive of the status quo, younger siblings areoften more rebellious and open to new

experiences

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Family and Other Socialization Agents

 Reflected self-appraisals

 Beliefs about what others think of our social

selves

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Situationism and the Self

 Aspects of the self may change depending

on the situation

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Situationism and the Self

 Distinctiveness

 May highlight aspects of the self that make us

feel most unique in a given context

 For instance, age may seem more important to

self-definition if you are surrounded by much olderpeople

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Situationism and the Self

 Working self-concept

 Subset of self-knowledge that is brought to

mind in a particular context

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Situationism and the Self

 Relational self-beliefs

 Beliefs about our identities in specific

relationships

 For instance, who you are as a son/daughter feels

different than who you are as a boyfriend/girlfriend

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Situationism and the Self

 Collective self-beliefs

 Beliefs about our identity as members of

important social categories

 Examples could be identity based on citizenship,

ethnicity, gender, profession, and so on

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Situationism and the Self

 Social context

 Sense of self may shift dramatically

depending on with whom we are interacting

 For instance, may feel different about the self

when interacting with authority figures than wheninteracting with subordinates

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Culture and the Social Self

 Independent view of self

 Self seen as a distinct, autonomous entity,

separate from others and defined by

individual traits and preferences

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Culture and the Social Self

 Interdependent view of self

 Self seen as connected to others, defined by

social duties and shared traits and

preferences

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Culture and the Social Self

 Independent views of self more prominent

in North American and Western European

cultures

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Culture and the Social Self

 Interdependent views of self more

prominent in many East Asian, South Asian,

Mediterranean, Latin American, andAfrican cultures

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Gender and the Social Self

 Across cultures, men generally have more

independent and women have more

interdependent views of self Women likely to refer to relationships when

describing self

 Women more attuned to external social cues

whereas as men more attuned to their internalresponses

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Gender and the Social Self

 Differences may be due to socialization

 Cultural stereotypes, parental feedback,

educational treatment

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Gender and the Social Self

 Evolution may contribute to gender

differences

 Independent views of self may advantagemales in acts like physical competition and

hunting

 Interdependent views of self may advantage

females in acts related to maintaining socialbonds and care giving

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Social Comparison

 Social comparison theory

 The hypothesis that we evaluate ourselves

through comparisons to others

 Downward social comparisons may boost self-

esteem by making us feel better about the

self

 Upward social comparisons may motivate self-improvement

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Narratives about the Social Self

 Self as a narrative

 Construct a story about the self to make sense

of who we are and how we’ve changed over

time

 Individualists may recall life events from their

own perspective

 Collectivists may recall life events from others’perspective

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Organization of Self-Knowledge

 Knowledge about the self helps organize

how we behave in different situations and

with different people

 Social self-beliefs

 Beliefs about the roles and duties we assume

in different groups

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Organization of Self-Knowledge

 Self-schema

 Knowledge about the self

 Conclusions about our behaviors andpreferences and about how we are viewed

by others

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Organization of Self-Knowledge

 Self-reference effect

 Better memory for information related to the

self

 For instance, better memory for a list of adjectives

if considering whether the adjectives apply to theself

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Organization of Self-Knowledge

 Self-complexity

  The tendency to define the self in terms of

multiple domains that are relatively distinct

from one another in content

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Self-esteem

 Self-esteem

 The positive or negative overall evaluation

that each person has of himself or herself

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Self-esteem

 Contingencies of self-worth

  An account of self-esteem that maintains that

self-esteem is contingent on successes and

failures in domains on which a person has

based his or her self-worth

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Social Acceptance and Self-Esteem

 Sociometer hypothesis

  A hypothesis that maintains that self-esteem is

an internal, subjective index or marker of the

extent to which a person is included or looked

on favorably by others

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Culture and Self-Esteem

 Members of individualistic cultures tend to

report higher levels of self-esteem than

members of collectivistic cultures

 Feeling good about the self as an individual is

more valued in Western cultures

 For instance, many Asian languages have no

equivalent word for the idea of self-esteem

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Culture and Self-Esteem

 Members of collectivistic cultures place

more value on self-improvement

 Less emphasis on feeling good about the self

and more emphasis on feeling good about

one’s contribution to collective goals

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Culture and Self-Esteem

 Contact with other cultures can influence

views of the self

 For instance, Asians with greater contact with

Western cultures report higher levels of self-

esteem than those with less contact

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Dangers of High Self-Esteem

 People with high self-esteem may be more

sensitive to threats, insults, and challenges

 If high self-esteem is unwarranted, these may

make the person feel insecure

 Those people may react more aggressively

when self-esteem is threatened

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Dangers of High Self-Esteem

 Inflated self-esteem can be

counterproductive

 Many psychopaths, murderers, rapists, and

violent gang members have very high self-

esteem

 High self-esteem may allow individuals to be

satisfied with the self despite poor lifeoutcomes

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Self-Enhancement

 Positive illusions and mental health

 Most assume that proper mental health is

marked by realistic views of the world

 Research suggests that most well-adjusted

people may have slightly unrealistic views

about themselves

S lf h

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Self-Enhancement

 Benefits of positive illusions

 Elevate positive mood and reduce negative

mood

 Foster social bonds by making people more

outgoing

 Promote pursuit of and persistence at goals

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C l l d P i i Ill i

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Cultural and Positive Illusions

 Individualistic cultures place greater value

on positive views of the self than

collectivistic cultures

 Positive illusions promote feelings that the self

is unique, independent, and good

M i D i i S lf E l i

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Motives Driving Self-Evaluation

 Better-than-average effect

 Most Westerners tend to have a positive view

of the self

 Tend to rate the self as better than average

on most traits

 Weight abilities we excel at as more valuable

M i D i i S lf E l i

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Motives Driving Self-Evaluation

 Self-evaluation maintenance (SEM) Model  A model that maintains that people are motivated

to view themselves in a favorable light and that they

do so through two processes: reflection and socialcomparison

M i D i i S lf E l i

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Motives Driving Self-Evaluation

 Self-verification theory

 Motivated to have views of the self that are

accurate, consistent, and coherent

 Desire accurate views of abilities to ensure

more success and less failure in social

interactions

S lf R l ti

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Self-Regulation

 Self-regulation

 Processes that people use to initiate, alter, and

control their behavior in the pursuit of goals,

including the ability to resist short-term

awards that thwart the attainment of long-

term goals

 Possible selves Hypothetical selves that a person aspires to

be in the future

S lf R l ti

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Self-Regulation

 Self-discrepancy theory

 Behavior is motivated by cultural and personal

moral standards

 Individuals want to resolve discrepancies of

who they are with who they want to be or

ought to be

S lf R l ti

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Self-Regulation

 Types of self

 Actual self: the person we believe ourselves to be

 Ideal self: the person we wish we could be

 Ought self: the person we feel we should be

S lf R l ti

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Self-Regulation

 Promotion focus

 Focus on positive outcomes and moving toward

becoming our ideal self

 Prevention focus Focus on negative outcomes and attempt to avoid

not living up to our ought self

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Ego Depletion

 Regulating behavior requires mental

energy, but mental resources are limited

 Ego depletion State where previous acts of self-control drain

ability to control future behavior

 For instance, participants who controlled behavior

by eating healthy radishes instead of deliciouscookies gave up faster when they had to solve apuzzle later

A t ti S lf C t l St t i

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Automatic Self-Control Strategies

 Automatic self-control strategies

 Influence behavior as well as thoughts,

leading people to approach goals and to

avoid temptations

A tomatic Self Control Strategies

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Automatic Self-Control Strategies

Self Presentation

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Self-Presentation

 Self-presentation

 Presenting the person that we would like

others to believe we are

Self Presentation

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Self-Presentation

 Impression management

 Attempts to control how other people will view

us

 For instance, by managing how you dress, behave

in public, whom you associate with, what youreveal about yourself to others

 When interacting with others, we present apublic face that we want others to believe

Self Presentation

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Self-Presentation

 Public face

 Awareness of what others think of us

 Private face Awareness of our own internal feelings,

thoughts, and preferences

Self Presentation

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Self-Presentation

 Self-monitoring

 The tendency to monitor and scrutinize one’s

behaviors when in a public situation

 High self-monitors try to fit their behavior to

the situation, but low self-monitors are more

likely to behave according to their internal

preferences

Self Handicapping

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Self-Handicapping

 Self-handicapping

 Tendency to engage in self-defeating

behavior to prevent others from assuming a

poor performance was due to a lack ofability

Self Handicapping

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Self-Handicapping

 Self-handicapping may be a strategy for

protecting the public self

 Self-handicapping provides an excuse for

poor performance and emphasizes good

performance

 For instance, partying all night before an important

exam

Protecting Others’ Face

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Protecting Others Face

 May strategically communicate in ways to

preserve the public faces of ourselves and

others

 On-record communication

 Direct, honest language meant to be taken

literally

 “Did you like the movie?” “Actually, I didn’t think itwas very good.”

Protecting Others’ Face

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Protecting Others Face

 Off-record communication

 Indirect and ambiguous language that hints at

ideas and meaning without explicitly stating

them “Did you like the movie?” “Umm—it was very

interesting.”

Protecting Others’ Face

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Protecting Others Face

 Behaviors like flirting and teasing are

examples of off-record communication

 We want the other person to infer meanings

from what we say without saying it directly

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Clicker Question PowerPoints

Chapter 3: The Social Self 

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SocialPsychology,3rdEdi2onGILOVICHKELTNERCHENNISBETT

CLICKERQUESTIONS

3.1NatureoftheSocialSelf

Which “Self” Is This?

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Which Self IsThis?

“Iamafunnyperson.”

A. individualB. rela2onalC. collec2ve

Which “Self” Is This?

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Which Self IsThis?

“Iamafunnyperson.”

A.individual

B. rela2onalC. collec2ve

Which “Self” Is This?

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Which Self IsThis?

“Iliketogotothemall.”

A. individualB. rela2onalC. collec2ve

Which “Self” Is This?

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Which Self IsThis?

“Iliketogotothemall.”

A.individual

B. rela2onalC. collec2ve

Which “Self” Is This?

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Which Self IsThis?

“Ihavebeendancingfor10years.”

A. individualB. rela2onalC. collec2ve

Which “Self” Is This?

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Which Self IsThis?

“Ihavebeendancingfor10years.”

A.individual

B. rela2onalC. collec2ve

Which “Self” Is This?

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Which Self IsThis?

“Iamanuncle.”

A. individualB. rela2onalC. collec2ve

Which “Self” Is This?

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Which Self IsThis?

“Iamanuncle.”

A. individualB.relaonal

C. collec2ve

Which “Self” Is This?

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Which Self IsThis?

“Iamanaccountantinthecompany.”

A. individualB. rela2onalC. collec2ve

Which “Self” Is This?

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Which Self IsThis?

“Iamanaccountantinthecompany.”

A. individualB.relaonal

C. collec2ve

Which “Self” Is This?

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Which Self IsThis?

“IamaUSci2zen.”

A. individualB. rela2onalC. collec2ve

Which “Self” Is This?

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Which Self IsThis?

“IamaUSci2zen.”

A. individualB. rela2onalC.collecve

Which “Self” Is This?

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Which Self IsThis?

“Iamamemberofmyhockeyteam.”

A. individualB. rela2onalC. collec2ve

Which “Self” Is This?

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Which Self IsThis?

“Iamamemberofmyhockeyteam.”

A. individualB. rela2onalC.collecve

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SocialPsychology,3rdEdi2onGILOVICHKELTNERCHENNISBETT

CLICKERQUESTIONS

3.OriginsofSelf-Knowledge

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Areyoutheoldest,youngest,oramiddle

sibling?Pickone:

A.  oldestB.  middleC.  youngest

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You’reabouttotakeyourfirstexaminSocial

Psychology,andyou’rewonderingwhetheryoustudied

enough.Youdecidethatagoodwaytofigurethisoutis

toaskotherstudentshowmuchthey’vestudied.Your

behaviorisanexampleof…

A. self-appraisalB. socialcomparisonC. self-esteemseekingD. self-conceptcrea2on

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You’reabouttotakeyourfirstexaminSocial

Psychology,andyou’rewonderingwhetheryoustudied

enough.Youdecidethatagoodwaytofigurethisoutis

toaskotherstudentshowmuchthey’vestudied.Your

behaviorisanexampleof…

A. self-appraisalB.socialcomparison

C. self-esteemseekingD. self-conceptcrea2on

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Wherewereyouborn?

A.  in-stateB. out-of-stateC. outofthecountry

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CLICKERQUESTIONS

3.4Self-Esteem

Self-EsteemScale

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“Itakeaposi2veviewofmyself.”

1. StronglyDisagree. Disagree3. Agree4. StronglyAgree

Self-EsteemScale

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“Ihavemuchrespectformyself.”

1. StronglyDisagree. Disagree3. Agree4. StronglyAgree

Self-EsteemScale

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“IfeelthatIamapersonofworth,atleastonan

equalplanewithothers.”

1. StronglyDisagree. Disagree3. Agree4. StronglyAgree

Self-EsteemScale

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“Onthewhole,Iamsa2sfiedwithmyself.”

1. StronglyDisagree. Disagree3. Agree4. StronglyAgree

Self-EsteemScale

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“IfeelthatIhaveanumberofgoodquali2es.”

1. StronglyDisagree. Disagree3. Agree4. StronglyAgree

Whowouldbemostatriskofbecoming

aggressive?

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aggressive?

A. Someonewithhighself-esteem.B. Someonewithmoderateself-esteem.C.  Someonewithlowself-esteem.D. Self-esteemisn’trelatedtoaggression.Choosetheresponseyouagreewithmost.

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CLICKERQUESTIONS

3.6Self-Regula2on:Mo2va2onand

ControllingtheSelf

Self-DiscrepancyTheory

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Keydefini2ons:

•  Actualself :Theselfthatpeoplebelievetheyare

• Idealself :Theselfthatembodiespeople’swishesandaspira2onsasheldbythemselvesandbyotherpeopleforthem

• Oughtself :Theselfthatisconcernedwiththe

du2es,obliga2ons,andexternaldemandspeoplefeeltheyarecompelledtohonor

Whichself-discrepancytheory“self”is

best described in the this statement?

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bestdescribedinthethisstatement?

“Iamcaptainoftheschool’ssoccerteam.”

A. actualselfB.

 idealself

C. oughtself

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Whichself-discrepancytheory“self”is

best described in the this statement?

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bestdescribedinthethisstatement?

“PeoplethinkI’mcharming.”

A. actualselfB.

 idealself

C. oughtself

Whichself-discrepancytheory“self”is

best described in the this statement?

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bestdescribedinthethisstatement?

“PeoplethinkI’mcharming.”

A.actualself

B. idealself

C. oughtself

Whichself-discrepancytheory“self”is

best described in the this statement?

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bestdescribedinthethisstatement?

“Idreamofbecomingapopmusicsinger

aercollege.”

A. actualselfB. idealselfC. oughtself

Whichself-discrepancytheory“self”is

best described in the this statement?

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bestdescribedinthethisstatement?

“Idreamofbecomingapopmusicsinger

aercollege.”

A. actualselfB.idealself

C. oughtself

Whichself-discrepancytheory“self”is

best described in the this statement?

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bestdescribedinthethisstatement?

“Myparentswantmetobecomealawyer.”

A. actualselfB.

 idealself

C. oughtself

Whichself-discrepancytheory“self”is

best described in the this statement?

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bestdescribedinthethisstatement?

“Myparentswantmetobecomealawyer.”

A. actualselfB.idealselfC. oughtself

Whichself-discrepancytheory“self”is

best described in the this statement?

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bestdescribedinthethisstatement?

“IfeelIhavearesponsibilitytodo

volunteerworkfortheircommunity.”

A. actualselfB. idealselfC. oughtself

Whichself-discrepancytheory“self”is

best described in the this statement?

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bestdescribedinthethisstatement?

“IfeelIhavearesponsibilitytodo

volunteerworkfortheircommunity.”

A. actualselfB. idealselfC.oughtself

Whichself-discrepancytheory“self”is

best described in the this statement?

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bestdescribedinthethisstatement?

“ThejudgetellsmeIhavetodo

communityservice.”

A. actualselfB. idealselfC. oughtself

Whichself-discrepancytheory“self”is

best described in the this statement?

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bestdescribedinthethisstatement?

“ThejudgetellsmeIhavetodo

communityservice.”

A. actualselfB. idealselfC.oughtself

Whichofthestatementsbelow

describes you beer?

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describesyoubeer?

A. “IstudyhardbecauseIwanttogetthehighestpossiblegrade.”

B. “IstudyhardbecauseIdon’twanttogetabadgrade.”

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CLICKERQUESTIONS

3.7Self-Presenta2on

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Yourbestfriendbakessomechocolatechipcookies.Itishisfirst2mebaking

andheasksyoutotrysome.Youtake

abite,andeventhoughyouthinkthey

tastebier,youbegrudginglyswallow.

Yourfriendasksyouwhatyouthink…

Whichstatementwouldbemostlylikelyto

hurtyourfriend’sfeelings?

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y g

A. “TherecipewasdifferentthanwhatI’musedto.”

B. “Ithinkyou’resecretlyMrs.Fieldsindisguise.”

C. “Thesecookiestastedverybadandweredifficulttoeat.”

D You really won’t be able to tell what they